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I think we all have multi identities and many ways of being in the world. I'm an escort, but I'm also a lover, sister, friend, student, and yogini. Some things aren't relevant in certain contexts, and we all have things we would simply prefer not to discuss. All of my friends and family know what I do; unfortunately, being able to live life openly is a privilege only few share in this industry. The only time I've ever lied is with an intimate partner who did not support me seeking my financial independence through escorting. Suffice it to say, we are no longer together. For some people, the 'double life' is necessary for their mental, physical, and emotional health. It's not necessarily bad, and it doesn't necessarily cause dissonance. For some, it can be very healthy and I've heard many gentlemen echo (both on the board and face-to-face) that the experiences they have with service providers help create and maintain a balance in their lives... Despite the 'double life' at times (managing/mitigating risk and making sure not to get caught), I think that's a really beautiful thing.

I forgot to mention for me the more genuine and "real" a lady is in the persona she puts forth here on cerb the more likely I am to gravitate toward her. I adore real genuine people, any sense of false or fake is a deal killer.

Like Vanessa, looks was what I sought in my kitten years. Today in my personal life, I actually shy away from pretty boys because I find myself disappointed more often than not. I want the intellect, the challenging conversations, the seduction of the mind so to speak. I also want the mischievious sparkle in their eye and the carnal knowledge inspired confidence that comes from a life well lived. I also like padding. Protuding hip bones are not a good thing in my realm! cat

Actually, for me porn stars are a turn off. I don't like fake. Looks are important, and I like sweet and natural looking. I don't desire a super model. Just a pretty sweet looking girl anyday over a Jenna Jamieson. Men are Pavlovian at times, but sweet gets to me...

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I am glad I fulfilled my curiosity. I contacted Jenni and she was very friendly. I requested an outcall from her as I was kinda tired and decided to get some TLC on a whim. She was nice enough to cum to me, even though she had an incall ready to go. I gotta give credit where its due guys, this girl is a lot of fun. She made me very comfortable and was very sexy at the same time. As soon as she got inside my place, she revealed a very sexy outfit consisting of lace lingerie and heels. This girl definitely has an ass for banging. She looks so much more sexier in person than in her photos. Those pics definitely do not do her justice. Despite hearing that she offered bbfs, this was not the case, this girl plays safe as I do as well. Although she gave an amazing bbbj, Jenni is orally skilled, she definitely knows how to utilize her tongue ring. I really enjoyed watching her lips around my pole, going up and down while I played with her shaved pussy. She has a sexy body, gotta enjoy those legs. Not spinner and not chubby at all. Very well balanced. After the bbbj, I couldn't wait to stick in her. I gave it to her wet pussy from behind and decided to finish off with greek. Let me tell you, she enjoys what she does. And she loves all of her holes being used. I finished intensely in her tight asshole while she was finger her pussy. What a night. I hope you guys decided to give her a chance. She is definitely a hard working pleaser. Cheers.

We all do what we have to do. I had this discussion with a friend, regarding escorts etc. His take was "using their body for money". I asked him, and any of you, what is the difference then between and escort who uses her body sensually and someone like me, who was a truck driver and abused his body for years? Broken feet, toes, hands sore backs, knees, hips. I am 48 and feel 68 some days. I used my body, size (6'3 250) as a means to an end. I was an ape who lifted heavy things for years. I call that abusing myself!! I guess the difference is I can say I was a truck driver, while ladies often have to use caution in revealing their profession. I for one, am thankful there are ladies providing comfort, companionship and intimacy.

Well you could have a toads head and the body of a cow, I could care less. What I do like is a well dressed person, something very sexy about a well dressed person, and someone who exudes confidence, kindness and understanding- a well rounded person, someone who has their shit together is what I find the most attractive, looks fade, body's expand and shrink, our outer shell is just that a shell, what it houses is what I find most important. :)

I had the opportunity to find myself in Ottawa this weekend for a conference. I don't get to Ottawa nearly as much as I would like so I decided to take advantage of the time. Nathalie Lefebvre is someone who caught my attention on the board some time ago. Her posts had suggested a woman of incredible intellect, and her pictures indicated a remarkable beauty. I also find her blog posts and poetry to be wonderful glimpses into the personality of an engaging woman. I was very much looking forward to meeting her. Well in advance, of my conference we began PMing back and forth. The conversation was delightful, and I was very much looking forward to this encounter. The appointed day finally arrived and I found myself at Nathalie's in-call. In other recommendations much has been made about the tone Nathalie sets for her encounters. I can certainly attest to the accuracy of all of these recommendations. She is a delightful woman, who immediately puts one at ease, and creates a a wonderful, playful and sensual environment. She treats you as if you were a long and cherished lover, and quite quickly, you can't help but feel the same way about her. Nathalie's in-call is a charming apartment that sets the mood perfectly. As we talked, Nathalie had a surprise in store for me. Those who have been following her posts will know that Nathalie has decided to offer Nuru. We chatted a bit about that, and she asked if I would be interested in trying it out. I would be her first Nuru customer and she wanted the opportunity to practice. I've enjoyed Nuru massages before, so I quickly agreed. Who could possibly say no?? Out came the Nuru mattress, the gel was warmed, and wet slippery fun quickly began. Nathalie may be new to Nuru, but it certainly didn't show. She poured the warm slippery liquid over her body, then over mine, and then we explored various styles of body rub. Nathalie's background and experience in Yoga and Thai massage was certainly evident. Her flexibility made the Nuru experience one that I will never forget. It was a totally wonderful and playful experience. Nathalie lets you know when she is enjoying herself, and her giggles and laughter are a true delight. Of course, as is always the case, details are best left between the participants, but if anyone would be concerned that Nuru might take away from the traditional experience, I can say put those concerns aside. The gel itself is odourless and tasteless, so all of the usual activities can proceed as usual, just with an added dimension. It only enhances the overall experience and makes it more incredible. I hope that the next time I'm in Ottawa I'll be able to see Nathalie again, and enjoy another Nuru experience with her. Definitely the highlight of my weekend.

A confession, yes I do look at the ladies' photos. But what is it that attracts me to a lady, and makes me want to meet her? It is her personality, and it is personality more than anything that makes a lady beautiful. I get an idea of her personality through her posts on CERB, and our subsequent emails/pm's back and forth. And for the most part it has worked. It is fair to say that I have been fortunate to meet many beautiful ladies in this lifestyle. That they also look beautiful is just for lack of a better word, a bonus. A rambling from a middle aged, bald, eyeglass wearing overweight, average looking guy RG

I can't deny looks, especially initially, make some difference. Part of the fantasy is getting to spend time with someone I find head-over-heels attractive. That said, there are so many attributes I find attractive that just about every woman has at least something sexy and attractive about them. And there's truly no denying that--after the initial impression--it's the personality that determines whether that initial attraction fades or goes through the roof. It's another thing I appreciate about this site. Yes, there's no shortage of beauty to be found hereabouts, but how many of you haven't found some of the Ladies even more desirable and admirable after talking to them or reading their opinions?

That's a really loaded question. Looks could mean anything from the way you maintain yourself, the way you carry yourself or the lucky numbers you received from the genetic lottery pool. As Mr Green has pointed out, "to each his own taste." What I may find stunning may do nothing for someone else, and conversely what you find gorgeous may do nothing for me. My preferences? A beautiful person. It's a combination of everything mentioned above, not necessarily balanced but magnified by a beautiful personality. That beautiful personality shines through every veneer of external beauty; conversely, an ugly personality will tear down beauty to a point where nothing exists. The providers to whom I am most attracted generally possess a charm that is endearing - it's that intangible element that intelligent women possess. There's a playfulness, a wit, and a sensuality that supplements natural beauty. It forces you to see the positive in everything about them. It blinds you to what they may feel are their imperfections. Oh... and nice boobs. I like nice boobs.

I'm male aka shallow so looks do matter to me. Every ones taste is different and I've seem women described as beautiful by others that I'd never take a second look at and I'm sure others could feel the same way about my tastes. To each their own. I will say this though that no matter how attractive I find some one and empty vessel is just that an empty vessel. Peace MG

Well looks and attraction is such a subjective thing. I guess in terms of looks some people have "types" that they tend to gravitate toward physically. I never really thought about it much other than physically I know I'm attacted when I see a lady. Since entering the world of SP's and Cerb in particular I reallise that my notion of attraction has been dramatically altered. I never look through a lady's picture albums unless I've read something that she's posted that has spoke to me in some way. Take Vanessa for example since she was your first response, a long time ago Vanessa made a post under a thread peachy posted about body image and shaming. Her post was so wonderful and hit me as so genuine and real that I just had to see what fantastic creature made such a post. At that point I already had a level of attraction to her and when I saw her pictures my attraction was confirmed and heightened. (I know, I know, its not hard Vanessa is beautiful). I guess now almost all my assessments of SP's and my attraction to them is based on their posts. That's how I decide if I would like to meet them. So looks have very little to do with it for me at this point. It's always read first, find attraction, look at pictures and have my attraction deepened. My two cents.

Why is it when you buy a $600 cell phone, a year later it's only worth $50?

Im not sure if it would bother me. I think if I really was into somebody it wouldn't matter. I would worry about safety, the same as if I was dating a policewoman kinda thing. As far as sponging, not this boy. I have pride. Lol. Even if she makes more than I do that's fine.

I have never dating a girl in the industry but don't think it would bother me. I may worry from time to time if we were to meet and you're late and don't call, but ultimately I'm the type of person who would trust you until you break that trust. Your job is your job and that how I see it. I can't speak for everybody that just how I feel. As for sponging off of you, I have my own job. If a time comes when you find someone maybe its wise if he has a job and you set things clear from the start. Your money is yours and his is his. This doesn't mean when you go out separate bill but as long as he pays his fair share.

As a hobbyist or Sp or MA Most of us, are living a double life. Like Superman or Spiderman. Clark Kent by day and Superman by Night Peter Parker by day and Spiderman by night. We all have our private lives that we shared with Friend, family and co-worker. And then we have this other secret life where we meet other Men and Women for a quick sexy fantasy encounter. Or for some it is their income. However, we all have our secrets that we need to keep from our friends and family. And run the fear of being caught and suffering the consequences. But this is part of the thrill of living on the edge. It's what makes this life style a bit risky and exciting. But it can be stressful as you are always afraid of getting caught or being found out. Being careful, by having second phone or forgetting to close your browser when you still have cerb or emails open or forgetting to erase your internet history. Just wanted to get your thoughts and experiences of what it is to lead this double life. Did you ever get caught and how did you explain your way out of it out, or had to suffer the consequences. Hope to hear, some of your thoughts on this subject.

How important are looks to you when meeting with a SP? For SP's do looks matter that much to you? Men are mainly visual (until they mature) and often will gravitate to the most gorgeous woman they can find, hence the reason for porn. For women, do looks turn you on or is it more chemistry and other things that do it for you?

Frank Sinatra-Something Stupid RG

Sadly, my mother and I have NEVER gotten along to the heartache of my pa. My mama (pronounced mahmah, dads mom) was the nurturing matriarch in our family until her demise. I try so hard to reach out to no avail. The only good part of our relationship is that I have been very supportive of my son, my stepsons, my nieces, nephews and the youngins of my cousins. I am the go to "mom" to all of them and that makes me feel blessed. Heck, I even have gotten close to the neighbors kids that I have known since birth. I am known as auntie. My mothers coldness kinda shaped my to be a caring person...is that f'd up? Lol.

Is this the sexiest hip-swinging walk of all time? (Victoria Macreates is the model.)

Throwing a football on the beach. lol cause I'm too clumsy to catch a Frisbee

When I was really young 18-24, it was all about looks with me. Now that I am older, wiser and much more mature-good looks are nice-but no longer a priority. It really is the personality that gets me!

I live in a high raise building that has laundry in the basement. There is 16 washing machines and 18 dryers. One dude use 14 of them at the same time. On a Saturday morning. asshat

Alan Rickman. He was absolutely perfect for Snape. Patrick Stewart. Cate Blanchett. David Bowie. Neil Gaiman. (I'm sensing a theme...) Stoya in the hysterical literature series: Also Morgan Freeman. Titty sprinkles.

Saturday Talia 9-4 aka "Talia" Summer 9-2 aka "SUMMER LOVE" Cherry 9-4 NEW aka "Cherry Blossom" Nina 9-9 NEW Mandy 1:30-9 aka "Candy Mandy" Sunday Nina 10-9 NEW Salina 10-9 NEW aka "Salinaflower" Sasha 10-9 NEW aka "Sasha-Paradise" Talia 10-4 aka "Talia" Monday Sasha 9-5 NEW aka "Sasha-Paradise" Pandora 9-4 NEW Charlie 9-9 aka "Traveling Charlie" Nicky 9-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Jamie 3:30-9 aka "Jamie-xo" Salina 4:30-9 NEW aka "Salinaflower" Talia 3:30-9 aka "Talia" Tuesday Talia 9-5:30 aka "Talia" Charlie 9-9 aka "Traveling Charlie" Salina 9-4:30 NEW aka "Salinaflower" Summer 9-4 aka "SUMMER LOVE" Cherry 4-9 aka "Candy Mandy" Jennie 5-9 aka "ASTONISHING JENNIE" Sasha 3:30-9 NEW aka "Sasha-Paradise" Wednesday Taylor 9-11 aka "Taylor_xo" Cherry 9-6 NEW aka "Cherry Blossom" Nicky 9-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Lola 10-10 aka "lola" Salina 6-11 aka "Salinaflower" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Thursday Cherry 9-4 NEW aka "Cherry Blossom" Zoey 9-4 NEW Jade 9-4 Welcome Back Taylor 9-7 aka "Taylor_xo" Mandy 3:30-11 aka "Candy Mandy" Salina 3:30-11 aka "Salinaflower" Lola 3:30-11 aka "lola" Melody 7-11 aka "Melody" Friday Lola 10-10 aka "lola" Pandora 9-4 NEW Summer 9-4 aka "SUMMER LOVE" Talia 9-4 aka "Talia" Mandy 3:30-11 aka "Candy Mandy" Sasha 3:30-11 NEW aka "Sasha-Paradise" Cherry 3:30-11 NEW aka "Cherry Blossom" Saturday Summer 9-9 aka "SUMMER LOVE" Charlie 9-4 aka "Traveling Charlie" Cherry 9-4 NEW aka "Cherry Blossom" Nina 9-9 NEW Mandy 1:30-9 aka "Candy Mandy" Sasha 3:30-9 NEW aka "Sasha-Paradise" Sunday Nina 10-9 NEW Hannah 10-4:30 aka "Hannahxo" Sasha 10-9 NEW aka "Sasha-Paradise" Salina 10-9 NEW aka "Salinaflower" Charlie 4:30-9 aka "Traveling Charlie" Jamie 3:30-9 aka "Jamie-xo"

Thanks for the feedback dewu69. It sucks that she uses fake pics and even goes out of her way to say that they are real in the ad, but if you're vouching for her, then I have no argument (other than the one I already presented) to counter that. I hope you didn't feel targeted, I want to encourage the hobbyists to speak out more in NB. I find that our recommendation section is severely lacking when compared to what you find when you ask directly. Since you have seen Roxanne and had a positive experience I'd encourage you to add a recommendation to the New Brunswick Recommendations sub forum so that people can have a frame of reference for what an experience with Roxanne is like. Thanks and keep on participating!

I love the soundtrack to the television show Twin Peaks and the prequel follow up Twin Peaks: Fire Walk With Me. Angelo Badalamenti is an amazing composer that has done not only Twin Peaks but also Mulholland Drive amongst others. Fantastic music to play in the background whilst entertaining : )

"Some balls are held for charity, and some for fancy dress....but when they're held for pleasure they're the balls that I like best" - Big Balls - AC/DC :p

Okay, everyone. Pay attention. Old Dog would like to share something with you...

Sound advice! Think with your brain on this on lads!

I think unless you know these ladies, have dealt with them before I wouldn't give them an email transfer, after all if you did then they have your money and all you have is their word that they'll meet with you at point a at such and such a time. I hate to suggest that you shouldn't trust anyone but on bp's you just never know.

This has always been one of my favourites. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rPZNjtODzFI

I personally love the school girl role playing thing....:-) lots of fun

I am a guy in my early forties, I can fit the profile of a sugar daddy, I am looking for some long term romantic relationship with no strings attached, I hate being with new person every night but I don't want to be with the same person for 10 years either. So basically I am looking for a site where I can find girls in their twenties who need my support for long term intimate relationship with NSA. Can you guys recommend a site, google brings few but nothing seems legit.Thanks,

I posted this a while back on my blog too... A super cute/funny/clever & creative safe sex commercial! :) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T1Cgm-63WtY&feature=player_embedded

Yes Gina is amazing.

I think, in this case, only 2 opinions matter: Yours and the guy you are trying to be with. Sure, it would be nice to hear other people's views, but keep in mind their opinions ultimately mean nothing.

A web site would help too

If I see a lady advertising on BP, I immediately cross reference it on CERB and if she's not on CERB, I probably won't see her. CERB has the crème de la crème for SP's and MA's. Welcome aboard!

For myself, if a SP is not on Cerb I would not book her. Having a good Cerb reputation gives you credibility IMHO.

This is something I have always been interested in! CoB/CoF is something I always offer with my services, and it just so happens that "multiple male partners" is a favorite pass time of mine. That being said, I've never participated in a bukkake only party, though I have attended gang bang parties in the past. If I am invited to such an event, I would most likely show up 15 mins early and be more than eager. Like Angela, however, I would not be interested in participating voluntarily, nor be interested in having women who are not "PRO" (as she called them) present. To elaborate more on that...Yes, this is something I absolutely love, but the carpenter down the street loves his work too, doesn't mean he's gonna build you a nice custom poker table out of the kindness of his heart.... just saying.

Ill say this... Nothing in life is guaranteed....you live and learn but to generalize that you get more bang for your buck at a certain price tag you are dead wrong. People get burnt, because they treat an intimate encounter like fast food. If you took the time to pre-book, exchange a few emails and establish a mental connection before your encounter - your date would not be a disappointment. If I do not establish any form of mental connection during an email exchange with a potential client, I cancel the date. At the end of the day, don't rush something that needs time to be amazing. Yes I get people are busy, but attempting to book me on no notice shows no respect and I will decline the date. I take a risk letting random strangers into my space, no way in hell am I letting someone disrespect me by not adhering to my policies. where one advertises has nothing to do with quality of service, I have ads on BP, other boards and EC, does that make me not worth the dollar i command because of where I have ads? Bring on the competition, I have not raised or lowered my donations in 2 years. Clearly the market supports it, and I encourage others to not sell themselves short when it comes to donations they deserve. Prices are no way even close to what they were 5 years ago, before i left the Biz I charged $450/hr in the day and $600 at night and it was never questioned or insulted. What you don't understand is there is quality out there, but one needs to research and take time to find it. Maybe you can only afford $200 or maybe even $250, don't slag anyone off for commanding more. Save up, take your time and enjoy the encounter. Or stick with what you can afford and stop bitching that donations are too high.

Going all the way back to the original question. Sweetie choose a rate that you feel comfortable with. I myself wouldn't set my rate same as those who travel, as it is my opinion doing so can and will cost you more encounters than you will gain finacially. (consider that rate includes airfare and hotels etc) Again is only my opinion but may help to determine a rate. Whatever you choose your rate to be, always keep in mind that fellas would like the entire time they are paying for, and to be treated like your guest (one who's clothes you can't wait to tear off) If you go out of your way to provide a wonderful, unrushed experience to those you see, they will feel your rate is worth every penny!