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Everyone has a first time! Having references makes screening faster and easier for us, but there are usually other ways. Tell the companion you've chosen that it's your first time and that you don't have references but that you're willing to provide other information. She may ask for your real name, to verify your employment, to have a telephone conversation, or for you to provide a non-refundable deposit, or some combination of these or other options. If you've chosen an established companion, you can be sure that your privacy and confidentiality will be guaranteed. She's just wanting to be sure that you're a real person, that you're not wasting her time and that you'll actually show up for the meeting once it's been scheduled. Have fun!

I decided to go out for supper tonight... The evening was nice and relaxing- food was excellent along with awesome service... then two ladies sat down at the table next to us while we were having the first few bites of our main meal... only to have our meals turn out tasting like a perfume factory... Why do some women have to wear SO much friggin perfume when going out and ruin it for everybody else? Needless to say we got our food to go... Additional Comments: Maybe I should've included what I said above in the "WTF" thread instead lol

I think roamingguy said it best. Those who try to put down others (for whatever reason) are trying to cover up their own faults and hide their own insecurities. Really we should feel sorry for them not only because they have a dark heart, or only because they are a loser and a trash in the eyes of the good and they are evil but mainly because they themselves have so much faults inside out that they have to resort to putting down others to feel good about themselves in order to cover their own self-shame (in their own eyes only).

First let me say....you are incredibly beautiful. (see post about St. Bernard lol) Second, yes I think its a problem, some women are naturally thin and some...feel the need to fit into a stereotype that is ridiculous. I often wonder why there is such pressure to be so thin and where it comes from, media obviously for a start. I wonder at what point did women start to say that what people want and thats what I need to be? Marilyn Monroe who was WOW for a lack of better word was a size? and stunning. Angelina Jolie? Just as stunning. Either side of shaming is horrible. Whether we (or others) feel we are too thin or overweight. Either is judged and there's no one who has "perfect" And yet...we all are. Perfect in our own unique individual ways. Tall slender and beautiful like peachy average? like myself or beautiful women that have all those lovely curves in all the right places! Society can go hang! lol As long as you are happy inside and comfortable in your own skin? its all that matters you are already perfectly perfect as you J xoxo

I grew up skinny and can relate. I was always teased.Then when you become a slender adult some will accuse you of not eating, purging, or other methods of gettig rid of your food. This can cause some to have eating disorders. It seems in the press someone is always being criticized for either being to small or to large. No matter what your size one will always be smaller or larger than someone else, the important thing is to be healthy. As there is beauty in all sizes. Most wouldn't admit to it but we all make judgements on someones appearence when first meeting them, wether conciously or not. Especially in this business. There is alot that can make a person attractive but certainly when a man is viewing a ladies pictures he is simply looking for his idea of physical beauty and that includes a certain body type/size. If we are all going to be honest anyone that is included on some of the best of threads has been judged as someones ideal of beauty and those left out have been, perhaps unintenionally, judged as well, as not being someones ideal of beauty by the mere fact of omission. In the end what is important for anyone is having a strong sense of self and knowing your worth. We are all valuable and everyone has redeeming traits/qualities. Some are just more obvious on some . But as judge Judy alway says beauty fades-dumb is forever and as I say getting into a book is far more fun than just staring at it's cover.:biggrin:

When a person tries to embaress another (btw this is just my opinion) for being overweight, underweight, short, tall, bald, their skin colour, ethnicity etc they are likely hiding their own insecurities about themselves. Really, shouldn't we just worry about being the best man or woman (as the case may be) we can be and stop focusing on others. Isn't it the person we are inside that counts My two cent, from a guy who is at an ideal weight if I were 7 1/2 feet tall RG

Your poem was incredibly touching, when I saw your reply I re-read it. It touched me again in a very different way. I think you are very brave to have brought up a subject that most would consider off limits but yet most of us at one time during our life have gone through. Its not an easy place to be though I've seen the devastation too many times in my life to not see how suicide shatters the the lives of the ones left behind. Parents, children spouses siblings their lives are forever changed in one moment. Nor will they, (especially children) ever understand why they werent loved enough for them to stay. Thank you for sharing this, brave, beautiful poem, and for taking the time to help people to understand. Jade xoxo

My first trip to Cuba....I have now been 8 times, and going for the 9th tis March:) My first time there was Christmas eve:) Was not sure if I would like to be away for Christmas, but thought it may be interesting to see the "spirit of Christmas" would follow me there or not.... I will have to say it sure did!! I managed to bring with me $1,000 and basically gave it away to those in need. I went to a small Catholic cathedral, for Christmas Mass, and there sitting a peu was this little young man around 11yrs, he had his younger brother of 4 years in his arms. No shoes on their feet, ripped cloths and the sweetest biggest brown eyes I have ever seen! I slipped to him 100.00 in convertible Paso as a gift to his family:) He looked at me with such surprise and big tears began to fall...mine and his! In the little bit of Spanish that I speak, told him to go straight home to Mama and Papa with that and not to let anyone know about it...and he did! A few days later, he seen me walking inn the market. He got his Mother and Father to come meet me. To this day, we remain Friends and are welcomed with open arms and open hearts! I love my Cuban family:) Cant wait to see them in March! Just another thought to add, I also met this awesome lady, I asked her if it makes her sad that she can not travel as we do, her answer was so enlightening for me...she said" But I do travel....through all of you I see the world!" That will never fade from my memory!

In my "other" life, I'm a figure and portrait artist. On that basis, I can say that, when it comes to images, the copyright often belongs to the photographer or artist who created the image. Public figures such as politicians and movie stars are not automatically accorded the same degree of privacy as private citizens. I'm allowed, for example, to take a photograph of the Prime Minister or the Queen and publish it or create artwork using it without their permission. This is why the papparazzi can cause so much trouble for popular figures, politicians, actors and the Royal family. They own the rights to the photographs and can often sell the pictures for considerable amounts of money. If I take a photograph of roamingguy (whom I've not met in person) and want to use it for commercial purposes, I should get him to sign a model release that gives me permission. But if I sell or give the photos to him, he will need to have my permission before he copies, alters, distributes or uses the photographs because I'm their creator. The creator of a photograph or other image has some leeway as long as the people in the image are not obviously identifiable. Getting model releases is extremely important when minors are the subjects of photos and other artwork. If there's an issue about using Steve McQueen's photograph, it's likely to be with the photographer who created it. Copyright on companions' photographs will vary, depending on the photographer. Because many of them are so personal and intimate, most respectable photographers will retain the right to use the photos as part of their own promotion material, such as their websites, but give the right to copy, alter and distribute the images to the lady herself. Things start to get murky when the photographs are taken by friends and relatives for one purpose but are later used for very different purposes, or when someone acquires private photographs and releases them by publishing them on the Internet, for example.

A sperm whale, a three foot long tongue and I could breathe through a hole in the back of my head. :Cunning:

Hello to my many friends here:) Although you know me, my lovely Maria Styles feels that she would like to have her profile opened here. She is sort of new to the industry, and is finding it difficult to find herself. She has been unfortunately exposed to the negative side of the industry in the past and is trying to find the all the positive side to this industry. Those negative experiences has seeped into her way of thinking:( She has seen a world of difference with working with me, but still needs a voice and support of her own. So I thought this could help her. I am encouraging her to open her own profile so that she can meet on line, the most amazing people! If it were not for the many ladies and men here, I too never would have known the since of pride and respect that one can experience in this community:) It is a lonely life at times to be in this trade, and with all the "gunk" clouding our own feeling on the subject it is hard to hear your own voice and feelings on the topic. I know for me at first it was the fact of living a double life that was the hardest to deal with. I was lucky enough to have met a few EXCEPTIONAL ladies in Ottawa that helped me threw that, and did "come out" to the ones that mattered in my life. Once I did that, I had so much freedom from my own conscience! For me, also it is the fact of doing good things for my life and future with the money I earn. 2 years ago I had no credit...now I do! 2 years ago I never paid taxes, therefore feeling like a non productive member to my comminity...now I do! 2 years ago could not hold a morgage with my bank...now I can! If you practice some self discipline and self control, making wise use of my cash has saved me from feeling useless, hopeless or like running in one spot! Anyone willing to witness their success, please do so in hopes to help new ladies like Maria...Just a few examples of when we --ucked up, and learned our lesson from it, then picked ourself up and becoming successful and strong business women because of it! I hope this thread will help any new SP out there find their way threw the maze of misconceptions of our trade:)

Georgiana sweet was as expected very pleasant. Her very pale skin was a real turn on (she is even paler than me!!!!!!) and her very sexy large pair of boobs and very sexy bum and very very pale, very soft very sexy skin which makes her unique among those many who I have seen and her blue eyes and black hair (my favorite complexion) as well. A GFE treatment as before. I have reviewed her extensively already and thanks again sweet Gia for accepting my invitation and being my guest once more.

Just received news that my Mother is being transferred out of hospital and back to her nursing home. The highlight, of course, is that for now she appears to be out of the woods and o.k. The downside, though, is back to the nursing home. All and all, though, I'm relieved. Hopefully life can get back to normal for a while. Porthos

I think I would be a bunny rabbit! :biggrin: Cute and cuddly... and loves to hump a lot!! :motion: Oh, and tasty too! ;)

A sea otter!! Soft fur, active, very playful, happy either alone or in a group, were almost extinct and...........who doesn't think that they are very cute :icon_wink:.

Although neither of these two songs are about body image judgements they express unversl sentiments which could be applied: Bruce Cochburn's Free to Be - "can it be so hard? To love yourself without thinkin' someone else holds a lower card" http://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=Free+to+be+Bruce+Cockburn John Prine's A Good Time - "You can laugh for the lack of something else to do. And no one will laugh and point at you" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iVWaYxnNiW8 It's that inner beauty that I admire and is important to me.

Slicing my ankle while shaving my legs. :(

I haven't wrote anything like this since high school. This is a poem I wrote the other night. I am curious what people are going to think its got a hidden twist. TORN I long for you every day and night. As I gaze into your eyes I see the light. I realize I Cannot be with you cause it ain't right. Flirting with you is a dangerous game, For I don't know if you feel the same. I'm tired of living life in vain. My desire for you grows strong. You are my salvation I crave for so long. I just don't know that we belong. Even though you're my fantasy. I know I cannot let it become reality. Society would not accept another casualty. You've cost me everything. But without I'm nothing. In the end I'm still hurting. I see other woman to help forget. So please don't object. I haven't met anyone yet. I cannot speak your name. People will think I'm insane. You're my only thoughts in my brain.

Anywhere there are dogs. They are comforting, always welcoming and never judgemental. Plus alot of fun and very interesting to watch. Every place is made better if there is a dog in it:biggrin:

My favorites would be Mallorca and Ibiza. Been there a few times over the years and have always had a blast!!! Great partying, amazing music and total sexual debauchery!!! On top of that the beaches are world class, the surfing is pretty decent and there are some pretty amazing restaurants.

iam a sucker for friendly "natives" who offer up fun and smiles,just because. bvi, small, laid back, safe, great snorkelling and better weather ireland, pretty, guinness and jamieson's, golf nz, all of the above, plus a NFLD feel spain, red wine, great beaches, great weather nfld, it is myfavourite place of all because of the people and now a world class scotch and golf facility

We shall all welcome her with open arms!

Just saw Horrible Bosses. It was pretty funny and Jennifer Anniston is one freakin hot "mature" mama!!!

Hi Sophia, Let Maria know that there are lots of people here to help and support her. We wish her nothing but the best. I'm sending her a long distance hug.:rockyou: Oh wait that's not a hug....hmmm can't find a hug icon oh well I'd give her a hug if I could. :)

Okay now I'm worried that Cap'n Crunch might send his lawyer The CrunchBerry Beast after me. Will they make me walk the plank?

I often find during the daytime, hardly any staff or they are busy with other things, liking nodding off,drinking coffee or with a customer, never had an issue with front desk staff small chain or larger hotels in Ottawa. I find the cleaning staff on just about every dam floor I go to when visiting, I just simply smile and say "Good Morning" Like I'm on a mission...then again....I am :)

Please convey my warmest greetings to Maria and tell her that on CERB, she will enjoy the company of people who are not only free thinkers but in the majority, are decent folk.

seen the Flight thought it was ok

Even if Steve McQueen didn't like it, he'd be well advised to research the Streisand Effect before doing anything stupid with lawyers...

Great advice in the previous posts. If you rush in with your head down, you'll look suspicious. Keep in mind that in 4/5-star hotels, the staff will go out of their way to greet you. Simply smile and nod.

Being relatively new to the industry and having had the pleasure of truly beautiful people, I may not have some of the wisest or most useful information but I am always here if a smile or shoulder is needed and I will offer my personal insights if asked. Start fresh from here and welcome to CERB where you will be appreciated!

I know how she feels Sophia. I remember the days of being afraid of the grid, living on it, being accountable for being an escort and it is the hardest hill to climb. Once you are at the top tho, there is no view like it! Welcome to our precious little corner of the world Maria! Send me a pm and we'll get to know each other... cat

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Horse....definitely a horse.....strong, independent and hung lol (oh yah and stubborn like a mule)

Thank you all, my friends. I'm having an awesome day. In this community I've found friendship and pleasure and beauty and love beyond my wildest dreams, or rather I've been able to live my wildest dreams. If I say that I love you all, please don't think I'm exaggerating. OK I'm a bit drunk but it's allowed on my birthday and I won't be sorry to have said this in the morning. :)

I want start off by thanking those who read the poem. I ask that you keep an open mind and that there is no reason for concern. Re-read the poem I know it sound like I'm talking about a person but replace that person with death. How easy it is to get misinterpited. I do suffer from depression and I deal with suicidal thoughts often. They are uncontrollable thoughts nothing more. It doesn't control my actions. With help I've learn to manage and to deal with them. There are lots of people out there that probably feel the same way, I ask them not to be ashamed of it. It is not your fault and you may not be able to control your thoughts. I too felt ashamed and scared to talk about. I know first hand how easy people who don't understand what we may be going through can react. I've lost friends over this cause they can't handle it or the freak out sometime they even look at you differently. For those of you who never experienced this please don't judge us or look at us differently we are still the same person. For a long time I was afraid to tell people how I feel because of reaction I've got in the past. I've lost 2 people close to me do to suicide in the past. It effected everybody around them and I believe they to we're to afraid to tell anyone cause no one new they were depressed. But I understand now why they did what they did. They may no longer be suffering but the just past their pain to their loved one. There are ways to help manage the pain, so don't be ashamed or afraid. If someone reaches out or talks to you about how they feel please don't over react just listen. I hope I shed a bit of light to some people on what I struggle with but I am strong and capable of getting through it. Even in my darkest hours I still have a choice. So please this is not a cry for help nor me seeking attention or help. I just want to open people's eyes and help them understand.

One of my favorite quotes: Be kind whenever possible. It is always possible. -Dalai Lama

Great question, I'd be a goat, they are all ways thinking, seem to take joy in what ever they are doing and can be such joyous jerks. Bonk

Regarding the "Front Desk Inspection" keep in mind this is a government town. Everyone is always checking their smartphone. When you enter the hotel, phone in hand, locate the elevators. Proceed directly to them while checking out your phone. You will fit right in!

Once again Miss Samanath, I suspect we were separated at birth... cat

Does anyone know good looking tall brunettes with good millage in CR working on Friday's around 6pm ? Thanks, Nick

Getting a big, sloppy wake-up kiss from a puppy who's obviously just snacked at the kitty cat potty box.

I've always found Sacha to be erotic as hell and a truly beautiful woman inside and out, go get some German, you'll have fun!

Something that should probably be added from the other side of the fence... a SP who's good at what she does will be able to make you feel like you're her favorite person in the world, and that she'd like nothing better than to spend every waking moment with you. But when you feel like that... it just means you've met someone who's very good at what she does, and although she may genuinely like you and enjoy seeing you, that doesn't mean she wants to do so all the time. Yes, SP/client relationships do - very occasionally - go beyond the strictly professional. That doesn't mean it's likely to happen to you, Gentle Reader, or that you should try to make it happen.

Just wanted to say that you're dead on with these notes, Ashley! I'd add that I try to make a special deal of a first meeting, and bring a little get-acquainted gift - always trying to make a lady feel appreciated (because I do :-) Re: timing - I have to admit I have lost track of time once or twice (including with you, as I recall :-) but that does not mean I am trying to push the time, and I try to get back on schedule when I do notice; I wouldn't want any SP to think it was uncomfortable for me to be reminded of the time, as I should have been watching it. It does help if there is a clock easily visible for a time check, even if we don't want to watch it constantly; and I think a professional SP should remind her client when time is getting down to the 10-15 minute mark. Finally, a question re: tips. As you suggest, I usually count the donation out ahead of time in an envelope. If I think the experience was especially enjoyable, I usually tip on the next meeting, by counting out the tip with that session's donation. That seems more discreet/polite than throwing extra money on top (especially if I paid at the start); but maybe it is better to tip directly after the experience? Opinions, ladies?

To return to the OP's questions... :) The ladies who have very active reco threads tend to be new to the industry, and younger. The ones who have been around a little longer (by which I mean more than a few months) tend to get recos far less often. This doesn't mean that they suddenly became bad at what they do... Bear in mind also that some SPs seem to actively solicit recos, whereas many don't, and some seem to actively discourage them. Bear in mind also that a low-volume SP will necessarily have a much lower pool of potential reco-writers. Finally, I think we guys are far less likely to write another reco for someone if we've already written one, so SPs who have a larger proportion of repeat and long-term clients are also likely to have far fewer recos. Of course, it's also possible that someone doesn't have recos because there's a good (ie negative) reason for that... but you won't find that out here, as the rules of the board dictate that the negative stuff doesn't get said. But if someone's really worth avoiding, people will say things like "can't comment publicly", or "PM me for details". That's often a bad sign. So, to conclude... you can't actually tell much from the fact that someone doesn't have a lot of recos.

Well put Ashley!! There is nothing more uncomfortable then those awkward moments. Most of us ladies want a good connection from the start with the gentlemen we see, it makes more of a pleasurable experience for the both of us;). The worst is being asked for a deal..really? We are not running an auction here, it is a business. We do not get time off with pay, sick days with pay or benefits. Also, I like to add; Think about what you write to us ladies first when you PM us, be kind and respectful with your questions, there is no bigger turn off then a rude and/or blunt question and your name. I take that as a insult and will not reply or see you. Take time to introduce yourself to us and say hello:).

I really enjoy doggy for the naughty, raw animalistic feel of it... And the ability for deep penetration. I find it best when it is slow too. Better to savour and enjoy the sensations with slow, long, deep strides. Faster jackhammer pumping is not always better, contrary to some popular belief (occasionally it is!). Sometimes I am a bad girl and just need to be bent over and showed who is boss. Doggy is also a perfect position to allow easy access for me to play with my clit while enjoying the cock! Double the pleasure! :) Cowgirl is also lots of fun, to be able to control the rhythm and pleasure. This is actually something that I have learned to really enjoy over the last couple years, and I continue to get better at it. I love to alternate between grinding forward and back, and then bouncing up and down. It is also another good position to play with my clit simultaneously. Cowgirl is fun because sometimes I just want to use guys as my personal sex toy! hehe! Yee haw! ;)