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Yes E-C has an option of uploading a video...It is a professional video..Nothing to do with the request of the OP. Here on my site where it is crystal clear i don't offer it http://www.victoriajolie.ca/faq.htm If it is confusing for guys the ad of Escort-Canada maybe suggesting them to do it in a different way..So far only one person though that is what it mean. I do not appreciate that a member, i don't know, seeking validation by putting my name along with his request..As your post it lead people to think i offer this ...

Honesty can take you a long way on a date, just watch and see... http://dai.ly/yhaWmn

When I read an ad I'm looking to get to know the provider... Don't sell me, tell me ( there is a big difference) Be honest, tell me what you want me to know, don't compare yourself to others, this is your time tell me about you. And most importantly....

I read the entire tread and must say few things; education does not equal classy or upscale as they are many many people that have high education but could not attend to a bussiness function,a twelve courses dinner as they don't understand what well manner mean and have an hard time functionning socially. Also they are quite few people that own a phd/university degree and do not know when it is time to stay quiet as they are stepping in a field they don't know. I personally make grammar and spelling mistakes from time to time but my first language is french.Does it mean i oversell?I don't think so.. As personal wide knowledge is also a key.I also came accross few people that though that they were upscale,vip has they can write and romance perfectly in papers or on the internet but in fact they are snob.As someone that trully aquire that status would have no problem helping other instead of looking down on others Having higher rates or minimum of hours does not equal either been more upscale then an other...It just mean that you have evaluate your time at that price and leaning sometime to different goals. I always made a point to never say that i had an high education as i have no degre...There is no point for me to lie. To my opinion if you always have to remind people how classy and how the best you are,and also point out how your reviews reflect how great you are not only you are trying to convince yourself but all that surround you. Repeat and return clients is usually were you should have self gratification. VJ

So I gos into the store yesterday and they hand me a couple phone books.....so I do the old Steve Martin "Yay the new phone books are here the new phone books are here" .... they look at me like I am retarded......so I says "any of you seen the movie The Jerk ?".......once again they look at me like I am off my rocker! !... Hmmmmm Apparently I am old !!! I told the girls to talk among themselves and just forget I was there......next time I will joke about Harry Potter !! ;)

Well my appetite is coming back (didn't think Campbells Mushroom soup could be so good), a sign I'm starting to recoup from this viral infection I should be well enough (touch wood) to head back to work sometime this week...never thought I'd say it, but I miss work RG

In order for this post to not break any of the rules on cerb it needs to be started by a guy (Not a SP or it's considered advertising outside the ANNOUNCEMENTS area) so I am adjusting the post as council and I think this post is valuable to the members and was not meant as a self promotion but in the future it would be best if the guys lead these types of posts so no one gets the wrong idea and cry's foul.

READ!!!! Don't book an appt and THEN ask for donation requirements, restrictions etc... I would say that most ladies either post their info in their ads and if not they include links to their websites. Some of us utilize the "about me" tab to explain as much as we can. Don't be lazy...get your ducks in a row and everyone will have a much more satisfying time!

Nope- pubic hair doesn't repel blow jobs, poor hygiene does. Pubic hair doesn't decide whether or not I give blow jobs, in my professional or personal life, and never defines the quality of service ;) Many SPs are just not that judgemental if they like you! xoxooxxo Amelia

No i didn't take personally but couldn't help to write about as i know it is a minus to be somehow in my situation as the first thing i get strike for is my writting yet in all canada i have seen people where it is the mother language and do mistake i can see myself..I have struggle the last few years to improve i am self aware of it and have take a long time to modify my site with the help of many ladies and clients(big thank you to all of you) Using different word to qualify yourself is an advertising tool to my personal opinion...When one want to know more about me they take time to go to my website and then judge xxVJ

I "manscape" on a very regular basis as I am quite particular with my appearance. I refuse to let the lawn grow at all and the same applies for all areas that require edging or weed whacking. Ha ha

I keep mine trimmed and groomed as well. I also do yard work!

Umm, I know I'm new to this site too, but it strikes me as odd that a member since 2008 would make this their first post now. Am I missing something? (Apologies, not intending to hijack...)

I'm married and didn't really care if she noticed or not. I planned to tell her that I thought she might like something different. I'd look like a porn star and it seemed to create the illusion of being bigger - surprise honey :) I was hoping that if I kept the playground neat and tidy that it might get more use. That didn't work. Nor did the myriad of other things I've tried. So here I am.

A couple (friends of ours) many years ago mentioned this was a must for him as he was a city bus driver and found it beneficial (less sweat, cleaner), etc. and his good wife was always sure to help him with such grooming. Hasn't made my SO suspicious. Sometimes I am 36 hours "en route" to somewhere at the other side of the world and most airports don't have shower facilities. While I never feel "right" going that long without a shower, it does help a bit. Also if you are an office worker (or a bus driver) and spend a lot of time sitting... If you have an SO that will assist then best get her to and then she won't be surprised and wonder why this is so, at least not near as much. As always best place to hide is in plain view.

I keep the grass well trimmed. I figure it certainly looks better, and have more than few ladies make comments on the fact that I do so. If expect a woman to keep everything trim, the out of respect to them I do the same. It is the gentlemanly thing to do. :)

If they are married, have an S/O and never shave or cropped and then suddenly start doing it, even if they don't have sex on a regular base...the partner will start to question that is for sure:D

After re-reading through this thread, I decided to sit down and do the math on what I spent last year on hobbying...it was a shocking to say the least!!! Worked out to be around the $11,000 mark!!! I had budgeted in my head last year around the 8 to 9000 mark, but a trip for 12 days to The Netherlands killed that!!! So worth it though. I've pretty much budgeted around the 8 to 9000 mark again this year, but I am planning a month long surfing trip to Australia in September. With legal prostitution, that'll kill it once again!!! Plus if work takes me back to The Netherlands again, there's another 2 to 3 grand I wasn't expecting to spend. Can't resist a little window shopping in Amsterdam! ;)

I agree 100% with you Backrubman. I too am disappointed when trying to book visiting ladies and find out that they are booked.. only to discover later while chatting with them that they had unplanned cancellations from new clientele. While we all have our situations where we have had to cancel, but at least being respectful enough and giving notice to our favourite ladies of having to cancel is only proper so they can replace such appointments. And if the deposit requirements for new clients will assist the ladies, then I agree with Sophia's approach. She, as do all successful ladies, have a business to take care of, and therefore must ensure that she is maximizing the visits that she desires with new and existing clientele. Great idea Sophia- hopefully it assists in ensuring you continue to visit and provide the excellent companiionship that we have all come to know so well!!

We new exactly what he wanted,some of us were just having a little fun with the original post!:boobies: Recommending Ottawa providers in the Wpg section isn't helpful either!:biggrin:

You're running a bunch of errands and find yourself eating while driving because you don't have time to sit down. While driving, you make a sudden turn and end up choking on a carrot stick so badly that you can't breathe. And you are still driving. You pull over still lodged with a carrot stick in your throat and can't breathe through your nose because you have severe allergies and are stuffed up. You stop, open the door and start coughing as if you were coughing up a lung. People are staring but just think you're sick and not choking and continue to walk by. Suddenly the carrot stick flies out of your mouth and lands on the dashboard of the car without any notice. And the next day, you lose your regular voice and now have a husky one similar to Demi Moore's. Never choked like that ever in my life! Very scary!

Was your opinion asked for, or are you chipping in uninvited? Can you say nothing, or have you been put on the spot? Can you be tactful rather than brutally honest? What sort of relationship do you have with the person you're talking to? What sort of relationship would you like have with the person you're talking to? How much do you care about hurting them in the immediate future? And in the long run? How much do you care about their well-being, both now and in the long term? How good or bad will you feel about lying? Or getting the truth out there? Are we talking about an objective truth, or just your opinion? How much does it matter? To you? To them? To others? What are the likely consequences of the unvarnished truth, or tactful version of it, or a white lie, or an absolute whopper? And when you've answered all those questions... what makes you think I'll have a clue what you should do anyway? Or that the right answer for me is also the right answer for you? We all have to make these decisions, sometimes in a split second and without warning. Nobody said it was easy.

Just like the motto of this site says:If you don't have anything nice to say...say nothing at all. That's what i was taught growing up as well..so sometimes the truth is best left unsaid especially if it's going to hurt someone.

This topic always bothers me as photos are a personal choice.This is my second time in this business and what I have learned is like any other successful business a person may run, the old saying "you have to spend money, to make money" is very true. Yes all my photos are professional, yes they are all shot to make me look my best, and yes they are 100% me. They were worth every penny I spent and I will only use photos that are shot by a professional. The whole object of professional or glamour shots is to find a photographer that will keep you - you. (hence the reason I have flown on 2 occasional across the country for photos) I look natural and real in my photos, and I feel better than any cell phone photo would. I want potential clients to see that I invest in myself (website, photos, blog, well maintained (ie: hair, nails,etc) I treat being Emily as if it were any other job that I may have, as in I give 110%. Why should I expect a client to invest in my if I have not invested in myself? The only comment I keep getting about my photos is that I look better in person(this is from men and women), so on that note i will always and only have professional photos done. (look at Victoria Jolie, Emma Alexandra, Keissy Hennessey, Gabriella Laurence, Charlotte Sinclair, Amelia Middleton and Dorinda Bloom) Those are several examples of real tasteful professional photos and all the above women look as good in person as in their photos) At the end of the day professional photos have a bad rep, one that I hope ladies like myself and others who invest in professional photos will help change.

If an SP is using words or phrases such as "top notch", "the Best", etc it usually is an indication that they are trying to oversell their services and a tall order to live up to if you ask me. If a potential client falls for this sort of advertising, they are bound to be disappointed. There is a reason a person will look at your ad. Something obviously caught their eye but if it is something like "I am the best", they may or may not believe it. Then again what is considered the best? The words "classy", "VIP", "Elite" are often overused in my opinion and once again a way to make clients believe they are offering something that may be better. Now I know many SPs use this words and many may provide a great experience for clients while others just tend to throw it in there. It's just like the term GFE used in advertising which may or may not be true. All of these terms are common within the adult industry. I find the best way to describe yourself is by being genuine. While we as SPs are offering a fantasy, if you let your audience know who you are as a person while describing your attributes in a way that reflects on your services, you will definitely create a buzz where they will want to know more. This will lead to more bookings. Everyone is intuitive to a certain extent and they can hone in on what is considered phony or fake. Your advertising should clear, concise and above everything else, keep it real! Be yourself and you will reap the rewards.

Gentlemen, please.... Most men who consider themselves to be too small simply are not! Honest. You can trust me on this one: I'm sure I've seen, handled and otherwise engaged with far more penises of various dimensions than you have. :biggrin: Let's think about this, for a minute or two. Most women's vaginas are about five to five and a half inches long from entrance to cervix. A woman's g-spot is located about two inches inside her vagina. Many women do not have vaginal orgasms, but those of us who do don't need a penis to be especially long, or wide, to have one. Penises that are more than about six inches long when fully erect can be downright uncomfortable for many women. A lot of us don't like to feel anything banging against our cervixes and, if the man thrusts on an angle, he runs the risk of driving against an ovary, which is excruciatingly painful for the woman and will surely bring things to a sudden, unpleasant halt! If one is hoping to give an orgasm by rubbing the length of one's penis against the woman's clitoris, whether this is going to work or not has more to do with positions than with the size of the penis. If the woman is on top, she may be able to position herself or grind against the base of her partner's organ. Rubbing while in the missionary position rarely works. There are some men who have unusually small penises, it's true. But they are very few and far between. Those organs are usually fully functional, meaning that the owner can have very satisfying sexual contact, though he and his partner(s) may find that intercourse is not their most favourite act. Speaking for myself, alone, though I imagine that many women agree with me, penises are great, but what a man does with his hands, his tongue and, above all, his mind are the things that make the most difference.