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It is unclear what this part of your post has to do with the original topic of being safe, and it kind of just sounds like you have a gripe. However, in my experience, many e-mails I receive go unanswered not because I have no concept of how to run a business, but because the sender has no concept as to how to address a lady. Or the information I requested is not included and I have other e-mails waiting with all the proper info. Or possibly because the sender is a known bad date. These things include probably at least half of the correspondence I receive regarding "prospective appointments". We are in the business to make money and meet new clients. We LOVE to receive e-mails for prospective appointments and respond to them. But only the ones that are polite, and complete. We don't care to acknowledge or have time to respond to all the other crap that crowds our inboxes. I am not saying this is why you seem to have a problem with this, but I do sometimes see hobbyists complaining about this, and they never seem to think that maybe they are the reason for the lack of response.

Hi, this is my 3rd year on Cerb, 1st year was mostly lurking and reading the various post and threads and getting to know the SP's/MA's and gentlemen on the board thru their postings. It was almost a year before I took the plunge to meet my 1st SP. She was a kind young woman that gave a great first experience and second experience. I met my second SP in the following year, and she was a great experience and I have seen many times since, and we have become good friends. After that I had my first GFE Massage and it was great which then lead to many more GFE Massages, Now in my third year of hobbying, I have started to meet many more Cerb women and each experience seems to get better and better. I even had my first duo last week :). It was exceptional :) This is a summary of what I've learnt from being on Cerb and my experiences with Cerb women :). What I've learnt from the Cerb Community: - it is a community of caring Men and Women. - it is a source of useful information - is a source of recommended women that have had proven reputations. - it is a place where information can be asked and answered - it is a social community where members have helped each other in need. - it is a place where discussions can be debated. - There are senior members that give good advice to the Newbie's - Also thanks the CERB MOD, he has does a great job, keeping the board running and moderating the members and post. - without the Mod there would be no Cerb. What I have learnt from the Cerb Chat Room: - This is a great place to make friends and meet the other members. - I have spent hours in chat, talking to the men and women of Cerb. - Have met people from around Canada. - I have helped and been helped with other members. - Some night we have a lot of laughs. - Other nights meaningful discussions. What I have learnt from the Cerb Gentlemen: - They are here to help others with information about the industry - They are kind and thoughtful men and know how to show respect to the women of Cerb. - Established gentlemen are proven safe men for the Cerb Women. - Some of them have a great sense of humour. - They have come to the assistance of other members in need. - Without the gentlemen, there would be no Cerb. What I have learnt from Cerb Women: - They are kind and sexy women. - They except people for who they are , regardless of race or colour or size. - All they expect is for them to be clean, smell good and show them with respect. - Please respect their time and limitations. - Arrive on time with the proper donations. - No negotiation of donations. - If you can't make it please call to cancel. - It takes a special woman to be able to do this job. - The women who really enjoy this job and pleasing men give the best service. - Beauty and sexuality is shown from within the person. What I have learnt from myself: - When I started I was a shy man around women. - Now I have more confidence and have no problem being naked with strange women :) - I enjoy spending intimate time with Cerb women. - I enjoy chatting with learning about the real person. - I have become friends with several of the women and keep in contact with them. - Women seem to actually like me for some reason. - As with all meetings, YMMV, But I've learnt to be a gentleman and have in general received better services then I expected :) - Always please the women first, and they will return the favour :) - As I always say, I'm a gentleman and the woman cum first :) Advice to Newbies: - Read the above facts :) - Respect the women. - Be a gentleman. - Women with recommendations are a good choice, but in all cases YMMV. - Participate and become part of the Cerb Community. In closing. I love being on CERB, it has become a daily part of my life. and Thank you to all you women for being sexy, kind, beautiful and emotionally strong to be able to provide the services that you do. I am grateful for the exceptional times that I have spent with Cerb women, they know who they are :). And I hope to have many more great experiences. Gentlemen and women, let's hear what you have learnt from your experiences on Cerb.

There was a song in the 70's... and the chorus had one line that resonates: "the hardest part of love is letting go." Thirteen years ago I was at the point in my life when I had to make that decision. I loved the ex... and part of me still does in different ways, but with the benefit of hindsight I can see that she was doing to me and what I was doing to myself. We each lost who we were when we started the relationship and had become strangers living together. What we had left was the comfort of our possessions and the uneasy sense of belonging to a "couple" regardless of how distant we had become. I made the decision that I was not satisfied like that... and after discussing the status of our relationship and the need to improve it, she decided that she didn't want to try anymore. Of course at the time I was oblivious to the fact that she was in another "secret" relationship... so I left. It hurt like hell. It felt like I had thrown away years of my life and that I was never going to feel part of anything that unique ever again. Then it happened. I discovered "me" again... and dammit, I like "me." I discovered that I had buried "me" so that I could be part of "us"... and frankly,by the end of the relationship, "us" sucked. That was 13 years ago. I have been nearly married 3 times since... but in the end, I am a happier man than I have ever been in the past. My kids love "me." I love "me." My friends love "me." You only have one go at life my friend. No need to live it in misery. Be strong. Make smart choices. Most important, decide to live your life happy and as yourself. It won't come easy, but then again, nothing in life that is worth having does come easy. Be strong!

First, my heart goes out to you. I've known a version of some, though not all, of the things you're describing. I'm truly sorry your life's path has brought you to this unhappy point. Second, it's VERY good that you're reaching out for advice, and CERB is a great community, but I don't think you can find what you really need here. You need to talk with someone, for a long time and in great detail, about: - what's going on, exactly - how you feel about all the various parts of it - you're wife's circumstances and what has brought her to this point and how capable and likely she is to change - and what's important to you You can find a bit of solace and comfort through CERB but really you need to talk to a professional about this. Find a therapist for yourself; this is what they're for, and they can help you work through your thoughts and feelings on this. It's commendable that you're looking for help in this difficult time. I just advise you to go one step further and consult someone who can help you properly in this terribly complicated situation. I can understand that for those who married young and built their whole lives as a couple, letting go of that vision and contemplating any other is deeply painful and terrifying. It challenges your entire perception of the world, your life, and your place in it. What I can tell you is that, unless you do something about it -- no it won't get better, it will just carry on, unfold into a crisis, or you'll become deadened and resigned to the situation. Don't let those things happen. With some professional gudance figure out what you really want next, and then make changes of some kind in line with what's really important to you. You're not alone. Good luck and heartfelt best wishes.

Happy Fathers Day Dads!!! I am missing my Dad today, as this is the first fathers say since he passed away last July. Missing him. If you still have your Dad, call him today, or go see him if you can!!!

Im just curious, since you say you book so far in advance, did you confirm the day prior or a few days prior? other than just texting for the location the day of? As personally to me, if you don't confirm the day prior we have no date.

Stay away..she is known street walker in Saint John....

The problem with your challenge of the premise is the passage of time. As society involves so do our attitudes. The laws that were struck down for the most part have been in existence for many many years. Back when Canada was a different country than it is today. Where living together outside the bonds of marriage was looked down upon, where the Catholic church was a dominant force in Quebec, where gay marriage was illegal, where a transgendered person may have been locked up in a hospital for their aberrant behaviour etc. Those days are in the past and attitudes have changed. Modern legislators have much different viewpoints and beliefs then those of 50 years ago. If the laws being challenged were enacted in the last 5 years, then you might be right, but in this case things have changed in society's attitudes towards sexuality and relationships.

It been 2 years on the 11th that I have now belonged to Cerb. So I thought I'd share some of the things I've learned, especially of late 1. That is: Who some say is a good client may not necessarily be for me. If I get the sense that the person interested in seeing me isn't my type best not to follow through. I've done this to many times resulting in wasted time, no fun and regretful moments. I used to get the feeling just because someone, especially a Cerb member, wanted to see me it was necessary to book. I guess I was afraid of the repercussions of refusing:( One persons champagne is another persons beer! 2.Just because someone is a Cerb member doesn't mean their character is golden. I am grateful to be here and thankful I'm accepted by a lot but I have realized that there are unreliable people everywhere, cerb is no exception and, trust has to be earned it isn't guaranteed by any site. Nothing is. :) 3. This is a great place to discuss sex and to dirty talk. 4. We are lucky to have a Canada wide FREE advertising site and I'm happy and thankful to be a part of it:) 5.Thankfully, a site where there can be no bashing, some still make digs, but hey, they have to have something to do:) 6.That perhaps Ottawa is the center of the universe, lol. 7.Research, research ,research- this goes both ways. 8. Being a provider isn't anything to be ashamed of, it can be like actual dating and sometimes surprisingly nice things can result from it. Never be afraid to go beyond your boundaries. Its my time, my body and, mine to share and to do with as I please:) 9. Ignore, ignore, ignore maliciousness. When you do, good things happen:) 10. Most importantly- ENJOY- its alright to have a good time with a date. It is after all about having fun and wanting to give someone else a sample of "you" and that needs to be beneficial for both sides:) 11. Recommendations are nice but they are just an opinion 12. I'm good at a lot of things but I'm the best at just being myself, to some that'll be great and to others not so good, win some lose some. I've learned that its okay not to be liked by everyone . Well my last sentiment-I've been bad-I've been booted out a couple of times-live an learn-move on:) and I've been good-have lots of rep points now:) and cerbie friends- so thanks for letting me into your neighbourhood:)

Everything can be screen shot. I am unaware of a software that prevents this, but there are inventive ways to get around this.

There was already a thread on this person closed by the MOD due to being outside the boundaries of CERB regarding positive feedback and keeping members safe. There has only been one positive comment so my suggestion would be to contact that person via PM to ask your questions and not to keep beating the dead horse. Sometimes what is not being said speaks volumes.

I was shopping at the local supermarket. I was low on Astroglide for my backdoor activities, so I picked some up. At the checkout, it was the last thing to be scanned. I was paying with Visa, so when the debit machine was ready, the sweet young lady made eye contact, smiled sweetly, and said "stick it in the bottom". Huh, WTF? Times sure have changed....

What I have learned. CERB is a community of like minded people, sharing a common lifestyle. But this community isn't just about this wonderful lifestyle, although some of the subject matters do involve this lifestyle. We are supportive of one another and there are topics beyond this lifestyle. The members here may all share a common interest, but that isn't only what we are all about RG

Point taken and maybe I was too critical, maybe not, but I'd like to temper my post by saying it wasn't meant as an attack of any sort. Certainly there is some leeway to mention things not related directly to the original topic. It's to every member's individual taste what crosses the line or not. I agree in principle with both of those points. Now let's move on! :) FR

I would like to thank everyone for all the kind words and thoughts you have been giving me. Thank you for all your positive energy, it is especially important because of choosing to share this with all of you. In times like this I can say that being in a community like Cerb feels really good. My father contributed a lot to the world and I can see now how everyone in my community appreciated this from him. He will be missed by many but mostly by me. Thanks to all again.

my personal fave is a mix of CoF/CiM -- just spray it everywhere!!! :D

Well, that one was a clear hijack, but to answer your question about safety: Ladies, it will never be a show-stopper for me (and like-minded gents) for you to express your wish to remain as safe as possible. You do what is comfortable and right for you, and true gentlemen will respect that. Oddly, even without any demand on my part, or even any prior discussion, I've received bbbjs in almost all cases by default. If a lady were to ask if it were o.k. to put on a hat, by all means! I may even have to request it myself one of these days ;) - for comfort and greater peace of mind. The loss of sensation is hardly noticeable, if proper lubrication is in place, and just as enjoyable. FR

I'm still trying to figure out what my topic about being safe has to do with not responding to emails?... But to answer that I do not like to respond through emails and I will not give out any personal information through emails...I am blunt and straight forward in all of my posts everywhere I post online that I will not take blocked calls or emails I prefers to speak over the phone ...and if I do answer to you at all its either because I am busy with someone or my family or because I do not have a good feeling about the person for whstever reason...just like you have the right to spend time with who you want we as service providers have that right to choose as well..its not always about the money but rather a good connection and positive vibes between me and him! I hope that answered your question some what...xo

There is a pervasive perception in this industry that rate=quality. The lower the rate, the lower the quality of the woman behind it and the experience you will receive. To this I say, take your judgments and misconceptions and ***** them. Until you meet someone and interact with them, you will never know the quality of them so to make the above statement is judgment clear and simple. Personally, a rate reflects more than just the quality of the encounter because like any business, there are more things taken into account than the service provided. There is the space used for said services, how said services are presented, bells and whistles that accompany the service, the availability of the service and the service itself. I do not consider myself any less or any more quality than anyone else and to others, that is a subjective thing anyway. You could pay $50 or $500 yet if you don't connect with the person, that impacts the value you believe you received. Rates are personal to each individual and are set based on their own criteria and what the market will bear. Are rates set based on how each individual views themselves and the worth they believe they are bringing to the table? For some people, yes. This does not mean for everyone. Some offer lower rates due to the place they live and work. This is a business and as such, you need to be in the business to make money. If you're spending out more on business related items and not making anything, this is not a good business model. All I'm saying is that just as there are many individual providers with individual personalities, likes, dislikes, turn on's, turn off's, so are there reasons behind rates. Just as the value and quality of a hobbyist shouldn't be based on how big his wallet is, SP's shouldn't be judged on how much they charge, high or low. I know people won't change unless they chose to, this is just a "food for thought" topic because I for one, am not cheap or lower quality. It also works on the other foot as well, SP's shouldn't be judged if their rate is higher. They shouldn't be classified as a greedy or a snooty b**ch. Lower rates shouldn't make higher rates look bad. These are all judgments and perceptions that we are in control of. We CHOSE to make these comments that then create tension and negativity. Think about it...maybe.

I wonder what your post has to do with a thread on being safe. It does just seem like your griping YMMV is a industry standard, and not a problem area, at least it I've never had a problem with YMMV. Do you really think all clients should be treated the same? A gentleman who treats a lady with respect, is clean, fresh breath, pays his donation in full, and is not intoxicated, for example, will likely receive a wonderful memorable encounter compared to a man who instead being respectful, is rude, ill mannered, poor hygiene, bad breath, maybe arrives intoxicated and so forth. Just because a man pays a lady for her time doesn't mean he owns her. And whatever happens during that time together is between two consenting adults, not just what the man wants to do. When you read a lady's website and she has a menu, that is a list of services she may offer, not what she definitely will offer. A lot of YMMV is very much dependant on the client, not the lady As for emails not replied to, I've very rarely encountered it, less than five times in three years, and once it turned out the lady was retired. I can't see that being a issue of concern unless it happens regularly. If it does, maybe look at how you write your email. Are you respectful, a gentleman, or rude and vulgar in language. A lady makes determinations based on the impression you leave. If she feels the email is being sent by a crude ignorant man versus a gentleman, she won't want to see him. Number one she has to think of her safety. At an encounter she is allowing a man to be alone with her intimately. She doesn't want to risk her safety, not to mention self respect for any amount of money If you aren't getting replies to your emails, maybe think of the impression you are giving to the lady from the emails you send Now lets get back to the topic at hand RG

Thankfully in real political democracy, the general public does not usually vote specifically on the issues that directly affect the whole population. We vote to elect someone who we trust is actually fully educated about all the issues, knows all of the details about proposed laws and changes, weighs pros/cons and recognizes possible outcomes and how they will affect the entire population. They will then vote on the specific issues how they best see fit to serve the people.

Thank you so much for this thread. Very wise words, and it really is true. I have learnt from Cerb to reach out to others. I have always worked alone. Even if working with an agency, I still kept to myself. It wasn't that I was shy, but more that I really didn't trust others. There were too many trouble makers, shit disturbers and those out to take from you what you have. Here, however, I have made some really good friends. People that want to help, not because they want something in return, but they genuinely want to help you. I have had sp's contact me for no reason, but to say hi, if you ever need any help, I am here for you. Not that I was in crisis, but that they see that I was new, and they wanted to make sure I was welcome. When working in this industry, those that do not work in it really don't understand. They think they do, but really they don't. Here, I have found sp's and hobbyists that have brought information to my attention, that I would never have thought of myself. The perspective of another sp. Also, the perspective of another hobbyist. This alone is so valuable. I am grateful for cerb. Not specifically as an advertising site. I can get that anywhere. Even as a recommendation site, well, that helps, but in reality, even without the recommendations or the advertisements, what I get from here is a sense I have a whole country that is routing for me, is watching my back, loves me and treats me with respect. Wow, and I don't even have to pay anything for this. I have become the provider I want to be. I have been able to showcase my talents, ideas, thoughts, silly stuff and of course the serious stuff. Thank you to everyone that makes this site such a great commodity. It is my resource, my inspiration, my desire to better myself. I am blessed to be here and I thank everyone. xoxo

Pretty much every day, I'll receive a few texts from numbers I've never seen before, just saying 'hi' or, 'hey'. I will never understand why these texts are sent. Most girls ignore them, to be honest. I occasionally will respond, saying 'Hello! If you'd like to see me, please introduce yourself and let me know what you're looking for, thanks!' other times I've said 'Hello! Who is this?', to get a response back with just a name. Like, Frank. Just Frank, nothing else. Not, Hello, this is Frank, wondering if you're available today?' I know sometimes a new client can be nervous with the first communciation. But please keep in mind, we are very happy to answer your questions, and if we accept texts (some girls state in their ads that they do not), then you are welcome to text us! But please, ask a question! Tell me what you're texting for. Because to just say 'Hi, then 'Frank', it's like pulling teeth. I'm not here to draw what you want out of you. You need to ask me, and then we can make an arrangement. I will admit, I sometimes can be a bit snarky in my responses to these texts. And i'm not a snarky person. But after the tenth 'Hey' or worse, 'hey babe', text I've received in a day, my patience may have hit it's limit. And I would hate for us not to get a chance to meet only because our texting didn't work out. Communication is key to a good encounter. Tell me who you are, and what it is you're looking for by contacting me. If you can't say more than a hello in a text, now how will we be able to talk in purrson silly!

Cerb chat or just general webcamming? If the second option, what some girls do is had some flirter on their camera and it show their names on the bottom or something like that for copy right

Hi Cristy, Empty83 has identified the key questions to ask yourself so that you and your trainer can identify some goals and establish an exercise program. As for who to select as a trainer, I'd suggest 2 things: 1) The trainer should have a training certification. There are lots of people, who call themselves trainers, but other than doing their own exercise program (usually building muscle bulk exclusively), they don't have a clue as to how to design a program, monitor a client's progress and motivate someone. They may even cause harm. I've attached a link which addresses certification and personal development for trainers. Even though it's for trainers, it's useful for clients and includes links to the major fitness certification organizations. 2) If you go to one of the major gyms such as Goodlife, Dalhousie, Canada Games Centre, Sportsplex etc. you'll not only get a certified trainer, but you'll also be assured that their performance as a trainer is being monitored by their employer. After all it's one thing to get the piece of paper, it's another to put the knowledge into practice with a client. It's also helpful that they can call on the expertise and advice of other trainers when necessary. The only other thing I'd add is that some people are gym monkeys, but most people aren't. In addition to getting a trainer and starting a fitness program, it's good to find physical activities that you enjoy doing and can do regularly with others that don't necessarily require you to go to the gym. Good luck and I hope you have fun! http://www.theptdc.com/2011/11/top-personal-training-certifications-canada/

One of my old clients is a fitness instructor. Unfortunately she moved to Alberta to take care of her mom, otherwise we were proposing a little agreement that she would train me, I'd shoot her wedding. We did have a couple of sessions before she left. It was different, you really push yourself harder when someone is there with you. And female equality and all my feminist notions aside, I couldn't let a girl out do me! She is 6" shorter than me, but was incredibly strong and fit. All in all, I should really find a personal trainer, it was amazing the first time.

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I have had a personal trainer at Goodlife Fitness on Larry Utech Drive since the fall of 2011, which was its grand opening. It is an awesome facility, you may want to check it out. I would highly recommend using a personal trainer. Your chances of injury are far less with one, not to say you can't tweak something just the same. The classes are ok, but most of the injuries I've heard about occur in classes because the trainer cannot watch 25-30 to ensure they are doing their exercise properly. The have a head trainer there who usually will talk to potential new clients to see what she/he may be looking for and assign them a personal trainer who will best fit their needs. In my case I wanted to lose some weight, more endurance, and agility. I've been with the same trainer since the place opened in the fall of 2011. I've went from 260 lbs down to 204 lbs, just like losing a small person. I now have energy to burn!!! So of course I am quite bias when it comes to trainers, but it is sure working for me. I might add I was out for 6 months during that time as I had to have surgery. The Dr.s and VON'S attributed my good recovery time to the 8 months prior my surgery working out. Good luck, and all the best to you!

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A couple of real ones Dick Trickle Dick Handler

Sorry but I will disagree about the hijack, and feel it was rather harsh to say it was! He was defending Danielle's statement/thread, he responded with his comment which simply included an issue he too was having on the other end, it seemed appropriate to me and unnecessary to start another thread to address it. We all sometimes add comments to threads beyond the scope of the topic at hand, lol as I am doing, that are within the same subject, ie: hobbyists, sp's. Shouldn't we only jump on something when its deemed negative or hurtful and want to be supportive and friendly to any and all who reply, isn't that idea behind cerb:) topic at hand-being safe-well that's fun and so is being naughty:)

A man trying to guilt a woman into doing something she doesn't want to do. As old as time. Stick with your principles and don't waste energy worrying about it. You've always been very honest with your advertising.

the punching bag was moved to the pool table areas....thank god....it was due time:)

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I don't give a hoot if you're a man, a woman or a monkey. If you're arranging a date with someone you don't know, you address yourself in a professional manner. After all, this is a business and contrary to what some might believe, SPs are running a business and we're not one of your buddies texting to meet a bar to watch a game. Maybe that's how it works in your world and your example shows no regard for etiquette when contacting someone ( proves my point) but I do have higher standards of who *I* decide to come into contact with. Is technology to blame that people can't even type out the characters for the word "Hello Jane, Betty or Joan"? Fuck me, what is this world coming to when people can't address someone by their name? Is that too much to ask nowadays?

I get variety is the spice of life but with so much of this happening on that and other sites why not just avoid them and stick with cerb, that way you avoid those types of situations.

That's cool. :) I think our views on the issue are more similar than different. I don't think the outcome of the poll was entirely foreseeable. While I do feel we could be sure almost nobody would choose Berlin's first two options, I think the split between the third and fourth is unpredictable and has a lot to do with how the two options are presented and perceived -- which varies widely. Berlin's post examines that difference closely. That's where the value lay for me. Plus, the poll format might seem odd, but we know it wasn't out of the blue -- it was an attempt to re-frame the options in response to another, uh, less successful attempt. It'll be a long time before the general public sheds its preconceptions about the sex industry, and their responses to polls like this one start to resemble anything like what we're seeing here on CERB. But if it happens, it'll be thanks to stepping stones like these kinds of private discussions; the public conversation surrounding the case now before the courts, thanks to the uncommonly brave representatives of the industry who have gone public; and, someday, people realizing they already know both clients and sex workers among their friends and members of their own family, and they're actually fine, normal people. Here's crossing my fingers.

Don't be so hard. Men don't communicate the same way as women.. Some just get right to the point in emails/texts. Typical male texting to arrange a play date. Man 1 "beer?" Man 2 "where" Man 1" Big Rig at 5" Man 2 " k"

It is I guess illegal but I don't think anyone is going to go to jail for bbbj. Protection must be used because in NZ they are subject to Occupational Health and Safety protocols. Just as you want your food server to wash their hands before making your sandwich, so are sex workers bound by the kinds of regulations that make interacting with them safer for everyone. :) I want to see regulations for health and safety brought in. I think it is the only way, everyone needs to be subject to the same kinds of protocols so no one is pressured to provide things that are simply not safe. whether they believe it or not, whether they want to or not. There are a lot of things that are unsafe that we want to do, but if they are regulated that you can't do them, then you proceed at your own risk lol but the sex workers will now have the ability to say, oh well, can't do that, rather than know that the one in the next room can and will, and they then start to feel like they 'have to' as well. This kind of thing protects

The best looking young girls with low mileage club - Barbs The most relaxed friendly environment club - Playmates The model like high heels made tall and plastic made big boobs with good mileage club - Pigale. The best mileage club with older less attractive ones club - Taboo. The very good mileage and relatively not too bad looking girls club - Barefax. The if you have nothing good to say then say nothing club - Nuden. Anywhere with nude ladies walking around my favorite place so they all are best in my book.

My vote goes to Playmate. Nice relaxing place and the ladies don't bother you at all for CR.

Personally, I think you should be applauded for your courage. And no, I'm not speaking of the courage it may have taken to admit you're a 35 year old virgin. To me, that's just not a big deal. I know and have met older virgins than that. The part I admire so much is that you've come to the epiphany that sex and being intimate with someone is something you're no longer willing to leave to fate. You've taken the reins and decided that you're not willing to miss out any longer on the joys and pleasure of physical intimacy. Good for you markane! If I could re-do losing my virginity, picking a suitably reputable escort to do it would've been a helluva lot more memorable than what really happened! lol

You will be busy taking in the sights of her in a skimpy number, she may then crawl over to you and remove her bra exposing her breasts Lightly touching, licking and barely touching her lips heading slowly up your inner thighs, followed by feathering her bottom lip and/ or tongue in unmentionable places. A light smacking of your cock against places nearly insinuating that she may give you what you truly desire, while gently caressing other intimate places..... there are sooo many ways to get a man "ready" without even getting a bj, if this is holding you back from seeing a provider, you need to stop worrying and go have a yourself a good time! I would focus your thoughts more on how are going to avoid being too excited once she is baring herself in the sexiest of lingerie and heels. If she knows what she is doing you will be hers to devour in her secret lair. She may tell you how badly she wants to take you all in.....while she then demonstrates her deepthroat abilities, lastly allowing you to fuck her face (if she does this) Those things and or a neverending amount of other little detailed actions that make any blowjob covered of not a truly unforgettable experience. It's no fun to tell all secrets..... go and experience it. A bj is only one part (in my case multiple times) of an encounter. xo

.... but our Cleo is the real deal!!!!! She is cute, she is sweet... and..... just read her reviews!!! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=C&t=91607