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Stay Calm Dad ...... IT IS SO SWEET ....... ENJOY Now this brings a smile to your face, I had to pause it a couple of time wipe the tears off my eyes! "STAY CALM DAD"..... (Turn yours peaker on.) This is priceless! Click HERE <http://www.maniacworld.com/stay-calm-dad.html> to listen!

I share this point of view of RG. I would add that in every of my encounters, really what I want is to meet a real person to whom I will have a relationship, within the range of relationships this hobby can bring. The business part is secondary in my point of view, and the success of my encounters does not rely on my level of performance (!), but rather on the quality of the connection with the person I meet.

As the old joke goes - a friend will help you move - a good friend will help you move a body If you are lucky, you will make a handful or two of really good friends over your life time - treasure them I vote for friends over family, if you use the broad definition of family - I'll do anything for my kids - but I have brothers I talk to once a year

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Although I generally agree with the above I have to be 100% honest and admit that I sometimes 'roll my eyes' when I feel like certain words are being misused due to a total lack of consistency between the elements (ads, actual language used, posts, pictures, website, overall presentation, ect.). For example, when a lady chooses to call herself a 'classy upscale elite courtesan' and addresses her audience in the 'hey boys cum c me u will not regret it i have no restrictions' manner, focuses on 15 minutes specials, goes on car dates, has grainy amateur pictures taken with a blackberry and all you see in the background are clothes on the floor and beer cans on the night stand next to an ashtray full of cigarette butts... well I have to say that none of it makes sense to me and this is when I roll my eyes and ask myself if I missed something. Yes, it is up to each and everyone of us to advertise ourselves in the way we desire and see fit but I also believe consistency and correlation should play an honest part in the marketing process.

Hi question to guy and girls out there. I made a suggestion to a friend of mine who is a SP. I thought that she should offer Sex Instructions as part of her service. I thought she could teach guys how to please a woman. How to do DATY properly. New positions, what women really want. She could teach women how to please men. how to do a proper blowjob. she could answer questions for both. Or she could instruct couples on how to have better sex. Do you think this service would be of interest to people. It's kind of like a sex therapist with hands on participation. I thought that this would be a niche market. Any opinions on whether this is a good idea?

I am again one of the lucky ones with a great family and also very good friends. They ARE different however. It is probably not uncommon, but one tends to 'protect' family from burdens while friends get to be the ones that truly share and hear everything. True friends are always there, no matter what and will be privy to your feelings and thoughts. You are able to share with them and probably even impart advice or so called wisdom even when it is not asked for. That as I well know can cause problems but if it is given or received with good intentions behind the words then one can usually accept it. I know that I tend to 'meddle' less in the lives of my family and I resent it when they tell me the 'facts of life', more so than when a friend does the very same thing. Interesting when one thinks about it. I suppose that is because the friends know more of the reality of my thinking and feelings than family might. I would never wish to choose between them because both friends and family are important parts of my life.

And I have to wear two of these "earrings" or otherwise my head tilts to one side LOL Gives my neck a heck of a workout though RG :-)

Cute story, things like this happen all of the time. The infatuation comes from the voyeur in all of us, you've seen her in a public setting, and then you saw her naked, now obviously it's going to fascinate you. Don't avoid her, just go see her, take a few dances, get your curiousity satisfied, and after awhile the curiosity will die down. Or maybe if she's even better in the champagne room, then a new more intense curiosity will develop. No telling which one will happen. But most likely the curiosity will die down.

I can't believe someone actually asked this. It's pretty simple, a child produced = an obligation. All responsible sp's have precautions in place, but there is no fool-proof 100% guarantee that it will never happen. The only guarantee that it won't happen is not to partake. I have been asked what precautions I utilize and have no problem is saying I use an iud. I also use condoms, but as I said, nothing is fool-proof. If the author of the thread is concerned, or thinks that the onus is strictly on the sp, take a look at the 'family law act', outlines it fairly simply there.

Reel 2 Reel - Can You Feel It Feel da riddim! :)

Well in "Honour" of "Pussy" Galore here's The Pussycat Song OK a stretch LOL RG

http://youtu.be/geH3UFgINVQ

Damn it!!!!....another "Y" LOL :-) Youngbloods-Get Together RG

This was actually yesterdays highlight but: Well after 5 + years of tests and procedures and tumors removed and cancer and cancer scares I have finally been given a "clean bill of health"....at least for now ;) ...Yay !! So I am raising my glass of Lee's finest 2 year old home made wine (2010 was a great year) to all you Cerb peeps .... Cheers :chug: Life is good !

This has taken a new turn, with someone reposting word for word a couple of my reco's on another board, using the handle Cato_. I was already a member there, as Cato, but I don't post often. I hadn't even logged on in a couple of months. I guess he figured he wouldn't be detected?

Same as if you got a 'civilian' woman pregnant ;)

This has been an interesting read...but at the end of the day, for me, I'm not worrying about falling into a lady's ideal profile for a good client. But I will always try to be the best client I can be, respectful, clean, and most of all, a gentleman. Fortunately for me, no play acting is needed, when I have an encounter, all I have to be is myself. A morning rambling RG

My Prefered client 40-50s,clean shaved,educated, good conversationalist,and funny.. His marital status does not matter. Someone whom is a gentlemen and a little old school( please her before yourself).

When I read an ad I'm looking to get to know the provider... Don't sell me, tell me ( there is a big difference) Be honest, tell me what you want me to know, don't compare yourself to others, this is your time tell me about you. And most importantly....

I read the entire tread and must say few things; education does not equal classy or upscale as they are many many people that have high education but could not attend to a bussiness function,a twelve courses dinner as they don't understand what well manner mean and have an hard time functionning socially. Also they are quite few people that own a phd/university degree and do not know when it is time to stay quiet as they are stepping in a field they don't know. I personally make grammar and spelling mistakes from time to time but my first language is french.Does it mean i oversell?I don't think so.. As personal wide knowledge is also a key.I also came accross few people that though that they were upscale,vip has they can write and romance perfectly in papers or on the internet but in fact they are snob.As someone that trully aquire that status would have no problem helping other instead of looking down on others Having higher rates or minimum of hours does not equal either been more upscale then an other...It just mean that you have evaluate your time at that price and leaning sometime to different goals. I always made a point to never say that i had an high education as i have no degre...There is no point for me to lie. To my opinion if you always have to remind people how classy and how the best you are,and also point out how your reviews reflect how great you are not only you are trying to convince yourself but all that surround you. Repeat and return clients is usually were you should have self gratification. VJ

If an SP is using words or phrases such as "top notch", "the Best", etc it usually is an indication that they are trying to oversell their services and a tall order to live up to if you ask me. If a potential client falls for this sort of advertising, they are bound to be disappointed. There is a reason a person will look at your ad. Something obviously caught their eye but if it is something like "I am the best", they may or may not believe it. Then again what is considered the best? The words "classy", "VIP", "Elite" are often overused in my opinion and once again a way to make clients believe they are offering something that may be better. Now I know many SPs use this words and many may provide a great experience for clients while others just tend to throw it in there. It's just like the term GFE used in advertising which may or may not be true. All of these terms are common within the adult industry. I find the best way to describe yourself is by being genuine. While we as SPs are offering a fantasy, if you let your audience know who you are as a person while describing your attributes in a way that reflects on your services, you will definitely create a buzz where they will want to know more. This will lead to more bookings. Everyone is intuitive to a certain extent and they can hone in on what is considered phony or fake. Your advertising should clear, concise and above everything else, keep it real! Be yourself and you will reap the rewards.

Good thread Cato, I cant tell you how many people have claimed to be "pistolpete" as well as other well respected members on this board via email, yet when you ask them to PM you they never do. I only book through email, but do verify your board identity via pm, if your going to mislead me about something as small as your board handle what else are you hiding.

This is a topic that is always on my mind and I never know how to approach it without sounding upset or hurt that anyone would think I do not value them and their privacy/discretion. It makes me feel like I am being disrespected and my privacy doesn't matter because I'm being paid for my time. Well is does and greatly so. I am in this industry by choice, to have fun, build a business, maintain a great reputation and make some awesome friends on my journey. When I am questioned as to why I require certain information, it is for my safety. My safety comes first. I always think why would I ruin my reputation over one person by putting their privacy in jeopardy? With that being said if someone doesn't want to provide such information, there is always someone waiting that will. I expect the same courtesy to be extended to me in regards to privacy and discretion. Put the shoe on the other foot, the client being the SP. The date has been booked the SP is waiting for a complete stranger to arrive. They have a name, cell and possibly an email and forum handle. In those last 10 minutes before this complete stranger who was unwillingly to give any real information about them self is about to enter the SP's personal space or the SP is about to enter the clients, how do you think the are feeling at that exact moment. Scared, nervous and possibly shaking. The SP is not comfortable and ready to have a relaxed great encounter. Scary to see a certain scenario coming from an SP and imaging you being that SP. It is exciting meeting new people but the communication and the feeling of safety needs to be there, at least for me and many SP's. Some SP's have no problem with this and can just see about anyone with a name and cell, is that safe IMHO no but everyone is entitled to run their business the way they choose. Some/many prefer to take the much safer road traveled. I guess my point is when an SP asks for certain information, please take in to consideration that it is for their safety and nothing else, we value our lives and the safety of others.

Rocket science ???? Nope. Basic instructions 101 Great thread and awesome comments. Two things that really bother me in this world is... a:) inability to willingly follow very basic rules and b:) extreme arrogance. And I think both come in to play many times here. A couple I will comment on Quoting Em: "When I ask you to call when your parking - I MEAN it, dont call from the lobby if I have asked you not too(considering discretion is SO important, why does the fact that your calling from in front of the hotel staff and repeating the suite number aloud not strike you as indiscreet?) Just because im not a revolving door, does not mean I want attention drawn to myself at any time. I enjoy the places I stay and wish to keep it that way. I also enjoy the company that I keep and NEVER want to jeopardize anyones privacy ever." To me this is a huge discretion issue, a danger issue and total common sense...it can seriously jeopardize the safety as well as personal wellbeing of Emily ....as well as the gentlemen that may visit with her in the future at this hotel. I may not be the sharpest tack in the box perhaps...but that is a pretty simple instruction to follow I am thinking and a very very important one :icon_rolleyes: Quoting Samantha: "Some of the disrespectful ones object to being screened and, rather than saying so politely, insult me by pointing out that I'm just a whore, that I must be planning to set them up somehow or that I'm desperate. These guys are no loss to me!" This I love Samantha !!! The fella can go :aol_poundit: "insult me by pointing out that I'm just a whore" Ahhhhhh yes....the guy that thinks because he has his wallet out and is paying then he is better than you.... that attitude spells SCUM....and once again he can go :aol_poundit: or get one of these perhaps:aol_fakepussy: