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Another spoiler alert. Ian has nominated Shane and Jenn. I don't care who goes as long as Ian makes it to the final three (I know I'm biased but I have a sweet spot for him). Part of me thinks Ian is playing Dan. I really don't think Dan has a shot at winning the grand prize (no matter who he's up against).

Hmmm does this mean Ur not coming to see me now? :( Hope you clarify soon.

Thanks babe, I guess I don't make the cut here as I am not eye candy or young enough!!! :icon_smile::icon_smile::icon_smile:

I think of it as a good way to get busted by one's SO if she does not approve of the visits. But it sure does smell purdy :icon_smile:

Hey kiddo, I am not a service provider and am a virgin only in i have not seen a service provider yet, hopefully this year. So that said I can provide you with this advice: 1. This would be a wonderful way to lose your virginity, at least better than ten minutes of pumping and rolling off and leaving which was my first experience. 2. Understand if you go through with it though these wonderful women will likely be more tender, giving and in tune with your needs than a woman say you later fall in love with and date. I say this so you don't set this as the bar that you expect all women to follow, these women get paid for their companionship because they are the best at what they do, trust me, not all women have the guts they do. I would advise if you go to an SP for your first time, that you take time to learn how to be generous with a woman while you are there. This is a tool that will get you far in life! 3. You are like me in that we have not taken the plunge into meeting with an SP. Be careful when you are talking to them that you are upfront about your ability to meet. I have contacted a few to get rates while doing my research, but I am stuck right now that husband has said no, at least no for now. so i stick around because it will happen one day,and because i admire the women and their empowerment, but they know the score with me. Advice: find the one you want and go for it, if you have nothing holding you back except for nervousness....okay short story: i was a virgin at aged 19 and wanted to get laid. i called those phone lines to meet other people in your area. (party lines, before internet). I made a few appointments with men to break my virginity (not service providers, just horny men). I got so nervous i didn't show for a few....whatever that's okay i was young and while disrespectful meh, but the ladies here are different, this is their livelihood so if you say you are going to be there, then be there. end of that rant is the dude I did meet on the phone chat line who did take my virginity, well it was awful and as he was leaving I said to him "well you certainly helped me decide if I prefer men or women". :) Good luck, sorry for long answer!

These ladies are all amazing...but there is only one problem... he live in PEI :)

The unfortunate thing is that she is probably already doing his bidding and he thought perhaps he could find a way to advertise her on here...kind of a sympathy type of thing. Guys would feel sorry for her or wish to teach her the finer art of intercourse. People think up some weird ass ways to market a product. Terrible that the product happens to be a young lady.

And what most of us do is in fact legal and not a issue for LE. Not to mention the gentlemen here like, respect and appreciate the ladies we see. But pimping out a girl, it's not only illegal, it's sleazy, immoral and unethical too. And in all likelihood how do you think a pimp keeps a girl who hates sex with strangers (my guess hates sex with the "boyfriend" too said in quotes because no real b/f would force his g/f to do this...he would care and protect his g/f, not pimp her out) in line (continue to have sex with strangers)...likely hook her on drugs I hope the cops saw his post and can do something. And I hope the g/f sees all these posts and sees her "boyfriend" for the exploitive loser he is and leaves him RG

Judging from a couple posts one important thing to add. If you schedule an encounter KEEP THE APPOINTMENT. Don't be a "tire kicker" That is nothing but rude and your going to develop a bad reputation in this community (yes, it's a community) if you do so. As much as this is a very intimate lifestyle, it is also at it's core, a business, and the ladies' livelihood. Ladies don't mind answering serious enquiries, but they do mind having their time wasted. You need to follow through on your enquiry by booking and keeping an encounter. If you have no intention of scheduling an encounter, don't waste the ladies' time. If it's a case of shyness/nervousness you need to overcome this (it's mind over matter). And tell the lady in your email you are shy/nervous. But still follow through with your encounter And standing ladies up, whether in this lifestyle or conventional dating, not cool at all It's all part of being a gentleman and showing common courtesy. RG

Maybe the providers gave up on you because you've never followed through on a visit.

I totally get your concern. But I always work under the assumption that ALL is seen. Privacy, in the internet age, is an illusion. I am not worried though. For quite some time I worked at an agency, never had an LE issue. 3+ years independent, same thing. The Cootchie Cops aren't looking for me. I don't ad car dates, illegal activities, steal from people or otherwise call attention. Do they know I exist? Absolutely. But I am SO the least of their concerns. Same with Hobbyists. Predators, however, are another matter entirely. I have no fear of Cerb being a target. Their parent company & affiliates are reputable, tax paying businesses. Wannabe Pimp Daddy, on the other hand: Bring in da funk, bring in da noise. And the cameras. Guys like this need a scarlet letter. A big old P. Sandi

I'm sure there are ladies who would accommodate your request. Contact a lady who interests you and be very respectful...in short be a gentleman. Tell her a little about yourself, provide verification information if requested, in short be up front with her. Mention in your email that you are a virgin and obviously inexperienced. But make sure from your email that she knows you are a gentleman she would be comfortable being with When you have the encounter, pace it. By that, book the encounter long enough for some social time (conversation etc) before any sexual activity takes place. And besides the donation, a tip and gift would be a nice added touch...after all, you always will remember with fondness the lady who took your virginity. The tip and gift a nice token of appreciation for the lady who did something so special for you RG

Ahhhh! Excuse me....ladies..please I do care what you ladies use. In fact when I go for a facial or pedicure I get hints from those specialist for my face and feet especially after a long hot summer vitamin e cream is important for aging and from sun. On a daily basis I shower with Dial body soap, I've been told I have very soft skin too and nice nipples (lol :) ) My favorite body soap is Shea,Jojoba & Mango by dial and you smell great too ! Here is a link to their product body soap. http://www.dialsoap.com/bw_triplemoisture.html

Well we men, well me, may not care exactly what you ladies use (and different ladies use/require different things). But, well speaking for me at least, I do appreciate, amongst other things, your soft smooth silky skin. And knowing there is some effort into maintaining it, that effort is appreciated RG

"Gay for Pay" is a lucrative business. If you're in debt, take one up the...I mean for the team. See how you like it before you ask her to do it. Don't ask anyone to do anything for you that you won't do for yourself... cat

All women, all shapes, all races, abilities, religions, all of it. You're all beautiful. I will echo what others have said; be respectful and clean and you'll do fine! I can't emphasize this enough--you have no need to feel self-conscious! After all, some of us CERB ladies are plus-sized ourselves ;)

I was hesitant to bring this up , bbbj and bbfs, mostly because I love bbbj, but I'm just wondering why so many are appalled at the idea of bbfs but there is little to no condemnation of bbbj, cim etc. I realize it is a very intimate act, I also realize there are many more risks with bbfs not to mention I personally do not want to perform daty on a lady after the previous client has done his business down there. All that said I appreciate that community is looking after each other with raising topics like this, but I am just a little (i'm not shocked by any stretch of the imagination) surprised at the response to this topic because there is very little conversation/concern around other "risky" behavior. I'm not saying that risky behavior it isn't discussed, but people seem very concerned about this issue.

Like literally two hours ago, and it was great! As of this morning, I was a 26 year old virgin. I never felt ashamed or unaccomplished being a virgin, I had reached this point as a choice. But I was not confident with intimacy, most if not all girls I've met have been pretty sexual or have a sexual past which always intimidated me (I never saw them lower, but felt a bit in awe). I avoided relationships because I was worried about the physical intimacy part, I was going to fall flat on my face. And I created this mind block. I noticed a few threads on this forum about guys who are virgins looking for an SP, but there was no mention if they went through with it, and if they did, how they felt about it. So I thought I'd share for anyone who are in the same shoes I once was. In a nutshell, I loved the experience, and I have no regrets. I got in touch with Peachy a week ago, and explained that I was a virgin, and that was something I wanted to change. She was incredibly thoughtful, and put me at ease with asking her to take me to the other side so to speak. I was nervous, actually, I was anxious for her to come. I booked 3 hours, and I asked her to stay an hour longer once she was here (I was having a great time and didn't want to rush it). So my reasons for doing what I did. 1) I'm more confident with safety when it comes to the women here then the general public. If anyone knows about safety, these ladies do. This was my number one priority always (even before I came up with this idea) 2) I wanted a positive non-judgemental environment (at least in my mind). I didn't want to think and over think everything I did, and with her, I was more then comfortable. I was able to explore, try out stuff that I wouldn't have done with maybe a girl I was dating. 3) I was confident in asking her how I could be better. And I took everything she said constructively, and it was a lot better then I imagined! 4) Confidence! I met this girl a couple of months ago that seemed to be very interested. Back then, the old me kept things between us friendly but non-sexual. I think given the situation now, I'd act much differently. My confidence in this department took a massive beating the last couple of years for reasons too long and boring to share here. I feel as if one evening took all of that self doubt away. Downsides? I don't feel as if there were any. I don't feel any regret, or remorse or anything of that sort. I was hoping when I asked Peachy was that she be someone awesome (I've read some stories here about people having soso dates). Peachy was AMAZING in that she was so understanding about my fears, and newness. I bring this up because I found her through going through pages and pages of reviews. There are some awesome women here, but I found one with very complimentary reviews, and it worked for me. Which I guess leads on to my next part. Would I recommend a virgin meet an SP? To each their own. I wrote down a list of reasons why this would be a good idea vs a list of why this was bad. My bad side of the list had some religious objections, but then the good side had religious support for getting help any way possible (my confidence was shot). There are some that say that this experience should be with someone special. And I think that applies for some people for sure, but I treated this as a learning/therapeutic visit more then anything else. The rate I was going, I was not going to be able to meet that someone special ever. Recommendations: 1) Take your time, read reviews, talk to who you are interested in 2) Take your time, don't book just 1 hour. For the first two hours, we took it slow, talked a lot, and made it more intimate. 3) Figure out your reasons. I was brand new at this, and I think if this is your first time, trying to go into this to fulfil a fantasy might be putting too much pressure on you and her. Just explore the sensation, explore your body (I discovered things about my body I was pleasantly surprised about). 4) Tell her you're a virgin! And that's when you first get in touch with her, not when you meet. I can't think of anything else. This being a recommendation board, this is mine :)

Hot Tub Fun ! So here we are again . Another new Angle/Paradise girl and let me say wow before we start. After a long debate I decided to take one for the team , with a little reassurance form Angie of course , I book a session with Crystal. A Upon arrive I was greeted by a lovely beautiful Crystal in stunning black high heels . Standing on my tippy toes I could barley kiss her at all . Her devilish smile lead me to know soon I would be in heaven. Then Crystal reassuringly took my hand and off we went to the hot tub room ........................ But in all honestly I had a wonderful time and I will heading back there again and again ! She is a wonderful girl and please treat her with kindness and respect and you shall receive the same back ! Thanks again for the fun Crystal and Angie to ! Your both Awesome !

:icon_biggrin: I find height an attractive attribute, I love tall men 6ft + , although sexiness comes in all sizes and heights, whats your height preference.

For me, it's mostly attitude, manners, hygiene and respect that determine YMMV rather than physical attributes or someone trying to tip me to do something I'm not comfortable with.

Well not the same fear Jenn, but in the beginning of this lifestyle I was concerned, me being a middle aged man, bald, glasses and a belly meeting beautiful SP's, some of whom are IMHO model material. They could be in Playboy, Sport's Illustrated Swimsuit Edition or Victoria's Secret catalog or well you get the idea. These women could easily have any man they want. But, for the time of the encounter, the man they want is me, with all my flaws...I'm certainly not someone you'd see on the cover of Gentleman's Quarterly. If they really aren't into seeing men, they sure do a good job acting as if they are. They make me feel like a king, their friend and their boyfriend all rolled into one without making me feel like a client. And I'm sure they do that with all their clients. I say this because I believe you would get the same experience from SP's. Being treated like someone special, not a client. So I wouldn't worry about that aspect of meeting a SP. Probably your hurdle is having your first encounter, but it's just nervousness. I went through that first encounter nervousness and hurdle, probably everyone does. Once you do it though, you'll wonder why you waited so long Good luck RG

I just watched the After Dark show from Thursday night. I had stopped watching the AD shows and now I remember why :) I can't stand listening to people chew food, when they have mics on it's even worse. I hate to pick on her because she's receiving a lot of negative posts lately but listening to Danielle talk annoys me to no end. All she does is whine, she has done nothing to make it this far so I think she should be grateful she's even still on the show. Spoiler Alert! Ian won HoH, so he's made it to final four. There was a moment where he was in a room by himself pacing back and forth and he says "Socially inept loser makes it to final four, unbelievable!" It still sounds like he wants to keep Dan around which I find hard to believe, Dan is the only one who can beat him at this point. Hopefully he's just playing Dan but I don't think so.

Well 42092 sounds like you are on the right path with a special lady. For what it's worth, just from her profile, if I were in Charlottetown I would give Aubrey a call for an encounter. She sounds like a wonderful lady. And for you, she is the one who would be great to take your virginity. Treat her special, because irrespective of the donation, she is the one lady sharing and participating in a very special moment in your life, one that happens only once and you will always remember For whatever it's worth RG

Way to go and thanks for sharing! I have helped several men lose their virginity as well over the years and it's quite the honor.

That the cutest pep talk I've ever heard ;)

Waiting... is a 2005 American comedy film starring Ryan Reynolds, Justin Long, and Anna Faris.

Hey 42092, I just want to give you a bit of encouragement, so go ahead pick up the phone and call one of the fine lady of CERB, I'm cheering for you!

If I had a son this is what I would recommend. You want to make sure the first time is positive and special. I am sure some that one of the fine ladies on this Board would consider it a great honour to be your first encounter. Take your time, find a gal in her twenties and have at it. Good luck.

Now if we are talking about an SP/client relationship, Many people may have different views on this. To me personally it is a business relationship. Not saying it is right or wrong for anyone or that it couldn't workout between two loving people. But a customer is a customer to me whether I meet them as an SP or if I sell them a laptop at Futureshop. You don't poop where you eat lol.

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Well I preface this by saying I'm not looking for a relationship, in general. I truly like the poly amorous nature of this lifestyle and have met many wonderful ladies, who I like, respect, and appreciate the escape they have provided me. That said, under the heading never say never, if both a lady and myself clicked to the point we both had feelings for one another, feelings with a capital "F" I could get involved with a SP. My opinion, based on my experience with the SP's I've met, is that they are very special ladies, offering companionship, and are much much much more than providers of just sexual services...they do make you feel like you are with your girlfriend, a very caring girlfriend, and treat you special. I should interject here, that the ladies irrespective of this profession are deserving of a loving caring relationship as is everyone, and should two people find true love, they should follow their hearts. True love doesn't happen everyday, and if you find it, grab it. But I must add, be careful that the feelings you have you aren't confusing because of the intimate nature of this lifestyle. Some could misconstrue the intimacy of an encounter with true feelings of love Now should the subject come up (can't foresee it, due to my age and where I live LOL), I would never broach it. The lady, due to the nature of this lifestyle needs to ask the gentleman, otherwise how would she know whether it is a client asking for a encounter, or a guy asking her for a "civilian" date I would, should it happen, be unashamed of the lady I am seeing, as I am now. Only discretion, more for the lady, keeps this a private compartmentalized aspect of my life. And I (if the lady is ok with this btw) would tell people where I met her. Big stumbling block for me, I honestly don't know if I could give up this lifestyle to have a conventional monogamous relationship (yes, for me, in my relationship life, I have always been monogamous) And it would be something to work out if she continued working (not judging, not saying she has to give up her profession, but it is something that has to be, at least for me, worked out) So short answer, yes, I could, under right circumstances, get involved with a lady Long answer, don't see it happening, and it is a relationship that has issues, for lack of a better word to be worked out. Finally, and I find it amusing actually, it's not a put down on anyone, because this subject has been brought up before, but the questions about a client getting involved with a SP come up time and again. I don't think people would go to eHarmony talking about escorts, why posts on CERB about relationships with SP/Clients...definitely though, said with a smile on my face. A long winded rambling from a happy single middle aged guy who enjoys this lifestyle RG

I threw up in my mouth reading this post. Sure, what guy wouldn't want to pay for a mediocre, lacklustre performance? Of course she could be great, just not with you. The wording here is truly disturbing. Not only putting it out there that the more they pay, the more they can do whatever they want to her but can because she just does as told. There is now way she is into this. This has procurement & coercion written ALL over it. Like Backrubman, I feel the best outcome would be that the authorities are reading this. Then we'll see how he likes being pimped out to the highest bidder in Millhaven. I hear they also " pay more " for newbies to " take direction ". Now excuse me, please, while I go delouse. Sandi

I have to give it up to Frank again, he kept his cool when he got evicted. I agree with the 3 previous posts, Danielle is a little crazy, on one hand she doesn't deserve to be there, on the other hand if you make it this far you do deserve to be there no matter how you got there. I can't read Ian when it comes to Dan, I kinda feel like he doesn't realize how slimy Dan is, however, I could be (and hope I am) wrong about that. Dan or Ian SHOULD win this game, I think Dan would win against Ian in the final 2 so Ian HAS to get Dan out. I've been watching this show since the beginning and I think this is a really good season and I'm glad this thread was created to talk about it.

I just saw this ridiculous post...yikes. How about you become a male SP ? I would luv to see your GF's critic of your looks, body, size of your package and how average you may be in the sack. Get a second job or try the bank big guy. Don't market a 21 year old girl.

Really, and maybe it's my spidey sense tingling here, does your g/f want to become an escort or do you want her to become an escort If she wants to become an SP, she should make the enquiries, not you Beyond that, no advice. No guy should ever be involved in getting a lady to become an escort, it's one thing a gentleman would never do My two cents RG

I'm with you on this one Nat! I offer strap-on play but I've come to realize many people DO think of it as a BDSM activity. So while I offer it, I do not offer BDSM - I'm not a dom, but I'll fuck you with my strap-on ;)

My what if.... What if I never left Alberta? (Id probably be married to a redneck and be driving a mini van)

Regardless of what any poll says, in my experience, BBBJ by far is the most requested service. Of course to each their own, but I feel there is something missing when there is a piece of plastic separating us for this delicious activity. If I am not comfortable with someone, I won't play with them altogether. Without beating a dead horse and talking about the potential risks, I know what they are, I do what I can to minimize them, but refuse to dwell or obsess about them. With a friendly and fresh gentleman, BBBJ is my FAVOURITE service to provide, and some may even say that it could be considered my specialty! I love to tease and please and drive a man absolutely wild in this way. I love the feel of the wet and slippery skin to skin. The feel of his manhood in my mouth. The feel of my tongue at the bottom of the shaft up to the tip. The challenge of seeing how deep I can go. The tension. And then the incredible and exciting release...like a culmination of all my close care and effort. Yum. ;)

Well, it's been far too long since I nominated a Goddess... so it seems appropriate to nominate someone I haven't seen for far too long: Jessica! Jessica was one of the first MAs I had the pleasure of seeing, and still one of the best. She's a beautiful person, inside and out. A moment, please, to reflect on this... Are you back? Good. And as an added bonus, she's willing to let things get extremely... messy, in the best possible way. I don't know who invented nuru massage, but I owe them a beer or three. Because... well, because this: Awesomeness. Very sexy awesomeness.

My nominee for today is Jazy, dancer, sp. (spinner :)), and my personal inspiration for starting the Best Bums on the Planet thread. Unfortunately her hot albums are gone, but here's a sample:

Pretty sure the OP was looking for info on who offers this, not on who thinks it's "yuck" or "nasty". If this is something you don't offer or are not interested in, fair enough, but then why even click on a thread entitled "Extreme Gagging" in the first place? A fetish is a very personal thing to many. And usually, not something one has very much control over. I feel that someone should be able to come to cerb (and to the "BDSM, Fetish, etc" section of cerb of all places) and inquire about a fetish openly without having to be told his/her fetish is gross, immoral, etc.....regardless of what it is.....assuming of course that said fetish is occurring between two (or more :p) consenting adults. Ye ol' cerb motto applies here. If thou shant have anything good or helpful to say, thou shouldn't say anything at all. That being said I'm also interesting in knowing who provides an extreme-ish DT (although for me personally, not to the point of puking). Additional Comments: You may want to inquire with Berlin about this. I haven't had the pleasure of seeing her yet and I'm not sure if she offers exactly what you're looking for. But on her website she quotes "messy/gagging blowjobs" as part of the fetish/submission services she offers. Like I said, I haven't met her yet but she's very reputable and has very good reviews. Considering the nature of the request it's probably a good idea to PM her or e-mail her first to determine if she offers exactly what you're looking for.

It means an unwinnable situation. In the book Catch 22 (set during WWII) you could only get out of the army if you asked to be released, and the only ground for release was insanity. But if you asked to be released that proved you were sane, so it was unwinnable.

This ruling isn't about government intervention, or not. It's about rights. Does the child's right to bodily integrity outweigh the parents' right to exercise their religious beliefs, or not? The German court has simply ruled in favor of the child. Personally, I think it's a fantastic decision. I don't see how mutilating children is justifiable. Any child that grows up wanting to be circumcised for religious or cultural reasons or simply for shits 'n giggles is entirely at liberty to do so; the point is that it's *their* decision, not anyone else's. What I find odd is that a decision like this relating to female circumcision would be entirely uncontroversial. Granted, the female variety involves rather more cutting... but the difference is one of degree, rather than anything fundamental. It's all about hacking off bits of a child's genitalia in both cases.

I understand there is a desire to believe that infections therefor can not take place in the mouth as readily as say bbfs, but the reality is quite different. Saliva doesn't kill viruses, if it did no one would ever pass the flu or mononucleosis from person to person. And we aren't talking about saliva to saliva contact (as in kissing), we are talking about putting uncovered semen (which does carry stds) into the mouth and throat. When someone gets chlamydia, gonorrhea and syphillis orally, the infection is found in the throat not the mouth. http://std.about.com/od/riskfactorsforstds/a/oralsexsafesex.htm There are reasons why daty is considered safer, vs bbbjs for the woman, for example for reasons above. The link covers more stds. Nothing refers to how the mouth is a safer place.

The risks of BBBJ run both ways with this activity. There are cases in the medical literature of the recipients receiving a little more than they anticipated! Interestingly among young women, the risk of STI is lower with anal sex than with vaginal by a factor of two. However both are more risky by three and six times respectively if BB as compared with Covered. The only risk avoidance approach is abstinence :frown:: all else is risk management. The risks from safer practices are much lower. There are lots of other things we do that are way more lethal, say driving a car for example. CB

I'm sorry, anyone please don't take this the wrong way, but what is the difference between providing bbbj and bbfs? I have never offered either service, i lose ALOT of business because i don't offer bbbj,never have never will,because i'm just too terrified to catch something, disease and illness, especially incurable/killer ones, scare the hell out of me. Putting a complete strangers member in my mouth without protection seems the same as having unprotected sex with someone I do not know from a hole in the wall; his fluids are entering my body which put my health at risk. HIV and other STDS are carried through the semen fluid, so if is guy is positive, how is putting it in your mouth any different from your cookie? Will the risk factor change? The way is see it, I'm too young to die, or get sick and because of this thought pattern, I have ALWAYS been a 100% safe gfe, and will never do bbbj, in my mind its the same as bbfs in terms of the risk factor. I'm just curious, why is it "ok" to do in the mouth, but not ok in other regions? I mean if your already doing bbbj,your already risking your health, how is doing bbfs any different, other than now the client is at risk too? Why is unprotected ok when the sp is taking all the risk ( bbbj) but not ok when both parties are at risk (BBFS)? Why is ANY unprotected service alright? Are the two really that different? Just curious? Please don't anyone take this the wrong way, I'm not trying to be rude or offend anyone,nor am i trying to judge, your body your choice. I truly just want to hear some other perspectives. Additional Comments: I'm sorry, anyone please don't take this the wrong way, but what is the difference between providing bbbj and bbfs? I have never offered either service, i lose ALOT of business because i don't offer bbbj,never have never will,because i'm just too terrified to catch something, disease and illness, especially incurable/killer ones, scare the hell out of me. Putting a complete strangers member in my mouth without protection seems the same as having unprotected sex with someone I do not know from a hole in the wall; his fluids are entering my body which put my health at risk. HIV and other STDS are carried through the semen fluid, so if is guy is positive, how is putting it in your mouth any different from your cookie? Will the risk factor change? The way is see it, I'm too young to die, or get sick and because of this thought pattern, I have ALWAYS been a 100% safe gfe, and will never do bbbj, in my mind its the same as bbfs in terms of the risk factor. I'm just curious, why is it "ok" to do in the mouth, but not ok in other regions? I mean if your already doing bbbj,your already risking your health, how is doing bbfs any different, other than now the client is put at risk too? Why is unprotected ok when the sp is taking all the risk ( bbbj) but not ok when both parties are at risk (BBFS)? Why is ANY unprotected service alright? Are the two really that different? Just curious? Please don't anyone take this the wrong way, I'm not trying to be rude or offend anyone,nor am i trying to judge, your body your choice. I truly just want to hear some other perspectives.

I'm really glad I don't have Dr. Phil as my therapist. Yikes. I had less self-esteem when I working for wages that progressively got lower and lower as the years have gone by, working as an admin. assistant for employment agencies that gouged the federal government by billing almost twice they pay me (talk about pimps). Over the years, I have had to work with some people who treated me like crap, never showed me or other any appreciation, stuck me with demeaning tasks and blamed me when things went wrong. I was also let go once because I refused to do a task that could have jeopardized my security clearance. Since I had no union protection and the agency didn't care, I had no recourse in that situation. Oh, but I'm supposed to be proud of that because it's better than escorting. According to who? Dr. Phil of the bible belt? Since I have gone from part-time escorting to full-time escorting, I can work part-time hours for full-time pay and not have to put up with all that bullshit. I'd like to see Dr. Phil give up his standard of living to live in public housing, go on assistance or have to rely on food banks or charities to get by. This lady needs to look at why she is burning out. She mentioned her clients treat her good. Not knowing her full story or the details behind it, I would hesitate to comment on what she needs to do, but it sound like time management issue may play into this. I believe I have more self-esteem now that I did when I was doing office work and being unrewarded and unappreciated for my efforts.