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I think what you need to do is convince her to come onto CERB and work things out for herself. Whatever her writing skills, she needs to be asking these questions on her own behalf. Given that you are a hobbyist I don't think you'll have a lot of SPs willing to give you the inside scoop on how we run our businesses or how we protect ourselves. Encourage her to get in contact with other Escorts herself. I think that's the best you can do if you're concerned about her.

Darksoul, Open letter: Personally, I don't hold any grudge. In fact, I really liked this thread, not only is it entertaining but, because it shows how much people care about people. Yes, that includes you in your own unique way. I like to think this give and change dialogue is the Cerb spirit. I truly think you can benefit from the friendship offered here and encourage you to reach out. Feel free to knock on my door anytime bud. J.

Personally, I am tired of being asked to give advice about the industry. I had to do my own research, ask my own questions and figure things out on my own, and I am tired of giving away that knowledge for free. And when clients ask for advice on our best practices, it is a red flag. You may certainly be only trying to help and I'm not trying to suggest otherwise. I am only pointing out that it does seem fishy. If you truly care about her, urge her to sign up on CERB and let her speak for herself.

Well if it is wrong than I am in trouble! Sometimes I get a little too turned on and if it feels good do it right? lol Its human nature to want what feels good, and whose going to stop if something is making you feel great! I don't know any hobbyist who wouldnt wanted a receptive SP during an encounter. If they dont get some type of enjoyment out of the encounter the hobbyist is going to feel like it was a very robotic encounter and that is never enjoyable, my clients ALWAYS want me to have a good time :) Its all part of the fun of the job hunny

No offense to the OP, but as a submissive with plenty of experience, you are a huge red flag and personally, I would never see someone so arrogant. Just me though.

I know Madison. She's a friend of mine. She's open minded, but not a mindless body open to simple, brutal abuse. She has to be respected for the style of service she offers. BDSM opens up a whole world of world of pleasurable possibilities, but it also invites unwelcome expectations. Please be gentle and respectful if booking a session. And as always, protect your sub. If you do protect your sub as your most treasured possession, you will most likely be invited back for more fun. I may sound over-protective, but she's a sweet soul.

Hi I've been a member of cerb for over two years now. and have read the posts of these women almost every day and have the opportunity to meet a small selected few of the women in Ottawa. It is with heartfelt thanks to my appreciation to the kind caring women of Cerb that post and contribute their opinions and advice to us men. I admire these women as they offer their services without discrimination to men of all sizes, races, disabilities. All the ask is that you are a gentleman and are clean. They offer companionship, sometimes friendship to lonely men, widowers and virgins. For a short time the man can feel human, or needed again. Some men are shy and lonely. This gives them the chance to be with a woman that he can only dream about, the girl from school that was out of reach. Or they can fulfill a fantasy. Sometimes they can keep a marriage going by providing the sex that is needed in a sexless marriage. I just wanted to show my appreciation for the services and companionship that they offer. And I am sure that other members of Cerb feel the same way. If so let's here from other Cerbies :) Yours Someguy

I really enjoy pleasing my partners, and I think I'm an incredibly generous lover in that regard. I get really aroused seeing my partner enjoying themselves, especially when I'm the cause. That being said, of course I love to play with nipples, both on men and women. The undercurrent of this thread is that most women have nipple sensitivity. While this is surely the case with most, I don't find my nipples very sensitive at all. Perhaps this will change with time? I don't want to hijack the thread though. I much prefer having my butt caressed ;)

Ooops! I'm guilty as well. I have only been with a couple of men who were only interested in getting themselves off all other men want it to be a mutually satisfying experience. If they want to try to make me feel good I'm going to allow and enjoy it, selfish or not, right or wrong. After all my acting skills are not good so one will know if I'm faking it or not, which I never do, just the way it is. I feel if a man isn't going to be able to make me "happy" and this is his goal, I willll simply and nicely turn the tables and concentrate on his body and make him forget about me, I've never had a complaint. I think it's better to be honest than pretend, but thats just me.

If I had the impression that my partner in an encounter wasn't turned on, it would drastically reduce my enjoyment. This is obviously not a "love affair", but a bored, uninvolved partner would feel exploitive or even assaultive to me.

Oral sex is one of THE great pleasures. I enjoy doing it as much as receiving it, frankly. Such a turn-on, the taste of your partner and the feel of her.

I don't have any real info, but is the dancer going to be expected to give extras? And if so, try to find an sp who is also a dancer, and then just comply with her own rules. The other thing to do is maybe consider having two not just one. Generally I would think that the idea of one sp/dancer alone with many guys should be something they say no to.

I join my voice to say all my thanks and congratulations to the women of CERB. I do have in mind some wonderful ladies with great personality and feminity, and I feel grateful to have the opportunity to meet them. Et bravo et toute ma reconnaissance à toutes celles, qui, quelle que soit leur langue, s'expriment en français ou font de très beaux et appréciés efforts pour le faire, (and their accent is so charming). We should open a lot of bottles of Champagne to celebrate the Ladies of CERB !!

Funny...my incall is minutes away from a homedepot. Sometimes, tho, your SO may surprise you and ask to come along lol.

I get the feeling that the edit was specifically because somebody had already asked her if her services include that. :icon_rolleyes:

Zimbalist Jr, Efrem Many of you are too young (OMG that means I'm old), but he starred on a tv show The FBI (mid 60's to mid 70's) RG

Nighthawks Sylvester Stallone, Rutger Hauer, Lindsay Wagner RG

I think it's good that even after you two have broken up, you are still concerned about her safety But she needs, as others have said, to join CERB and/or join an agency to learn the profession. And that she is doing this, especially since you have been seeing SP's for four years, shouldn't break your heart. There is nothing wrong with this profession, and lifestyle. The only concern is that she is doing it properly, meaning legally and safely. RG

I am in the "really into it" camp. Pleasure, pain, it's all good! ;-)

Jayme Langford...of course! Gillian Jacobs, she's nerdy hot!!! Brit Marling Kaylyn Kyle from the Canadian Women's Soccer team, the woman has the sexiest legs ever!!!

When during the summer, and you are driving with the windows down, the driver in front all of a sudden spits out of his car's window, or sticking out his hand to empty something or tapping the ash off his lighted cigarette -WTF! :mad:

Maybe this is something you should keep to yourself. :icon_biggrin:

Agree with Cato! Once spent 3/4 of an hr session doing daty and dato and dont regret it one bit. I consider it mandatory and on the 1 time it was refused I almost cried, What the hell is a dental dam and has there been a more unsexy device ever named? Get in there and enjoy the moment! When I was younger I hated the idea of giving anal and now that i'm an older perv I feel like it's tame! Tastes change and desires are fluid depending on who you're with! Much like the YMMV it applies to the ladies as well

You made it this community's business by making your post public. I only read one insulting post, it wasn't Jabba's. Judging from the responses, everyone seems to be on Jabba's and BRM's side We aren't going to move along from our CERB community, maybe you are the one who should learn to fit in RG

I'm wet.:icon_lol:

Ohhhhh my God. im speechless. I wanna laugh? be mad? or get wet?

I'm under no illusions that everytime I'm with a lady that she is turned on by the experience. I also fully recognize that a professional will make me believe she is. Having said that, for me one of the biggest turn on's is a lady's arousal. If I don't believe that's happening, I'm not going to have a good experience. So for me, chemistry becomes vitally important, and the ideal session is always with a SP that, at a minimum, enjoys my company. If she actually does get into the experience and is turned on by me, then that is absolutely wonderful. Porthos

Darn, you picked up on my learning disability, I was hoping no one would notice :( Well done! Stand proud! :) Yes master.

I'd love to think that every time I saw a SP that she was turned on, but I don't think it's realistic to think that all SP's are truly turned on during every encounter. The ladies are human after all and it just isn't going to happen on every encounter. If she makes you feel that way then it's because she's a pro, sorry I don't want to burst anyone's bubble but you have to be realistic and know that these ladies are professionals.

Well an encounter is paid companionship, but shouldn't both the lady and gentleman enjoy their time together. Nothing wrong IMHO with a lady getting turned on by a client, and enjoy seeing him as much as he enjoys seeing her. In fact some activities in an encounter are geared towards focusing on a lady's pleasure (ie daty) Really, the only reason for this being paid companionship is not for a man's gratification at the expense of a lady's pleasure. It is so a man can enjoy a lady's companionship, without the complications of a relationship (hope that is sounding right) If she enjoys her time with the gentleman, and he enjoys his time with her, then two people are happy, what is wrong with that A rambling RG

Personally if I don't get a lady off or make sure she doesn't enjoy herself,I don't feel great after leaving our appointment. As I have stated to some SP's it is not about" wham bam thank- you mam" it is about chemistry being sensual and erotic and ensuring the lady really gets herself off too. That itself is rewarding for both parties, there is nothing like hearing a lady moan,having her scratch your back,or pull your hair or bite your nipples ;) " it fucking turns me on hearing her,feeling her getting turned on" I really like the two hour sessions lately :) so much more time to explore, appreciate and really get off two times or more:) So if you get off myarain or really turned on "it's all good" after all that's what it is all about,so enjoy it!!

I, for one, don't think you should feel bad if you are getting turned on during a visit, au contraire. For me, It means something is being done right, that there is chemistry going. If i'm doing something that the lady likes, i try to pay attention to the cues she gives out or, better, that she tells me outright that she likes whatever i am doing, or are just turned on. It takes two to tango, so to speak. So, yes, knowing about it makes a good time for the both of us.

Hey your NOT suppose to answer your own question.... You answwr MY question then you ask 2 NEW questions, K do it again silly man

Yeah, that's dark. I don't care if you do want to open up a can of whop ass, a little more politeness is called for, I say you are the one that needs a good spanking and some correction :)

People who spend money on signs for their business and don't bother to have them proofread. The #1 offender: 's when it should be just s. The #2: restaurants that offer "Ceasar Salad". "CAESAR", goddammit! I really need to get out more.

I like my nipples kissed, licked, or gently sucked and nibbled. Biting or hard sucking not so much. I especially like it when a lady initiates because then I think she's attracted to them or it's something she enjoys doing. If she ignores my nipples, then I will usually play with them when receiving oral to heighten the whole body sensation. If I'm lucky, she'll get the hint. A warm wet mouth is best!

This is nothing short of an outrage. Not only are the very people they claim to serve incredibly inconvenienced by the strike e.g. (the ridership), but the drivers themselves will likely make back a significant percentage in lost wages through a generous signing bonus once a deal comes along!

You give a sensual and sexy massage, I for one will definitely be back on your table as soon as I'm able. You should put up a profile, I'm sure that others would enjoy them selves as much as I did.