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It didn't work out that way because: This will sound cold but I hope your ego finally understands what it accomplished; you created this mess by pushing boundaries and by willingly seeking and pursuing "love" and "freebies" from your MA(s) while knowing full well this was a unique professional intimate business relationship. I guess you now have a new challenge on your plate... Destructive behavior (drugs, alcohol, etc.) will never help you solve your problems and will only make them worst. Please, do yourself a favor and deal with the situation effectively starting with having a clear and objective head and with the will to let her go and to forget about her. Hopefully the lady will also refuse to see you in the future so you can move forward! If you decide to contact her again and she accepts to see you again, it will do you NO good and you will only keep running in never ending circles. Someone once said: Using your head would do to but I think that was pretty good advice! ............................................................................................... For what it's worth, maybe not for you but for others, when seeing a lady: - Always keep it real - Go in with clear and honest intentions; a simple massage, relaxation, conversation and a happy ending with a sexy and friendly lady- nothing more. If you have (or start having) alternative motives, this is when it will get complicated for both parties involved. - Don't ever try to change the nature of the professional relationship. Always remember that you are the client and she is the service provider. - If you are looking for/want/need personal friends with benefits, try dating sites. Professional ladies are not involved in this lifestyle to find personal lovers or personal friends. - Always keep it real (did I already say that?) - If you (or she) start having "feelings", walk/run away. It is the only smart thing to do. If you decide to "go with the flow" and see where it goes, be well aware it might not end the way you wanted it to. - Blurring boundaries, wanting more and going through with it usually never ends well. - If you really enjoy a good challenge, learn a new language ;) The list could be much longer but I guess this is a good start!

Imo as a sex industry worker is to just back off completely. No good will come of this and do you really truly know this woman? Have you NOT paid her at anytime to go out with you? If so, this is still a paid relationship. And just because she has appeased you in her lust for her probably means she finds this whole situation awkward and with the "We shall see" type comment. She doesn't know how to tell you she doesn't want to see you where a personal relationship is concerned. If she had feelings for you, you wouldn't be visiting her at the MP and paying for her time. She is probably at the point where she wants to keep you as a customer but your lust for her makes this difficult and what if one day she tells you she can't see you anymore? How is that going to play out? I'm saying this because I had to deal with this once ( non cerb member) from an SP's point of view, he crossed all boundaries asking me to dinner knowing I was personally involved with someone. It's like he just tried to barge into my personal life without a care in the world with the hopes he could win me over. He would put me on the spot trying to get me to go to dinner and not be compensated for my time and not realizing or getting the hint that it's crossing boundaries. I had to let him go as a client after knowing him for 5 months and he was very selfish not ever once thinking about me, always trying to get more time for free without ever once being considerate and was up to seeing me 3 times a week. It was too much and he would attach himself without it being reciprocal most likely because he was involved with a dancer who used him and treated him like shit. Seeing him became a chore and when I get that feeling, it's time to end it. I don't like to see people that I won't enjoy being with just for the sake of money. No amount of money is worth the anguish. He didn't take the rejection too well but I didn't lead him on and never went out with him for free. It's against my rules as an SP. Have you ever asked this woman honestly how she felt about you? This sounds all completely one sided and I agree that you are infatuated with her and the idea of her. But the personna she may be giving off may not completely be the real her. I think you are replacing her with something you are missing in your life and seeing SPs or MA's is just a short term fix. You need to ask yourself what you're missing in life. Additional Comments: Imo as a sex industry worker is to just back off completely. No good will come of this and do you really truly know this woman? Have you NOT paid her at anytime to go out with you? If so, this is still a paid relationship. And just because she has appeased you in her lust for her probably means she finds this whole situation awkward and with the "We shall see" type comment. She doesn't know how to tell you she doesn't want to see you where a personal relationship is concerned. If she had feelings for you, you wouldn't be visiting her at the MP and paying for her time. She is probably at the point where she wants to keep you as a customer but your lust for her makes this difficult and what if one day she tells you she can't see you anymore? How is that going to play out? I'm saying this because I had to deal with this once ( non cerb member) from an SP's point of view, he crossed all boundaries asking me to dinner knowing I was personally involved with someone. It's like he just tried to barge into my personal life without a care in the world with the hopes he could win me over. He would put me on the spot trying to get me to go to dinner and not be compensated for my time and not realizing or getting the hint that it's crossing boundaries. I had to let him go as a client after knowing him for 5 months and he was very selfish not ever once thinking about me, always trying to get more time for free without ever once being considerate and was up to seeing me 3 times a week. It was too much and he would attach himself without it being reciprocal most likely because he was involved with a dancer who used him and treated him like shit. Seeing him became a chore and when I get that feeling, it's time to end it. I don't like to see people that I won't enjoy being with just for the sake of money. No amount of money is worth the anguish. He didn't take the rejection too well but I didn't lead him on and never went out with him for free. It's against my rules as an SP. Have you ever asked this woman honestly how she felt about you? This sounds all completely one sided and I agree that you are infatuated with her and the idea of her. But the personna she may be giving off may not completely be the real her. I think you are replacing her with something you are missing in your life and seeing SPs or MA's is just a short term fix. You need to ask yourself what you're missing in life.

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Well if you think of it, you ain't going to continue looking for it after you finding it so its the last place you look. If you find it in the first place it would still be the last place you looked for it. But yes when you can't find something it does feel like why didn't I look here first.

I think the vote is unanimous, especially with a "GFE" Thats the basis of what makes a girlfriend. It helps to break the ice, create comfort and enhance intimacy. Half the fun of an encounter is gently caressing and looking at a womans body after sex. Anything else just seems forced and robotic.

Cuddling, kissing and hugging, for me is the whole reason for me seeing these lovely ladies. That sort of intimacy, is so therapeutic for me. Happy ending or getting off is secondary. Even if its only for a moment or its temporary, but when engaged in theses activities it provides me a sense of love, which for me is one of my needs I require. For someone who has been diagnosed with depression this is something I found clear my mind and keep me happy even if its for a moment. Reminding me and giving me hope when I'm really down that I can still feel good, and these sad feelings will eventual pass. Oh and on a side note this gets me off. Sex for me is just as much psychological as it is physical I have to feel the intimacy. Kinda why pse ain't for me cause I'll pass out from exhaustion before I orgasm.

Kissing is something that turns me on no end and is connected to just about every part of my body. When done right, I crave more...passion, intensity. There is also something terribly erotic about the slipping and sliding of tongues that makes me envision the sliding of cock or wet lips, both above and below. Love that connection during as well although sometimes the passion sweeps you up and mouths are busy making other noises recognizable throughout the ages. It's different on this side of the fence because to me, it's more about your pleasure and sharing in that then getting what I want. I get what I like/want from what you are prepared to share/give. If you are a kisser/hugger/cuddler, then the visual of the "touchdown dance" ensues because I love those aspects. If you're not, I'm still going to enjoy just within the boundaries. I'm very oral and very hands on, that's my nature. Flesh under my lips and hands is like fresh air in my lungs. Breathing is just a little shallower without but still good.

How come when you can't find something, it is ALWAYS in the last place you look?

Well I'll step out on a limb here and say you aren't in love with her You are infatuated with her, you like her but are also in lust with her Do you really think you are in love...try this. See her for a few dates obviously only if she agrees. No sex, no massage, no happy endings....just dinner and movie type date First will she charge you or will she see you as a conventional "civilian" date Second are you infatuated with her because of sex or because of the person she is I'm guessing she liked you as a client and opened up because she trusted you, and you vice versa. She may even consider you a friend...a friend who is a paying client For your sake and hers stop seeing her, no offence you don't seem able to emotionally handle this situation And stop the boozing and drugs they won't help you at all just start a downward spiral compounding your existing problem See NA and AA if you have too Good Luck RG

All 3 are equally safe or unsafe depending on YOUR choice. If you choose to do bbfs with any of the 3= unsafe. If you choose to do cfs with any of the 3= safe or as safe as can be. We as hobbyist really don't know what an SP does in her private or professional life, as the SP doesn't know what we do in our private lives. But the fact is we are both equally dangerous to each other. Lets face it, every encounter can be like a game of russian roulette for both. All we can do is be as safe as possible.

Just read an interesting article in this weeks Coast Halifax. Here is a link to the article for all. http://www.thecoast.ca/halifax/red-light-greenlight-sex-work-at-the-brink-of-legalization/Content?oid=3966753&issue=3966634

as a burlesque dancer who works in the strip club i agree with you on the SHOWS part....these days, if a girl isnt doing magnificent pole acrobatics (which is definitely stage-worthy) girls just go up on stage and shake their asses or play with their naughty bits on stage and if someone REALLY dances or, heaven forbid, puts any sort of costuming or choreography into her act all it gets is eye-rolls from the other gals or club-goers...like they're "trying too hard" or something....thats why I'm super excited when i get to do a burlesque show outside the club because people hoot and holler and cheer as skin is about to be revealed and theres way more creativity than just laying down a blanket , getting down on all fours and spreading your legs.

Are you effin serious dude ? Who are you to judge what and how this woman chooses to earn ? Pretty ballsy of you to be so judgmental not only of her but of the other men of CERB. Do you have any proof or factual statistical information that meeting men from cerb is dangerous to her or the "little one" ? There is a huge fetish market for pregnant women and just because you don't understand it doesn't mean you can judge her or anyone who's into that. You probably do some freaky shit that might disgust some so save your judgment and read the credo of this site "if you can't say anything nice, say nothing at all" You cast the first stone in this case so prepare to have many stones come back to you. While I'm here do you know how ineffective your post is because of your ignorant and immature use of the word retarded ? Wow what an offensive word, so hurtful and totally in appropriate and way off base. Doesn't feel so nice to be judged now does it ?

Considering the recent discussions here on CERB about fat/skinny body shaming, I wanted to share this amazing website that I came across today! "The Nu Project is a series of honest nudes of women from all over the world. The project began in 2005 and has stayed true to the original vision: no professional models, minimal makeup and no glamour. The focus of the project has been and continues to be the subjects and their personalities, spaces, insecurities and quirks." It is quite a remarkable collection of photographs of a wide variety of real women. It is a showcases and celebrates the beauty in ALL women's bodies, in their natural state. All unique and beautiful in their own way! :) www.thenuproject.com Enjoy!

To me, cuddling, kissing and hugging are part of the GFE that I crave and cherish so much. The whole GFE is why I go to see my ATF's again and again. I would venture that the time spent on cuddling, kissing and hugging contitutes about 70% of the total time I will spend with my beautiful ladies.

Selena told me she does not like reviews/recommandations but I still felt to let Cerb gents that I had the privilège to meet her this morning and that I had a great hour rendez vous with this lady. I believe we hit it off from the start and I will definitely see her again on her next trip to the NCR.

A bit late to the party ;), but I'd like to congratulate you on reaching your 1,000-post milestone and to thank you for your contributions to this site. Good going, and keep it up! Looking forward to more of your wit and humour. FR

Can't resist music threads! Stone Sour - Wicked Game Halestorm - Bad Romance Michael Mind - Baker Street (I was at this show - it was amazing)

Congratulations Emma, on reaching a stellar 4,000-post milestone! Your many contributions to this site will always be appreciated and I look forward to many more marvelous posts yet to come. Thanks for being here and just being you! FR

Going through some of my old classic rock collection. The Chase is Better Than the Catch - Motorhead

Congrats Meaghan !!! 1000 Great posts !! and keep em coming :)

Aw, you're only 3600 or so ahead of me. lol Good job!

I used to see a woman at an MP who enjoyed getting guys to leave their wives for her just for the ego boost it gave her hope its not her you're seeing

The Red Light District in Amsterdam. I would close the curtains in my little glass space tho ;)

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In a Swiss chalet. And by that I mean a chalet in the mountains in Switzerland, not the chicken restaurant.

Congrats Meaghan on 1000 posts and for your contribution to Cerb!

In a field in the highlands of Scotland. More of a memory than a wish, but I do wish I were back there at that moment in time.....

Congratulations Meaghan on your milestone Looking forward to your next 1000 contributions RG

Congrats my dear! Well done!

Congrats Emma! A true elegant lady and a great contributor on this board !

How come that some of the bosses ask for something for "yesterday" (its urgent or the world will fall apart kinda thing), yet the work submitted sits on their desk for weeks on end? Mmmmm Wait.... i think i know why ....

I always loved fall...

Absolutely! I remember when I first started escorting, I considered dancing and ruled it out because a girl actually had to know how to put on a show and I have 2 left feet! I loved the performance and the showmanship the headliner would bring and the club girls would constantly try to up their game so maybe they could headline one day. A couple of weeks ago I was at a club here, it was a very quiet night for both clients and girls; the stage was empty. The manager and I were kibitzing and he motioned to the stage suggesting I go up. I told him I would rather put a man on that stage and have my way with him than dance. (yes, I'm that bad a dancer). He laughed and replied "just pretend there is a guy there! That's all the girls do." and I realized he was serious. It was a sad realization for me. The game has changed and not for the better in my opinion. An art was lost... cat

This might not be the most politically correct opinion, but I think these numbers are a replacement for aspects now handled by pictures. The numbers are probably a leftover from print ads. Guys have a certain shape they prefer. I tend to like a bustier woman, not so skinny as I'd worry breaking her. Also, I'm more comfortable with women closer to my age (another number). While I don't pay much attention to weight, I will confess that chest measurements do. So I'm the absence of a picture, I'd be looking for those numbers which fit that mental image.

An interesting and easy to understand article explaining what could be next after the laws are struck down and what sex workers want and need in a post-decrim Canada: http://rabble.ca/columnists/2013/04/sex-workers-are-coming

Husband tells of his life married to a sex worker By Lucy Kippist http://www.heraldsun.com.au/lifestyle/husband-tells-of-his-life-married-to-a-sex-worker/story-fni0d7e4-1226693480721

I havent read all the replies so if I'm repeating anything forgive me, but I like to have recommendations to refer a new potential client to... I'm not exactly the best at self promotion or talking myself up so if a wary or nervous potential client asks me something seemingly silly (but valid i guess) like "well what kind of experience can I expect?" or "what sets you apart from the other ladies?"...i can give my two cents but its easier to say "Dont take my word for it.....check out my 11 pages of reviews from some very satisfied customers". Hehe ;)

I can't say much more than what has already been said, but I'll be sticking with this SP for as long as she's around. Her photos are initially what caught my eye, and somehow they didn't even do her justice. Absolutely breath taking. She is also extremely friendly/smart and interesting to talk to. Cannot say enough about this girl.

I don't partake in this hobby too often, but after looking at MsManda's albums I knew I had to. She has an amazingly sexy body, but those lips are what got me. She's a gorgeous girl and much sexier than even her pictures can show. As an added perk to the incall, like a previous commenter said, you get a great view of her perfect ass while walking up to her apartment. Such a great way to start out the encounter. I'm not much for describing the actual goings on since that is a YMMV thing, but I'm pretty sure I experienced the greatest BJ known to mankind. I may have even proposed to her a few times. She is super accommodating as to what your preferences are, and looks oh so sexy while doing it. In addition to her great looks and amazing services, she's just a super cool person - easy to get along with, hilarious, great taste in music. I'll definitely repeat, as often as I can afford to.

I too had the wonderful pleassure of meeting MsManda. It was earlier last month, and sort of a Happy New Year gift to me from me, boy was she ever! She had to come downstairs to let me in, cause her buzzer wasn't working. Once I seen her I thought WOW. My eyes were glued to her ass in those sexy jeans as she walked towards her appt. I wanted to tell her to slow down so I could savour it even more, but there was more important things to see, lol. Once we got in we wasted no time. She has what I'd consider a perfect body, long legs, a nice juicy ass, beautiful breasts, and lots of piercings to nibble on, just not too hard, lol. And that smile would welcome anyone. I plan on repeating, and repeating, and repeating again. A very, very, very sexy woman...

I clean my house in heels, a scarf, jewelry and tiara... Even royalty can't find good help now adays ... cat

Their versions of Blowin' In The Wind, Seasons In The Sun, and Stand By Your Man are classics! I love everything they do. Another favourite is Richard Cheese. For any who don't know him, he does Vegas lounge singer versions of songs, like: And with a very special guest. ;-) Moving on to other artists:

Frijid Pink doing "House of the Rising Sun" by the Animals. But we're going way back to 1971

Fergie, Cypress Hill and Slash - originally by Guns 'N' Roses Shinedown - Simple Man originally by Lynyrd Skynard The Black Crowes - originally by Otis Reading Dwight Yoakam - Little Sister and both originally by Elvis Jimi Hendrix - All Along the Watchtower originally by Bob Dylan The Rolling Stones - originally by Bob Dylan Patti Smith - originally by The Rolling Stones Ron Burgundy - originally by The Starland Vocal Band Chris Cornell (Former lead singer of Soundgarden and Audioslave) - originally by Michael Jackson Chris Cornell - originally by Led Zeppelin Red Hot Chili Peppers - Higher Ground originally by Stevie Wonder Jeff Buckley - originally by Leonard Cohen No Doubt - originally by Talk Talk Billy Idol - Mony Mony originally by Tommy James Pantera - originally by Ted Nugent Motorhead - originally by Richard Berry then by The Kingsmen Guns 'N' Roses - originally by Nazareth

Ahhh, the ?tipping? debate! I noticed there was a decided void in SP response so I will take a minute to share my thoughts? From an agency girl perspective, tipping is often a way to generate extra income because after they pay the agency and the driver, they usually end up on the short end of the stick. 10 years ago, I ran for an agency, we collected $260 for an hour, with $110 going to the house, $40-$100 to the driver depending on where the visit was located, which left me maximum of $110 with as little as $10 in my pocket. With a $15 book on fee and mandatory car cell phone fees of $25 per night, I needed 3 full fees per night to make working worthwhile, God forbid I get credit card calls, which somehow always worked out us getting nothing. We were not allowed to refuse a call so we had to find creative ways to ensure we were paid. Tipping for extra service was the only way to keep our heads above water. The nice thing was that we had a shift, we worked, and we went home and had a life. That said, it was unfair to the guest who would end up with less than what he expected because he was not prepared for the extra fees. Independents are in a slightly different boat. We usually have a higher upfront fee, but we also assume ALL the costs incurred, which is far more than many realize. If we charged what we feel we should to get our ROI, the protests would be heard long and loud. Many Indies have a smaller bottom line than an ambitious girl at a well run agency. So when it comes to tips, many things need to be considered. In the south, SP's are tipped much in the same manner as a restaurant. Anyone walking a restaurant wouldn?t consider walking out without leaving a tip if everything was satisfactory. I tip everyone in the service industry, from the girl who washes my hair, to the man at Suny?s who pumps my gas because a little bit from many adds up at the end of the day. Flowers and trinkets are lovely in thought, but a girl can?t deposit wilted stems into an RRSP, and my bank doesn?t seem to take dildos, massage oil, garter belts or silk stockings on deposit -go figure! As Joyful C has so wisely stated, most SP?s live a fragile existence financially. We provide an illusion of playful luxury for our guests benefit, but rest assured, 90% of the time it is smoke and mirrors. Behind the scenes we struggle to pay our bills, put diapers on our babies and try to take care of those we love, all the while working on a way to get to a normal existence if that does in fact even exist. An extra $20 from each client equals a full appointment by the end of the week, and at the end of the month that pays the cell phone, buys the groceries and lets us take the little ones away for the weekend after we have paid both rents (home and incall), all our advertising, babysitters, hydro, car repairs, personal maintenance and the same expenses everyone else has. Not to mention the monthly payments on augmentation, lifts, tucks and anything else to keep us up to the exceptionally high standards expected if we want to continue making money in this arena. There are few SP?s who can keep up the daily client service to ensure long term financial viability in this business because of the emotional and physical toll this business extracts which sometimes means extended time offs to get our heads, hearts and bodies back in order. We have no paid holidays, benefits or paid personal days. If there is a crisis that forces us to take time off, we lose money and clients which often means we work regardless of illness, pain or any other of lifes challenges. Each SP has her own reasons for working, but the universal element is that we all are trying to achieve some sort of financial stability. I never expect tips, and I can count on one hand how many I have received since my arrival in Canada because of the nature of the business here. Hate to tell you guys, but Canadian men are not known for their generous nature, they rank a close second to Germans in this realm (I think the outlandishly high taxes inflicted in both countries has something to do with it!). I would never expect a tip from guests that have me on retainer, I see them weekly. But unless you are going to be a bankable commodity in a SP?s life, a tip relative to the quality of service is a sure way to say thank you and have her know you mean it... Catherine

I had to remove a thread tonight and I am very upset that people are posting crap like this. Some idiot PM'd one of the members claiming that one of the local girls has aids. The member posted this along with other nonsense. Why he felt it was necessary to start a thread like this I will never know but I am done with people trying to slander other peoples reputations. If your too stupid to realize a PM or POST like this is just slanderous and made by either a jealous competitor, ex-boyfriend or drunken idiot trying to cause a problems then let me help you out by telling you first hand that you should just delete the PM and report the user name to me so we can get rid of the trolls! If you feel the need to accuse someone of such a thing publicly do it elsewhere as I don't care to slander anyone on this site and as long as I am moderator of this site I will NOT tolerate it from anyone else here! I will shut down the board before I allow that to happen so if you enjoy the site please respect this policy and rule.