Leaderboard

They are the part of the female body most often critiqued, sexualized and lusted after. Some will comment to augmented breasts as being fake, some will comment to saggy breasts as being gross. Many of us are so hard on one another and can cause some to want to change, to feel insecure or unworthy. We are made to believe by todays standards and the media that they should be big, round and point to the sun. But in reality they are as different as our faces and age doesn't dictate their perkiness nor does a body type dictate their size-ie: a larger woman will have larger breasts and smaller will have smaller. Natural or augmented all breasts are beautiful, but should we put as much importance on them as we do? After all if a woman were to loose hers, due to illness, accident or however, should she then feel less than a woman? If you go by todays standards and ideals, she might, but there is far more to making a woman feminine, beautiful and worthy than her breasts, especially in many other cultures. I wonder why North Americans base so much importance on them? What's your opinion and do you? Are breasts what you think make women sexy, beautiful and why? Be honest;) http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php I will add the biggest reason that caused me to want to enlarge mine was to look more like what the media, magazines and advertising depicts as beautiful breasts, along with growing up with a father and brother, male friends and boyfriends, who I often heard talking about breasts and that their opinions were larger was better. Some of my decision was also based on the fact that and for whatever reasons beyond the above, visually, I find that large augmented breasts look more beautiful than smaller or larger natural breasts. It's sad that as women we can be made to feel less than by such unrealistic standards, yet many of us can be.

One of the elements that brought me to this profession is the sheer number of UNhappily married men. Many men are married to women that they love, or did love. But the pressure of both working, not having time for each other, mortgages, naughty children, aging parents, and long commutes take their toll. A man faces the back half of his life wondering if it were all worth it. They probably haven't had sex in years. He wants to feel like a man again. But if he has an affair, he is going to lose half of everything. This is where the courtesan/mistress comes in. Compensation is the best thing ever. It keeps the lines drawn succinctly in their relationship. I didn't say that love won't creep into it! We are all human. But cash helps. True story: if the man left his wife, he'd lose the house - so he slept in a bath tub for over 2 years. A man sneaks downstairs when his wife is asleep to get on the net and "talk" to a woman with blood in her veins. Sneaking around in their own homes! And if they are busted, they are called monsters. We all need love, affection, and a damn good badabingbadaboom. Life is very good; lets enjoy!

I absolutely agree! While I often say with tongue in cheek "I love HMOPH's!" it is completely truthful. Happily Married Other Peoples Husbands make up my favourite guests for so many reasons. It's a perfect fit for my preferred business model, the ME (mistress experience). It means I never deal with the bad habits, annoying idiosyncrasies and daily grind; that is left for the woman who will inherit his estate and I get to enjoy all the delights without the trials and tribulations of day to day routine. I never have to worry they are going to arrive in a mood, never deal with him not pulling his weight around the house and he'll never steal my covers in the middle of the night, every night. I don't have to pick up his dirty laundry, deal with his family or struggle with keeping the passion alive. These parts are non existent in the relationships I indulge in. HMOPH's will never assume to be a part of my life outside of the negotiated parameters, never arriving in the middle of night thinking I will welcome him in, never assume an invite out for dinner off the clock is an acceptable thing to do. They seldom see blurred lines when paint is neon yellow clear. In my privileged experience, HMOPH's is always positive, he's always happy to be here, I'm always glad he is here. Our time together is focused, we ONLY do the important stuff like touch, talk and feel in an honest, nonjudgemental way. We spend time together knowing how truly precious that time is; we both savour every moment and when it's over we are grateful to have experienced it. We look forward to the next visit without it being a painful yearning or need. It's having all the best parts of a relationship without any of the head aches or heartbreaks. So yes Delilah, I LOVE married men... cat

Thanks for all the lovely birthday wishes I started off my 50th birthday with a bang... a threesome! And then breakfast in port credit on a patio. Champs convention in Toronto with my brothers and then back to my new home with family for dinner. Lovely sunny day

The WHO's recent report isn't really talking about the same thing as the latest headline-grabbing bug. Things like SARS, H1N1 and now MERS will inevitably crop up every so often, and we just have to deal with them when they do. What the WHO is talking about is the unfortunate coincidence of two things: the gradual evolution of drug-resistant pathogens, and the fact that there's very little research into new antibiotics. The first is more-or-less inevitable, but the second isn't. it's an unfortunate consequence of the fact that pharmaceutical companies exist to make money, and these days the money is not in treating infectious disease; it's in treating the chronic diseases of the affluent West. If you invent a drug that cures MRSA then you can sell it to a patient that will take it for a few days or weeks and then stop because they're cured, but if you invent a drug that reduces cholesterol you can get decades of continuous revenue from each patient.... and so that's precisely what happens. The WHO is saying, "this needs to change, and here's why". There's no deadline... yet. There will never be a sudden moment when this becomes a huge issue. It'll just get worse and worse and worse, until we realize that we have a major problem on your hands. Of course, the real threat is of something evolving that's as deadly as HIV or ebola and as infectious as the common cold. When that happens, there's a good chance that Homo sapiens will become extinct, as so many other species have done before.

I make my living on repeat business. So if, for whatever reason, I'm not comfortable going through with a session, I will refund 100% cheerfully with my full apologies. My attitude is that neither of us wasted anything more than our time. But too, he's not welcome back in this case. Ever. But there are times when someone bites off more than he can chew. I try to prolong pleasure whenever I can, but sometimes they're just not receptive to such efforts. If someone books an hour and he's done and over with in 25 minutes, I'll rebate him down to half an hour. And in this case, he is welcome back. Just next time, we'll either book a shorter session or agree on what we need to do to make it last longer.

Herein are my notes from the strange evening with the Americans. This evening they were at a sports bar watching the Montreal - New York playoff game. I arrived shortly after 10:00 pm to pick them up. I was due at 10:00 sharp but who leaves a playoff game that is tied 1 - 1? Well, actually, two of them. Took them back to the hotel. Foreshadows of things to come. Returned to the bar. Game ends. Fourteen gents in varying states of inebriation load into the back and are ready to PAR - TAY! Mt direction is to take them back to the hotel unless they want to go somewhere else. Whatever - take care of them. I advise the group of this. The response is instantaneous. Titty Bar! Titty Bar! Titty Bar! Titty Bar! Good Lord! There is the desperation of starving baby birds in their cries of Titty Bar! We have to go "Across The River". This spoken in tones usually reserved for describing the Holiest of Holies. Titty Bar! Titty Bar! Titty Bar! We arrive at Pigales. The moment is upon us. The car is strangely silent. Reverential silence? I open the car door and stand back so I won't be trampled by a hoard of inebriated hormonal young men. No one gets out. I stick my head in and announce we're here. No one moves. Most of them are staring with great interest at the floor. One guy looks at me and asks "What's it like in there?" "Well," I reply, "There's naked women." "Is it clean in there?" "There's naked women." No one moves. Exasperated, I go to the doorman, explain I have a bunch of shy Americans on board and ask if one can come take a quick peek and report back to the others. He agrees. I relay this offer to the boys and ask who wants to take point. No one moves. "I hear there's a casino." "Yes, there's a casino." Casino! Casino! Casino! Casino! So we drive away leaving the nude flowers of Quebec womanhood unviewed, untouched. And my head hurts between shaking it and smacking it. Americans can be odd people. I know. Because I are one.

I believe that people that have a great repore with each other, introduce sarcasm as a further advancement of those relationships, often it is when people are comfortable with each other. I would say sarcasm into an unknown circumstance, more like introduces the fine line between good nature bantering, and maybe a bit more truthful messaging. Anyway, I think sarcasm can be a great tool, but understand how it can be misused too.

You are right:) all these scenarios happen or can happen. We are dealing with a sensitive business after all. Pleasure and companionship can sometimes lead us into misinterpretations of feelings of our partner and even of our own. This business of closeness can also create feelings even when we think we are protected from them, married or not. What makes or breaks the ability to continue seeing the same person, or different people is how you handle and understand your feelings. It is never right to take advantage of someone or to lead someone on. I can only speak to what I've experienced and feel, others will speak to their experiences and feelings and so on. I won't live on what ifs, maybes or possibilities. I'll deal with what happens when it happens and hopefully in a mature and respectful way. In saying all this I still, from experience and, as someone who has personally dealt with a stalker for 6yrs, who btw was a single man, feel I'm less likely to be emotionally challenged with married men:)

Now a question? What if the married man who sees an SP does develop feelings for her...she's not an SP to him, more than a exclusive paid mistress from his end, she is the "other woman" More the woman that this man is having an affair with (in his mind) than a paid companion and there is an underlying business relationship The lady is willing to continue seeing the man, even though she has her head on straight that this is at it's core a business relationship. The married man, deludes himself that the business aspect of the relationship will end and they will live happily ever after Or he will string her along, and she will believe he will leave his wife for her and never does BTW a similar type of thing could happen with a client who's a single man and a SP who's a single woman My point, the relationship risks, they are there, whether SP/Client (either, or or both) are single or married. A rambling RG

Fortunately for me, when I spend reasonably, I don't have to worry about the financial aspects of this. So as far as what's better for me, when it comes down to repeats and one timers, whoever is the better match for me at the time I book, I'll see. Both are good and enjoyable. But, just because a guy finds a lady attractive doesn't mean he's going to repeat with her. There are plenty that truly enjoy their choice of sp but have only one desire to fulfill and only want one time to do it, never do they repeat with anyone, nor do they collect;)

Oh of course.. I'm not saying I advocate gov't influence.. I'm just stating that it's possible. Same as my feelings in the rates thread.. I want always to be my own boss.. I think if it ever came down to the gov't telling me what I can and can't do with my body.. I'd move to live where I once again had freedom.

Carrie, I am quoting you but my comment is not directed at you ;) We all draw the line somewhere, and as you stated, that line varies from person to person. To each their own. I am not going to debate the rights and wrongs of BBBJs (or DATY or kissing) and risk levels but I will say this: As an independent human being, I do not want nor need the government telling me what I can and cannot do in the privacy of a bedroom, as a companion with a patron or as a grown woman in her private life. Whether or not I receive money when sharing intimate time with someone is no one else's business but mine. I value my rights and freedom of choice. (I hope my post makes sense)

I have always tolerated requests for cbj but I'd much rather perform oral without a barrier. If someone tried to tell me I'd have to give up daty or kissing I'd retire.

Hobbyists with big fucking mouths and no fucking brains! Not long ago, someone I know from my personal life responded to one of my ads. I simply wrote him back and suggested we pass due to proximity. God only knows what goes through some of these pea brains! I found out today that this brain trust apparently told his girlfriend (who works with law enforcement), AND managed to convince her that he just happened to notice my ad whilst standing in line in a store. Uh huh. I've been in this business over 40 years. In all that time, surprise surprise!! Not a single person I knew personally who answered one of my ads was actually looking for an SP. Heavens no! They just happened to be browsing SP ads and just happened to respond to mine. Whoopsie!! But use the services of an SP?? Never! So tonight, my husband gets a call from this pinheaded couple to let him (us) know that they're "not judging" me. Oh whew! I was worried about that!! And apparently the girlfriend is eating his story of just happening to accidentally respond to my ad with a spoon. Yeesh!!!! You know, I AM an SP. And I have no idea what or who is in the SP section. My husband is married to an SP, and he probably wouldn't even know how to find the places I advertise. Where do these people come up with these half-baked stories???? In any event, I figure he panicked and blabbed to his gf, thinking up this story in case I would tell on him. ???? Seriously? What in the hell would I do that for? What a classic LOSER! So disgusted! I think I'll bad date the mofo.

RG, in spirit I think I agree with what you're saying, but I think I also get the difference Fortunateone is outlining. Consider this, at Home Depot workers have to wear a harness and a helmet if they are going to retrieve anything from the upper shelves. It's a regulation of their workplace safety. However, in my personal life it is not illegal for me to get up on a step ladder without such equipment to reach something, no matter the height. In keeping with the comparison, I could say I have friends who are less trained and cautious than the Home Depot worker and at even more risk of injury at home. Now, we all know such comparisons can be riddled with troubles, but I think that's the sort of difference Fortunateone is discussing...that commercial sex work--in places where it is treated as a business like some others--may also have safety standards. I'm sure you can find plenty of examples of rules and laws you have to follow at work that you don't in your personal life (even when the personal activity is potentially more dangerous) I don't profess to know enough about the topic to discuss whether New Zealand's model is good or not. In fact, I think I'd say I'm generally against any such government regulation. I certainly agree with you that often SP's are unfairly held to a standard that others aren't, and that interactions with them are, if anything, less dangerous than a random bar hookup. And no doubt sometimes regulations that are put out for "people's best interests" do often hide a moral agenda. That said, if something is formally commercialized, it's not necessarily inconsistent to see regulations applied at an industry level that aren't at a personal level. What those regulations should be and what is fair or right is a whole other question of course. :)

I guess I'm just confused. I did quote your entire post, so I'm not sure what you mean by the last sentence. Yes, for sure you talked about stalkers. But no one was suggesting that it never happens with married men (or conversely that it always happens with singles), just that in some people's experience it happens more often with single folk. Anyway, we all agree that there's nothing wrong with opposing viewpoints and that people should feel free to express them. It's just that it seemed like you were disagreeing with points that weren't in Cristy's original post. Anyway, I'm quite willing to move on. If I misinterpreted your post then I'm glad you clarified, since politely doing so seems like a helpful thing to do, after all. :) So then, if I'm reading your second post correctly you want to share that your own experience and thoughts are that married men are just as likely to push boundaries as single people. Fair enough. My own intuition would be that while the majority of both single and married guys are respectful of boundaries, of the two married fellows would generally be even more invested in staying discrete. Though no doubt there are many exceptions. Cheers. Additional Comments: Moving on to another part of the discussion, there's a lot of articles out there on the idea that men and women often find married people more attractive, or at least attractive in different ways. You just have to google anything like "married women more attractive" or "why do women like married men" to find scores of them. I'm not sure how much stock I put in a lot of these articles, and many seem like just-for-fun humour pieces than anything scientific, but given how many people discuss it, there must be something for at least some people to the idea! Or maybe I'm just thinking of the Seinfeld episode where George pretended to be married to attract ladies. :)

Fresh from the West coast and yes I brought the beautiful weather with me :) Drop by and let me show you what I learned on the coast ;) Or just bask in my glorious beauty and my sexy new tan, compliments of the beautiful West coast ;) A Brief Yet Sexy Description Of Yours Truly Ever dreamt of being with a runway model? Well here's your chance to have one sashay into your room and fulfill your every desire. I am a tall red head with breathtaking blue eyes and legs that are to die for. Heart stopping good looks and a playful demeanor that will leave you begging for more... Sexy Services That Will Blow Your Mind A phenomenal full body massage Body slides that will make you quiver and tremble with desire Reverse massages and the opportunity to run your hands up and down my smooth, silky bod Steamy and sensual showers for 2 Very open to couples sessions Love, love, looove catering to the ladies :wink: PM me for more information on my sexy services :wink: Availability And Location (Angels Touch) Today from 10am until 9pm (Angels Touch) Monday from 3:30pm until 11pm (Paradise Spa) Wednesday from 3:30pm until 11pm (Paradise Spa) Thursday from 3:30pm until 11pm (Angels Touch) Friday from 10am until 4pm (Paradise Spa) Friday from 4:30pm until 11pm (Angels Touch) Sunday 10am until 9pm How To Contact This Sexy Temptress Call to book some sexy time with me at 613-274-7073, PM me, or email me at [email protected] ***Also, be sure to check out my recommendations: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...t=victoriascrt ***

One thing to add to my earlier comment. I will not ever fall into some scenario where my emotions control my brain. It's not in my makeup and never will be. Therefore, I have no worry of becoming too emotionally connected to a provider despite seeing her more than once. Do I like that lady and feel a connection? Certainly, that is one reason why I repeat with her but it is also nice to be able to avoid the hassles of looking, researching, etc and knowing the likes, dislikes. Comfort is important. I also wouldn't try to book with a lady that clearly expresses that she does not like booking married men, although I haven't really seen too many providers out there who are that particular in that aspect. And obviously, some here have expressed how much they enjoy this part of the business.

I guess it never really dawned on me that some providers might feel a little more secure knowing a client is married and really isn't looking to get too serious. Like RG says, I bet there are lots of hobbyists who are single that also are secure and mature enough to understand the dynamic of what these encounters are. We, as clients, know that this isn't a love affair that is going to be fraught with the danger of obsession or fatal attraction. For some of us, that is what we need. That's not to say we don't form a friendship and trust that has obvious emotional undertones. But we know where the line is and stay clear. I guess that's more of a maturity aspect than being married or single. As for me, yes, I am married. I admit that. I love my wife and she is great but for the last 3 years and I fear for quite a few more, our marriage is a long distance one (approx 1400 km). We see each other for about 2-3 weeks a year. I'm not trying to justify anything here, just explaining why I do this. This dynamic allows me to fullfill my needs while maintaining a privacy and discretion that affairs or dating can't provide. I need not worry about someone getting emotionally attached to me and doing something stupid and/or crazy.

Having a gent visit me repeatedly is without a doubt the most sincere complement he could offer me. I enjoy building a rapport with my gentlemen friends, many of them provide a true 'boyfriend experience' and for that I'm most grateful. I don't need to spend time screening those gentlemen, and I don't insist on emails to book, which makes booking much simpler, and it makes for a much more relaxed encounter for both of us. A big thank you from me!! xoxoxo

The question being do nice breasts make a woman sexy? The simple answer is Nice breasts are sexy but no, they are not what makes the woman sexy, per se. Now, I won't lie. I love, love, love breasts. Big titties, little titties, round titties, oblong titties, perky titties, saggy titties. I love em all. But true sex appeal for me goes much deeper. I've said it before, I know, but intelligence, class and that inner beauty and spark are where the sexiness come from. The outer shell, as it were, while being visually enticing and exciting is only the first part of the overall package. It catches the eye but not necessarily the brain or the libido for me. Just one man's opinion. As for your augmentation, Miss Cristy, they are spectacular but I would wager you would be just as sexy with your natural breasts. Your intelligence and obvious kind heart would make you sexy no matter what, imo. Jus sayin.

Whaaa? Delilah this is over my head could you explain:)

They do look good. But at 250/hr .. Too rich for my blood. I decided sometime back, 200 is my cap.

This is very true and seldom do they admit it's the drugs. I've had similar experiences, however I was to inexperienced to realize the smart thing (which is what you did) I stayed the whole hour and just kept trying:(

A Sunday well spent, Brings A week of Content :) Schedule Sunday may 25 - 5-9 Tuesday april 27th - 9-4 last working day then off for vaca !! 613-274-7073 to book or private message me My specialty is entertaining even the most discriminating gentlemen.. I love to show off my heavenly body..and maybe you are in the mood to admire me.. I can't promise you anything. Its what i can show you that matters.. Whether you are the gent whowants a little tenderness or the birthday boy who wants to celebrate another great year of being alive, or perhaps you you thrive on new excitement. I could tell you all about it, but showing you would be the best! entertainment in a relaxed environment

Happy Day ... Ms Moon! Your reputation precedes you and it would no doubt be a pleasure to one day spend quality time with you. J.

Happy Birthday Carrie. Best wishes from Halifax!

Happy Birthday Carrie! Wishing you a year of happiness and health. Lots of love Carley xox

Happy Birthday Carrie! I hope this day finds you well in mind, body and spirit. Toper

After reading this thread, I decided what the heck. I went to an Appletree clinic and talked to the doctor. She mainly wanted to know about potential blood pressure issues (and checked my blood pressure), heart problems, and allergies. I was upfront that ED medication isn't actually required for me to have an erection and it would be more supplemental (important info for determining dosage). It should also improve the odds of MSOG (didn't talk to her about that). The doctor gave me a some sample Viagra (100mg doses to be broken in half or quarters). She said I'd probably want 50mg, but I think I'll try 25mg to start and give it a bump if needed. From what I've read, I may prefer Cialis but they didn't have any samples. With my new-found courage, I think I'll talk to my GP next time I see her. Some other things I found during my research: -Some women were a bit disturbed by the thought of an erection that they "weren't responsible for." As long as it's not an overdose, ED medications don't actually cause erections, they just increase the physical manifestation of existing mental arousal (nor do they increase libido). You can assure your partner that the desire was always there but your body wasn't always cooperating. -A persistent erection is not a licence to pound away for an hour. Your partner is unlikely to enjoy or appreciate this for very long and it will get painful (first for her, eventually for you). Alternate with non-penetrative activities and communicate openly with your partner about sensations (good advice in any situation).

Happy Birthday wishes from this gentleman who knows you from posts as being one of the best friends any girl could ask for.

Great post, Tracie :) Well said! I guess we can easily apply this to anyone who trys to negotiate our rates... Not only to the men from the province of Québec. Because let's face it, there are hagglers everywhere, no matter where they are from or where they live. Again, thank you for your post :) Much appreciated! From a proud French Canadian woman from Montreal, Québec xox

Happy Birthday my sweet friend!! I hope this year is the best one yet!!!! Xoxo

Happy Birthday Carrie. Hope you have yourself great one! :D

Happy Birthday beautiful lady. May your day be filled with smiles and pleasures and be the first of the next best part of your life!

I hope it's a great one and that you have many, many, many, many, many-you get the idea;) more. Happy Birthday.

Happy Birthday Carrie have a good one

Maybe the question should be reversed and say why u do not write a recco? Having been in this business for so many years I am now more incline to repeat often with a lady I like. If u write a recco every time, when you have seen a lady more than 10 times , exclusively, on a very regular basis it will appear as you are shilling since not many are that regular. At least not many talk about being that regular as they are usually not the type to brag. In addition a lady's reccos have significance if they are written by many, not just the same guy. Finally what is more important, having someone write a recco, move on to the next one on his to do list, and wirte a similar recco or having someone show his appreciation by being a regular? Its all about what u make of it!

Wow.... excellent...not sure it could be said any better.... Thanks Cat

The keys to making encounters extraordinary is actually quite simple. First, do your homework to ensure you understand your guest's expectations then do follow thru to make it happen before he arrives to the best of your ability. The next thing is THE key... STAY IN THE MOMENT from the minute you open the door until you close it after he leaves. By staying in the moment I mean... 1. Do not allow random thoughts floating thru your head to take hold. They are clouds, just let them float thru while you focus your attention on your guest. Don't allow the "am I doing this right?", "does this angle make my stomach look fat?" or "I need to go grocery shopping as soon as he's done." to interfere with your time with your guest. This time is about the two of you together and nothing else matters at this point. There is time to process a worthy unrelated thought after he's gone. 2. See the humanity in your guest before all else. This is the part of him you want to touch deeply. He isn't a business guru, construction worker, accountant, father, brother, son when he is with you. He is simply a man, with all of the qualities that makes him strong and vulnerable at the same time. Recognize this, let him be himself with no expectations that he is anything else. The human connection is the one that he will feel and not forget. 3. Follow the bouncing ball. Watch, listen and respond to the story that his body and tone of voice tell. Words can be deceptive but the body always tells the truth. He gives you all the clues you need to make a visit spectacular, you just need to be open to seeing them; to do that you need to follow the moment and trust your intuition to decipher what he is actually needing rather than just what he thinks he wants. It's easy once you practice it a bit, like karaoke. Just watch the little red bouncing ball of "right now". 4. Remember the humanity in him first and foremost. Make a mental file on him. After he leaves, think about what you learned about the real him and file that gold away. If you connected with him, he'll be back and you then have the keys to getting him to shed to masks he wears in the outside world, allowing him to once again just be himself but more efficiently than the last time leaving more time for genuine connection. Follow these steps with every visit and before long you are the Sanctuary he seeks when the outside world is closing in on him. You are who he turns to, to forget, to reconcile, to release all of the stresses that hunt him. These may or may not be conversations of words but more often with my guests they are a ballet of touch, movement and physical expression... Remember that this interaction isn't about you, it's about the both of you. It certainly isn't all about the sex. The physical is simply a vehicle to express ourselves together; it's about releasing what is needed and renewing one's life energy so we can meet the world another day from a positive frame of mind. A man comes to us because of a physical urge but that is merely symptomatic of the underlying need for connection without negativity whether your guest realizes it or not. He never needs to understand your process but he will never forget the time he shared with you if the connection to the real him is made... This is what I think makes an experience memorable... cat

Like most other people said be yourself otherwise it seems phoney. Also I know its a job but don't make it look like its only for the money. At least make it feel like you are enjoying my company, I don't expect you to fall in love with me and I'll do the same but make me feel I am more than a source of money period.

I noticed while reading this thread, that everyone is saying "Be Yourself". Great advice, but if you're new to the industry and you're not familiar with things that men like, it's a good thing to start this thread to give you some things. Look at some of the recommendations that people have written about some of your peers, some might not have much information, some of go into great detail. I like everyone who is politically correct on this website will say be yourself, that's what we like, though there are also little things as well. Myself, I remember if a lady asks me if I want to set an appointment up in a certain way ( outfits, etc,) and sometimes the lady hasn't worn what was agreed upon, I don't write a bad review, I don't bring it up with the lady because it's not super important, I can get over it without making a big deal. If you are doing incalls, my opinion is that you have a nice location ( decorated, has a lived in feel), I feel that a room with a bed isn't all that exciting no matter how charming I feel you are. I think the environment reflects on the situation just as much as the person regardless of what you're meeting for. A stark room with a bed is just too business like in my opinion. Again, good points from everyone, the overwhelming theme seems to be yourself.

I think it's a common request, and personally I think that yoga pants are like God's gift to mankind.

What makes an encounter truly Memorable for me is when ,for a short while ,I forget I am a "client" and I become her intimate companion her suitor her friend and lover during our time together, the embraces warm the kisses real and that feeling stays with me until well after I,ve left and reality once again sets in !

I will chime in on this thread. I am a squirter. However I don't advertise as such. I often get asked why I don't when a client is surprised by a soaking :) the reason being is that there are times when it doesn't happen. Perhaps the client doesn't know how, or perhaps there are physical reasons, etc. When it happens, I feel bad for the maid. And my clients get an added bonus. Otherwise I don't stress about it :)

Leah with Nadya's VIP - best ever.

I feel that wearing deodorant for intimacy and for the public is only common courtesy. Hygiene plays a huge factor for me and for some reason I feel it gives a sense of ones character and well- being. In 2014 this should not even be a topic although I see and smell a lot of it. Ladies/Gents if you don't wear it please start for there are kids out there age 10 who recognize their body odour when perspiring that they all too willingly run for the deodorant! Posted via Mobile Device

I just want to point out quickly that some people are allergic to coconut oil. I don't believe there is a known allergy when it comes to eating it, but contact dermatitis is something that a rare few will experience. If you are thinking about using it, try it out as a lotion for a few days and see how your skin reacts. My skin does NOT handle it well, and because of that I would never want to use it as a lube. I actually have to read beauty product ingredients carefully to make sure there is no coconut oil in anything I put on my skin. So while it is amazing for some people, just give it a trial run before you commit to buying a lot.