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Happiness always begins and ends within ourselves. We can't be truly happy if all we do is play to everyone else and be what everyone else believes we should be. We all have to be in situations that might not be optimal or deal with things we would rather not but it's how we deal with those situations that determines which way we go. One of my favorite sayings is "how someone treats you in their karma, how you react is yours". This simply means if someone/something is flinging stuff at you, you have the choice to make the situation worse by adding to it, reacting it kind or letting it get to you or being kind, ignoring or walking away. If the home situation isn't good and is constantly draining your good energy, you have every right to take care of yourself and find those things/people who restore your positive energy. You cannot change what doesn't wish to be changed so you change yourself instead. If seeing your desired SP gives you pleasure and is a positive thing for you that then allows you to deal with the rest more effectively and positively, then it is a need more than a want. We all soemtimes get into situations we either can't or don't want to change but we can make it better for ourselves and for others. As for being happy, there is so much in my life I do love and yet, there are things I would like to change. I focus on everything to be grateful about and try to change the rest as I can. Practicing the act of gratefulness positively impacts things I find and gives a different perspective on even the not so great. When you change yourself, you attract more to you or what you're sending out which then gives you more to be grateful about. One step at a time, one day at a time.

I have always been an easy going happy person:), unfortunately, throughout my life I have allowed others to affect my feelings, change my moods, goals and thoughts. It's taken most of my life to realize, but finally I have:)that what someone says or thinks about me is irrelevant it won't and can't change my thoughts, etc, what they say I can or can't do isn't up to them its up to me:) If we all lived our lives and followed our own paths knowing this and as we saw fit perhaps many would be much happier. I think of happiness as being a sense of inner peace, not material gains or status, etc. But we all see it differently. The video has a point, happiness spreads as does hate, sadness, and any other energy. The secret is staying true to yourself in light of the energy around you. But is it a moral obligation? Well to you it should be. We all need to be a bit more selfish imo because until you are complete, until you find your purpose, know your true self, then and only then can you "spread" happiness. A person can only truly add to someone else's life when they have fulfilled their own. I'm not saying we all shouldn't be thoughtful, giving, helpful, etc I just think its important to fulfill your own needs, goals, etc first then as a "whole" person one would be better able and more equipped to lend help, support, etc:) We all face adversity, good times, bad times, crises the way to get through any of it is to truly know yourself -what you are capable of, like, dislike, feelings, etc, etc, and the only way you ever will is to be very honest with yourself, sometimes this is the hardest and most fulfilling accomplishment any of us will face:) Then and only then can we spread happiness:)

Happiness, comes from within, if someone is seeking happiness thru external stimulus, chances are nothing will ever live up to their expectations, from this comes a dissatisfaction with life. Alternately to be truly happy you must be able to be happy with just the way things are today. This doesn't mean that you stop trying to improve the quality of your life. You just enjoy what there is to enjoy today. I have suffered depression all my life, and yes some days my energy levels and mood are down, but there is always something that can give peace and happiness. I eventually have come to realize that everything we need to survive , all the answers we seek are right there inside of us if we stop and take the time to listen to our own intuition and not search out happiness with the herd. Just my thoughs on the matter and good luck to all in finding balance. oh...one more thing, it probably won't happen quickly or easily.

I ve had bad and good moments in life... One thing I did learn is that the more I tried to fill up the glass the worse it was because you never get content with what you achieve... Maybe try to stop thinking so much how to get the glass full.. And just take one day at a time.. Pay less attention to the negative events and embrace the positive ones and make the best out of them! The glass will be filled!!! A few ywars ago I went through a really hard time... Even spent time at the hospital for depression... I think it was the best time for me.. Away from everything and everyone... Had time to think about just myself... Now I feel great, I am happy, may not have a" perfect" life..n but really, who does?? Or what is Perfect?? We all face problems, desicions, sadness, joy... We have to learn to accept with the good and the bad... And remember it can always be worse! Yes your mood reflects with the people around you.. I am a believer of that, it even reflects in things that can happen to you during the day... Think positive. And positive things will happen... Smile even when you don't feel like it.. Smile at everyone even if you don't know them... When you least expected you will feel always like a million bucks! And people around you will feel it.., specially your family and loved ones!

Each person is born perfect with 100 percent power to manifest anything in the world they want. We are born with a sense of true happiness, with the ability to stay this way, that has always been the plan for human beings. However the human mind makes up reason as we age to be unhappy. We quickly lose that perfection we are born with and if we are not aware, conscious individuals soon we create misery instead of abundance and happiness. It is very true that appreciation for what we have is one of the keys and the more we appreciate the small things the larger will follow. When the energy field is clouded with dissatisfaction, fear and worry more will follow. If we can spend just a few minutes a day in appreciation and true gratitude it is surprising what will happen. I consider myself to be very happy and a co creator with the universe. Anything I wish for comes to me easily and freely. What I want is already mine, if I can see it, it is. Not that I do not have times of being angry or pissed but that is also part of happiness. You can't have one without the other.

From the other side of the coin, yes; my work has made me far to lazy to date. I have no desire to do the dance, the "get to know you" or any of the accompanying bullshit. I have male friends I can just hang with to get a testosterone fix, a cuddle with a movie or a helping hand to move my furniture and I have no accountability to them for how I choose to live my life. I don't sleep with them, I just enjoy them as people. With years has come the wisdom to tailor my business to only entertaining men I enjoy sexually. When our time is over they leave; no drama, no muss, no fuss. I'm not accountable to them either for how I choose to live my life. It works for me, I know myself well enough to understand a traditional relationship could never work for me again because I won't deal with the day to day nonsense that being with someone regularly entails. Perhaps I will one day want to have someone underfoot but for now I like the way my life is... cat Additional Comments: From the other side of the coin, yes; my work has made me far to lazy to date. I have no desire to do the dance, the "get to know you" or any of the accompanying bullshit. I have male friends I can just hang with to get a testosterone fix, a cuddle with a movie or a helping hand to move my furniture and I have no accountability to them for how I choose to live my life. I don't sleep with them, I just enjoy them as people. With years has come the wisdom to tailor my business to only entertaining men I enjoy sexually. When our time is over they leave; no drama, no muss, no fuss. I'm not accountable to them either for how I choose to live my life. It works for me, I know myself well enough to understand a traditional relationship could never work for me again because I won't deal with the day to day nonsense that being with someone regularly entails. Perhaps I will one day want to have someone underfoot but for now I like the way my life is... cat

Aw, that's so sweet! Here ya go RG, I know you want one badly: Also, who knows, now that our beloved couple has had a chance to consummate their relationship, maybe they'll achieve that great ambition of every couple and take another step toward (re-)achieving RG's fondest dream. Yes, that's right... if we're lucky, RG and GL will be able to announce... IT'S A BUOY!

If anyone here is unfamiliar with TED talks I would highly recommend them. They are interesting, amusing and generally short (about 10 to 20 minutes generally). This thread reminded me of this TED talk. Interesting look at what happiness is and what influences it. Hope you enjoy. Incidentally, I would conisder myself to be very happy in general. I have a great job I like, great kids that I love to be with and the women of CERB to add a little beauty to my life now and then.

A very brilliant way of exposing it. If you can do or get the things that makes you happy, then everything is perfect. To answer Motorbykerider's question, unfortunetly i'm also not happy. I try very hard to change the one thing that doesn't work in my life, while staying true to myself. But it's not very successfull. I've been on medication for a few years now, to at least help with my mood and let me be neutral at least. Pills alone will never work (unless it's a purely biological depression) but for some, they are very much needed. Without them, some people wouldn't have the time to work on the problems. When i took the wrong medication for a bad cold, they ended up negating my normal medication. I had to check in at the Hospital, cause i was about to kill myself. Now i'm doing better and i'm very caryfull with what i mix. =P Best of luck Motorbykerider!

So as promised, I stopped by Barbs today to visit with Bridgette. Who is she sitting with? Ariel!! Wow my 2 favourite dancers ever sitting side by side. What's a boy to do?? Only one answer: DUO! After some great conversation and joking around, we hit the champagne room. What followed was simply amazing! The chemistry was incredible and I was even forgotten at times ( not that I ever minded lol!) All I can say is that if you ever have an opportunity to take these two for a duo, SEIZE it! It is something you will not soon forget. I have one less thing to do on my bucket list lol Also lots of great dancers today: Jenny, Kitty, Carmella, and some I hadn't seen before. Saturdays are great at Barbs. That is, if you can handle the 80's music :)

Watching the video. The part about the spouse being in a bad mood and somebody coming to the door. A) If my spouse is enjoying my bad mood, then he probably deserves it. And B) I don't make nice with anyone who comes to my door unexpected. Call first, and I'll try to receive you better. But just show up? You'll get what's happening. But that said, I don't really think this video was about happiness. I am a very happy person, in general, but I get pissed off, I get down in the dumps, I get snarly. That's just being human. It's when you can't just experience it, get it over with and move on that it's a problem. What the guy in the video is discussing is more what I'd call anger or mood management. My husband and I are both from families where our parents bore long lingering resentments and grudges. And when we were first married, we did too, because that was what we figured you did when you were married. But then one day, it's like a light just came on and we realized that it just doesn't have to be that way. Shit happens, and always will, but you have some wiggle room WRT how mangled you get by it, and you can optimize your experience by how you react to it. Judging by my daughter and her friends, it seems that many young people think that feeling less-than-fulfilled or disappointed or blue means you need therapy or antidepressants. While there are situations where a person does need these things, I'm convinced a lot of people are using them that really need to just understand that life isn't all rainbows and unicorns all the time. I think it's okay to be unhappy sometimes. And let's face it, we live in a world where we get run over daily, and have to witness some pretty terrible stuff. I think you have to decide you're going to be happy (if for no other reason than it will drive the bastards nuts ;) ). It helps to find happiness fixes. For me, Looney Toons cartoons and Just For Laughs Gags can knock me out of the fiercest funk. Other times, a good cry or chasing my partner around the house with a butcher's knife, threatening homicide really does the trick. But whatever you do, live in the moment and do it as authentically as possible. And pursue happiness. Because there is no heaven or hell after death. All you get is this life. Make it a heaven or languish in hell. Good luck!

I finally got to meet my beautiful virtual "wife" last Friday in Kingston for a four hour encounter. Screening/verification was taken care of with no issue. Gabriella arrived at my hotel on time. She looks young and beautiful, and her photos are accurate. We sat down on the couch and over drinks and we got caught up on old times and current events. I say got caught up because Gabriella and I have gotten to know one another through email's and pm's, not to mention posts on CERB, so while it was our first encounter, it wasn't with a stranger, if that makes sense. After drinks, we headed downstairs to the restaurant where we had dinner and continued getting to know one another. Then we went back to my hotel room, where we did what newlyweds do. In this case it started with a shower for two. Then we got out of the shower and dried off. My lovely bride then ordered me to bed, telling me to lay face down. She then treated me to a deep massage, including a body slide. Then my beautiful virtual "wife" and I consummated our marriage. The details of which are private between Gabriella and myself, but I will say I'm happy we "got married." We then laid in each others arms, kissing and cuddling. Gabriella is not a clock watcher by any means, we had an unrushed encounter. Unfortunately the time runs out too fast, and she did have to go. Definitely Gabriella is a lady I will see again Just one final comment. My recommendation of Gabriella is truthful, except for the stuff about her being my wife That is just some bantering she and I have done both on CERB and in private emails and included here for a bit of lightheartedness. But that said, Gabriella is a terrific lady who I would recommend seeing to a gentleman looking for a encounter with a wonderful companion.

Me, I'm a happy guy. Look at the glass half full. Yes, there are days when something pi$$es me off, but that's life. In the overall scheme of things, life is good and I'm happy And as a sidenote, a few years back I had a bad breakup with my g/f and after that swore off dating. Well after three years without any female companionship I decided to try seeing escorts. Not only have the ladies I've met in this lifestyle provide a enjoyable no strings no drama alternative to dating. The ladies also filled a emptiness (one which I didn't know I had till it was filled btw) in my life too. I only mention this because if you are still on the fence about seeing SP's, you may be like me, and find the companionship the ladies provide will help fill an emptiness in your life A rambling from a happy guy RG

I was fascinated with a blue wig (after getting into erotic anime) many moons ago. So I bought it. Surprisingly enough, I never wore it for an erotic encounter. Go figure!

Yup, I am and I believe in taking personal responsibility so it's not up to any one else but me. Peace MG

I've enjoyed having porn on during sex, especially as part of the foreplay. Whatever was playing would eventually be tuned out and I'd focused solely on my partner, but that's what I want in the end anyway. And laying on the sofa/bed or even upon blankets spread on the floor watching a porn with your partner can be a great lead up to it. It was especially a fun way to extend foreplay, limiting yourselves to caresses for as long as you can manage, perhaps only removing a single article of clothing each scene and getting progressively turned on. By the time the flick was over (or more likely only partway over!) you're revved up and humming with anticipation and built up need to the point that neither of you can hold back. :)

Peachy's beauty has just shown through again with her post. I second what Tongue Twister and Cltchmcg said.

Yup! The surface can be beautiful in lots of different ways, so put your best forward with a smile and you'll always find admirers. Every woman on CERB fits well with someone's desires. And in the end it's really is the substance beneath the surface that matters most, makes two people click emotionally, intellectually, and sexually, and keeps clients coming back.

Cltchmcg, I hope you don't mind me adding on to your thread, but it got me wondering if people ever have fun with wigs or make use them? On one hand it seems like it be an easy way to play around with different styles and colours, and perhaps would be a handy way to accommodate requests for a particular shade? On the general topic, I for one always think it cool (and often sexy) when a lady is sporting an unconventional style/colour. Of course, I also find the more usual styles good looking as well! It just seems like there's something fun and free-spirited in someone willing to sport something outside the norm. Or maybe I just played too many computer games growing up where half the characters had blue hair. :confused0024:

Great message Peach

I LOVE mirrors! You don't need to have porn on when surrounded by mirrors! You can get all the good angles for your own show! I've had porn on in the background and I don't find it has a huge effect. I usually end up forgetting its there while focusing on my partner. I do like the idea of another couple or group that you can listen to and peek at every once in a while though. E real ness I think adds to the energy in the room and makes it that much more exciting.

thank you glad you like these new pics... I will post some more when I can but I've maxed out my 25 pic limit for now :)

Well put Peachy.

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Back to cerbland with Miss Jessica Lee. Thanks for letting me post this, Jessica. I'm glad you're back!!

Ah! The pursuit of the elusive happiness. In my opinion, if a person cannot find happiness, he or she must figure out what needs to change to turn it around. Most of the time it requires changes from within. I struggled with serious depression for 20 years and then I spent the last 2 years working on myself, changing my habits and changing the way I was thinking. I spent a lot of time reading and learning about topics like happiness and personal development. I can now say that I have finally found true happiness but it took a lot of work to get there. Each person has a different genetic make-up and was brought up differently so for some it will take a lot of effort to achieve happiness. For those who like to read, the book "The monk who sold his Ferrari" is a great book about creating great habits, including mental habits. The book "Making happy people" is a scientific study on happiness but written for the layman, a joy to read and very revealing. A statement I live by now is: "The world is exactly how it should be, it's our attitude towards this world that determines our level of happiness."

Go see the SP. You have a family, but no sex life. So fix the sex life part and remove the major stressor in your life. LOL......you're so like me it's uncanny. Btw, I did the Gaspe' bike run last year.......through NS, up the NB coast, crossed at Campbelton, around the Gaspe' to Matane, then back south, did Parrsboro, and home. Like you,I do a lot of solo......to the US 3 years running, and Ont and the US 2 years ago. Nothing like the solitude of a long bike ride. No employees, no business, no phone........I get it just like you. By seeing SP's, it took the pressure off the lack of sex at home and I'm a much more patient person now. Good luck.

so this seems like as good a place as any to post this :) I was on this board last year and had a lil dispute with the Mod. Long story short I was way out of line and was asked to leave :( I recently PM'd that Mod to apologize but I thought I should post one here too. I apologize to the rest of the community for the bs. Thanks to the Mod team for deciding to give me another chance to be a positive and contributing member of this community :) Have a great day everyone!

I would answer YES!! I LOVE my jobs, yes I am busy most of the time but I truly love them! I LOVE my Family.... they are always in my corner no matter what and I can never thank them enough for this! Every Morning I am happy for the new day and to see what it brings! I am 110% a glass half full person and am always looking for the positive in everything, and I enjoy sharing the positive with those that can not see it for themselves at that moment! In life we need the Hard times to make the Good ones that much better.... My Wish is that we may all learn the value of a smile and what it can do to help you and others through the day!! Kisses XoX

I don't know you very well ... but I wanted to get something for the happy horny couple .... so I thought I'd get you a nice houseplant. congrats :D

Congratulations GL & RG. With so many fine CERB ladies here, we need more of these and you two have hopefully proven it should happen.

I like olderguy for his postings on CERB. Definitely a positive contributor and member of the community RG

I like Cltchmcg because at times his posts make me laugh out loud because of their humor and other times they make me stop and think because of their intelligence

What wedding would be complete without someone giving a toaster? Congrats! (actually I kinda want one of these now :) )

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Thanks for the mention, Alb49 :) Emily and I are definitely both fiery redheads! Let's not forget about Victoria Jolie who also visits Ottawa from time to time.

Been suffering from depression for 9 years now it's not easy I just live my life day by day

Lynn without question!

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I love it! I met a woman off a chat line looking to be entertained and it was awesome. I performed for her and 2 friends while they had me lying down with my legs over my head so I could give myself a facial. They used toys on me while I shot right into my open mouth. We all enjoyed it enough that there were several repeat performances.

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Are you effin serious dude ? Who are you to judge what and how this woman chooses to earn ? Pretty ballsy of you to be so judgmental not only of her but of the other men of CERB. Do you have any proof or factual statistical information that meeting men from cerb is dangerous to her or the "little one" ? There is a huge fetish market for pregnant women and just because you don't understand it doesn't mean you can judge her or anyone who's into that. You probably do some freaky shit that might disgust some so save your judgment and read the credo of this site "if you can't say anything nice, say nothing at all" You cast the first stone in this case so prepare to have many stones come back to you. While I'm here do you know how ineffective your post is because of your ignorant and immature use of the word retarded ? Wow what an offensive word, so hurtful and totally in appropriate and way off base. Doesn't feel so nice to be judged now does it ?

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aww thanks kenny :) maybe we can see eachother soon xoxo appreciate the comment :)