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Today, I would like to show tribute to Catherine St. Claire (aka Cat). A Goddess in every sense of the word. A lady with beauty, brains, finesse and sensuality.

Everyone who is seriously involved in the activities of this community has their own reasons for doing so. But it came to me that on the Client side, I would offer yet one more reason. Drug-free reality therapy! Let me explain. A serious issue has come up with my family in the States. The details are not important (except to me). Let it suffice to say that I am in the process of losing someone dear to me and that process will be long and drawn out. Not good. I took a week off to go down and address this situation. This was a difficult, emotionally draining experience. When I got back, I wanted to just take a bit of time to escape from reality. I don't do drugs. Scotch is nice but didn't quite seem to be the right thing. Then it hit me. I arranged a lovely session with one of CERB's finest. I had an experience completely detached from everything in my "real" life. During our encounter, there was nothing but her and me. Nothing existed outside of that room. I had fun. She had fun. There was humor. There was erotica. There was pleasure. When our time reached that point to which all good things must come, the end, there were loving hugs and kisses. Regenerated and refortified, I went through the door back into my life such as it is. A wonderful thing. I would recommend it to everyone.

We haven't had a goddess for a bit, so today's goddess is... Soleil! Those of you who've been around for a bit (and probably those who haven't, for that matter) wont' need telling how much fun and good vibes she brings to the board. And those of you who have had the pleasure of meeting her definitely won't need telling that this is nothing compared to what she's like in person! The only downside is... she's a long way away...

I have the triple threat....topical/ingestible/respiratory The topical is serious, the ingestible is life threatening and the respiratory is a MAJOR inconvenience. I ensure that I take my meds daily and research the places that I may or may not visit prior to making a plan for my day. Anyone with allergies of any kind are the ones responsible for their well being. I am not trying to diminish the concerns of the OP but your health is your priority and therefore your responsibility. Simple questions will keep you safe and healthy! It is no one's responsibility other than your own to ensure your health. A pet in an incall is a reasonable situation and therefore you should enquire prior to booking. People with allergies need be vigilant; those around us are aloud to be ignorant!

I appreciate it when pets are mentioned on outcalls. I love animals, but it's come as a surprise when walking in to a home and a big dog comes out of nowhere. Always, always, should be mentioned.

I've been mulling over whether to start a thread on this or not. On one hand it is somewhat personal, but this has had a major, positive change on the quality of my life, and maybe it can help someone else To start off with, I have a medical condition requiring prescription drugs. One of the drugs was discontinued and replaced with another drug. The side effect of this new drug, well erections were hit and miss, mostly miss And it's not an understatement to say that if I don't these prescriptions, it is almost a life and death decision, and no, I'm not being melodramatic ED drugs (viagra etc) I can't take. I was originally told by my doctor it's because of my prescription, but later, he told me that because of a history of strokes in my family, ED drugs can't be prescribed. I basically resigned myself to living with erections hit and miss But awhile back Soleil posted about l-arginine. And thank you so much Soleil. I did some research, went to my doctor, he checked, no interactions with my prescription and recently I got the ok to use it. What l-arginine does is help circulation amongst other things, including to the penis. And it doesn't have all the negative side effects as viagra My specific case may not be the same as someone else's, but if someone on CERB has a ED problem, and the usual drugs can't be used, check into l-arginine. And ladies, if you have a client in the same predicament, let him know. I know it has improved the quality of my life. L-Arginine can be purchased in stores selling supplements, like GNC. If this helps but one person, the post is worthwhile. It has certainly improved the quality of my life, more than one can imagine RG

Last night I had an appointment with a well reviewed SP from PK. I arrived at the hotel only to find that there was a dog in the room. I'm highly allergic and had to leave immediately. The SP was gracious and understanding. However I did think that all agencies should mention this upon booking. I always ask indies working out of their homes about pets. I never thought that this would happen with a reputable agency that uses hotels. Anyways it was a real waste of my time and it was too late to go to a Plan B as the agency no longer was answering calls.

I don't think it was the OP's "fault" per se, but if he is that allergic to animals it's something that should be mentioned no matter what, as this is something that could come up regardless if there was an animal present or not. If this was an issue on a regular basis I would say it would be something to consider. But seeing that this is the first time in years that we have had an issue, it's not something that is really an issue of major concern. It's not like the 5lb Chihuahua was running loose. It was in a crate in another room. Frig you could hide it in her G-string and you probably would even notice it. LOL Mountain out of mole hill gentlemen.

Yes, the encounter is very intimate and personal. But what you are getting besides the intimacy and very personal encounter is the no strings, no drama, no complications for the donation. If you truly consider the lady a friend, or more, why would you try to shortchange a friend by having free dinner dates, and so on. The lady is doing this for her livelihood. I have made, what I consider, some friends with benefits, for lack of a better term in this lifestyle. But that doesn't mean I get free dates...no. And no, I'm not looking for a free date, to me that would be one of the most disrespectful things I could ask from a lady. What it does mean is the lady and I have got to know one another, through repeated encounters, and are more relaxed and comfortable, enjoying talking about personal matters in our respective lives for example. And the ladies I have met are every bit as important to me in my life as are other people (family, friends) in my life, it's just that I have to compartmentalize this aspect of my life. But at the end of the day all ladies I see would always receive their full donation. And all boundaries respected, including the fact that at it's core, irrespective of the intimate interpersonal aspect of this lifestyle, this is the lady's livelihood, and I'm not going to shortchange any lady of her income RG

What I have come to notice since starting out as an independent is that as an SP I am providing a service to the customer. I am offering my time and my companionship for a fee and that is what you have come to me for. End of story. Some men seem to get confused once the initial date has ended. Our job is to provide you a wonderful experience because that is what you came to me for and what you are paying for. Once in awhile you get the men who get confused because we did such a good job they misunderstand the professional experience for a personal one. Sometimes sex can complicate things for people and emotions can get wound up when something feels good. We do not go into this job wanting to make friends on a personal level or looking to have people take us out to dinner. We already have friends and people we spend time with when we are not doing the work we have outlined with you. Although our professional work is pleasure, our initial meaning is you do not mix business with pleasure. Some men don't see the harm in asking and get offended when we say no. But for every man that does ask think how many have asked before you? If we did choose to accept every offer where we are going on dates as ''friends'' we would not be able to accept the offers of the people who are offering to pay for the service. For the most part there is no need to become ''friends'' with your SP. It is great to have a professional relationship with your SP/MA but why would we do what your are asking because you want it on a friendship level, when we are offering the exact same thing to others for the exchange of payment. I know when I get the offer for that experience to me it sounds as if you just don't want to have to pay for the effort and experience I put into every encounter. It complicates something that should be a very non-complicating event. It makes us feel not so good about the situation because once an offer has been extended for a free dinner, if we say no do we now lose you as a client? If I say yes do you expect every time to be a ''friendly'' encounter? It's best that when the time is up you both go back to the way things were until the next time you choose to see your preferred SP.

When you have severe allergies it very much is a safety issue.

My CERB Goddess Of The Day today is Jhena Grey. A lady who makes positive contributions to CERB, and one I've played with (the music threads and word game that is :-) ) Jhena's Profile http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=62047 Here's a photo of the lovely Jhena Oh ok, here's a second one :-) RG

Time for another goddess, I think. This time, someone I was lucky enough to meet last time she was in this neck of the woods... Katherine! Katherine is great fun to be around... lots of energy, sparkling conversation - and that come though in her posts here too! And also she's verrry sexy. But don't take my word for it:

... okay it's not such a secret. I LOVE this lady. Whenever we speak, she makes me smile from ear to ear. When I see her pics, it makes my heart go pitter pat. When I met her, I KNEW that all of my thoughts about her were absolutely accurate. She is the one and only.... Dorinda Bloom http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=D&t=10304 Miss ya hun!!!! xoxox

The highlight of my week was being able to finally go fishing with Roaming Guy. His wife Gabriella was kind enough to let me fill in her for her (if she doesn't want to be a summer fisherman's wife widow she has to always tag along and after weeks of being out on the lake, on Monday it gave her a much needed break for me to accompany RG). After those hours of casting and reeling, we never caught a darn thing. Even though RG claims that he never leaves the lake without at least one small mouth bass and a walleye. Now I know the secret as to why he's a better fisherman than Lee Richards. Behind every good fisherman is a good fisherman's wife. Next time you can show me how it's done girl, so we can have a better picture to take than what we managed to muster up using a net.

That's a sensible point, Aubrey, but it might just be inexperience. If an SP is only thinking about getting more clients, rather than about getting repeat clients, it might simply not have occurred to her. Any SP on CERB will be well aware of the importance of reputation. An SP who is using a paper or virtual equivalent of classified ads is likely still just thinking "well, let's see whether THIS wording attracts more inquiries".

YUMMY!!!! I just got a Magic bullet, just made a smoothy:) Berries, fruit, yogurt and a scoop of protien powder! So yummy and healthy, I can feel the nutrience being absorbed right away! Later this afternoon, perhaps a bit of rum in it would be nice too!

I saw her in Regina earlier this week as it worked out she was available when I visited there. Extremely voluptuous as advertised with a refreshing attitude as she is fairly new to the business. Normally my endurance is fairly strong but her figure so took my breath away I had no chance if you know what I mean. Definite repeat. Feel free to pm for more info.

Again to clarify, the client, along with any of her other clients were made aware of the dog situation when they arrived. I guess the fact that she has been working for over a month, and seen numerous clients and has had zero complaints about herself or her dog led us to believe there was no issue. The hotel is pet friendly, and again it wasnt a pit bull or a rotweiller.. It was a CHIHUAHA. (5lbs) In a crate, in a separate room. I understand allergies, and if that was the case then of course the client would be in a bad place. But then leads the question, what if a previous client owned a dog(s) and the dander got on the linen? Or the SP herself owned a pet and left her home to go to work and had the hair/dander on her? Personally if I had extreme allergies I think it would put the onus on myself to let ppl who were serving me on notice for the allergies. Not just for the fact there might be a dog, but anything else that would trigger me. We have clients that let us know about scent sensitivities and the SPs act accordingly to either remove their perfumes, along with anything else that could be a trigger. Anyhow I think for the future Explorer69 knowing the allergy issues you have, perhaps you could remind the phone person of this and it would make things more comfortable for you. I can say for sure, many sps own dogs or cats. They could be sure to keep their clothing and such more "petless".

When I see my lawyer, it's his time that counts, not the purpose I see him. Sometimes it is only to make sure I dont miss something, and sometimes it's for more complex issues. At the end, his invoice is more expensive for simple matters, because I took more of his time. In my view, when I want to see a SP, it is the same; I see her, and what purpose has nothing to do with the invoice I will receive. Everything is about her time. Period.

Don't get me wrong, I appreciate all the help!! I was just curious.

I have been a regular of Kelly since she was located on Kent Street and was almost heart broken when she went back to China... I am glad that she came back to Ottawa and that she continues to work on my aching muscles, I would have to say that if you have not experienced a "firm massage" from Kelly then you don't know what you are missing... Kelly has been my favorite for a long time... Totally relaxed and weak in the knees sums it up! Rodehard

Highlight of my day: Meeting Lee Richards. Actually, highlight of my week!

Just a reminder that if ANYONE offers you a discount or deal of any kind for a positive review/recommendation on cerb please REPORT them to me! ONLY give recommendations to those who deserve it. If you get caught posting a FAKE recommendation then it will be seen as a SHILL and your account would be banned (along with the person who is making these deals) If someone posts here offering a discount for recommendations I will issue them ONE warning and only ONE warning. Integrity of the recommendations is important to all of us. If anyone feels a recommendation is not justified please PM me and let me know. If enough people PM me I will REVOKE the recommendation in question and possibly remove the person if I feel they posted it as a SHILL.

My CERB Goddess Of The Day today is Dorinda Bloom. Another lady I have yet to meet but is on my to meet list. Beautiful and a contributor to this community. Here's what some gentlemen have to say about Dorinda http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=D&t=10304 A Photo Of The Lovely Dorinda oh ok, a second pic RG

Strutting around naked in the central air :)

Ass Tits Ass Tits Ass Tits God, I can't make up my mind. Why do women ask us these questions.

If it is a date with the idea of leading to a relationship, then I really think the lady should initiate and ask the gentleman out, to make it clear it is a social date, not a paid encounter. When a gentleman asks asks a SP out it is going to be seen as a client asking a SP for an encounter, with the lady receiving compensation for her time I'm not saying a relationship couldn't develop between a SP and Client, but I don't think one should enter into this lifestyle expecting a relationship beyond that of SP and Client. It complicates what is supposed to be uncomplicated. RG

There is. And I value these regulars very much. It is my thought; that this time is more for the soul rather than the mind and body. Studies done on primates regarding non-sexual touch, socialization and the lack of, indicates that we need this activity as humans on several levels besides cerebral. Being a big fan of hugging, I will get into your space and give you one. None of this European kiss kiss on each cheek. If I know you and it's appropriate I will genuinely hug you, as thats how I say hello. I know some Ladies offer this. Additional Comments: Odd?? Having you ask me to dance with a goat might be considered a little odd. But please never feel this service weird or think that it's odd. It's not. :milleunenuit:

MRGREEN Thank you for letting me know that at least you have some awareness of some principles in the arts of erotics, why are the great lovers in this world so rare? I think although sex it is one of the most searched after activities most people do not bother to read about sexuality neither care to find out the likes and dislikes of their sexual partners. I will never understand how come some people study to become lawyers engineers and politicians, but most people will not bother reading about sexual intelligence, it is so sad and as a result most people are zero lovers. I think good sex requires some knowledge and fitness and finess and self awareness and generosity, if one is self centred sex cannot be any good right? But generous guys are the best lovers. Not generous in a financial sense but in a emotional attentive and sexual sense.

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