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After a long productive winter it brings Marc and I great pleasure to ANNOUNCE our new rooms are open! We want to first thank all of our fine clients that took the time to provide us with any feedback that would help us improve our business.....we are passionate about what we do and we take pride and genuinely care about our clients needs as well as our ladies and this shows in the expansion....Existing space (2000 sq ft) & expansion space (1800 sq ft) was done 100 percent LEGAL & ALL approved by the City of Ottawa and full occupancy was granted today! What we have added: *** A new discrete side entrance that you can enter and exit through ***Clients have the choice of 2 entrances and 3 exits from our unit for discretion ***All MA's have been trained how to be as discrete as possible in making sure you don't cross paths with other patrons at the spa! ***Separate massage waiting for privacy as well as utilize this space if you would like to meet the MA's in person for a quick hello to see if that special someone and you share some sexy chemistry! ***3 new rooms in addition to the 4 rooms our spa already had for the fast growing Massage industry in Ottawa and to be able to offer you more selection & variety of MA's for your enjoyment! The NEW Rooms are: ***Spacious with nice comfy couches to cuddle up with your favorite MA ***Professional Massage Tables that are adjustable ***Fresh High Quality Towels ***Industrial/Commercial onsite laundry facilities to ensure fresh linens at all times ***High Quality & Professional Body Wash,Massage Oil & Gel ***Erotic dance pole for all your naughty dances for the MA's that specialize in erotic dancing ***2 4 by 8 wall mirrors for your viewing to see all those oh so sexy bodyslides from every angle ***Adjustable lighting & black lighting to enhance your erotic massage experience *** In-room sinks *** the new showers are more spacious (5 ft) and can comfortably cater to 3-4 people at a time ...excellent for Duo's & Couples Massage :wink: we have custom massage jets that we built right into the shower....the jets are all adjustable for your preference of angles during shower fun....soapy shower fun oh ya! ***We now have specific pricing scales for all MA services our spa offers....no more inconsistent pricing guys! This has been long overdue! This I know will make everyone happy! ***We will be holding a private party meet & greet FOR PREGISTERED Members ONLY at the spa one late Friday evening near the end of May! A perfect opportunity to take a couple of hours for yourself and sneak away to Ottawa's favorite Paradise Getaway retreat ;) More details coming soon! ***IF ANY OF YOU HAVE ANY FEEDBACK AT ANYTIME PLEASE DO NOT BE SHY AND SEND US A PM! Friday Salina 9-4 aka "Salinaflower" Pandora 9-4 aka "Pandora" April 9-4 NEW AJ 10-6 Mandy 10-7 aka "Candy Mandy" Cherry 12-8 aka "Cherry Blossom" Samantha 3:30-11 aka "Naughty Samantha" Bianca 3:30-11 aka "Sexy Bianca" Kandice 3:30-11 aka "Sweet Kandice" Riley 3:30-11 aka "Riley Parks" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Nina 5-11 aka "Nina Dream" Sabrina 6-11 aka "SabrinaXOX" April

I found this video Online and I thought many here would enjoy... http://www.sunoticiero.com/index.php/sexcion-not/30790-literatura-histerica-artista-las-graba-leyendo-mientras-un-vibrador-las-lleva-al-orgasmo Enjoy!

I know I've spent to much time on cerb when I start dreaming about- "Someguy" wielding a "Mightpen" and walking a "Reddog" asks me to go skating on the"Ice4fun" but I am are the "loneskater" ?? Then I see some "Red headed raven" named "Katherine " fly by asking if I'd like a "Midnight Massage". Then some "BcGuy" Runs by covered in "FishFeathers with Mac Teeth" and a "Pistol packing Pete" wants to "Touch" me in places I've never been touched, "Luckyme" I thought;)wow, then a "DominoEffect" starts and everyone falls down!! Yup a crazy dream and to much time on cerb, lol. :)

I'll be having lunch tomorrow with my mother, aunt, and grandmother :)

The other difficulty around this time of month with Mothers Day, years back we also lost our father in this month, so it will be a very somber next couple of weeks. No matter your age, and if your parents are still around, take that time to visit,phone and enjoy the moments together it is always so important in your life. I've always had a very special bond with my mother and father, and still do. "What we have once enjoyed deeply we can never lose. All that we love deeply becomes part of us. " Helen Keller.

I was hoping to find a lady to play Candyland with and so gave Cristy a call. I brought along a CherryBlossom and we had a Realnicechat. But then I felt a stray Touch which was a real Rushton. Feeling JoyfulC I apologized for being Frank97500 but asked if I could Seymour. I thought she might be Mod at me, but when she suggested a Midnite Massage I certainly felt like a Fortuneateone. It was a Malika Fantasy come true! Unfortunately at that point I woke up... turns out it had all been a Dreamer8.

I don't even bring toys along unless someone specifically asks in advance. I don't use them when alone, and I don't have a favourite. I just prefer the warm, wonderful toys attached to the man I'm with.

Since we are talking about Avatars, I personally think that the only people who should have a picture of them in the simplest apparel should be the Service Providers...

Take some of the cerb handles and make a short story, poem or a quirky quip. There are a lot of unique names that will allow for some fun stories:) I'll start- There was a "Veryoldguy" who loved "TheLiquor". He had a dog, an"Olddog". This "Olddog" was a "Yellowdog" who loved to do the "Splitz". Now this "Veryoldguy" "Lovedthe ladies", especially "SweetEmilyJ". He loved her so much he gave her a "Carebear". To thank him she told him she'd have "Sexnonstop" After she got him "Hard" she saw he had an "Elephanttrunk" and thought oh my, now I've found my man;) Now lets hear yours:)

I would say it wouldn't be a %-age, but more of a rounding up, as someone mentioned. If you are paying in 20s for example, an extra 20 would be more than OK, even if the original rate is 300. I usually say that if you are seeing an agency sp, a spa ma, or some other arrangement where you know the sp is getting a portion of what you are paying, even an extra 20 as a tip would be greatly appreciated, as her take home is just that much sweeter. You may be paying 300, but if you knew she was getting 150 of that (after agency cut, and driver fee), you might be predisposed to tip. If she's indy, and you are not normally a tipper in other aspects of your life, don't worry about it (unless you are seeing someone who seems to be undervaluing herself and her services with super low rates, and you want to make a point to her that she should think more highly of herself?)

I think whatever safety checks (outside of screening, which it is doubtful anyone with short time short notice appts does in depth) they use for half hour or hour still work? Make a phone call/text to say appt start time, expected finish time, then follow up when alone, none of that changes just because the appt time is 15 rather than 1 hour. Also in some areas, the offer of a 15 minute is bj only, no frills, no FS. So he won't be getting steak at all, let alone sizzle lol. In areas with 15min FS sessions, I kind of think the price break isn't going to be 40-50% off, but more like 10-20% difference, like a 120 half hour becomes a 100 FS. i think everyone knows that the duration of the session is still going to include the time to get from front door, to the incall, in and out of the shower or bathroom, undressed and dressed. Majority of '15' minutes mean a minimum of 20 minutes time, hence not lowering the FS rate for 15 that much. And for the sp the upside is that less time is spent, no GFE during session, and the $$ altho lower reflect the fact of less time, less exposure to risk activities. i am not convinced that regulars doing half hours now are going to opt for the 15 as a way to save money. It is possible a small percentage will, and sometimes they might when short on time, but it would be like saying an hour guy will sometimes opt for the half hour. It will happen from time to time, but i doubt they will replace their preference of the longer time with a shorter time at a lower price. it is ideal for high volume sps, and sps who don't engage in conversation with clients, and clients who are not looking for conversation, and for clients who want to meet an sp and see whether or not she will become an ATF he wants to spend more time with. It is a good marketing tool for new sps as well, to get seen means getting more regs, and longer times for higher rates.

I have never seen a thread get so many replies for mostly no happy endings. Keep er goin!

You thought right, Vitto!!! I believe you've identified a new activity to incorporate into sessions! With many thanks, waterat

when I've stayed in smaller, boutique style hotels with awkward lobby entrances ... or large hotels with a huge lobby and confusing entrances I always give clear directions to the elevator. For example, "walk in straight ahead past desk turn left to elevator" ... or ... "walk in and head towards front desk turn right just before it and elevators are down the hall" ...for both his comfort and my own. It's a couple of extra keystrokes and it keeps him from looking awkward, uncomfortable, or like he doesn't belong, plus it ensures he makes it to my door :)

Happy Mother's Day everyone! There is NO gift (in my opinion) that can ever show our mums just how much they are appreciated, honored, respected and LOVED. They gave us life and loved us unconditionally when we probably didn't deserve it (the crazy teen years). In our family we usually get all the aunts, female cousins and mums together and have a huge soul food cook out and just enjoy the day. Love, appreciate and be grateful for those of us who still have our moms, but also the mother figures who faithfully stepped in and became that presence we needed. Jas xo

It's certainly a sexy but even artistically done idea. I remember coming across it myself. If you want to check out the full videos of all the different readings, not to mention FAQ's, interviews, and even essays on the project, here is the filmmaker's official site for them: http://hystericalliterature.com/

Decided on having a selfish day, have done absolutely NOTHING and enjoyed every minute it. Some days it just simply feels good to get off the merry-go-round for a short while.

I farted in the office and walked around. Just because........ Posted via Mobile Device

It's obvious that there are many walks of life sharing this here path we all don't want to call prostitution and the common denominator is money = release = mutual satisfaction. There have been many "changes" this business has gone through from my perspective, but from what I'm starting to understand, through maturity, it is really me who is changing ... like starting to be more accepting of and less threatened by others and their choices. Knowing that I am not defined by a culture, but that I am co-creator of that culture. When changes would start to take place I would always dread what would be next, thinking I'd have to join the troupes to get along and then the 15m came up and "OMG here we go again! How am I going to have to lower myself now?" But really, I don't have to succumb to those things that others do and perhaps do quite comfortably, and if what they do bothers me because of whatever hang-ups I may have I am allowed to just let it slide off my back because it really is none of my business.

I contacted Yasmin by PM. We maintained contact that way till the very last minute before her arrival to my place. When I opened the door I saw a pretty college girl with a lovely smile. I was delighted to see her in person and gave her a big welcome hug. She smelled like a fresh flower. I took her coat. She was wearing a sexy red blouse with black lace that showed the cleavage of her hard round breasts and soft pearl skin. Yasmin displayed a high degree of politeness, etiquette, education and respect. I was very impressed with her level of sophistication, the sincerity of her communication and the beauty of her eyes, face and lips. We sat chatting on the sofa, listening to music and having drinks. We talked intelligently while holding hands and getting close. Soon we were into caresses and kisses. We changed the sofa to the bedroom. Taking her clothes off Jasmin showed an awesome body. She is a curvy spinner with super sexy model looks. Naked we were caressing, kissing and soon turned to daty. Jasmin is super clean, wet and totally delicious. Her oral skills are tender, passionate and deep. Daty with her is heavenly and unforgettable. We turned from Daty to cowboy. Jasmin is naturally wet and tight. She needs no lube and has no issue in prolonged riding to make herself cum. Once she came, she allowed me to explode in missionary and drop next to her in a passionate embrace. She was in no rush. We lay for quite some time before we dressed. She was very appreciative of us spending time together. We hugged and kissed promising to see each other soon. I really felt I spent the night with my college girlfriend. Loved it !

its not easy to put this out there... but here goes :) I think I must be doing something wrong here, because I have difficulties in Ottawa / Pembroke that I don't experience in other areas of the province. I know that some cities have their own way of doing things ... and maybe someone can give me some direction and some tips to help me avoid this difficulty in the future. I advertise well in advance, I am well established and well reviewed. I offer a good service, post real & recent pics, and I'm reliable. However, I don't usually accept last minute bookings from gents I don't already know. So I end up in trouble when I visit Ottawa... cause for some reason I am always plagued with a rash of last minute cancellations and sometimes no shows. Touring is not easy, driving in the winter is challenging. I have had my share of challenges with winter weather this year (gawd. have I ever!) but I always make it to where I'm going and I'm (almost..sorry Timmins!) always on time. It's endlessly frustrating to drive for hours through dangerous conditions only to have your appointments cancel on you at the last minute. Is Ottawa more of a "book last minute" kind of city? Should I show up anyways, despite cancellations... and just be more willing to accept short notice bookings (with a reference, of course)? I post here and on the other ontario boards, but I don't like backpage ... should I give it a try? I should probably add that I'm not in Pembroke as advertised, nor am I headed to Ottawa as planned tomorrow. I just came home. As Ottawa veterans I'm asking for your advice... both ladies and gents. Any help is appreciated. Thanks for reading :)

Since I'm very selective in who I meet, my body always has a great time & the Ladies know it. So, I have to give my Ladies an extra donation. Plus, it makes them feel good & everybody can always use some extra in their wallet. I love to surprise them for being themselves & for being sooo sweet & delicious with me. I feel they desire it, especially if some (or a lot) of guys, either don't tip or they hassle over the donation. More importantly (IMHO), some Ladies spend time so that us guys will have such a great time with them. Here are some things they do & it all cost them: mani/pedi-cures, hair, makeup, your favorite sexy clothes, extra clothes to wear in public, drinks, music, candles, lotion, condoms, remembering who you are & what you like & don't like, driving, room reservations, setting up the ambiance, removing & cleaning it all up, waiting, cancellations, hem & hawing in emails/phone/chat conversations, ass-holes, and the list goes on and on. They do so much to make us happy, a big or small tip may really make their day. So why not give them something extra. It's not going to break your bank account. Sorry for my rant. Do you tip? If so, how much, how often, why or why not?

On a couple of occasions I have been with an SP and a magic wand or other toys have come into play.... It never crossed my mind that the toy was some kind of threat to my manhood... to the contrary I saw it only as us having the sexual comfort together to introduce toys into the play... i never say the toys as something introduced just to increase her pleasure as I found using the toys on her and having them used on me quite amazing. All I can say is if it bothers you you should discuss it with your SP as I am pretty sure the last thing she wanted was to make the session less pleasurable for you. Bring on the toys is what I say. Just my opinion

PSE is definitely something that's different with each provider. I mention I offer is because I offer some services people think are more 'PSE' (such as cim, cof, greek). But I definitely don't model myself after any porn star, I'm just me! I don't roleplay and wouldn't want someone to tell me 'act like that porn star'. But you sure can come over and give me a nice facial ;)

I'm quite happy with Philip J. Fry. It's been my avatar for years and have no plans to change it.

Signs that you've spent too much time on Cerb: You overhear a nearby person make an interesting observation and automatically yell out "thanks". Your friends notice that you've stopped complaining about bad experiences with restaurants, movies, and sporting events and only share which ones you'd recommend. When you go somewhere new you don't feel like you can be fully involved until you've said at least five things. Instead of just thinking happy thoughts your immediate reaction to seeing a picture of alluring eyes, a best bum, beautiful lingerie, an appreciated redhead, loved boobies, or awesome abs is that you better login and share it. You notice a couple people shouting at each other and warn them they should wait for more people to speak in between them or they may get in trouble. You're looking through the alphabet books in a bookstore and think the theme or word choices are very boring. Your boss sends you 100 emails and you automatically congratulate them on their contributions. Someone complains that they weren't allowed into an event and your first thought is to ask them about their hygiene. When watching the Lord of the Rings, the Eye of Sauron reminds you a little of MOD (err...only in the look of the avatar, not the whole personality of ultimate evil thing...) Hmm, did I miss any? :)

Saturday April 9-4 NEW Amanda 9-11 aka "Triple Delight" Nina 9-11 aka "Nina Dream" Sabrina 9-11 aka "SabrinaXOX" Bianca 9-4 aka "Sexy Bianca" Kandice 11-11 aka "Sweet Kandice" Riley 3:30-11 aka "Riley Parks" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Sunday Hannah 10-4 aka "Hannahxo" Kimber 10-9 NEW aka "sweetkimber" Bianca 10-9 aka "Sexy Bianca" Nina 10-7 aka "Nina Dream" Sabrina 10-9 aka "SabrinaXOX" April 11-9 NEW Kandice 3:30-9 aka "Sweet Kandice" Jamie 3:30-9 aka "Jamie-xo" After a long productive winter it brings Marc and I great pleasure to ANNOUNCE our new rooms are open! We want to first thank all of our fine clients that took the time to provide us with any feedback that would help us improve our business.....we are passionate about what we do and we take pride and genuinely care about our clients needs as well as our ladies and this shows in the expansion....Existing space (2000 sq ft) & expansion space (1800 sq ft) was done 100 percent LEGAL & ALL approved by the City of Ottawa and full occupancy was granted today! What we have added: *** A new discrete side entrance that you can enter and exit through ***Clients have the choice of 2 entrances and 3 exits from our unit for discretion ***All MA's have been trained how to be as discrete as possible in making sure you don't cross paths with other patrons at the spa! ***Separate massage waiting for privacy as well as utilize this space if you would like to meet the MA's in person for a quick hello to see if that special someone and you share some sexy chemistry! ***3 new rooms in addition to the 4 rooms our spa already had for the fast growing Massage industry in Ottawa and to be able to offer you more selection & variety of MA's for your enjoyment! The NEW Rooms are: ***Spacious with nice comfy couches to cuddle up with your favorite MA ***Professional Massage Tables that are adjustable ***Fresh High Quality Towels ***Industrial/Commercial onsite laundry facilities to ensure fresh linens at all times ***High Quality & Professional Body Wash,Massage Oil & Gel ***Erotic dance pole for all your naughty dances for the MA's that specialize in erotic dancing ***2 4 by 8 wall mirrors for your viewing to see all those oh so sexy bodyslides from every angle ***Adjustable lighting & black lighting to enhance your erotic massage experience *** In-room sinks *** the new showers are more spacious (5 ft) and can comfortably cater to 3-4 people at a time ...excellent for Duo's & Couples Massage :wink: we have custom massage jets that we built right into the shower....the jets are all adjustable for your preference of angles during shower fun....soapy shower fun oh ya! ***We now have specific pricing scales for all MA services our spa offers....no more inconsistent pricing guys! This has been long overdue! This I know will make everyone happy! ***We will be holding a private party meet & greet FOR PREGISTERED Members ONLY at the spa one late Friday evening near the end of May! A perfect opportunity to take a couple of hours for yourself and sneak away to Ottawa's favorite Paradise Getaway retreat :wink: More details coming soon! ***IF ANY OF YOU HAVE ANY FEEDBACK AT ANYTIME PLEASE DO NOT BE SHY AND SEND US A PM! Kandice Kimber

Well I'm sure our parents had this same conversation and theirs before them. I would agree time is what takes them though the teen years. I raised two boys after I divorced. I always let mine know they could do what ever they wanted to do, and that was their choice. I have the same right to choose and they might not like what I choose if they make the wrong choice. My choices were going to be my fault and I was willing to accept the consequences. Were they? No real cure. My father always said no two children are the same and so have to be treated different and raised different. No one rule. Rules are based on individual behavior. If knowledge is threatening then they could consider themselves knowledged. With that I never had to raise a hand to them but they were so sure that it could happen. Now they are 23 and 21 still here and now I'm raising adult. Wait for it, now-a-days they don't want to leave.......lol

Time! They grow out of it and the good part is you get smart again when your kids are in their twenties and they start liking your music too.

Hahaha....hilarious. I guess he can also add "Rocker of Leather Mini Skirts" to his many other titles.

So that is why women like to read so much.... ;)

To all the ladies of Cerb. I will probably spend part of the day in remembrance as my mother just passed away on January 3rd, 2014. She saved every Mother's Day card and letter I ever gave her. & I thought we were not that close. :(

SEE ME FROM 12 UNTIL 11 PM TONIGHT : ) ( : SCHEDULE FRIDAY MAY 9 12-11 SUNDAY MAY 11 10-9 MY SPECIALITY IS ENTERTAINING EVEN THE MOST DISCRIMINATING GENTLEMEN I LOVE TO SHOW OFF MY HEAVENLY BODY..AND MAYBE YOU ARE IN THE MOOD TO ADMIRE ME.. BUT WHY STOP AT JUST THAT WHEN YOU CAN MEET ME IN PERSON, UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL AND SEE EVERY DETAIL IN REAL LIFE AND EXPERIENCE ME IN A WAY THAT YOU JUST CAN'T IMAGINE.. I CAN'T PROMISE YOU ANYTHING. ITS WHAT I CAN SHOW YOU THAT MATTERS. BY THE TIME WE MEET, MY PLAYFUL, CAREFREE, ATTITUDE WILL ALREADY HAVE WON YOU OVER. I COULD TELL YOU ABOUT HOW YOUNG AND TIGHT MY ENTIRE BODY IS, BUT SHOWING YOU WOULD BE BETTER. I AM IN FACT OFFERING YOU GREAT ADULT STYLE ENTERTAINMENT. CRAZY HOT WOULD BE THE UNDERSTATEMENT OF THE CENTURY! WHETHER YOU ARE THE GENT WHO WANTS A LITTLE TENDERNESS OR THE BIRTHDAY BOY WHO WANTS TO CELEBRATE ANOTHER GREAT YEAR OF BEING ALIVE, OR PERHAPS YOU YOU THRIVE ON NEW EXCITEMENT. I COULD TELL YOU ALL ABOUT IT, BUT SHOWING YOU WOULD BE THE BEST! SCHEDULE THURSDAY MAY 1ST 3:30- 11 FRIDAY MAY 2ND 11-11 FIRST VISIT? PLEASE READ A LITTLE ABOUT ME: I AM THE ALL-ENCOMPASSING M/A ...I HAVE A SOFT APPROACH AND MY LAVISHLY SENSUAL TECHNIQUES ARE INCREDIBLY, BLISSFULLY MAGICAL FOR TOTAL WELL BEING IF YOU SO SEEK TO ENGAGE IN THE PURSUIT OF PLEASURE. I HAVE AN UNSTOPPABLE DESIRE TO GIVE AFFECTION.. I AM FAVOURABLY, AESTHETICALLY GRATIFYING. I AM PETITE YET BRIMMINGLY STACKED (5FT' - 30-D CUP BREASTS - 24" WAIST-100-ISH LBS) I AM TINY! ME IN THE BUFF = YOU LEAVING HAPPY.. FOR THE GENT WHO SO LUSTS FOR THE GRANDEUR AND LUXURY OF THE FINEST AND MOST ELEGANT. YOU WILL HAVE THE RARE PLEASURE OF INSTANT COMFORT IN THE COMPANY OF AN EXTRAVAGANT TREAT.. A UNIQUE ADULT EPISODE WITH ME WILL BE CLASSY AND SENSUOUS, AN EXTREMELY EXHILARATING PLEASURE. LEAVING YOU RICH WITH THE GIFT OF EXTRAORDINARY MEMORIES. THIS IS AN INCREDIBLE CHANCE TO EXPERIENCE PERFECTLY EXECUTED ADULT ENTERTAINMENT. ALWAYS WEARING A SEXY OUTFIT AND STILETTOS AND A SMILE FAQ: (*WORK IN PROGRESS) Q:WHAT EXTRAS DO YOU PROVIDE? A:I AM HERE TO GIVE YOU A HAND HOWEVER, I CAN OFFER YOU A NURU GEL MASSAGE AS AN ADDED BONUS! IF YOU HAVE WONDERED ABOUT THIS TECHNIQUE AND HAVEN'T FOUND THE LEGIT WAY IT'S DONE, I OFFER THAT GENUINE SLIPPERY MASSAGE THAT HAS PEOPLE TALKING !! * PLEASE NOTE - I AM NOT AN ESCORT AND I DO NOT OFFER ESCORT SERVICES* Q: DO I NEED TO MAKE AN APPOINTMENT? A: I APPRECIATE APPOINTMENTS MADE IN ADVANCE BUT CAN ALSO BE REACHED LAST MINUTE. 613-274-7073 TO BOOK OR PRIVATE MESSAGE ME ENTERTAINMENT IN A RELAXED ENVIRONMENT

I keep saying we should have gone to the movies that night Additional Comments: I just want to thank everyone for their words of advice and encouragement. My two also some developmental issues and I guess I somehow hoped we could skip the extra issues being teenagers brings. Alas not to be. On a different note, today they are both happy and talkative and actually seem like they want to interact and be part of the family, weird. Thanks everyone.

If that person at the store went above and beyond the call, yup, he/she would get a tip too. Unfortunately I haven't found anyone at a shoe store going that above and beyond Anyways... RG

I remember well the years when the attitude came out, only a bit though (I was fortunate). The famous words "Dad you don't know anything!!!!...." started coming out when she was 14 or so. I knew she was over it one day when she was just shy of 20 when she smiled playfully one day when we were talking as adults and she said "I can't believe how much you've learned these past few years....."

When you go to a hotel walk in like you belong there. It was your getting freaked out that drew attention to you. If asked anything by the front desk just say no thank you. But now as has already been suggested, pay the lady her donation via email money transfer, she didn't do anything wrong. And especially for touring ladies not only did she block off that time for you (and for the ladies time equals money) she has the additional expenses of hotel, flight, meals, and incidentals. The only reason you didn't have your date was because you panicked. You should at least make it right RG

I had the pleasure of raising two children and when they were in their Teens they knew all my buttons to push and there were times when we were going through it that I could not believe a child of mind could act like that. Now years later I understand that it was part of their development..in hind site the behavior was not nearly as bad as I thought part of it as also my wanting to retain control of my children not accepting that they were trying to establish the first parts of their independence. It all passed pretty quickly and there were some tremendous times that I wish could have been longer. They will grow so fast and be gone cherish every moment even the tough one.... As a parent you are contributing to the formation of the great adults who I kinda know will do a better job in this world than we have. Just my opinion.

I raised 4 kids that are adults (of sorts) now. TIME will cure everything (as previously stated they DO grow up). In the meantime might I suggest white wine (or beer) headphones playing your favorite music and dreams of the future. :) Good luck!

I don't know, being single if I should have an opinion. But I do, here goes. One cornerstone of this lifestyle is discretion. Bringing a companion to your bed, the bed you share with your wife comes dangerously close to flaunting this lifestyle to your SO No one knows another's relationship, but doing this could hurt your SO not only to mention getting the SP caught up in the middle of a fight between husband and wife (or SO & SO) My two cents, be discrete, keep this lifestyle separate from your marital life and get a hotel. If I was in a relationship this lifestyle would be kept separate from my relationship, neither me SO nor the companion need to be dragged in the middle of any drama A rambling RG

Katherine, Ms. Manda, Emily Wilson (although very restrictive service but fun nonetheless) all have beautiful behinds not to mention Sierra and based on her pics certainly Cristy Curves.

I know what you mean. Nothing gets me more excited about seeing a lady than the dirty cluttered bathroom and unflushed toilet, the filthy bare mattress on the floor with 3 weeks of dirty clothing strewn all over the room or my personal favorite, the pictures of her SO and kids in the background. I get major wood just thinking about those pics. ;)

please count me in xoxo

There as an SP around many years ago that went by Courtney who has a major set of labia majora. Scary big. But I beleive she left the biz many years ago...

Count me in! Only 2 months to wait...

I am just curious about allergies... I had a client visit recently who has a severe allergy to peanuts. I had a chocolate bar in my room with nuts in it ... unopened ... but it made me think. I'm often snacking on almonds or nuts, and the allergy to nuts is so common nowadays. On a similar topic, I attended an outcall this past weekend to a gent's home who had two lovely pups. He mentioned they would be there while we were planning our rendezvous, and I love dogs, have no allergies so it's not an issue. I know several ladies who tour and travel with their pooch. Another time, long ago, had a gent visit me who had put some desensitizing gel on himself I assume to prolong the action. It was obvious as soon as my lips touched him as they went numb from the benzocaine. Good thing I wasn't allergic, but there might be another lady who is. My question is this: ladies ... do you advise a gent if you have severe allergies when you take a booking or attend an outcall? gents... do you advise a lady if you have severe allergies when you request a meeting? thanks for the input :)

I agree. I find myself constantly repeating the same stuff: Street worker stats do not reflect the stats of all sex workers. And the poor street workers, apparently everyone thinks they are riddled with stds because I suppose it is assumed they don't use condoms. Which is equally annoying, because there is absolutely no reason to believe that streetworkers don't have access to freely distributed condoms and/or know about stds themselves already. The way these people talk is disgusting to me.

Okay, this thread really pisses me off. Yes, Ottawa has a horrible reputation for cancellations. And here, again, we have a SP who's wondering what she's doing wrong, and may well be considering joining the ranks of those who simply don't bother coming any more. There are plenty of other cities. There are many other clients who don't fuck the ladies around. So, I have a question for the assholes who habitually book and then cancel at short notice: are you too fucking stupid to understand how much you screw things up for the rest of us by getting providers to avoid Ottawa? Or are you just so fucking selfish that you don't care?

Jessica, I don't think your doing anything wrong, as all cities have their ups & downs. I can suggest visiting the smaller markets less frequently (once every 3-4 months) and with Ottawa, start asking for a deposit for new guests - I found that has helped almost make the no shows disappear :) Safe travels and best of luck xoxo Emily