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If I go back a few years ago, before I made the decision to become a paid companion, I can tell you that I was full of prejudice towards this industry. Why? Because of the limited exposure I had and not because I was/am narrow minded. I just didn't know better. It is quite difficult to have a positive outlook on the industry when all you see in public are street walkers (some with a drug addiction) who try to solicitate people walking by. It's also another thing when all you hear about prostitution includes pimps, drugs, exploitation, human trafficking and so on. Where and how does one get an education about the industry if they have no real interest in becoming a consumer or a service provider?? You don't even give it a second though and accept what you think you already know. We are then left with morals which society imposes on us (tries to), what we learn from the media and sometimes movies- and other negative sources- and we create our own opinion about the ones who decide to partake in the lifestyle that way. Can we blame the main stream population for being ignorant or misguided? I think not. They just don't know better the same way I didn't... Do I wish those stereotypes disappeared? Definitely! Additional comments: I hope that made sense as I found it difficult to express my point of view ;)

MMMMMMM Ava Gardner. One of the most beautiful women EVER. Also: Scarlett and Brooke And the girl who I think really should have played Marilyn (based on looks only, not talent), Amber Heard

New life goal: I want to have a Fellowship of the Ring themed orgy. It will consist of nine people and we must all be assigned a character from the fellowship. I want to be Pippin.

My very pregnant sister is being a petulant child. I want to kick her.

Short and sweet, my definition of GFE is on par with how the term is defined in Cerbs own "List of Common Abbreviations" and it includes, but is not limited to, BBBJ, CFS, DFK, DATY and MSOG. That said I also believe attitude, atmosphere and personality factor into the equation as well.

I know and understand the logic of the rules. Having said that, we have some awesome personalities in the ladies on here and the chance to interact with them and get to know them means that I am more than likely to patronize them rather than an unknown quality. The ladies on here spend time and money in order for us to get to know them and I appreciate that fact. If there is an unknown out there that others are interested in, I'd love for those ladies to join the site and become a part of the family. If I don't meet someone from here, I'll have to do a bunch of homework, for sure. Cristy, I know where you're coming from. You certainly put in your time here and I do hope the effort pays off for all of the ladies on here.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=79955 Post Cristy is talking about:

Gentlemen, please.... Most men who consider themselves to be too small simply are not! Honest. You can trust me on this one: I'm sure I've seen, handled and otherwise engaged with far more penises of various dimensions than you have. :biggrin: Let's think about this, for a minute or two. Most women's vaginas are about five to five and a half inches long from entrance to cervix. A woman's g-spot is located about two inches inside her vagina. Many women do not have vaginal orgasms, but those of us who do don't need a penis to be especially long, or wide, to have one. Penises that are more than about six inches long when fully erect can be downright uncomfortable for many women. A lot of us don't like to feel anything banging against our cervixes and, if the man thrusts on an angle, he runs the risk of driving against an ovary, which is excruciatingly painful for the woman and will surely bring things to a sudden, unpleasant halt! If one is hoping to give an orgasm by rubbing the length of one's penis against the woman's clitoris, whether this is going to work or not has more to do with positions than with the size of the penis. If the woman is on top, she may be able to position herself or grind against the base of her partner's organ. Rubbing while in the missionary position rarely works. There are some men who have unusually small penises, it's true. But they are very few and far between. Those organs are usually fully functional, meaning that the owner can have very satisfying sexual contact, though he and his partner(s) may find that intercourse is not their most favourite act. Speaking for myself, alone, though I imagine that many women agree with me, penises are great, but what a man does with his hands, his tongue and, above all, his mind are the things that make the most difference.

I would like to jump on the bandwagon, I don't think you should advertise as GFE if you don't want to kiss, can't imagine any guy or girl having a girlfriend and not kissing them. As boomer said the beauty of this site is that you can communicate back and forth with SP's and pretty much know exactly what kind of experience you will have.

i like cato for being one of the most positive presence on cerb. when i see cato's name on a post i always make it a point to read it.

Thanks for these comments. The person is apparently using the phone to contact sp's and to try to make appointments, either saying he's me, or someone I've recommended. It's been going on for a month now, or more. Time to stop and move on, whoever you are.

Thank you so much for your words. I think seeing both sides of the fence is imperative in this business. There are too many variables when dealing with individuals not to. It's not like buying a suit. It's uncomfortable for a few seconds while being fitted and tailored, then you have an awesome suit. So yes, seeing it from a Hobbiests point of view was important to me. Thank you again.

I saw an interview with Minister Toews a couple days back, and he said that currently this information is given to the police without a warrant on a voluntary basis. This law would make it mandatory. But I can't imagine any Canadian ISP not voluntarily turning over this info if they were told it was part of an investigation into child pornography. However, I can see some insisting on a warrant if it appeared the police were targeting environmentalists, dissenters, or political opposition for the party currently in power. He also mentioned nothing about the requirement for ISPs and cell phone providers and such to provide "backdoor" access so the police can listen in, read people's email, and see where they're going online. I have been in Canada for thirty years. It was difficult at first for me to adapt to Canadian values, but these days, I'm an ardent supporter of them. (You won't catch me shopping on a Sunday. ;) ) The Harper Government's agenda seems devoid of the Canadian values I came to know and embraced. Is this the Canada we want?

I have been watching this play out like I said earlier. It has amused me to no end. But right now, I am more amused with American politics. Between my news sources and social media I feel like Im viewing a medieval sitcom of religion vs state. Honestly, I was never worried about C-30.

The trick is to own your own business - I have only had 2 jobs in my life. On my 4th business. Gives more control of capital and discretionary income.

The last thread I read ,dunn2012's bad decision thread,caused me to think and want to write this thread about my thoughts on the "biz". Lets face it the "escort","serviceprovider","prostitution" business is controversial,in general society,that is.Ask your average joe or joann what they think about the" biz" ,most won't give positive replies.No matter what your education,looks,lifestyle,if you work or play in the "biz"the average citizen will consider you "less than".Yes there are exceptions,but they are exceptions.Have you ever taken part in discussions to which the"biz" is being discussed?We are always refered to as protitutes or johns,never sp's,escorts,adult entertainers,hobbyists,ect.It's sad but no matter how educated you are,or attractive,quiet living,clean,when it is found out that you make a living in the"biz"most will vilify you,not want to be your friend,won't respect you,rent to you,or even want to live next to you.Even knowing that we are responsible,kind,honest,affluent, contributing members of society.Why,anyone have a good answer.

I like Gabriella, was not educated about sex work until university, and it really is a different world than I had been taught to understand. They call me a Hooker or Whore? No. I am a Companion. A Haven. I provide the ultimate in personal services. Many clients are looking beyond just a shag now, and into ... a girlfriend, a playmate. I love my job, because I make people smile, and feel better for a time. I am compensated for the happiness consultation we had. It's poetic no? We are therapists in a way. Muddled late night thoughts ;)

Get rid of AVG, and switch to Avast - http://www.avast.com I think - their free version requires once a year email registration, but theyve never mailed me, and the software is solid and plays nice with most systems!

The real discussion going on here is, "What did he say?" and "What did he mean by what he said?" Only the OP knows for sure... and he's not here. I'm not questioning the authenticity of the OP, but I do take exception to his dropping a "bomb" and then leaving the room. The reason so much is being read into his message is because he's not here to clarify his hurried message or resolve our misreading of it. When you're in such a rush to get out of town, keep your controversial thoughts to yourself, say a pleasant goodbye to everyone (if you must say something), and quietly move on.

Bob Dylan - Like A Rolling Stone "How does it feeeeeel?" The snare drum that kicks off this song is like a bullet. It leaves you wounded, yet teeming with adrenaline. This is an epic masterpiece that forever changed music. For me, this song is both nostalgic and immediate. The palpable outrage in Bob's seething delivery inspires me and the muscianship is raw, powerful and perfectly imperfect. This version in particular is a favourite. Recorded in his 1966 British Tour (usually mislabelled as the Royal Albert Hall show), this is from his fabled "Judas" moment. And really kicks into a high gear with the edict to "Play fucking loud!" http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WRk0nCP-rgw (Song starts about 1:00 in)

I let my dog eat rockets off my tongue. Her whiskers tickle. It started as a way to show my mom how sweet and trustworthy my dog was but now...... I do it all the time. *sigh* Posted via Mobile Device

Unchained Melody - The Righteous Brothers This song was playing when I made out with my very first love when I was 15. I haven't heard it in years. It always brings me back to him and my innocent days.lol.

Incalls are illegal, but not always prosecuted. If a prostitute takes a hotel room and uses it to conduct business, once two or more men have visited her, that room becomes "a common bawdy house," which it is illegal for her to keep. Note: it is not illegal for her to entertain one man in that room because one visit is not considered to be a sign of her habitual activity. In addition, even prostitutes are allowed to have personal lives, friends, families and lovers, so entertaining one visitor can easily mean that she's just living her normal, non-professional life. If the hotel becomes aware that a prostitute is renting a room and using it to conduct business, the hotel must evict her from the place because it is illegal for them to allow a bawdy house to operate on their premises. The hotel would be living on the avails of prostitution if they knowingly permit a prostitute to work there. It is perfectly legal for a prostitute to visit a man in a hotel room he has rented, however. For the most part, in Canada, four and five-star hotels are safe places to work very discretely. Despite the legal limits, it's still a fact that innkeepers and prostitutes have been in cahoots forever. We're good for each other's business, though I don't think we'll hear statements to that effect from hotel owners or managers anytime soon. Nonetheless, if you don't find charges related to someone keeping a common bawdy house at the Hotel Vancouver or the Royal York or the Chateau Laurier, don't imagine that prostitutes never take rooms there to work. We do. We behave very well: there's nothing to report! Many of the ladies who tour stay only in the best hotels because those places are also the most private and discreet. They have no need to be concerned that the front desk will slip up and give their names to anyone who inquires about the person in room 1225. Staff in these hotels do their best to be as invisible as possible unless invited to be otherwise. In general, unless the woman is calling attention to herself by having a high volume of clients visit her and/or hosting late-night engagements, her activities are likely to go unnoticed. But if she or her visitors disturb other hotel guests, that's where problems usually begin. The same goes for women who entertain clients in their homes or apartments.

Yesterday afternoon I got a chance to see Candy. She looks great, better in person, Yes better then in her Yummy Pictures. She has an amazing attitude and she is very easy to get along .You can chat with her just like if you knew her for years. I loved her service, she is good. Real good ! I plan on a repeat she is worth it big time. Please be good to her you will enjoy every minute with Yummy Stunning Candy. Wow..

Excluding the YMMV factor, I can tell you that in Montreal, you would be considered a 'fraud' if you actually advertised yourself as GFE and didn't even kiss. I guess each city has its own definition.

This topic has been fairly well covered by others in this thread, but I'd like to add that there isn't always another place to discuss ladies from other sites. Certainly, in Ottawa, Toronto and Montreal, there are a plethora of escort related sites, but in the Maritimes, Cerb is pretty much the only board with a lot of activity. Of course, it is always best when the ladies from the other sites join CERB to add to the discussion.

I have no issue with other members inquiring about ladies from other sites, boards, etc. I will agree that seeing the "has anyone met..." threads gets a little tiring after awhile but I would not say I have issue with them. Heck I am not much for funny cat threads but I acknowledge that they exist, others enjoy them and since they aren't violating Cerb rules they are allowed to exist. As with all threads that don't "float my boat" I have a right and ability to simply not read them and/or respond to them. Cristy, my advice in regards to the "has anyone met" threads is to simply ignore 'em if you don't enjoy them.

Oh you bad bad girl Cristy...ok, nuff scolding LOL Seriously, I thought along the same lines as you Cristy. Back in my earlier time on CERB there were posts have you seen this lady from CL, or this lady from another site etc etc. To me I thought recommending/reviewing ladies from other sites was not so much an issue of promoting non CERB ladies, but a case of escort sites not affiliated with CERB benefiting from CERB...if that makes sense But as has been explained, and explained to me then, this is a recommendation board, not just for recommending CERB SP's/MA's, but all SP's/MA's And just maybe a guy will see that gem of an SP/MA who isn't on CERB, and will then encourage her to join our community Don't worry Cristy, question isn't harsh, actually seems reasonable to me RG

Not really, this is a recco board. Its not only for cerb ladies, there are reccos for ladies that will probably never have a cerb account. In smaller places Im sure there are only a few if any cerb providers and more ladies on other sites or newspaper. Posted via Mobile Device

They smile when you hand them the envelope :) Peace MG

Update..well Daniel's review got me curious so after contemplating the photos, i ventured out of the sleepy suburbs and headed into OTown to see for myself. Naomi is shy in a cute way, yet fully embracing the session, sharing and exploring in a mutually satisfying way, exceptional GFE synergy. Reciprocity in spades. Don't know whether I would call my reaction lust or love LOL, with Naomi the experience simply blended into a perfect storm of satiation. It has been awhile (heady days of undergraduate) since I've shared something intensively memorable on a first meeting; my experience with Naomi is the exception. Daniel thanks for the recommendation.

:lol: too funny Many people stop thinking at HIV, and assume that is the only STD out there so only care about the transfer methods for HIV. Ignorance is bliss I suppose. http://lifelube.org/experts/comments.php?DiscussionID=25 As someone I have seen a couple of times before asked me recently can I do a bbbj, because as he says he is "clean". When I replied "How do you know?" and "When was you last test?" just a little smile, before I change the subject. Basically, "how do you know?" is you don't. Taking unnecessary risks because you think you know with a non-pro is one thing, but to do it with someone who is always and often taking those same risks with many other trusted individuals, has just increased your own risk level 1000x

I've met a number of above average guys who seem to think they are small. And some very large (often older fellas) who had no idea that they were very large. And seen some smaller when soft that triple in size when hard, then large when soft simply get hard with little size change.

Winnipegcub has great taste in Women!

I never knew about the information at the end of the film? Be sure to watch to the end. Incredible four-minute footage of a desperate Spitfire vs. ME-109 dual. You feel like you are there! Amazing computer work blended in with real photography. Also an interesting factual story that many did not know. History is rarely 'over'. Now sit back and strap on your parachute harness ... it is the Summer of 1940 over the skies of England . Listen to the perfect 'purr' of the Rolls Royce Merlin ... Watch this full screen. It's very well done. Click on the link below: http://player.vimeo.com/video/31202906?autoplay=1

If I'm attracted to you and have reason to believe that you're available, I will make sure you know I'm interested. Admittedly, I'm what some might call a bit "forward." But I figure that, not only is life short, it's also not a dress rehearsal! If I'm attracted to you, I will look at you directly, making eye contact. I will smile at you quite a bit. I may find excuses to touch your arm, your hand or your shoulder, or encourage you to be close to me, as in looking at a menu, a theatre program or even a package label together. I will make light banter, sprinkled with a couple of jokes, if I can. If I succeed at engaging your attention, I will laugh with you, too. If we're among a group of people, I may find an opportunity to give you, alone, a gesture or a look or to speak softly so that only you can hear what I say. If I really like you, I may let down my guard with you briefly, perhaps telling you something personal about myself that I don't share with others so quickly. That's an invitation for you to get to know me better. I confess that I find a measure of male uncertainty to be charming. If I'm attracted to you and realize that you're unsure about whether you're reading me accurately, I will take the initiative. I will tell you, directly, that I like you, that I think we may have things in common, that you seem like someone I would enjoy knowing better and so on. And I have no qualms about asking a man out. However, I will only take the initiative once. If the offer isn't accepted, I drop it. I may flirt with you a bit after that, but I tend to flirt with everyone. It will be up to you to take the next step to move things along. However, I won't stare at your crotch or your ass! Men are more than body parts to me and my attraction to a man has very little to do with his physical assets alone. Similarly, men who obviously stare at my breasts or, worse, talk to them, have no chance with me. If you want to let me know that you find me attractive and would like to know me better, engage with me. Pay attention to what I say and take me seriously. Don't compliment my looks much, if at all; if you do say anything, avoid generalizations and focus on a detail, such as the colour of my blouse or the shape of an earring. I know I'm an attractive woman: hearing that I'm lovely doesn't mean much to me, but that you've really noticed something does make an impression.

Unfortunately your right. And part of ignorance and stereotyping is labelling. Instead (and I'll use this lifestyle as an example) of ladies being referred to as ladies, terms such as whore, hooker, streetwalker, and prostitute are used. And guys, well referred to as johns. What does this have to do with anything. Well labelling allows for dehumanizing and marginalizing people, and not just society in general, but also police for example. This isn't minor btw. Why do you think it took so long, for example, to apprehend Picton. Because the mentality was that "it's only prostitutes", as if they were less than human." The police weren't looking to protect women, someone's daughter, mother, sister etc...the mindset was that these ladies were less worthy of police protection than mainstream society. And as a sidenote since entering this lifestyle seeing with my first encounter in July 2010, all I have met (even the four bad encounters) are ladies. I have yet to meet a hooker, whore, prostitute, or streetwalker A rambling RG

I like Dorinda, cause she is a dog lover and looks better than anyone in a white cotton shirt. (if only if it was one of mine) Cub

And in the same vein, it would be great not only if escorts were looked at in the same light as a banker, or other professional, but that guys weren't looked at as johns cruising up and down the street looking to "get off", but were in fact looked at as gentlemen, who have and do treat the ladies they see with respect. And that this lifestyle isn't an exploitive one, it is in fact mutually beneficial. RG

People resent prostitution because it forces them to confront the illogical, outdated, petty, and repressed attitudes they have about sex, love, family, and relationships. So rather than confront or examine their own ideas, they just bash whatever challenges those beliefs. There is no logical arguement against prostitution.

Oddly enough, it makes me think of the way gypsies were despised in Europe for the longest time, because they had no land to tie them down -- they just travelled and lived as they could. Being without land or a community fixed in one place was contemptible, and this deviation from the narrow-minded norm implied you were unprincipled, irresponsible, and untrustworthy. If you hadn't bought into the prevailing institutions, you were a threat the Order Of Things. You were shunned and chased out of the area. I think even today, a lot of our prevailing morals have outdated, conservative roots, and come from times when churches held sway, communities were small and struggling, human labour was our primary engine for getting anything done, and Earth Needed People. The relevant old-time attitudes here are: a) making more people is the only legitimate way to spend a life b) marriage is the solemn institution in which you must perform a) c) sex is reserved exclusively for marriage in order to gild that particular cage d) prostitution is a threat to c) as well as b), and must be publicly condemned. So prostitutes, if they were known publicly, got the same treatment as gypsies: condemned, hounded, chased away -- even at the hands of their former clients. After all, we all know how ancient and universal prostitution is; that condemnation I mention in d) is about public display, not private behaviour. But it's a deep-rooted reflex for a lot of people who don't think this stuff through for themselves. Happily we're starting to emerge from that outdated framework. Same-sex marriage is one of the spearheads being driven into the heart of that particular institutionalized view of relationships, and shows the triumph of real-world experience and the tide of public opinion over archaic and fossilized irrational attitudes. I'm optimistic.

I have to concur with the recommendation above. The only difference that I would note is that the FK leaned more to LFK than DFK - which incidentally is how she advertises it. Candy is a beautiful, intelligent young woman, and though I am just an occasional hobbier, I can't wait to spend more time with this gem.

I think mod says it best in the"why so much jealousy" thread,gfe is described well there,check it out.

Google also has a reverse image search now, similar to tineye, so it might be worth checking there as well http://www.google.com/insidesearch/searchbyimage.html

I think Summers answer sums up Gfe quite accurately. Although BBBJ seems to be still out there with some girls when they talk about GFE I understand it's a risky thing to offer. My only issue is that too many SP's are loosely throwing around the term and not providing anything more than full service. It's a slippery slope for sure...what I like about Cerb is most SP's if you PM them will tell you what their services are and you can decide from there...that's the beauty of this site.