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My first thought is if it was something you did/didn't do, she would not have spoken to you twice more or looked up setting up an appointment and if she did, that is not the professional way to "back away". Good reviews or no, this is very unprofessional behavior, all three times. Is she having issues? No clue but I would expect if someone is advertising a lot that having clients is important so one wouldn't behave this way. If you behaved this way towards a lady here, you would NOT have a second opportunity to to it. I understand the intrigue and interest and only you can decide if she's worth pursuing on the off chance that one day things may click and you can meet. Or you may end up with futile efforts that end in failure as the other three have. I have no idea where her reviews are but you also have to ask, are they real. I am sure that even with your particular tastes and interests that there is "someone" out there who will not give you this run around or treat you so callously and unprofessionally. If you can seriously look at yourself and say "I behaved as I normally do and did nothing wrong" then you are not the one with the issue however you are the one with the decision to make. I'm sorry you are dealing with this as well as questioning yourself from someone else's behavior. My advice would be to do yourself a favor and move on. I'm sure someone else will value you.

I'm sorry this happened to you but the only one that can answer why is her. No gentleman should have to chase a provider, either we can see you or we can't. With that many failed attempts, and none of them appearing to be your fault its absolutely time to move on. We all can have things happen in our lives that can take precedence but still when offering a service those to whom we offer it and book with have to remain a priority and at the very last deserve an explanation if something does arise.

Sorry folks but for the most part deposits will not solve your issue. There used to be a very active Ottawa based Poly group on this board. For a bunch of reasons it is not as active on this board, but still very active. The people involved just use other means to stay in touch. I think one of the reasons it is not on this board as much, is it seemed to attract a lot of tire-kickers and lookie-lous who were really not interested in the activity. They were just curious or had voyeuristic tendencies. Also some of the SP's and to a lesser extent hobbiests, experienced a backlash from some clients when it got out that they were participating. I think that may be part of what some of the SP's who try to organize these events are experiencing There is usually some difficulty finding a time for some of these events that suits everyone. That is one of the most frequent problems. Most hobbiests don't book an hour for a gang bang in their Outlook calendar, or can't tell the SO what they are doing. So the larger the number of participants, the harder it is to get schedules to work and mesh. The most successful ones in the Poly group generally had the logistics handled by a hobbiest. An SP would agree with a hobbiest on the type of event, the ground rules, number of participants etc. The hobbiest would then be the one who organized the client logistics. Recruiting them, telling them the ground rules, donations etc. Often they also secured the venue. That seemed to work the best. Of course the other key is that many folks are uncomfortable in this group setting with strangers. The key factor of that Poly group, was that we ran Poly socials. In someways the forerunner of the CERB socials, but much smaller, and much more casual. Interested SP's would attend, and hobbiests as well, who were usually screened by the other hobbiests to make sure we didn't invite trouble. We would share a few drinks, a few laughs, make connections, and generally from that event, hobbiests would approach an SP to set something up. (Sometimes that very night, but not always) Although sometimes it would lead to one on one encounters, generally everyone there, were there for the same interest, and group events usually happened. And not to hijack the thread I will respond to RG's comment on what he thinks it would be like. In fact that group of folks is actually pretty intimate, although the events are a bit of a walk on the wild side. Most of the folks involved also see each other for GFE sessions. The poly social aspect also meant we got to learn a lot about different folks in the hobby, in a respectful and friendly environment. There was probably more intimacy and camaraderie then I have experienced anywhere else in the hobby.

For me I'm not a guy with atypical tastes, more a vanilla type of guy. But if there is a lady I would like to meet, and she requests a deposit, I'd be comfortable doing so. If I don't feel I could trust her to pay a deposit in advance, then likely my spidey sense is going off already and I'm wondering why I would want to see her to begin with. (BTW this came with some experience, I have had some bad encounters in my early years of this lifestyle) Now, I like paying not just the deposit, but for the whole encounter in advance via email money transfer. Saves me carrying a big wad of money around to an encounter and saves the lady from carrying that big wad of money after the encounter A quick rambling RG

I cannot stand it when people say things like, "He's such an idiot...he probably works at such and such fast food place who sells Burgers." Now I don't work at that particular Fast Food Place, (instead I chose to be an SP) and I never have, but you can bet your rear end that if I were in a tight spot and I had a family to support that I wouldn't look down my nose at a job like that. People in service jobs don't get enough credit, and it's like some people feel the need to make others with those kinds of job feel shame and that isn't fair. A job is a job, and if that person shows up every day and performs at that job, then that deserves respect. Working at a fast food restaurant or being a waitress or cashier or even a SP as I am - may not be as glamorous as being a doctor or a lawyer, but a doctor's money is no better than the money of a blue collar worker. There may be more of it in a doctor's pocket, but it's the value of each dollar is still the same. It irks me when I am in the checkout line at a store, standing behind someone who feels they can treat the cashier like garbage just because they can. I am on of those people who will say something, because I can't be fired for telling off the Moran and I am sure the poor girl behind the register appreciates it since she is unable to say anything in her defense at the risk of becoming unemployed. Yesterday, while waiting in line, I watched as the cashier greeted a man with a smile and he didn't even look at her or say anything, just literally tossed his items on the counter in front of her. She rung him up, he paid and grabbed his items and snatched another plastic bag from the rack as if he was irritated-if had liked something double bagged all he had to do was ask-and when the girl said, "Thanks, have a good evening." he just turned and walked off. I said, "You're welcome!" real loud and obnoxiously and he turned around and glared at me as I smiled all bright. He didn't say anything...I guess his evil stare was supposed to frighten me or something...hardly, I could have so taken him

I agree that anytime really is sufficient, but I do find something special about playing together in the daytime hours; late morning, lunchtime or afternoon. I feel that there is something especially erotic about being locked up together in a private room, taking some time out of the hectic day to share an intimate moment, pleasing each other and enjoying ourselves... While the rest of the world is busy at work, being stressed, driving around in traffic, etc. And we are here in my cozy bed, just the two of us, cumming and cuddling ;)

These days humanity is like bacteria cultured in a petri dish of cash and it's unsurprising that greed and narcissism rule the roost. The Era of Empathy is long over. The Ipods of the world are tuned to such fine examples as Drake, who brags of sitting on his 25 mill. And then there are the older generation, those of us who were foolish enough to believe Gordon Gecko's credo that "Greed is Good". Now they live their lives hustling the less learned of their hard-earned money in their 'repsected' professions, ostensibly much higher up the socio-economic ladder than loansharks and swindlers. Secluded away in their gated communities of over-priced oriented strand board, cultured stone McMansions, grumbling of being out-Jonesed by the jerk-next-door and his brand new Audi, they feel compelled to display their higher caste in petty displays of pretentiousness such as cashier abuse. I've shared my life with trailer park boys and girls, and I've shared my life with monied McMansioners; I have generally fond memories of the former and bitter memories of the latter. What is lost on the McMansioners is that their communities, with their near-identical muchly mortgaged palaces cramped together on tiny postage stamp lots, are themselves simply trailer parks, albeit a little better looking. There are those those who wake up later in life and realize that this obsession with material wealth and social status is all just a an idiot's game, but once you're tied into that life, it's hard to turn the ship around. You have a spouse and kids who are addicted to the highlife, thousands of dollars in payments a month to sustain that highlife, a professional fraternity which demands you toe their line, a circle of vultures you call friends, etc. They don't call it a rat race for nothing; if you become a top rat you're still a rat. By the time many of these people realize the futility of their lifestyle, it's too late. As their cells decay, they look back on what seemed like a full life and realize it was empty and hollow, and perhaps they will finally repent for ruining so many of our days. Life is a game and money is just one of the many ways to keep score. You either rule money or money rules you. Greed is not good, empathy is. When you realize just how insignificant your life is, how insignificant humanity is, how insignificant the Earth is, how insignificant our Sun is, etc., life becomes easier. Perhaps even the Universe is insignificant, as their may be an infinite number of them, or an infinite number of things infinitely more immense. What do we really know? Nothing. Maybe life really is all about grabbing as much of everything as you can at the expense of others, but something makes me think not. In the end, once the atoms of our lives lose their inclination to gravitate together, we own nothing but our souls. Well, there's my rant. Whether it's an asshole treating a cashier like shit, or TEPCO and Monsanto ruining life on Earth, and all the nasty humans in between, I am not terribly impressed with our species these days. Maybe a good BJ will fix that! :D

I don't have an issue with a guest wanting MSOG but it's a rare man that can even attempt it when I'm done with him after a single SOG. Like Emily, my guests come to me for an experience and I would rather play hours together building the tension. My guests derive as much pleasure from the journey as they do the destination. Delayed gratification is indeed the ultimate pleasure in my opinion and I specifically seek out those men who share my passion and inclinations. That said, a provider who posts an hourly fee then evicts a guest as soon he shoots is indeed asking for an issue. The "paid for time not services" comes from the US where escorts are required to cloak their business in a veil to protect themselves from LE. We are not required to do so here and providers have a choice of offering either an a la carte menu or an all inclusive buffet and everything in between. It is up to the guest to explore what a provider is offering to ensure it meets his expectations for the visit and a provider would be wise to be upfront about her chosen business model if she wants return clients. I believe there is the perfect client for every provider and vice versa, we just need to be willing to communicate clearly in order to find each other... cat

Just saying once again,as you and fosgate should of read previous comments about Mia. a) Her account has been dormant since 2012 spring. In other words she is inactive. b) Her web site is down because she has either retired for a while, or all together. c) Read the "New to this area" about posting on recommendations especially this one, which has been inactive for quite sometime. d) Now if Mia is back...which a lot of us doubt because she would announced here in the Ottawa section for her availability. e) Opening this rec by asking questions, only puts this recommendation on the front page of rec's which is just a little unfair to other ladies. f) There is a section in Ottawa- F/S Discussions thread, you can simply ask any questions there. g) I really wish that the rec section is used properly for those,look,write and add to reco's not to simply ask questions about ladies, when all you need to do is use the "search" button, or the "members" list then do your homework. Peace out.

Do you prefer to find someone to stay warm with during the cold months of winter, or do you more enjoy feeling the warm sun on your skin? Is there something you desire when you wake up even more than coffee? Or is afternoon delight or a bedtime snack (so to speak) more your thing? Are you a weekend warrior or would you rather make a manic Monday? Basically, I'm wondering if anyone finds they are more amorous at a particular time of day, of the week, or even in a particular season. I suspect like many of us, I find simply being awake is sufficient...and even that's sometimes optional! ;) That said, I do find I've got an added boost once spring has arrived after a long, gray winter. Also, when I first wake up my body seems extra anxious and ready to go (hmm, can pussy be considered a part of a complete nutritional breakfast? :)) Anyone else?

I wish people were noticed, appreciated, awarded privileges, given respect, etc, for their character not their position or job title. But that will never happen as most of us are to impressed by titles, ie: doctors, lawyers, engineers, etc. Realistically if you were on a dating site and had to choose between a doctor, lawyer, engineer, dentist, etc or a clerk, waitperson, cashier, etc, who would you choose? I think judging people by their titles has been ingrained in most people, sadly, and the first impression anyone usually has of a professional title holder is that they are a better caliber of person, its similar to how prettier people get more attention and better treatment in most situations. Its been my experience that titles mean nothing, as there are assholes in every profession. A persons education or number of degrees means little as well. I've met so many with top degrees that were idiotic, immature, stupid, thoughtless wastes of spaces, but yet their degrees and job titles would leave some to believe they were better than's.

Im going to put another vote into the anytime of day column. That being said something about having a late night of relaxation, socializing and then going to the bedroom and having a long midnight session of play always gives me goosebumps. Its especially nice when you can sleep in the next day. If not you wake up super tired and beat, thinking "What did I do last night? Why am I so tired?" Then you look at the other end of the bed and remember :)

splitz - You're just calling it like you see it. Don't feel like you have to apologize for, or sugar coat, your experiences on this site. No point in trying to put lipstick and high heels on a pig. I for one won't get offended. Keep it up (the posts that is...) Good post dude. Let us know how things go.:biggrin:

I'd like to re affirm my intention is not create ill will or negativity in this space. I believe that no one should feel like they have to see anyone and I harbor no ill will. It's just advice I am seeking. And I'd like to thank you all for the good and friendly advice I have received thus far...

Here's my advice based on what you told us. Don't get hung up on her. Remember there are many good providers out there. She may very well just have got a vibe, or double booked or who knows what. Move on and see another companion. Good Luck RG

I know some of you CERB sweeties follow me on Twitter, so you may have seen this already. Just in case you missed it, here's my recent blog entry titled 'Mom, I'm a Call Girl!' sexydreamlife.blogspot.com/2013/08/mom-im-call-girl.html Thanks everybody for your love and support!

I've crushed on Jewel Staite ever since the first time I saw Firefly Gawd, that smile!

I am pleased to offer lots of atypical situations and fetishes. I have found that the more atypical the request, the higher the chance of a no show. The no shows are costly and discouraging. GBs are atypical and hence lead to a high rate of no shows. The solution is to charge deposits. Would anyone like to start a thread about deposits?

Further to Emily's post.... I hate a scripted encounter no matter the time frame! Lets just have fun and whatever happens within the allotted time frame is all good!

I give everyone I meet the same equal level of respect, be it a judge or clerk or anyone in between.

I originally posted this as a response to an existing thread - it really should have been in the reco section. In a word - "Yummy". She has many virtues: shy, honest, curvy, willing to please (YMMV) and above all; genuine. French background but speaks English very well. Communication was not a problem for me. I'm smiling just thinking about her. I am very happy with my experience because it wasn't assembly-line. She is a shy person by nature, but she provided a warm, relaxed and welcoming atmosphere. That meant a lot to me. I had some requests which she happily accepted. She isn't a spinner, but man - there's a wonderful gfe feeling about her. She is someone who you can really like, trust and develop a very nice rapport. She is not a high-intensity, movie-groaning, PSE lady. She's all natural. For those who are looking for long labia - she's got 'em. For those gents who are looking for a gentle, and sensual experience, I strongly encourage you to book some time with Rebecca. Recommended - Yep Clean - Yep Attentive - Yep Non Enhanced - Yep Sensitive to your needs (unless you're an AH) - Yep

Here is the website: http://www.someecards.com/ These make me laugh SO hard. Do it for me. Please. I love these. I've spent hours over the last week laughing! It's a great way to decompress and laugh a little.

My favourite CD to listen to with the windows rolled up, singing along at the top of my lungs, is Aerosmiths Greatest Hits. Ba-ee-bay bay you're my aaaaaaaaaaaaangel You?

http://keep0smiling.blogspot.ca/2013/08/even-more-very-funny-autocorrect-fails.html?m=1 You will be glad you read this one!!LMFAO

Hello everyone, I was hoping for some advice, especially from the Ladies, but all comments welcome. I'm a man of very specific tastes and a couple of months ago a cerb profile caught my attention. And as we hobbiests all do, I viewed the gallery. Well... I was...well wow...lets just say I was very attracted to this person. And even more importantly, her profile was well written and gave me the sense that she would be very mature, professional and friendly company. Before I get into my failed attempts to meet with this lovely lady I would like to first say. I have no ill will toward this person. She seems sweet and I wish her the very best. There will, out of respect be no names in this post.... I only wish for advice. I would also like, for those of you who I have not met in person, to know a bit about me. -I am a very successful and legitimate businessman. -I believe in being kind and respectful to all good people regardless of race, sex, age or sexual orientation. -I believe in self reflection and choose to live on the path of spiritual and physical self improvement rather than self justification. -When I meet with a service provider, I do it on the premise of mutual respect as I have respect for the profession and the true professionals that choose it and more importantly I have respect for my fellow wo/man in general. -I take pride in arriving to an appointment on time, impeccably clean and fresh. -I respect limitations/rules and discretion, I don't haggle over set rates and don't ask for things that aren't on the menu. -I have seen a number of cerb providers and all have been great easy going experiences. And as I have had many repeat bookings with no rejection I have to assume that it was a good experience for both parties. I also have a long standing relationship with and am on the mailing list of a number of premier Montreal and Toronto agencies that advise me of their Halifax touring dates. -Not sure how much this matters but it may to some providers................I'm tall, muscular and physically fit. OK so here we go: 1st attempt to book: So... I contacted her through cerb a couple months ago and she replied. We talked, made some plans for the next morning and it was all very nice. So I moved some appointments around to fit in our time we had booked together. But when I called the next day she did not answer. No big deal, probably couldn't get to her phone. So I emailed her private email that was displayed on her web site to reschedule, waited a day and nothing, so I sent her a message through cerb, and tried calling a couple more times but to no avail. So I let it go and moved on. Second attempt to book: Month later, I came across a cerb post she made notifying the cerb public of her availability and I thought..."Well who knows what happened last time, what the hell, I'll give it another shot". I called, she answered. We started trying to figure out possible meeting times but it was a bit loud in my office that day and she has a sweet soft voice so I was having a little trouble hearing her. So I explained that to her and said "ok, why don't I email you and we'll set it up there"? And she said "ok hun, no problem. I emailed, waited a day no answer. So I called..no answer than with another day gone by I messaged her through cerb and again i got no answer. So at this point I'm thinking.. "ok, I must have said something or did something to spook her. I'm not sure but, I've seen her reviews and they are all fantastic, so it must be something I did. Maybe she's super cautious and thinks I'm a cop or something. Ok, well I guess I'll just let it go. So a couple months later I'm perusing through the ads in, lets just say in a publication I'm not allowed to say the name of here) and long and behold...look who it is. So I'm like, "I'm not sure what I did, but I obviously did something so I'm gonna just move on" But over the course of the next few weeks she is posting every other day. And than another cerb post advertising her availability. Last attempt to book: So after a couple weeks I said, "Fuck It" She's smokin hot, advertising like crazy...maybe I was just being paranoid". (I tend to over think things sometimes). So I take a breath, make the call and, get an answer. "Hi, how are you" I say, "I was wondering about your availability for today" and she says I'm available. She give me the HH rate and Hr rate and I ask her if she can meet me at the ?!?! motel at 12. And she says ok. Than I say in a very friendly way" so... ok, I just wanna make sure we are good because I'm gonna book it" and she said "yep" So I said, "wait for my call to make sure there is a room available. I'll call you right back" she said "ok" So now I'm like. "alright this is awesome, I'm so excited to finally spend some time with this so very beautiful person." So I call to book at the motel and there is no availability. (i'm driving because I'm trying to pull this whole thing off relatively quickly because i'm short on time). So I pull into another motel near by and ask if there is availability. "Yes," the attendant says, I can give you a room now if you'd like" So i was about to pay and I was like... well. I'm gonna contact her once more to let her know of the change and make sure she is still coming. So I texted her the name of the hotel and she said "wheres that hun" I told her and then.... no response. So after 5 minutes of awkwardly hanging out in the lobby, I text again. A while later I call.. , So over the course of the next half hour or so...I sat in the lobby occasionally trying to contact her via text and phone. I texted at one point something like "its ok if you can't make it hun, but if you could just let me know either way".... and nothing. So I text... Sorry hun, "I have to go now. Not sure how I blew this but I am sorry for what ever it was".. and I left. Now this girl has some great reviews. I really don't think that this is normal behavior for her. So it's gotta be something I said, the way I said it or.. I don't know? So my question is.. how do you convince someone your on the level?

I read somewhere that there used to be CERB socials. I'm not sure how they would work but I know what I would like to see happen. I would like to see a social / party / meet somewhere like a QUIET bar, perhaps on several occasions to accomodate night and day people. I would like an occasion(s) to meet SPs, NOT to have sex on site, NOT even to arrange anything, but just to see if there is chemistry and interest in pursuing getting to know some of them, and to let them know if I am interested in them or vice versa. If everyone is from CERB there is no need to go into great details about who everyone is, or what they want or provide. However, I would like to be able to associate a CERB name with the actual person I meet. It would be more like an ice-breaker occasion. I understand why everyone is so careful but I want to know if there is CHEMISTRY or at least some attraction before I get to know someone more intimately. I would like to make some friends who are also SPs. This is especially true for SPs who DON'T travel from city to city. I would like to meet SPs who I can call up and come over to see, just like I would any friend. Of course I am only interested in Ottawa, but maybe people from other areas might like my ideas as well.

I agree with Meagan. Try PM'ing those that have posted a reco and ask them for some insight. In my experience I've only had one SP who didn't show up for our confirmed appointment. When she was a half hour late I emailed her to ask her if she was still coming. I didn't get an answer right away but when I woke up the next day she had sent me a response explaining why she couldn't make it. So we rescheduled and all was great. I wouldn't get too hung up though as there a many other fine ladies on CERB that are either local or travel to our fine city of Halifax. Best of luck in everything!!

I think you were more than patient,accommodating and acted extremely well throughout the "chase". Personally myself, after the first attempt without any reasonable explanation back from a lady, I would have had moved on. Many other ladies out there to visit, that are quite willing and able to communicate quickly enough. My nickel on the topic.

For me its just timing. I've attended a few over the years and always had a great time. I've rarely seen your posts about GB's until after they had occurred. One suggestion could be to have it the same time every month, example, first Saturday of each month, so interested people would know about it and plan for it. Maybe one in the day and one at night as some are only available at night and others prefer during the day. Feel free to let me know about your next one.

Wow, I am sorry this has happened to you. I would assume that this encounter is not going to happen. I do credit you for being persistent. Have you considered pm'ing those that have given her a review and ask them if they have difficulty booking her? I have never heard of someone saying yes they are available and then not following through and actually booking the call. She either has some crazy stuff happening in her life that are interfering with being able book, or she really doesn't want to see you, just doesn't know how to say no. Move on in my opinion.

I guess it sometimes depends on my mood or if I'm in stop and go city traffic. I sometimes listen to 80's Hairnation on the satellite but my all-time favourite highway driving song is Enter Sandman by Metallica. The downside is I tend to go way over the speed limit when it's playing!

I must be unique in that darkness makes me horny. I get SO excited when DST ends and it gets dark earlier. Summer nights are definitely wonderful too especially if you can get outside. Don't get me wrong, mornings/afternoons on cool crisp sheets in the summer are awesome as is sex anytime...I just find my natural rhythms more nocturnal than anything. Winter is definitely a great time to get the heat turned up!

Well... that's the first I've heard of it :) Admittedly, this isn't my scene, and so I'm not someone you'd be aiming your advertizing at, and so the fact that I was unaware of this may not be terribly relevant. But I am on CERB a fair bit, so things like this do cross my radar if they're widely advertized. I can't really offer anything in the way of useful advice as to where you should advertize these events - maybe the Ottawa BDSM/fetish/dancers section? - but I can't help but feel that more advertizing may work.

I just had the most wonderful time with Layah. She's funny, and good at what she does. I'll definitely be back.

i'm a huge fan of the books, having devoured the first four and waiting to get into the fifth (which is currently sitting on my book shelf). Just started watching the first season and I'm very impressed by how close to the source material they remain. I'm interested to see how long they keep up being that true to the books, but having the author as an Executive Producer doesn't hurt.

On the 2nd book now, the series follows the books as close and well as a TV show can I think, very well done. Im waiting to finish the books before carrying on to each season. Plus boobies!!

Wow, I wonder why I've not noticed Alexandra before, she's been around for awhile. Got a chance to see her and I must say, what everyone has said so far is right on the money. She even tried to get me to bring Vitto into the mix today, but I'm only mortal, I don't think I could handle both of them at the same time. :whipping:

This is where I disagree, when a man books a GFE encounter he is booking the entire package (conversation, cuddles, intimacy and much more) No where did I say SOG was limited to one, however more than once in an hour is highly unlikely if someone wants a GFE experience that is unrushed. Telling someone MSOG's possible time permitting is not selling an act, its being honest that is just may not happen in the short time booked. No where does that statement say its not available, however like YMMV it is stating that it may or may not happen. And yes I do sell time, not a service and what happens during our agreed paid time commitment will happen as the date takes its course (its not a build your own menu for this amount of $$$$, its for time and companionship)

hosting a GB event is easier said than done.Not everyone is comfortable with a group setting which means one would have to target the "lifestyle community " which based on experience they would seldom pay for such an event. The 2nd point I would like to stress is that the "no show" which is very common and anyone who has hosted one such event would know that 100 persons say they will attend and on the day for the event one or 2 shows up.Which means one would have collect the fees way before the event and have a minimum of 6 to hold such an event.So to make a long story short hosting such an event by an SP is stress..

I think People feel that since those service jobs are "unskilled" labor that don't require additional education or learning a trade to do,that the people doing them must be too stupid or even lazy to do more than that.Theres no basis for that in reality of course.I spent three years working in a Pizza restaurant,another year working in a convenience store ,and about another decade working various customer service jobs.Especially in the food service and C-Store Job,I worked my Butt Off,was paid little,and put up with nastiness everyday from customers.It can be a terrible grind.And Now that I own my own Business it sure helped me to appreciate people that work those kind of jobs and to treat them with respect.

Fuck off and mind your own damn business... lol When I had a turtleneck, the glans was WAY more sensitive. Now that I wear a crewneck, the sensitivity had decreased somewhat, but not to the point of it feeling like the rest of little Satai. I cannot speak for those who have been circumcised since birth, but I find that I have more staying power than before. Of course, that could be age creeping up on me...

Had the pleasure to meet this lovely lady. Very pleasant, very sensual, have and plan to repeat.

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Great thread, Phaedrus :) I wanted to address nlwoodchuck's post. I partially do agree with it, but I also wanted to add a different view. I think that it would actually benefit the lady to have a mixture of recommendations from both first time clients, and repeat clients. I do agree that it's beneficial for the reader to have an idea what it would be like to visit the lady for the first time, and what generally to expect. But, I also think that it would be good to have a sense of what it is like to be with the lady, after several visits too. Of course, anyone with common sense will know that everyone's experiences will vary (same as first time visits), but I think this kind of thing encourages repeat visits. Some lads get into the hobby thinking of the wonderful variety of women there is, and how awesome it is going to be to sleep with as many ladies as possible. Variety is indeed the spice of life, and I agree with this mantra myself, too. However, with this view only, it may be possible to neglect to consider how great the sessions can become with someone after you get to know each other. The comfort that comes with familiarity, learning what each other really likes, and letting your guards down. This comfort can lead to a wonderful intimacy, that simply often is not felt on first time visits. I love to meet new people, but I have many regular clients who I truly look forward to seeing. I have a sense of comfort in having met them before, knowing what to expect, and knowing how best to please them ;)

Completely agree. young hottie who provides pse service. will see her several times before she goes! Additional Comments: Update: saw her again and wow she has officially surpassed hiroko as my all time favorite asian sp. this girl aims to please and i got everything i wanted with ethusiasm. Looks wise she has the perfect body imo. she is slim with nice legs and a flat tummy. also has a very nice set of naturals! i would say she is less than 25 years old. She is a bit submissive in nature, so you have to take the lead. i personally prefer this over the asian girls who have a set routine since it feels a lot more personalized. Awesome young girl with a bangin body and stellar service. my favorite asian sp in ottawa so far. that is saying a lot since hiroko at moonbay was also very exceptional.

I had a session with Sarah a while ago. It wasn't my first, but certainly will be my last. The young lady has a lot of potential. She is intelligent, inquisitive and not hard on the eyes. Perhaps it's just me, but she reeks of "not wanting to be there.." That is until the end, when she has both hands out waiting for her tip. Answering telephone while in-session, checking and reading messages on cell-phone while massaging, limp repetitive unsatisfying forearm massage - are some of the problems. I wish this was an isolated incident - but from a paying customer's perspective it felt highly disrepectful. Until someone can report differently, All I can caution is to stay away when Sarah is on-duty.

as a burlesque dancer who works in the strip club i agree with you on the SHOWS part....these days, if a girl isnt doing magnificent pole acrobatics (which is definitely stage-worthy) girls just go up on stage and shake their asses or play with their naughty bits on stage and if someone REALLY dances or, heaven forbid, puts any sort of costuming or choreography into her act all it gets is eye-rolls from the other gals or club-goers...like they're "trying too hard" or something....thats why I'm super excited when i get to do a burlesque show outside the club because people hoot and holler and cheer as skin is about to be revealed and theres way more creativity than just laying down a blanket , getting down on all fours and spreading your legs.

A handfull of naughty new goodies over the past week at www.blogasms.xxx !! :biggrin: Videos, articles and a beautiful collection of taco tickling photos! :cooter: :aol_diddle:

New here as well. I have read all 9 pages but I think I'll read them all again, just for kicks. OD, Is that maple bacon in that sammich?

I like her to be engaged and interested.....the rest will take care of itself.. Peace MG