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https://medium.com/boinkology-101/98e69aae5ea2 You all might find this article interesting, discussing the false dichotomy that the "porn sex vs real sex" framing creates.

I don't know about the rest of you but this lifestyle has opened up a world of pleasure. Being able to explore some of my fantasy's is amazing but I've found explore the other persons fantasy's or letting them lead you in something you've never explored is even better. Being open to try new thing and explore different aspect of sexuality has opened door to worlds of pleasure where I never thought possible. It's one thing to please a woman, which is a huge turn on but, allowing the woman to do what she like, allow her to be more comfortable and familiar on how it works, which often leads to her ultimate pleasure which in my opinion has lead to my ultimate pleasures. I must admit my sex life prior was very plain, so for example I once met a lady who like to give prostate massages, was a little nervous at forts but OMG what a pleasure it brought. The lady was getting turned on and well myself I never felt better. I met another lady who enjoys anal which turned out to be something I myself fantasize about. Even some light bondage, which was interesting. Not being something that turn me on but knowing how much it turning on my partner well trust me the rewards were great. I've explored nuru which is very intimate, also the occasional laugh cause its so slippery. Even just watching two ladies pleasure each other is so hot. So whatever your kink may be, keep an open mind of others cause there is so much fun out there and exploring it has been great. Have your horizon been broaden, while in this lifestyle.

It has certainly expanded my mind in many ways. It has broadened my knowledge base with respect to women in a positive way. It has allowed me to explore my secret desires that otherwise would have gone undiscovered. I have met some very nice and interesting people along the way. I was raised in a very strict religious environment. Part of the journey for me has been leaving some pretty ridged and archaic moral values that were imposed upon me as a young man behind. I honestly think that in doing so, it has caused me to loosen up and be a more interesting, fun relaxed person!

Off course Claire is still around!,, no need to panic! She is a busy girl and cant come online all the time...as for the website if you are using claireheavens.com thats no longer working..,you should be looking at http://claireheavensinottawa.com Go catch her! :-)

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I list them and what you see is what you get with me. This has dramatically cut down on private messages and phone calls asking if I do this or that. When a person calls me, they have read all the info and ready to book. It's all listed there. Having been coy about this sort of thing in the past and not wanting to list it created more confusion and I'm not ashamed to list what I offer and what I don't offer.

For me, and speaking only for me, I do like to know what a lady's rate for an encounter is, to me that is reasonable I do understand that some gentlemen like to see a menu, a list of services that the lady provides is important to them. And I confess, when I was a newbie, that was my focus. But I met some remarkable ladies and realized seeing companions was much more than about sex. For me, an encounter is more, much more than the sum of the lady's services. It is about chemistry, how we click and so on. What is the most important part of a lady's website, for me at least, is the section usually titled "About Me" or something along those lines. If interested, her posts, emails and pm's give me further insight as to if we will click. Most of the ladies I see or will see don't have a menu on their website. But their websites give me a little glimpse into who they are and that is why I'm interested in meeting them. But they all tell me what the donation is for an encounter with them. To answer your question though, I wouldn't view listing services as a negative. There will be potential clients who are interest first and foremost in the services provided. Just for me, much more important is the connection/chemistry we will have...whether we will click is far more important. Hope that helps RG

I have often wondered the same thing. I have also wondered why the need was felt to call it "greek" when it already had a name(s) that weren't related to anyone's ethnicity. While I dislike the acronyms, I find when I use them people at least know what I'm talking about and it makes it easier to communicate a lot in a little space. If I don't use them, it seems like a lot of information jammed into one spot. I much prefer talking one on one about sexy stuff then reducing it to letters.

I think rates are a pertinent things to post. Otherwise a majority of first contacts will start with, "Hey, What are your rates?" As for services, many of the lovely ladies on here choose not to use labels or acronymns, but provide a brief description of an "encounter" without using specifics. I think thats a good route to go, with the finishing line being to contact the provider in order to discuss specifics privately. That develops communication right off the bat and clarifies anything that might be considered a grey area before meeting. Seems the smart way to go in my opinion :)

That is correct, your welcome to use the leave a comment icon to thank people for the info (it will not BUMP the thread and will give the guy some rep points rewarding him for the nice comment and info provided). I would encourage the use of this from both the ladies (as a thanks) and the other guys (who found value in what was added).

I like having the Rates posted, so that I know if it is within my budget. I like to know what is being offered or better yet what is off limits. as I do not want to offend the woman if I try something that she is not comfortable with. I do read their information and check out the web sites. The more details and photo's there are, the easier it is to make my decision. Sometimes It's a last minute decision to see someone, and I do not have time to text and wait for replies. So I may have a short list, and whoever happens to be free within my schedule, will probably be the one I see. As I ususally let lady luck determine who I see, and she has been good to me so far :)

I give a brief description of what my encounters entail, but not vivid details. As for acronyms, the only one I use is bbbj-because I do not provide such service. Unfortunately in this city-there is a very high amount of men that expect that from the get go since majority of sp ladies provide them, so I personally think it is a must to indicate your restrictions, not what you allow :) Some may say it does not matter, but until you are in a room with a man who expects this, and then becomes irritated by the fact that they did not know....well it is very awkward , uncomfortable and sometimes scary :(

First when I started out and the whole process was quite foreign to me I liked to see the list of "services" so I knew what to expect from what was an entirely new experience. So I think newbies may like to see the listing to help them understand what's in-store for them. Now with more experience (and the help of CERB), I don't really care about it as I'm much more comfortable chatting with companions about my preferences for my encounter. As a rule I have an understanding about what's "included" in my experience and if there happens to be any specific request that I might have that's outside "the norm" of typical services I just ask the companion about it. We're all adults, and if we're adult enough to do it then we should be adult enough to talk about it. However, if a companion has a specific service that she chooses not to offer (greek, BBBJ, etc) I think it would be easier to list the "don't do" services to avoid unnecessary contacts by clients looking for this service. Just my thoughts.

Ummm... I offer a quality service that you are asking for, take a look into my profile, see my website for detailed description and video to enjoy:) http://mssophiav.ca/ Miss Sophia V xoxo

And volunteer you have! Thank you, Cat!! :-) Hopefully, there will be some left that will find their way out of the social ... ;-)

Altho some may think I am biased, I'd be happy to volunteer for the judging! cat

haha!

Its taken me a couple weeks to come up with words to describe Zoe and I'm still having issues. I've seen Zoe a couple of occasions now, seems to be a Friday afternoon habit of sorts. All I can say is what a great way to end the work week by spending time with a long legged blond bombshell that has the GND innocence. The first meeting with Zoe was easy to set up even with some location issues we had but once we had a spot picked she was there before waiting in a nice little summer dress. Conversation was just like two old friends which put all nerves at ease. Having just finished work I needed to jump through the rinse cycle and next thing i knew it was a shower for two which just got everything going. From that point I knew this was going to be great and the hour would fly by and it did. I'm not going to go into detail but guys when this 6' beauty wants to play be prepared, I quickly set up our next engagement once the festivities were done. Our second meeting was much the same as the first, an hour of bliss is the best way to describe it. Zoe now has her place set up so in central Kingston so it was easy to find and like our first meeting she was waiting for me. Kingston should be very thankful that Zoe spends as much time here as she does. She is a real person who truly loves what she does and will put the biggest smile on your face after your encounter....you will be back for more and she will become your addiction.

Disclaimer: I realize that the majority of you are paying for a sexual service and that your needs should be met within the boundaries of the escort in question. That is the service I am providing. However, that being said, I would like to call attention to what I like to refer to as "jack-hammering." This is basically extended penetrative sex and nothing else. You may be convinced that good sex requires only penetration and stamina--as well all know, women want a man who can last (I hope you can sense the sarcasm there), or perhaps it is purely selfish on your part, you do want to get your money's worth after all. So you pound your paid sex partner, over and over, squeezing in every possible available second. In which case, I am not a blow-up doll. I am not an object solely for your use. Keep in mind, I do not think it is a problem, for example, if you would like to simply pay to receive a blowjob, provided you realize the skill and time involved in administering a good blowjob. And I do not think penetrative sex itself is bad. But if you are interested in engaging in a full range of sexual behaviour, please realize that "sex" does not simply equal penetration for as long as humanly possible. After awhile it is painful, un-stimulating and rather boring. If a woman is not turned on, she doesn't create those delicious lubricating fluids that can make penetrative sex so wonderful. So take the time to pay attention to things like kissing and groping and licking and nibbling and so on. If the first thing you're going for is penetration, you have skipped so many amazing, naughty fun things to do to one another. While we are providing a very intimate service, aimed at generating your pleasure and satisfaction, we have emotions, and physical limits. So keep that in mind the next time you're with your favourite lady. Happy pooning!

Andrea poses the question in her ads of "Can I be your guilty pleasure?" The answer is most certainly she can! Andrea is fun to chat with and fun to play with. She describes herself quite accurately in her ads. If small breasts are a particular item of interest, you really must see Andrea. Plus she has a bum that can well be described as being just slightly more than a handful each. So if tiny bums peak your interest, there you go. I've seen Andrea twice now. Both times were on relatively short notice. Usually I schedule my outings a few days in advance or more but meeting Andrea reminds me that it is good to occasionally stray from one's normal processes. Wearing a sexy little outfit, she met me at the door with a kiss I'd expect from a long lost lover. After divesting myself of my electronics and clothes, we hopped on the bed and got to know each other. The more we talked and stroked, the more my little guy wanted to get to know her. Once he was covered Andrea set about getting to know him in a most personal and pleasurable way. We swapped positions and I found she had a most responsive body when approached just right. Ah, age and experience, sometimes it serves me well! The natural flow of events brought us to a doggy position which she well likes. Eventually, things came to a thrilling climax. Subsequent adventures showed that Andrea is really quite amazingly flexible. It is a joy to watch her eyes and her smile while we are enjoying each other's company. All in all, Andrea is a welcome addition to Ottawa. I am happy to have made her acquaintance and wish her well on her adventures. I will most definitely be back to enjoy the pleasure of her company.

Had the pleasure of meeting Charlotte Q earlier this week! While I wasn't crazy about the location, the overall experience was amazing! I won't go into details as I think you need to experience time with her yourself. What I can say is that she seemed to love kissing (as do I), was extremely open and also very responsive. The experience was definitely gfe/pse and included everything that I was interested in. For me, what sets Charlotte apart from other sps is her attitude. She is very friendly and easy to talk with. I'm always nervous when seeing someone new but right from chatting with her on the phone, she put me at ease! She has the innocent GND thing going but is very passionate. Kingston is lucky to have Charlotte Q!

I debated just throwing this into the Randomness thread but I think it raises enough important points for a discussion. uses food to demonstrate the difference between porn videos and real life in less than 2 minutes. Pretty well done. I know a lot of new guys are a little insecure when they're starting out so it might be helpful for them to know that many of the experienced ladies on this board won't find this video surprising. So don't get stressed out...go see someone. They're probably way more understanding than you might imagine.

I think it is a good idea. No surprises. I think clarity is helpful in this hobby.

I do like it when pricing is listed. It is definitely not the only factor in my decisions, but I like to have some idea what I'm getting into before I make contact. Asking her is always an option of course once you have decided you are interested, although choosing not to book after asking that question makes me feel... cheap. (Even if it is not the only reason I have decided not to book with her at this time.) Being able to find out for myself without having to bother her is definitely my preference. As far as a list of services goes, this is not so important to me. One thing I do often look for is whether or not kissing is on the menu. Not a deal breaker, as I can have fun without, but is something that adds to the intimacy and overall experience for me. As for listing other things, I rarely go through the list of acronyms. My needs are pretty simple I guess. I personally always look for a web site to get as much info as I can without having to ask. I read as much as I can so I can decide if I'm interested before I waste her time with questions.

My youngest kid finally moved out!!! (28 freakin' years old!!!!) Happy for me and for her!

My schedule Friday this week: 10 am - 11pm Sunday This week: 10am-9pm Exclusivley @ Angels 613-274-7073 to book

I find that having a bit of detail on my site about specific services has been helpful. I do still receive inquiries for things that I have listed as not offered, but the amount of these requests has gone down significantly from when I did not have a site. While I am not really comfortable listing every single thing that may or may not be available, I do list my clear boundaries, and leave it open to anyone interested could always contact me for more specifics on what more is offered.. For the most part it works for me, but there will always be those who don't look over our sites at all lol

Yes I have a grown a lot in the last 3 years, started off as a lurker, then slowly met only a several woman, then started trying out GFE massage, Nuru massage, Met some cerb woman who I became friends with, then started experiencing more SP's, Each woman showing me new tricks. Learnt that woman seem to like me for who I am. Had my first duo :). Met women from different sizes and shapes and races. I've learnt to be able to relax and just give and receive pleasure. I've become more comfortable and am now exploring new adventures and girls. Each experience seems to get better and more exciting. Hope to have more in the coming year. Additional Comments: Yes I have a grown a lot in the last 3 years, started off as a lurker, then slowly met only a several woman, then started trying out GFE massage, Nuru massage, Met some cerb woman who I became friends with, then started experiencing more SP's, Each woman showing me new tricks. Learnt that woman seem to like me for who I am. Had my first duo :). Met women from different sizes and shapes and races. I've learnt to be able to relax and just give and receive pleasure. I've become more comfortable and am now exploring new adventures and girls. Each experience seems to get better and more exciting. Hope to have more in the coming year.

Thank God I'm Fabulous!! :) Hello Boys!!! I am a tall bombshell that is seductive by nature, a statuesque 5'11" and 130lbs with dazzling Hazel eyes and a smile to die for! My personality will captivate you while my massage will leave you relaxed from head to toe. Then I will spice it up.... Seduction is a game that I have mastered!!! The feel of my body all over yours, my breath on your neck, the taste of my kiss lingering on your lips.... You will CRAVE me!! Contact me Text 613-277-4328 Call 613-274-7073 (Angels Touch) or by PM Schedule Friday Aug 2 10:00am-5:30pm Saturday Aug 3 4:00pm - 9:00pm Check out what others are saying about my service http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=111731 Sexuality is not a Leisure or Part-time Activity It is a way of Being -Alexander

One thing, if you "leave comment, rep points", it does not bump up the thread. So, my understanding on Reco's, if you leave it as a comment, instead of replying, you are not bumping. Am I correct? That's ok right?

Big time! There's things I definitely wouldn't have been comfortable doing in the past that I have grown into more. Im not typically a reserved or shy person but I was definitely guarded when it came to sexuality. I've come out of my shell quite a bit and have been able to explore different aspects above and beyond guy+girl=fluids. I also have to thank CERB and the people on here for teaching me so much in the short amount of time I've been here. Cheers!

It's great to spell everything out. If you are beyond my budget or perhaps I'm looking for a particular service and you don't provide it, I won't waste your time or mine :)

Sorry boys, but the only way to taste my muffin will be to see me in purrson, as I will not be attending... but I will gladly take samples of any baking endeavours ;)

Where do you see the AD's?

This feature was added by Mod about two years ago due to what he worded as a security issue surrounding a SP and a stalker. Here is a link to the thread where Mod announces it. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=67406&highlight=profile Here is a link to the thread where it was first discussed, notice post numbers 26 and 95 by Mod explaining things further. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=63905&highlight=profile

Awww hes super cute!! I have a chihuahua, his name is Taco, hes a blue grey with brown and white markings. Not a teacup but hes teeny and my little man....although he is only a pup and barks and barks and barks...hes still a cutie :) i want to post a pic of him for you guys to see but can't figure out how..

I would like to attend! Thanks xox

Can't cut and paste using my ipad but...is this puppy love? "Tiny" is soooo adorable....I will call him george. I will love him and pet him and squeeze him! http://www.carolynstoykennel.sitew.ca/#Chihuahua_Teacup_Pups_Available_in_Ottawa_.A

My wish list consists of Annessa, Cleo Catra and Alexandra Sky.

I want to cum!!!!! ....I mean.... join you all..... for fun..... and drinks..... it's hot in here....

First of all who is this Porter guy? He a Cerb member ? ;) Sooooo New venue.... Is this a BYOB deal or is Mr T bringing the brownies still ? Is there going to be music or do I have to sing SING sing ? Is there lots of room for me to cut a rug ? ..... break a move ? another words side step from too much alcohol ? Will Old Dog have orange glasses for me again so I can look inconspicuous ? Did I spell inconspicuous right ? Do I have to be the designated driver or designated drunk ? If there is any cleavage there can I look at ? or do I check out my shoes for gum and avoid looking at the gorgeous yummy cleavage that I could be looking at if I wasn't looking at my shoes ? Ooopsies Sorry girls.....silly me my bad Should be fun :) We are there for a good time !!! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_IrTvIKlegM

Yes meg you are correct about the photos, the have to be set to private. My page is set to public but to be honest I have no clue what to add or put? I do not feel comfortable putting anything that can reveal my identity to the public, but I have no problem if someone contacts me for info. As for my pic you wanna see them I'm happy to show them. They are of my pets. I too would like to know about the avatar, do you have to save a picture in an album? FYI I mostly use my I phone so not sure save as works in this case. Thanks for bringing this up I had no idea.

Most 'legit' and by legit I mean non HE places wipe me down with a wet/hot towel...

aHAHAHAHA... sorry, I'm just trying to imagine that conversation. GUY 1: "Hey, whatcha doin'?" GUY 2: "Playing Killzone 7... just came out." *pew pew boom* GUY 1: "Huh, cool." (pause) "Hey, you know what GUY 2? You should totally get out of here and go to a brothel." GUY 2: "WTF?" GUY 1: "Seriously. You've captured the other guy's flag, like, three times while I've been watching. Knock that off. You need some action." (pause) "At a brothel." GUY 2: "Dude, my girlfriend will be home in, like, an hour." GUY 1: "Look, here, take this..." *gives paper* "Just call this number and go to this address. Seriously. You should totally do it." GUY 2: "Uhhh...." LATER: GUY 2: "Dude! That was awesome!" GUY 1: "I told you! Now... make sure you go back several more times this week." GUY 2: "You know what? I'm totally doing that, because you've just convinced me that I should." HANDCUFFS: "Click!"

What makes you think they don't look at this site? I know for a fact they do as I have spoken with police in the past in regards to the site. In fact a very nice lady police investigator contacted us not too long ago asking for assistance in a case. Now, your new so I suspect you think prostitution is illegal right? We watch a lot of american TV and prostitution in Canada (unlike MOST of the USA) is very much legal here. In canada streetwalking (public solicitation), brothels (common bawdy houses) and pimping/procuring is illegal. The actual exchange for money for sex in private is very much legal and since a website is not considered a PUBLIC PLACE discussing and advertising such activities in classified ads and online is NOT illegal. We do not allow discussions of illegal nature here. Included on this list is - streetwalkers - FS massage spa's - public brothels - sex in public (including "Car dates") - underage (18 is the legal age) - drugs - pimping and so on... Hope that helps

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Call me a Moralist but if you have a Wife, GF, or any SO that shares the same roof as you, keep it away from home... I believe is a matter of respect for that other person... My opinion..

Funny, but true. I did an outcall once to visit a man at the house he shared with his wife, while she was at work, and it was the most uncomfortable hour of my life. I will never do it again. I don't understand why men try this, and I think it is just asking for trouble. It's almost like sub-consciously they want to get caught. Maybe if she is out of town for the weekend or something, then there's a bit more leeway, but even then, a long blonde hair, the tiny corner of a condom wrapper, a lingering scent, or any number of things could be an easy giveaway. One can dig his own grave, but imagine the awkward and potentially dangerous situation the SP would be put in if wifey comes home early. As cautious as one is, why not just eliminate the possibility altogether and either rent a hotel room, or just do an incall. Playing it safe could also alleviate a lot of unnecessary stress for both parties too. :) To each their own, but in my own life, I try to stay as drama-free as possible and avoid situations when possible that have a high potential for being troublesome.