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How do escort /SP feel about going on Outcalls where there might be other people in the home/location? I have always wondered how they feel about visiting someone's home who is probably married or in a relationship and has kids. Just curious if that is a turnoff or a No Go area? 

Please provide me your input on the matter.

BD

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Speaking for myself, I will NOT visit at someones home unless we have met many times in the past at my location and they have proven that they are 100% living alone.  No way would I ever put myself in a situation where someone else could unexpectedly come home.

I don't care what your personal situation is, however I won't risk any safety and well. being to go make a house call.

 

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I have a provider at my home from time to time. I know her well and we've discussed what the plan is if someone comes home while she's there. That said we align things to use the house at times when it's very very unlikely anyone would come home (and so far, so good). 

 

 

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    On top of what others already mentioned, good communications and relevant transparency will make most situations work. Inviting someone in your home doesn't obligates you to share everything. Most providers don't care about your marital status. Unless it's your fantasy to shove that information down their throat to make them feel guilty, I don't see this as an issue. 

     

 

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I would never visit a home with other people there. 

 

I as well will only do outcalls to homes of clients I have met before. 

 

They are just safety issues and I think are pretty standard with most indies. 

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Although not an issue for me being single, I can't envision a rational reason for a client wanting an outcall to his place if his wife/SO and/or kids...especially kids!!!...could be there.  This is far worse than clients leaving contact info/texts from companions etc on their cell phones that their wives can find.

This lifestyle is based on trust and discretion, such a scenario lacks both IMO.  Frankly it strikes me as something dumb for a client to ask a companion to do.  If you want to do an outcall get a hotel. If you can't afford a hotel either save your pennies...'er nickels LOL to afford a hotel or see a lady offering incalls.

A rambling

RG 

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On 4/25/2019 at 2:36 PM, roamingguy said:

Although not an issue for me being single, I can't envision a rational reason for a client wanting an outcall to his place if his wife/SO and/or kids...especially kids!!!...could be there.  This is far worse than clients leaving contact info/texts from companions etc on their cell phones that their wives can find.

This lifestyle is based on trust and discretion, such a scenario lacks both IMO.  Frankly it strikes me as something dumb for a client to ask a companion to do.  If you want to do an outcall get a hotel. If you can't afford a hotel either save your pennies...'er nickels LOL to afford a hotel or see a lady offering incalls.

A rambling

RG 

Sometimes clients are not forthcoming or truthful about others being in their outcall which in the past has presented me with very uncomfortable situations so I make sure they are alone or forfeit their deposit.

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I prefer to only go to hotels as i can call and confirm first he is actually there and who he says he is..no private homes my safety is upmost important to me(unless we have met several times and I feel safe and comfortable with you) .. it's a no no for anyone else to be present during our time together 

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I would never and I mean never put an SP in a situation where there is someone else in the home. I have no children and if I did, rest assured they would never be lurking about. I can't imagine any man or woman wanting that type of drama. I've had SP's visits at my home. It took some courage on both parts. I always tell my SP I have a dog just in case there is a phobia. That's how sensible I am

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On ‎5‎/‎7‎/‎2019 at 3:14 AM, Mature Angela said:

Sometimes clients are not forthcoming or truthful about others being in their outcall which in the past has presented me with very uncomfortable situations so I make sure they are alone or forfeit their deposit.

That really sucks! It's unfortunate that some are so untrustworthy and you found out the hard way BUT you found out and learned from the experience. There are good and bad gentlemen and good and bad ladies. Mostly, good gentlemen find good ladies by trial and error too

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To be honest, I've seen an SP who has children in her home. They're school age children and never there when we're together. If they were I would leave instantly

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