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What are Legends made of? Its a common question asked around CMJ when referring to Jasmin's TOP and most sought after hostesses. I am proud to say, I was a top hostess... a shining star always up for a fun time, fully booked and clients desired me. I loved my job and it showed. However, I made some mistakes and I took my clients, my boss and my colleagues for granted. I skipped shifts, stood clients up and commonly made them wait for me. The last 3 years I have learnt alot, part of my learning curve was to decide to take a break from CMJ to venture out to see if the "grass was greener" on other sides. The first place after CMJ, I went to was full of light and love, great people with pure intentions. Another place I had ended up very briefly taught me what I didn't want and what I had left behind and given up on. This moment was my moment of self reflection, it was my own actions that caused my beloved clients to see others. At this exact moment I made a promise to myself to regain my position as one of Ottawas MOST DESIRED, most fun, and gorgeous hostesses/MA at a place where I feel at home. I am treated with respect and I am surrounded by friends who genuinely love me and want the best for me. I apologize for my mistakes and I implore your forgiveness and that you will provide me an opportunity to reintroduce (or introduce you) Hedonistic Holly, the NEXT CMJ Legend. For the next 2 weeks, with exception of our next party, Any session with me will include a complimentary time upgrade. Book 30, Get 45, book 45 get 60 etc; Come get hexxed by Hollly and put under my spell of Love drunk pure sexual pleasure. I am a stunning dirty blond vixxen ready to play, so confident just my voice will arouse you and the way I touch you will send you to the moon and back. Oh and did I mention... I do a mouth watering, needing to say your prayers Duo with Cassie. Sorry Mandy, love ya but we would give you a ride for your money. Actually that sounds like a GREAT IDEA,a duo standoff I am @ CMJ west today 10-4 I am at CMJ East Friday 10-4 And of course I will be at the next Party July 25, 26 ... maybe you can be my cuddle buddy? New pics coming soon as I know I owe you some super hot enduring photos. Ive missed you all and I hope you will give me a second chance to raise to fame once more. You are so blessed with so many wonderful options in Ottawa BUT there is only one and original HOLLY Call the club to book, or PM me. 613-523-6199 or ASK me to be your special guest thanks again and im speaking from my heart so please dont be offended, it just is something I feel I owe you all. Also my albums should be up by the end of the day, just waiting for approval. In the meantime, take a read through my recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=85930&highlight=Holly http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=108816&highlight=Holly http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=143396&highlight=Holly

Just another example of fear mongering and people trying to start shit just because.... I can say truthfully I don't know of any reputable sex workers who would care or dare to do this. Rubbish, as far as I am concerned.

Loving my cerb friends, old and new!! Having an awesome time talking to people here, connecting and reconnecting!

The worse I get just this week... How much money you make? Its not because Im an escort that its more appropriate to ask than a lawyer, cashier, nurse whatever.. Real TURN-OFF.. Will you ask your neighboir how much he make in a year!?!

Rule of thumb - if you don't think you will like the answer or don't want the question turned back to you - DONT ASK

Its a common question asked around CMJ when referring to Jasmin's TOP and most sought after hostesses. I am proud to say, I was a top hostess... a shining star always up for a fun time, fully booked and clients desired me. I loved my job and it showed. However, I made some mistakes and I took my clients, my boss and my colleagues for granted. I skipped shifts, stood clients up and commonly made them wait for me. The last 3 years I have learnt alot, part of my learning curve was to decide to take a break from CMJ to venture out to see if the "grass was greener" on other sides. The first place after CMJ, I went to was full of light and love, great people with pure intentions. Another place I had ended up very briefly taught me what I didn't want and what I had left behind and given up on. This moment was my moment of self reflection, it was my own actions that caused my beloved clients to see others. At this exact moment I made a promise to myself to regain my position as one of Ottawas MOST DESIRED, most fun, and gorgeous hostesses/MA at a place where I feel at home. I am treated with respect and I am surrounded by friends who genuinely love me and want the best for me. I apologize for my mistakes and I implore your forgiveness and that you will provide me an opportunity to reintroduce (or introduce you) Hedonistic Holly, the NEXT CMJ Legend. For the next 2 weeks, with exception of our next party, Any session with me will include a complimentary time upgrade. Book 30, Get 45, book 45 get 60 etc; Come get hexxed by Hollly and put under my spell of Love drunk pure sexual pleasure. I am a stunning dirty blond vixxen ready to play, so confident just my voice will arouse you and the way I touch you will send you to the moon and back. Oh and did I mention... I do a mouth watering, needing to say your prayers Duo with Cassie. Sorry Mandy, love ya but we would give you a ride for your money. Actually that sounds like a GREAT IDEA,a duo standoff :) I am @ CMJ west tomorrow 10-4 I am at CMJ East Friday 10-4 And of course I will be at the next Party July 25, 26 ... maybe you can be my cuddle buddy? New pics coming soon as I know I owe you some super hot enduring photos. Ive missed you all and I hope you will give me a second chance to raise to fame once more. You are so blessed with so many wonderful options in Ottawa BUT there is only one and original HOLLY Call the club to book, or PM me. 613-523-6199 or ASK me to be your special guest thanks again and im speaking from my heart so please dont be offended, it just is something I feel I owe you all If someone could send me the link to my pics I havent figured out CERB quite yet

Some people have way to much time on their hands to come up with this crap....I mean why would any of us admit we actually spent time with a wet blanket Tory - if they are that boring in real life imagine the social skills they would bring to the bedroom (NO THANKS). I think NOT EVER....YUCK. Date would be declined before it even happened.

I like both, the repeat encounter, and also meeting a gal that I have never seen before. Repeating with the same woman, I enjoy once I get to know her. What she likes, being comfortable enough with her to be able to tell her ALL the things I like, and would like. A new gal for me is also exciting. What will she be like? Will we connect? Will she be that crazy wild lover? NB

It would be a very hard not enjoy this type of life style. I have been very blessed with the company I have met and appreciate you guys very much. I adore the industry. For me it is an absolute perfect fit. I love adventure, passion and discovering things about yourself that you didn't even know existed within you. It's exhilarating and exciting. I think of my self very lucky to have discovered it. I am going to be attending University but even once that is complete I do plan on continuing with this part of my life as well. Not forever, but for a while. It is not easy to walk away from this. You meet wonderful people, your constantly developing relationships and sometimes they evolve into true friendships. How could you just leave all that behind?

Seriously laughing my ass off right now! Don't ya love silly rumours!

Nuru Massage Porn! Yummies!

I've been inspired by this bill the Government has produced, and by the amount of respect they've shown for sex workers and for the Supreme Court. I think it's only appropriate so respond in a manner that reflects equal respect for the Government and for their abolitionist cheerleaders. I think the best way to do this would be to find an old church, buy it, and convert it into a brothel... and to do all this in the blaze of as much publicity as possible. Who's in? (And really, I'm only half-joking. I don't actually have either the money or the balls to kick off that big a shitstorm, but I really wish I did.)

SuperNewf, this is a complex and complicated issue you are trying to solve. As Sophia has said we are here to provide you with a wonderful, sexual and emotional experience, one that our time is compensated for. When your time is over with us we won't call, text or bother you unless you request another date. Some of us have SO's some do not. There is no real answer to why if we are single of not would we accept an unpaid engagement. When someone contacts me for a date my only assumption is he is looking for an uncomplicated sexual experience. That is what I am here for and that is what I get a donation for. I have a home, car, and all the sorts of bills everyone else has. Ladies are here to earn a living at something we enjoy but we are earning a living . Most ladies also state we do not accept of the clock proposals and out time social or otherwise is covered. That is not to say what you suggest never occurs but it I bet not one lady when she is invited to spend time things Gee, maybe this person will want to spend time with me off the clock. This is my take on your question and I hope you can see where I am coming from . :icon_smile::icon_smile:

And there is nothing wrong with your decision Maraena. I am totally supportive as your safety and discretion must remain the top priorities, particularly living in a small conservative community. Very often, I think of Halifax as being kind of a big village, so I can imagine what it must feel living elsewhere in NS. Mass media are a means of communication, but mostly it is a business which can easily verse into sensationalism in order to increase sales. The simple fact of asking you to publish the interview using your actual name is a sign of the ignorance of the mostly unspoken rules surrounding discretion that prevail in this business. I would take more seriously an independent researcher/journalist conducting a series of interviews to feed a well-documented study. Hopefully it will happen, here or elsewhere in Canada. And if it's the case, anybody interested by the topic, particularly our decision-makers, would feel the urge to read it before expressing their views publicly.

And back for another session. It's hard to stay away :) Tianna is luscious, for sure, and an outstanding pleasure-giver, with a skilful touch and sexy, arousing manner. She also enjoys being massaged, and feeling that luscious, responsive body will get you quickly recharged and eager for more. I'll be back!

Available Thursday 10am-6pm Friday 10am-6pm Hello Gentlemen and thank you for taking the time to check out my ad! My name is Mandy, I am 22 years young, super bubbly, brunette bombshell, with a tight body that will make you say OMG! My curves are in the perfect places and my seductive green/hazel eyes will put you in a erotic trance... My soft hands will paralyse you as I touch you in all of the right spots at the perfect pace, leaving you wanting more, more and more! My bodyslides will keep you moaning while I rub my C cup natural breasts all over you... yummy, wet and slippery Don't be shy to ask to massage me, I love to be oiled up and my purrrring will keep you going! If your the type who enjoys some sexy company in the shower I am more than willing to get steamy with you. I strive on making my clients feel satisfied! So... why not come over and enjoy yourself I am sure you deserve it! Once your gone you will be left with naughty fantasies and dirty dreams for days. If you are interested in any of the above you will find me at Paradise Spa, located in the west end of Ottawa. It is a place like no other! Very clean, friendly staff, discreet, with an atm on site. The rooms have private showers, fresh linens, soaps, oils/gels, & big mirrors to watch us from every angle possible To book your sexy session call the spa, 613-820-8887 & request me! Or feel free to PM me for my availability or service inquiries. & Check out my Recommendations! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ltr=M&t=120757[/img]

It's about building the connection and intimacy. For me it usually starts before we meet, with an exchange of pm's and emails, so we get to know each other a bit, and understand our likes and dislikes and expectations and limits, before the actual encounter. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't, and that's fine. But when it works, it's great. And when it just keeps getting better, with more fun and mutual pleasure, then I'll be back. Mutual enjoyment is the key.

Of course it's not true. However, it's pretty damn funny how gullible some people are...."if it's on the internet , it must be true!"

She offered her honour, I honoured her offer, and, for the rest of the night I was honour and offer

SuperNerf, I can tell you're asking these questions in good faith and it's commendable that you want to understand the etiquette. As SuiteEscapes mentioned, this is a professional relationship, albeit one like no other. The ladies do a great job of setting up an intimate atmosphere and making you feel special and desired. But you are generally going to put a lady in an extremely awkward position if you ever try to ask for something beyond the established, professional relationship. Is it impossible for an SP and a client to end up something more? No, it's happened, of course. But those exceptions are just that, exceptions, and not something that should be taken as a sign that it's something to pursue. Many, many more happy or promising companionships were ruined than made this way. Besides the awkwardness, it is rude. Why? Well, typically speaking you don't ask someone who does something for their livelihood to provide that service free of charge. Well, these ladies offer time and companionship and intimacy. So, even when you like them and feel a connection (which can be common and not a bad thing in itself!) it would be rude to seek more, as that's essentially trying to get free what they do for a living. Even if your intentions and feelings are sincere, it still puts the lady in a hard spot, which you of course wouldn't want to do. And it isn't going to help that the bulk of the previous guys who already tried to pursue time off the clock may have been doing so for not-so-genuine reasons! In short, just as a lady finds it awkward and a turn-off when a client negotiates, has bad hygiene, or doesn't follow instructions, they are also going to feel awkward when placed in a position where a client is asking for the relationship between them to be something other than what is agreed upon and understood. She wants to go about this business without that worry. I hope that helps.

I'm following. No idea how rep points work or what they do or how many I have lol

I actually do massage porn all the time :aol_rideit: It is my favorite and it gives me stronger orgasms than casual sex. I understand why guys love going in for erotic massage because when I receive a massage and the client start to touch my wet pussy slowly, it kinda makes me extremely excited. I love it! The excitation build up slowly to a point where you can't go back. There is of course a minor explanation since massages accelerate the blood flow which makes guys harder and more horny. It makes me feel the same !! I even started to do it on my free time with my sexual partner. A bottle of wine with nice music and slowly build up our orgasms for hours :-) Nothing beats an MA and SP combination for massage porn! A professional massage to extreme satisfaction! I actually want to videotape one soon! Keep doing porn massage ! :-) Yummm yummm Love it ! (sorry for mistakes in language. I am french) Kat ;-)

I think the incredibly Sexy and very hot Lexy Grace deserves a mention here. Currently in ns and planning a trip to nb. Let's welcome her.

My most hated and so presumptuous question . Why hasn't a woman like you been scooped up yet? What makes anyone think I have been or not? Do they think that someone that is a companion would never, ever have a SO?

The pictures they send are most certainly real and they are extremly fun, especially together as they are very interactive and into each other as well as you. One of the best duo's I have had in a long time, at least since Montreal which was quite a few years ago. Well worth the money and time. I would say they are a safe GFE as they don't offer bbbj, only cbj but both very good at it. Thank you ladies.

I'd like to welcome back HollyCMJ, whose thoughtful and honest post about her return makes her the Goddess of the Day, in my books.

Thursday Pandora 9-4 aka "Pandora" Ariana 9-4 NEW aka "Ariana" Chasity 9-4 aka "Chasityxox" Sabrina R 9-4 aka "SabrinaR" Taylor 10-9 aka "Taylor Devine" Maya 3:30-11 aka "MidnightMaya" Robyn 3:30-11 aka "robynxoxo" Lexi 3:30-11 aka "Sexy Lexi" NEW MA Dallas http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9267 NEW MA Ariana Pics http://www.angelstouchmassage.ca/site/arianas-profile/ ***Kennidi NOW back :smile: ONLINE AD http://www.cerb.ca/classifieds/ottawa-massage-ads/p62-top-ladiesnew-ma-27s.html Schedule UPDATED daily & Comments from happy clients CLICK HERE http://www.angelstouchmassage.ca/site/schedule/ New Sexy Pics http://www.angelstouchmassage.ca/site/the-angels/ 3 rooms, up to 8 sexy ladies on daily! Private Dance shows available upon request! Click here to see NEW pics of room: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=3340 Full Body Relaxation Massage Single Massage: 30 minutes $50. 45 minutes $60. 60 minutes $80. 90 minutes $120 Couples Massage: 1 Attendant 30 minute $60. 45 minute $70. 60 minute $90. Duo/Couples Massage:2 Attendants 30 minute regular $100. on special for $80. 45 minute regular $120. on special for $100. 60 minute regular $160. on special for $130. HST included in door fee prices. Longer Sessions available and @ Discretion of MA ...... Tips Accepted...... ATM on site......Spacious Rooms with Private Showers..... Robyn's Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=R&t=82591 Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=M&t=75290http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=P&t=156274 Maya's Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=M&t=63977 Taylor's Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=155684 Sabrina R's Recommendations http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=175469 Chasity Recommendation http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=C&t=160456 HIRING.....We are seeking attractive hard working ladies who enjoy pleasing clients! You must be 18 years of age or older to be employed at Angel's Touch. We require proof of legal age and legal eligibility to work via a valid government identification and/or other documentation as required by law! Ariana-NEW

You definitely know how to create a post to keep everyone enthralled. Can't wait for more!

I'm up for that. I love having an assistant in the shower.

Some say it is just better to use a bottle of non slippery body wash instead of a slippery bar of soap ? Brand name maybe ? Doesn't really matter. Just depends where you are I suppose ? ;)

Well that was easy.

Unless I have booked an extended meeting with a lady I would not expect her to have to get her hair wet unless she wanted to.

Thank you for dealing with the issue respectfully. This is about consenting adults staying safe. A happy hooker is a safe hooker. Join the movement!! Submit your story http://www.happyhookersofcanada.com !

I hope so, but it took so many years for SCC to get the previous laws changed, so I hope we all don't have to wait another 10 years ( or however long) for this to be changed, meanwhile.....??? It IS unconstitutional, but so were the last:( But till it goes threw the motion of the courts, it can be tied up there for awhile. This is a "Political appearance" game strategy, not constitutional rights in any way:( They can TRY to pass it, and just tie up time for a good face to the moral police.

Available Wednesday 10am-6pm Thursday 10am-6pm Friday 10am-6pm Hello Gentlemen and thank you for taking the time to check out my ad! My name is Mandy, I am 22 years young, super bubbly, brunette bombshell, with a tight body that will make you say OMG! My curves are in the perfect places and my seductive green/hazel eyes will put you in a erotic trance... My soft hands will paralyse you as I touch you in all of the right spots at the perfect pace, leaving you wanting more, more and more! My bodyslides will keep you moaning while I rub my C cup natural breasts all over you... yummy, wet and slippery Don't be shy to ask to massage me, I love to be oiled up and my purrrring will keep you going! If your the type who enjoys some sexy company in the shower I am more than willing to get steamy with you. I strive on making my clients feel satisfied! So... why not come over and enjoy yourself I am sure you deserve it! Once your gone you will be left with naughty fantasies and dirty dreams for days. If you are interested in any of the above you will find me at Paradise Spa, located in the west end of Ottawa. It is a place like no other! Very clean, friendly staff, discreet, with an atm on site. The rooms have private showers, fresh linens, soaps, oils/gels, & big mirrors to watch us from every angle possible To book your sexy session call the spa, 613-820-8887 & request me! Or feel free to PM me for my availability or service inquiries. & Check out my Recommendations! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ltr=M&t=120757[/img]

Yes Ashley had/has amazing puffies and a killer body too. Not sure if she is still active. She used to advertise on cerb... She should have a handle if you search winnipeg providers.

Was a lady here a couple of years ago .Went by the name of Ashley. Apparently she had puffies. Mid 30's blond as I recall. Never did see her personally and I believe there is mixed reviews on her service. She either retired or has regulars and is flying below the radar . I wouldn't mind seeing her myself . Maybe someone is still in contact with her and would post or pm her number

The scope of fetish is so wide. Maybe some details would help the members here directing you to the right person. Possibly the perfect companion for you would then let you know. I can only tell you that having some fetish of my own, keep looking and enquiring, and you will find.

You know... It's has been a while since I RECEIVED a massage. ;) Good thing I enjoy giving them so much. #justagiver

If you check her recent ad in the Kingston ad section here on CERB it is very detailed and will answer your questions.

http://gracebellavue.wordpress.com/2014/06/20/20-things/

I won't go on and on about my ass lol but..... I do have an oversized soaker tub, large shower with heat lamps, and access to a pool and sauna if you so desire.... ;-) However- Carp..... is not really my area. Downtown is easily accessible from any end of town tho. Good luck- I am biased but I recommend Hailey, Tya, and Vitto for ASS. Giddy Up.

This is an interesting question and actually one that I have considered a great deal over the years. I was married when I was 21 to an amazing woman who was tiny, gorgeous, and sexy beyond sexy. We were together for 40 years until her death and as time progressed and years went by, I not only continued to find her sexy and attractive but more so all the time. Her sexual aura only grew for me. Since my foray into Cerb I can truthfully say that I have met with women of all ages, from close to my own which is older for sure but also to some very young hard bodied ladies. In all cases the sexy was present but ultimately the thing is that it comes down to the person and not their age or even their hard bodiedness. Who can not help but admire a young woman in her supposed,"prime," but the fact of the matter is for me that I believe that women are sexier as they mature. Now to reverse the scenario, when I look into the mirror I only see,"old." I don't feel that but I see that. I wonder if that perception for women preferring the young hard bodied man is even stronger for them than it is for men who look at women?

I feel that if a good connection is made and felt, then repeating is a good thing. After 2-3 visits, the comfort level is awesome. We both know the other persons likes, we aren't guessing anymore and we know those special things that arouse our partner. We also do this without the serious emotional entanglements that can muddy the waters of other types of encounters. That is not to say that I, as a client and her, as a provider don't develop a friendship and trust. We do and it is a wonderful thing but we both accept the boundaries that this dynamic requires. There are no judgements, just safe, fun experiences that hopefully, leave us both breathless and wanting more.

If you want to be right on the mark with a gift, you can also ask her what she'd like. A gift doesn't need to be a total surprise to be thoughtful and appreciated. The best gifts are ones that are an excellent fit for the person receiving it. And thoughtful generosity is never lame.

Katrine Cannon has fake boobs and would actually fufilled both the SP and Ma point of views :)

While, yes, I don't think it is possible at all to "cheat" on a stripper, given that none of our lovely relationships are exclusive in the first place :p I wouldn't say that that is necessarily fair to say that the ladies don't have any cares beyond wallets. My favourite people to dance for are ones that I genuinely feel some level of connection with, even if that connection must be limited to club fantasy land! Sometimes we girls can have just as much fun getting into the fantasy as you boys :p Good communication is key. If you want to see other strippers, see other strippers, you don't owe a dancer anything but politeness, as long as you are not rude about it there is no acceptable reason for there to be any drama:) And if there is...red flag...someone doesn't understand their job very well!

Well, where to start? I guess we'll start at the beginning a little over 2 years ago. Wait, no, too long ago. How about November 2013, I was in a pretty nasty car collision that's left me in quite a bit of pain and a lot of rehabilitation. Physiotherapy, chiropractic and gonna try some acupuncture as well. Which also lead to massage therapy. In the collision, I've developed a couple of pinched nerves including my scyatic. My daily routine over the past couple month's have been anti-inflamatories and pain killers at the crack of dawn just to get me up and started. Anyways, back in December, I remember Katrine was studying to become a registered massage therapist and who better to see than someone you know! Yeah, she's drop dead gorgeous with the sexiest lips you could ever kiss. So soft and supple. The absolutely most voluptuous breasts and her ass! WOW! "I hate to see her go but I looove to watch her leave!" :D! If Webster dictionary was a pictorial and they had the word "Perfect ass", Katrine's would be there. However...this meet was strictly professional! So, I scheduled to meet Katrine on one of the worst wintery days ever in December at her home. It took awhile to find parking but finally did. I've known Katrine now for about 3 years and one thing about her is she's always taken great pride in her home and seeing her new place, nothing's changed. Very well maintained and clean. Well decorated with a great sense of warmth when you enter. Katrine had me enter her massage room which was already prepared for me. Fresh linen, towel warmers on, the massage oils and the necessary materials needed to work on my scyatic nerve. The lights were dimmed and the temperature perfect. Not to hot and not to cold. Katrine asked me if she needed to leave the room as I stripped down but wasn't necessary. So on goes the massage. Her hands worked every muscle leading to the scyatic starting at the back and working down to the thigh. The massage oils heating up and loosening up the muscles. She worked on me for 90 minutes until finally, it was over. I could have laid there easily for another hour. For the first time in a month, I was able to actually sit properly and put my socks on without grunting or in excrutiating pain! She worked out all the knots and even showed me a couple of tricks to help ease the pain. She was nothing short of being a miracle worker. Not only is Katrine beautiful but very intelligent too. Easy person to get along with and good conversation. What else more can I say about this woman! She's awesome. Unfortunately there's no "kiss and tell" about this story but to tell everyone that Katrine suited my needs perfectly and she's assisting me to my recovery. Thank you again Katrine! Posted via Mobile Device

I think we all have multi identities and many ways of being in the world. I'm an escort, but I'm also a lover, sister, friend, student, and yogini. Some things aren't relevant in certain contexts, and we all have things we would simply prefer not to discuss. All of my friends and family know what I do; unfortunately, being able to live life openly is a privilege only few share in this industry. The only time I've ever lied is with an intimate partner who did not support me seeking my financial independence through escorting. Suffice it to say, we are no longer together. For some people, the 'double life' is necessary for their mental, physical, and emotional health. It's not necessarily bad, and it doesn't necessarily cause dissonance. For some, it can be very healthy and I've heard many gentlemen echo (both on the board and face-to-face) that the experiences they have with service providers help create and maintain a balance in their lives... Despite the 'double life' at times (managing/mitigating risk and making sure not to get caught), I think that's a really beautiful thing.

Totally avoid asking personal questions it will just make the provider feel very uneasy and will not do anything to enhance your encounter. You could ask things like I just love your lingerie. It looks so good on you, what store did you purchase it at? After the lingerie comes off (wink) and you notice no tan lines hummm you could discuss the absence of the tan lines. Just might learn about a new vacation location or a great tanning salon. I really like your perfume, what brand is that? etcetera. Be a clean kind respectful gentleman and you will probably have a great encounter.