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Never! Why should a man ever think he is too old? You are NEVER too old for orgasms. As long as you can still keep yourself clean, and get it up (or if you can't even get it up, as long as you enjoy the touch of a woman), then we are here for you. I have had clients as young as 20, and as old as 80. And I've enjoyed my time with each and every one of them.

This might sound a little on the corny side or the maudlin side but for me it is neither. Today I put a small Christmas tree up beside my wife's grave. I will put a few decorations on it tomorrow and the solar lights to begin on December 1st. She loved Christmas even more than I and last year when I thought about doing this it was an SP friend that told me to do it if that's what I wanted to do, so I did. It made me smile every single time I went by or went over to visit and I was smiling today. :)

Red letter day, my daughter told me that I'm going to be a grand dad. It's my first and I've been anticipating this for some time.

Wow mrrnice!! That made me smile too! So happy you shared that:) Today I made a wreath. I gathered Jack pine, Fir, Blue Spruce, Hemlock and Holly:) I had no clue how to do do it, but wow turned out beautiful:) Different shades of greens, blue`s and golden. This might be my new tradition:)

I haven't really considered an age and I don't suspect I will. Life will determine that for me as nature runs it's course My thoughts....you can't put an age on when you don't need companionship, sex and/or pleasure and closeness with a lady... and whatever makes you happy and feel good even if just for a short time. I think companionship is even more important as you get older...so why quit due to age if you enjoy this part of your life ? Who knows....one of you ladies might be sexing me up in my retirement home ! We could really get busy because nobody could hear us anyways !! ;) ha

I wanted to bump this thread for obvious reasons...the upcoming holiday season. As you all know from this thread, 11 months agao, I was hit by a drunk driver. Though I am mostly recovered, the pains sometime still linger. I wanted to take a moment, to remind everyone of our resposibilities...towards ourselves, each other, our loved ones, and those around us. Please act with wisdom this holiday season. Many of us will be invited to parties and gatherings, and we will all have important choices to make. If you are drinking, please don't drive. Make other arrangements...we all know there are a multitude of options available at this time of year. And if you see some one drunk...ACT. Don't hesitate. The next person that gets hit by a drunk driver, may not be as lucky as I was. Everyone please stay safe, and best wishes for the holiday season. E.

I am not a girl. I am not for sale; my services are. You don't buy your hairdresser, you pay for their services. Also, what is a "real" man? This whole campaign has irritated me from day one, when Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher started it. The men they used in their campaigns had an awful track record of misogyny - not very "real" men themselves. If these folks in Sudbury are having issues with finding condoms and syringes in their backyards, they might want to address THAT. It may not just be sexworkers utilizing those areas but also an issue of homelessness and addiction.

As I approach my 50th I was wondering the other day what are an SP's thoughts on when a hobbiest like myself should consider packing it in so to speak. I believe a man in his 50's just like a woman of the same age can still be quite attractive and sexy in their own right. I have also found being with a more mature SP can lead to a better encounter sometimes because of their experience and the fact they know how to handle themselves in a more professional way. Now in no way am I meaning to imply that a younger SP can't deliver every bit as good as an experience as a more mature lady and lucky for us here on Cerb we have the best of both worlds. So my question really has two sides to the coin A: When should a hobbiest "retire" B: When should an SP "retire ' My two cents are if I'm still enjoying it and not repulsing my date I'm good to go...and if the SP I'm with is still turning me on then it's all good What are your thoughts?

I have been around long enough to have seen the many conflicts between Israel and its Arab neighbors. I tuned in regularly over the last week to observe the latest threats and each time shook my head with the futility of the military action from both sides. There surely must come a time when reality actually sinks in and for Israel to understand that a Palestinian state is a must and at the same time for the Palestinians to accept the existence of Israel as a neighboring state. Does that not sound simple? In the aftermath of the Arab spring and with new powers and leaders in the middle east perhaps a new initiative is in the works. One can only hope so. The ceasefire that is now in place is hopefully only the starting point. If there were a Christmas gift that I would ask for it would be for these two sides to sit and to talk and to negotiate in good faith in order to make that region a viable and peaceful area. Is it truly possible?

There are a number of things wrong with that article: speaking for sex workers, demonizing clients, wrongheaded john-shaming and rehabilitation campaigns, reinforcing the idea that sex workers are commodities to be bought and sold, etc. They seem have taken as a given that "it is not OK to buy sex" and then worked from there. I wish they had given some kind of justification for that premise so there could actually be the dialogue that they purport to want. It's hard to talk with someone when their starting position is "you're wrong and awful."

if only the younger generation could only realize that this is a senseless feud that makes the same sense as cartoon hillbillies shooting back and forth from their own mountainside for generations. Just agree to disagree already and move on going about living happy healthy lives for themselves and their families. Being taught this kind of blind hatred is just wrong and unhealthy. Unfortunately its a cruel reality in so many parts of the world

An sp should consider giving it up when it becomes mundane, just a job and when their phone stops ringing and that could be at any age. A hobbyist should consider stopping when it no longer becomes enjoyable. Quite simply if both parties are having fun andgetting their needs met, what difference does it make how old either is. Sexiness isn't all about youth, there is far more to it than that.:icon_biggrin: Those that think it is all about youth are missing lot.

OK here is a Wild dinner plan, lol... Moose Steak!! Marintated in Pumphouse Blueberry beer!! Will reduce the marinate to make a glaze and add more blueberries:) Along garlic and cilantro, then will top it with crushed walnuts:) To side the dish will be sweet potatoe and brussel sprouts:) YUMMM...I hope!!

Scratch that: I had made a hottub suggestion, but upon looking it up, I honestly would not be willing to have play time in a hottub http://www.cosmopolitan.com/advice/health/hot-tub-health-dangers http://www.livescience.com/3671-risks-summer-sex.html http://nursebridgid.blogspot.ca/2012/04/hot-tub-sex-something-you-might-want-to.html?m=1 I second the suggestion above: if you rented a hotel room with an ensuite jacuzzi, that was emptied and cleaned, that would be the best way to enjoy some naughty hottub fun :)

A: never B: never All across this country I see very hot pics of mature ladies and they are still hot due to genes and looking after themselves. I think they can continue at any age. I would like to see mature ladies give some indication as to their age because I want someone 28 & older not a 18 year old. Companionship need not be hard raw sex.

Why do you think it is that street work is criminalized while indoor work is almost completely ignored by law enforcement? Do you think it could be because street work is visible and it creates visible problems for the community? While indoor work is usually done very discreetly, and so quietly that often no one knows we're here, let alone has any problems with us. I don't know why street advocates cannot get this: street work causes problems for the community, and that's why it draws complaints and enforcement. There's no big conspiracy here. As for your single mother, she is being very short-sighted. Her chances of getting busted, assaulted or worse are far, far greater than if she did what it took to find an indoor situation. Then where will her kids be? There has to be more to this story than you're telling, Berlin, because in Canada, we provide support to families like hers. Thousands of other single mothers are getting by on family support. What expenses does your streetwalking single mother have that merit her taking the outsized risks of working the streets, and exposing her children to the consequences. Something sniffs wrong with this story. I sometimes think street advocates are so bullheaded, they won't rest until we get complete equality, even though that's far more likely to result in all prostitutes and all customers being treated the same way that streetworkers and their customers are. Only then will you be happy. BTW, street vendors are highly regulated, and it can be very expensive in some places to get one of the few precious licenses given out to sell food on the streets. You think that would work for streetwalkers?

Well sort of life sucks #1 but also sort of good too. Took mom to get her eye checked by the surgeon yesterday. Her cornea was replaced two years ago, now she finds blurred vision in that eye. I was hoping for just a treatment (eyedrops). Well she needs surgery to have her cornea replaced. The cells are dying in the cornea, which is why the blurred vision. Been through this before a few years ago, a few trips back and forth to Kingston. Plus side, they can fix her eye, I was getting worried she might be going blind So I guess in the greater scheme of things this is good. RG

Other than certain physical activities ;), most of what makes me feel good involves making other people feel good. Sometimes this can mean hosting a dinner party for a few friends, and seeing their faces light up when they dip into some strawberry creme brulee. And as a musician, I used to glow for days afterwards when I knew I'd absolutely nailed a performance. It's satisfying in its own right, but that's really tied in to the audience's enjoyment. But there's nothing like doing something for somebody else that really needs it, even if it's something really simple. I think I'm still glowing from one in particular, even though it's been a couple of years. :)

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Welcome Back ALEXXXis!!

petting a happy cat!

Simple and brief answer is no I cannot. Believe me I tried last year and was partially successful for 2 months but came back as the life related stress got to me bad and needed strongest available medication (beautiful ladies) very bad to de-stress my stressful work weeks. May be I quit after I retire when my life would be likely stress free. Btw, in the memory of Seymour, the OP. A total and complete gentleman and a great cerb friend whose kind is very very rare. Apparently he quit. My best wishes to him. I hope that wherever he is and whoever he is with, he is enjoying a healthy, happy prosperous life.

Great! Looking forward to it! ;)

she is back. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=66539 she had fantastic recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=2449 she was nominated and might have won best bbbj on the other Board Never saw her, but after seeing her on chat last night, I will definately go. She is one sexy woman with a really good reputation.

Having someone put up a phony review of you on one of those nasty boards....ugh.

I should join and post a pic of my lovely hairy pussy. But that wouldn't really be fair to everyone else, eh? So here's a pic for everyone! (That's Mina, btw. If you ever have occasion to meet her, just keep it to "Yes, ma'am" and "No, ma'am" and you'll do just fine.)

I think you were lucky to have come across those rates as even 6 years ago I don't think in Ottawa the rates were that low!! I think that $120 to $140 for half and $200 (or $240 for outcall) has been standard prices in Ottawa at least since 2007. Unless you were in Montreal 6 years ago which I think what you quoted still is the standard price there. Going back to economy, I think we are unappreciative a bit here lol. Economy is much worse in other industrialized countries. Europe especially is again in recession with massive debt, cutbacks and layoffs and US just above it. If you want to calculate (cummulative) US debt likely your computer will break lol. In Canada we have a growth rate of 2%. Not spectacular compare to 5 to 10 years ago (when we had between 3 to 4% annual growth) but still the econmy is growing and unemployment relatively low (I remember double digit unemployment not long ago). Hard to find the first time job but not impossible as in US and Europe. The inflation rate officially is at 2%. One good news for those in Hi-Tech is that this industry will be growing slowly over the next decade and for those in government, finance minister said recently that there won't be any more cuts (other than those already announced) in the future.

There is NO WAY I would fit into this category !!! Now if you will excuse me I am going fishing

I perused it and didn't really find anything I related to but I agree with bcguy, one would be hard pressed to find two providers with the same experiences, views and reactions to their lives... cat

I dunno. To be honest, I always wondered why some guys would take their business to the street when there are safer and more legal options. Is it cheaper (as long as you don't get busted)? Is it the "walk on the wild side" aspect? Are they unaware of other options? Or is it that there's something desirable about using the services of someone you know is far below you in social status. People often note that many streetwalkers feel like they have to be out there, like they don't have other options. Okay. But what's the street john's excuse? Most independent SPs I know enjoy a status similar to that of most of their customers. They're well-educated, have credit, are members of their communities. Incidences of things like substance abuse or domestic abuse are probably lower amongst the SPs I know than in the general population. I haven't known all that many streetwalkers (don't know any right now), but all that I ever knew could be described as living on the margins of society. Most had substance abuse problems, housing security and domestic violence issues. Maybe somewhere there's some savvy bunch of streetwalking soccer moms, but I've never seen it. Call me old-fashioned, but I believe that purchasing sexual services is something private. What does it say when a man flaunts his choice, putting his desires as a priority over others legitimately trying to use the same space (businesses dealing with their customers, families using public space)? I believe that hanging criminal charges around the neck of a streetwalker is only going to drive her (or him) further into the margins. But streetwalking is a huge problem in communities, and the purpose of law enforcement is to reduce problems. I wouldn't mind seeing tougher penalties for street johns. Obviously they view what we have now as a joke, and it doesn't deter them at all. As we've seen with drinking and driving, there are some people you simply can't reason with.

After Tuesday, even the calendar says W -T - F!

I generally find it rare to come across something that causes me frustration to the point that I am angry, but this article is very close to bringing me to that point. The frustration is there, with certainty! Where do I start? 1. "Real men don't buy girls." Never once in my foray into the world of Cerb have I felt that I was buying a person. The idea of buying a person is abhorrent to me. What I have done is enter into very unique transactions that probably two years ago I would have questioned, but now, after having met so many incredible people on here, I find my participation to be one side of a mutually beneficial agreement. So what did I purchase? I know I did not purchase a woman. I purchased the opportunity to meet someone that intrigued me. I purchased the opportunity to communicate with someone in a way that I never would be able to do otherwise. I purchased the opportunity to engage in an intimate physical encounter, but each and every time should that not happen because either of us were uncomfortable, then that activity was not taken by me as a guarantee. Most of the women that I have met would never consider selling themselves, the person who is an SP. 2. "People recognize that absent in all our work around prostitution is an analysis of men who buy sex under exploited conditions." This quote alone sends me into debate mode. First there is the presumption that the women involved are being exploited. I am not naive enough to think that there are not women in this industry who are being exploited. The women that I see here on Cerb do not give me that opinion. An independent service provider is her own boss and she makes her own decisions. She can choose to work, or not. She can choose to meet any particular client, or not. She can choose to meet many clients, or few. She can choose to work seven days a week, or none. That sounds to me more like a successful business plan opportunity. Who are these men who buy sex? I am one and I have met several others through Cerb. None of us are the stereotypical John. Some are married, some are single, some are widowed. We each have our own personal and unique reason to be involved here. For many of us it is not solely sex that we seek but personal companionship, fantasy or otherwise. 3. "Crime stoppers runs a local program to reform men ......" Reform men????? Reform according to one dictionary is defined as "to cause (a person) to abandon wrong or evil ways of life or conduct." To be reformed therefore I must be doing something that is wrong or evil. It may turn out that for me on a personal level that this is wrong, never evil, and time will tell, but on a societal level from what I have seen there is nothing wrong or evil about it. As with any story there are two sides to it. If the issue is street level prostitution, hanging out on corners, unwarranted street traffic in suburbia, noise, the leaving behind of debris, refuse, condoms and the like then there is something to be said. Study and raising discussion about prostitution is ultimately a good thing, but to open a dialogue with the basic premise and conclusion that prostitution is wrong and evil is not a discussion at all.

Silver Dollar, lately.

She's at the Playmate. :icon_cool:

Well I don't buy girls. What I as all gentlemen do is compensate women (adults) for their time, and what consenting adults do privately during that time is no one's business. At no time, because I pay a donation, does the lady lose control. Her boundaries are completely respected...I don't own the lady, not even a little bit. We have a mutually beneficial time together Tired of the morality squad that doesn't understand nor would ever try to understand And we are all preaching to the choir here aren't we RG

Everybody loves sex, everybody loves cash. I don't see what's so wrong at mixing the two of them together. It is a "crime" with no victims. The total amount of undesired sex endured by women is probably greater in marriage than in prostitution, lol! This article targets prostitution between consentient adults...What about the human trafficking and sex slavery? That's the real issue. "A man who moralises is usually a hypocrite, and a woman who moralises is invariably plain", Oscar Wilde

That was my thought process. I know it's still cheating but I believe having an affair is worse. With an affair you are cheating with your heart and body and I don't want that. Sometimes I feel like I am distorting logic to get what I want. Does that make sense?