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That's what I need to do for sure. Every day I'm all 'I'm gonna clean my house from top to bottom!' then think...where did the day go, lol For me, I realize that when I REALLY want to do something, I can. I quit smoking because I wanted to, and it was easy. I decided a year-and-a-half ago that I wanted to get a car, so I got my G1, took drivers ed, and got my G2 and a car all in less than a year. But I also said last year I was going to learn to speak French over the winter. I failed. I've also said I'm going to cut junk food out, and I don't. I know that I am the reason these things aren't happening. I could do them. But I don't feel like committing the time to learning/I like eating the occasional pack of pretzel M&Ms. If either thing becomes a real need, or a real problem, then I am certain I can take care of it. But for now as much as I may say I want to learn/stop eating junk...I'm kinda enjoying things as they are

How hard is it to quit smoking? You join the gym do you go? Trying to lose weight? Cutting back on something? Whatever it is it can be tough so I was thinking why not have a motivation thread for your goals. A place you can post accomplishment or milestone. Maybe give advice on ways to help motivate or achieve? And there no shame either in asking for advice? Its been 4 months since I decide I need to change my lifestyle. I was going down a dark path alone. I was very unhappy and physically losing my health because I just didn't care. I've been going to the gym regularly several time a week. I've changed my eating habits which is difficult at times. Cut fast food out of my life along with soda. At first I would crave these things but now I don't. I may not be on a huge diet but cutting out the worst things in my diet was helped wonders. As for being happy for sure I have my ups and down but I had an exquisite beautiful lady told me to think positive stuff, don't look at the negative and smile. It's helped quite a bit. I also learned take time for myself, helping others all the time is not alway good if you don't take time for yourself. I still have some ways to go but, it's vast improvement.

again this is not an exact science..., (thast the beauty of it! always different, and fun)there is many factors that will change depending onm each MPs, even the MAs... As mentiion in many other threads, general information helps, but one cannot make assumptions. If you are interested in a particulare lady (ies) communicate, and ask pertinent questions or a particular MP, also contact management and I am sure they will also answer questions as best as possible!

Peachy, the activities I offer, or am invited to partake in, generally run along the lines of lunch or dinner, going to the theatre, a private party, gallery opening, book or poetry reading. I charge social rates for these events. I am also willing to go to dungeons and to kinky events, assuming that the prospective client meets my screening requirements, and my fees are significantly higher then. In those cases, the dungeon or event hosts have insurance that covers participants and in some places we'd need to sign waivers, accepting that there's a risk of injury for which the management is not responsible. I have third party liability insurance for my home which should take care of anyone being injured if, say, there's a fire or someone trips on a carpet and falls down. I think that for most activities, you don't need to worry. You're just two people who are doing something together, like playing tennis or jogging. You're not assuming extraordinary responsibility for your client or representing yourself as someone who has particular expertise upon which the client can depend. If you're really worried about something, though, check with a lawyer.

go with the LEd battery candles.... some of them smell and feel like wax...and flicker real nice.....some even have remote controls...... they come in all sizes and styles.... and no mess.....

I pretty much only receive at my place, and never had to worry about anything. It should not be more difficult, nor more worrysome, than going to visit on an incall if you discuss it with a reputable lady. In these cases, nosy neignbors or not, it just looks like someone is visiting you.

One of the first think you may want to consider is your choice of words. Because an MP doesn't provide FS doesn't mean she isn't worth seeing. What will make your first time worth it is based on your expectations. What is it your looking for is what you have to figure out. Reading recommendation threads on SPs and MPs will help. Also look at the ads, profiles and websites(if available) of ladies that you might be interested in. Often services are described. One thing for sure, your choice of words and how you approach a lady is of the upmost importance. Its all about Respect!!!!

Its a great idea, there is more to companionship and an encounter than intimacy and sometimes people need ideas put in front of them. It is some excellent to add to what is already available and you will probably attract some new clients from it. Im not sure what type of social activities you are interested in offering, but unless it is some extreme sport or bull running I cant understand what you would be thinking about requiring insurance? If you and I go bungee jumping and I get hurt, are you responsible for my actions, not at all. Your responsible when your client leaves drunk after a few drinks and drives and causes an accident. How you worded the being active was great and I highly doubt anyone wishing to be active with you would have an issue with you not being a trainer as long as your upfront with it.

Hey there!! I'll be visiting your city and just wanted to introduce myself! I'm also just wondering if there's a lot of ebony lovers out there!;) Perhaps you can mention what you love most about us chocolate girls!

I think most of us feel more comfortable in our own space so in that sense I prefer hosting however, I do enjoy outcalls and understand that is more convenient for some gentlemen. I feel more at ease when is with someone I have met or have communicated for a while but I do not worry about safety as I would not meet someone I have concerns about for incall either. The only thing I would not feel comfortable with and I'm not saying is wrong just is not for me, is to visit someone at the place he shares with someone, particularly when that someone is a SO. I find is a bit disrespectful (and I'm talking on my side, I do not judge the other person views on it) and also there is a certain level of risk as even when the other person is not expected things happen and plans change and having the person show up while I'm there would change a nice date to a disaster one.

Ummmm..... if you two plan on cutting back on social networking then quit facebook or lavalife or Fat Bastards Review Board or something.... But keep posting here cause posts like the two above make my day and I am sure many other guys here too ;)

As a recent newbie myself, I totally agree with nobody123's comment.

I'd like to add a caveat to the answers Styler has received. There will be no bait and switch, theft, or any other shenanigans as long as you visit one of the well known and recommended massage providers or visit one of the licensed establishments in town. But if you choose a random encounter with an unknown from, say, BP or somesuch, then you are running some risk. Maybe not the same risk as a random unknown SP, but some risk nonetheless. It never hurts to do your homework. Having said that, don't be chicken. Dive in! Book yerself a massage today, durnit! It's a safe, fun, and perfectly legal activity that will leave you smiling and relaxed.

Maybe it's because I'm a newbie and don't understand all the rules here but your post seemed a little angry to me and I don't understand why. The guy was asking about a fantasy he had so I would think that kind of thing wouldn't be out of the norm here. You seem to imply it's a $$ thing which even if it is I don't see why that would bother you, I'm assuming that would be between the client and the lady. He wasn't asking anyone for a discount. Sorry if I'm talking out of line I'm just surprised at the reaction to a new member's fantasy.

To add another voice, there are those MP's like myself who provide both services depending on what you might be looking for. Best to research the ladies you're interested in as most have websites or reco's that could provide the answers you're looking for. If not, say hello and inquire. Both services have their own beauty and each should be explored as you're able. Good luck with finding the right SP for you!!

Being a hobbyist who almost exclusively opts for outcalls, I see no problem with it. As long as you stick to reputable and recommended ladies, you should have no issues. If you're a bit apprehensive, I'd suggest you book an upscale hotel room for your first appointment with them. That way, you can meet someone new on a neutral turf before inviting them to your residence. I did that for many years, with much success.

I have done outcalls in the past and will continue to do them just as long as I get proper verification. I also check in with someone before and after while I'm on an outcall. As long as you know the SP is reputable and discrete in her behaviour and how she dresses, you should be fine. When I first started out with an agency, I would get the driver to drop me off a few houses down so no one would see a car pulling up. I also dressed tastefully so I wouldn't draw any attention to myself.

Thats pretty much it generally speaking, but is always best to talk to the lady, ies that interest you to find out what the offer or not. Additional Comments: Agrium description of an MA service is absolutely correct, our focus as MAs is directed towards sensuality, tease and erotism... More than in the actual finish! Is about the entire experience!

In my experience an MP usually offers a happy ending via HJ(sometimes a Russian), however the focus of the service is far more directed at massage/sensual touching/teasing/etc. Its worth a call to ask if you are still unsure ;)

Ahem. I believe the issue here was about nasty business experienced by a client when he was dealing with a provider. Let it be said that I have NEVER had to share that experience in the world of paid companions... or mystery house guests who want to have sex with me if I leave a money laden envelope in plain sight... or magical princesses transported to my location from the sexy planet of Humpalottus.... the vast majority of women in this industry are far more diligent about the delicate matters of pooter maintenance than women in the vanilla world. That's a fact, Jack. That being said, ladies, if you wouldn't be willing to rub a finger inside and stick it under your nose and then in your mouth, the likelihood is that your cooch is a scary place. It's the same thing with foreskin... if you think you smell cheese, it's a BAD thing. Go to the shower, set the pulsating massage head to POWER WASH grab some soap and have at it... repeat until you would go down on yourself, you sexy soapy hygienic beast, you. As for the post coital shower... ummmm... if you are a client, knock yourself out. Take that shower. Scrub like a demon. Apply sparkles to your junk. You deserve it ... you are one handsome, satisfied and ultra clean dude. But... again if you are a client... ummmmm.... why do you care if she showers AFTER the fact and in your presence? She knows she has to maintain and frankly it's none of your business where or when it gets done! Your transaction or mystery visit or whatever the hell you want to call it is OVER. Jeebus. and now, a song... sung to the tune of Carolina in the Morning... me, me, me, me (that's just doing some vocal exercises... feel free to join) Nothing could be finer than to have a clean vagina for your session, Nothing could be sweeter than to have a cleaner wiener for your session, Yelling dirty stories Screamed through the door, And orgasmic glories Rattling the floor. Rolling with a girlie with a necklace made of pearly in the session, No longer you're a loner cuz she's playing with your boner in the session, If I had Aladdin's lamp for only a day, I'd make a wish and here's what I'd say: Nothing could be finer than to have a clean vagina for your session. I'm a freakin' musical genius....

I had one employee that I interviewed and hired a few years ago. She was actually brilliant at her job and I was please with my choice as an employee. However, over a little time she would innocently flirt with me and find reasons to have to come and talk to me about whatever projects she happened to be working on and being that she was 15 years younger than me I admit I found it cute and endearing. From time to time I definately would daydream about laying her up on my desk pulling up her skirt and going down on her then turning her around and ...... I digress. It was all "just daydreaming" until one day she came into my office and closed the door. I had no idea what she was up to until she turned and sat infront of me, she was crying. She opened up to me about her life and boyfriend and their problems and how he had cheated on her. She went on for a little while and I just listened but eventually she stopped reached over and touched my hand across the desk and said, "why couldn't he be like you". She just didn't say another word just stared at me and waited for my response. In my head alarm bells were ringing and I was like, "oh fuck, awkward moment". In my wisdom, I went off on a speech about youth and love and how she had so much more to experience and how there was surely a perfect person out there who whould cherish her in the way she deserved and maybe she could use the opportunity to make a fresh start in her life. I told her to look and wait for the silver lining. After I finished my talk I told her to go home for the rest of the day and just deflate. As soon as she left I picked up my phone and made a few calls and called in a couple of favours. The next day she mysterously got a call from a head hunter from one of my competitors who happen to need someone of just her skillset as a manager for one of their departments at a considerable pay and responsibility increase. That week she resigned and took the new job excited that such a great opportunity just found her just when she needed it. To this day she has no idea how it happened. My fantasy could have very easily become reality but that's not me to take advantage of any situation. I just need to find another fantasy now, a safer one. Chuck

I find it interesting that she can be in St. John's NL, and Halifax at the same time... (As indicated on the St. John's BP site). I didn't know human cloaning was possible just yet.

Dont worry, its all taken cared of....

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Thanks for sharing your stories with us. It's difficult to share some of your struggles sometimes but hopefull you'll find some motivation or just a an ear to listen here in our largly anonymous community. Sometimes just hearing that others out there share in your struggle and understand really helps. For me, just knowing that someone else is "real, vulnerable and human" endears them to me. Best of luck with your health.

I know that soy candles for one burn clean which is why they are preferred as they produce no smoke. Sara Peyton has a line of LED Candles at Lawton's that are inexpensive and beautiful and even have some wax in them for an authentic look and feel. They are remote controlled and one set even has the flickering and moving "flame"

Although I remain loyal to lit candles (I've always had them around my home), the LED ones are great for those with pets, kids, asthma etc.. My cat has a tendency to plunk her butt right on tealights, so the non lit ones help with her lol You can get them at drugstores, canadian tire, walmart, home decor stores/shops.. anywhere that sells home products usually has them Cristy :)

Kingston is really small so you can never really be anywhere out of the way more than 10 minutes max ..i am the hotel connaisseur if you ever have any questions... Theres a few options in ktown....the only area I personally HAVE NOT stayed while working is the waterfront. -- the only part of town where there is a lack of and a cost for parking (daytime weekdays) and its pricier and more distracting lol..but people do request downtown sometimes and its really nice for sure but, Options: -division st-401 (days inn, comfort inn, holiday inn, new marriot) super traveler friendly -mid princess st: (ambassador. peachtree, travelodge, comfort inn midtown) pretty secluded if youre wanting to be a tourist on foot but its absoloutely ideal I would boycott new motel 6 by the truck stop - not sp friendly (ie staff) and not easy to find & the address doesnt come up on gps (very inconvienient)

I am going to stick with Kayla for best BBBJ. I think next time I will ask her about CIF or maybe CIM. It may be there, but I will never know unless I ask!

Something else to consider, the presence of sprinklers in the hotel room (I'm a outcall type of guy) One encounter involved a birthday cake for a special lady given from another special lady and myself. There are sprinklers throughout the suite. Had we lit candles it would have been a very wet birthday celebration. I'm sure the same would hold true if candles for a romantic ambiance are lit. Mind you this is dependant on the hotel room RG

Kingston's not that big of a city so I don't think any area is really inconvenient. Most of the nicer hotels are located downtown by the waterfront. This area seems to be most popular by the touring ladies, judging by their ads. You'll also find lots of nice restaurants downtown along with a great waterfront.

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Getting let go from my day job by text message after 7 years with the company.

Goes without saying that being downtown in the Spring/Summer is great for the eye candy. Off come the winter coats and more skin exposed to the warm rays of the sun - fantastic!

Although I normally have outcalls to my hotels, I see reputable ladies. Ladies I have no issue being seen in public with (whether they want to be seen with me, well that's another story ;-) LOL) Long story short, except for logistics of it...I live in smalltown Ontario, I would have no issues trust and discretion wise having a lady to my place My trust level with the ladies I see now so high should, hypothetically speaking I need someone to hold my wallet (cw credit card & cash) I trust the ladies implicitly A evening rambling RG

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You and I are too much alike! LOL. I picked up the same thing last night!

Commenting on a service is one thing, but to objectify women based on there looks? REALLY? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and what one sees as beautiful, someone else may not. In case you have not noticed there are women in this business with low self esteem, subjecting ladies to a list of best of is wrong and VERY demeaning. Some women would take offence to being or not being on some list and yes there are ladies who have some disillusion about who they are. yes we may be tough, but we dont need to have it thrown in our face about some top 10 list of god knows what.

First, I think you have to take a look at the industry we're discussing. It's not called the 'sex trade" for nothing. It IS about sex however the people involved, on both sides of the mattress, have taken what was once a completely sexual entity and added heart and soul to it and made it into something more. If you read any thread on here or look at many of the guestbooks, you will see people connecting, making friends, valuing intimacy and connection, cuddling, hugs, kisses etc. This in itself answers your questions because YES, there is a soul connection for many people. Soul connections don't have to be a huge grandiose head over heels in love sort of deal, they can be meaningful "I get excited when i know I'm going to see you" or "I love cuddling with you afterwards and having a chat". Many tend to take the grander view and miss the amazing little things that are happening. Yes, they might recognize that they enjoy this person and want to see them but they don't realize the magical thing that happened. This hobby affords so many people opportunities to meet other people and making connections in so many different ways that it truly is brilliant. I find something wonderful in each and every one of my guests, and I am thankful for that every day. Don't get me wrong, I'm not so naive that I don't understand not everyone is in for non monetary reasons and some people just want to get off but I'm seeing more good people, especially on this board, than indifferent and that is what I'm basing my thoughts on. :makeout: So yes, there are soul connections made every day and I for one am thankful for each and every one.

I can remember back when I was in university there was an issue with people having sex at the University library. There was even a front page article in the local newspaper titled, "Sex among the stacks". FYI Berlin, I'd love to take you over my knee like the scene in Debbie does Dallas if anyone can remember that one;) Chuck

For a guy who thinks that being with a redhead is exotic, seeing an ebony lady is like adventure land.

Is it worth it? Simply put, yes it is. It offers the best of both worlds - lots of amazing women to choose from - all in the same, safe place. No need to worry - just pure enjoyment.

We are all aware these things can happen Karina. It's natural for people to fall for each other. My best advice is to just tell him. Never pass up the opportunity for something special in life or you'll regret it. If you word it right, he won't think you are just trying to get him in as a client. Just be honest with him and speak from the heart! Good luck Karina :D

OMG. Beards are sooo sexy. There is nothing hotter to me than making out with a bearded dude after he's gone down on me. The smell of me in his beard is such a turn-on. The key to keeping them nice and soft is hair conditioner. Get a good one and use it on your beard too.