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For me, this is what I have experienced. I am a very attractive woman who is always dressed very nicely and also groomed the same. In my 9-5 career-I am someone with a very strong work ethic. I always go the extra mile-always obtain top notch references, have strong experience in a variety of sectors, plus I also have the maturity that ensures that I am there for the long haul, looking to establish a solid career by being dependable and efficient. IMHO, I would think thats what an exec would want for his assisant. Many times , for the past few years-I have obtained many ineterviews for jobs-that excuse my arrogance, but were perfect for me, my skills and personality too. However, once I arrive to the interview-there would be a pool of us ladies, waiting to be interviewed, and once the interviewer opens the door to call in the candidates-they start to give us the total look over from head to toe. You see many of these interviews, consisted of men who were basically only interested in having an assistant who fit their idea of hot. Forget the skills, attitude or experience. I personally feel that I have lost out on quite a few jobs due to my appearance-but at the sametime, they did me a favour because I would have a hard time working for people like that. Whenever I go to a bar-probably cause people are drinking-and just plain stupid-I always get at least one insult, regarding my appearance-because some loser in the bar thinks its so important for me to know that I am not his type-meanwhile the person who is spewing stupid shit is usually someone who I would not even touch with a ten foot pole-so whatevs... Within this business-I have been shunned a little bit-and I dont mean cause certain men wont see me due to my size. I am not referring to this -I am not trying to change anyones mind about what they like ;) What I mean about that is that there are quite a few guys who I see on occassion and regularly that would NEVER let other hobbiests know that they see me and like me too. Yes there are plenty of ladies who fit the bbw image on this site and other sites too, but very very few individuals will fess up to liking us. I realize the return visits are imperative for my business, but I gotta say nothing stings more than when you see one of the guys that you spend time with always make it a point to rec the ladies who are no more than 130 lbs, but never you...ouchy -wouchy ;) But hey-I deal :boobies:....could be alot worse ;) I really love the way I look-and do not have any desire to be what is usually considered hot. I love my giant breasts-my tummy, heavy bottom and thick thighs and will not change that for ANYBODY...that is what is most important!

This thread and those of a similar sort trouble me deeply. Body image and in particular negative body image and its terrible negative effects I have unfortunately experienced in loved ones. It's an area that is very easy for me to go off on a rant about condeming all main stream media (internet now included) for distorting and perverting the minds of generations with distressing perceptions of beauty and body image. I weep for my daughter. That said, I'll move in a different direction. Cliche, chiche, chiche, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", blaw, blaw, blaw. Deep down we all know that every one of those chiche's is correct but we too often let our own good sense get washed over by the wave of popular perception. As SP's each of you should easily grasp the never judge a book by its cover as I'm sure you all on many occasions have met someone that doesn't fit the physical mold so to speak but throughout the encounter develop the feeling that this is a truly wonderful person and vise versa. Beauty, sensuality, sexiness, hotness, has no foundation in the physical form and is derived completely from within. One of the most attactive, sexy women I have ever known happens to be a wonderful volumptous, buxom beauty. She first seduced me with only her eyes and smile and now I would love to just tear off her clothes and make love to her (she's now a dear friend so that's out but the thought crosses my mind just the same). Although, she definately would not fit into the mold that society has set for physical beauty (she'd probably need three molds) she exudes confidence and comfort in her own skin and within minutes thats what spoke to me. Lesson, own your body and love it. Once you do, that's what will be conveyed to everyone else within seconds. Hellen Keller saw more beauty in this world than most of us will ever see. Thats because she saw everything with her heart not her eyes. There have been numerous scientific experiments where individuals sat and looked only into the eyes on another individual, no other contact and could not see any more of them. After a short while those people reported feeling a romantic connection to that person and found them attractive. (I guess the eyes are the window to the soul.) Maybe I'm an old soul at heart and see the world differently but thats just me. Love yourself, embrace yourself and others will do the same.

and I'm sure there are other ladies other then the only 3 that are ever mentioned when ppl ask about Moncton. there are as well a HUGE chunk of people that (a)don't take part in forming at all or (b)don't believe in writing a huge description of everything in their encounter because they believe it is no one elses business Not trying to throw my name in the ring cause I barely bother with in call in Moncton these days I've been to busy it just Peeves me that people say the ONLY girls that are worth are the ones with recommendations, its not true. Even a gross junkie could get 1 person that loves her to write a glamorous recommendation as much as a beautiful goddess could.

This topic is a sensitive one for me. As a teen I was extremely over weight and got picked on really bad in highschool, "walking meat locker, ogre, etc....". These names affected me sooooo badly I became anorexic for a long time. My body image ran my life, I was soooo obsessed with being skinny I went down to a very unhealthy weight. The thing is once someone becomes anorexic there is no cure, it stays with you for life. Everyday I worry about what I eat, and what I look like. When I look in the mirror, I do not see what everyone else does, I see a huge whale who is disgusting. I have had people tell me how beautiful I am but it is hard to believe. The last couple of years I have been battling cancer, and the side effects of the treatments I have been getting is weight gain. I am once again unhappy with my weight. It does not matter how little I eat or how much I work out the weight has been taken out of my control. So to anyone out there who has been struggling with a weight control disease (anorexia/bulimua), you are not alone. To anyone who puts people down for their weight/body image, shame on you! My best friend is a male who is extremely under weight, his whole life he has been picked on and teased for being too small. People have advised him he isn't eating enough, etc.... This is not funny for him, he has tried to gain weight and no matter what he tries he is just a small man. I always tell him he is perfect just the way he is, but like me he has been teased and tortured for sooooo long he no longer believes he is ok. Sorry I had to chime in on this issue as it is very close to my heart, as I see people everyday suffering because of someone else's ideal on how people should look.

Body shaming can happen to anyone at any size...too big or too small. The point is We have to love ourselves. I believe We can be our own worse enemies.

Hello to my many friends here:) Although you know me, my lovely Maria Styles feels that she would like to have her profile opened here. She is sort of new to the industry, and is finding it difficult to find herself. She has been unfortunately exposed to the negative side of the industry in the past and is trying to find the all the positive side to this industry. Those negative experiences has seeped into her way of thinking:( She has seen a world of difference with working with me, but still needs a voice and support of her own. So I thought this could help her. I am encouraging her to open her own profile so that she can meet on line, the most amazing people! If it were not for the many ladies and men here, I too never would have known the since of pride and respect that one can experience in this community:) It is a lonely life at times to be in this trade, and with all the "gunk" clouding our own feeling on the subject it is hard to hear your own voice and feelings on the topic. I know for me at first it was the fact of living a double life that was the hardest to deal with. I was lucky enough to have met a few EXCEPTIONAL ladies in Ottawa that helped me threw that, and did "come out" to the ones that mattered in my life. Once I did that, I had so much freedom from my own conscience! For me, also it is the fact of doing good things for my life and future with the money I earn. 2 years ago I had no credit...now I do! 2 years ago I never paid taxes, therefore feeling like a non productive member to my comminity...now I do! 2 years ago could not hold a morgage with my bank...now I can! If you practice some self discipline and self control, making wise use of my cash has saved me from feeling useless, hopeless or like running in one spot! Anyone willing to witness their success, please do so in hopes to help new ladies like Maria...Just a few examples of when we --ucked up, and learned our lesson from it, then picked ourself up and becoming successful and strong business women because of it! I hope this thread will help any new SP out there find their way threw the maze of misconceptions of our trade:)

I personally love women of all sizes but prefer a woman with big beautiful CURVES! Any man that tries to shame a big, beautiful, confident woman for not fitting his narrow minded view of the world, doesn't deserve to lay eyes on her! Shame on all who can't appreciate beauty in all forms! P.S. Vanessa, I guarantee, you were the HOTTEST woman in that interview room and the guy probably didn't hire you because he knew he'd never get any work done while starring at your perfect body!

speaking as someone who had a shaved head under a wig for ten years and used to pass it off as 'extensions" i will say that hair (whether big or sleek or sprayed or dyed etc)...is all up to the eye of the beholder...but also more importantly a mere accessory to the lady that dons it. how many times have you seen a woman from behind whos hair was gorgeous, long and wavy....then she turned around and was butt ugly and then said to yourself "gah!" its not the hair...but the lady underneath or the face to sport that crazy style that makes it work. I will say that as a model i got waaay more work with a shaved head because I had the face that supported it. I loved it. many clients have scowled at the fact that since growing my hair back I've decided to put a red and blonde streak in the front of my hair and rock a bit of a pompadour aside from my pony-tail...they say "i wish you wouldn't do that to your hair (and motion to the colour and hair-spray) and these were regulars of mine I'd had for over a year!.."it was so much nicer and classy when it was natural" and all I can think without saying is "oh you're right...because i was totally thinking of YOUR opinion when I decided to express my inner style" {note the sarcasm}...I'm still the same classy gal...a red and bleached blonde streak and some hairspray isnt going to change that :) Some ladies work very hard to make themselves look nice for their work. but if a hairstyle turns ppl off so much that they cannot see the woman behind it (whether bald or done up), I dunno....perhaps this is just a skin-deep (or hair-deep) hobby to them.

I understand what Peachy is trying to convey and that this is not about big vs. skinny. Having endured an overweight childhood, I am all to aware of how nasty bullies can be. Luckily for me it ended when almost overnight at age 14, I became 6'6" tall and developed into a decent athlete with considerable effort. Well, all I really wanted to say is that obesity is one of the last things that seems politicaly acceptable to ridicule. Whereas if someone is being skinny shamed, the shamer usually at least couches it by pretending to be concerned with anorexia, if the shamee is obese, they are just a fat slob who can't control thier appetite. Peachy, I'm not trying to contradict you, I'm a Peachy post fan!

5:00pm, actually! Though girls (1 to maaaybe 3) don't generally get onto the floor until 5:15ishand stage shows don't start until 6:00pm or so.

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Wow!! Love your new avatar!! While suicide is often associated with sadness or despair, please understand that is not always the case. We all have to die some day. Some of us would prefer to choose the time and method, rather than putting ourselves and our loved ones through whatever chance deals us. When I was younger, I rode motorcycles, skydived, raced. I accepted that I might meet an early death. But I didn't. So many people have said to me, "oh, you're so lucky your parachute always opened!" and I think to myself, "yeah, because now I have a greater shot at dying after some period of agony, humility and disability, pissing and shitting myself in some bed. How lucky for me!" I've lived a joyful life. When I go, I want to make a joyful choice. I think we need to respect those who choose suicide. We have each other while we have each other, and we'd do better to remember that while we do. It will be my choice if fate does not interfere, whether anyone respects it or not. It's not our place to second guess people on a matter like this. Additional Comments: See the movie "Harold & Maude."

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While I agree there is all sorts of shaming out there, I have to say - this is somewhat of a first for me, that women who have the body shape that is usually (95% the time) considered to be perfect...to be criticized or shamed. Just imagine how the people who do not fit into the perfect category feel. People like that (myself included) see, hear and witness negative comments regarding appearances that do not fit into societys idea of perfection, on a daily basis...and its not just via a few blogs here and there-it is everywhere. As for the online hate stuff-I find that the ones who say the most negative and vile stuff, are usually the kinds of people with very, very little going on in their lives-and use the web as their personal outlet to say things they would never dare say to anyones face because they are usually very weak in many aspects.

Hello everyone. I was curious about CMJ for a while and was interested in doing the membership thing with them but then recently heard about an east end location for them. Has anyone heard about it or visited it? If so, how was the experience. Also, do you know the general are of the east end it is in? I know on the CMJ site they tell you the general street intersection it is located but they provide no such info for the east end one. Any recommendations on specific ladies would be appreciated as well.

I don't know why, but several of the posts over the last few days have been quite nostalgic. So, I'm wondering if anyone would care to share their first SP experience.. What made you decide to see an SP? How did you choose one? Was it a positive experience? And anything else that might be interesting.... I bet there are lots of folks who read these boards who haven't yet taken the "leap". These stories might well help... :-) Thanks in advance to all who choose to post. OA Posted via Mobile Device

Hello! In barely one month I will be going to Japan (March 21st-April 13th) I will mainly be staying in Tokyo and mostly have my Itienary planned, but I'm always open to opinions I will be spending one week in Osaka/Kobe/Kyoto but plans are not confirmed yet... I am looking for places to visit and hotel/hostel to stay Any infos would be greatly appreciated :D

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My advice to Maria is your true and best friend is yourself and your intuition, trust in it as it will guide you to and from those you should and shouldn't interact with. Don't listen to gossip, be good to those who are good to you and ignore the negative. No matter where you go or what occupation you choose there will be those rooting for your success and those who will try and tear you down. You, are in good hands with Sophia, best of luck and have fun.:icon_biggrin:

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The contract is also about Copywrite to pictures The agency may use. If you sign the release form this protects me from future issues about using those photo's at the time that the lady is working for the agency. Also does not allow her to use the photo's for her own use during her working for the agency. Also a contract verifies that I have ID checked the lady before working here. It also makes the lady responsible for her own taxes. As I pay my taxes and claim certain things, she also needs to pay taxes, just as any sub contracting position. Also will protect the business in the case of a lady who is sneaking drugs into the business. As it strictly states no one under the influence of alcohol or drugs will be allowed to continue with the agency. So that it shows clearly the agency does not endorse or tolerated this kind of activity. Just as many website contain the phrase" what happens between 2 consenting adults, is a private matter, and all monies are for exchange of time spend." This is many regards is also a contract to the reader, as he clicks enter he has agreed to the terms. Web site are not considered soliciting, as it is not considered a public domain.

I have had some experience with those that dont seem to understand that each woman is unique and what works with one wont work with another. Anyone who goes at the same breakneck speed and does not change their tempo or position will wear the kitty out. I find that after I have had several orgasms, and the big O, kitty is not interested in anymore penetration. She dries up and no amount of lube will make it enjoyable anymore, and actually hurts. After this happens, its game over for a few days till kitty is recovered. I understand wanting to get your moneys worth. You work hard for your money and want to make sure that at the end of the session, you are fully satisfied. Just remember the kitty is not meant for extended penetration. The porns make it look like this is how it is supposed to be, but in reality, my best O's have been with everything else, then some penetration - maybe the maximum of 15 minutes of penetration. And remember, who needs a 12 inch cock when we have a 6 inch pussy? I still remember a client who would pound away for 55 minutes. No foreplay, just a jack hammer while I grit my teeth. Needless to say, I would not book him after a couple of sessions and no amount of explanation would get him to understand that all he needed was a hole in the wall. After you have had great lovemaking, its kinda hard to go with this type of mentality that we are just an object for their pleasure and that they paid for 60 minutes to fuck me.

Welcome to Cerb!! You will find the law of attraction strong here as everywhere else. Be true to who you are and I promise you will find the very best friends on here. Never be discourged and maintain self, you are totally worth it. Love yourself and it will most certainly be returned to you. Love Katherine xo

Hey sweetie Maria. You are amongst some of the nicest people in this business. I have met some truly wonderful people here, and they have been there in good times and bad. This is not the easiest business to be in. It takes nerves of steel and a bundle of confidence in yourself. Dont ever let anyone knock you down. They are just trying to bring you down to their level, and you do not deserve to be there. Please feel free to PM me is you ever want to talk or have a question. You are amongst friends. hugs and positive vibrations. Meaghan

My ex-wife was strange... still is... does that count?

Sophia, glad to see you helping out. This really can be an isolating life choice and in particular for the ladies. I also have no doubt that its easy to get exposed to the worst parts and feel it is all that way. Well from my standpoint it isn't all bad and in fact this little community of CERB is extremely understanding and supportive. In the end Maria may make other choices but I would encourage her to first experience the positive aspects of a place like CERB before determining its 'all bad'. Maria, you'll find a great deal of support from the ladies and if you ever want a guys view, Sophia can direct you to some that will happily discuss with you while having your best interests at heart. Myself included. Good Luck. XO Cub

BP is a good source where a large number of ladies advertising if you love the variety as I do but picking from BP is also very risky (obviously for unknown ones not the ones already reputable) so be very careful when picking ladies from this site especially if they have no reviews or recommendations anywhere. Yes Cowboy's diary is a great source but also I personally ask a lot of questions via text, email or direct call. Yeah you may scare most of them away by these questions but you improve the likelihood that what you get is a good provider (in terms of looks and services) with real pictures and legal too. These are my personal (some recently added) rules when calling on BP (some may not agree that is why I said my personal rules). 1 - Outcall safer (for you) as no one hidden in closet or will block your way out if you refuse and since seeing a provider in outcall situation is 100% legal then you can always call the police if any wrong doing and she knows that (and she can too but I am a nice guy!!). 2 - Search for her number and if more than one girl is advertised by that number then it is a red flag, unless it is a reputable agency. 3 - Make it a prerequisite that the lady who shows up must be the one in the pictures otherwise it is a cancellation without any penalty. 4 - Make presenting an ID a prerequisite for those advertised between 18 to 20 upon arrival (and make ID mandatory if you suspect under 20 after her showing up in your agreement). If ID refused then make an agreement that it is a cancellation without penalty. 5 - Make an agreement on services that you require. Agree to pay the transportation fee (usually $40) and cancellation fee ($40 to $60) if the lady decides not to provide those services after seeing you and wishes to leave. For incall just a cancellation fee to be agreed upon. Be cool about it. remember it is always ladies' choice. But if she agrees to stay and refuses to provide agreed services, then it is a cancellation without any penalty. 6 - Agree to pay the transportation fee (for outcall) and cancellation fee above if the girl was the one in pictures but still you didn't wish to go ahead with the date (photo shopped pictures) and she must agree to leave with that fee not in full. 7- Let her know that it is important to you that she must be in this willingly. 8- After texts and emails are exhausted always call (to make sure she is the one picking the phone) and talk to the girl directly and see if she was really the one who read all the texts/emails and is aware of the details and agreements. Also convey your address (in outcalls) verbally when calling (not in text or email) and ask her to write it on a piece of paper. If you call and no one picked the phone that is a big red flag. In about 40% of cases you won't get any response and in about 30% of cases you get a negative response but in about one-third of cases you will get a positive response and then there is a 90% chance that it is a successful hit. You wish for a higher than 90% hit ratio then limit yourself to reputable cerb SPs and those on EC (with consistent recommendations on both boards). Do your homework (research) and avoid questionable sites like BP, CL and O@N.

Make sure you look after yourself, and that single-malt will taste all the better when you get the chance to enjoy it.

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In reality condoms do have the potential to reduce some of the sensation during various sexual acts. However, in my experience there are many creative ways to make up for this issue. A mear adjustment of sexual position can easily increase the pressure and friction on the penis resulting in enhanced pleasure ie. any position where the ladies legs are pressed tight together. Additionally, the simple act of pulling back on the shaft/skin of the penis during either oral or penatration can easily kick it up a little. Be creative! If straight up missionary is not doing the trick mix it up until you find that sweet spot! Lets not forget that a very large portion of sexual enjoyment is mental so really let your mind get into it. Quite frankly, even the thought and mental picture of watching myself slowly enter a beautiful woman and hear her breathing change as she accepts me is enough to send me over the edge. Oh my! On that note I think I'm spent! Chuck

I thought I was ready for a toy. She had a small miniature vibrating toy that you insert. I felt it vibrate, I panicked and farted. I blew it off the end of the bed. I will stick to fingers, thank you very much. Justin ( with an ass as tight as a mouse's ear ) Additional Comments: I thought I was ready for a toy. She had a small miniature vibrating toy that you insert. I felt it vibrate, I panicked and farted. I blew it off the end of the bed. I will stick to fingers, thank you very much. Justin ( with an ass as tight as a mouse's ear )

Big hair applied to guys in the 80s as well. I rocked the big hair look a la platinum blonde/ howard jones, but not quite like the flock of seaguls lead singer, I had a thin red leather tie too, everyone did, hey it was the 80's. For those of you that know me now I'm sure you're having a good laugh at my expense trying to picture me with big 80s hair. That being said there's a certain appeal to big hair on a woman, but it's hardly practical and when it comes to play time you're bound to get something caught in there that shouldn't be !

Start by checking this site out here... www.cowboysdiary.info to make sure the ladies you are interested in are NOT mentioned on this man's site ;) It will save you both time and money :boobies:

Good luck out west. As a guy who has traveled west and come back home I await your return :).

We live in one screwed up world. I don't understand what drives people to put others down. Is it simply a way in which some people build themselves up by tearing others down. You don't look like me, so there is something wrong with you. You don't find the same sort of woman, man, whatever, attractive, so you must be weird. It just goes on and on. This is a beautiful world, full of people who are diverse in their looks and likes. That's what makes it so amazing. We need to embrace difference ... explore it, revel in it, and enjoy it. oh ... and if it hasn't been said enough: Peachy my dear, you are beautiful ... inside and out.

Jabba, it's not itchy when it grows back as long as your not wearing panties on your head.

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I grew up skinny and can relate. I was always teased.Then when you become a slender adult some will accuse you of not eating, purging, or other methods of gettig rid of your food. This can cause some to have eating disorders. It seems in the press someone is always being criticized for either being to small or to large. No matter what your size one will always be smaller or larger than someone else, the important thing is to be healthy. As there is beauty in all sizes. Most wouldn't admit to it but we all make judgements on someones appearence when first meeting them, wether conciously or not. Especially in this business. There is alot that can make a person attractive but certainly when a man is viewing a ladies pictures he is simply looking for his idea of physical beauty and that includes a certain body type/size. If we are all going to be honest anyone that is included on some of the best of threads has been judged as someones ideal of beauty and those left out have been, perhaps unintenionally, judged as well, as not being someones ideal of beauty by the mere fact of omission. In the end what is important for anyone is having a strong sense of self and knowing your worth. We are all valuable and everyone has redeeming traits/qualities. Some are just more obvious on some . But as judge Judy alway says beauty fades-dumb is forever and as I say getting into a book is far more fun than just staring at it's cover.:biggrin:

Go with an experienced provider, and explain your situation and your concerns. You won't come across like a bumbling idiot, and you'll leave feeling great about yourself. I think that since entering this lifestyle I've become more comfortable with my sexuality, developed better skills, and in general learned a lot ... both about myself and about how to please a woman. I've tried things (and enjoyed them) that 15 years ago i could never have even imagined. In some ways, if you don't feel like you're very skilled, that's a really good reason to see a professional. You'll do fine, and over time you'll do even better. And believe me, you're not going to get laughed at or made to feel badly about yourself. You'll be treated well, and develop more and more confidence. Go forth and have a great time. Porthos

Speaking from experience, I know when I first started in the hobby, I found it very difficult to pick up the phone and call a service provider. Being a bit shy, it often took me a while to build up the courage to take that first step. Once I discovered CERB, it was a lot easier - I could use a PM to make that first contact and have a bit of back-and-forth correspondence with a lady. Sometimes it leads to an encounter, sometimes it doesnt. But it should still be polite and friendly. I'm thinking some of these one-liners might be on the shy side, and unsure what to say or how to open up the lines of communication. "Hi" might be all they can manage with the first contact. That being said, those that send out the "Available? Rate? Location?" texts or PMs simply lack class and respect! It's so easy to read a lady's ad, profile and/or website, find their preferred means of communicating, and touch base accordingly.

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Happy Birthday Dude hope you have a great day.

I'll give this a shot, but I think it would be great for some of our ladies here to share their first time SP stories as well ... I'm sure there are some interesting stories there. For me, it was about 3 1/2 years ago when I first contacted Tracey at Ottawa Play Girls and arranged to visit Trish. I was way too shy to phone OPG, so my first contact was via OPG's website. Fortunately, Tracey wrote back or I still may be waiting. I was very nervous, and didn't last very long, Trish was wonderful, and we have had many visits since. I feel lucky as I really cant say that I have ever had a really horrible visit with any lady (maybe a couple close calls). But that involves taking the time to do my homework and try to find ladies that I know I'm going to have fun with.

As per the SP's request I can not mention the agency or her identity. My first time was in November 2010. I contacted an agency and asked for a specific lady I saw on there web site. This was a Safe GFE two hour session. She turned out to be every bit as beautiful as her pictures. She is tall, slim, fit blond with blue eyes and in her early 30"s. (She is not a member of CERB) We started off chatting and almost ran out of time. We did manage to get some play time in. I won't bore you with the details ;-) , but she was incredible! As she was leaving she handed be a card with her e-mail address on it. She said "I'm your little secret". I saw her four more times that month and every time she was amazing. Now I see her once or twice a month. We always start off with tea and chatting, followed by some play time ;-) , then finish the session with some more tea and chatting. She even touches base with me if I get bussy and forget to contact her. Did I mention she is an incredible kisser. I must say I lucked out with this one of a kind lady. Cheers, BTW I am seeing her again tomorrow evening.