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I think as a society in general we have become numb; we're numb to love, numb to affection, numb to violence, numb to other people, numb to sexuality, numb to gore. We watch movies of people getting brutalized and tortured and we laugh, or we feel nothing. We watch MTV and see 17 year old celebrities wearing next to nothing. We go on the internet and read YouTube comments that are getting increasingly more and more malicious and violent toward each other simply for expressing an opinion. We listen to music about rape, murder, gangs. We watch the news and feel little, or we stop watching all together. And all of this is "normal" to us. And the kids think this is how things "are" or "should be". Scary, and sad. And the scariest part is the younger generation of kids ( like my sister, who is 18 ) are becoming ignorant, entitled, self-absorbed little assholes - why? Because as a society we are numb, and we are raised to fear anything that makes us feel. We're afraid of love because it can hurt; we're afraid of pain because it hurts; we're afraid of voicing an opinion because we'll be ostracized; some of us are afraid to interact with people or go in public places. We have all these mental issues we didn't have before (albeit some of them were there, but the medical community was not advanced enough to diagnose or treat them)... we have issues we never had before. We are a society of increasingly stupid, ignorant, lazy, brainwashed zombies. It's a sad truth, but it is the truth. We live in a digital world where we are all connected 24 hours a day, 7 days a week... but we have trouble looking each other in the face or reaching out to our own neighbors. There are amazing people, and I am hopeful with the recent wave of "self-help" and "self-aware" and nature-oriented movements in the last couple of years. My biggest hope is that we can all snap back to being alive and being here for each other, because I know there is good in the vast majority of people. We just need to tap into that and be there for each other more. That's why I love groups and communities like this :D

I have a penchant for waking someone up in the middle of the night with a bj.I think that's so hot! Sometimes I just can`t help myself! lol.

I agree. Guns, blood and violence is all over every type of media and what is acceptable to show is getting worse; gore is totally normalized, and a younger generation is almost numb to it. But show something beautiful and natural like a woman's breast and people freak out. Backwards, if you ask me.

Yes, but I think that's what makes the airing of the bit you saw more necessary. We've all seen so much more violence on screens these days, simulated or real, that implied violence has mostly lost its power. If the news wants to make a point, it has to be very clear about exactly how awful and brutal an act really was. A still picture of men on the ground, a guy with a gun in the background, and a voiceover saying "a dozen men were executed yesterday..." would lack the power it might have had in 1970, and today's viewers might barely register the weight of what had happened. So though I would have found the scene you describe hard to watch, I understand why the news team thought it necessary to make their point. Sadly, though, I'm also reminded of this exchange from the movie Hotel Rwanda: Paul Rusesabagina: "I am glad that you have shot this footage and that the world will see it. It is the only way we have a chance that people might intervene." Jack: "Yeah and if no one intervenes, is it still a good thing to show?" Paul Rusesabagina: "How can they not intervene when they witness such atrocities?" Jack: "I think if people see this footage they'll say, "oh my God that's horrible," and then go on eating their dinners."

Times like these, I'm glad I live in the country. Life is simpler and I can just turn off the tv. I hope my children's generation can hold it together.

Just in case anyone visits my blog... Google decided to delete it completely. The only given reason: "OTHER_ABUSE". I have contacted them to question the decision, but I doubt I will get anywhere. I had reviewed the terms of use several times before I started the blog, and during, as they do have a few rules about adult content, however, I felt and still feel that I was 100% within the guidelines. I backed up most of the content, but it's still going to take a lot of fucking work to get it back up and running somewhere else. I'm going to get started right away, but what a bitch. :vatefaire:

Much of the violence and sadistic behaviour being so blatantly presented is the media attempting to force the US to some form of military action by showing the world the atrocities that are taking place. The US News Media has long tried to "Engineer the story". This time they are simply trying to speed it along.

Its going to be a great night, I am really looking forward to seeing old and hopefully new friends. Thank you all for making this great event possible, love from Halifax!

Well first of all, I think you should ask yourself why you're asking that question. What is it that is bothering you that would make you want to reach out and ask if you 'should' or 'shouldn't' feel something? I feel like if you were 100% fine with it, the question wouldn't even be in your mind. Second... What is there to be ashamed OF? I can relate to this question on the other side, because there is such a stigma attached to being a part of this lifestyle. But the fact is: people have non-emotional sex with each other all the time. Everybody 'pays' in some way - buying a girl drinks at a bar in exchange for the possibility of getting her in bed is the same as exchanging cash for the same; or a woman accepting those drinks in exchange for sex is still 'selling themselves'. Those people are just in denial about what they are doing, or justify it by saying 'well I didn't give her money for it!' - it's the same thing! I think if anything, this is a much better outlet and there is a lot more thought involved in choosing a lady that meets your interests and physical tastes; this is a hobby, after all (or in an SP's case, a career). You are way more likely to have chemistry, rapport, friendship via this outlet than another way.... so why feel ashamed about it? My two cents.

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The answer to that question is very specific to you. If your worldview holds that having sex for money with strangers is a bad thing and you enter into a contact with an escort with no intention of changing that worldview, yes, you should feel ashamed. If that is not your worldview or if it is and you are looking to change it, no, you should not feel ashamed. You've come to the right place with the right people. Hop in, roll around, revel in the joy of being here. Take my word for it. The second option feels better than the first.

I am not an SP but spoken to enough to say this: While the semblance of security from an unblocked number is recognized, an unblocked number is not just about security, but also to differentiate clients. An SP that I know flags all the dumbasses upon their initial contact and then she can simply avoid them if there is subsequent contact from the same pinheads. If you are rude, drunk, etc., then you go into her naughty list, too, since she has no interest in seeing you again. I am thankfully in her good books so I am able to get through to her because her phone filters out the schmucks mostly automatically now. From time to time, I see an ad from an SP on BP saying she will accept clients from blocked numbers. IMHO, she can have those sketchy clients, and let the vast majority of quality SPs enjoy the safety and financial rewards of the respectful, generous, professional gentlemen of CERB that they so very well deserve. Posted via Mobile Device

Yup... tears over here too at this expression of love and caring. But it's ok.. I have my own chocolates. btw... any time you can make your dad cry (for good reasons!) ... there is no feeling quite like it. I got my dad some 25 years ago and still grin like a kid about it. Ask me sometime and I'll tell you about it.

Busting in here. I would like to do all the girls I've done before...with a really spirited Gent! giggle ;-)

She will be a very lucky woman. I have done Staycations in the past where I am with a Gent for hours and hours. I have also gone on vacations with some very happy results. So speaking from experience, treat her well, firstly. For your chosen Lady, perhaps ask her what she might like and if it suits you, do it. Flowers and good conversation or a spicy movie might work, you won't be "active" the whole time. Also try something you have never done before. Perhaps an agreed upon third playmate for an hour or so? Or do what you wanted and have a parade with your favourites. It is your weekend after all! Make it memorable. I would like to note here that I am always sad to see men leave because of age. Either theirs or the SP pool. But especially when they think they are "beyond" an acceptable age. You might be stunned to know that there are some very sexy and desirable older Gents out there that hobby well into their 70's and even 80's. It is always a pleasant surprise. If the SP's are getting younger to a hobbiest, and I am not trying to change your mind here, sometimes one needs to find someone they are more comfortable with. Again, it's been my experience that sometimes it's not all about the sex, but comfort and connection, which of course then brings out some amazing sex, in whatever form it takes. Of course if you like variety, then I wish you the best choices CERB has to offer. :icon_smile:

It's so, so broad. All I can come up with is: if two people interact in a way that intentionally produces sexual arousal in at least one of them, it's sex. It doesn't need to result in orgasm, and no clothes need to come off. There doesn't even have to be touching; one person could just be speaking, or putting on a show, and to me that still falls under the wide tent of "sex". That leaves aside masturbation (still a kind of sex, but not really what we're talking about here); unintentional arousal (that's sexual, but it's the interaction and intention that constitutes "sex" to me); one person just lusting after another person who's there, but unaware and not participating (that's just solo fantasy, not sex); and poly play which just increases the quantity of people involved.

IF watching porn and liking mirrors makes a voyeur then I guess that's what I am because both turn me on a lot although I'm a tad camera shy myself I recently discovered. I always thought a voyeur was more of a "peeping Tom type" and I saw it as kind of a negative connotation. My mistaken definition I guess. :)

Yeah, the concentration of media ownership these days means it takes very few people to twist the arm of public opinion in whichever direction they desire. The US is not that different from Russia and China when it comes to media; there isn't that much of a difference between their monopolies and the American oligopoly when it comes to directing public sentiment. But that might be changing, as few Americans seem to be biting Obama's hook; war weary perhaps?

If Peter Schiff is right with his prediction that a Big Bust is coming, and if War succeeds Depression as it did before, then WW3 may be just around the corner. But on the other hand, Schiff may be using his previous success in predicting the last meltdown to sell his latest book in which he "offers step-by-step solutions that average Americans can follow to protect their wealth, investments and savings." lol Schiff: We're Heading For A Crisis Worse Than 2007 He's kinda makin' sense though. (shiver)

It's easier for a warmongering nation to engage in perpetual warfare if its population is desensitized to violence. As for which nation I consider to be a rogue warmonger, that's a point of view I should not express here. :P Curious though, those were the rebels the US is supporting who executed Assad loyalists. In a previous incident, one of the rebel leaders sliced open the body of a freshly killed Assad soldier, pulled out an organ, and ate some of it. As for who's dropping the chemical weapons, nobody really knows. Putin has a good point when he says that it would be nonsensical for Assad to risk using chemical weapons when the tide was turning in his favour and he was beginning to win the civil war. Neither side in this war is particularly endearing, although if you have an eye problem, Bachar Assad is a qualified ophthalmologist. The US didn't care that much when Saddam Hussein used chemical weapons to kill his own Iraqi Kurds during the Iraq-Iran War, not to mention tens of thousands of Iranian soldiers; as a matter of fact, he used chemicals weapons supplied by the West. Syria's the second to the last domino. Final destination: Iran; China and Russia won't allow it though. War sucks, but then that's the history of mankind: war. Somewhere aliens are observing us and shaking their heads, or whatever it is aliens shake in consternation. :P

While I have enjoyed porn during sex I can't say it's something that I want to have happening. I like to be focused on my partner and creating all our own visuals and sounds. Now, if it were another couple, group, people etc in the room at the same time. I would totally get off on watching or listening or anything to do with that. I have a voyeuristic heart yet I have only been privy to visuals once although I have enjoyed audio numerous times.. As for mirrors, I have tonnes in my space. There is something so erotic about watching yourself and your partner(s). Catching their eye in the mirror and encouraging them or just watching them. Hells sexy. Not only that but if you're into energy and that sort of thing, mirrors bounce the sexual energy back at you which enhances the experience. I have yet to experience the ceiling though. I have this irrational fear of it crashing down on your head either in the middle of a torrid fuck or sweet dreams. Saw a movie like that a long time ago and it's stuck with me ever since.

I'd say "sex" is anything that you're doing with a partner once all the clothes come off (or even before the clothes come off): nude groping, oral, mutual masturbation, penetration (with fingers, dicks, toys), etc.

My comment about "putting it out there" was just an expression of bringing up a topic that I had a feeling was going to get some pretty passionate views. Nothing more. After reading many advertisements, I just wanted to know what people thought because of the ease in which a number can be spoofed. I was not commenting in any way on my own views or practices and tried to pose the questions from that neutral point of view. I appreciate everyone's responses so far. Thank you for your opinions. K

Going above and beyond to make a newlywed couple very happy... Did the whole wedding thing with them complete with pictures at the ornamental gardens and such. Dropped them off for the reception. Late night pickup at 2:30 am. Retrieved the couple and took them to their hotel. Just getting ready to leave when the bride runs over and taps on the car window. Is the groom's ring in the back seat area? We look high and low. No ring. So sad. Too bad. She leaves. I'm sitting there thinking what else have I got to do at 3 am? So I go back to the reception venue and start checking the walkway from where they got in the car back to the venue entrance. Right then, a guy comes out of the venue, bends over and picks something up and asks me "You looking for this?" The ring, of course! Called the bride and asked her to meet me in the lobby in seven minutes. She was over the moon! Yup. We are a full service company! :)

I had an interesting interchange today that I won't elaborate on more than to say....Bill Clinton. So the question is what acts are considered within the rhealm of a sexual encounter with an in an sp? In my mind...everything but then again, I may be mistaken.

LOL..you typical woman! I make you happy and now I owe you? Since I am a typical man......okay, you sneaky lady!

E is for enjoying being banged from behind with reckless abandon. What's this delicate word you speak of? Does not compute!

Dusting off the recipe book is such a drag.... Too many options for baking are available. Mmmm apparently Brownies are always good, i hear (but is it good enough?) but i do have this cake pop tray i've been meaning to use for several months now. Cupcakes or cookies (peanut butter, chocolate chip and bacon with maple glaze, perhaps?).... Sigh! AND, as it happens, i seem to remember i have several cookie tins laying around at home. *scratches head in puzzlement* I guess i'll keep looking for ideas before i put on an apron...

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It will depend on what stage in your life in conjunction with the level of frustration you are at... As I will not / can not force my SO to do something she does not want to do, nor have any desire... (is this normal for all married women..?? that's another story all together) I have learned to accept that... plain and simple. I can tell you after well over a decade of no intimacy, the question sort-of answers itself.... watching porn and self pleasure can only take you so far... The comfort of kissing and being kissed in return, to desire a woman and being desired in return.. need I go on..? I had seen myself being a grumpy bear for a long time, then realized that *I* am responsible for my own happiness... and not to depend on others... So what am I going to do about it...? Divorce is not an option... because I have *strong* commitment to the family/house environment for my children - they need there father. also the thought of starting over from zero again REALLY doesn't appeal to me...I have worked very to get where I am at, and I'm not giving up on it... Therefore I lead a double life, and I am a happier man and can function on a daily basis. You will find your own reasons of justification... I will stop here.. Thanks for listening..

seeing the spark starting to return to my little dogs eyes and her pain bouts starting to subside:)

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Not sure I've ever hit the enough point, however as I age I slow down.... Twice daily would be nice, but not always possible. Daily would be nice but not always available. I'm a firm believer in "use it or lose it" so in my mind more is better.

yes very much agree , julia is a beautiful lady

Woohoo! Can't wait! Sexy ladies and beer...mmm yummy. Oh yeah and a few buddies too lol

Well I'm not sure if I should say so I edited names out, sorry. But sp's have wish lists too:)

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A morning romp - better than coffee! One or two more would be just right for me; I don't think there is such a thing as "too much" but certainly folks whose sexual needs/desires may be incompatible. Thankfully, I have my toys ;)

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Convenience. I drive by, decide to stop on a whim, and get service. My time has a value. I don't like wasting it. No twenty texts back and forth trying to co-ordinate my schedule with the lady's schedule. There's no "What time is good for you?", "I'm busy today but maybe next Tuesday", or "I need an hour to get ready, then I'll call you". EB is right now.

i did some in the hotel. such a bummer they had to cancel the pool party but i guess the hotel staff had second thoughts. I'm wearing my custom stuff tonight so ill snap a few more and then the photo walk on sunday..and the masque.. teehee you guy are in for a treat! I dont get to play dress up often in this style!

As long as your willy is clean it doesn't matter how he dresses for the party!

Well my guess. I believe the stats on masturbation are 95% of men masturbate and 89% of women masturbate What does that tell us. In filling out the questionnaire 5% of men and 11% of women lied in filling out the form...whether because of shame, embarrassment or whatever My 2 cents worth RG

Gabby My issues hasn't been my own hygiene, but the hygiene of sp's! Lately, I have had a bad run of luck with sp's not being fresh, or having bad breathe and all of them have been from CERB! If this keeps up, then I'll have to retire from this hobby. I just don't get it either? We all know this is important and there are threads about this such as this one and yet I still keep encountering it?

Isn't that the whole point to Greek? Sorry. .. couldn't resist! :-)