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Okay, really nothing kinky or sexual or even remotely hard, it will only take 15 seconds of your time. My really good friend is finalist for a contest and the votes finish tomorrow at noon, the only thing you have to do is vote for her (Natalie from Toronto) today and tomorrow to help her. It mean a lot for her, it will actually really improve her career as an illustrator to have such exposure, you don't need to sign up for anything, they don't send you newsletters. Just a click http://www.fluevog.com/code/fc_finalists.php thanks<3

She won! Woot woot! Thank you SO much everyone, I know you made a difference:D

You will be missed greatly. You have helped me personally a great deal over the years and I always valued your opinion and contributions, i hate to see you go and hope one day you come back (your always welcome back). Best wishes.

Why don't you TOFFT and then write your own recommendation?

Although it is totally normal and understandable to develop genuine caring feelings for gentlemen we truly like and see every so often (and vice versa), the bounderies ARE clear- the exchange of money for companionship takes care of that all by itself. Ladies do want repeat clients BUT not clients who are going to let themselves cross emotional bounderies. After all, this lifestyle is all about NSA 'relationships' without all the drama, headaches and complications a real relationship can bring. Once your vision starts to get blurred (client or companion), it is time to pause and re-evaluate the mutual-beneficial relationship. Personally, I believe a professional companion, with just a little respect for others and herself, would not 'milk' a client for all he has before putting an end to the situation (even tough that client represents a certain income). Everybody needs money to live but money is not all that matters in life.

Actually Angela and Cat were with me on the last voyage of the boat before it went up to the marina to be sold Seriously, it was a hard decision, but done on advice of my financial planner. But once the decision made to sell, I want it sold. I'll miss the boat, but I won't miss the monthly payments on my line of credit. Just hoping the guy gets financing to buy the boat...keeping my fingers crossed RG

The answer to this problem is so simple it probably doesn't even occur to you. Emotional transference is always a hazard but it really can't truly happen in one visit. Keep in mind that that there are a million women out there that would have a similar effect on you (you just haven't met them yet) so pull the rip cord while you still can and never go back for more. Harsh -- I know, but truly good advice in the end.

Hilarious feeds on twitter today...I know with all the dirty minds here on cerb, we can do better! Name your dick after a movie! What would it be? Examples for you: The wood The Titanic - Just because so many people went down on it What women want Free willy The Pacifier I am Legend Lethal Weapon Hahaha Now your turn....

I've been mulling over whether to start a thread on this or not. On one hand it is somewhat personal, but this has had a major, positive change on the quality of my life, and maybe it can help someone else To start off with, I have a medical condition requiring prescription drugs. One of the drugs was discontinued and replaced with another drug. The side effect of this new drug, well erections were hit and miss, mostly miss And it's not an understatement to say that if I don't these prescriptions, it is almost a life and death decision, and no, I'm not being melodramatic ED drugs (viagra etc) I can't take. I was originally told by my doctor it's because of my prescription, but later, he told me that because of a history of strokes in my family, ED drugs can't be prescribed. I basically resigned myself to living with erections hit and miss But awhile back Soleil posted about l-arginine. And thank you so much Soleil. I did some research, went to my doctor, he checked, no interactions with my prescription and recently I got the ok to use it. What l-arginine does is help circulation amongst other things, including to the penis. And it doesn't have all the negative side effects as viagra My specific case may not be the same as someone else's, but if someone on CERB has a ED problem, and the usual drugs can't be used, check into l-arginine. And ladies, if you have a client in the same predicament, let him know. I know it has improved the quality of my life. L-Arginine can be purchased in stores selling supplements, like GNC. If this helps but one person, the post is worthwhile. It has certainly improved the quality of my life, more than one can imagine RG

any other Sps in this neck of the woods? with there being 5 thousand people at tunneys campus you'd figure this would be a great place for an SP business wise. Kendra is gone, and I think SexyAdrianna (clariealridge) as well.

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There is no better word for it because it's so raw. That's why it's a great word to use. I have no guilt about swearing in the happy of the moment. Mental and verbal stimulation are perfect ingredients for great sex aside from the physical aspect of it. I suppose there is a time and place for everything but then again I've always had a potty mouth.;)

Well it sounds like you had a great time ! I think it is great that you are thinking about her lots. I am sure that is exactly what most ladies want. A very happy repeat customer :) That makes them happy ! Your dilemna is the cashola issue. Save save save and be happy. Keep with the budget though !!! Any lady I have met would not want you to spend money that you shouldn't if it is going to cause problems in your life. My two cents. Good Luck !

...in no particular order. First up: if you're going to blog, I'd strongly suggest that you do so regularly. That doesn't mean that you have to post every day, or even every week... but if people come back to see nothing new too often, they'll just stop coming back. If you're going to take a planned break, leave a post to say when you'll be back (and then make sure you start posting again when you said you would). And remember the cynic's golden rule: if at first you don't succeed... destroy all evidence that you tried. :) Seriously, there's nothing sadder than a link to "my blog" that's been abandoned after half a dozen posts, the last of which was months or years ago. On the "would I read it" question... yes, I'd absolutely read an interesting blog by someone I knew from CERB! Although I must admit that I don't particularly go looking for them, and there are quite possibly some gems out there that I'm unaware of (like yours, Nathalie), so ladies: maybe adding a link to it in your post sig or on your profile would be an idea? I've read blogs by various sex workers in the past, although I don't read any at the moment - and the ones I used to read were primarily because they were good blogs by people with interesting things to say, rather than the fact that they were about sex work. I still read quite a few blogs - some are daily visits - but they're in other areas of life. As for what to post... well, yes, it depends. How much of yourself do you wish to reveal? Is this really a personal thing, or part of your overall marketing? How do you want to come across to readers: do you want to stick to positive/interesting stuff, or are you going to be melancholy and/or negative if you feel like it? And if so, does that just make you a more well-rounded and realistic person, or does it imply a "take me as I am, or not at all" attitude to potential clients? If you really get into it, perhaps you should have a "professional" blog on your website and run another blog under a different pseudonym for the stuff that doesn't gel with the image you wish to present to current and potential visitors? Of course, there's no "right" answer to any of this; it depends hugely on who you (really) are, how much of that you wish to project in your SP alter ego, and how you wish yourself to be perceived.

Well seeing as this thread is re-emerging again, I'll chime in again. First, if you really want to see great ladies then drive to the city they are in. If the city they are in is St. John drive (or take a bus etc) to see them. I'm all too familar with driving up to 3 1/2-4 hours to see a lady, along with my hotel costs etc so saying it's too far, well if I was in NB I'd sure find a way to get to St Johns to see great ladies. Second, remember the lady has expenses (flight, hotel, meals incidentials etc) to come to a city. If you book an encounter she is coming to the city based on committments made by gentlemen to see her. And she isn't doing it to meet the man of her dreams, she is doing this to have an encounter with a paying client, because this is her livelihood. Sitting around in a hotel room without paying clients coming in isn't just making no money, she is in fact going in the hole. Her profit/loss statement from a business point of view is straight loss. Why should any lady operate at a loss? Now life happens, to everyone...but it sounds like life happens all the time to the guys in Moncton. And this is based on what various ladies have said, it appears systemic not isolated. Now life has happened to me too. I had to cancell at the last minute due to illness an encounter I had planned with a great lady. My illness, and not an excuse, I was really sick, prevented me from travelling and having the encounter. Why should the lady be at a loss business wise because of me. It wasn't her fault I was sick. So I paid her in full for the encounter (I had the money already set aside for the encounter) via email money transfer. I wasn't out any money. That money was budgeted for the encounter. I cancelled the encounter, not the lady. She should be compensated so from a business point of view her trip, even though I was a no show for my alloted time, is a profit, not a loss. And I didn't consider paying the money a loss, I considered it the right thing to do I assume guys when they schedule an encounter have budgeted the money for it. If you are a no show pay her. Your failure to show, no matter how valid a reason, shouldn't be at the lady's expense Maybe if the ladies weren't out of pocket coming to certain cities, they'd come back. And perhaps the next time life happens to you, you will make sure the lady isn't at a business loss because of it, you will compensate her for your failure to show BTW not directed at any specific person, but something guys might want to consider RG

If you have the time and the inclination to put your thoughts down Nathalie, it all helps to get to know you. Personally the better I feel I know an escort, the more likley I am to arrange a meeting. I like to know what books a person likes to read, or indeed if she likes to read, or what music she listens to, what annoys her and what makes her happy. It all helps to turn two dimensional photos into real people. Websites certainly fullfill some of that, but are not updated often, postings on CERB may be more frequent, but they are generally scattered across the site. I think a blog does need to be updated fairly regularly though, at least every couple of weeks, if it is to be relevant, but the good news is that the update don't need to be long. Or if this puts too great a strain on your time there is always Twitter.

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Geeze RG. That's kind of drastic isn't it. Just because Angela got shut out doesn't mean you had to get rid of the boat. :) We have great faith in your fishing ability!

This thread is really hitting home with me. My name is crankF, and I am a swearaholic. I'm not offended by some vulgarity in most cases, I just try not to do it myself. Futileresistenz reminded me of my gran's swear jar when I was small, it didn't do me much good. Backrubman reminded me how much I hate being called 'honey' by waitstaff and other teenagers in the workforce. I do however, like being called 'Hunny' by Cerb. ladies! But I digress. Boomer's advice is spot on, I won't repeat it. Amelia's replacement words are a great idea. As crazy as this seems, I was helped by watching the 1984 movie 'Johnny Dangerously', a 1930's gangster spoof with Michael Keaton and I as I recall, Joe Piscopo. They called each other 'cork soakers', 'bastages',and 'fargin ice-holes'. I still say those under my breath if peed off. Alcohol can trip me up however, after a few drinks F-bombs fly. A favorite watering hole has a swear jar that I've enriched at times. All that being said, I'd certainly like to hear Amelia's potty-mouth in person someday!

Welcome back Berlin! And great job on the interview with CBC in February!

WIT, I am sure you have put a lot of thought into this decision. I wish that you would not leave, but only you can say if this is the right thing for you or not. I have from the beginning of my profile here, have looked up to you greatly! You are everything I love about cerb! You have helped so many here, including me. I am forever grateful for meeting you, wish we had more time to get to know each other! Who knows, maybe you will leave us...then miss us too much and come back, heheheh...one can wish right? Please take good care of yourself! Enjoy all the wonderful splendor your life can offer:) Much love to you, xoxoxo

Im going to host a poly party so maybe we can work it around when you plan on coming to the island and we can be the two ladies

Thanks for the props on my debonair style, and if this had been a situation that would have called for that, I would have obliged. However.. not the case. If this been dealt with properly from the beginning by the OP and instead of posting this stupid thread, along with sending me a link to it, just to rub our nose it, he would have had a much better response and result. However this wasn't the route he wished to take. Maybe it made him feel better I don't know. But one thing is for sure, if is this is how he felt he would get some kind of appology from us he is sorely mistaken. At this time, I think it would be in everyones best interest if he didn't use our service, and in the future he be clear about his allergies to his service providers. Being in this business (successfully) for 7 years+ in Ottawa says alot, and one thing I can assure everyone is brown-nosing clients is a recipe for disaster in this industry. We have built our very sucessful name and business on making sure we back the ladies that work with us, without them there would be nobody for you guys to see. If there is a legitmate issue, (which I will agree it was in this case) we normally try to alleviate the problem somehow. But taking an approach like this, will just make him look like a douche and really undesirable as a client to any of the ladies. (who would want to risk seeing him, and piss him off and have to go through this again? Really?) I know some of you won't like this response, but really it is the only way to make clear where we stand. Yes we want your business, but on the condition you act like gentlemen. And this wasn't a gentlemanly thing to do, hence the less than friendly response. Please read this response carefully, because if it doesn't sit well with you, this might not be the best place for you. I really don't want to come across like the "soup Nazi", and honestly 95% people we deal with are great and a joy to deal with. This is a very minor problem, with a very minor group of individuals. And If there's anything good that we can salvage in this thread, it would be that at least we all got to clear the air here.

I cannot strongly enough recommend against any of those WYSIWYG programmes. The code produced is awful beyond belief. Just learn what you are doing. Takes little extra effort and costs less. Read the manual to start http://www.w3.org/TR/1999/REC-html401-19991224/ HTML 5 is still being developed, but here is a good start after you learn HTML basics in general. http://diveintohtml5.info/ Once you have a grip on HTML follow the links to learn about CSS to create the presentation. Most importantly, ask questions online. You can ask me for starters. I have little doubt other CERB members would offer to answer questions as well. There are HTML/Web related newsgroups under the comp.infosystems.authoring hierarchy. The National Centre for Supercomputing Applications used to have the most wonderful, kick, perfect primer on HTML. Then they just took it down getting worrid about keeping up small details like new tags and such as opposed to allowing it stand as the fantastic overall concepts it was. The page now links to other tutorials. It is at http://archive.ncsa.illinois.edu/primer.html. I am going to mention it twice now because it is the best and most important thing in creating your own site -ask questions when help is needed.

I've been a quiet observer here but will chime up now. I think the issue of an animal at the incall is a 50-50 responsibility of agency(sp) and client My experience has been that ladies let it be known if they have a pet of some sort at their incall. At the same time if suffering from allergies etc, knowing your own medical condition, you should let the sp/agency know ahead of time just to be safe. I know the few times I go to an incall I let the lady know I can't touch alcohol, as a comparison, due to my medical condition (just in case they are offering refreshments) That way alcohol isn't the only choice. Best analogy I can come up with. And, from the client's perspective, seeing as it was a hotel, there may be expectation it was a pet free zone...don't know. But seeing as it was a hotel, the client should have been advised ahead of time And finally, this matter should have been dealt with privately, instead of a public airing on CERB. To that end I don't know what was hoped to be gained. But discussing your concerns privately there might have been some resolution My chiming in over RG

I'm sure there would be many providers who would be happy to give you a free kick in the balls if you asked them for birthday freebies!

Sweetshay is my favorite to see when she's in town.

Well said Luxe, meaning is important.... having lost both parents over the past years. I had one done on my back upper shoulder area just past year after losing my mom, it is a tribute to both mom and dad. I love body art on women. Although I think the canvas of art should be a display of their personality,their life or a tribute. However everyone has their own idea's and kudo's to those individuals!! and those that have body art OR liking the body art, like I do ;) I will be getting another one done on the other upper back shoulder area, this fall since I like the first one so much.

Anything involving sexual activity I am secretly willing to check out Ahah!

Strange title: you may want to consider writing Has anyone met Autumn next time... Best, toine

I can recommend the two ladies identified above. .... how on earth did you join CERB in April 2006 yet only now make your fifth post??????

I also just want to throw something out there since we are talking about reviews. Some may NOT agree with me and that is fine, after all we are entitled to our own opinions! If you view most, and I say most, NOT all, they are rec's about the smaller/spinner and younger SP's. I have seen ALOT of Cerb members, they have written recs on many ladies, even on ladies they have seen AFTER me, so is it because Iam "bigger" and some men may not want to admit they have visited a "fat" chick? This thread is not about me, I know that, I am using myself as an example and I believe I speak on behalf of some of the "bigger" and/or "older" ladies here. We feel like this is the case. It's sad, but it's reality. Like I said in my previous post in this thread, Recco's are a touchy subject, many ladies do not feel comfortable asking about them, the same way he dont like having to ask about the "donation/gift/money" whatever you want to call it. It's uncomfortable, but we appreciate it when it happens. Like I said, I am only mentioning this because this is about rec's, I am not fishing for rec's, or trying to make thoose that I have seen in the past feel guilty, it's just something, you may want to think about the nest time you see a "bigger" sp...