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A simple solution could be if a gentlemen wants to leave a comment, he can do so by giving rep points and leaving whatever message he chooses there. This way they can show their appreciation/agreement without needlessly bumping the thread. As well, the rec threads will become much easier to skim through being that all posts are actual 1st hand recommendations. Kim

Angel - I, too, am on day 4. Because of you. The world is a miraculous place filled with miracles.

I found some quotes that may apply to many of us. I am motivated by my own need for forgiveness and getting rid of negative energy around me. Perhaps you have some quotes to help heal wounds of actions and words that were designed to hurt us? This quote is from Norman Vincent Peale " Resentment or grudges do no harm to the person against whom you hold these feelings, but everyday and every night of your life, they are eating you alive." What is Forgiveness? Generally it is a decision of letting go of resentments and thoughts of revenge. the act that hurt you or offended you, may always remain as a part of your life but forgiveness can lessen the grip on you and help you focus on other, positive parts of your life. Forgiveness can even lead to understanding, empathy, and compassion toward the one who hurt you. Forgiveness does not mean that you deny the other person's responsibility for hurting you, and it doesn't minimize or justify the wrong. You can forgive the person without excusing the act. Forgiveness brings a kind of peace that let's you go on with your life. I hope these words of wisdom will help all or any of us that sometimes get wrapped up in these feelings, and realize life is just too short to spend energy on what is just perpetuating negative energy. If we spend our energy on what has happened in the past, we will miss the great opportunity that our lives have to offer right here, right now! LOVE TO ALL, WISH PEACE AND HAPPINESS TO ALL!

I have seen myself evolve within this industry. Some of the things I offer now, I never dreamed of in the past! But one golden rule for me from the start, and was a promise to myself, was to never do anything that made me feel bad about myself! For if I would feel bad about it, I knew it would become self-destructive. So at the end of the day....only do what feels natural to you at this time. If you have to become nervous or anxious then best to wait till you feel like you are ready. For heaven sakes, always hold your chin up high! hope that helps? Additional comments: I do not like to advertise all services either, as I will offer some services that I may not otherwise offer another. For me, it is decided when I am in communication with the potentail client.

Interesting the way Hollywood makes movies these days to make money by re-writing the history and inventing a story of something that has never happened in the history of mankind or a total exaggeration of what may have happened. Or was it politically motivated lol. As Reagan said a good Russian historian is the one who predicts the past lol. Same is true for Hollywood, a good Hollywood filmmaker is the one who can make a movie which even slightly resembles the truth lol!!!!. The 300 fictional movie is as true as the vampire or Zombie movies that Hollywood is making these days lol or how Americans defeated Germany in WWII or a few white cowboys coming out victorious over hundreds of American natives killing them all (I don't recall seeing made in Hollywood movies about Vietnam War lol!!!!). The following is by William J. Broad, (NY Times) The story is easy to buy into: 300 brave Spartans saved Western democracy from 2.7 million evil Persians. But aside from the fanciful numbers which need decimal-point adjustments, this whimsical tale has far graver consequences than a mere biased account of history. The 'Battle Of Thermopylae' has been the single most powerful wedge, which has divided East and West for over 2 millennia. In a time when East and West should be reconciling their differences, along comes the movie '300' to drive that wedge even deeper. What is most disturbing about this movie is not that it lacks historical accuracy. It is not that Xerxes, the Grandson of Cyrus The Great and loving husband of Esther, is shown as an oversized drag queen. It is not even the outdated racist cliché of *casting the Persians as Africans and the Spartans as white, blue-eyed 'Chippendale dancers,' when in reality the roles may well have been reversed. What is so distressing about this movie is the realization of the tremendous power Hollywood wields in determining a people's identity. It is the same nightmare Native Americans endured during the whole 'cowboy-movie' genre. *Not that it matters but it is my understanding that Persians are of Aryan roots lol certainly not African as depicted in that movie!!

This is strength

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It can be hard. One way is to check the pictures with tools like tineye.com and google's image search to see if they are copied from someplace else. The best advice is to stick with CERB ladies, CERB sponsors and http://www.escorts-canada.com/

anyone soliciting services by pm on cerb should be reported. this is not permitted and the person who tried to solicit you this way should be removed.

Forgiveness would be nice, but it seems it would be nicer if there were no one to forgive , no one to hurt us, lie to us and take from us..crush us or abuse our good nature. I'm not a Saint any longer. Hurt has hurt me. Hurt has taken from me and hurt has changed me. I have no special powers to forgive and absolve my trespassers. Forgiveness to me is self-serving, something that during my short lived Saint hood I was avoiding when I was hurt. To this I forgive thee. Forgive you to make me feel better, forgive you to forget. Don't be fooled for I will never forget, forgiving is my way of freeing up your waste of space. If only they could forgive themselves and change their own lives..This would be a much better use for forgiveness. Additional Comments: P.S I'm so thrilled to be sharing this forum with a big heart like yours. I pray that your love and dreams will spread and touch us all.

What is anger? Recognize the dark face. Grrrrrrr! - I have no room for forgiveness. You are my prey. I am a mound of irreparable seething irritation wrapped in hurt and distrust. My wrath moulds me into who I am. Makes me strong, iron, rigid, stern, unapproachable. Possesser of bitter retribution. I hold it dearly to my heart. Closely. I must protect it. It pushes me to thrust people into my bin of usable victims. Trust no one and be suspicious of anyone generous enough to cast a smile. They ultimately shall betray you. Do them before they do you. Star Trek Wrath of khan: He tasks me. He tasks me and I shall have him! I'll chase him 'round the moons of Nibia and 'round the Antares Maelstrom and 'round Perdition's flames before I give him up! Mein Kampf: Those who want to live, let them fight, and those who do not want to fight in this world of eternal struggle do not deserve to live. Mankind has grown strong in eternal struggle, and only in eternal peace does it perish. Patrick Henry: Give me liberty or give me death. Charles Manson: I'm nobody. I'm a tramp, a bum, a hobo. I'm a boxcar and a jug of wine, and a straight razor if you get too close to me.

I didn't say they shouldn't engage in it, I said they shouldn't advertise it. Unfortunately, most people do NOT educate themselves and sex workers offering BBFS do reflect poorly on sex workers and the industry. That is true and I agree with you that sex workers should not be held to a different standard, but unfortunately, that's not how the rest of the world looks at it. And I'm sorry, but offering bbfs (outside of the context of both partners agreeing beforehand and getting tested together) is unsafe, stupid and I'm going to judge you for that choice, whether you're a sex worker or not.

You know you are old when your daily allowance was .25 cents a day and this bought you AT LEAST a bag of chips, a bottle of pop and a chocolate bar. maybe some gum. Those were the days!!!