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There has been a lot of activity in the "turn off's" thread so to increase both the positivity and titillating factors, let's talk about what turns us on. I for one love a vocal partner. One who makes noises of pleasure, who encourages or directs with desire and who loses themselves in the moment. It is even a bigger turn on while using your name! ! What turns YOU on??

My advice is leave it on. what if it falls out of your pocket, gets lost, left behind? How to explain that ?

A genuine smile and laugh. Not much that can make me feel better than knowing I've pleased or entertained. Kissing, light kissing, more kissing, deeper kissing, lips tracing kissing, hello is that your tongue kissing, followed by...a handshake--while kissing! Tongue along my ear. Sets me right off. An enthusiastic, happy greeting. Nothing like getting off to a pleasant, friendly start. Geeky interests and fun conversation. Intellectual connections make for sparks! A partner who doesn't mind saying what she likes and enjoys. I'm not going to be having any fun if I don't think it's mutual, and nothing gives pleasure like pleasing. Finally...boobs (yup, sometimes it's just that simple).

I adore it when someone listens and takes direction. Nothing better then someone who wants to understand what I want vs what they've been doing for years, and thinks their way is the best way. Everyone is different, and what works for one person might not work for someone else. Also, I adore it when they tell me what they want - not whispering, but actually voicing their wants and desires. Whispering implies they are ashamed of what they want - I love the self confidence when someone tells me what they want.

After my wife passed I still wore my ring up until a year later. Not that any of the ladies cared if I was married or not, but I always felt the need to explain it. I don't judge men that are married and see escorts but I just wanted the women to know I wasn't cheating on my wife, for some reason that was important to me.

I think it would be very rare to find an SP who would be bothered by a ring. I do know a few gentlemen who prefer to take it off during time together. It could be stepping into a fantasy, remnants of guilt, respect for the lady or any number of other things. It would be a very personal choice to the person only. If you are not comfortable having it on, then by all means don't but as pointed out, make sure you have it securely tucked away so it doesn't get lost or misplaced. Most SP's only care about your level of comfort and do not get concerned over whether you wear a ring or not.

Ladies? Maybe you have shared some of these feelings in regards to the way we are frequently spoken about.... I have been working in Ottawa since December. Previously, I had been a dancer and had not ventured often into the provider side of things (outside the club of course, I don't believe in Strip Club extras as it's unsafe and in poor taste. I go there to perform) For the most part, my 5 years as a worker of the adult industries has been a great, lifechanging experience. Where there was a lack of confidence, I grew into a strong and bold woman. Where there was a shyness, I now shine in a crowded room. Where there was anxiousness, there is now a re�������� calmness. People don't really understand what it's like to be in this industry. They don't know what it's like to be constantly judged, picked apart, mocked, looked down upon.... Actually, they probably do. But that's probably the most quizzical part of the problem. We are not as worthy because we are shameful in our choices. Do I agree with this? Absolutely not. But not everyone has lived the same path and so I understand that to some people there is no forgiveness in our liberties. Now... I would consider myself a partial libertarianist. I believe that we should be free to do with our lives what we will so long as we do not hurt others. But more importantly I'd like to add that I believe in the power of also caring for yourself, and to always seize the opportunity to better the planet whenever you can. So, now that I've introduced this... let me clarify a few points. I have overheard that I "...come across as a real hustler." If you mean that I am overly ambitious and have strategized a way to multimarket myself to broaden my overall impact on the industry? Then yes, by all means... I am the hustliest hustler ever. But I treat people very well, provide light and attentive interactions filled with laughter and sensuality. I entertain with flair. I will never stop driving towards my goals. I have overheard that I have "...some sag in (my) boobs", "...some sag in her belly as well", "...kinda floppy" ..... May I add that these were comments from people who have indeed admitted enjoying my service in the same reviews? I get it. People can be superficial. But people have also loved my breasts, despite the fact that you didn't. I am getting a breast augmentation not because I want one, but because it hurts to hear people constantly pointing out my flaws, no matter how wonderfully we have gotten along during our session. I have overheard some lovely things! From some people who have backed me up and said that I'm doing a great job and they respect me. People who have applauded my need to become an advocate for the industry. People who saw beyond a shallow misperception of who I am based on judging me by my outershell, or a small glimpse of a slightly grandiose personality via the internet. Why all the negativity? And it's not just me! People feel comfortable talking to me, which is fine. I shall never judge nor share those things... but the fact is that they tell me similar awful things about other dancers, providers, women, friends, girlfriends. I don't like it. Can we all please just try to be a little more human? And girls, stop taking advantage of, or mocking clients in the same way. We all just need a little happiness sometimes, so why not make it easier to find?

I might just be speaking for myself, but I don't believe women to be quite as visual as men. I look for a mental, intellectual connection be it over having the same sense of humour, enjoying the same activities or having traveled to the same places... That's what the question "tell me a little about yourself" refers to... We share quite a bit about ourselves on our websites as judo pointed out so it's thoughtful to tell us a bit about you :)

For those of you who don't know me, I am a mature, sensual, elegant and sassy lady who will lead you astray with all the experience that only maturity brings. I bring an intelligent yet exciting approach to our time together but can also turn up the heat when the moment arises! From soft and sensuous to mildly wild and uninhibited, I am a woman who likes our encounter to escalate to wonderful heights! My schedule (unless otherwise advertised) Monday to Friday - 9am until 5pm Evening appointments and encounters at downtown hotels are possible but only if pre-booked. Check out the about me tab on my profile page for more info! (ie donation requirements etc...) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=27470 Kisses, Meg Please note that I only answer the phone when expecting a call and therefore request that you either text me at 613-282-1560 or email me at [email protected] in order to get the ball rolling.

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Leave it on. Believe me we wouldn't be judging you. Most of us probably don't even notice.

Asking a question is one thing. Its when the whole "this is what I want, play by play" scenario that gets old. Some start out with a basic question - I reply, "yes, I enjoy that", and then 3 pages of texts, emails etc start. A brief description is generally sufficient - I personally do not enjoy it when the details start. If I'm into the scenario - then lets get together. You can give me the details when we meet. However, there are so many out there that like to waste time and get off on telling us what they want, but never actually book. However, if it is something I do not enjoy, I tell them right away, so they can keep looking. I have on occasion requested a payment upfront first, then we can go through some of the details. This way, I don't feel like I am wasting my time with someone who just wants to play and not pay for my time.

Maybe this sounds strange, but attention to me as a person. When Lady makes me believe that she is happy to see specifically me by some small signs of caring and attention. For instance, I did not ask for specific outfit but mentioned in the conversation she looks fantastic on that photo - and next time she reproduced it exactly for me. Or I told her about something important for me - and next time I am asked how did situation developed. Small signs but they mean a lot...

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Don't EVER stop being yourself and keep on your path. We only have the present moment to live in. I always live by the rule that it's none of my business what people think of me and with age and maturity, I have really grasped that concept and apply it. You can't control what others will say and do but you can control how you feel and react to it. Those are the most important things I've learned during my time in this business. That and learning to have a VERY thick skin. You get used to it after a while and what people say will usually run off of you like water from a duck's back once you actually give up the control and throw caution to the wind when you stop caring what people think. As for trashing people in the industry, I've seen my fair share of it all around whether it's men or women. There are people out there who don't like me..men and women in this business because they think I'm a bitch, I've been of accused of being an "elitist" and for saying what's on my mind too much. I don't mince words but they don't really know me and they don't need to. If a person wants to judge an SP, let them go ahead because when you really think about it, they don't know you personally unless they take the time and even then they still don't completely know you so does it really matter? Others have judged me for whatever reason but who are they to me at the end of the day? I don't know them and they are not my friends so what they really think of me has no bearing on me. They can all f*ck off for lack of better words. After all, is a belief really a fact just because one person has said or even a few? It's their opinion, it's all subjective and to me, one size doesn't fit all whether it has to do with opinions, looks, service or personality. Yes, Nicki is my alter ego and she is feisty, sexy, sweet, thoughtful, kind, says what's on her mind and the real me is the exact same person. I will never apologize for who I am. I am genuine and authentic and you should never have to pretend to be "everybody's everybody" as I like to put it. I've been told I'm too fat, blah, blah, blah. Just more superficiality bullshit from people with a chip on their shoulder for whatever is going on in their life where they have to take it out on someone else. Once you stop caring about this, you will attract the clients and other people in the business that like you and appreciate you for you. I've heard it all but I actually stopped giving a damn and I'm very much like celebrities in the sense that I don't listen to what people are saying about me. I've just stopped caring and live my life. In this business with the hating and the drama, ignorance really is bliss! I've learned to attract the clients I want through a positive mindset and it really has worked. Forget the haters because you will only attract more. The vibe you put out is what you will get back. Remove yourself from the drama of this industry and live your life according to your rules and trust me, you will only then find inner peace. I no longer associate myself with many others in the business because I don't want the drama. Don't fight it, just leave it.

I like your post. Many times I have read unneeded words written that hurt. I think to myself does the writter know or care the effect their opinion has on the person, their feelings & possibly damaging their reputation. We are all unique & beautiful in different ways. As service providers in an adult industry we are judged in every way. I urge you you not to make decisions that will effect your future based on the words of other people but how & what you feel in your heart that is best for you. In the end you are the only person you have to make happy. How you feel about yourself is what matters. I wish you well Selena

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I'm curious, I didn't see a thread here like this, but maybe I didn't look hard enough. Closest I found was the double life thread. What I'd like to know is of the married Hobbyists and SP's how many of you wear wedding rings to rendezvous? If so, why? If not, why not? Again to the same audience, do you mind, or more so do it like it, when an sp or a hobbyist meets you with a ring? I for one am not comfortable wearing mine. That might change in the future. What about you? *also please remove if not allowed, duplicate, or not in taste*

After reading the threads below and similar threads elsewhere, Yuna has piqued my interest since. This past week, I had a chance to see her to satisfy my curiosity. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=218659&highlight=yuna Yuna is a very sweet young lady. The pictures in the AP ad. are of her probably with some light touch up. She is friendly and is very service-oriented - trying her uttermost to please and to satisfy her clients. After sampling the chocolate I brought, which apparently she liked and appreciated, we headed to the shower. On exiting, the fun began with lots of passionate kisses and caressing. She's a very good kisser, her lips were soft and tender, and her skin was smooth and wonderful to the touch. It felt so good to caress her. Then I realized this young lady really loved to be kissed, caressed and pampered. Fortunately, that's what I love to do to ladies as well.:wink: The end result was - we lost track of the time...the pampering seemed to go on and on. Obviously, this sweet young lady loves what she's doing and, this is why the time spent with her was so wonderful and satisfying! I have no hesitation to recommend her and to visit her again.

The reality is - the lady is allowed to sell her services. She can divulge what she feels comfortable with. It is the client that cannot solicit services. So, there are providers who will not discuss any type of specifics in order to protect the client. There are others, who feel that they would rather discuss the specifics, to ensure that there are no misunderstandings during the meeting. Then there are those that publicly advertise their specific services on their ads. In reality, this is where you need to determine what your feelings on the matter are. Your risk assessment. Her reputation. Is she well recommended by other long time hobbyists? Is she new and unknown? Most feel that private communication (i.e. emails) are considered private and therefore acceptable. There are others who feel that any type of discussion is off limits. Just remember, unless the lady you are communicating with is underaged, being trafficked, working outdoors, openly advertising the use of drugs, you will be fine. Good luck!

I think 20 minutes is way to long to wait for a lady. If a gentleman is taking time out of his day to make a quick lunch time frame making him wait 20 minutes takes about half of his appointment time. He may have booked in advance and is expecting his full time . If I make him wait he has to go back to work with half the time promised. I don't think that is cool or respectful, if you book a firm time it should be just that . Even emergencies such as illness can usually be texted in advance.

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I agree, leave it on. The mark where your ring was, will show even more. You're only fooling yourself. I knew someone who gave his wedding ring to a stripper, while at the club for a stag. That was a short wedding!

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If I want to feel sexy I'll wear it under my clothes. When i am working its always on under what i'm wearing.

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I have being allowed to give a few massages, two were on massage tables while others were on a bed, I always accepted guidance as my sole purpose was to have my company as happy as I was. It's one of the pleasures I enjoy when I have an extended visit.

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When I think of my all time favourite ladies that I've met over the years, right away five come to mind. Some are still in the business, some aren't. They have a lot in common in that they are all great in many ways, friendly, beautiful, caring - pretty much every positive trait you can think of. In my opinion they are the best I've met in this business and great people, period. The other thing they have in common is they have all been criticized at one point or another on review boards. Trust me, the problem wasn't with them, it was the guys/idiots writing the reviews. Awhile ago I was visiting a regular and she brought up a poor review she had received. I could sense she was a little pissed off. She said she tried her best with the client but he was smelly, rude and made her feel uncomfortable. From what she described, I'm surprised she even let him in her apartment but that's the type of person she is, always willing to try to please. Of course she couldn't be her best with him, the guy was a disgusting pig. Also, some losers just get off on cutting down others. They hide behind their computer screens and anonymously talk shit. I guess it makes them feel powerful but I'm sure in real life they are pathetic failures. When I read a review I take it with many grains of salt. I know there are two sides to every story and the lady doesn't get to write hers. I can understand how it must be upsetting to read negative things but please understand that just because someone writes something, definitely doesn't mean I believe it. I don't really pay attention to the content of reviews anyway. I mostly just check them as it gives me an indication that someone isn't a total fake. It's a sad fact that even the best in this business have to put up with losers writing trash about them. I think all you can do is ignore it and be confident that the good clients are ignoring it too.

Well said. I like to push the boundries in my massages with eroticism and sensuality but if I get a "Uh, uh, owwww" then I back off. If however she responds that's she's really enjoying it then I keep going. MA's must meet a lot of disrespectful dickheads all the time so in some ways I like to think of my massages as a bit of a treat for them in place of the usual. One of my fave MA's actually said "no one has ever offered that before". Needless to say we had a great time and I saw her many times since. Sadly now retired from the business.

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The good news Amanda is the fact that most of the time the fake ads on BP are pretty easy to identify and ignore (probably why you are finding the ads working for you) the bad news is the fact that too many guys just can't resist trying to get a deal ... they get burned but still seem to fall for the same thing next time... we can't just blame the ladies... the gentlemen create the market. Just my Opinion

My answer is based solely on myself and I can't answer for others. I prefer mature company +40. Im not saying a 25 year old can't be mature, but the connection is different in the past experiences I have had. Someone older than myself is someone I tend to mesh better with, from experience I have found that I have few issues visiting with mature company (they follow the rules, read websites, don't haggle and well they don't stalk me in my hotel lobby- yes that has happened) as well screening is NEVER an issue. My experience with younger clients 98% of the time is usually not something I want to repeat, the lack or respect to this professional and me is one of the big reasons as well as the fact that they seem to not follow instructions well and feel that it is ok to want to date me or take me for coffee off the clock. The fact that initial contact in my experience from a younger gentleman usually starts with "I'm super good looking you should see me for free" or can i have a student discount and r u free now - is enough indication to why I don't wish to see the younger generation - they are also the one who seem to hold the entitlement card and feel because they have money I should see them (and they wont allow me to screen them). I will say in the new younger clients I have clicked with, they had 2 references and were rare from the norm Every lady is different and every lady has different boundaries and rules, for me I'm at a point in my career where chemistry is better than anything and without it there is no date. - regardless of age. We all have our reasons for who we wish to spend time with and why and to be honest its really no one else concern except for the lady who has put her policies in place and they should just be respected.

I have a triple life really....business life where I'm quite serious, my non-business life which is more of a hippy type of lifestyle and is the complete opposite of my business persona, and my this game life. No one has a clue about my lives, the bus types don't know the hippy persona and the hippy type friends have not the seen the business persona and none know about my participation in this game. After all I am a Pisces :) Peace MG