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Yep, the C-word. We hear it all the time; that it's a cure-all for interpersonal issues. As an SP, I communicate as clearly as possible in my ads, website and interactions so there is no misinformation and are no misunderstandings. My responsibility is to communicate, either written or verbal, effectively, clearly, and honestly. That's on me. Reading things thoroughly, and asking for clarification before making an assumption.... that's on you. Caveat emptor, buyer beware. Being aware means being informed. It takes time to inform yourself, and effort. Yes, a lot of the time seeing an SP is more-or-less on impulse. But that doesn't mean you can't take the time to familiarize yourself with that lady. Her services, her booking protocols, anything else you need to know to be an informed client. These things shouldn't need to be said, but they are said - often. The reality is there are enough guys out there who skim over important bits of information, or worse yet, think they are an exception and a lady will bend her rules for him. And rather than taking responsibility for their error (afterall, it is your responsibility as a client to be familiar with what the rules are), they transfer it onto the lady. She's bitchy. She's being unfair. How dare she stick to the rules and restrictions which she has already clearly outlined, can't she see I'm special? This kind of nonsense happens a lot, and the sad truth is that while there are times when a lady is genuinely at fault, there are also times when bitter men who feel slighted are not completely forthcoming with their contribution to events. It is this reason why I don't bother with the other place. It's far too misogynistic and I don't feel that women are being properly respected there. We have our responsibilities, both SPs and clients. I am not responsible for making sure your phone has minutes, providing transportation to my incall, or providing services that I do not offer just for you. You are not responsible for supplying my lingerie or condoms, making sure my phone has minutes, or my right to choose what I do with my body. Information is key. Communication is how that information is given. If you're not sure, ask. Don't make assumptions or fail to plan and then wonder why a lady is less-than-impressed with you. There's my mini-rant about communication and not trying to make someone else responsible for your (in)actions. Posted via Mobile Device

I am curious- why wouldn't you want to address the lady by her chosen companion name? I guess it would depend on the type of relationship you have established with her and how she personally feels about it. If it's the first time you are contacting her, I would refrain from using the hun, baby, sexy, etc. approach ;)

..and not every client thinks in terms of a menu...

I was fully hard today for the first time since my heart attack!!! Yay!!!!! Didn't last long as I was alone. Progress!! Major progress. :D

besides, I would rather someone say hey are you into greek, then do you take it up the ass.....

Sorry I have to disagree with you on this. Ladies who wish to discuss services offered usually have a menu listed in ads or on a website. Not all of us conduct business this way and some of us even take great offence when being treated like a pizza. To some people seeing a companion is an experience and not just a single act. If your seeking a certain service and not a complete package find a lady listing her services. I dont have a menu, nor will I ever provide one and my business does just fine. not listing services offered does not mean a client leaves disappointed. I can tell by the 2nd email that I exchange with a client if we will click and menu has nothing to do with it. Just cause a service is available or offered does not mean the client will leave happy. Not every Companion bases her business on a menu.

I've never been asked this question and I can't imagine why someone would. Samantha is not the name I was given when I was born, that's true. However, I've used this name for years. I answer to it as automatically as I do to my birth name. If someone decided that he preferred to call me "Elizabeth," instead, it wouldn't work for me. I'd also wonder what the real issue was. I'd be willing to hear his reasons, but if it's that my name is the same as his wife, his mother, his sister or his daughter, well, he knew that when he contacted me the first time. If my name is such a big deal, perhaps he should be seeing someone else. And so I think I would feel that he was trying to establish some kind of special claim on me or see if he could coerce me into responding to him in a special way. I have to remember that he's going to call me "Elizabeth" if I see him again. I should be careful to respond to that name if he says, "Would you care for a drink, Elizabeth?" "Are you ready to order dinner, Elizabeth?" and so on. Sometimes clients call me things like dear, sweetheart, darling, honey or love. I usually ignore it, but I don't actually like it, particularly the first couple of times we meet. We don't know each other well enough for these endearments or pet names. I do appreciate it when a client asks if it's okay, though, and when they do, I usually say yes but only because the ones who ask have always been established, long-term regular clients.

So is the name something odd? I imagine something like "sexymamacakes" might be hard to use in normal conversation, so in that context I agree it could be weird. Some dancers choose names that baffle me, non-name names like "Unforgettable" or "Superstarr".. so do I call her "Super"?.. awkward. I don't really have any advice. :confused0024:

Well then I guess I am one of the very few sp's who have age restrictions. I do not feel comfortable seeing someone who is 18 yrs old, therefore I would not see them. But hey , maybe it is just me. Also, it is my opinion that TMI is much better than not enough when composing messages to set up an encounter via this business.

Wow! What a lot of hard-asses. I am generally described as being just to the right of Ghengis Khan in matters of business, and advertising, however, I think that banishment is being unduly harsh in this case. I have no patience or tolerance for B&S, lies etc on ads. However, she was new, didn't know better and appears to have learned her lesson. At best, we let her back in, and she is a model citizen. At worst, she screws up again and her ass gets banned for ever. This has been so public now, most people will be taking anything she says with a grain of salt.

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I'm unfortunately going to derail this thread a bit more, but I'm a bit confused with some of what's been said. So for clarification purposes... This whole 'menu' discussion is a bit puzzling. Suppose a client likes certain acts, something that varies from one provider to another. Prior to booking with someone, by asking if that provider is okay with that particular act, I don't think constitutes treating someone like a pizza. Even if it's just finding out what's someone's limits are, I think I'd like to know that prior to seeing her then after I've paid her. I don't think I've ever met an SP with a plan of what I'd be doing, but I'd like to be completely cognisant of what I can expect, and what to stay far far away. And I would think that everyone would take great offence when treated anything less then a human. I think this falls in line more to what I think.

That is because the appliances and kitchen cost them money but the toilette and shower save them money Posted via Mobile Device

I have to get a feel for a gentlemen through conversation before I will even consider stating any availability. My rates are always in my ads and when I'm sent text asking available? rates? addy? it shows not only did they not read my ad, but they lack discretion for thinking I would be willing to text my address out to all text inquires be it men, possibly someones significant other, another provider even. There's no harm in being to the point, but introducing yourself helps you to stand out, shows a level of respect IMO that helps with the "I'm about to invite a new total stranger into my space and self" pre encounter anxieties that go with the territory. We have little if any info and certainly no pictures of you to help us form an opinion of whom is about to join us. I love when I get either a text saying Hi, I'm so and so, have heard great things on such and such site or word of mouth. Was looking to get together in near future/said date/length of time? Is there a good time I can call to discuss further? Being polite works as well too. This will stand out from the onslought of multiple texts of HEY. Hey Sexy. Whatup?. avail?rates?location? Where I going? etc. again this is just my opinion based on my experiences but I do feel it will help you stand out from multiple others.

Maybe you're wearing to many clothes, try taking your top off :) maybe that might help!

In my case.., i do not have a website, and i m always willing to reply to txts, emails, pms.., etc as long as the questions are being asked with respect..., for me the most important thing is that both the gentleman and myself are happy at the end of the massage session, is better to be clear and know exactly what to and what not to expect.... So i believe there is no dumb questions, as long as they are presented respecfully :-)

Okay well something is up, because I am definitely not technologically slow, and I don't see twitter anywhere in your profile, mine or T-Girl Kay's. Can you send a screen shot of what it should look like?

Actually I just check both emilyJ and Tgirl Kay and I can see your twitter feeds fine. Here's a screen shot of mine along with both of yours

Just wanted to add that you may get better results trying to book an evening appointment after dinner. Daytime appointment requests are often booked very early 9-11 even earlier, which is why prebooking is a good idea. It also gives the lady adequete time to prepare for your visit. Of course I can't say this for everyone, but has been my experience. Also an unblocked telephone call is taken much more serious by the provider unless otherwise stated in her ad. Here in Winnipeg many guys and possibly some woman will bombard us with texts (many just intended to waste our time or indulge in sexting) If you do text, I would text a friendly introduction of your name, when you are seeking to get together and what length of time etc. this will be replied to more so then 'hey u avail. Rates? location?"

Even though he closed his account, I like mrnice2. He brought an air of positivity to this community and was an asset to this board. While we all wish him the very best, he will be missed here RG

After a few emails back and forth with Bob54 where we discussed our likes and dislikes he suggested I meet with Jasmine, that she would fit my "likes" to a T ... and Bob I must say you were spot on! Big Thanks!! I met with Jasmine for an hour today and had just a wonderful time. I was greeted at the door of her luxurious hotel room by this natural exotic beauty, so petite but with the right amount of curves. Spinner sometimes is mis-used to describe "too thin", well let me assure you that it isn't the case with her. She is fully a woman but in a very petite frame: Nice perky breast, small but round booty ... Mmmm! So I freshened up with a quick shower and joined her on the bed for some chit-chat. We quickly moved on to some passionate DFK (a real turn-on for me) and she was a sublime partner to enjoy this with. If, like me, you enjoy sensual foreplay she will satisfy you fully! She moves so well, moans so well, changes pace so well ... are you seeing a pattern develop here? lol She is oh so beautiful to look at that I completely lost track of the stupid, psychedelic, completely irritating cartoon she was wathching on TV when I got there ... sorry inside joke between the 2 of us ... but seriously, it would normally be a distraction but our session was so passionate, our 2 bodies working in perfect rhythm, that we completely lost track of what was going on around us. Unfortunately for you this is how far I'll go in my description of our session, I try to stay a gentleman, but I can say that she easily brought me to ecstasy, twice! ;) What I also greatly appreciated about Jasmine is that I never felt rushed or running out of time. Actually I'm the one who brought up the time issue since I had a business meeting to get to after. Even though we had never met before we were able to laugh (out loud!) together and enjoy each others company and not just our bodies ... well I was enjoying hers mostly!! lol Until next time my Sweet Jasmine...

BP is a good source where a large number of ladies advertising if you love the variety as I do but picking from BP is also very risky (obviously for unknown ones not the ones already reputable) so be very careful when picking ladies from this site especially if they have no reviews or recommendations anywhere. Yes Cowboy's diary is a great source but also I personally ask a lot of questions via text, email or direct call. Yeah you may scare most of them away by these questions but you improve the likelihood that what you get is a good provider (in terms of looks and services) with real pictures and legal too. These are my personal (some recently added) rules when calling on BP (some may not agree that is why I said my personal rules). 1 - Outcall safer (for you) as no one hidden in closet or will block your way out if you refuse and since seeing a provider in outcall situation is 100% legal then you can always call the police if any wrong doing and she knows that (and she can too but I am a nice guy!!). 2 - Search for her number and if more than one girl is advertised by that number then it is a red flag, unless it is a reputable agency. 3 - Make it a prerequisite that the lady who shows up must be the one in the pictures otherwise it is a cancellation without any penalty. 4 - Make presenting an ID a prerequisite for those advertised between 18 to 20 upon arrival (and make ID mandatory if you suspect under 20 after her showing up in your agreement). If ID refused then make an agreement that it is a cancellation without penalty. 5 - Make an agreement on services that you require. Agree to pay the transportation fee (usually $40) and cancellation fee ($40 to $60) if the lady decides not to provide those services after seeing you and wishes to leave. For incall just a cancellation fee to be agreed upon. Be cool about it. remember it is always ladies' choice. But if she agrees to stay and refuses to provide agreed services, then it is a cancellation without any penalty. 6 - Agree to pay the transportation fee (for outcall) and cancellation fee above if the girl was the one in pictures but still you didn't wish to go ahead with the date (photo shopped pictures) and she must agree to leave with that fee not in full. 7- Let her know that it is important to you that she must be in this willingly. 8- After texts and emails are exhausted always call (to make sure she is the one picking the phone) and talk to the girl directly and see if she was really the one who read all the texts/emails and is aware of the details and agreements. Also convey your address (in outcalls) verbally when calling (not in text or email) and ask her to write it on a piece of paper. If you call and no one picked the phone that is a big red flag. In about 40% of cases you won't get any response and in about 30% of cases you get a negative response but in about one-third of cases you will get a positive response and then there is a 90% chance that it is a successful hit. You wish for a higher than 90% hit ratio then limit yourself to reputable cerb SPs and those on EC (with consistent recommendations on both boards). Do your homework (research) and avoid questionable sites like BP, CL and O@N.

Hello Readers Not the most PC savvy person even in my own family, I managed to go through a few different newcomer threads coming to the conclusion that perhaps an official newcomer introduction might be what I was searching for to make my first post rather than jump straight into a social group or a relevant discussion thread. Hence, the following. I am a mid twenties gentleman based in Mississauga, ON, with plenty of traveling within GTA. A hobbyist might be a strong word for me but in any case I do enjoy the company of courtesans from time to time. I am ofcourse new to this board and hopefully it might give a little more structure to future introductions as well as be part of this community. I look forward to making the acquaintance of some wonderful people. Till later. Md

Good afternoon gentlemen, First I would like to greatly apologize to the CERB members for posting misleading photos on BP. My name is Nichole and I am a Quebecoise advertiser (Was on Escorts Canada but they removed my ad because I was using these photos on BP causing them to receive complaints). My description and pictures on Escorts Canada were always 100% real and truly me as I have verified with Escorts Canada. Some of the pictures on BP of costumes and fantasy pieces were not me and they have now all been ERASED. I WILL ONLY POST ACTUAL PHOTOS OF MYSELF ON ALL SITES GOING FORWARD. I will clearly state my services and restrictions so that there is no confusion. I will only be able to offer mild to moderate submissive services, no longer hardcore due to some traumatic injuries. I am apologizing and asking the members to give me another chance. I will work extremely hard to rebuild my reputation with this community. Thank you for this opportunity. Deepest apologies, Nichole :icon_cry:

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GMAIL have been relatively excellent for me ... OUTLOOK.COM ;D its new I got my account name the way I wanted it. lol. have fun Meg!

i wanna make your dreams your reality :smile: Hey guys, I am a sensual, happy, sexy french 20 years old cutie, 5ft5 tall, green eyes, black hair, 34 D, 120 pounds, soft tanned skin! I love my job and I am looking forward to meet all of you really soon... I just cannot get enough :wink: I am available: Today from 11am til 11pm friday from 4pm til 11 pm saturday from 3:30pm til 9pm sunday from 10am til 9pm http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=6259 I workat a beautifulspa in the west end of ottawa and we have nice in room showers and a hot tub for you and I to enjoy :lovers: I offer amazing full body relaxation massage relieving your stress and tensions in your shoulders, taking away any pain in your back and ending with an explosion of FULL body relaxtion. slippery body slides work out of a clean, safe enviroment showers in everyroom that we can take advantage , lets get bubbly together. __________________

Last year I asked my landlord for new kitchen cabinets and appliances. The appliances are 30+ years old, noisy and a killer on the hydro bill. They turned down my request. This week they informed me that I will be receiving a new 3 liter toilet and a new shower head. WTF -- This is supposed to be a luxury high rise building....

I don't think a personal apology is necessary. I understand shit happens. And I am fairly certain the SP is sorry. I just thought it may have been something I said or did. Maybe I didn't give enough info or something. It's just a little frustrating when you wait a long time, to have the time to prebook an appt. with an SP you really,really want to see and it just doesn't happen. Although it's disappointing, I will try to contact this SP again in the future when I have the time. As I know her reputation is impeccable and her service is considered second to none. My philosophy has always been "Good things are worth waiting for". I appreciate your feedback DC. Thank you.

Funny I thought after years my name was "God" providers I've met, always did scream out "O my god...O my god....fuck...fuck....god...O god dont stop, O god right there, yes god dam it.....yes god....dam it...god fuck me harder...O fucking GOD going to CUM.....fuck yes fuck yes fuck YES.....O my GOD you are so fucking deep....yes god dam it more..more...im going to cum....oh fuck yes....god dam ....you made me cum...God that was fantastic......god I need to catch my breath ... :) Lol Sorry not to offend the fathers name in vain to possibly offend others.

Well put. I couldn't have said it any better. To me, it's about the whole experience not the parts that make the play time memorable.

Hello Ottawa, I just wanted to say thank you for the lovely visit. While the snow made it quite chilly, the warm welcome made it well worth it. It was great to finally become more acquainted with you! Have a great Thursday and coming weekend. Until we meet again, Kerri xo

The perception of heat transfer is an important attribute for me. Traditional condoms were very poor at this. Brands like Bare Avanti and Kimono are much better. A little silicone lube inside the tip seems to give me better heat transfer. Pjur Woman is a really great all-around lube -- great for guys too! Re bbbj vs cbj: for me cbjs just LOOK too silly to really enjoy. If bbbj is not on offer, I prefer to move onto something else rather than a cbj. And yes, I agree the experience is not about ticking off acronyms; for me, mutual sensitivity to one's partner's reactions is what generates that satisfying aura of pleasureable sexual chemistry. Creativity, past exprience and openness all count here...

Maybe the problem is simply that the SP's working name is the same as that of the client's wife, or his daughter, or someone else in his life. I guess I can see how that might be an obstacle. EDIT: I've just figured out that the OP is herself a woman, so... the SP could even have the client's own name! So a change of genders, but same in principle.

I can't see mine nor anyone else either

Just explain your situation, be respectful and polite, and I'm sure you'll have no problems. Some ladies may choose not to see you, but there are others who will. Far better to be upfront about your age, and find a suitable provider, than to show up, surprise the lady, and have a potentially awkward situation. Porthos

Nothing wrong with big curls, afros or any other hair type aside from straight hair. I think what the original poster of this thread meant was something like this....when he was referring to BIG HAIR ;) Even though, you gotta admit, Madonna looks hot in this pic xo

In reality condoms do have the potential to reduce some of the sensation during various sexual acts. However, in my experience there are many creative ways to make up for this issue. A mear adjustment of sexual position can easily increase the pressure and friction on the penis resulting in enhanced pleasure ie. any position where the ladies legs are pressed tight together. Additionally, the simple act of pulling back on the shaft/skin of the penis during either oral or penatration can easily kick it up a little. Be creative! If straight up missionary is not doing the trick mix it up until you find that sweet spot! Lets not forget that a very large portion of sexual enjoyment is mental so really let your mind get into it. Quite frankly, even the thought and mental picture of watching myself slowly enter a beautiful woman and hear her breathing change as she accepts me is enough to send me over the edge. Oh my! On that note I think I'm spent! Chuck

I've found the best combination for me are the non-lubricated condoms with the reservoir tips. Then, as you suggest, put lubrication in the tip before rolling the condom on. I --feel-- like the condom is less likely to slip off as I get a large section of condom around my shaft without lubrication, but the more sensitive part of my cock is lubed. Do condoms desensitize sex? Absolutely, but not so much that I'd choose not to have sex. :P

Guys if haveing a second bio dink around gives you the willys, find your self a second woman with a strap-on and have some fun.

Well, I once did go to visit Nicole, based on the posted pictures. Imagine my disappointment, surprise and discomfort when she opened the door. I do not like to be disrespectful, so it was very awkward and difficult for me to beg off and leave. There are two sides to every story and my side would explain why she would have been suspended. Having said that, I would have to agree that everyone deserves a second chance. I only wrote the above because I also believe that if it is given and she abuses that second chance, she should be swiftly and permanently banned. So, hopefully she proves us right. Good luck Nicole.

Busty Lana http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=75810 Additional Comments: FYI She took all of her pics herself.

I think I'd like to jump right into the introductions as well! Hi all! My name is Yvonne and I am an SP based in Toronto and the GTA! Pleased to make you acquaintance!

I met Lana before Christmas. Very intelligent woman. She is 6.1 with a couple ofxtra pounds at just the right place. She like what she does. Be gentle and she will make you see stars... Planning to see her again in two weeks. :bddog: :69::cooter:

I'll climb on board as well. Hi everyone, New member from the US here. Occasional visitor to Montreal. While I may not have many chances to make recommendations, due to my limited visits to SP's in Canada, I hope to be able to contribute to the board in more general way relating to interactions between SP's and Clients. Thank you, CW

Thank you! Yes I've been reading some of the sticky threads on newcomers' tips advice etc. Hopefully this might be snowballed by a mod to be a sticky newcomer thread, sort of a first stop irrespective of preferences and likes. Md

I must say I LOVE stockings. Bravo to all you girls who can wear stay-ups, but I have some pretty thick thighs, and they look best in stockings being held-up with a garter-belt, and some sexy heels of course. Now if you can find your way up to my crotchless panties...;)