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  1. 7 points
    Do not tell her. It would be cruel to do that while she is ill.
  2. 5 points
    I thought I would just add another thing to this thread. If gents here in Canada think that going through a "ringer" "hoops" etc etc for reference checks, try seeking a SP in the USA. Just wait until you see their method of checking clients, and than report back here in Canada, where some ladies just ask for a couple of references, there is absolutely no comparison.
  3. 4 points
    I'm throwing this out there cause I don't know what to do. I am currently married 5 years been together for 15years now we were highschool sweethearts, we were each others first. My wife is ill and has been for the last 2 years. We don't know what it is if its curable permanent or if she is dying. All i now that its killing me to watch her suffer and it hasn't gotten better. Now we are no longer intament, sleep in different rooms we don't even cuddle. My dilemma is, do i crush her heart and tell I see sp to satisfy my needs, probably end our marriage, or do I keep it my secret to save her the pain and continue seeing sp? What would u do if you were me? If u were my wife would u want to now? Any advice?
  4. 3 points
    I know some of this has been covered here already, and I just posted this to the other board also, but I thought it could be a useful reminder here too. Knowledge is power (and health!) :) ______________ As part of some New Years resolutions, some people are thinking about their health and taking it more seriously. Well, sexual health is a very important part of that, and something that should be taken seriously all year round :) Getting tested is very important for hobbyists too! Many of the most common STI's (particularly in men) have no symptoms!! Treatment for the most common STI's is usually quite simple and effective, often with one dose of antibiotic. Left untreated can lead to serious complications. The Ottawa Sexual Health Centre is THE BEST place to go for this because this is their area of speciality and they will order all the proper testing. You need: urine samples, blood tests and throat swabs to be given a complete sexual bill of health. The Sexual Health Centre's testing is anonymous, you don't have to give your real name, and you do not need to provide a health card. There are different ways to get your results, but generally you give a phone number and if they don't call you, your tests have not shown any problems. (No news is good news!) The Sexual Health Centre has more than one location, as they offer satellite clinics throughout the city on various days of the week. Locations and hours here: http://ottawa.ca/en/residents/public...-health-centre For example, I always go to the Barrhaven clinic, I get there right when they open at 2:30, and I have never had to wait more than 10 minutes to see the nurse. If you are worried about discretion this is perfect, because they host the clinic within another regular Health Clinic (so you could be there for any number of things). To make it eve more discreet, you can go to a location in a different part of the city than where you live/work. The nurses at these clinics are very friendly, non-judgemental, knowledgeable on sexual health, and are happy to answer any questions you may have. I recommend the Ottawa Sexual Health Clinic above a regular health clinic or your family doctor, because they know all the exact testing you need and specialize in this area. For your own sake, and the benefit of the Escort/Hobbyist community, Please get tested regularly! :biggrin: Thank you!
  5. 3 points
    If she takes offence or refuses, walk out the door... Fast! Additional Comments: It doesn't matter what your purpose was in posting. You have a responsibility now and you know it. The legal age to be a prostitute is 18. Look, I understand that when we were young we all made various poor choices. Choosing to be involved in prostitution is a choice that should be made with some maturity. Regardless of what age we believe someone really becomes mature, I think someone less than 18 is too immature to make this choice.
  6. 3 points
    Well worth the risk for all gentlemen if they have doubts about her age as opposed to taking a chance and engaging in sexual activities with an underage young lady.
  7. 3 points
    Exchange of money for sex is illegal in the US whereas it is legal in Canada. There are therefore sting operations routinely carried out in the US by LE there and that explains the likely reason for providers in the US being stricter on reference checks. That said I am all for it. As I have said before I fully understand reference checks as a lady takes enormous risks coming to a total stranger's home (or accepting him in her home or being alone in a hotel room) so they are entitled to asking for references. Besides I don't see any reason for not providing it or being reluctant to provide one if one has one to provide!!.
  8. 3 points
    It is understandable that you need to relieve your stress physically and emotionally, do that. But keeping it to yourself is probably the best thing for both of you-for now anyways. I would suggest that you Do Not tell her, she needs all her stength to get well and to cope with her illness. Since healing is as much about the mind as it is the body, the less stress the better. As women we have a strong sense of intuition, she may already know or assume you are having your needs met so stop feeling guilty love her the best you can, stay strong. My thoughts and prayers are with you both.
  9. 2 points
    Emily J and I are both trying to share videos online with members of the very special oral loving group... I had used tinypic.com but the links never last as nudity/pornographic content is against the user agreement. Can anyone confirm if tumblr.com is suitable? If not, help us find a suitable uploading site that is BBBJ-friendly, please!
  10. 2 points
    Welcome to Ottawa, your best bet is to avoid any of the motels, they are more trouble than their discounted prices are worth and as you've discovered most gents wont visit those venues. If you stay within the Downtown Core you're pretty safe , here's a few nice spots that are SP friendly Albert at Bay Suites , great deals on expedia Minto Suites The National Hotel Radison on Queen The Marriot Kent @ Queen Indigo Cartier Suites Journeys End King Edward/ Rideau In the West End There's the Holiday Inn Kanata Holiday Inn Bells Corners Days Inn Bells Corners Travel Lodge Carling/ Kirkwood Definit avoids include anything on Montreal Road Days Inn Rideau Extended Stay Econo Lodge on Rideau Richmond Plaza on Richmond Road Webbs on Carling Avenue Sadde International Inn on Bank St if all else fails you're welcome to sleep over at my place, lol :)
  11. 2 points
    you should be more concerned about her if she is underage...as far as hobbyists seeing her, they are adults who are usually of sound mind to make their own decisions and deal with the results. Though one should definitely be concerned for both, I think you have your priorities backwards.
  12. 2 points
    I am truly sorry to hear about this. :( I believe you are going about this the right way. I personally can't imagine a better reason to go see an SP than the reason you just explained. You are there for your wife in every way you can be in a difficult situation. One of those times IMO when silence in regards to your SP involvement would be in the best interest of everyone involved. Good luck and hopefully your wife recovers and life goes on happily for you two !
  13. 2 points
    I'm an advocate of the flu shot, but everyone gets to make their own choice. I'd just throw this into the mix: the flu shot doesn't try to make you clean, it actually makes you dirty on purpose.(1) It contains the actual virus (or parts thereof) in order to make your body stronger, not weaker. The virus you get in the shot is dead, so your body gets to learn what it looks like without the virus trying to kill you. And then your body will react faster next time you're exposed. It's the same process that would happen in nature if you simply were exposed to the living virus; your body learns its shape and you overcome it, left stronger for next time. But it's controlled. As Jesse Pinkman would say: Yeah science! (1) And now some community-targeted advocacy: C'mon -- who on this board can turn down a chance to get dirty on purpose!?!? And I mean that deep-down, it-runs-in-your-veins kind of dirty that's worth paying some money for. And you get the shot from a nurse. Who's making you dirty! So she must be a naughty nurse! Etc. etc.
  14. 2 points
    I am a non believer in it, the one year I had it I ended up with pneumonia not once but twice. I will never get it again and am against it. We never had vaccines for the flu or pneumonia when we were kids and we were fine, you need some germs to build your immune system and the flu shot to me is just like a light cover, it wont prevent anything, just prolong the inevitable of eventually getting sick. PLus has anyone ever thought of what the long term effects maybe - every drug or immune altering thing has a long term effect. Why put anything else into your body when in this day and age we take in more than we did 20 years ago. Get your rest, drink water, eat healthy, wash your hands and for gads sake cover your mouth when you cough. I say use at your own risk.
  15. 2 points
    Yes, tumblr is the perfect solution for your group, you won't be able to embed the clips, or hot link from tumblr but you can provide direct links to your clips that are hosted on their site.
  16. 2 points
    As posted elsewhere I am a strong proponent of the flu shot. I read only yesterday that it is still not too late to get one for it to be effective and that this years shot is well matched with the virus that is on the go. Wash hands, wash hands, wash hands, but the shot is your personal protection.
  17. 2 points
    I have to agree with the other posters here. Telling her will only cause her pain and grief at a time when she needs it the least. I don't think anyone here would judge you for the decisions you have made to satisfy your own needs and maintain your own healthy state of mind, (we're a pretty understanding lot here) but for her sake, keep this one under your hat. She needs you with her now.
  18. 2 points
    Check out the new updates and contributions in the Oral Lovers group! Maybe even possibly some naughty video clips from some of our sexy CERB ladies! ;) Meow! :icon_wink:
  19. 2 points
    I am new and excited about massage I want to make you feel good I want to make you excited then help you relax ;) I offer a relaxing sexy massage very sensual body slides front and back that will heat things up. A very bubbley shower that will make you feel like a king. Let me help you relax and put a smile on your face!! Check out my new pictures http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=6421 My schedule for the week Satuday January 12, 10AM - 4PM Sunday January 13, 10AM - 9PM Wednesday January 16, 3:30PM - 11PM Thursday January 17, 2:30PM - 11PM Sunday January 20, 3:30 - 9PM I'm 5'4, big blue eyes, tattooed brunette You can find me at Angel's Touch 613-274-7073 or PM me! Singles and couples welcome! and of course Duo's offered! Can't wait to see you!!
  20. 2 points
    I think that one thing to keep in mind is that most providers who ask for a reference also have alternative screening methods if a reference isn't possible. So it's not quite the roadblock some have made it out to be. I would also say that it is not the case that providers who ask for a reference are not also paying attention to tone, manner, wording, etc. I do not believe most SPs substitute a reference for their own impressions, so I find it odd that it's presented as though there's this dichotomy - either she uses her gut or gets a reference. A reference isn't an excuse not to think for yourself. I'm sure most girls know that. But as to why they would be requested at all, I think that a very good explanation has been given already for why travelling providers use them, but I would also point out that references can be very helpful to someone new to the industry. It's fine to say that we can go by our gut alone, but generally it takes some experience to hone our instinct. Instinct is not some magical talent that some people have, it's not a sixth sense. It is data gathering and pattern recognition most of the time. It takes time to gather enough data to start spotting patterns and figuring out what sounds like a time-waster and who sounds like bad news. We've all interacted with people all our lives so we don't come at this with no data. But for most girls this is still a new way of interacting with people so they need time to learn. In the meantime, references are a second opinion that can help you figure out if your impressions are correct or not. I know that some people are proponents of the school of hard-knocks, but I think in this business the knocks can be pretty hard. For those who are not so new that continue to ask for references, I would simply say why not, if it has always worked for them? For many gentleman, obviously, it is not seen a hoop to jump through so there is no particular reason for them to change a working model. And, as I mentioned, most will offer to screen by more old-school methods if a reference isn't available. But honestly, the whole debate about references only applies to providers who do advance bookings. I don't see how a provider who takes short-notice bookings could ever be expected to contact and hear back from a reference in time. So I think there are just as many valid arguments to be made for not using a reference. I don't think anyone should be judged for using references, as though they are failing to use their own good sense and are making clients jump through hoops, nor do I believe it's ever fair to insinuate that a provider who doesn't require them is being reckless. I also believe that there are reasons a provider would choose not to give references as a policy. I won't go into them in detail, some have been mentioned, but I don't think it's really necessary to defend. CERB is very positive and I love that things can be discussed and debated but I get a bit frustrated, or maybe dismayed, to see people put down for their preferred (and effective) methods of screening a client.
  21. 2 points
    Most legitimate SPs do not accept bookings from payphones unless they already know the client or the client has called first from his home landline and then calls when he's close by because he has no cell phone. Calling from a payphone is the same thing as calling from a blocked number. You have no idea who you are dealing with and risk being stood up by someone who has your address, but you have no information about them. There is no security in simply having an email address or even cerb handle without a telephone number. I for one require a call back number which is the minimum safety screening requirements, considering I do not ask for references.
  22. 1 point
    Hello, just wanted to say a friendly hello to all the ladies on the board, and also a hello to the pooners as well! I've been a somewhat longtime lurker and figured it was time to sign up. I found out about this board by a SP in fact, she asked me if I was "on cerb or the other one" and I had no idea what she was talking about, until one day I stumbled upon this page and everything made sense! I've been an "investor" for about 3 and a half years now, and I swear to god it's almost a religeon unto itself now, I think relationships may indeed be a thing of the past! Favorite SP all time has to be Eva from back in the day with the tattoos, amazing :) Anyways, Hello!
  23. 1 point
    I woke up this morning to the Beautiful sunshine here in Fredericton. It instantly put me in a cheerful mood to feel the warmth on my skin :) will definitely be a good day for a walk. I hope everyone gets out and takes advantage of the good weather while we have it :)
  24. 1 point
    "There is something beautiful about all scars of whatever nature. A scar means the hurt is over, the wound is closed and healed, done with." -Harry Crews, novelist and playwright (b. 1935) I ran across this quote and thought it would resonate with various folk.
  25. 1 point
    Welcome to Ottawa :) Take a look at my address book for the NCR's hottest and trendiest spots! http://www.genevieveofottawa.com/address-book.html Have a safe trip xx
  26. 1 point
    I totally agree. It doesn't matter if you are not 100% sure she is underage, but if you are 100% sure, then you contact the correct department of LE or find the number to whoever is more easy to deal with and report the ad. If you want to remain more anonymous, then you find out what email address to use and send the ad links to that address. If you don't know for sure if the links will stay active, as in the poster may delete and repost often, then make sure you copy the ad content when sending the email. There is no grey area. If you know this is an underage worker, you report her immediately. I have zero concern for the clients in this instance, they should be reporting her as well if they go to see her and don't ask for ID for proof of age if they even have a hint of a doubt. Chances are many clients go to see someone advertising as 18 and looking younger because they want her to be underage. Additional Comments: If the sp advertises as 18, and looks younger or older than that, it is his responsibility to check her ID and verify her age. It doesn't matter if he does it knowingly or unknowingly, the law is the law and doesn't care if he knew her age or not. It was his responsibility to find out., not hers to volunteer it. We already know the underagers are lying about their age, it is up to him to verify it before proceeding. Additional Comments: If you won't do it, then give the information to someone who will. It is turning a blind eye and not wanting to get involved that is a problem, imo, not whether she is willing or unwillingly working. She is underage. Enough said.
  27. 1 point
    A favourite for those raw, animalistic times.... Nine Inch Nails, Closer, fuck you like an animal.
  28. 1 point
    If I were in your shoes I would not tell her. If your feeling guilt then stop doing what your doing and focus all your time and energy on the two of you. I wish you both good luck. Posted via Mobile Device
  29. 1 point
    Cruise ship (don't know how to sail) But you forgot to mention fishing boat LOL Holiday, your choice of type of holiday, in Canada (your choice of where) or outside Canada (your choice of where) RG
  30. 1 point
  31. 1 point
    I can speak for Cat's post above - yes she does, and yes she does!
  32. 1 point
    Decided after a few months of uncertainty, and just having got my passport (that hanging over my head at this time was enough) well I took a me day. Took the day off, drove to Toronto, and went to Bass Pro Shops. Was even good, first thing I did was a mall walk, and Vaughn Mills is a large mall so I got the longest walk in today since starting walking All I bought was an Under Armour hoodie (warm, great to wear for ice fishing) But it was a nice break after a bunch of stuff weighing on my shoulders. Week from Monday, visit dad RG
  33. 1 point
    I see that Victoria Jolie is going to be hosting a Libero Paradiso event this April in Calgary. These events move around the country and if you're interested it can be difficult to find a recommendation since recommendations are posted by region. I was very fortunate (understatement of the year... or of a lifetime ;-) ) to attend the first event outside Toronto. If you've heard about this event and are curious (who wouldn't be ;-)) here's a link to my recommendation. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=413194#post413194
  34. 1 point
    I love this scene from RocknRolla... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bzfNxQBr6Q4&feature=player_embedded cat
  35. 1 point
    I think scars are extremely sexy. kinda bizarre- but i love the look and feel of them. the story behind them is something in itself but the actual physical appearance of scars are attractive to me- i cant explain it. Shhhh! Drooool ;)
  36. 1 point
    Well I am now a regular in Ottawa and I would love to see in no particular order: Nathalie, Julie Wilde and Gia. What a wish list! :):):)
  37. 1 point
    I would suggest Lexy and/or MsMandy first based on experience and reviews by others. Lexy is attractive, very friendly, engages and appears to enjoy. I have not had the pleasure of MsMandy yet but all her reviews are glowing and pics are unreal.
  38. 1 point
  39. 1 point
    For me...I have 2 on my knee from a surgry:( Not big, most do not notice, but I always do! 1 on my right ankle, from a break, had metel rod and screws:( From that I have major nerve damage from:( lately I have aquired 2 new ones, on my hands:( But all good, is from my love of cooking and baking:) lol...seems every friday when I cook my specialty dishes, I tend to get one small burn...lol
  40. 1 point
    I think my sense of humour follows largely from my refined sense of the absurd, coupled with an appreciation for novelty. This might explain why I sometimes dissolve into fits of giggles over situations and/or notions that are heavily steeped in nonsense, much to the amusement and amazement of those observing. I also like wordplay and political humour, because these are areas I love to muck about in, myself. :D Some Monty Python for your consideration: -How not to be seen http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dmyz_f8Sx14 -The silly olympics And a piece on the the impotence of proofreading your writing:
  41. 1 point
    Frankly, while I believe that people should feel free to ask questions and say what's on their mind, I do feel a bit nervous whenever we venture into ways to deal with or protect against stereotypes. The one about companions being likely to rob clients or compromise their personal security if we know real names and other information is particularly difficult. Seeing a reputable, established companion increases the likelihood that everything will go smoothly. You won't need to worry that she'll rifle through your wallet or cell phone when you're in the bathroom or that she'll call your wife half an hour after your meeting ends. Honestly, if someone were to make a post on a couple of boards, saying that a lady had stolen something or had outed him to his partner or employer, she would be finished in this business! A good reputation and longevity in our profession require being trustworthy. One of the things you're paying for is complete confidentiality. Please also recognize that, while you may be concerned about having your identity and personal life compromised, most of us are concerned about our safety and security, too. I see clients in my home. I feel safest here, but it also means that my visitors have a great deal of information about me before we lay eyes on each other. I screen clients because of the real possibility that someone might hurt or rob me though I know that most have no interest in doing anything like that. In the end, it comes down to trust on both sides. I won't see you if, for any reason, I feel that I may not be safe enough with you. I don't want you to meet me if you're worried that I might do something to harm you, either.
  42. 1 point
    I have to say, I've never worried about it particularly. My wallet stays where it always is ... in my back pocket or in my jacket pocket (if wearing a sports jacket or suit). Never had any issue whatsoever. Porthos
  43. 1 point
    Em exudes the perfect balance of raunchy and sweet!
  44. 1 point
    I've seen Victoria several times, individually and in threesomes. I've always enjoyed her company. She's a sweet woman with model looks, a sexually adventurous streak, and very arousing erotic skills. During pillow talk I asked about her experiences participating in Teatro Erotica sessions in the US and indicated my desire to participate in a group sex session. During the last year Victoria spent a good deal of time planning her Libero Paradiso experience and I jumped at the opportunity to participate and fullfill one more sexual fantasy. The event took place in a luxurious country home north of Toronto, with transportation arranged by Victoria. The home was a three storey building with exposed wood beams and cathedral ceiling in the living area, with lots of large rooms and an outdoor hot tub for playing in. Men dressed in suits and the women wore elegant cocktail dresses or evening gowns. In addition to Victoria, I also knew Keissy Hennessey. I understand there were 18 men attending and the same number of women. The evening began as a typical cocktail party with relaxed and light conversation. Conversation inevitably turned to the evening's upcoming erotic activities. We all eagerly shared our anticipation and nervous excitement. The majority of us, including the women, had never participated in a large group event like this before. I think this openness put us all at ease and heightened our anticipation of enjoying a new sexual adventure together. It was a little like being younger again and you and your girlfriend have agreed that you're going to "do it" tonight for the first time! To heighten the sexual tension, women begin appearing in sexy lingerie and teasingly mingled throughout the cocktail party. Men then quickly disappeared to change into robes. Both the lingerie and robes were quickly discarded as the evening's promise began to be fulfilled. I won't provide a play by play of the whole evening because there was too much going on, with so many people in numerous combinations, for one person to describe it all. Some people chose to participate in a series of one on ones, others threesomes and foursomes in bedrooms. Many of us enjoyed ourselves in the presence of so many others and with such uninhibited carnal joy that you couldn't possibly stop to count how many people you were together with. I do have some vivid memories, so here's a montage of a few scenes. Stepping into the hot tub and joining 4-5 other couples. Beautiful steaming breasts and asses glistening in the night light and bobbing in and out of the water. Long slow deep kisses, bodies close together, hands exploring and stroking parted thighs, cocks and pussies underwater. Moans, cheers, laughter, lingering looks, three ways, swapping partners, women flattering and complementing each other's unique beauty. Me leaning back with my cock and balls alternately in the warm water and cool air, while being stroked and sucked. All of this is heightened by simultaneously being an exhibitionist and a voyeur. Being watched by others in such an unguarded act heightens my pleasure, just as my watching others further turns me on and those around me. Indoors, the "playroom" is furnished with a large wrap around sofa along two walls and is covered with naked passionate bodies. People are in various stages of arousal from slow sensual foreplay to climaxing. I look to my left and see a woman stretched out with feet pulled up while she receives oral from a man kneeling before her. Next to them a woman sits on the sofa back playing with her breasts while a woman kneels on the sofa giving her oral and is herself being fucked doggie style by the man standing behind her. Next a man lays back on the sofa with a woman riding him cowgirl. They are going at it hard. His eyes are closed, face grimaced while she rides him leaning forward over his chest, allowing me to see his cock appear and disappear in and out of her pussie with her ass thrusting up and down. A couple next to them lays length ways on the sofa. She screams as she cums and shudders. He continues to fuck and she has to get him to slow down because she's so sensitive immediately after cumming. Finally, there's a woman on the floor, with a small crowd around her. I can't see what everyone is doing but she's screaming loudly and I can see that she is reaching up and has a cock in each hand. Me, I'm standing in the middle of the room, receiving a blowjob from a beautiful woman on her knees in front of me. I'm looking down at my cock disappearing between her beautiful full lips, while she looks me in the eyes. I'm spreading my legs so she can play wih my balls and thighs. I'm looking around the room at all of the action and I don't want to cum yet. I want this to last as long as possible because it's all such a turn on. I decide that while my partner is concentrating on my pleasure, she's missing all of the action behind her. I reach down and help her up, turn her around and tell her to just take some time to enjoy the sights and sounds. I stand behind her and gently rub my cock on her lower back and ass while reaching around and caressing her breasts and stomach. After lingering awhile we join a couple on the sofa in some four way play. Hands, tongues, lips, tits, nipples, cocks, pussies, eyes, thighs... I straddle my partner while she gives me a hand job and she receives oral from the other man and kisses the other woman. I'm close to cumming. I start to talk dirty, my eyes are half shut, my body tightens. I see her looking up at me. She knows I'm about to cum and with a series of shudders I cum all over her tits, neck and shoulders. She keeps milking me until I'm too sensitive to be touched anymore. That was the first of three times I came that evening. I'm usually a one shot guy. In the following days I walked around in a near constant state of arousal, like a horney teenager. There are a lot of possibilities at a party like this. Everyone had different desires, fantasies and strategies. I just went with the flow and who I clicked with that evening. Although I had never previously met Dolce Mia and Jasmin Thai, I enjoyed their company so much I ended up spending most of the evening with them as my companians and I have to thank them for all the pleasure they shared with me. Since that evening I've been fortunate to see Jasmin again. Even though I knew both Victoria and Keissy, somehow our paths never crossed that evening. I do however remember hearing Victoria's passionate moaning and crying oui...oui...oui! After all her work organizing the event I was glad to hear her enjoying herself! As I said, there's a lot going on and you can't do it all! I'll forever be grateful to Victoria however for hosting the party and inviting me to attend. This was the first Libero Paradiso event, but I understand Victoria is planning more. All of the women I spoke to enjoyed themselves and will be returning along with a few more who were unable to attend the first event.
  45. 1 point
    Withpassion, in order to be in business, most, if not all ladies have some kind of public information somewhere available for clients/potential clients to contact them through whether it'd be via our website, email address, a phone number or even via PM on Cerb therefore providing another lady with that information is not an invasion of privacy. The point of asking for a refence is actually to check it ;) If not, what's the point of asking for one in the first place? I also do not think I am over the top when I contact a lady for a reference. I just think I am doing my due diligence in a pro-active manner. All I ask is- have you seen gentleman xxx and would you see him again if he contacted you for another get together. From there, I can assess the situation and accept or decline the request (also based on other factors). I'm sorry you feel like we are "over the top" if we actually go through with our screening process. To each their own, I guess. Not every SP requires references; it is a personal choice, one that has to be respected by all. A gentleman without a reference can easily see a lady who doesn't require references at first or contact the lady of his choice and explain his situation. You would be surprised how most of us will work with him and offer him other options. Asking for a reference is not about making a statement. It's about insuring our safety first and foremost. Maybe it's all non sense to you, from a client perspective, but as a companion, I see it under a very different light; I chose how I want to screen my new potential clients in a way that makes me feel most comfortable and I see it as time well invested and not as a waste of time. If a gentleman is not willing to provide me with a reference (even though he has some) then he has many other options to chose from... Not just in the process but in companionship too.
  46. 1 point
    I think that the difficulty may come from the fact this type of clients may not have the best reputation inside the SP community. The lack of care and concern in this comment is definitely a warning flag for me. I think this gentleman just kicked himself out of the curb...
  47. 1 point
    I just bring everything with me like always. I trust the lady i see and she's always with me anyway. =D
  48. 1 point
    Percy I think you might be doing a lot of walking. There is no security for the SP with only having an online email address of a person. These are easy for people to obtain with no verification.
  49. 1 point
    Here's a few quotes from Alexxxis (Pot.Of.Gold) so you know why I nominated her. Who else says this kinda stuff on here? If this doesn't make you want to visit her, what would? I know I do. "i need a real good facial." "I personally agree that GFE does consist of bbbj....as well as LFK/DFK & DATY" "actually - i was aiming for slutty." "i prefer BBBJ myself, but am willing to provide CBJ in exchange for a good spankin!" "i have to go and get this maid outfit that some of you have been begging for" "ps - the 10th visit is also half price, not just the first "5th", but EVERY 5th visit is 50% off!!" "leave the $ on my dresser and take your pants off." "let's all be clear that the type of parties that I host.....A GOOD BANG! (a gang one sounds perfect LoL)" "...and now im HORNY"
  50. 1 point
    I'd like to nominate Pot.Of.Gold. Although she is retiring, a lot of posts I've read from her are helpful, insightful, funny and all that good stuff. When I see a post from her, I tend to read it eagerly.
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