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You are not competing with ladies who charge lower rates, the caller is competing with clients who are willing to pay your rates. That is what it comes down to, at the end of the day. If the caller wants to pay a lower rate, that option is always available to them. All they need to do is call someone who already charges the rate they want to pay. On the subject of a regular requesting a discount, I would only suggest that as a one time thing, maybe short up to 20 bucks, it is your call. If he is definitely asking for a discount in exchange for making an appt, and/or continuing to see you, then no way. And they must ask before arrival, not just show up with a lower amount. And they must understand, without exception, that you expect them to make up the difference on their next appt, and/or will not now be paying the lower amount all the time. I

In my opinion, posted donation rates are inviolate. Ultimately an encounter is a transaction for your time and personal service. I am continually impressed by the professionalism of the women working in this industry, the care and empathy that they show, their genuine desire to give quality experiences in return for a decent income. To maintain respect for yourself and to maintain your professional integrity, and to support this industry then your donation requirements should not be negotiable. If approached to do so, my opinion would be that you should politely but firmly indicate that you are a professional running a legitimate business with its own costs and expenses, and that the rates are as they are to reflect the quality of service that you provide. Perhaps those potential clients should be politely referred elsewhere.

Prescription for the good doctor: Move on, don't call her anymore. It's not gonna go anywhere you want to be. It sounds like she considers you as friend material only. She wants a bad boy doc. You're too nice. Damn! I love ripping the bandage off. Seriously?...I think it's done man. To her credit, and from your description, she was being up-front from the get-go and not trying to lead you astray about relationship expectations. Go with that at face value.

I'm just surprised that people actually do this! I can't imagine starting off an encounter like this. I'm not just looking for sex, I'm looking for the whole experience. Pissing off the lady and making her feel bad about herself is not exactly going to set the mood, even if it did work. (I would expect most ladies would tell me to take a hike if I tried anyway). At the end of the day, if $20 is going to make that big of a difference to you, then you probably shouldn't be hobbying.

I never haggle or negotiate, either. It's insulting to be asked. My fees are clearly stated on my website and in e-mail I exchange with prospective clients. One of the reasons I prefer e-mail, initially, is that it's so easy to be very clear and explicit about important things like this. I've rarely had a problem with it. I had a meeting with a brand new client last week. We'd had a very positive e-mail discussion and had spoken twice on the phone. He seemed like an ideal client. I was looking forward to meeting him. When he arrived, he handed me an envelope, which I put in a drawer. (I never count the contents in front of clients.) As I was pouring coffee for us, he said, as casual as can be, that he couldn't stay as long as planned, after all, unfortunately, and that he was sure it was okay that he'd reduced payment of my fee accordingly. I was stunned. After a long moment, I said that he should have told me that he needed to cut the meeting short before he arrived. I said I was sorry he couldn't stay, and handed him his coat with a smile. It was his turn to be surprised, then. He asked if I was going to give him a refund. I said no. I also said that it was clear we weren't compatible. He said, "You do have a very high opinion of yourself. You should re-evaluate it." I bit my tongue, opened the door and wished him well. My general experience is that the men who contact me are real gentlemen who would never engage in games like this. That's what was so surprising about this fellow. His smooth sense of entitlement was almost chilling and makes me wonder how he deals with people in other situations. Not well, I imagine!

Any guy that wants to haggle over the a set price is not some one you want as a client...... I have found that people who ask for a break can usually afford more.......and only haggle to make them selves feel more in control. Posted via Mobile Device

i'll bet my life on it you would like a 6 pack lol

Got both...want em? they are in my garage :)

Gift cards If it was my birthday, Bass Pro Shops gift cards For the ladies, couple come to mind, Victoria's Secret, La Senza, and hmmm, I'm thinking one lady in particular likes Home Depot :-) RG

When you find that your arms are unable to maintain a proper focal distance for you to read anything without having those dreaded reading glasses.....

Psst....just a frame of mind (or so I like to tell myself) :)

I'm ready for the Next Big Thing in my life/career, and I think I know what it is. It's been my ambition since my teens. Work is underway. I'm kind of excited.

Just realize.....I'm hungry.

I'm in saint John a fair bit as well as Gabriella, Emma, Victoria Jolie, Keissy Hennessey and Katherine. As its been said search the recco's and you wont go wrong.

I've come to realize in the past few years that what most people consider things necessary to happiness and feelings of acomplishment, not just for their lives but everyone's life (marriage, or relationship, home, kids etc) are not right for me. I'm single unattached, rent, no kids. And I'm happy and content And seeing ladies in this lifestyle is every bit as fulfilling, satisfying and happy (actually more) than any relationship I've been in RG

I think that alot of ladies would fit the bill but you need to contact them via PM (or their preferred contact method) Just find a lady to your licking (oops liking) and ask!

Cristy When writing a thread and you want to post a picture which is off the internet go to the icons right above where you write your post. On the right side, 5 icons in is a little yellow square which when you click on it says "insert image" Click on that, it'll open up a window where a url can be inserted Go to the photo on the web, right click on the photo, highlight the photo url, copy it, paste it into the window where the url gets put Then post your message Hope that makes sense, just functioning on first couple sips of coffee RG

lol. Yea, i guess that sounded weird. Maybe I could have said I don't hobby as often as some here. She didn't have any reviews here so I wanted to contribute. When I do visit an SP, they are typically visiting from out of town...I just didn't want to be accused of being a shill so thanks for the support :)

Oh and I forgot to mention, I've heard a few classics from lowballers who attempt to do it in a roundabout way so they think they're not appearing to be cheap in a monetary way... Him: "I'm young, handsome and well hung that you will enjoy me so much that you will not want any compensation." Me: "Honey, being young, handsome and well hung doesn't pay my bills." Silence...

Lana, the way I see it is that I do not advertise and sell the 'Gabriella experience' at a spot rented at an Hillbilly flea market so my donation is always non-negociable ;) Wheeling and dealing is not for this chickie. I also don't believe that by not negotiating with a potential client that I am losing out on business because he most likely is not someone I would want to spend time with in the first place... Without respect and bounderies I highly doubt you/I would have an awesome experience with that 'gentleman'. "Turning away an otherwise great client"? Hummm, perhaps you are turning away a client but not a great one. You're also doing yourself a favor by avoiding all the headaches that come with poeple who like to 'wheel and deal' on pretty much everything they want. A simple example would be that, let's say you only offer CBJ, is he going to try and wheel and deal for a BBBJ during your appointment? Something I would want to avoid altogether... The way I decide to handle it depends on my mood (yes lol), on how full my inbox is and the approach the gentleman decided to use when he contacted me. When my inbox looks a war zone or I just don't feel like dealing with it, I do not take the time to answer the email, I marked it as spam and simply send it to my trash box. Sometimes I'll just thank them for contacting me and suggest that they look for a companion who is in the price range they are looking for as I don't negotiate my donation. I wish them good luck and still mark the email as spam and send it to my trash box... You never get a second chance to make a first impression ;) To each their own, I guess! Have fun, Lana :)

I find it surprising that given you both met on-line, (I assume a dating site) and stated your intents (ie romantic) but she said no, but wants to be friends, but you are both going out on dates First, if a dating site, was it a site devoted to romantic dating, friends with benefits, just friends, intimate encounters etc. Both your intentions must have been known even before you met I would take it slow, and while not closing the door on this lady so to speak, see other ladies, and from your standpoint, expect the worst, meaning don't expect this to last RG

When I saw the title of this thread I thought you were talking about men with heavier (therefore 'lower') balls. I was going to write, all balls are created equal! Mind is in the gutter, I guess :) A

Happy Birthday Old Dog.

Chuck Norris sucks!!.....yeah that's right I said it.....Chuck Norris is a big fat pansy!......and why? He took what would have probably been the manliest movie ever made......and made it kid friendly. Let him come and try and strike me dead with his death stare or whatever.....apparently a few well chosen cuss words tossed his way will make him run away crying....so I don't think I have much to worry about.

I like Areez because he is always friendly to me in the chat room and let's me tease him mercilessly.

I really wish our culture could forget about "virginity" altogether. It's an outmoded notion that mostly has to do with whether a woman is an appropriate partner for a man and future mother of his children. The idea is grounded in concepts of women as property such that a woman who is not a virgin is somehow "used goods" or "damaged" or perhaps of poor character since she hadn't preserved her virginity until the right man came along. It also sets up intercourse as the be-all and end-all of human sexual activity which, in my professional opinion, is not only utter nonsense but it's also the starting point for all kinds of unhappiness, dissatisfaction and unnecessary anxiety. Whether someone has or has not had intercourse says nothing about their integrity, their willingness to take responsibility for themselves, their character in their dealings with other people, their attentiveness, their playfulness or how sexy they are. Having intercourse for the first time doesn't make a man a man. It doesn't transform him into some kind of Alpha, it won't make him more successful in the rest of his life, more attractive to women, or more respected by other men. It doesn't make him more of anything at all. He just becomes a guy who's had intercourse with a woman. If you think it's a problem to know what to say to other men about how you had your first experience of intercourse, well... with all due respect, friend, think about that for a minute. What business is it of anyone else's, anyway? One place where I'm happy to sound very old-fashioned is this: Real gentlemen don't tell tales. If you have to have a story to tell, roamingguy is right: lie. Sex is one of the things that everyone lies about, anyway. You can be sure that most of the stories you've heard other guys tell are more fictitious than true. That little rant aside, here's my advice. Find a paid companion who appeals to you. Someone you think you can really enjoy, not only because she's beautiful--we're all beautiful--but because you like the way she expresses herself, her sense of humour appeals to you, or whatever makes someone be attractive to you. Plan to spend a whole evening with her. Four or five hours, at least. Most companions will have a special rate for a long engagement; it's okay to ask what someone's fee for a long evening will be. Go out for dinner. Take her to a great or romantic restaurant. Have a leisurely meal. Talk, a lot. Talk about real things--about who you are, what you do, what your hopes and dreams are, what you think about current events, all of that. Listen to her, too. Ask questions, not so much about her life as a paid companion, but about her. Get to know her. Let her get to know you. After that long, relaxed meal, go for a walk, a drive, an unhurried journey back to your place, a hotel, or wherever the rest of the evening will transpire. Be completely unattached to outcomes from that point. Let her take the lead and trust that it's all going to be wonderful, whatever happens. Because it will be. Women like men to pay attention to them. When a man engages with us in a real way, as a real person, we feel great and we're much more likely to want to make him feel just as good. My point in all of this is to say that what I think you really want is not simply to have intercourse for the first time, but to have a great experience in every way. Find someone who can help you have it.

i have met her, and she is very sexy, amazing body.. very nice and you can tell she enjoys her job