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This is probably something that has been posted before. I don't know and am too lazy to check old threads. But it occurs to me after the last couple days that we sometimes take for granted that an escorts life is all peaches and cream. They set up a nice incall location, post an ad, the calls come in and the clients show up. They pay, play and everybody is happy. The lady tidies up and ready for the next lucky fella. Kind of a lather, rinse, repeat scenario. Or the lady goes on tour, sets herself up in a nice discreet hotel location and pretty much the same thing. Well, yesterday, I came across a few things that made me realize that this isn't always the case. I read (on a different board) a story of a touring lady running into one mishap after another and because of it all, actually barely breaking even while on her first week on tour. Another story of a lady who received a man at her door who rudely told her she wasn't as hot as her pictures and too old (although her website is clearly defined with her age, body type and well laid out photos). The loser walked and business lost. I posted something on here that cheered someone up (no names needed) who had a rough go this weekend and was feeling a little down. I didn't even realize I was doing something nice at the time but glad I did. I guess my point here is that we all need to step back sometimes and put ourselves in other peoples shoes. We say things on message boards and do things in life possibly without any ill intent but our words and actions often effect even the strongest of people. We all get our feelings hurt and lose our self confidence and it might behoove all of us to say a kind word now and then for no other reason but to just help our fellow human beings out. Most on here are pretty aware of all of this and are pretty good at keeping things positive so this isn't directed at anyone. Just a general thought is all. Okay, my rambling is over, lol. Go back to having fun y'all.

Just asking this from curiosity. Hope to hear from ladies too if this happens to you a regular basis, and what might be in the minds of the gents. Often times I will book a session. Most often, men will say " I seen your posts on cerb" or what have you. But often, nothing is mentioned of CERB membership. It makes me a bit "gun shy" when I find out you are a CERB member but wish to not tell me. Does this mean you are hiding your handle from me, or just truly do not think it matters to me? See, if you book me on CERB and something happens that is NOT cool, then I guess I can report it, or ask others for a reference, but when not booking from CERB, then I do not have the site to help protect me. Is this the reason why some forget to mention that they are on CERB, so that there is no trace of us meeting? I do not know why, but it gives me the ebby gebby's to find out you are on cerb, but decide not to tell me:( Just as you wish us to be honest and open when booking, so do we. I do not like the idea of booking a handle that perhaps has pulled a bad one on another sp. That is what CERB is for, not just RECO for the ladies but the safety network for the ladies too. Curious to hear your input. I may consider a different rate for booking threw CERB, will this work?

While I imagine sometimes it is because someone has questionable motives, I suspect that often it is simply that many don't realize this is something that would give you peace of mind. This might just be one of those times when what seems obvious to your perspective and with your experience isn't to others. I think those of us who are very active on the forums are more likely to book through CERB. But no doubt for many guys it is simply just another site among many that they take a peek at to see different ads. For them it may simply not occur to them that sharing their Cerb handle is something that would be helpful and appreciated, and the fact that they say they saw your ad/pictures on Cerb is probably just a go to conversation starter. If they do indicate they found you on Cerb, I think it would be reasonable for part of your reply to be something along the lines of "Oh, you found me on Cerb. That's good to know, what is your username there?" If they don't answer, then you know there may be something else going on beyond just the person not thinking to mention it. I'm sure your idea of a discount would probably also do the trick if that works for you.

For what the the ladies provide, I am appreciative. And I never lose sight that while ladies and gentlemen are the opposite side of the same coin, for guys it is their escape, for the ladies, their livelihood. And the ladies so skilled and gifted in making what is their livelihood seem like a normal natural date that they want to be on, and you specially they want to be with...definitely only a very special lady could do that. And you feel like you had an encounter which has an intangible value far exceeding the donation she requests. With the bonus, discretion, and no strings. What do I do? I try to be the very best client I can be. Pay in full, plus gift and tip. Since I'm an outcall guy, offer wine (or some other drink) plus maybe h'ordeuvres, or dinner out or well you get the idea. If I cancel on a lady (once it happened) I pay her in full her donation...not her fault I cancelled, why should she, after booking and setting aside time for me, be out? And a postponement, well when our date rescheduled I increase our time so she gets a bigger donation I cringe hearing stories (I've heard some) about how some ladies are treated. And not just by some men, but some ladies too. So beyond being the best client I can be, if I read a post that seems to be more of an us versus them (client versus companion) attitude and bash of a lady, I'll comment. I'm a supporter of this lifestyle being respectful to all. And I do believe it is forgotten by some, that the ladies are working, to pay bills, pay the rent, put food on the table etc etc. This for them isn't an escape. They should be respected and supported for that. No shows, haggling, bashings, put downs, etc etc etc, that isn't respect or support A rambling from a supportive gentleman RG

There are lots of sexy colours (I'm partial to plum myself!), but the raw appeal of black is mostly symbolic and psychological: it's the opposite of white. White is about virginity and passivity. Black is about experience and assertion. Good girl and bad girl. Both have their place, but you can see why guys might ask for black a lot...!

Lol, very true:) I always laugh to myself when a gentlemen requests the full lingerie: garter, stockings, corsets. Because it's usually those men who then want it on the floor as soon as you display it;) If only they knew how long it takes to get into that stuff:) It's fun though to appease all tastes:)

I kinda like lots of different colors.... i think it kinda depends on the lady... her complexion, hair and eye color. So no in my opinion black is sexy but not sexiest. Just my opinion.

The MA undercover SP should go be an indy escort rather then confusing clients that go to massage establishments. Also, if the owner is turning a blind eye and allowing this illegal activity to occur due to greed, that individual is putting all of their other staff at risk of being charged, not to mention all of their clients and bringing unwanted attention of the entire industry. The laws are in limbo but are still in affect. If the owner isnt aware, then I would suggest sending an anonymous email and giving them the heads up would be highly appreciated I am sure.

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Posting this here because there doesn't appear to be a section in Halifax for just discussions. If you are an Eastlink customer beware as there is a fraudulent email circulating asking for info and for you to log into your account because of payment mix ups. I received it last night and called before I fell for it, thankfully. Just thought I'd pass on this alert.

@ cristycurves, Thank you sweetie. Let me tell you that I enjoy reading your posts very much. Your interesting comments, intelligent conversation matched with those curves is a huge turn on :). All my appreciation Lots of kisses my darling ! Eva xoxo

I just looked back on the pictures you have posted on your profile and I must say, you look amazing in them all (colors). :)

I have only recently started truly relying on SMS for doing business, as I switched from a cloud service to an actual cell phone earlier this year. I must say, I'm not impressed. I found out last week that I wasn't receiving text messages, nor were people receiving mine for... who knows how long before it came to my attention? And then I found out by looking at my usage that I was dinged 80¢ for two text messages to my daughter in the US, which she never received. First, how in the hell can they justify charging that much for a text message to the US? And then it wasn't even received?? Seems like the only thing my service (Telus) does well is billing. Then yesterday, my husband was just coming in around 2 AM when he received two text messages from one of his valued regular customers, timestamped around 9 PM. Obviously, he missed the business! And possibly left a good customer wondering if he was blown off. We're going to call Telus again on Tuesday and see if we can get to the bottom of this. Anyone have any been-there advice?

Black or white are the sexiest to me...but the type of lingerie is what makes the difference for me. Sorry to change the original question...just thought you might like to know.

I have met many providers while traveling to the States and even have friends there. From my experience, I feel that canadian girls are warmer, sweeter and more into having a great time while american girls are a bit more competitive and they place greater emphasis on looks and performance. Also, I noticed gentlemen in the US seem to appreciate Canadian ladies: I have been told often that Canadian girls are down to earth, open minded and always focused on providing you a great time. In other words, our approach is simply different... I believe and agree that there are beautiful, intelligent & warm women everywhere but I'm especially happy that us canadian girls have such a good reputation abroad. :) Eva

Actually vexing. For me, as part of offering my verification/screening information, I not only include my board handle, I confirm it through PM However I book through email (the ladies I thus far have seen prefer email) Board handle is just an added piece of information/identification If someone doesn't wish to share their board handle why mention they are even on CERB. If you feel the least bit uncomfortable or unsafe, don't book this client, potential client Anyhow a rambling RG

Most of us are guilty of overlooking and sometimes taking advantage of one another and what it takes for any of us to get through the day, especially in this line of work. I think some men especially, can take for granted, the hardships presented in this business and they are many. Even for those of us who do this on the side, so to speak and for pleasure it can be made difficult and cause us to question from time to time it's worth and if all it takes is really adding to the enjoyment of our lives. When you are a provider who wants to give more than just a quick roll in the hay(which is great and has it's place ) and offer herself as a true girlfriend, it takes a lot of planning, rescheduling, self maintenance, financial costs, confidence, physical strength/stamina, self awareness/strength of character, acceptance beyond the norm, along with all the other activities and must do's it takes to prepare yourself and ones locale. All this while fighting against the "do gooders" of society, catty girls, assholes who like to fill up schedules, waste time sending stupid texts, asking questions that are answered on webpages, cancelling for stupid reasons, cancelling last min, wanting an appt tout suite(because it only takes 5min to do all this!), men who want us to give them weeks of notice as to when we will arrive in their city then they want to give us 10 mins to get ready to see them, lol! Those who want to negotiate even after you tell them NO negotiating, even better those who tell you/me what we should be charging and are worth, yes they are the most loved;) Yes this is what most of us go through every time we open our emails, advertise and answer our phones. It is those men who treat us as if we are just another bus, forgetting that we are actual human beings, with feelings, responsibilities, needs and desires. To them I say take a step back because we ARE someone's daughter, someone's mother, niece, sister, friend, lover, wife, and maybe yours. So next time think before you speak and think even harder before you do-please. Then there are those wonderfully generous gentlemen who for no reason other than because they are gentlemen and thoughtful human beings take a moment of their precious time to send an upbeat note, make a post of thanks, keep their appts and make them ones you want to repeat, over and over, yes those are the men who make all those efforts worth it. The only problem is they are outweighed by the latter:( A thank you or kind word is such a simple thing to do and can give the receiver so much, why not pass one on today:)

It's most likely (99.9%) NOT a virus. Instead, it's an app you've installed throwing up "advertising" attempting to scare you into a purchase. Try to remember when you first started seeing this and what app(s) you may have installed around that time. Then, uninstall the app. Should fix it...

I just wonder how the person at the front desk doesn't know you are a guest at the hotel already, but you checked in earlier when other staff were on shift. As a general observation, having been to a few hotels (ok more than a few, both incall and outcall) in my day, both within this lifestyle and for other reasons, my experience is hotel staff ask questions for customer service, not to interrogate. Take the question as a customer service question because they see you as a customer. Remember hotels are in the business of providing rooms. They know people go there, whether for affairs, romantic escapes with a spouse, to see companions (btw for the first three, look at how many hotels on their websites offer romantic weekend escape deals), a place to stay while on holidays, a place to stay while on business etc etc etc. And a staff member making a customer feel uncomfortable is going to hurt the hotel's business, something hotel management doesn't want. Insofar as a hotel is concerned you are doing nothing wrong, you are a reason that they are in business. So more for future reference to anyone who feels nervous. Walk in like you belong there...because YOU DO BELONG THERE :-) A rambling RG

If anyone thinks the life of SP is all fun then they missed the fact that this is a business and their work. Just like all types of work there are positives and negatives and some SP'S are able to manage the ups and downs better. Bottom line this business is not as bad as those who want it to stop say but it also is not a bed if roses. I do know that I am very grateful for the wonderful ladies I have met and I know I appreciate all the effort they put in to make it all seem like a fantasy. Just my opinion.

I think that maybe at some sub-conscious level, black represents the dark side of our nature so it gets thought of more in terms of "sex appeal". Personally, I like some of the blues that are out there, blue being my favorite color. To echo most guys though, the woman behind the lingerie is the key, not just how she looks but how she presents herself. Her confidence and sex appeal will shine through any outfit she is wearing. One thing I will say, if you request the outfit, at least take the time to enjoy it. Like Cristy says, it takes some effort and time on her part to honor your request, make it worth her while and appreciate it. I know I will if I get the opportunity.:motion:

Black is sexy, so is blue, so is purple, so is red, so is pink, so is.....wait, it's the lady who makes the lingerie sexy, not the lingerie that makes the lady sexy No colour is really sexier, buy lingerie you like, it will be sexy A morning rambling RG

I've been known to buy lingerie for ladies, and if I happen to be buying bra/ panties, which I like doing :) there are so many " different sexy colours" as Ice4fun said, and I like bright yellow, because it is a favourite colour of mine, however reds,purples,pinks,black and even white lace ARE all be very sexy, not just black or black is sexier.

The other night I had a date - well, sort of a date, well, I think it was a date. It was not a paid date or paid social time. And I was a little bit nervous. My personal adviser told me to iron my shirt. I ironed my shirt. I was told to wear presentable pants and shoes. I wore presentable pants and shoes. My adviser told me to get her flowers. I got her a lovely bouquet. I had tickets for a special event at the theater and because she and I live on opposite sides of Charlottetown she suggested that we just meet a half hour ahead of the show near the box office, so that was fine and I was there of course fifteen minutes before the appointed time. I received a text from her saying that she was delayed and would be late but that she would get there when she could find a parking place. I quickly texted back saying that when you park, let me know and I will meet you. A few minutes later there was no response so I looked at my text. Fuck. Auto-correct at work. What I actually wrote her was, "When you oral, let me know and I will meet you." Lovely!!!! Oh, shit, So I really quickly wrote back and said, "Oops. That was supposed to say, I REALLY mean park." Push send. Oh shit, what went was, "I REALLY mean oral." Oh fuck. Very slowly, I typed one letter at a time. I told her to stop laughing. We had a good time, and she liked the flowers. :) There was no oral.

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I will be flexible 5 minutes in either direction to account for watches maybe being set different. Arriving early is worse than arriving late for me though. My pre-session time is my prep time, and so if someone shows up 10 or 15 minutes early, I'm not ready and I'm not even going to answer the door. My location is near many coffee shops and restaurants, so if a client gets into the area very early, there's lots of options for killing time.

I don't get in to much discussion but it is so obvious and simple, I had to add my 2 cents (taken form RG)... Why even have a debate on this. If I make a 'Rendez-Vous' for 14:00, I will be there for 14:00... Not 13:55, not 14:05... Arriving early is not being a Gentleman and arriving late you are on your own time... It's that simple. Spare me the 'my watch says'.... or 'the hotel room clock'... most people have a cell phone. The time on my cell will be the same as the Lady. If she decides for some reasons to have you staying longer, BONUS!!!! Stop complaining people... Enjoy, life is too short for always complaining. It's a give and take! Smile and love! Just saying!!!!!

At the end of the day, no matter what type of business people are involved in, self employed or not, we all go to work because we want to earn a paycheck/make money so we can meet our weekly/monthly obligations (and then some). We all have the same motivations; I do not know of anyone who would gladly go to work 4-5-6 days a week for free (unless they are volunteering for something). BUT and here's my big BUT, some people are happy with only looking at the bottom line as long as it pays their bills while others care about much more than that: looking forward to going to work, loving what we do, feeling happy and comfortable and actually enjoying ourselves while earning that paycheck. In the SP context, some ladies will be happy to provide a quick, straight forward service to whomever. On the other hand, some of us rather offer an unrushed experience where a connection (and compatibility) is present. It's not just about the money. It's about much more than that. Two different extremes, two different worlds. There is no wrong or right here. We all have our reasons for doing what we do and how we get there is also very personal. As always, to each their own (and yes, I mean it just in case someone decides to insinuate otherwise). It's great that you have found what works for you and your clients. You (and them) seem to be on the same page and that's awesome! :) Many of the gentlemen who look for that connection are married or are in a relationship (and yes, some are single too) but it doesn't mean they are looking to get divorced or find a new girlfriend or a new best friend. They are simply looking for more than the exchange of fluids or sexual acts during an encounter ;) From a companion that finds one hour appointments too rushed and stressful and loves to establish that connection with her future patrons and cultivate the current one :) xox

I've posted in this discussion many months ago but have noticed some things happening with the 15 minute requests. What I don't like is it's become something that many men think it's the status quo. I don't offer them, I don't have anything against other ladies that offer them but lately I've had some uncalled for type comments after refusing them. "Give me a discount. I'm a student". "I only need 10 minutes and I only have xxx amount of money." " I can't afford your rates". Yet they keep on trying AFTER I said no. The self entitlement with some individuals is appalling. This is a luxury service, not a necessity like putting food on the table. Where are the boundaries with some of these people? To be blunt, this is what upsets me about 15 minute appts and with men who want them contacting me after it's clearly stated in my ad that I don't offer them. They don't take no for an answer. There is a new generation of clients out there and frankly I am old school where rarely did I see negotiations, the self entitlement and the rudeness. While there may be men out there who are polite when making these requests, I have rarely been addressed by them myself. Like I said before, I don't judge other SPs for offering them but I do have a problem when a lot of men from other sites think it's a given that SPs offer 15 minute appts. Many don't read the ads and they are very short ads!

I wanted to keep to keep this lady my dirty little secret, but thought that would be rather selfish. A few months ago I stumbled across and add that caught my attention. We exchanged several email, and with each exchange I was feeling more and more at ease. We all get nervous meeting a new girl, and this lady set me at ease after on a few simple exchanges of words. At this time she had an in call location that was easy to sneak in and out of. Seems she had thought of everything. Once I arrived I was absolutely blown away by her stunning and sexy physic. Such a beautiful face, and her curves are enough to thrown any driver off the road. If I were to describe her look it would be a combination of girl next door with a touch of wild movie star (the type of movie star we watch all by ourselves with the lights off when no one is home). I have met this absolute gem on several occasions. And each time she makes me feel like a king. I will not go into gory details, because this classy lady deserves better than that. If I could meet this girl every day I would. And I spend many a moment thinking of the next adventure that she will be taking me on. She is smart and sophisticated. Educated and real! The only bad thing I can say is there aren't enough hours in the week to spend with this absolutely amazing girl. But I guess that isn't her fault ;)

I myself turn my phone on vibrate, hold it up to my ear, and have a pleasant conversation with myself as I walk past any hotel employees. The likelihood of anyone interrupting me to ask me questions is extremely remote, especially if I am talking to my imaginary friend on the other end. Just a suggestion that works for me.

Cerb doesn't come up unless she brings it up. I've never booked through PM. Peace MG

You are in a very unique situation, because you can both be a MP and a recipient (client) of a MP However for most prospective clients, they don't face that predicament (if what you face can really be viewed a predicament LOL) But for most cases, if a CERB member contacts a lady for an encounter, identifying himself as someone from CERB, I can't understand any reason to hide a handle. Something which is anonymous. And most ladies, well at least the ones I see, require full verification (including real name), so how revealing is it just to provide a board handle? If someone doesn't want to give their CERB handle, then don't say they are on CERB. And if there are non sinister legitimate reasons for not wanting to disclose one's CERB handle to a companion, then companions can employ full verification/screening including real name prior to booking an encounter Now if someone refuses to provide his board handle and also refuses to be screened/verified, I would think the lady has a right to then refuse the encounter Anyhow, a rambling RG

Here's hoping that there are enough good clients out there that truly appreciate the wonderful ladies of CERB that will make it abundantly clear how much we appreciate you.

I'm from Connecticut, all my life, and I've never been with a companion until years after I was married (happily married, I had thought). I'm very romantic, generous, devoted, etc., but my Wife changed after she gained weight. Not a lot of weight in my eyes, but enough for her not to feel sexy enough to make love. blah blah blah So, I dabbled with companions, very slowly for several years, then more so after a few years break, then Twitter opened my big bedroom eyes to State-wide Ladies. But CT is a boring state where many Companions tend to ignore. But I'm now hooked on Canadian Companions. Some will opening invite me to a cooked dinner. That's a true ultimate GFE/Wife-experience that American Companions have never even thought about (at least the ones I know). Canadian Companions seem to be much more open-minded and will expand the GFE & PSE roles to a whole knew level. They seem more down to earth and sweeter. Of course, there is a lot more reasons for both sides of the border, but I wanted to hear what other members think. So, is it just my limited experience with USA and/or Canadian Companions, or have other people notice that the North of the Border Ladies are head over heels "better to be with" than US Companions? I know that I'm going to get body slammed for posting this topic, but it is just IMHO and I still need to meet some of my US Twitter babes, whenever they travel to CT, but I wanted to post my question to read your reaction. Plus, I realize my words are vague, so you will have to interpret them yourself.

Well it's true I haven't been in the biz for long but I haven't experienced it too much. But some gentlemen (I have 2 regulars namely one who is a former CERB member) visit CERB and guests so can see the ads. Otherwise I do some bookings directly here with some CERB members and some either through emails or texts. Only had 2 members that didn't want to give me their handle and I must admit I didn't inquire more as of why. They were nice clients so indeed I didn't feel anything wrong with that. I don't have a website yet but it's in the works and thinking of offering special rates for CERB members that would indeed need to book on CERB so yes I believe your idea might be a good idea. Don't know if that answers your question or not. Barbara

I do think that black is very sexy yes. I get lots of requests as well for black lingerie, black dresses etc. and I turn lots of heads when wearing black (and white too) ;). Black goes with everything and it makes any women look sexy. Trust me, you can never go wrong with that color.

The point of taking time to enjoy is is well made, thanks all for bringing that up and to Christy for pointing it out that it takes time to select and put the lingerie to its greatest effect. My preferences include black but also the more pastel shades of colours, like off white, pink and baby blue.

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If CBJ was the on BJ I would pass or respectfully ask for another teaser. BBBJ is of course the lady's choice and one must pass inspection! It is part of my selection criteria. I enjoy it so much and have found wonderful CERB ladies who do it as sooooo well.

Women are the same most everywhere. That said there is a difference in attitude between Canada and the US. Most ladies in the US have been arrested a couple of times for doing something that is perfectly legal in Canada. One lady I know spent 2 years in prison (no doubt not her first offense but it seems incredibly harsh). After that kind of persecution she isn't going to have the same attitude as a Canadian lady who doesn't have to worry about this possibility.

This really can't be thus hard... arrive / be ready at the appointed time.... respect each others time and when reasonable show appropriate flexibility when warranted... I have been doing this for a few years and with appropriate communications I have never had a problem. Just my opinion.

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Katherine really knows what she is doing.

I used to be one of those "nice guys". And it sucked. I read this somewhere, and while remaining true to myself, it has made my life much better. Paraphrasing since I don't remember the exact words. Best advice for life comes in a plane, put your own mask on first before helping others. Not many people respect the person who doesn't respect themself. Don't be a dick, but don't be a pushover as well. And you definitely don't need to constantly be the martyr and them expect other people to help you.

It's obvious that there are many walks of life sharing this here path we all don't want to call prostitution and the common denominator is money = release = mutual satisfaction. There have been many "changes" this business has gone through from my perspective, but from what I'm starting to understand, through maturity, it is really me who is changing ... like starting to be more accepting of and less threatened by others and their choices. Knowing that I am not defined by a culture, but that I am co-creator of that culture. When changes would start to take place I would always dread what would be next, thinking I'd have to join the troupes to get along and then the 15m came up and "OMG here we go again! How am I going to have to lower myself now?" But really, I don't have to succumb to those things that others do and perhaps do quite comfortably, and if what they do bothers me because of whatever hang-ups I may have I am allowed to just let it slide off my back because it really is none of my business.

I agree that booking a new appointment would be a good idea to help move things forward but should also include some form of payment for the lost appointment. In regards to the SP having some responsibility for what happened .. i don't see that. What could she have done different? Just my opinion.

This might help you in your search... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=316

It will happen when you are ready darlin! And like he said there are so many beautiful ladies who would defiantly go out of her way to make sure you are comfortable relaxed and content. No rush .. take your time.. we will all be here ready able and willing to make you smile ...til then chat and enjoy our photos xo

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