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Your question is a little offensive. Might be better asked "has anyone been with" or "has anyone had an appointment with" or ... well I hope you get the point. Then "she might be worth it"? Brother, these are ladies not objects. Your not going to get much help when your questions read as rude or mean. Your name says "good guy" lets try that... little more gentleman like will get a lot more help here on cerb.

I read the article that has been referred to here in this thread. According to the article, the charges that were filed were as follows: Procuring for prostitution a person under the age of 18. Knowingly concealing a person under the age of 18 in a bawdy house. Exercising control over a person under the age of 18. Living off the avails of prostitution of a person under the age of 18. Counselling a person under the age of 18 to engage in prostitution. Householder permitting sexual activity. Internet luring for the purposes of prostitution (two charges). Sexual exploitation of a young person. Breach of recognizance (three charges). Breach or probation (two charges). If I am correct, I find it interesting that NONE of these charges are related to things from the Bedford decision and are a validation of the fact that the existing criminal code already addresses the kinds of criminal activities that the vast majority of us are in full agreement with. A new prostitution law is not required.

If I may interjet for a moment... clients only see SPs in a certain mode. She is offering the perfect fantasy being the woman the person wants her to be in that moment through the way of intimacy. They truly do not know her in everyday life. I don't think many people would want to see me in a bad mood when I'm not working. lol. I am a grouch! This isn't to say when you see her that how she receives you is a put on but everyday life is complicated and being an SP and dealing with this is even more difficult and awkward at times.. Two weeks ago, I had 3 clients ask me out off the clock. I declined because I don't get involved with clients and no matter how great the chemistry or intimacy was, it is not indicative of real everyday life. I enjoy what I do for a living for various reasons but it doesn't make me a nympho on the hunt for a f**k buddy or because I have a great chemistry with a client that a more serious relationship should occur. I'm not looking to date anyone. I think people who see SPs or MAs should just enjoy what they have and when they walk out the door to leave it in that special place between the two of them until they meet again. So many people get too ahead of themselves with what "could be" but life is so much more complicated than that. The purpose of seeing an SP is having those lust feelings and the chemistry with someone you enjoy but also being able to leave it just the way it is which is how it's supposed to be. That's when you know you've met a very good provider! ;)

We are judged all the time. Sad to say but true. I've been in this situation more then once..sometimes if you tell them right off what you do they think "Wow, all the free sex i can have". That isn't true by the way. wink .If you tell them later then they may walk away or they get it. Some dudes think they get it but it takes a special someone that really does. When dating someone it takes a lot more time to hit the sheets. wink

Here are a couple good resources in regards to this government survey. They provide some background info, ideas and guidelines for folks to use to form their own unique responses to the survey. These helpful guidelines were prepared by sex workers and their allies from all across the country, and are designed to inspire you to create your own personal answers. From Maggie's Toronto: http://maggiestoronto.ca/news?news_id=118 From POWER Ottawa: http://www.powerottawa.ca/CALLTOACTION.pdf

Lol I signed up yesterday to see what this site was all about, and although I am flattered that I appear to possibly be fake, I can assure you that I'm definitely real!! :) Additional Comments: Awe u guys r so nice :)

Well being a webcam model first, clients on cam were asking if i met in person...I met my first client that way...then I met Carrie Moon who helped me out building my first website and got me started in Ottawa...thank you Carrie :) Being my own boss...making my own Schedule...meeting amazing gents and having great encouters (amazing sex) and being able to provide for my kids :) Yes but will make sure that feeling are not in the way...communication !! Bad hygiene...Rushed sessions... That happens a lot too...at least for me! I keep repeating to myself that they are clients and im a provider and it has to stay that way...definately not easy sometimes... I felt nervous...but once we met I felt amazing and knew I was meant for this! Oh yes absolutely!! I have met ladies here that i consider now my BBF and continue to meet more and more wonderful ladies... I would say take the plunge and stop worrying...thats what we are here for and most would make you feel at ease the minute you walk in :) Oh yes It happened more then once lol...when the client walks out and you go...OMFG that was amazing!!! Make sure my room is ready...music...have a nice hot shower, get dressed up , make up and picture the encounter...gets me even more frisky!! When i meet guys that way and we spend time together...usually im very upfront with what i do...I do mention that im not working now and what he is seeing is the real me... I will let him know early so if he wants to take me out on a more intimate date...there is no secret! BJ xxx Additional Comments: I'm a early bird so I really enjoy mornings...afternoon also but when it gets too late like past 11pm...I have to get really psych to have an encounter past that time...sometimes it works good but I have turned down lots of demands after 11...unless hes a reg...then I will see him! And yes guys that call or text after midnight are not the clients you want to meet... BJ

Never had the sugar daddy experience, for most of all I don't have enough money. I think the key to a good SD/SB experience is the connection/chemistry between the two people Just the same as you can have great encounters between SP/Client, or bad encounters between SP/Client you can have a great SD/SB relationship or bad SD/SB relationship If both the lady and gentleman have a connection/chemistry and can arrange a mutually beneficial relationship a SD/SB can be a good thing If the connection/chemistry isn't there and/or the relationship isn't mutually beneficial then a SD/SB can be a bad thing The concept shouldn't be written off. But all participants must benefit Just the same as this lifestyle. It shouldn't be written off, but it must be a mutually beneficial lifestyle A rambling RG

I'm very much on the shy side, so my initial contact will be either PM (if explicitly stated by the lady) or text (usually in the form "Hello, is this Katrina?", to confirm I have the right phone number). If I don't get something back from a text in an hour or so, I could send a follow up of the type "I suspect you're busy; feel free to text me back whenever you can". I've read here that many ladies won't text back if it's not right away so as to not embarrass the gentleman in case he's no longer in a private situation. Since I don't have that problem, I might as well let her know so she doesn't stress about it. I won't be sending a third poke, though.

Food Carving! Amazing what people can do.....

I agree I am glad she got caught but I don't think she be the last one because there is one person and I believe he is a member on here that does ad for many girls in Dartmouth and Halifax which I believe will eventually be caught. I have been told from a friend of mine that use to work with him that the other girls are underage. She could be wrong but based on the pics in the ads, she could be right. I believe his name is Ritchie. I be very careful guys in going there.

Important to a sense that wherever it is, it's not in a seedy area. I'm fine with hotel or private condo, with preference to condo. It hasn't happened yet, but if someone said some motel, I'd probably decline. I'm just worried that it's some sort of scam.

Not a fan of hotels by and large, I know a lot of people locally and always need a to have a side story available and it also feels a little too cliche to me. If it's to a residence or condo/apartment I'll always do a drive by or google map search to scope out the neighborhood for safety as well as to ensure I don't know any one living in the building or near by. Peace MG

When I was single this happened often. For me, I would say so by the second date, if it were a proper date. The scenario you mention, is just a meeting, so need to get personal. But the second date after you get my number, I would face to face tell you. I would rather be judged face to face rather then a txt. But as a general rule, you wont get me in bed that night anyways, you need to do a bit more then take me out to dinner one night. So no worries off my back if you think your gonna get a frebbie, lol... Then see by your reaction if I would see you again. Life is tricky, and I do not want more complications by hiding the fact.

I wouldn't change too much Summer. I am already a "regular" so to speak and I enjoy extended visits......so I would probably focus more on visiting in the most part with the ladies I love spending time with already and whom all are very very dedicated to confidentiality and smart business. Therefore sorry gals.... I may become a "bigger" pain in the ass ;) I already host at my suite when I am on the road .... but would probably do more of that in my neck of the woods as it is a smaller centre, particularly if I was meeting someone new. Like anything else in life, if you are bright and sensible you can adapt to any situation life throws at us. And if I am going attempt to adapt to something it will most certainly be to continue spending time with beautiful and amazing women and getting nekkid and having orgasms cause they are healthy and keep a spring in my step :) I would probably not mass text penis pics anymore.... ya know ..... in case the "John" police are monitoring my sexts ;)

I will always have a set of fresh towels ready for you to use, so you can wrap a towel around you after your shower. I also do this for massage sessions, some people are shy at first, so I will drape a towel over their buttocks first. I am in search, and have found robes that are at wholesale price, so that maybe soon I can offer you a fresh robe with the towels. For me, I will throw a robe on instead of my cloths while you get dressed. I always will be naked when your naked, dressed when you are dressed. I also prefer to leave the room as you disrobe for massage, most people feel funny if they are being watched as they hop out of their pants etc...then I enter and undress elegantly while you watch:) But if we sit and chat first, I usually will disrobe half way, as you men are visual creatures, lol Hope this answers your etiquette question?

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=20104 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=34148 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=102834&highlight=handles Just a few threads that covered this topic RG

I'm glad she was caught and is being charged. I don't agree with this AT ALL!

It is based again on the under 18 criteria. See the following link, http://yourlaws.ca/criminal-code-canada/171-householder-permitting-sexual-activity

For Running underage girls, Throw her in Jail and throw the key away!!!!

I just spoke with someone that knows her and she was well aware she was running underage girls. She has already been caught and had been under house arrest only able to leave home on Fridays for a couple of hours. Maybe this is one of her breach charges?

This woman is know as Mamma Flo and has been around and maybe still is a provider herself. I have never met her but I know people that do. I also had not heard she was running underage girls . The last I heard she was living in a basement apartment on Evans Avenue. This is a section of Fairview in Halifax . Its a section of town that boarders Old Clayton Park. It has good and bad parts all through Fairview, this one not being particularly bad. Perhaps not a good walk at night.

WHAT !!! ??? !!!! Lust ends ??? Tabarnack !!! ;) Oh ya right...it lasts until wedding vows. "As I slide this ring on your finger we vow now to have sex on our wedding night and maybe on the honeymoon a little bit and then never again until ovulation time. ;)" Now take out the garbage while I vacuum. And in a few years my lawyer will contact your lawyer Fuck. whether you fall for an SP or a bartender or an accountant or the sushi guy with the big knife chopping up fish. Doesn't matter. if you pursue it and she or he isn't interested move along folks. And "love" or "in love" doesn't really happen overnight IMO. It's just a word at that point. That truly takes a little time. And once it happens it never truly goes away. The "good and loving" memories are always there :)

Please post any BUSINESS RELATED announcements or self promotions in the advertising/announcements areas only. When you visit a town/city and then post a "Thank You" for that city please ensure it goes into the announcements area and not the discussion area. When posting and choosing the correct category consider this. Is this post I am about to make for my business? (Example: An Advertisement, Announcement, Schedule, Thanking of Visiting a city and asking if anyone is interested, Polling the guys on your new photos, etc...) -> IF SO THIS GOES IN THE ANNOUNCEMENT AREA Is it a general discussion topic (and not about you specifically) ... and does it still pertain to that city? If so then it can go into the discussion area The discussion area is more for people looking for info on a specific spot or provider in that area or general discussions for that city. A guy may however be looking for a specific service and may say "Does anyone provide this service" in that case you can say "Yes, I do" or if they are asking specifically about you in a thread... but if they ask "Does anyone have a recommendation for someone who does xxxx" then they are obviously asking the other guys so posting here would be a blatant advertisement and self promotion. (Not allowed) Hope that clears things up a bit as we have had some confusion as to what is and is not allowed in each area. Basically the announcements area are for the SP's to promote themselves and the discussion area is mostly for the men to ask each other questions (or as the SP's question) but sometimes a SP posts a very good question that is not posted for gain of her own business and that is very much acceptable and encouraged.

got a code in my node. sniff sniff

This time is not a quote, is the link of a video a man made for his baby but as or more inspirational than any quote I have posted, especially if you read his story.

If I get no response to an email or text (which are always polite) then I won't make another attempt. That being said if I do get a response further contact will be based on said response. Life is short and there are lots of options out there. Peace MG

I don't like it I love it and every way but none;) Seeing it shoot onto my body, particularly my boobies I find orgasmic:boobies: Seeing the look on a mans face when he is about to blow and that horny in itself is a huge turn on, but what about sex isn't;)

Well, that was a smashing experience. Jordan is a super friendly girl with a high sex drive. Definitely not a spinner type. But warm, welcoming, and accommodating. An orgasmic experience all around. The most fun I've had in a long time. Say no more....nudge nudge...wink wink...

Hope you had a wonderful Birthday Bianca :)

Happy b-lated Birth Day b-utiful Bianca. We'll have to compare notes on Vegas. Going there to celebrate Easter, heh. Hope your day was special and full of the things you love.

Another suggestion - try asking for the area Brandi works in. There are probably at least 100 Brandi's in Canada - which lady are you asking about?

This sounds like it would make a good recommendation. You should really post it in the recommendation area. See if she has one already and if not you can make a NEW one for her. If she has one already just add your comments to the existing thread. This area is more for discussions. It's not against the rules to post this here but it is better for the lady (and you) to have it as a recommendation.

Congratulations on your 2000th post!!!

Congrats on hitting the 2000 post mark qwertyaccount....

Thank you for many wonderful comments, pictures and sharing of stories. You have made me smile on numerous occasions and giggle on others. Can't wait to see more. *muah*

I've heard similar complaints. Control, jealous issues, and so on. But that is kind of why it is set up, an older man taking care of younger woman, guiding and controlling lol My opinion is that it is not ideal for an sp. It can potentially keep you out of business, advertising and seeing and nurturing regular sp clients, while you are in a SD/SB relationship. You wouldn't normally do both. So when the contract ends, you have to struggle to get your regulars back. Another complaint i have heard is the assumption of BBFS in a SD/SB set up, because it is exclusive and because the women who usually do it one at a time are not sps, and don't have the cover it up at all times mentality. If you want to make an 'arrangement', as an sp you have the option of setting up prepaid accounts for some regular clients. My friend does this, based on the type of visits, length of visits, and quantity of visits. her most common one is buy 5 get one free. They pay for a half hour, or hour, sessions in advance and the 6th one free, so a 600 value for 500 prepaid. She has a nice filing system and the gentlemen must sign in when using up one of the sessions, kind of like a coffee card :)

To each there own. I'll pass.

For those who aren't aware, tomorrow is National Cupcake Day in support of SPCAs and Humane Societies. I know there are lots of animal lovers like me here so I thought I'd post a link for more info. In Kingston there are several bake shops, schools and businesses taking part. There are events planned all across the country so if you'd like more information on what's planned in your community, just check with your local SPCA. It's a great fundraiser, it raises awareness and there's cupcakes!!! Who doesn't like cupcakes????:-D http://nationalcupcakeday.org/

except me :) I came back...I just couldn't stay away! After being waited on hand and foot like a queen it's my turn to give you some of that TLC you deserve. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/picture.php?albumid=7894&pictureid=51886 Let me pass on some of my warmth;) available this week Tuesday 10-2 Friday 10-4 if you these days dont' fit your schedule pm me I'm always available for special requests! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/picture.php?albumid=7894&pictureid=51885 Not a member? ask to be my VIP guest 613-523-6199 or pm to get details.

The best bet at that time of the night would be calling an Escort Service.

The Nordic model cannot be what replaces our current laws. The SCC struck down these three provisions because they infringed upon the safety and security of workers in a legal business. Implementing the Nordic model would be like telling construction workers they can do their jobs, but anyone purchasing the services of a construction worker could be arrested. Criminalizing clients does nothing to address the dangers faced by workers; in fact, it would likely increase these risks as criminalized clients would not likely be willing to undergo screening. So if the Nordic model is implemented, it will be appealed under the same reasons, and likely be struck down under the same reasons. "Feminists" (read: abolitionists) who want to "save the women and punish the pimps/johns" ignores the fact that there are men and trans* people who are workers, and there are women and trans* people who are clients. Criminalizing clients is not the way to go. We as workers do not want this. As to this talk of workers who are being pimped/exploited/against their will -- we have laws against human trafficking and forcible confinement and exploitation of minors. We do not need laws specific to sex work addressing these issues because we already have laws against them. There are plenty of other employments where workers are trafficked or exploited, and we do not have laws specific to those employments (domestic care/services being a big one).

There seems to be a lot of people missing the point. Yes, the Supreme court invalidated three parts of the Criminal Code dealing with Prostitution. So in one year, all things remaining equal, living off the avails, communicating for the purpose, and the bawdy house laws will no longer be valid. In practice I think you will be hard pressed to find any charges being laid under those three sections in the next year. But.... (and it is a big but), that is only if our current laws stay the same. Right now prostitution is legal in this country, and the ruling was made because those three laws were inconsistent with that fact and endangered people pursuing a legal means of work. If the Nordic model, or any other model comes in to effect, that makes exchanging money for sex illegal then all that hard work becomes moot. Brothels won't be legal, because selling sex will be illegal. All this will have been for nought. And stop blaming it all on Harper. He is only one part of this equation, and quite frankly I think he would rather avoid the debate. It is a politicial minefield. Start looking at the ridiculous and completely outrageous statements being made by people like the Elizabeth Fry Society, The Coalition for Abolition of Prostitution etc. etc. They are going to get the press, they are going to be exploiting others to get their point across. And it is not all right wing, nor left wing. It is just not church groups etc. It is a broad spectrum of people who want to criminalize prostitution, and they have a lot of tools to make their point. Target the right people, stop donating or working with groups that support criminalization. Speak out, and challenge the nonsense that we are already hearing, and are only going to hear more of in the coming months. Don't give the media ammunition. Yeah a hard fought battle was won on Friday, but it is going to be a long and bloody war.

Yes, you are correct that the police did this a few months back. A friend of mine replied to the specific ad you are referring too. The ad didn't say she was underage, just young. When he read the reply to his email inquiry that she stated she was 16 years old, he was shocked. He repoted the ad to BP but they kept letting it be posted. The stings are in operation to catch those that are underage and those that want to book with minors. I'd recommend sticking to the ladies you meet here on CERB and you can't go wrong. Each and everyone that I've met since becoming a member here have been very kind. Treat the ladies with the respect they deserve and you will be a happy hobbiest. Happy hobbying everyone. ;)