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I've found that being myself is a fabulous screening tool!! I'm very vocal on some boards and on twitter, I tell it like it is, sometimes I'm criticized for that and sometimes I'm applauded. People tend to either be turned on or off. If a gent doesn't like the way I post or tweet and doesn't book me because of that, it's a win / win... it's almost guaranteed he won't like me in the flesh. On the other hand, my posts and tweets have attracted some very wonderful gentlemen who appreciate my genuine nature. It's been a huge benefit to me to be myself, and it takes very little effort :)

I can be no other person except myself (everyone else is taken) because to do so doesn't show any self love. Sex, sensuality and connection are very intimate things and for me, I need to be personally involved in the moment to give them meaning and energy. I give no less then 100% of myself each and every time whether it is reciprocated or not. To me, sexy, beautiful, erotic etc. are a package deal: inside and out. You can't have a beautiful sexy outside if your inside is flat and emotionless. You can have an amazing inside which influences what others see on the outside. As Brad said, it isn't unauthentic to not fully disclose or share everything, it is human nature. We all reserve parts of ourselves for certain people, situations or even just for ourselves. We may temper our true nature for the person we are with but that doesn't mean they are not getting the authentic person; we all have nuances to our personalities and desires. I think most people are interested in an authentic experience with a real person and if they don't feel they are receiving that, they move on. I'm sure there are plenty of fly-by-night SP's who believed they could just show up and not give of themselves and many clients who felt there was no involvement or connection. We're human, touch and connection is part of our need and within that we like to feel valued.

Someone just sent me an email. All it said was, "menu/rates" ......so I sent a link to PizzaPizza.

I have been in plenty of threesomes over the years.. both on and off camera.. and when I'm with a partner who I know is 'ooing' and 'awing' way over the top.. I'm completely turned off and have no clue what to do .. to either match her fakeness or just fade into the background. BUT when this happens I'd say 50% of the clients/viewers love it.. and the other 50% are turned off like myself.. When it's genuine fun.. I"m in heaven.. and have a blast.. and this is evident to the participants/viewers.. Unfortunately I don't usually know the lady in question is disingenuous until we're in the thick of things.. and she's practically cumming before we've even started! ugh.. bleh and ick.. lol.. I personally don't know how someone can fake it for an hour or two and not be strained from it..

Just to fine-tune that interpretation, I think that the "I'm not racist, but..." prefix demonstrates that the speaker recognizes that other people are racism-sensitive... not that the speaker him/herself is more self-aware. In other words, it shows that they're aware that the environment of conversation is changing... but they still haven't examined their own content. I think one of the hazards of being a good SP is that, in making your clients feel comfortable and safe, you create an environment in which they let slip things they might normally guard from strangers. Also, because they're beginning to feel an intimate bond with you, they want to reinforce that bond with "honest sharing". It's a combination of showing you that they'll let their guard down, and (consciously or unconsciously) testing whether you're on the same team. Trouble is, some people's honest is too honest. Other professions I think suffer from this: doctors, lawyers, and of course psychologists. It's an occupational hazard when dealing with issues that go to your client's core self/identity and internal world.

In my opinion authentic trumps artifice every time. However, there is a place for subtle fakery. What if the provider is not in the best mood? What if she or he is slightly irritable? Should the client be exposed to the genuine mental & emotional state of the moment when the expectation is for a drama-free-getaway-from-it-all romp? I think as a quality service provider, presenting yourself as a projection of the client's expectations would be as much a part of the pre-date preparation as doing hair & make-up. That is not to say that a provider completely sublimates their own personality to be a play thing for the client, but rather a provider would strive to present the best themself they can be, despite real life circumstances. As with all things, it boils down to a matter of degree. I would expect my play date to be happy to see me, but I would not want forced or faked physical responses. The quickest way to ensure I will never repeat is to fake it when we are intimate. My longest lasting relationships with providers have all been with genuinely authentic personalities. I think I'm a fair judge of authenticity, in fact I think most people know instinctively when something does not ring true. Repeat encounters reinforce realness, as consistency comes into play. Over time the real personality begins to show, just like in the Real World or Big Brother. It may take more than a few visits, but in time even the most gifted faker will give themselves away. But even with my acute sence of veracity, I can be fooled. In the end we all believe what we want to believe. And yes, I want to believe that an attractive woman half my age finds me sexy. It is just better if the attraction is real.

I'm sure I'm not the only one that from day to day and even hour to hour can change my moods, desires and goals. I may start out the day in a buttoned up shirt and in a laid back attitude, being quiet and demure. Then later on I might want to turn it up a notch, feeling frisky and horny so I'll come here and verse those feelings openly if I want to attract someone in the same mood or just because I can. That's one of the nice things about cerb, our sexual lingo isn't censored we're free to express ourselves as we see fit. I think it would be a mistake for anyone to judge a person just because of their lingo on a sex site. People are complicated and layered and I think it is a beautiful thing to be as expressive as you feel. Explicit to risqué to demure and prim it's all allowed and enjoyable so long as there is some creativity involved, imo Crude doesn't =classless nor does posting pretty words=class:)

Katherine, Ms. Manda, Emily Wilson (although very restrictive service but fun nonetheless) all have beautiful behinds not to mention Sierra and based on her pics certainly Cristy Curves.

With all due respect we have this policy for a reason we do not believe in lining our ladies up like cattle as we feel this would be degrading to them....if at anytime you chose a lady from the album and do not like what you see when she arrives in your room you have option to chose another MA :) Easy peasy ....we want all of our clients happy.....please feel free to PM me if you wish Thanks Angie

I think it's been said but in my own words, I don't care and probably wouldn't be able to tell. I see the ladies because I want them to make me feel wanted and desired. I do choose the ladies based on what they write so as long as those conditions are met, I'm good with it. That said, if she is just going through the motions then obviously I don't feel wanted or desired. I guess there is no simple answer just subtle nuances.

How about twolips...it is spring afterall...

I know this is directed at the men but I wanted to say that even the most genuine of providers goes through the motions from time to time, it's almost impossible not to, unless you want to kill the moment for your partner. By this I mean even when those of us who have the luxury of being very selective with whom we meet, those of us who choose so there can be chemistry, even then we can have moments when it just isn't working or doesn't work, when you realized there is no chemistry, at those times you aren't going to let your partner know. You'd want him/her to still enjoy, right? This would be considered going through the motions. When I'm with the men I'm with I'm there for me as well. I treat all my chosen clients as actual dates. But even the most planned date can go wrong and sometimes you have to be/or do things that you wouldn't in your "normal" life . I'm very outspoken, forthright, yet sometimes I have to bite my lip, is this not being me, authentic? There are times in bed when in the beginning I was turned on but something changed, so I go through the motions, not being authentic? There have been times when I've accepted a booking from a client for him, not me, not both of us, but to suit his schedule, not authentic? My points are I think those of us who are ourselves have to act from time to time, it's the business, when dealing with people authenticity sometimes has to be replaced with a more manufactured persona, or you'd be considered rude or you might hurt someone's feelings and I'm trying to be more diplomatic;) These terms are used with to much importance anyway imo. They are as common now as gorgeous, amazing, beautiful, the best, classy, etc, etc. Anyone can call themselves or anyone what they wish it doesn't make it true and I'm not sure why we should care. I think we all need to be/do what works for you/me us and be happy:).

I was curious, to you men... do you prefer a genuine and authentic approach? One where the SP is truly herself, and fully immersed in the moment with you? One where everything she posts, emails, tweets, etc is a TRUE reflection of who she truly is? OR do you prefer the... somewhat less authentic approach, where the SP is clearly defined as such, posts, etc are clearly manufactured and during sessions she is clearly "going through the motions"? I know this seems like a no brainer and not worth questioning... But I don't think it is that black and white. Also, can you tell when an SP is being genuine vs one who is fake? Look forward to your responses. Please keep in mind that this is NOT intended to be a specific thread to pin point those SPs who may be one way or another. Keep your responses vague and non-specific!!! :) xo

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I think this thread illuminates the diversity that is present here in this community. For me, personally, I think it comes from both experience and personal preference. Some providers do advertise a little more explicitly and that's their decision to do so--it works for them and they prefer to advertise in that manner. I prefer not to do so. When I first started advertising, I kept advertising as a student. Yet, once I realized that every other girl was almost doing the same thing even if they weren't a student (lol), I decided to change how I advertised (save for the few obvious jersey pictures lol). This didn't happen because I wanted to be seen in a certain light. I did so because I wanted to be personalize my brand. For some girls, being explicit, that's their "thing." Others, not so much.

My initial thought to the question was 'of course she should be herself!'. But I don't think it's as simple as that. I think her online presence should be true to herself. I literally saw someone just because of a very different approach to how she advertised, and I liked that about her. I think that being someone else might attract people you wouldn't normally like to be with, even in a professional capacity (but I say this without any experience on the other side). But in person, it's a bit harder. In a different field that I work in, I have my own set of clients, some that I absolutely love, and some that I'm not that fond of. I do feel myself going through the motions (smiling, complimenting, etc) when my client is not someone I probably wouldn't get along with outside work, and to those clients, they deserve that version of me. It would be hypocritical for me to say that all SPs should only be themselves with a client, and not put on a show, because in the end of the day, this is a method of income, and to risk it for some idealized notion is not realistic in my opinion.

Hard to say what is best for you. If you are thinking on photography, you will be wise to start advertising say on kijji first to build your experience and to see if there are enough interest in all area's of photography. I say this because, if you are looking to only have escort boudoir clients, it will be far and few in between. From a finance point, it will be a hard go if only advertising for escort boudoir. As in any business the more versatile you are, the better your business can grow. Also, try to submit some pics into contest and or galleries, so that when people are enquiring and booking you, you can have some credentials to offer to the table. This is will set you into a professional category rather then just " another dude with a camera" . Would love to see you do this and succeed! Lord knows, it is hard to find a good and open minded photographer!

I never weighed in on Naomi. She is a really beautiful lady with a body that is remarkable. Her personality is very sweet and her massage is soft and tender. If you like that you will like her. if you like beautifully shaped large natural firm breasts you will be in heaven. Realizing there are varying tastes, sometimes many of us want to take it farther in massage, I didn't write a recommendation yet. But she is remarkable for guys that want to be with a beautiful woman that is warm and engaging. I have seen her a few times and really like her.

Twolips makes a lot of sense... in a funny way could be like a carnivorous flower loves meat lol

I agree this is a broader social problem, certainly not limited to clients. However, I find that the client-service provider dynamic makes addressing it complicated in unique ways. The power dynamics of relying on clients to make a living, plus the intimacy of our interactions weights my choices. Actions I might take in my personal life or in a different kind of professional setting have different consequences for me here. I may tolerate things I wouldn't in another setting. The expectations placed on me by clients are different from expectations from friends or other professional associates. My safety considerations are different. This issue absolutely arrises in all areas of life, but encountering it in our industry creates some unique challenges and considerations, and so I wanted to talk about it in that specific context. @Phaedrus, I think you're very right, that people are often unwilling to self identify as a racist or homophobe. They understand in an abstract way that these are undesirable things, and so to avoid cognitive dissonance with their self perception as a good or moral person, they don't integrate the idea of being a racist with their self identity. However, I think when someone seeks to make excuses for their behaviour, in the form of, "I'm not a racist, but..." or "I have gay friends...", implicit in that is recognizing that they're aware that their behaviour or choice of words is likely to hurt or offend someone. Even if they don't see themselves as racist, they know very well that the words coming out of their mouth are. Things are getting better and shifting slowly. There's more awareness and more dialogue in mainstream culture about these kinds of things. But it's a slow process - even if we all know that overt -isms are bad, there are so many harmful ideas and stereotypes that we're taught all our lives and that are so easy to accept without questioning. I just wish and hope that everyone would make an effort to be more kind, more compassionate, to recognize our shared humanity and to also recognize that we have diverse experiences and not everyone has been afforded the same opportunities.

That is just way to funny....problem is some poor girl at pizza pizza is getting asked for the GFE Pizza with BBBJ.... lolol

Genuine & Authentic.. yes please. I can tell the difference and will not book if it seems too over the top. Peace MG

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Since I'm not a subtle person perhaps I just don't notice:) I've been here since 2011 and I haven't noticed any changes, but then again I don't pay much attention to others ads and I only look at threads that I find interesting or ones I feel I could add to. My writings/ads/posts and threads vary from explicit to somewhat conservative. They sometimes are expressions of my moods and feelings but certainly don't define who I am or how much class I have or don't have or anyone has for that matter. This is a forum where there are a multitude of personalities selling and searching for sex so I think it should be expected to see x rated to prim and if someone is sensitive to explicit language this may not be the place for them. After all a lot of these ads are written in fun, with a desire to peek interest, arouse and stimulate, certainly not to offend:) and if they do ignore them and read the ones you like:)

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Since my last post I have now entertained an SP in my home and it was a wonderful experience to host her and have all the comforts of my home available to us for the time we have had together. That said it was a bit nerve wrecking making sure that there was no evidence of the visit left for when my wife came home so while it was a great session I am not sure it will happen that often in the future but I am glad we did it. Just my opinion

Well, it's not "everyone" though, that just happens to be the most commonly and publicly discussed form of the SP/client relationship here. There are all kinds of folks here, seeking all kinds of services in all kinds of contexts. Some of those clients lurk rather than post; and some just don't advertise that aspect of their interests. I'm cool if SPs have a voice they can use to call out to that segment of the market, as long as it's within the board's rules. It lets them, and the clients seeking what they're offering, find each other. And that's one of the key functions of the board. My own reaction to the blunter ads varies. Sometimes amusement, sometimes a head shake, sometimes interest if that's the kind of thing I'm in the mood for. Yeah, that language can be ugly coming from clients. But you know what's good about that? The guy's just given away the key to his nature to the whole world, for free. Once you see a guy write that, you've got the measure of him and you know you can dump him from your circle. Sometimes the best thing is to leave people enough rope to hang themselves.

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Thanks for the heads up.

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Oh My Goodness!!! I would totally compete in this!!! Sounds like soooo much fun, I love getting dirty while having some real fun time ;) P.S My Mexican Wrestling Name is "La Chupa Más Sexy"

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i always enjoyed it on sunday nights when barbs used to do oil wrestling years ago . you got bid on the ladies participating and than get to towel them off after the match . the winner would get a bottle of champagne , the guy that paid the most would get a bottle , and they would give away a third bottle but I cannot remember the reason for that one .

Il re might know more about this but whenever I brought up hello in strip clubs I was shot down. Apparently there are few things on this planet that are worse to clean up

How did you contact the ladies?would you give us an example of pm or email sent? I am someone that has no problem with ANY ages however it depend how you contact me waiving dollars like carrot to a donkey is a huge turn off for me

As Darr mentioned, take a look at some ladies websites, see who interests you, contact them in the manner they wish and ask questions. All of us on here at Cerb will absolutely have you feel at ease, and answer your questions. There is always apprehension in meeting with a provider for the first time, and having maturity definitely goes a long way. Take your time, research who captures your interest and have fun :)

Through my business life and at times being very hectic I have many different type of dreams, some are of stress related as I would be thinking of what is needed to get done the next day, planning,what the final product may look like. In fact I will wake up knowing that certain colours would look excellent together, from a interior decorating design, then I would write them into my IPad or IPhone at 2 or 3 am being wide awake. I have had dreams of past family members that have past away, and dreaming of their funerals, which is/was realistic but bizarre of having dreams about it, must be because of their anniversaries coming up. I have had day dreams/fantasies at 530 am while walking my usual 6 kilometre walk, where I'm thinking of lady, and the sessions together where it is So realistic, my time of my 6k walk has become so much quicker and my pace is in tune of the music I listen too, while thinking of the love making with her and it is so vivid and etched into my thoughts. I have to be careful because when crossing some roads, I'm not paying strict attention to traffic.;) Frequent dreams at night also about some of my encounters they are so realistic, I wake up in a sweat and very excited ;) and find myself holding a pillow in my arms in my king size bed, while naked and by myself :) lol

It's tricky to know just how to answer this, since it depends so much on how you interpret the question, or which part you focus on. If we're talking about the physical interaction, then naturally the preference is for someone to be authentic and in the moment, rather than just obviously going through the motions. But expectations have to be realistic. I mean, if a lady is feeling tired or has a headache, does anyone what to be authentically told at the end of an encounter that she'd rather have had a nap than have spent time with you? Is a lady who hides that fact and ensures you leave feeling good about yourself being professional or being inauthentic? If we're talking more about her personality (or persona), then that depends too. Much like the open letter Regent recently penned to hobbyists, if you're racist, sexist, or homophobic, I'm much happier if you keep that part of yourself to yourself. But generally speaking, I think it's probably better to present yourself as who you truly are, if only because it's exhausting to pretend otherwise. There's enough variety out there that it seems to me like it would be simpler to be who you are, and so attract the people that you appeal to. It's worth pointing out that being authentic doesn't necessarily mean revealing all of yourself. We all have layers and we all act differently for different audiences. This isn't deception; it's life! It's possible that a person can present one side of themselves on Cerb or in the bedroom, and another side of themselves when alone or with friends, etc. That doesn't mean that how they choose to act here isn't authentic.

Just to add another thought here... The subject here has a lot to do with my personal, in particular the lack thereof, relationships in life. I'm very much a loner outside of a very small circle of friends and family, and this is largely because I've met so many who just aren't genuine. It's impossible to develop any type of relationship when that happens. So many seem to have their own agenda in life and tailor their interactions around that: "How do I need to act today, who do I need to be today, to get what I want?" That doesn't work for me. If I need to be someone I'm not to reach some goal, then that's a pretty hollow existence. And, I've given up on what many would think "a lot" by living that way, I think. I kinda expanded on the topic a bit and rambled (sorry Savannah) and could probable ramble more as it's a "grey" topic and not black and white, but to answer your question: Yes, while not always, I can usually spot the difference.

For me I try very hard to make the Sp as comfortable as possible with me so she can be herself, I feel I have a good ability to figure if she is faking or enjoying our time together, I understand some are more passionate than others dosen't mean it was not good for both, there is nothing worse for me than hearing a fake moan, in the other hand nothing gets me going more than a sexy whisper in my ear touch me feel how wet I am or Magician you make me feel like a woman. If I think its fake there will be no second visit for sure. Most of my hobbying has being with ladies here on Cerb so I have being very fortunate in this scenario, before cerb I have had the experience of saying to myself that was a waste after the hotel door was closed.

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I really hope this comes off the way I mean it and not abrasive. I can squirt, and get as many ladies I am sure am asked this question. Just because I can, doesn't mean I can do so on demand. I an not a machine or a circus clown. If you choose to spend an hour or so with me and this is something that important to you it really stresses me out to have you try and make this happen. Please think before you try to make this part of our date. Women are human beings and as such please don't force this . Perhaps a gentleman can last for hours or have several fantastic orgasms in a certain time frame. Great, but I bet no man would want to be pressured into doing so on demand. If I may borrow RG's line. K's rambling's.

I am new here. I am reminded that this is an open forum. From what I have seen, there is a wide range of types and personalities on both sides. Conservative may work for one, raunchy with the other, and sometimes opposites attract! I find the "p" term revolting. While we are at it, as a new person, "hobbyist" is better suited to pimply teenage boys building model airplanes. "Provider" sounds like they're selling tv/internet bundles in the mall. Who dreams this stuff up, anyway? :smile:

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If you aren't certified, it won't matter for an erotic massage. But if you want to learn great massage skills, then definitely take some sort of course. That will fast track your abilities. i've honed mine over several years, trial and error and common sense, but if you are able to provide a trained massage for a longer period of time on a massage table, you can pretty much name your price for some guys. A lot of guys are only looking for massage and HE, but their emphasis is on the quality and duration of the massage, along with erotic sensuality and anticipation factors. Not a lot of people can do a longer and good massage, or have the interest in doing it. So guys look until they find someone, and stick with her until she moves or retires, which is fairly frequent. you would probably see a significant increase in new clients if you advertised any non full service HE sessions.

I agree with what the other ladies have already posted. Please understand that how you have a preference on whom you would like to visit with - WE (companions) have a preference on who we would like to spend time with. For me, I prefer 40+ I find I have a much better connection visiting with company slightly older than myself. I have personally found that the majority of younger men don't have a clue what they want and are more into a date that Im not into offering. As well I find I don't have much in common with a younger man and it leaves little to talk about, which leads to a not so much fun date. Don't get me wrong there are people I have spent time with that have been younger than that - however they have had impeccable references from ladies I know and that was the deciding factor on whether I visited with them. Keep in mind this is my opinion and no one else's. There are ladies who have no issue with age of whom they may visit with and maybe that is the route you need to go. Once you can gain some credibility from a lady who can vouch for you(with you being a gentleman and a wonderful client), that may help with getting an encounter with another lady you want to see. (please note it may not as some ladies are firm on their age requirements) Its nothing against you personally, its just what works for both parties involved. I mean do you really want to spend time with a lady who does not want to visit with you as you don't meet her requirements? That would not be a fun date.

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I don't have any tattoos....nor do I have any immediate plans on getting any. Personally though, when it comes to the ladies, I can take 'em or leave 'em (tattoos that is :p). I honestly don't have a preference one way or the other. In my eyes, a beautiful, intelligent, sexy woman is a beautiful, intelligent, sexy woman with or without tattoos. Heavily tattooed women like Cleo Catra, SaraMQ or Malika Fantasy would be no more attractive to me without tattoos....nor are they any less attractive to me for having them. A woman's appeal to me is her charm, her wit, her intelligence, her sexual prowess, and yes, her physical beauty. None of which can be hidden by tattoos if you ask me. But hey, every one is allowed to their personal opinions and preferences. If johnsvp prefers no tattoos/body alterations, that's his prerogative.