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Wow. This is incredible. I'm teary-eyed looking at how many people have signed this letter in opposition to the criminalization of third parties, and clients, as well as in support of the decriminalization of sex work in Canada. Here's a link to the open letter: http://www.gshi.cfenet.ubc.ca/openletter#.UzRswF7BHw8 My jaw dropped. Over 300 people have signed it! I'm sending a personal thank you letter to those I've come across throughout my own academic career who are supporting this. My heart feels very warm... Nat xoxo

We all know the famous phrase, used in the Dead Pool-1988, ;) that said, experiences, comparisons, the best, number one,mileage,massage skills etc etc only pits one facility against the other in threads like this. When it comes to mileage,and a massage that is entirely an experience where both the client and hostess/MA thoroughly enjoy each others company PERIOD. Therefore everyone has their OWN opinion, my suggestion is if you like variety, such as I do :) ......then each SPA is like ONTARIO...IT'S YOURS TO DISCOVER. Have fun, with your experience at each place, then post a recommendation of the lady you seen at your choice of SPA. Last item, you stated "In those three big brands in Ottawa" I like to say there is other SPA's out there as well, such as VIBE. BTW there is also many EXCELLENT INDY MA'S in Ottawa as well, like Jessica Massage, Clair Heavens...etc etc the list goes on....., so many to choice from, now isn't there?

Not recently but not long ago. Love making them and sharing some. I find them hot to re-watch and enjoy after the fact (give permission to keep and enjoy of course). Fun little kink to add to the mix for sure!

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Avoidance, being smart about changing your lifestyle, and re-programming your taste buds are the keys. Here's how I kicked my junk food habit (I used to eat fast food 10-12 meals out of my 21 meals per week). 1. Always shop on a full stomach and with a list (since you'll resist to urge to buy based on hunger or desire); 2. Find someone to cook for (it is way more enjoyable cooking for someone that appreciates your culinary talent than it is to just cook for yourself); 3. Make cooking easy (opt for one pot recipes, or simple recipes with just a handful of ingredients) which helps overcome the convenience of fast food; 4. Slow down your routine in the morning and pause to have a hearty breakfast every day that includes protein and carbs, which respectively helps you feel full and provides you with sustained energy; 5. Get rid of white sugar in your cupboard and switch to raw sugar; 6. Everyone says drink more water, but I can't stand water unless I am dying of thirst; however, I love Perrier and always have that on hand; 7. Stay away from sports drinks (e.g., Gatorade) altogether; 8. Introduce 100% real juice (real the labels very carefully) as your substitute for soda pop, and switch up the juice flavours regularly so you don't get bored of drinking apple juice all the time; 9. I used to balk at the cost of pre-washed salad and precut fruit, but with a busy lifestyle I have opted to buy those things to ensure I have easy quick access to leafy greens and fruit; 10. Go back to the farmer's style of eating -- full breakfast, hearty lunch, light dinner; 11. Throw out all your plates... no, really, the size of dinnerware has increased with the size of the North American diet and the increasing size of the North American waistline! The big plates make you want to load them up, so find a dinnerware set with smaller plates. OK, this perhaps is too drastic, so do #12 instead. 12. Understand the portion sizes that you need to be healthy; for example, one portion of meat is the size of a deck of cards... yup, that's all! Slowly and gradually reduce the amout of food you typically eat so you get accustomed to eating less; your stomach will shrink and you won't get cravings if you do it bit by bit. 13. If you do have a big meal (e.g., that big turkey dinner at Thanksgiving), then go for a walk around the block to help boost your metabolism. 14. Don't go to bed with a heavy stomach, and if you are doing that then try to have your dinner earlier so that your food is well-digested by the time you're ready to sleep. If you are going to make a change, do it in small steps, since you will adapt better. For example, try to skip the soda pop at one meal during the first week and substitute it for juice, or even try drinking only half of that can of pop. The second week, try to skip the soda pop twice. And so on. I now can not stand the taste of fast food or overprocessed food -- it is too greasy and too salty (or too sweet). I have maintained a healthy weight and very good body mass index for over 10 years since making all these changes slowly over time.... and I don't exercise that much either!

You really don't get it.. no offense, but it just makes more work for me to scroll past your responses to read the opinions and conclusions posted by Winnipegers. This is posted in the Winnipeg section. We're not about to start a private group.. Thanks to Georgieboy, cinelli, MrGreen and Horndog for their posts.. Kudos gents for your continued strong contribution to the local scene.. And as local Winnipeg veterans, you've summarized the current situation in Winnipeg, to a "t".. Yes, the situation in Winnipeg is in a decline. I posted my comments on another board, no need for me to repeat here, except to say that I do not give my business to the the touring ladies. "Buy local" is my motto.. To the small number of excellent local providers (Kayla, Leighxox, Jessie29, Juicy Jessi, DK Morgan, Emily, etc) my thanks for your good work and courage in carrying on in the face of the onslaught of bp druggies/scammers and the surge of touring girls passing thru town..

I "think" that I can write this now without jinxing myself. We have had a crazy snow and windstorm here now for over 24 hours, with 50+ cm of snow and winds approaching hurricane strength. The winds are still presently howling and no plows are anywhere out in the countryside where I live and I don't expect them until late tonight or until tomorrow. However, unlike some who were and still are less fortunate, my power stayed on. I had all of the necessities - ample food and of course beer. :) With power on the pump worked so I had water. Heat and light in abundance. On Wednesday I bought some fresh tulips and they are in vase in the window, opening with all of that snow out there as a background. Yesterday I planted multiple flats of seeds for my flower and vegetable garden because I am reasonably sure, but not yet certain, that we will in fact have a spring and summer. Soon they will be in my outside greenhouse. I read books and had fun with a thread on Cerb. It's all good. :)

I have to agree with those that say both... I love good food... I enjoy eating... I must say I am not huge on sweets.. and when it comes to junk food I am very selective.. meaning I am not a macdonalds type of person.. but god I love poutine, bacon.. and many other foods.. I try to eat healthy for the most part but i will not stop myself from eating or drinking something I like just because I dont want to gain weight or "be healthy" our body also needs fats and sugars to live.. I believe the key is not to abuse.. and well exercise.. not just to look good but to feel good ...

I find that most people are lazy when it comes to email - when it comes to NFLD from what I have heard from a few gentleman I know is the ladies want the "NOW" booking on the phone and not the eventual one over email. Its their loss as they are missing out on some of the nicest clients by being lazy. If you don't want to use email, don't put it in your ad or on your website. If you do use it but don't check it regularly it takes 2mins to set up an auto reply saying as much and to call if it is regarding a same day booking,etc. I only use email until the time comes to confirm via phone, and find that in the last few months most potential clients prefer this as there are WAY too MANY scams and untrustworthy ladies out there (sorry to say it, but its a reality). Building trust is important in this business and establishing a rapport in email prior to sharing a phone number is essential. I don't give out my number till I expect the potential client to provide me with theirs. Privacy is too hard to come by these days and unfortunately too many people have wrecked a basic trust in our business by random foolishness. i don't blame men for not wanting to disclose their numbers one bit.

You have been a prominent and supportive lady of CERB for quite awhile and your posts have run the gamut from friendly, fun, sexy, information and supportive. Excluding the MOD you are the second biggest poster here and we appreciate the time and effort you put into this community.

Cleo you are a lovely and unique individual and your voice is always playful, fun, informative and supportive. I can never see a pug without thinking of you. Thank you for the many smiles. Congrats and thanks.

http://www.thescarproject.org/ In this hobby and profession sometimes we get lost in the shallowness of the standards of physical beauty. This documentary and gallery of images, statements and experiences is a real eye opener to what is truly important, a look at humanity, strength and love. Something definitely worth looking at:)

;) it definitely does improve your sex life, just saying! Yoga is an 'ageless' practice (it's both an old practice, and perfect for all ages). Anyone can do it at any point in their life. Everyone should take it at their own pace and only do what they feel comfortable with... A good place to start is www.doyogawithme.com. It's a free website with some classes that are good for beginners.

Wiarton Willie, the King of the Groundhogs was found dead from an apparent self-inflicted gunshot wound after predicting an early spring.

I haven't but must admit the idea is intriguing (private use only though). I look at some of the tyhreads in the Social Group and there are many interesting links there that provide food for thought. Watching some of the scenes in providing oral from different POV's is a real turn on for me.

Thank you Cristy . With all our perceived flaws those images really give me something to think about and be thankful for my health. Also a reminder to me that we all have scars, some are just inward that can't be seen by others.

There's a silver lining to every cloud they say - well, every snow cloud it appears. Overnight I had so many ladies from Cerb contact me, knowing of the storm to come today and tonight, and offering their services out of the goodness of their hearts. I believe that many of the Maritime Cerb ladies may be on PEI today. Party time! Services you say? Well of course there has to be a warm up before the physical labor begins. And so the work begins. Always time though for a photoshoot. When we are done here they may head off to Charlottetown! Of course, I got a little note from Lee Richards. "Geeze MN2, it's only -2 there! Friggin Maritime wimps." When he sees my guest list I expect he will invite himself and I hope he brings his own shovel. Isn't it great to be Canadian and have such a close community. :)

The morning after the night before and success stories all around. Thanks to Lee and his super shovel, a few scoops and the snow was gone. Lee being the early bird and workaholic was up early and prepared a delightful breakfast for all of us. Magician cast his spell and arrived as well. He may have to use his magic carpet to get everyone home as we are still not moving on roads in PEI until tonight. He dropped business cards all around. If he can't handle the volume of travelers I have my alternative travel arrangements made. Only problem is that with our 100 km winds all these lovely ladies may end up in Newfoundland. Hey, that's not so bad though is it. Before the ladies leave though they decided to soak up a few rays from that big old PEI sun. I was able to assist Meaghan with a few techie questions. Glad for the big old farmhouse. All beds were full, and some overfull. :) I always underestimate that Lee fella. I thought, "What the hell. A snorkel," but he's smarter than the average guy from Manitoba! That's Lee in there right smack in the middle! Well he's in there somewhere. I can imagine what he's up to! So thanks everyone for the help with the digging out. Just so you know, we have another big snow storm forecast for Sunday if anyone wants to drop by. My free B&B is always available. Ha, still really wondering about a summer bonfire though. :) MN2

Took my braids out during the storm, wasn't too bad here, did not have to shovel....sorry Meaghan, hahaha.... Damn, miss my braids already! I actually have to style my hair for the first time in 3 months hahahha, hmmm...maybe back to braids?

Maybe some of you Manitobans/Winnipeggers need to re-read the OP's post starting this thread Losing Interest Is it me or are others losing interest in this hobby? I have been finding myself more and more very disinterested in what or who I see available. Maybe I'm just getting old or maybe being in a new relationship I just don't feel it anymore lol It wasn't till near the end of page two that some Winnipeggers took the thread as a chance to complain about the problems of Winnipeg. This thread wasn't about the problems of Winnipeg. The OP talked about getting old or a new relationship as his reason for disinterest. Really this becoming about the problems of Winnipeg is closer to a thread hijack, this thread was not about the Winnipeg scene till some CERB members sought to turn it into one As long as threads are made in public forums for all CERBite's to read then expect responses from all CERBite's And if you want a thread about the problems of just Winnipeg, then at least start a thread about the problems of Winnipeg, don't take over another thread where disinterest is attributed to age and a new relationship. RG

I got a gym membership this month and it is great. I work out on the threadmill and then go for a swim. After that, it's the hot tub for my reward. I don't really need to loose weight, just tone up a bit and it's helping. However, my biggest way to stay in shape is still having mind blowing sex. On top, on my back, on all fours - just haven't figured out the standing on my head trick yet.

Extremely important. In fact that is what motivated me to seek out a SP the very first time. I was craving a hug and no one would indulge me. :( I had not received a hug in 11 long years. Not since my last relationship in 2000. As for the kissing and cuddling, that is an extra bonus. Now, that is what I ask for up front when arranging to see a SP. Without those three things, the sexy frisky part just isn't worth it. IMHO.

Does she even do the math? The CBC "expose" here in Ottawa claims the average cost for a session with one of these girls is $200. So at that rate the trafficked victim has to see 1300 clients (or sessions in a year) which amounts to 3.5 clients every day 365 days a year. FFS really? And of course the claim that there are at least 150-180 of these girls in the Ottawa area. So do that math and on the low end that means there are 195,000 sessions a year with trafficked women in Ottawa. Really? At least make the lies believable. I mean by that math, if no guy sees more than one girl in a 24 hour period, there are 520 men having sex with trafficked women every day in Ottawa. Who the hell are these guys and where are they hiding?

If you are strictly talking about internet video chat via skype it's free :) Skype typically only charges for calls from PC to landline, or text messages. You shouldn't have to fund your account at all to do what you are indicating. Xoxo

I am half and half. I love good meals (roasts, turkeys, gravy, pasta) and cook my meals from scratch - rarely eat out. I have an issue with vegetables, but after trial and error, I have found the ones I like, so try to incorporate them into my meals. I love chocolate, but rarely have them, but if I do - its a binge. Chips, popcorn too - not a daily or even weekly thing, but when I do, its a binge. I once gave up sugar, and 2 days later, there I am in a staff meeting with this big cinnamon roll covered with 2 inches of icing. That's when I realized that cutting it out completely doesn't work for me - just keep it in moderation. Now, my Timmies - Large 3 creams and 2 sugars - I will never cut them out. I don't have one everyday, but they are my celebration prize when I do something like have a great workout.

I used to make solo movies for my own enjoyment. One time, I had someone filming - I'm doing my thing and having fun, but out of the corner of my eye, I see my cat circling around me. He came up on the couch behind me - all the while looking at me like "wtf is she doing?". He then jumps down on the floor, and goes right up to the camera and puts his whole face in the lens. The one operating the camera at this point busts up laughing and of course, now I'm rolling on the floor busting a gut. If there was a funniest home videos for porn, this one would have won the $100,000 Final. I agree - making a movie, watching it, and deleting it is great fun!

Cristy, I shared my weakness for sweets and being a foodie but didn't mention the healthy side of me which you also asked, every morning before eating anything and even before brushing my teeth (is how is supposed to be) I drink a glass of warm water with half lemon/lime they say it cleanses the body and is a great detox. I also TRY to buy food with no preservatives but is not that easy anymore.

Due to our big snow storm in the the Maritimes Having the afternoon off is nice, have to be well rested to use the snowblower tomorrow especially since MrNice2 has all the girls at his place to help him shovel. The way it's blowing outside most likely to have tomorrow off also.

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The original poster had also contacted me, the other night. I advised him that yes it's a scam site, it's operated by the same people behind these two sites featured earlier on the diary http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?tag=819-803-004 . http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?s=xlist As you can see the photos are fake and some featured on both sites. This is not a new tactic in the arsenal of the shaddier agencies, but it's one that eventually and always fails.

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I first met Layah at a social event and was immediately blown away. She is incredibly beautiful, but more importantly (for me) she is a really sweet and charming woman. I had a great time chatting with her and left that evening knowing that I would definitely be seeing her again. Anyway, it took a few weeks but we finally set up a time to meet. It was a wonderful hour. Layah is a teeny tiny little dream! And her "spinner move" was fantastic! Thanks sweetie. I'm looking forward to the next time. Woody xoxo

Well i've been looking and looking and looking and finally me and my fiancee have a fantasy we both are really into but can't find a girl to fit that slot... so we've come to the conclusion that we're gonna need to hire someone to join us for that night, and well lets be honest probably a monthly/ who knows how often kinda thing... so we're trying to find a sexy ebony goddess to join us for a threesome, like i said we are both really into the idea of that, and i consider myself the luckiest guy in the world that my girl is on the same page and honest/open... so we've tried going to bars to pick up, thats failed, tried some sites, no luck there either so finally i think its time we get a professional... which i've been trying to suggest for a while to her..... i'm practically entranced by Lexi... she's super friendly, hot and i know she would make this experience as hot as possible.. but girls are picky, so she wants options... so i was wondering if the awesome folks in this community could point me in the direction of some delishious ebony goddess's who are into couples... and if you've had some glowing experiences please we'd love to hear it... as this is our first time doing something like this we're kinda nervous.... but i love the community here and have been a member for some time ( i'm not new here or to this .... but she is ... lol ) so yeah can't wait to hear what you guys/girls suggest... MY girl finds really big full lips a serious turn on in girls... if that helps... anyways thanks again for taking the time to read my odd post... we're in the halifax area, also just read the rules for posting and not sure if this is the right area for this... umm so if i've posted this in the wrong area please tell me where to put it i don't wanna irritate the mods or be a pain..

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Spring? what is this spring you tell me? still in New Brunswick it looks and feels like winter blah

Sorry, Meaghan. :( We decided to stay together for the kids. The dogs needed to get out for walk. :p But, yeah. Holy crap there's a lot of snow. Winter, you can bugger off now. :ThankYou:

Have you given any thought to having your gf talk to Lexy? She is quite stunning and you three would have a great time. Sometimes with women, they need to feel a connection of the mind before they can commit to a lady. Worth a try.

I really don't care for sugar, so I can comfortably say I don't live to eat sugar. But there are some dishes that are uh-mazing. I definitely live to eat those.

Man, people are weird. The subject of communicating with SPs completely aside, who on earth imagines that once any conversation gets to this point: ... that things can possibly go well? What happy outcome do they imagine is going to transpire from there? And the icing on the cake, following that with: ... uh, maybe because you've just been filling my phone with dickish, petulant texts? Sigh.

The reality is no matter how much we care or want to help we can't fix someone else and until they reach a point where they want to change or want help to change we are virtually powerless. What can we do... make sure we stay connected... offer help with the change process not with daily life issues that result from the problematic behaviour. Tell the person we care and are there for them. What should we expect... well to be pushed away... to be hurt... to have unpleasant things said about us... to feel like we are being mean and letting our friend down... but remember it is not your friend that is talking it is the problem they are fighing.... you don't own the problem and are not responsible for the solution. I know some of this because I went through it for almost 30 years with a member of my family... many many attempts and many many relapses..... unbelievable pain and guilt by my parents and family... things are better now but it takes a toll.... be sure to understand what success looks like... it is not that you keep your friendship or things return to normal... it is that someone you care about wins the battle.... it's not about you its about them.

Email appointments can be great, and it is something that I do accept, but for the 'now' appointment, I may not be in an area where I do not have email access. I do have email listed on my profile, but I do have listed that I prefer texting (as I see that immediately), and I can understand the gentleman's need for discretion and privacy. Unfortunately though, I may miss an email due to not being able to check it. A text message or phone call I will see right away. My only advise on the matter of email is this: if you are seeking a 'now' appointment, I would feel its better to text or call to the lady (if that is what is preferred by her especially) that way she will see it immediately. There could be an hour or two go by before she is able to check her email only to find out that while she is going through the emails she has missed the opportunity to get back to you in time. I have missed potential clients due to the fact that I have had to go through so many emails that I have missed the window of opportunity of seeing the client that wants 'now'. And the fact that even when I have responded immediately I have not had a reply from the gentleman until hours later when I am not able to accomodate their needs.

I find that email can be used as a form of initial communication. However, for the actual confirmation of details, most ladies need to talk to you - hear your voice for example. I won't book anyone via email - they must call me (or I can call them if its easier for them) to get location and final confirmation. Anyone can create a fake email account - a little more challenging to create a fake phone number and voice. That's why its great to have a dedicated hobby phone - you turn it on when you want to play and turn it off when you are done. You don't have to worry so much about someone calling you out of the blue if you are worried about discretion.

very interesting thread .. love the comments such a variety of input. I have a couple of comments...can't remember who said what and it's too much to quote, so forgive me not crediting those who said.... the bit about how women hate the idea of 'whores' being available to their husbands. Big time I agree with this. Wives who don't give their husbands sex are bound to be freaking out about the laws changing... you think? Sex workers stigmatizing eachother ... I am well educated and have never used the term 'courtesan' in any advertising. I have also never felt those using it were somehow making themselves out to be better, or classier, or more educated. The reason, for me, is that it simply sounds sooo serious. No offence to anyone using the term, it's classy and sounds nice. But I'm a fun, silly, relaxed person, and the term just doesn't suit me at all. I'm a temporary girlfriend, a pleasure provider, or something. I used the term 'hooker' on another board and got grief for using it, but it wasn't meant in any way to be derogatory. it's just a word, really. People used to look at smokers years ago, and it was a status symbol, a sign of wealth, of social standing. Now people look at smokers mostly with disdain, sometimes even with disgust. It takes years to change people's opinions of any behaviour.

It keeps me busy when I am bored... waiting somewhere or for someone... because I feel part of the community. . Because I know I have friends far far away that i have never even met in person... and may never meet.. with whom I have things and opinions in common... similar views on life as it is... Cerb is just simply a GREAT place to be and community to be part of!

This was in 1968. I was in East Germany doing some academic work in Dresden. I spent the day in a symposium and made friends with a guy from Czechoslovakia who was teaching there and knew his way around. He knew a place that was frequented by young ladies from all over Eastern Europe who were students and happy to meet guys from the West especially those who had U S dollars to spend. A $20 dollar bill was considered a very nice honorarium for the whole night. I had never considered paying before as I was doing alright on my own but here I was in East Germany and it wassooooo easy to score without worrying about getting into trouble with the PoPo which was a very bad thing to happen especially in that part of the world. I met an especially fine 19 year-old redhead named Margit from Hungary who studying economics. "Wollen Sie schlaffen mit mir?" Her German was pretty good and she was as hot a babe in the sack as I've ever met. We had a nice time together and it was the best $20 I ever spent. We had several rounds of uncovered sex which she was really into and I remember she used a bottle of carbonated water to douche herself out. "Keine kinder" (no children) she laughed every time. I invited her to accompany me to the beach on the Baltic for the weekend and all we did for three days is do each other. She was delighted with the $50.00 I slipped her on the way home. Was she an "SP"? Technically she was. Many young women students were "providers" while attending school especially away from home and family. I often wondered what happened to her. That was my first time when I actually paid a chick to bink and squee with me. But I have yet to experience an SP in North America but hope to do so very soon.