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For me, this is what I have experienced. I am a very attractive woman who is always dressed very nicely and also groomed the same. In my 9-5 career-I am someone with a very strong work ethic. I always go the extra mile-always obtain top notch references, have strong experience in a variety of sectors, plus I also have the maturity that ensures that I am there for the long haul, looking to establish a solid career by being dependable and efficient. IMHO, I would think thats what an exec would want for his assisant. Many times , for the past few years-I have obtained many ineterviews for jobs-that excuse my arrogance, but were perfect for me, my skills and personality too. However, once I arrive to the interview-there would be a pool of us ladies, waiting to be interviewed, and once the interviewer opens the door to call in the candidates-they start to give us the total look over from head to toe. You see many of these interviews, consisted of men who were basically only interested in having an assistant who fit their idea of hot. Forget the skills, attitude or experience. I personally feel that I have lost out on quite a few jobs due to my appearance-but at the sametime, they did me a favour because I would have a hard time working for people like that. Whenever I go to a bar-probably cause people are drinking-and just plain stupid-I always get at least one insult, regarding my appearance-because some loser in the bar thinks its so important for me to know that I am not his type-meanwhile the person who is spewing stupid shit is usually someone who I would not even touch with a ten foot pole-so whatevs... Within this business-I have been shunned a little bit-and I dont mean cause certain men wont see me due to my size. I am not referring to this -I am not trying to change anyones mind about what they like ;) What I mean about that is that there are quite a few guys who I see on occassion and regularly that would NEVER let other hobbiests know that they see me and like me too. Yes there are plenty of ladies who fit the bbw image on this site and other sites too, but very very few individuals will fess up to liking us. I realize the return visits are imperative for my business, but I gotta say nothing stings more than when you see one of the guys that you spend time with always make it a point to rec the ladies who are no more than 130 lbs, but never you...ouchy -wouchy ;) But hey-I deal :boobies:....could be alot worse ;) I really love the way I look-and do not have any desire to be what is usually considered hot. I love my giant breasts-my tummy, heavy bottom and thick thighs and will not change that for ANYBODY...that is what is most important!

This thread and those of a similar sort trouble me deeply. Body image and in particular negative body image and its terrible negative effects I have unfortunately experienced in loved ones. It's an area that is very easy for me to go off on a rant about condeming all main stream media (internet now included) for distorting and perverting the minds of generations with distressing perceptions of beauty and body image. I weep for my daughter. That said, I'll move in a different direction. Cliche, chiche, chiche, "beauty is in the eye of the beholder", blaw, blaw, blaw. Deep down we all know that every one of those chiche's is correct but we too often let our own good sense get washed over by the wave of popular perception. As SP's each of you should easily grasp the never judge a book by its cover as I'm sure you all on many occasions have met someone that doesn't fit the physical mold so to speak but throughout the encounter develop the feeling that this is a truly wonderful person and vise versa. Beauty, sensuality, sexiness, hotness, has no foundation in the physical form and is derived completely from within. One of the most attactive, sexy women I have ever known happens to be a wonderful volumptous, buxom beauty. She first seduced me with only her eyes and smile and now I would love to just tear off her clothes and make love to her (she's now a dear friend so that's out but the thought crosses my mind just the same). Although, she definately would not fit into the mold that society has set for physical beauty (she'd probably need three molds) she exudes confidence and comfort in her own skin and within minutes thats what spoke to me. Lesson, own your body and love it. Once you do, that's what will be conveyed to everyone else within seconds. Hellen Keller saw more beauty in this world than most of us will ever see. Thats because she saw everything with her heart not her eyes. There have been numerous scientific experiments where individuals sat and looked only into the eyes on another individual, no other contact and could not see any more of them. After a short while those people reported feeling a romantic connection to that person and found them attractive. (I guess the eyes are the window to the soul.) Maybe I'm an old soul at heart and see the world differently but thats just me. Love yourself, embrace yourself and others will do the same.

and I'm sure there are other ladies other then the only 3 that are ever mentioned when ppl ask about Moncton. there are as well a HUGE chunk of people that (a)don't take part in forming at all or (b)don't believe in writing a huge description of everything in their encounter because they believe it is no one elses business Not trying to throw my name in the ring cause I barely bother with in call in Moncton these days I've been to busy it just Peeves me that people say the ONLY girls that are worth are the ones with recommendations, its not true. Even a gross junkie could get 1 person that loves her to write a glamorous recommendation as much as a beautiful goddess could.

This topic is a sensitive one for me. As a teen I was extremely over weight and got picked on really bad in highschool, "walking meat locker, ogre, etc....". These names affected me sooooo badly I became anorexic for a long time. My body image ran my life, I was soooo obsessed with being skinny I went down to a very unhealthy weight. The thing is once someone becomes anorexic there is no cure, it stays with you for life. Everyday I worry about what I eat, and what I look like. When I look in the mirror, I do not see what everyone else does, I see a huge whale who is disgusting. I have had people tell me how beautiful I am but it is hard to believe. The last couple of years I have been battling cancer, and the side effects of the treatments I have been getting is weight gain. I am once again unhappy with my weight. It does not matter how little I eat or how much I work out the weight has been taken out of my control. So to anyone out there who has been struggling with a weight control disease (anorexia/bulimua), you are not alone. To anyone who puts people down for their weight/body image, shame on you! My best friend is a male who is extremely under weight, his whole life he has been picked on and teased for being too small. People have advised him he isn't eating enough, etc.... This is not funny for him, he has tried to gain weight and no matter what he tries he is just a small man. I always tell him he is perfect just the way he is, but like me he has been teased and tortured for sooooo long he no longer believes he is ok. Sorry I had to chime in on this issue as it is very close to my heart, as I see people everyday suffering because of someone else's ideal on how people should look.

Body shaming can happen to anyone at any size...too big or too small. The point is We have to love ourselves. I believe We can be our own worse enemies.

Hello to my many friends here:) Although you know me, my lovely Maria Styles feels that she would like to have her profile opened here. She is sort of new to the industry, and is finding it difficult to find herself. She has been unfortunately exposed to the negative side of the industry in the past and is trying to find the all the positive side to this industry. Those negative experiences has seeped into her way of thinking:( She has seen a world of difference with working with me, but still needs a voice and support of her own. So I thought this could help her. I am encouraging her to open her own profile so that she can meet on line, the most amazing people! If it were not for the many ladies and men here, I too never would have known the since of pride and respect that one can experience in this community:) It is a lonely life at times to be in this trade, and with all the "gunk" clouding our own feeling on the subject it is hard to hear your own voice and feelings on the topic. I know for me at first it was the fact of living a double life that was the hardest to deal with. I was lucky enough to have met a few EXCEPTIONAL ladies in Ottawa that helped me threw that, and did "come out" to the ones that mattered in my life. Once I did that, I had so much freedom from my own conscience! For me, also it is the fact of doing good things for my life and future with the money I earn. 2 years ago I had no credit...now I do! 2 years ago I never paid taxes, therefore feeling like a non productive member to my comminity...now I do! 2 years ago could not hold a morgage with my bank...now I can! If you practice some self discipline and self control, making wise use of my cash has saved me from feeling useless, hopeless or like running in one spot! Anyone willing to witness their success, please do so in hopes to help new ladies like Maria...Just a few examples of when we --ucked up, and learned our lesson from it, then picked ourself up and becoming successful and strong business women because of it! I hope this thread will help any new SP out there find their way threw the maze of misconceptions of our trade:)

I personally love women of all sizes but prefer a woman with big beautiful CURVES! Any man that tries to shame a big, beautiful, confident woman for not fitting his narrow minded view of the world, doesn't deserve to lay eyes on her! Shame on all who can't appreciate beauty in all forms! P.S. Vanessa, I guarantee, you were the HOTTEST woman in that interview room and the guy probably didn't hire you because he knew he'd never get any work done while starring at your perfect body!

speaking as someone who had a shaved head under a wig for ten years and used to pass it off as 'extensions" i will say that hair (whether big or sleek or sprayed or dyed etc)...is all up to the eye of the beholder...but also more importantly a mere accessory to the lady that dons it. how many times have you seen a woman from behind whos hair was gorgeous, long and wavy....then she turned around and was butt ugly and then said to yourself "gah!" its not the hair...but the lady underneath or the face to sport that crazy style that makes it work. I will say that as a model i got waaay more work with a shaved head because I had the face that supported it. I loved it. many clients have scowled at the fact that since growing my hair back I've decided to put a red and blonde streak in the front of my hair and rock a bit of a pompadour aside from my pony-tail...they say "i wish you wouldn't do that to your hair (and motion to the colour and hair-spray) and these were regulars of mine I'd had for over a year!.."it was so much nicer and classy when it was natural" and all I can think without saying is "oh you're right...because i was totally thinking of YOUR opinion when I decided to express my inner style" {note the sarcasm}...I'm still the same classy gal...a red and bleached blonde streak and some hairspray isnt going to change that :) Some ladies work very hard to make themselves look nice for their work. but if a hairstyle turns ppl off so much that they cannot see the woman behind it (whether bald or done up), I dunno....perhaps this is just a skin-deep (or hair-deep) hobby to them.

I understand what Peachy is trying to convey and that this is not about big vs. skinny. Having endured an overweight childhood, I am all to aware of how nasty bullies can be. Luckily for me it ended when almost overnight at age 14, I became 6'6" tall and developed into a decent athlete with considerable effort. Well, all I really wanted to say is that obesity is one of the last things that seems politicaly acceptable to ridicule. Whereas if someone is being skinny shamed, the shamer usually at least couches it by pretending to be concerned with anorexia, if the shamee is obese, they are just a fat slob who can't control thier appetite. Peachy, I'm not trying to contradict you, I'm a Peachy post fan!

5:00pm, actually! Though girls (1 to maaaybe 3) don't generally get onto the floor until 5:15ishand stage shows don't start until 6:00pm or so.

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Wow!! Love your new avatar!! While suicide is often associated with sadness or despair, please understand that is not always the case. We all have to die some day. Some of us would prefer to choose the time and method, rather than putting ourselves and our loved ones through whatever chance deals us. When I was younger, I rode motorcycles, skydived, raced. I accepted that I might meet an early death. But I didn't. So many people have said to me, "oh, you're so lucky your parachute always opened!" and I think to myself, "yeah, because now I have a greater shot at dying after some period of agony, humility and disability, pissing and shitting myself in some bed. How lucky for me!" I've lived a joyful life. When I go, I want to make a joyful choice. I think we need to respect those who choose suicide. We have each other while we have each other, and we'd do better to remember that while we do. It will be my choice if fate does not interfere, whether anyone respects it or not. It's not our place to second guess people on a matter like this. Additional Comments: See the movie "Harold & Maude."

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While I agree there is all sorts of shaming out there, I have to say - this is somewhat of a first for me, that women who have the body shape that is usually (95% the time) considered to be perfect...to be criticized or shamed. Just imagine how the people who do not fit into the perfect category feel. People like that (myself included) see, hear and witness negative comments regarding appearances that do not fit into societys idea of perfection, on a daily basis...and its not just via a few blogs here and there-it is everywhere. As for the online hate stuff-I find that the ones who say the most negative and vile stuff, are usually the kinds of people with very, very little going on in their lives-and use the web as their personal outlet to say things they would never dare say to anyones face because they are usually very weak in many aspects.

Hello everyone. I was curious about CMJ for a while and was interested in doing the membership thing with them but then recently heard about an east end location for them. Has anyone heard about it or visited it? If so, how was the experience. Also, do you know the general are of the east end it is in? I know on the CMJ site they tell you the general street intersection it is located but they provide no such info for the east end one. Any recommendations on specific ladies would be appreciated as well.

Hello - I'm moving back in the area after a long absence. I've grown to be very wary of BP ads, based on where I spent the last few years, but I know some reputable Ottawa providers advertise on BP. Visually, the offering seems quite good! I'm curious for what tools and rules of thumb Ottawa gents use when surfing BP. Ladies will also have insight, of course. Thanks for any help Urbankid

I'm interested in one of the PK girls, how does it exactly work? I can't host, so I guess it will be an "incall". Is it as simple as calling and booking an appointment with X if she's available? When I arrive at her place, do I simply hand over the $$ and everything is smooth sailing, or is there some formalities? Thanks

Elk . It's actually pretty good Real Haggis in Scotland if it count. It was...interesting. I wouldn'T eat it again

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My advice to Maria is your true and best friend is yourself and your intuition, trust in it as it will guide you to and from those you should and shouldn't interact with. Don't listen to gossip, be good to those who are good to you and ignore the negative. No matter where you go or what occupation you choose there will be those rooting for your success and those who will try and tear you down. You, are in good hands with Sophia, best of luck and have fun.:icon_biggrin:

The contract is also about Copywrite to pictures The agency may use. If you sign the release form this protects me from future issues about using those photo's at the time that the lady is working for the agency. Also does not allow her to use the photo's for her own use during her working for the agency. Also a contract verifies that I have ID checked the lady before working here. It also makes the lady responsible for her own taxes. As I pay my taxes and claim certain things, she also needs to pay taxes, just as any sub contracting position. Also will protect the business in the case of a lady who is sneaking drugs into the business. As it strictly states no one under the influence of alcohol or drugs will be allowed to continue with the agency. So that it shows clearly the agency does not endorse or tolerated this kind of activity. Just as many website contain the phrase" what happens between 2 consenting adults, is a private matter, and all monies are for exchange of time spend." This is many regards is also a contract to the reader, as he clicks enter he has agreed to the terms. Web site are not considered soliciting, as it is not considered a public domain.

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Peachy, As a skinny man I am aware of how it feels to be criticized, ridiculed, or made to feel less of a man because of my physical size. Although the criticism's would be different based on our gender, the way we feel would be similar. Having said that I would have to agree with Vanessa. Larger women face way more criticism than slender/skinny women. Society in general is less accepting of larger women. Most magazine covers, TV and movie stars are not large women, of course there are always exceptions. I have read on this and other sites how BBW women don't get as many recommendations because of their size. Men aren't afraid to say they love a spinner but they are much less likely to say they love a BBW, even though many many men do. I'm not in any way trying to trivialize how you feel or deny that you are criticized because you are thin. All I'm trying to say is that in the bigger picture your appearance is much more accepted in the society we live in today.

Sophia, glad to see you helping out. This really can be an isolating life choice and in particular for the ladies. I also have no doubt that its easy to get exposed to the worst parts and feel it is all that way. Well from my standpoint it isn't all bad and in fact this little community of CERB is extremely understanding and supportive. In the end Maria may make other choices but I would encourage her to first experience the positive aspects of a place like CERB before determining its 'all bad'. Maria, you'll find a great deal of support from the ladies and if you ever want a guys view, Sophia can direct you to some that will happily discuss with you while having your best interests at heart. Myself included. Good Luck. XO Cub

Make sure you look after yourself, and that single-malt will taste all the better when you get the chance to enjoy it.

Your typing well with one hand hun:) perhas better than me with both lol....glad to see your taking time to heal, the enjoyment of life is just around the corner! lol...xoxoox cheers baby!

Big hair applied to guys in the 80s as well. I rocked the big hair look a la platinum blonde/ howard jones, but not quite like the flock of seaguls lead singer, I had a thin red leather tie too, everyone did, hey it was the 80's. For those of you that know me now I'm sure you're having a good laugh at my expense trying to picture me with big 80s hair. That being said there's a certain appeal to big hair on a woman, but it's hardly practical and when it comes to play time you're bound to get something caught in there that shouldn't be !

Jabba, it's not itchy when it grows back as long as your not wearing panties on your head.

I grew up skinny and can relate. I was always teased.Then when you become a slender adult some will accuse you of not eating, purging, or other methods of gettig rid of your food. This can cause some to have eating disorders. It seems in the press someone is always being criticized for either being to small or to large. No matter what your size one will always be smaller or larger than someone else, the important thing is to be healthy. As there is beauty in all sizes. Most wouldn't admit to it but we all make judgements on someones appearence when first meeting them, wether conciously or not. Especially in this business. There is alot that can make a person attractive but certainly when a man is viewing a ladies pictures he is simply looking for his idea of physical beauty and that includes a certain body type/size. If we are all going to be honest anyone that is included on some of the best of threads has been judged as someones ideal of beauty and those left out have been, perhaps unintenionally, judged as well, as not being someones ideal of beauty by the mere fact of omission. In the end what is important for anyone is having a strong sense of self and knowing your worth. We are all valuable and everyone has redeeming traits/qualities. Some are just more obvious on some . But as judge Judy alway says beauty fades-dumb is forever and as I say getting into a book is far more fun than just staring at it's cover.:biggrin:

I like to think that human nature being what it is, most people who make comments about someone else's weight, height, hair line or anything don't realize that it is sometimes hurtful. I can excuse that most of the time. When some people make those comments with a smidgin of intent then they are usually trying to put people down to make up their own short comings. I am often impressed with people who may be targeted for any kind of shaming ( intentional or not) but are completely comfortable with the hand they were dealt. Kudos to them.

Go with an experienced provider, and explain your situation and your concerns. You won't come across like a bumbling idiot, and you'll leave feeling great about yourself. I think that since entering this lifestyle I've become more comfortable with my sexuality, developed better skills, and in general learned a lot ... both about myself and about how to please a woman. I've tried things (and enjoyed them) that 15 years ago i could never have even imagined. In some ways, if you don't feel like you're very skilled, that's a really good reason to see a professional. You'll do fine, and over time you'll do even better. And believe me, you're not going to get laughed at or made to feel badly about yourself. You'll be treated well, and develop more and more confidence. Go forth and have a great time. Porthos

This is an important topic. In Vancouver, there are a lot of what we call Asian micro-brothels. Some permanent residents or citizens who have immigrated, usually from China or Korea, provide opportunities for women from their home countries to come to Canada to work for up to six months. They rent houses and condos around the Lower Mainland and the ladies work from them. Sometimes the women stay in the same place for several weeks or months; more often, they work in one place and then move on to another, usually in another suburb. Some of these micro-brothels are affiliated with others in other cities, so it's possible for a worker to travel around the province, through the prairies or even across the country. The women who work in these brothels have come to Canada to be sex workers. They enter the country as tourists and leave within six months (the length of a tourist visa). They send most of their earnings back home. Most speak little English. The brothel owners always significantly undercut the going rates charged by independent companions. Their advertisements on the free and low-cost advertising sites are usually represented as ads from one or two girls, though there may be six or eight of them working in a house. The great majority of them are classic bait-and-switch ads. The photographs come from all kinds of places, but are almost never of the woman you will see if you make an appointment. The actual workers are generally older and don't look like svelte models. My Asian clients tell me that there are significant cultural differences when it comes to expectations about advertising. North Americans expect that the photograph will match the product they purchase and feel very annoyed when it doesn't. My clients say that the micro-brothel ads really are offering a fantasy, that the brothel owners have no compunction about whether the women look like the images they use for the ads. The woman in the photo isn't available, but the sexual services are, and that's what matters. I'm told that Caucasian clients generally don't repeat their visit. The brothels really are intended for Asian men who speak the same language and have the same cultural expectations. Since people read the ads and assume that what's being offered really does exist even though they don't check to be sure, one effect of these micro-brothels is that they put enormous pressure on independent providers, particularly those new to our industry, to charge significantly lower fees even though they're offering a dramatically different experience. As for whether the workers are being exploited, a lot may depend on definitions. The women do know what they're going to be doing when they come to work. However, since it's not legal to work when on a tourist visa, none of them is here legally. It's difficult to say how much the workers in the brothels know about safer sex practices, about STIs or their risk of infection. We also don't know how much these workers know about their legal rights in relation to sexual assault except that they're unlikely to call the police if there's a problem. Since they're visitors and have little English language skills, they're not likely to be tested or treated for STIs while they're here. About 20-40% of the fee the client pays actually goes to the girl he sees. Compared to what she might earn at home, this is still a significant income. Compared to what independent companions and those who work for reputable agencies earn, it's highway robbery.

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When I run across a thread like this I just want to find the nearest wall and bash my head against it a few times. Guys - this is not rocket science! When you contact someone, generally you want something. Being as how the number of certified mind readers is demonstrably low, you need to verbalize a bit. If you are contacting a provider, that narrows things down a bit regarding what you want. But you still have to expand on "Hi." If you are a "Hi." guy or, to me, worse, an "Available? Rate? Location?" guy, pretend you are a grownup and, state, in complete sentences (noun and verb - adjectives optional), what you really want to say. I guarantee your life will be much better. As will the women's.

I think the ladies who last longer in this business are people who are sexually comfortable with themselves and while it's a lucrative business, I'm a firm believer in the fact that if you don't like what you're doing for a living then don't do it. I don't do anything I don't want to do and yes, while --some-- do it for the cash, they are usually in and out of this business fairly quickly. I treat this like a business but at the same rate, many ladies provide good service and are not revolving door when it comes to seeing clients. As for women enjoying sex with less partners, then please explain why married men come to see us? Some wives simply no longer enjoy having sex so that puts that theory right out the window. For the record, I'm not judging married men for doing that as that's what we are here for. In fact, I believe SPs do in fact save many marriages.

Standing in line waiting to refill a prescription at a St Laurent pharmacy:) The lady ahead of me begins to ask the pharmacist for a refill -pharmacist explains, this prespcription is at carling location, will have to call over there-will not be ready for an hour or so. Lady says ok, then asks, well can I pick it up at Rideau , much more convenient location. Pharmacist, then says ok, to pick it up at Rideau, you must go into Rideau, and ask them for the transfer from carling-lady then says well I will be going to carling tomorrow so-could I pick it up from there tomorrow.....at this point, the pharmacist was puzzled...also it was very busy and the line up was looooong. I then say, hoping to speed things along..lol: Mam, would you like to pick up your prescription from here , Rideau or Carling? She really turned around and looked at me like I was crazy... The pharamacist is there to fill a prescription, not decide the best place for pick up to suit your personal itinerary...

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That's a frightening thought!!! You have to wonder what goes through people's head at times...if anything all.

I will tell you about my first experience as an escort. I had no idea what I was doing in terms of security, information I needed to get, or even what to charge. I can be kind of impatient and rather than do much research, I threw caution to the wind and jumped in head first. It was with a gent from CL and it was pretty short and to the point--he only wanted oral. But he was clean and polite and the whole thing was over and done in no less than 15 minutes. And I had made what I would have at a full day of work at my then part-time job. Booyah.

Roamingguy...that is a crazy story. You are my hero....I don't think I could have gone through with that. LoL My first time was summer 2010. A less than stellar experience with a CERB lady. Very mechanical and antiseptic. She advertized as a GFE. But there was no touching,cuddling, caressing, DATY, or kissing. I was out of there before my 90 minutes was up with a bit of an empty feeling. I was less than impressed. Luckily the second woman that I visited gave me a much better experience, so I'm still hobbying. I learned a lot from that first experience. Posted via Mobile Device

I'll give this a shot, but I think it would be great for some of our ladies here to share their first time SP stories as well ... I'm sure there are some interesting stories there. For me, it was about 3 1/2 years ago when I first contacted Tracey at Ottawa Play Girls and arranged to visit Trish. I was way too shy to phone OPG, so my first contact was via OPG's website. Fortunately, Tracey wrote back or I still may be waiting. I was very nervous, and didn't last very long, Trish was wonderful, and we have had many visits since. I feel lucky as I really cant say that I have ever had a really horrible visit with any lady (maybe a couple close calls). But that involves taking the time to do my homework and try to find ladies that I know I'm going to have fun with.

As per the SP's request I can not mention the agency or her identity. My first time was in November 2010. I contacted an agency and asked for a specific lady I saw on there web site. This was a Safe GFE two hour session. She turned out to be every bit as beautiful as her pictures. She is tall, slim, fit blond with blue eyes and in her early 30"s. (She is not a member of CERB) We started off chatting and almost ran out of time. We did manage to get some play time in. I won't bore you with the details ;-) , but she was incredible! As she was leaving she handed be a card with her e-mail address on it. She said "I'm your little secret". I saw her four more times that month and every time she was amazing. Now I see her once or twice a month. We always start off with tea and chatting, followed by some play time ;-) , then finish the session with some more tea and chatting. She even touches base with me if I get bussy and forget to contact her. Did I mention she is an incredible kisser. I must say I lucked out with this one of a kind lady. Cheers, BTW I am seeing her again tomorrow evening.

My first sp encounter was in July 2010 in Kingston Unfortunately it was a "lady" from CL...but live and learn We had scheduled a time/date, with specific requests from her menu First was clothing request...dress and high heels (she agreed) She shows up dress and shower sandals, and a brace on her leg (her photos btw showed her wearing high heels and no brace) Then she says she's having her period, but "got to pay the bills hun, got to pay the bills" (I'm not making this up) so all she can do is oral, but there's lots of things I can do...what daty?????...think about it She asked for her feet to be kissed and toes sucked...I was game, but when I went down...well do you think she washed her feet She needed to take alot of breaks, and before she left, she asked to use the bathroom...do you think she closed the door!!! Booked two hours, but she wouldn't leave after time up She gave me this great offer though, be her exclusive client, and I could see her at her motel. She also suggested I pay for her to come to my place so I could cook her a meal As for not kicking her out when she arrived, she came by cab, and from my vantage point the cab never left the parking lot (over two hours)...discretion being the better part of valour, not knowing who was in the cab, I sucked it up and went through with the encounter That's why since then I avoid CL like the plague My other encounters have been much much better. Only good thing about this encounter, it got me over the hump of seeing escorts, I've just learned there are much better and classier ladies out there And this story is true btw RG