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I think my list would include making new friends with: SexyRebecca Taylor Monroe SaraMQ Malika And visting again: Cleo EmilyJ But I'm sure these won't be the only encounters I have in 2013!

Frankly, while I believe that people should feel free to ask questions and say what's on their mind, I do feel a bit nervous whenever we venture into ways to deal with or protect against stereotypes. The one about companions being likely to rob clients or compromise their personal security if we know real names and other information is particularly difficult. Seeing a reputable, established companion increases the likelihood that everything will go smoothly. You won't need to worry that she'll rifle through your wallet or cell phone when you're in the bathroom or that she'll call your wife half an hour after your meeting ends. Honestly, if someone were to make a post on a couple of boards, saying that a lady had stolen something or had outed him to his partner or employer, she would be finished in this business! A good reputation and longevity in our profession require being trustworthy. One of the things you're paying for is complete confidentiality. Please also recognize that, while you may be concerned about having your identity and personal life compromised, most of us are concerned about our safety and security, too. I see clients in my home. I feel safest here, but it also means that my visitors have a great deal of information about me before we lay eyes on each other. I screen clients because of the real possibility that someone might hurt or rob me though I know that most have no interest in doing anything like that. In the end, it comes down to trust on both sides. I won't see you if, for any reason, I feel that I may not be safe enough with you. I don't want you to meet me if you're worried that I might do something to harm you, either.

Top 3 revisits: Emily J, Angie at EH and SexxyRebecca 3 I'd like to visit: Lulu4U, Alexxis and Pink at (wherever she is now)

The replies so far do a bang-up job of answering your question. I'll just reiterate that: - pursuing special interests is extremely common - you should briefly explain your interest during your initial inquiry; and - worst case, she'll say "no, sorry, I don't do that" but she won't judge. When describing your interest give enough information to let her know clearly what you're after, but not so much that you're writing amateur porn. ;) Something like: "Hi! My name is [name], I'm [gender] and [age]. I saw your ad on CERB and I'm considering making an appointment with you soon. I have a real fetish for X, and during our session I'd like to try doing Y and Z involving X. Is that possible? If so, an appointment lasting [duration] on [date] from #:00 to #:00 would work well for me. I hope we can meet, and I look forward to hearing back from you." If her answer is "yes" you can always provide some more detail about X, Y, and Z in a follow-up before finalizing the appointment. She may even have some suggestions to add, or questions of her own. Then you're off to the races. Good luck and have lots and lots of fun!

The best time to ask is before you book. I wouldn't worry about being judged. We've all been asked for many things some may consider odd - and sometimes we'll say yes, sometimes we'll say no. But even if I say no, I won't judge you. I'm sure I like things other people might not. To each their own. But the last thing anyone wants is for you to book, THEN say 'Oh I want such-and-such service'. Because then if she doesn't want to provide it, you may not want to cancel because you'll feel bad, etc etc, and then the session won't go well for anyone. The absolute worst time to ask is once the session has begun. Declining a clients request during a session makes me feel terrible, and like he's not going to leave the session happy. And all I want is for my clients to leave happy...so if there's something you need to be happy, let her know upfront, so no one leaves disappointed! Additional Comments: The best time to ask is before you book. I wouldn't worry about being judged. We've all been asked for many things some may consider odd - and sometimes we'll say yes, sometimes we'll say no. But the last thing anyone wants is for you to book, THEN say 'Oh I want such-and-such service'. Because then if she doesn't want to provide it, you may not want to cancel because you'll feel bad, etc etc, and then the session won't go well for anyone. The absolute worst time to ask is once the session has begun. Declining a clients request during a session makes me feel terrible, and like he's not going to leave the session happy. And all I want is for my clients to leave happy...so if there's something you need to be happy, let her know upfront, so no one leaves disappointed!

This might have to be my wish list for 2013, 14 and 15. Mainly an MA guy and JessicaMassage, Michaella Carress, Katrine Cannon top my wish list. Should I embark a little further I am very curious about Taylor Monroe, Emily J, SaraMQ, Megforfun, Nicolette Vaughn, Gabriella Laurence, Nathalie Lefebvre, Georgiana Sweet and Berlin. Long list, jeez. MA's I hope to revisit are Bethany, Didi and Pauline. SP/MA's I hope to revisit are Cat, Peachy and Cleo. It will clearly be most efficient to handle this wish list in duo's. :icon_razz:

Cerb seams to be back to normal - Speed wise (Some new features have been added as I did a update to the software that runs cerb and it has some socialgroup features we did not have before) If anyone is getting any errors, seeing things missing or anything bad happening please PM me and let me know (Details please with links if possible) I am fixing the stuff as it is reported or found... lots of things were broken in the last 5 days that I have had to fix but it does look like we are back to at least 95% power / speed for page load times. (always room for improvement) Thank you all for baring with me I know the site has been very unstable for the last few days (So have I been! - Little sleep deprived)

To everyone here. Over the past weeks I've posted about my dad's cancer. I have received in many PM's, comments, posts etc words of sympathy and support. I just wanted to say thank you all for your support. It really is appreciated This board is much more than an escort board, it truly is a community Again to all of you out in CERBLand, your collective support is appreciated more than you know Thank you RG

Happy New Year to everyone! I know there is a thread some place regarding this issue (I was too lazy to look for it) Since it is a new year, I just like ensure that the line of communication between a SP/MA and a gentleman is followed to a tee,and without fail. My thoughts of Text A B C 's a) Initial contact between both parties through a text is to initiate time/place and confirming the appointment.Or it can be done through a phone call. b) After initial contact has been made, ONLY and IF only that "I" make contact with the provider,than it is fine for that provider to text back. Example ME - "Thanks for a great time it was a real pleasure meeting you" HER- "No thank-you, I had such an enjoyable time " c) On NO account should a provider right of the blue text me weeks later, or in fact months later.(Awkward to explain to my teenage daughter who picked up my phone because it was left on a table) :( I know the same is in reverse for the gentlemen, as I have initiate a text to ladies in the past, but there was never an issue from them. If there is an issue or was an issue, the provider would of certainly let me know. I have a few ladies that are in my contacts, and we have kept in touch, the issue above I have not contacted her by text over months ago. These ladies that I consider good friends we have kept in contact,without any issues from both sides. Perhaps emailing,or pm's would suffice if both parties have not spoken for a couple months. All I'm asking is for discretion and consideration. When I initiate a text, I might say "Okay to chat? " I might not hear back, or she may reply "Hi how are you? yes we can chat! " Or I might get 'later okay" For myself, it makes things simply for booking an appointment, and not waiting at times for schedules to be posted. Anyways, Happy 2013 AND carry on folks :)

Hey Lee. Since it appears as if our mutual male SP businesses have not taken off how about we go into the flower business together? I'll sell my glads at the end of the lane and you sell your canola and we can split the profits. :) Oops. Back on track. My second favorite flower is the simple but beautiful tulip.

Excellent post Pistol Pete and I agree in all respects. Another thing I thought I should mention.. Please don't text an SP out of the blue without the intention of booking an appt and wanting to get into long texts or sextexting. I've had people attempt to do this and puts the SP in an awkward position and I am the one who has to take the upper hand and shut it down. I'm not interested in doing that and if I were, I'd be working a 1-900 number. Thanks for your consideration.

Ummm... Wow! :-o I almost just came in my panties picturing you getting DP'd... Oh my! What a naughty image, you bad girl!! I love it! :) Lucky guys!! :icon_wink:

Just want to point out that this is a generalization, and not always the case ;)

I do not believe you are unreasonable, but as some people stated it's mainly girls that are on BP and as much as I will generalize here, most of them do not consider themselves escort, just looking to make money each month and don'T really care about being all inclusive or not charging extra. My rates are all inclusives...as I believe most ladies on Cerb also. I only charge extra for greek and do not hide it... On the other hand I do understand how MA may charge different rates for example: -Full clothing, you leave happy :xxx$ -topless, you leave happy:xwz$ full nude, you leave happy:qer$ On the other hand...if someone want something REALLY specific like a clothing request that I do not have or a special color pedicure with French tip...well despite the fact that I do not advertise it I would charge extra as it would cost me money myself and I don't think it's wrong to do so.

This is exactly why I post my ad thread listing ALL of the available services (at no extra cost!)...mind you there are a few extras, which only lead up to a 275/hr total anyways. Every SP has a right to advertise/market herself as she wishes, whatever works for her. Keep in mind that agency girls do not keep all of their money, and are more inclined to charge extras. If you don't like the services vs the price, move on and find another! ;)

There's another benefit to asking service questions before booking. If the woman you're communicating with doesn't offer the service you're looking for, she may know someone who does and can provide you with a lead to follow up on. Provided you're communication has been respectful. That will shorten your search. Check out sp's web sites and reviews. That will give you a very good idea of who provides the service you're seeking or who may be game for it, if it's not specifically listed on their web site. You never know. You may find out that that your kinks aren't actually that unusual. We don't discuss our sexual desires often or with many people. As a result, it's easy for us to think that we're way out there. On the whole however, researchers have found that most people's "illicit desires", fantasies or kinks are pretty commonplace desires. Maybe you're vanilla after all lol. Service providers have a wider range of sexual activites that they've been able to explore and and are therefore comfortable with or in fact enjoy. The average person's sexual life remains more restricted by social conventions. Even something like Greek is a relatively easy service to find. Activities such as scat play, golden showers, pain, humiliation or domination will be services provided by very specialized sp's... but they are out there. Kinks may be difficult to discuss in social dating "When do I tell her I want to....? The first time we have sex... tenth time?" Lol You may have discussed your desires with a significant other and had them politely decline ("I'm just not game for that honey"), or they tried it for you and decided it's outside their comfort zone even for someone they love, or they may have passed judgement ("oooo... that's disgusting"). A polite inquiry to an sp will either evoke the first response, a referral to another sp, no response, or... "Ya, I love that..." or "I can do that, but that service costs extra and/or only if you follow these rules..." From your post, you seem considerate and tactful. As long as you do a little research, read a woman's website closely (that cannot be overemphasized) and the first words in your communication aren't "Hey baby, do you...", you should be able to find what you're looking for. Good luck, whatever flavour your kinks turn out to be!

Warning puns ahead... It's so hard to limit the list to just a few. And so, in no particular order my revisit list includes: Cleo, Emily J, Taylor Monroe, and SexxxyRebecca plus many more honourable mentions, if I cum across as greedy it's because like Lays potatoe chips its hard to stop eating after just one. For new adventures I'm looking at: Sara McQ, Vanessa Vale, Nicolette Vaughn, Meg for Fun and so many more... Now I just need to win Lotto Max and it'll all cum true.

There is a chance that I may stop hunting soon in the new year but if I stay in the hobby my three most favorites whom I plan to see repeatedly in 2013 are: Georgiana Sweet - I will never have enough kissing that ultra beautiful milky pale soft skin in which her very sexy feminine body is covered by. That beautiful complexion, lovely face, those beautiful blue eyes, her angelic soul, her soft black hair. She is the Snow White princess in more ways than one (you have to see the Mirror mirror movie to understand lol). Julie Wilde - That soft feminine face, absolutely incredibly sexy semi-natural kitty, those beautiful blue eyes, and soft feminine pale skin. Nathalie Lefebvre - That beautiful baby face, the angelic personality, the tall feminine body, the beautiful sexy semi natural kitty, the soft pale skin.

I don't know if I am the only one who feels this way but I welcome your comments. Many of you refer to an escort as GFE when she does cbj. On another Board for Ottawa(the one that rhymes with this one and originates from Toronto), GFE is bbbj For those of us who prefer bbbj is it possible that if it is cbj that you refer to it as safeGFE? Otherwise it is impossible to know. I realize it may be a YMMV thing but not usually. There are those SPs who do bbbj and those who don't.

Hiya gents,as you may know I have some what left the buissness,I just couldnt resist some excitment today though!!.I am available today at angels touch 3-11pm for a irrasistable erotic encounter which will include lots of mutual pleasure that will have you smiling with complete and unforgetable relaxation.If this is a bit short notice feel free to pm me and i will be happy to try and arrange another day besides just today!.look forward to seeing you xoxox amanda...613 265-2505 RATES............ 30 MIN =$50.00 45 MIN =$60.00 1 HR=$80.00 HEAR WHAT OTHERS ARE SAYING.........http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=46157

I believe there a place near Walkley and Bank...bodyblissformen.com never been but the site looks good. ALO has a Bank and Alta Vista and a VIP loc too

I wanted to say that my thoughts are with you. I understand what you are going through as my mother is quickly reaching the final stages of terminal cancer. I know how hard this can be on the rest of the family and I wish you the best. One doesn't really know how devastating something like this can be until it happens. Know that you have friends here.

My favorite is white lillies..so beautiful and such a lovely smell..

Hope you had a good one

There are definitely multiple choices in our city. As a 40's man, one lady that should be on your list is Soleil. She will make you feel "amazing and appreciated". I stopped counting how many times I've seen her. Just my two cents.

Never had a leak or warping door frames - god forbid! I have this one kinky corner that seems to grow a huge and nasty chunk of ice every Winter. Happens to grow on the 2nd story roof overlooking my front entrance. Come Spring time thaw, this block of ice detaches itself from the roof and looks for victims who just happen to want to sell me some shit at my front door. I have to modify my mailbox sign from "No Soliciting" to: "Duck you sorry bastard!"

Hope your birthday was a wonderful one!

Since posting in this thread I've received many inquiries about MMF possibilities, so thought I'd post a bit more info here to try and answer some questions. As pointed out in this thread though, there are many different scenarios for MMF, so this info is for me only, not necessarily the same for the other ladies with male friends willing to join. My friend is happy to join us for MMF (or even MMFF if you'd like!). No male interaction applies, it would be both men with me, and as I do offer greek, DP is also possible. Now of course keep in mind this situation would be at a higher rate than my individual rate. It wouldn't be as high as a fully interactive MFF duo, but somewhere in between. ANd goddamn...it's definitely a wild, sexy time! I'm still happy to answer any questions if you'd like to contact me, but I hope this gives a bit more info than I'd previously posted :)

That may be a MOD_SECURITY issue with the server, the website software and your browser not getting along. I will check the logs for this and see if I can find anything. If it happens again PM me the EXACT time it happened (EST) - Makes it easier to find the error in the server logs for that particular instance.

I am learning all this new stuff along side of all of you (it's all new to me too) great find and advise!

Has nothing to do with reputation. Police act on public complaints.

Dorinda Bloom is my all time fav lovah, so besides her, it would go like this... LulusforU Sweetshay Georgiana Sweet Katrine Cannon Megforfun This would round out 2013!!

They say that the problem with common sense is that it is not that common. I have often found this to be true.

Thanks for asking Cristy. This is a new one to me. Glad someone brought it up. :-)

This is true... but it doesn't mean these threads are a waste of time. Not everyone who does this does it because they don't care - I'm sure some just don't know any better. If one SP who's starting out reads this thread and refrains from embarrassing one of her clients, it'll have been worthwhile, even though we'll probably never know. And sometime down the line it'll be worth someone else saying exactly the same as PP did, so that the message can reach a new audience. So it goes... and this applies just as much to the threads about things that guys do which annoy the ladies. The simple fact is that this game we're all playing has a fairly high turnover rate, and there's new people starting from scratch on both sides of it all the time. We all benefit if we can avoid at least some people making some of the common mistakes. I know I've benefited from not making them :)

No one can see the "Thanks" button on their own posts.. because you cannot thank yourself. (everyone else can see the button on your posts Cristy, you haven't been left out) Kim

I don't mind initial contact via text, and even a few questions back and forth, but if it goes on much longer than 5 or 6 texts, I do ask the person to call me because otherwise I could find myself texting all day. If I don't get to the phone and see a text that was sent more than half an hour ago, I will not respond unless I recognize the number and know it's safe to text back. By then, you could be in the car with your SO, daughter, etc. However, if you want to book an appointment, you must call me to do so, as I do not book by text and never give my exact address out ahead of time. I don't know if it's some teenager or jealous spouse who has gotten a hold of a client's phone. Since I don't require references and go mainly with my gut feeling, this is a minimal part of my screening requirements - that is to say I must hear the caller's voice. Like I said, once we have met and you want to rebook, texting only is fine, but I also do not expect the client to just show up at my door either. They must go to the visitor parking and call from there. I would NEVER text a client out of the blue for whatever reason, even if we have a good connection. It's tacky and not very discrete. However, that being said, I do have a few male cerb members who I am friends with who I text with to say hi, but I have their explicit permission to do so because I know they are single/unattached etc. and they know they can do the same with me. Pete, I agree. There is nothing so urgent that cannot be said in a quick pm or email, especially if it's after-the-fact. You are not being unreasonable at all, asking that you not be contacted out the blue. It's just good manners not to do so. The ladies who do that perpetuate the stereotype that some of us are desperate with no manners which is unfortunate.

Withdrawn...good post Pete

Therapy tells me.... I am a "cheater cheater cookie eater" Lee loves cookies :) No cure in sight as of yet ;) Such is my life !

Our Criminal Justice System :(

Cleo Catra

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Ha..losing weight is not that hard...keeping it off is the hard part. For the guys I suggest that you lose 30-40lbs, then get in over your head with some beautiful ladies here on CERB that are much younger than you...they will flatter you, and you will like it...a lot, and be motivated to eat healthy and exercise like a fiend to maintain your new physique....There you go...sounds easy enough doesn't it?

WOW! Pedestal? Meet Cinderella! You really shouldn't base your opinion on the provider's donation requirement but on your interaction(ie emails etc) with her and perhaps maybe her recos as well as her interactions on the board. This ain't Hollywood baby lol but I am sure that should you feel more comfortable with a higher donation, no one will object to a generous gift!

I'm hoping Miabella makes a return in 2013. Definitely one of my all time favorites.

Hey, I think you stole my list. Add Meg and you pretty much have my list. I don't think I can even go to Ottawa, it will bankrupt me. Porthos

Yes, exactly right - so many ladies, so little time ! For 2013, I intend to continue to see some of my regulars whom I've come to love and adore. I also wish to see a few new ladies whom I admire from reading their posts, their recommendations and their profile pages and photos. These are in no particular order - Georgiana Sweet, Cleo Catra, Nathalie Lefebvre, Julie Wilde, Candyce, Gina, Brooke(PK), etc., etc., and some MAs such as Michaelle's Caress, Luscious Lilly, and so on. These are ladies just came to my mind now. The list will certainly change as time goes by.

I think YNOT.COM published this. A great article, by the way! It offers a lot of insight into the mind of an independent escort.

If all SP's brought their conscience to work, many married men would not be able to be hobbyists. Just sayin'

Im thinking #'s 1-12 on little business cards....!!! Ill stand on a downtown corner, and pass out inconspicuous business cards :) Changing the world... one pussy at a time??