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I don't mean to be rude but what the %^*#^ is with all the bbfs requests? I took some time off and since I've come back, so many men have requested bbfs "even if I pay you more." NO... No, no and NO!! I will not offer bbfs (although I do bbbj) but that's a whole different story. Did I miss a memo somewhere? What's going on? I've been around for a while and I have NEVER had this many requests. People, please play safe, get checked regularly and please don't participate in bbfs! It's not just about pregnancy or bacterial infections! There are serious viruses out there! I'm just shocked by the number of requests, as if it's normal. Please, don't let this be the norm...

I need to give my brain a good scrubbing. I saw the post title and immediately thought of labia :biggrin:

Fleshing things out....just need details. My buddy's wife died the other day. He has taken her home to Cape Breton (their roots) to lay her to rest. The funeral is either Thursday or Friday (will find out tomorrow). Every time I showed up at their place on my bike and wearing chaps, she shamelessly and harmlessly flirted with me. OMG........it just occurred to me......Village People.....she thinks I'm gay! He's going to let me know when the funeral is, but he has no idea I plan to be there. It's a 6 hour run on the bike. so I'll leave at 6 am. I have cards from friends and family to deliver and it will mean so much to him. He's an awesome guy that let's people into his life carefully and fiercely guards his privacy, so he has few close friends, by choice. I hope to be there to support him, but not intrude on family time. I'll leave right after the funeral so I can be home by 10 pm to finish barn chores. All I can say is.........it's gonna be a cold bike ride! LOL Additional Comments: Freaking your kids out is a highlight. Last night, my daughter texted me from college. "hey.are you busy?" I replied "Yes....having sex with your mother". 10 seconds later I replied......."Done now...call me". She replied..."wtf, dad". .........for everything else, there's Mastercard!

Why should we follow the instructions stated by a SP? The answer is simple IMHO - Common courtesy and respect. If a client doesn't take the time to read instructions for the prefered method of contact then to me it is a red flag for the SP. The instructions are there for her safety and yours. If a potential client cannot follow instructions prior to an encounter then how can the SP know if you will respect their boundaries during one. Example - if an SP states clearly that she doesn't offer a particular service-don't try gents. Respect her boundaries. If she tells you 'No' or 'Stop'. Then do so gents. The instructions are there for discretion and privacy as well. If she states to text or call from outside the Hotel or when you are nearing her Incall location there is a good reason. Don't repeat the room number out loud from the lobby, it only draws attention to you. If you had a hard time hearing the number for whatever reason, I find that simply asking her politely to repeat it is fine as it doesn't draw any undue attention. You never know who may overhear when you are trying to be discrete. I find that when you follow the instructions/directions the encounter goes more smoothly as there are no misunderstandings and it's easier to be comfortable with one another. You are showing the lady the respect they deserve; respect for their privacy, their safety and their boundaries. If you can't follow simple instructions then you may miss out on what could've been a spectacular experience. Being a gentleman, having respect and showing common courtesy goes a long way to having an enjoyable encounter with someone IMHO. happy hobbying.

It does seem bbfs is offered more and more these days or at least that's what we've been led to believe. I do think where there's smoke there tends to be fire. I recall not that long ago that a bbbj was unheard of, at least publicly and now it seems to be the norm vs the exception and often a deal breaker. The advent of come and go girls using a cell phone and bathroom selfie's could be the driver but I'm not convinced that is the only driver. In a small market like Winnipeg I think competition is also a factor, traveling girls have obviously found a lucrative market here and one just needs to look at the number of local vs traveler ads on ec ads to verify this and must be taking a lot $$$ out of the local market. Increased competition causes lots of reactions, competitive pricing can be one, using rumours of certain sp's providing bbfs to discredit them is another, we've seen outing's of sp's to family, friends and landlords and we do have a rep for cancelling and no shows which can in some cases be caused by friends of or jealous sp's, come and go girls who don't care about long term business or other issues. It could simply be a new generation of players who are fine with it and the risks involved. Due diligence by both the provider and the customer has never been more important than it is these days. And that has taken some of the fun out of the game at least for me. Peace MG

Thanks for the info you 2, and the OJ all over myself Kathryn. Effin (excuse me) Rogers is going to be in my neighbourhood for the next 2 days AND in and out of my house!! How very inconvenient to me...and I had the embarrassment of having to cancel a playdate. Mother Nature is none too pleased the the moment. There will be no labia flapping in my house today or tomorrow. :icon_cry: Looking around for that confounded Hitachi! Additional Comments: And of course, I couldn't resist changing my Avatar! :icon_wink:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Route_flapping

Be full of care when reading what is written in this article. What people say "might" have happened is hearsay and we all know gossip runs rampant at times. Reporters will print anything that sells papers and we should never take what is written at face value. I've been a News at 6 sound bite and several front pages when I was in the US and the only thing true in the reports were my actual charges. Everything else was just nonsense gathered from people that didn't even know me or outright lies from those with an axe to grind. I feel this investigation is an utter waste of tax payers money that should be allocated to finding the person who is killing sex workers here in Ottawa. It's been going on for 20 years... cat

I just wanted to say that I have to excuse myself from participating in this great community for a while because of a neurological issue I am dealing with. I have met some great ladies in my adventure and like the header reads its only temporary. It might be as long as a year but I will be still be online scooting my next adventure. All my parts still work fine, no need to be concerned, it is just a limb I have that is not working and making it very hard to move and even drive to the city for my play dates.

Do not feel too bad. My first thought, given the site, was those dancers from the 1920's(?) that were called flapper girls. Posted via Mobile Device

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After doing the research I realized that I was using the wrong term. The proper term would be curvy!

Unfortunately, it is :( Indeed, those excuses along with "I am allergic to latex, can I get BBFS" and/or "I have been with my wife for 30 years, never had sex with anyone else during that time, I am disease free, can't get an erection with a condom, can we have BBFS" or the opposite "I am a virgin" get used a lot and those BBFS requests are more common then one might expect. Your back door comment is also accurate... These types of emails always have a pattern to them too. It usually goes something like this: - First, he let's you know he is disease free - secondly, he let's you know he is more than comfortable financially - then explains his monogamous life - then explains his problem with an erection when wearing a condom - then gives the lady/SP great compliments - then shares his concerns about the SP being disease free - then offers "papers" to show he is "clean" and requires the same thing from the SP - then there is usually a reinforcement about how good looking he is, how wealthy he is, how he would be a good client and how he cares about his health (and yours) - then they often go into the "if you are not willing to offer BBFS, please do not be rude because I asked" - and if you have the misfortune of dealing with someone who is persistent, after you say no, they will come back with other "valid points" as to why you should offer them BBFS, remind you that you would be missing out on a lot and then come back with a higher $number... From experience (not only personal but from other ladies), I can assure you that BBFS requests come from men from all ages. .................. I am posting this email request as an example, edited to protect the man's privacy and his personal information, just to give you an idea of the manipulation involved in those types of request. Since I was not the one to receive that particular request, my lady friend gave me permission to post it in this thread. "Hello, I'm a tall, fit, handsome, intelligent, respectful, 100% disease free man who lives in xxx who collects a hefty xxxx and who has been in a faithful relationship with the same woman for the past x years but sadly the passion is now gone and I need some fun in my life. I would like to see you as soon as possible. I am looking for one classy honest, disease free provider to share a series of very special experiences with. As long as provide you with info to do a thorough back round check on me as well as current up to date medical proof that I'm 100% disease free and I also need proof that your totally healthy as well! Can we do a 6 hour BBFS session? Please email me your decision, thank you. I am a member of xxx and I do take maintaining my perfect health very seriously. P.S I am not the kind of guy to jump into a BBFS situation with both guns blazing because my perfect health is very important to me but as long as your willing to be honest with me and provide me with all the documentation that you are totally clean and once we get to know one another and build a trust between us is a 6 HOUR BBFS session possible? If you are not interested just politely say no but please don't go out of your way to insult me because there is no need for that, thank you and I look forward to hearing from you as soon as possible. P.S I am more then happy to donate extra, for the extra care and consideration. One more thing I forgot to mention, I am very well endowed! I am built way above the standard in every way imaginable! "

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This is the first time I have seen this issue raised here (I have only been a member for about 3 months), but it is a problem in western Canada that has is constantly been discussed on other boards. A lot of providers now just list no BBFS on their restrictions, anyone asking gets blacklisted Clients are asking because they know it is on the table with some ladies,whether it be bp or cl, it is a service that is out there on the market. The "just checking " excuse gets used a lot from what I have read, and when a SP gets upset by the question, is used to weasel out the back door,when you know you have crossed the line a lot of providers will blacklist you anyway. It is a hot issue, needs to have a a zero tolerance from the providers, which in turn makes for a safer and happier atmosphere for everyone

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That's what I would like to know too... Talk about a load of crap. He helped out a lot of escorts and because of his investigations a serial rapist was identified and charged. One that was posing as a police officer I might add. Something that should actually be written by the sun. From any encounter we ever had with him, he always remained professional and seemed to genuinely care about the ladies and their safety. It's actually a shame that more officers don't take initiative and actually try to make a difference. Unfortunately I think in today's political climate, taking initiative is highly discouraged. Meanwhile there are other sex workers getting murdered, and police are now claiming they want to build trust and bridges with the escort community. They should put Rohan in charge of the outreach program. He was actually effective and successful. I can't speak to anything else that he is charged with, nor his behaviour towards any other escorts outside of our agency. Anything I have heard mirrors what I have just stated. If anything is written about our agency having any other relationship with SGT. Beebakhee it is 100% false. Leave it to the Ottawa Sun, they would f**K up the Lord's prayer..

Remember not to reveal info about a ladies REAL LIFE. You all expect privacy and discretion and I am sure the ladies also deserve the same. some of the comments here may be a little too much info.

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I feel the need to start this thread, due to the lack of respect and attention to following simple instructions lately. Ive worded this in reference to no one, just a generalization to a few things. You contact me, we go through screening and agree on the date and time. You are told you will be contacted a few days prior with details to confirm. 3 days prior you are emailed with detailed instructions with a number and a date and time frame to call and confirm on. Scenarios as follows: Scenario A) You don't call within time frame - Encounter is cancelled and time is available Scenario B) You email letting me know you cant call within that time and we agree on another time in which you don't call - Same result as above - encounter cancelled. Scenario C) You call and confirm and encounter goes ahead as planned Scenario D) You email the morning of to ask if we are still on, yet I never heard from you - What do you think the answer to this question is? Scenario E) You leave a voice mail with we emailed and Im calling no name, number or anything else in the message - Chances are the encounter will be cancelled as its very rude to call a number back and say Who's this? And Ive asked you to call me, for discretion I would rather not return the call unless I have been given the ok to do so. We have a system in place that works for our own personal business, if you dont wish to follow instructions, dont waste our time. I value your time and respect your wishes on privacy, discretion and everything else. If you value mine, why does one feel its okay to not follow the simple instructions that I have given. I can be flexible with my confirmation policy when you let me know in advance. I ask you to call as that is how I confirm my dates, I wont email or text you any details so you have to call (my confirmation email is very clear on this), at this point if you don't like this policy it is your time to say that you are declining our date, I wont get mad as I would prefer your honesty over wasting my time and that of someone else who would have enjoyed the visit, but due to the games someone else has played they were unable to visit. When I ask you to call when your parking - I MEAN it, dont call from the lobby if I have asked you not too(considering discretion is SO important, why does the fact that your calling from in front of the hotel staff and repeating the suite number aloud not strike you as indiscreet?) Just because im not a revolving door, does not mean I want attention drawn to myself at any time. I enjoy the places I stay and wish to keep it that way. I also enjoy the company that I keep and NEVER want to jeopardize anyones privacy ever. You provide me your number and ask me not to call, I follow your instructions so how hard is it to show the same respect to mine. For an industry where discretion is key, I am just astounded as to why it is expected from me, but not returned by you.

Before the rumours start the info was probably from cerb but i did not give this to the police. I suspect one or more of the ladies shared this info with the investigating officers. Ottawa cop accused of misconduct with 'escorts' An Ottawa police officer accused of meeting with escorts while in uniform, and using his position as a cop to gain access to private records, is facing several charges. Sgt. Rohan Beebakhee is facing six counts under the Police Services Act including insubordination, corrupt practice and deceit. SEE FULL STORY HERE: http://www.ottawasun.com/2013/09/24/ottawa-cop-accused-of-misconduct-with-escorts

Hihi :b On a more serious note, one of my biggest pet peeve is having to reply to a potential client with: Hello, As indicated on my website...(insert website link here)

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Have a wonderful birthday Isabella! xoxo

A very happy birthday! Hope every moment will be special for you! Nice to see the sun is out to smile at you!

Happy Birthday To You! I hope you enjoy your special day.

I found this little 20 year old Asian beauty at the KellyGirls escort site. I've not seen her in person; Mississauga is a bit far for me to travel. As I've noted before I find skirts particularly sexy. Of the 6 photos of this girl on the site, I find these three the most attractive... they also reveal the least, but instead tease the viewer. Maybe I'm weird, I don't know, but I seem to like being teased, lol. I love this lady's sailor moon outfit. For those who didn't have children back in the 1990s, sailor moon was a silly Japanese cartoon about a female superhero with huge eyes -- apparently there is a movie coming out soon. From the images of her, I think she is very good at using her skirt to maximize her sex appeal. In the third photo, by pulling up her skirt, she gives a little flash of her upper thigh... so sexy. Too bad the advertisement and phone numbers partially blocks the view. I think I'll try to come up with an excuse for a business trip to Mississauga.

H is for having a happy day!

I, for one, miss her.

Best wishes to you on your special day. Happy Happy Birthday to a sexy beautiful woman. I've enjoyed our chats in the Chat room. xoxoxox

I feel that the SUI looked into it and yes, his initial approach was less than desirable for establishing trust but it was at least genuine. I haven't met the man myself but the ladies that I know who met him personally spoke highly of him and of their dealings with him. I don't buy that he was muscle for PK, that just screams sensationalism. I think he had the right idea, just took the wrong approach. Honestly, there are things reported as fact in both articles that I know to be untrue so I'm not buying any of it. If even 1 fact is wrong, I question everything. To me, it doesn't pass the smell test. The fact that there may very well be a serial killer in Ottawa targeting SW's that has gone unsolved for over 2 decades makes me wonder. They don't have a problem allocating funds to finance a team to reinvestigate this officer after SUI cleared him but they don't have the resources to find out who's killing us? cat

The Ottawa Citizen has a much more detailed article on the subject: http://www.ottawacitizen.com/news/Police+officer+made+dates+with+trade+workers+disciplinary/8952347/story.html I for one, am very glad this "officer's" actions are being brought to light. Kim

Just in case anyone would like to visit Linda for a haircut she is at 310 Bronson, Anna's, and would love to see some of her old clients. Strictly legit at Anna's.

You know, like you Chanel I thought it was a sort of standard industry term that promised the advertiser had a kinky side. But after reading this thread I see that the term means many things, and sometimes nothing, and only some of its meanings are what they were. Still, I think "open-minded" remains a valuable phrase in your advertising to reassure the kinky among us that you're receptive to playing off in those special corners of the sexual map. For those clients who take it another way... well, you can sort them out when the time comes.

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LOL! Sorry Holly but that made me laugh. Let's see, hotel room with hot, naked Holly spread out on the bed before him or a drink in the lounge. Gotta be A) an Alcoholic, B) Gay or C) a Cop. Cheers

Interesting thread. I have been "open minded" my whole life. So it came with me when I became an SP. But after reading the responses, it almost seems like its a bad word. For me it is not. I have frequently used this term to describe myself but it certainly never meant BBFS. Of course not. Nor have I ever had a Client think that I meant BBFS (that'll get you kicked to the curb pdq). So I guess it's a relative term for folks. Princeton defines this as a person ready to entertain new ideas, "an open-minded curiosity"; "open-minded impartiality". How did this get mangled into something else? I use this to indicate myself as a person who plays a little more on the alternative/kinky side besides the GFE. These are pigeon holed terms and while ymmv they still have a general meaning regardless of what spin one puts on them. They are what they are.

And let's not forget....karma is one ugly bitch for these trash talkers. It usually catches up with them.

Getting back into the Cerb swing of things.

Cerb newbie Angel St. Claire :) Thanks, Angel!!!

Cause women like nice firm...shoes, right?

Open minded means whatever the lady advertising it wants it to mean. Like others have said, best to ask the lady before hand what she means. RG

Alas, Tuesday to Thursday tends to end up more like Sunday and Monday... Anyway, we at FB-BBM Towers have recently begun to attempt to appreciate art. No not just the "art" that mostly involves photos of nubile young ladies with little if any clothing... but things that are acknowledged as being the best that humanity has produced. Art that has stood the test of time. In other words, oil paintings of nubile young ladies with little if any clothing. It's been hard work, but I think some of the art we've been appreciating has begun to rub off on us. When someone needed another beer we used to just chuck it across the room any old how, but now we pass each other beers... artistically!

I believe it is time to add and revisit this thread. It is packed full of great information and with all the new members joining, I think it's a great idea to revive this thread.