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If you found out that someone you were involved with had been a veterinarian, would it affect your relationship? A dentist? A physicist? No? So why would another occupation she might have had bother you? Think seriously about this. Tease out exactly what it is that you're hung up on, don't just settle for a sense of vague, undefined discomfort. If it's "she'd have slept with a lot of guys other than me", this could be equally true of any partner you meet. But it doesn't matter, because those events were in the past. You just need to worry about your relationship, in the present. If her past experience really bothers you now, then you're sexually insecure. The problem isn't her; it's you. If it's "she was intimate with men and took money for it", then you need to examine your attitude toward the women whose company you (presumably) pay for from time to time. There's nothing wrong with the work an SP does, and she's not cheapened by having done it. If you can't accept that, please stop seeing SPs. Me? Frankly I would admire the implied sexual maturity and her comfort with her sexual self, and 'd be happy for what she might be able to teach me because her experience would be far vaster than my own. If she was willing to share I'd love to hear her stories, because she'd have learned many, many, many first-hand lessons about human behaviour I'll likely never be in a position to learn myself. But mostly I wouldn't really care, because I'd be dating a whole person, all of her, as she is today, and as she wants to be tomorrow; and there's infinitely more to know and love and care about her than how she once chose (or chooses) to make her living. I'll leave aside the "but what if you'd seen her as an SP first?" because that falls into the same old "I've fallen in love with my SP!" discussion for the gazillionth time, and Search can provide all the insight you need.

"God only made so many perfect heads, the rest he covered with hair" RG :-)

Emma and I have been talking about everything from the IMF (we're for it), gravity (we're against it), men (we're for them), authoritarianism (against it) and baldness (we're for it.) What? We're FOR baldness? Yes, we are. We've seen how you cute baldies go around apologizing for your bare heads and we're here to say, don't hide! I can't tell you how many times a guy has emailed me and admitted that he may not have all his hair anymore and it's not a problem. It's a man thing, and we like men. So stand up and be counted. Obviously, stand up and apply sunscreen if it's sunny and THEN be counted. Honestly guys, we and many other women have no problem with it. Please don't feel you need to be shy about it, it's all good. Just be your lovely selves. xoxo A and E

I find most guys who don't ask appropriately.. so your rate is 'blankity blank'? are indeed up to something when they ask a lot of questions. It usually comes out that are only interested in corresponding with you or fake booking.. or talking on the phone with you for free. Why fake booking you may ask? They get off on the anticipation of the appt.. and never showup (we have lists that we share.. so believe me it's a very common fetish if you will). Just yesterday a guy admitted to me over email that he wasn't booking (saving up to come see me from the US) for at least a year. He just wanted to check if I was for real. UGH.. waste my time and ask questions clearly posted on my site (for which he had filled out a booking form) So when he kept asking questions about my service and rates.. I had kept redirecting him to the site. We can deal with a ton of time wasters. The gentlemen who clearly book and show up and are model clients assume often incorrectly that we deal with several similar clients regularly. Not the case. Old pros like Christine and myself edit them out pretty quickly.. more and more. It takes time to hone this ability. I don't think these guys are dumb. I think for sure some are.. lazy! but I'm guessing most are simply game-players and that includes rate negotiators. Either way.. too high maintenance for me. re: WITS experience. I reiterate.. fake a migraine or what-have-you.. and walk away from sp gameplayers.

And to throw my two cents worth in here, adding to Samantha's and Angela's comments, for your safety, have a verification process as part of your screening measure. What I have provided to ladies I see, is my full real name, board handle, cell phone number, email address, confirmation of board handle by a pm and a reference from a lady I have seen. Gentlemen understand that until you two meet you are both strangers, and for all the hype about a man's privacy, really the ladies run a much higher risk safety wise than a man does There are many ladies on this board who I am sure would be happy to advise you about screening methods/verification. My experience, when providing this information to a lady, it went a long way to establishing a trusting relationship before we even met, and got our encounter started on a positive note For anyone evasive about being screened, remember, no amount of money is worth your safety (and maybe life) One more thing, not clear from your post, but so you know outcalls are going to the gentleman's place, be it his hotel or residence, incalls the gentleman comes to your place be it your apartment or hotel This guy's point of view RG

Did your mother ever warn you about pretty girls that will break your heart! She was right. Did you ever have a pretty girl break your heart? Good - well chalk it up to life experience and harden the fuck up! If you're looking for someone to read you a bedtime story and tuck you in, this ain't the girl for you. If you're looking for a no holds barred fun filled sexual romp, read on. Sin_Cindy or as I call her (Sindy) is truly a party girl. She is wild, free spirited and will leave you unsure if you're coming or going. I speak from experience as I recently met up with her for some late night fun. Jack Daniels, smokes, scented candles and this sultry nymphomaniac! It starts with casual conversation to get to know each other. She casually asks a question about what I like and then tells me what she will do to me, and how, and if I will like it and what will I do to her... Going with the flow...she motions me on the bed and crawls over me...she starts with deep french kissing as her tongue probes the inside of my mouth. I suck on her lower lip - she withdraws her tongue, I insert mine and return the favor. We repeat. I reach back and undo her bra (black with white trim) with one hand, tossing it across the room...I like tossing women's clothing around a room... You're crazy she says..."I'm fucking crazy" I say.... and I flipped her over onto her back. "Fuck, I love when a man takes charge" she says... I taste her again sucking on her lips, my tongue travels down her body toward her nipples. I flick them in turn, sucking hard on them as she fucking moans. Her nipple stands erect like a volcano just waiting to erupt...I do the same to her other nipple. Twin fucking peaks! I move toward her other lips...'you like that' she says as I tore her panties off and threw them toward the rest of the clothing and proceeded to tease her thighs without actually touching her kitty...fuck she's moving into a trance and I barely touched her... I taste her sweetness, she moans, wiggling her hips.."fuck you're teasing me" she says..."Fucking A, I'm teasing you" I say - "how does it taste" she coos. "Fucking awesome" my reply, "here taste for yourself"...as I move back to her other set of lips to have her lick her sweet pussy off my face! "You're right" she says as I moved down to finish my snack...on her request two fingers were moistened and inserted. Talk about a feeding frenzy....my god the gal can gyrate. "Do you wanna fuck me" she coos, my reply - "fucking A I'm going to, but you have to say hi to my little friend first." "Sure" she says... I jumped off the bed, ripped my jeans off and crawled back in bed to allow her to administer some mouth to mouth on junior...69 style of course ..and she did...with great suction and generous amounts of natural lube .... On comes the cover and I enter her, but not before tasting that sweet delectable dripping pussy of hers again. As I entered her I felt her muscle attack mine - "how does it feel" she says "fucking awesome" I told her - "fucking awesome"!!! I withdrew, tasting her again, re inserting - returning to have her taste her secretions off my tongue. We needed to replace that fucking cover, she was so damn wet it felt like the fucking thing came off...now .. we stand in front of her mirror, she kneels on both knees, sucking my manhood like it was the last lollipop on the fucking planet, sucking, licking and then places the cover on again..."take me from behind, I want to watch in the mirror" .... so with one of her legs propped on the dresser, her hands resting on the bed she watched the mirror as I entered her, hoping I'd satisfy her craving... But I had something else in mind as seconds later I grabbed both her ass cheeks and tossed her back into bed. Up went her legs as I tasted her and entered her again ... she begs me to take her from behind...I turn her over and enter her, her legs close as she starts grinding away as I continue thrusting away. I grabbed both her hands firmly pinning them to the small of her back . . . . .my legs alongside hers straddling her ... "I want you to cum all over my asss she says" .... "really", I say - like I'm surprised - "yes, cum all over my ass, I want to watch you cum all over my asss"... Well, a few strokes later like a porn star taking his cue, I pulled out, and shot it all over her tight firm aass and we both watched...admiring the money shot...catching our breaths in the process...fucking hot Sindy fun!!! Ok - a few disclaimers... she is pornstar material, she can be a girl next door, she can be a princess, she is explicit and she does not fucking care. She set the tone for this meeting and we both had a fucking great time - while this rec is explicit and does contain gratuitous use of the words fuck, ass and pussy - it is her style. In the entire time there was no issue of me taking advantage of her in any way! Let me make it absolutely clear, because she is liberal, it does NOT give anyone the green light to disrespect her in any way. And I discussed with her at length about posting this explicit recommendation - this level of detail is her wish. She is not for the meek, she will take your money, fuck your brains out and send you on your merry way, till you feel up for repeating - in which case she may have you drink Jack Daniels out of her pussy! The ultimate fucking body shot!!! This was my adventure, YMMV. Now for the kicker, we met based on a phone call - she had no idea who she was meeting until after our meeting so this encounter was not fabricated (in case you had any fucking doubt) and there was no case of nerves. Too hot for you? Be adventurous, be fucking crazy, live a little ... try some Sindy! and when she becomes a famous pornstar, imagine kicking yourself for not seeing her when you had the fucking chance! Remember, you don't have to take her home to meet mom! Now stop jerking off to her album and go see her, she won't break your heart, but she might break you! Fucking A, mesmerizing Sindy!!! Good luck booking! ;-)

Well it has been a while since I did a training duo at CMJ, but I decided that I needed to change that. I saw the ad for Amelia, saw her pics and read her bio, and decided I had to go see this new girl, and am I glad I did. She was doing a training duo with Samantha who I have seen before, and have reviewed before. When I got there I met Samantha and said hi, and then Amelia came into the room. Someone had said she was a sexy librarian type, and that was the first thing that came to mind. Glasses, a big smile and a pretty face. That was until the lights go down, the clothing comes off and you discover she is a Suicide Girl in disguise. I love ladies like that. We are also exactly the same height, so I can look right into her eyes; and beautiful eyes they are. Her smile, her infectious laugh, and her easy going manner just put you right at ease. We adjourned to the room where we chatted, and shared some wine. Then it was time for my shower, so the clothes hit the floor. Me and two lovely naked ladies, curvy Sam, with large natural breasts and the lovely Amelia with her lovely bum and beautifully perky breasts. I love breasts and with these two ladies I had an incredible variety, I was in heaven. For the massage skills I must say Amelia has them. She gives a good firm massage alternated with a light touch, in the right places. Both these ladies had me actually moaning in delight on the table. I got to look in the mirror and see the incredible view of these two ladies alternating working on my back. After the flip I am not sure if I can remember it all, because my senses were overloaded. I do know that my final release was as a result of Amelia's very skilled handiwork, while Samantha distracted me in other ways. It was mind-blowing to say the least, and I know both the ladies remarked on the low growl I was making at this point. I got to finish the appointment in the shower with Amelia as we washed the oil off each other. It was an intimate moment I would definitely want to repeat. I am not sure how CMJ does it, finding all these gems. I cannot recommend Amelia enough. She looks like the girl next door, but damn, she is someone I would leave home for. I am sure it will be tough to get an appointment with her soon enough.

My interpretation of not a clock watcher is exactly that, a lady that may look at the time 2 or 3 times before your 60/90/120 minutes is up, AND that there is never any qualms about the gent leaving 5-10 minutes after a session if they both get caught up in the steamy session. Unrushed also means that lady isn't trying to get you off real quickly in a 60 minute booking and figures the session time is up well before hand. Your example encounter describes a gentleman that took a advantage of a situation and basically over stayed his time in a regard that it was deliberate and no regard for what you were asking politely. I normally realize when my time is up, and never had asked to pack up,zip up,put the hard-on back in your pants and leave. Being respectful, can develop into a mutual benefit for both parties involved for other encounters. If I get one shot on goal and we simply devour each other for that one hour duration and talk after it, is my buck, and if that is how I want enjoy our time, so be it. But not being rushed out the door, by the lady is key, I like to leave after dressed and kisses good bye and never go over ten minutes of scheduled time. I have had some ladies keep me for extra play time and their call, not mine, as I would getting dressed and then they simply took advantage of me :)

I think when you truly fall in love with someone, you fall in love with THEM as they are. I don't see how certain behavior, especially something that is sexual in nature, should change my opinion of someone I am in love with. Society puts a lot of heaviness on sex, and in all honesty it is something fun and beautiful that is completely human nature. I'm not here to judge how anybody else thinks or believes, I just think people in general need to loosen up a little bit, and smell the roses. Men and women like variety, clearly or else why are we all here? If everyone would come together and be honest with each other, imagine all of the beautiful open sex we could all have, and how much happier and more connected we could all be... Joke. Maybe that's what happens in heaven and that's why we're all naked :icon_lol:

I hope this doesn't come off as rude or disrespectful but I have never really understood why this phrase, "not a clockwatcher" is used so much. I know I am being too literal but I don't get why clients say this about SP's and SP's say this about themselves all the time. I expect you to keep track of time because.....I am paying you for your time! Regular updates from the lady about how much time I have left would be a bit annoying. I sometimes ask for msog and on occasion the lady will say, we got about X minutes left, maybe we should get started. I have no problem with that at all. I realize that ladies want to try and make in an intimate occasion and as Gabriella said not make it feel like a "meaningless business transaction", but ultimately this is a business transaction and if the lady is a professional she is aware of the time. Having said all that, I agree with Gabriella's definition of "not a clock watcher" you don't kick the guy out at the 60/120/240 minute mark, if he leaves 5-10 minutes "late" no biggie.

I would buy my mother a beautiful country home, then I would ask her to watch my kittycats while I hit the road to travel the world, first stop, Thailand.

I would like to extend a thank you to the gents who saw me while I was visiting Halifax last week. I'd like to also extend a special thank you to Boomer, Mrrnice2, Katherine, Lexy Grace and Sophia Varoushka, who so generously gave their time, hospitality and support etc. to make my trip to the Maritimes possible. Again, thank you so much!!!

Ummm no. Not all of us party all night at all. Some of us have children, things to do to prepare for the day, pay bills, maybe eat breakfast, other jobs, have morning obligations, and basically have lives. Please sir, with all due respect, do not lump us into one group. We are as diverse as anyone else. Thank you Chanel

This type of situation is my #1 downfall and Gabriella, I know exactly how you feel. I have made a very conscious effort this year to ensure new guests are out the door within a reasonable amount of time after their appointment is over but it is a challenge for me. The sad part is that every time it happens, I promise myself not to let it happen again but inevitably it does. What I haven't been able to figure out is that they know they were over their time considerably and yet seldom is there even an offer of compensation. I can count on one hand the gentleman who have slipped a little extra in the box on their way out nor is there any extra in the next visit envelope to say "thank you" for going over and above the call of duty for the last time. It leaves me with a more than sour taste in my mouth but my southern indoctrination makes it near impossible to just say "TIMES UP!!!!". My established guests are mainly retainer guests so they know the routine and respect it. I'm not sure what the solution is. Perhaps an alarm clock with an insanely loud buzzer? cat

Ebony and Ivory - Working together in harmony. Today the SEXXXY Jessie Brown and I will be doing hot and wild sessions, with 60 dollars off We preform body slides, amazing relaxation massage and have you melt in our hands. how much better can it get My name is Crystal , 19 , 5'9 , brown hair , crystal blue eyes. I am fairly new to MA and I have fallen in love with it, and it shows through my work. I am avaliable today 9-6 and tomorrow (sat) 9-9.

I like Malika because - well, let me count the ways. - Since I arrived on Cerb, she was one of the ones that I have spent some time with in chat. - She will always be, regardless of how she changes it all the time, my "Little red haired girl." - We visited in person twice at Ottawa socials, and she tried to give me a boobies video gift on my birthday, but I am technologically incompetent :) - We did have a tentative date in Halifax that had to be cancelled, maybe postponed, and I was going to take her to and show her Peggys Cove. - I love her tattoos and her special meanings behind many of them. - She and I have some mutual amazing friends. - And I love her far out posts on the Unhijackable Thread of Randomness!

I like RG, because he is always so positive to others:) and thanks everyone on their wall when they say something nice avout him:D

Yes, I have found myself in this situation many times in the past. It is awkward to say the least! I think for some people "unrushed" has become code for MSOG?? I now started to ask the gentlemen when they are booking their appt, if they are wanting MSOG or more intimacy. I have found this does help me to organize my time with him. I also ask him, if he is a sensitive type, so that I can gage how intensely I can perform. When booking 1 hour appt, I like to get the first one out of the way to leave plenty of time to start again. I also remind them that a second time can be difficult and I can not guarantee success. For that matter, I do not like to guarantee anything. As some people arrive feeling blue, stressed and have their mind on other issues. But will guarantee an honest go at it! When I book 2 hours , then I will certainly expect to perform at least 2 times. Again asking the Gentlemen ahead of time how he wants our 2 hour date to be. Is he wanting MSOG or one long sensual experience? As for clock watching, I do not watch it too closely. But half ay threw our session, I like to remind them on how much time we have left and then will ask how we should spend our remaining time together. I also leave plenty of time between appt, just in case my Gentlemen would like to extend his time with me. So much can wrong when communication is not flowing:( It is vital for us to communicate what we want and expect in a date. Sp's are generally good mind readers, but you still need to be able to communicate what it is you want from our session with you. It sounds like you made a nice 2 hour date with your client. Hopefully he can learn from this and communicate his needs better to the next date?

"never piss off a woman your girlfriend, your wife or your favorite SP" And with luck, the 3 of them will meet each other. :-)

I just wanted to thank all of those who have participated in this thread. I found it extremely informative and helpful as a new member here. These boards are going to be a huge resource for me as I learn the ropes, and I'm grateful there are so many experienced members who are willing to share their experiences. Kudos! -Carys

Bald is better :) Except I love chest hair! xoxoxo

Wash your mouth with warm water and salt If using a commercial mouthwash, stay away from those with alcohol. Besides being a no no for a non drinker like me, I've been told they have a tendency to dry out your mouth whereas a non alcoholic mouthwash doesn't do so RG

Michelle is an extraordinarily talented individual in : conversation, massage and the fine art of teasing. On a scale of 1-10 she's 12. Like a chameleon she easily blends into any conversation as she kneads out all knots and stress of the day and she has an amazing sense of humour. She is 100 % hot from her eyes all the way down. I seem to be grinning like a Cheshire cat even now as i type this...

...Every winter I provide a "Fur Coat - No Nickers" tour for the many gentlemen who adore a Fuzzy Beaver! ;)

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I would more generally fall into the repeat/regular category. I got into this as much for the intellectual and emotional connection as the physical one. This has in past caused me to get close and temporarily cross that imaginary line. (So I know of the fear the OP states. It is very real.) But all stays in check now. I love getting to know someone and creating a little relationship in addition to the time we are together. I find together we open up, build up a trust, get closer and the intimacy gets that much stronger. I really don't like just feeling the 8:00 appointment...have a great couple of hours...and then disconnect until the next meeting. I know we pay for companionship for a particular time but those ladies who I've been fortunate to get closer to...I truly treasure what we have. I should also say that I hobby when I travel which provides me with any variety I may seek. Cub

I love the Femme fatal look.. from kiss me deadly

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When I started escorting in 1995, outcalls were the norm. Just to add to what Samantha Evans already said, it's best to only go to private residences or hotels where you can verify your client. What I mean by that is that you do not accept appointments based on a cell phone only. You need them to provide a landline number to ensure they are really where they are. It's hard to imagine, but it does happen, where "Joe" from Winnipeg is visiting Ottawa and wants an outcall and calls you from his cell and wants you to meet him at his hotel at 10:00 pm. That's nice except, how do you really know "Joe" is in your city. Hotel: Tell the client you need his name, the hotel address and phone number and room number. Tell him that in order to confirm the booking, you need to call the hotel and and ask for that person and make sure he is really in that room. If he balks at this for "privacy reasons", assure him that you are only using this information to verify and that he is paying for discretion. If he tries to circumvent your booking procedure, then don't bother. If he can't honour your wishes before the appointment, then don't expect him to do so in the bedroom. If he says he'll be checking in later, tell him you cannot be on your way until he verifies he is in the room. It's also best to let the client know when you are on your way and to adhere to a timely schedule. The minimum requirement for an out-call in Ottawa is usually one hour. If he's booking for hours later, it's good to call, because I have called clients back to tell them I'm on my way and they don't answer. I never set foot out the door until I know they are in their room and expecting me. Also NEVER agree to meet a client in a public place, e.g. the lobby or a restaurant. If he wants to take you out, then insist that you must meet him at his hotel room (or home) in order to meet and take care of business so to speak so that you are doing this in private. Residences: This is tricky because many people these days only have a cell phone, but in order to have some measure of security, you should insist on them giving you their landline telephone number and have them call you from it. You can consult sites like canada.411 to verify their name and address. If they don't have a landline telephone, you risk being given a fake address. Which is why these days, I do very few outcalls to private residences. The only exception I make is if the client tells me he is within a 10 minute drive from me and then I will take the chance and most often (9 times out of 10 the booking is legit, but the first time you take a driver to call and the guy doesn't answer or the address is fake and you have to fork over $40 or more, believe me, you won't do it again). Whatever happens, don't allow yourself to be manipulated. No exceptions. When we start cutting corners is when safety is compromised. I may not know "everything" but I have learned over the years that when I have deviated from this, that's when I have had problems. It's not worth risking your time and safety by letting someone dictate to you how it's going to be because they can't meet your requirements.

Advertising, whether online or in print, is perfectly legal. There have been judicial rulings in the 1980s that said that advertising is private communication because readers are never forced to read ads. The only way to work legally is to go to the client's location for the call. That said, this is also one of the least safe ways to work, too. If you decide to do outcalls only, please, please, please make sure you have a driver and that the driver knows where you're going and what time you'll be ready to leave. Call the driver when you enter the house or hotel room and call again at an agreed-upon time. For example, if your meeting with the client will last an hour, make sure you call the driver when the hour is over, no matter what. If the driver doesn't hear from you, you should have a plan about what they are to do. If you don't have a driver now, contact other ladies where you are and get some recommendations. Don't hire someone who's just decided that this is a cool and sexy way to make a bit of money now that there's even less risk of prosecution than there was before recent the Ontario Court of Appeal decision. You want someone who is experienced and has been proven reliable. I never go to clients' homes except in very rare cases where I have known the client for quite some time. Even then, I once ran into a problem that I was able to manage easily enough but which would not have happened at my place. The difficulty with hotel rooms and clients' homes is that you have no idea who is on the other side of the door when it opens to admit you. If you go to a hotel, make sure you check out the room thoroughly, looking in the bathroom, including the shower, and the closets. If there's a door that adjoins another room, make sure that it's locked on your side so that no one can enter from the room next door. In a client's home, the problem is that you don't necessarily know where all the exits are. It's harder to know who is in the place and you have no control over whether someone else may arrive while you're there. I can appreciate your reluctance to work from your own apartment but, frankly, this is safer than going to someone else's location. It's not legal, but unless you see a high volume of clients, entertain late at night or cause unusual noise, you're not likely to have a problem. It's critically important that the companion be in control of the encounter at all times, every time she meets with anyone, wherever the meeting takes place. That's much easier when you're in your own place and much more difficult when you're in the client's home. Despite these warnings, it's true that many women work successfully doing outcalls. It might be a good idea to connect with some others and find out about their safety strategies. Over time we all think of things that never occurred to us when we started out. Always remember: nothing, absolutely nothing, ever, including any amount of money, is more important that your personal safety, so don't compromise!