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I'm going to have to disagree with this one, especially if the relationship involves sex. I know that many hobbiests are at the other end of the spectrum, but I'm a firm believer that my lover(s) should know the extent of my involvement with others and the risks that may extend to them because of that, even though safer sex is practiced. You don't necessarily have to come out as an escort; many folks nowadays are engaging in poly or non-exclusive relationships, so it has become a little more mainstream than it was previously. One possibility is to tell potential partners that you are not ready for a monogamous/exclusive relationship at this point, and see how the relationship develops from there.

From one mature provider to another, I will say it isn't easy. I've tried and have decided that the headaches and heartaches simply aren't worth the investment at this time in my life. The work just brings too many issues, even with those who know and understand it when combined with a strong will that we old broads seem to embody. What I would like to ask is if your relationship has ended, is there a need to seek another at this time? If you are anything like me, you have lived to raise your children and take care of others. I'm assuming here but I have never met a mature provider that wasn't instinctively nurturing, even if they haven't had children and most of us have sacrificed everything for those we love. Now your family is grown or almost, perhaps it's time to have an authentic relationship with yourself! I've decided to simply live each day and enjoy those who are in my life during those moments. I do have friends in my personal life but it's on my terms and my time. I've adopted a new approach. Rather than looking at things from a duality perspective ie. positive/negative contributions, I only consider if a relationship brings balance to my mental, spiritual, physical being. If a relationship doesn't contribute to the harmony I craft in my life then I bow out. I love but don't commit in a traditional way. I'm spending time with me, doing the things I love and want to do. If someone I enjoy wants to tag along, great! If not, great! If I want someone to sleep over, they can stay. If I want to wake up alone, they go home. Anything that disrupts the balance I'm creating is immediately eliminated. Embrace being a woman of mystery! Like Kathryn said, you do need to disclose your profession before intense intimacies take place but you would be amazed at how much fun you can have without going all the way. I get all the hard action I need with work but I love the foreplay most. I will spend months getting to know someone and never go further than high school couch make out sessions that have been the described as the best sex they've ever had without sex! Until I know they are trustworthy, they don't need to have information that is sensitive. Protect you and yours foremost. Life is suppose to be fun, make dating an adventure and I have chosen to make these experiences fun and without commitment or drama. They are simply for me to enjoy, nsa. Perhaps spending some quality time with you, for you, by you is in order. The right man may fall from the sky into your lap when you least expect it but if he doesn't then you are still living a life worthy of you, that you will find fulfilling. My grandma always told me that she never regretted anything she did in her life, she just regretted the things she didn't do so that is my focus. I'm just doing the things that I enjoy on my terms and seeing where life takes me... cat

Out for an eight hour bike ride today.Got home and headed to the barn to do chores and the heavens opened up. Wild wind, rain, thunder, lightning..........and then my phone rang. My best bud's wife passed away just before the storm started. Eerie, but what a send off.

A one sentence statement asking for an introduction and the preferred method of contact is far from a long drawn out instructional booklet and I totally know what you mean by not lumping all gents in the same group and men with directions:icon_smile:. When you want to meet someone in your personal life or this industry, it is just common courtesy to say "Hello, I'm xxxx" and with a provider any questions that you may have. Common courtesy is becoming not so common with certain people. You read many complaints that a gent has gotten no response from a provider, could not following simple instructions be the answer? I have no idea but I'm sure there are more than one reason and answer to that question. When you've met and already know a provider, I myself don't mind a Hi Lexy, It's xxxx. Are you able to see me today or when you are you available next but that is because we have already built that rapport. Initial communication should in my opinion and how I run business, should have an introduction, nothing over the top, just a sign that the person is respectful and serious about possibly meeting me. Thank you HalifaxMan58 for you view and input, I love seeing the male side of things. Kisses, Lexy

Good evening All! First a heartfelt THANK YOU to all of you who have shouted out in support, offered up prayers and good wishes over the last week and a half. I really really appreciate it! Just confirmed today that I am going to be evaluated at the University of Michigan, who has a cancer research facility beside "The Big House" their 110,000 seat football stadium. Good thing I am already a fan of the Wolverines! They are going to look at why the cancer cells are attacking the muscle structure and then discuss the situation with the folks at both Princess Margaret in Toronto and QCH here to determine next steps. So leaving for UofM on Friday! Back next Tuesday. Thanx again all. Tom TheLiquor

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You would think that is the case...however...this is what happened..about 3 years ago I called a lady who was advertising on .............talked a bit on the phone..sounded good..set up a appointment...when I asked where she was located she had to think about it..then could hear her asking someone where she would be..then replied with the name of hotel....then she asks if we can meet downstairs in the lounge first for a drink....I agree.....so I arrive at the lounge 5 minutes early...place is almost empty except for 1 guy and 1 girl at the bar...I was being a bit aprehensive...so I sit ..order a drink..and then call to say I have arrived at hotel but there is no answer......strangely as im making the call...as soon as it starts ringing...the girl at the bar picks up her phone and looks at it.....and sets it down.....shortly after the guy goes to bathroom....i wait a couple mins and call again..this time my call gets answered & she says will be right there...2 mins later she walks in..sits down..I order her a drink...and chit chat..then she starts asking what services I want etc....I say will talk in your room..she insists on asking..I decline any info...just chit chat..after 10 mins of this she says probably not a good idea to get together and she will leave...she gets up and walks out..as she gets to the door she shakes her head NO to someone around the corner...and away she went...Never did see the guy leave the washroom.

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There aren't any rules for this sort of situation, however "tell him right away" NO. Develop the relationship first and when you are confident and able to trust the guy or girl, then it's time to confide in them. You laid out a number of options in your initial post, but omitted one. Could you give up the job if you became seriously involved and it was the only way to go forward.

Stare into my deep ocean dazzling blue eyes and get completely sucked into a state of bliss as I place you thoroughly at ease with my sensual massage begin and erotic body slides. Easy, everlasting connections are made with away as I am very playful and bubbly! Oh what fun we shall have! Let the yumminess begin. http://www.angelstouchmassage.ca/site/the-angels/marlies-profile/ For Bookings Please Call 613-820-8887 Have A Marvelous Day;) Marlie XoXoXo

It's too bad Scully and Mulder are no longer active with the FIB... I am positive they would have loved to interview you and investigate on the matter.

Cleo catra does have it available and she is super cool and sexy. Be sure to tell her, or anyone else really, in advance to be sure to be prepared.

Well I've jumped on the blog-wagon, just posted my first entry (warning, first one if a bit of a rant, lol! but better than ranting here) http://thetattooedcat.blogspot.ca/

Looked up urban dictionary and found nothing, but did find this definition about body slide: 3. Body Slide a synonym for teleportation and associated devices. Used in several books but mainly was a method of travel for the Marvel character "Cable" on his time traveling adventures. "Computer, Body slide by 1 to intercept Bishop." or "Body Slide to H.Q." I'm just joking mind you - just wanted to add a laugh. I would interpret it as yes, ass pointing towards your face so you can get a better view.

it's not just girls, it's men too. I can't tell you how many times I've had clients try to get a reaction from me about something they see as juicy gossip, only to get a blank stare and a change of conversation in response. Unfortunately gossip will exist no matter what business you are in. I've encountered it everywhere, in every place I've worked. All you can do is stay quiet, and stay out of it. If you react, or feed it, then you're a part of it. I've had some pretty incredible rumours spread about me. It can make me laugh, and it can hurt. But the way I deal with it is to stay out of it. When someone comes to me and tells me a wacked-out story they've heard, I think my word is taken as truth mostly because I present myself as a non-gossipy, trustful person. If I don't gossip about other girls, but those same other girls gossip about everyone.... then who's word is to be believed? If people need to put others down in order to feel better about themselves, I feel sad for them. But I do my best to not let it effect me. That's all you can do, really.

I love to start off with kissing...soft and gentle passionate DFK kissing...caressing...but if time allows it...a great conversation is always a great foreplay!... Then BJ is a definite must for me ...and daty pleassssse:69:.....yummm....and to top it off...feel that hard cock Inside me....mmmm....gee i think its time to get that "Magic Wand" to good use:icon_smile:!!!!

Fucking. Sucking cock. Yep, those are my faves :D

Thanks to everyone who commented in my last thread about what to do for a client retirement. I did a bit of a whirlwind tour and saw some of my favorites from the past and some new and some who I hadn't seen enough. I've sowed my wild oats and now it is time to take care of me. I have now come to the conclusion that it is time to do something else with my free time. I had lots of fun. Thanks to all the SPs who were there for me these last three years. Although I may pop in from time to time to say hi, it will be as an observer, not a participant. Bye and thanks.

Pan fried haddock, mixed veg, & roasted potato. My trainer and I agreed no desert. :( Sometimes I cheat, but not tonight.

Congratulations Touch, you are top notch guy and a great contributor!

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Skinless BBQ baked chicken with broccoli salad and homemade apple pie. Yummy!!

Congrats Touch on reaching the 2000 post mask, keep them coming!

I believe it is time once again to revive this thread. Unfortunately it was only in July that I brought this forward again. There is sadly an issue here. This thread is packed full of great information and with all the new members joining and also for many seasoned members. A good refresher never hurt anyone! I personally feel if you contact a provider without following the initial contact instructions, which are usually an introduction with your name or whatever the provider has requested, how are we to feel safe if simple first contact instructions are not followed. For me, a simple Hello Lexy, I'm xxxx and possibly some information about yourself and any questions you may have is polite and all I would like to read so that I may respond to you without having to ask for an introduction. In the many corporate or other industries that I have been and are still in, when sending an email or PM I have never gotten just a simple. "How much", "You available". There is no need not to introduce yourself when you are seeking to find a companion and the intimacy that an encounter may entail. That shows me you have not taken the 30 seconds or so to read my ad(s) and that you have not visited my website and first impressions are huge/major with me, as well as many other providers. This is just a gentle reminder to contact a provider in the manner we have specified, especially a first initial contact and if you have never met and to follow simple instructions. Providers as myself, take the time to write these instructions to guide and help you when contacting us. Not just new members are doing this, being a long time member does not trump my or many providers introduction policies and instructions. Kisses, Lexy

Right on Touch!! Congratulations and keep on posting! Hugs, Lexy

Well thank you;) Dirty talking is the best way to let the man know you love what's being done, imo. Of course everyone's different though. But for me, I love it;)Telling a man how I love his cock in my wet pussy, how his tongue gets my clit hard and how I want him to make me suck his cock, to push it deep down in my throat, so deep his balls hit my chin! Lol, Yup dirty talk is hot!

Wow Christy.. thats totally HOT...!! Now that you mention it... talking dirty (mixed with eye contact..) is something that can really heat things up... :-) and I have tried to entice the ladies to talk, but not many seem to be comfortable with it. Maybe its a chemistry thing between the MA/SP and I, a YMMV situation.. or perhaps like the Social group of "The dying art of talking dirty".. is trying to revive. I know if the lady would be open to it, I could get into it also..

Congratulations on the big 100, now keep on posting and enjoying yourself! We enjoy you and your posts!! Big Hugs & Kisses, Lexy

I will be leaving on Holidays from September 29th and returning October 15th. I look forward to spending time with you.. exploring with my hands...bringing you a perfect combo of sensuality and seductiveness.I aim to please you, going to heights you've never been and will always leave you wanting more.. PM me to book or to get more details about Fashion, Toy play & more This weeks schedule! Tuesday, September 24th (10am-4pm) Wednesday, September 25th (3pm-10pm) Thursday, September 26th (11am-6pm) Friday, September 27th (3pm-10pm)

**SPOILER WARNING!!** but then if you don't want spoilers you probably shouldn't be reading this thread lol. Now did I call that shit or what?! :p I actually rolled my eyes at his internal monologue at the end when he's taking his boat out into the hurricane "I destroy everyone I love" ugh....I HATE uber-emo Dexter! Yeah....could have been better. Could have been worst too. A solid 5.5 out of 10 I guess.

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You probably witnessed spill off from one of the many outdoor installations as part of Nuit Blanche http://nbog.ca/

Sending you(Chanel) and your dog a big big hug, you aren't alone when you have a dog:)Sometimes they can be better company than any human. But I hope your roomie heals quickly :) so he can come home soon:)

Mothers are special. And they will surprise you at every turn.

My services include: full body massage Hottub sessions[/color] You came to the right place...I'm so easy going to a gentleman/lady of course Lets explore each other fully. My rates are always easy to handle.If this interests you...don't stop now, take a look at my pictures:smile: See you soon! I work in Bells Corners in Paradise spa, a beautiful elite and clean environment. 613.820.8887 Sunday 10:00-9:00PM

May not look like it but welcome to Cerb. Yes, there are numereous wondeful ladies on Cerb and you will find that some of them also advertise on BP. Your question is legitimate and unfortunately I can`t help you with your query. Browse around this site, get comfortable with its features and don`t be afraid of asking questions and contributing.

Come get naughty with an angel. Working at Ottawa's most upscale spa in the west end of Ottawa. I'm 5'7, athletic build, perky B36 bust, angelic blue eyes, long dark hair, seductive lips, golden tan, open minded, 100% natural beauty, fun & comfortable to be with... Services: Full Erotic body massage Reverse massage Slippery wet body slides Reverse body slides Hot tub for more intimate session Showers for 2 Fresh towels & linens Duos ATM Cater to fetishes, just ask... Call or text today to book your appointment with me today at 613-316-1412.

Sunday Jenna 10-4 aka "Jenna69" Chantal 10-9 aka "Chantal Summers" Lexi 10-9 aka "Sexy Lexi" Hannah 3:30-9 aka "Hannahxo" Monday Lexi 10-11 aka "Sexy Lexi" Taylor 10-7 aka "Taylor_xo" Nicky 10-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Tiffany 10-4 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Kelly 6:30-11 aka "Kelly2010" Maya 3:30-11 aka "Midnight Maya" Tuesday Hannah 10-4:30 aka "Hannahxo" Lexi 10-4 aka "Sexy Lexi" Nicky 10-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Taylor 11-5:30 aka "Taylor_xo" Maya 3:30-11 aka "Midnight Maya" Jennie 5-11 aka "ASTONISHING JENNIE" Jenna 4-11 aka "Jenna69" Wednesday Taylor 10-4 aka "Taylor_xo" Nicky 10-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Chantal 10-4 aka "Chantal Summers" Summer 10-4 aka "SUMMERLOVE" Lexi 3:30-11 aka "Sexy Lexi" Hannah 3:30-11 aka "Hannahxo" Maya 3:30-11 aka "Midnight Maya" Thursday Taylor 10-7 aka "Taylor_xo" Jenna 10-4 aka "Jenna69" Tiffany 10-4 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Summer 10-4 aka "SUMMERLOVE" Maya 3:30-11 aka "Midnight Maya" Robyn 3:30-11 aka "robynxoxo" Kelly 6:30-11 aka "Kelly2010" Friday Robyn 10-11 aka "robynxoxo" Tiffany 10-4 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Taylor 10-5 aka "Taylor_xo" Summer 10-4 aka "SUMMERLOVE" Maya 3:30-11 aka "Midnight Maya" Jennie 5-11 aka "ASTONISHING JENNIE" Saturday Kelly 10-9 aka "Kelly2010" Jennie 10-9 aka "ASTONISHING JENNIE" Chantal 10-4 aka "Chantal Summers" Hannah 3:30-9 aka "Hannahxo" Sunday Tiffany 10-9 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Robyn 10-9 aka "robynxoxo" Jennie 10-9 aka "ASTONISHING JENNIE" Lexi 3:30-9 aka "Sexy Lexi"

I like Angela. A lady who I remember was the first to contact me offering moral support after I was ripped off. Not to mention she's a friend and a good SP...a good reason to drive four hours to Orleans RG

Yup... doing that. She's 89. We had 88 really good years (ok.. I didn't have all 88 since I'm not that old.. but you get what I mean). I've learned a lot from her and she left me a clear path to follow. She's a writer and a poet and right now I'm remembering a poem she wrote in February, 1957 on the passing of her mother. There is a line in it that goes something like "And so I do not fear Death for what is Death but a door through which she has passed before me". And speaking of rain, she wrote the following: The rain falls on the just and the unjust. But why do the unjust always seem to have umbrellas? I like it...

Is this you?

In an effort of being transparent, here's yesterday's social balance sheet: Revenues (sale of tickets and extra donations) : 1285$ We had an extra 35$ not counted towards this social. It'll be carried forward to the next one. Expenses : Food and drink tickets for the ladies : 633$ Gift cards: We've gotten 17 cards for prizes 1 X 100$ for the Keg 4 X 50$ - Rideau Center, Shopper's Drug Mart, La Senza, Premier Salon 9 X 25$ - St-Laurent Shopping Mall, Shopper'S Drug Mart, a card for restaurants, Petro-Canada, La Vie En rose, La Senza, Metro and Loblaws 2 X Lush Cards (30$ and 35$) 2 x 20$ LCBO We had a Vintages card and a Body Shop card donated by members (see below) Congrats to the winners!! On behalf of Loneskater and Spud, i'd like to acknowledge and thank the following gents for donating their extra donations ($ and cards) towards the social: Icebreaker Lee Richards Boomer EMB3750 Many thanks to all who attended, it would not have been a success without you!

gotwat09 your more than entitled to your opinions but since most ob/gyn doctors recommend healthy sexual activity pretty much right up to the due date I am not sure how just having sex is jeopardizing the health of her baby. If you find the idea of a pregnant sp distasteful that is your perspective which your more than entitled to but I don't see how Julzie is hurting or harming anyone. To each their own as they say.

sucking and fucking ;))

Nothing makes an encounter more fun than DATY and more DATY. Can't get enough of it

I really enjoy having a little passion to my dates. So I must have a lot of kissing, caressing, then I love to go down on the lady and stay there for a while and even getting hard love muscle licked and sucked and finish any old fashion way.

I am continually amazed at how in one breath somone will ask me to be discrete, but later refuses to provide me with the same. Remember that we are above all business owners, as well as real people. Give me the same respect anyone else deserves. I might be a whore, but you're the one that wants to play. Be nice.

Common sense really. If I don't like someone's booking rules or conditions rather than ignoring, debating or trying to change their rules....I just move along. None of this is life or death to me. Peace MG