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I am one stubborn bitch and will do what I please and never bow down to pressure. I am what I am and like me or not is your choice to see me or not and vice versa :). Peace!

So, after reading this thread and the BBFS thread, if some of you say that BBBJ is the same as BBFS then all the ladies who chose to offer BBBJs at their discretion should be blacklisted the same way as when a client asks for it? I offer BBBJs at MY discretion but I am certainly not willing to throw out the condoms out the window and start offering BBFS!!

This might not be a popular opinion and has the potential to offend some ladies but, from where I stand, I feel like it has to be said. Ladies, YOU are the one putting pressure on yourselves! If you do not want to offer a service, DON'T! It's that simple! Fact is, there are many successful SPs in this industry who only provide CBJs. I will not mention names because it is not my place to do so but if you do some research, you will find what you are looking for. Supply and demand: it is up to you to advertise and find your niche market; by having a niche market, you might no longer be reaching out to and/or appeal to the masses, the ones who have to have BBBJs BUT you will definitely find gentlemen YOU are compatible with and therefore, enjoy yourself that much more. Most gentlemen are great and will still see you even if you are offering a different type of service (please note I didn't say a lesser service) when it comes to oral. Most even prefer the whole experience over one single specific act. Ladies, have some confidence in yourselves! You are all great SPs/Companions who deserve to feel at peace when spending time with someone. Find your niche market and rock their world!

The problem with what you wrote here can be summed up in Mark Twain's words that there are lies, damned lies, and statistics. Yes, over 50% of the SP's "who responded" said they felt pressure. However only 30 SPs have responded to date. Is that a representative sample, or are most of the respondents just those who do not want to offer BBBJ? The trouble with this thread and the other on the topic, is that people are trying to use "statistics", and statements that imply they are being coerced, to win their point. If an SP does not want to offer BBBJ, then that is their choice. The fact that another offers it should not concern them. Read that again! It is none of their business. I have seen people argue on these threads that it is their business because another SP offering that service puts them at risk if they see the same clients. Well that would only be true if every client only had sexual encounters with "sex-workers". I can't recall ever getting a CBJ from a "civillian". So that shoots down that argument. The only way you would ever be truly safe is if everyone in the world only did oral covered. Again, whether a sex-worker offers a CBJ or a BBBJ, or DATY (covered or uncovered), or DATO, or Greek, or DFK or Mild BDSM, it is their own business and should not be debated here, or anywhere else, by other sex-workers or clients. Some sex-workers on here are saying they feel coerced to give BBBJ, but I would argue that this whole debate could be seen as an attempt to coerce or use the "court of public opinion" to get those who do offer BBBJ to change their service. That could be for safety reasons, but I could also imply it is to reduce what some may think is the competitive edge given to those who offer it. However, reading these threads and seeing the results of the poll you could draw the conclusion that it really doesn't matter one way or the other. Again, the decision to do a BJ covered or uncovered is up to the provider in question. It has no bearing on any other provider. You make your decisions based on what you feel is correct and guide yourself accordingly. What anyone else does is really none of your business.

I am posting this as remider that we are not super hero's and we are not invinciable! I came across this artical in hopes to just remind us that in our lifestyle, we need to be informed no matter how hard we want to put this issue in a box, and out of mind, we simly cant! http://metronews.ca/news/canada/609197/new-brunswick-officials-issue-std-warning/ This post is not intended to scare you, or annoy you, but just for a reality check. Play safe:)

I get asked to bring my yoga outfits (I wear nothing but Lulu lemon, hihi) just as much as I get asked to bring sexy French lingerie :) I recently had a client who wanted me to do very suggestive yoga moves with my outfit on. To spice it up a little bit, I poured a glass of cold water on my white and fit t-shirt (I was bare breast under), and then surrounded by mirrors I executed myself with very flexible moves. The water was cold as ice but the ambiance was hot as hell!

To address OP again, expect that without a reference you will likely be expected to provide real genuine information about yourself (name occupation, phone number etc.. As a first timer, I know that this can be very nerve wracking putting that out there but it will have to be done so make your mind up to it. I did it and so did every other client here at some point. The ladies here on CERB are professionals and just as you might be concerned about letting yourself become "vulnerable" to someone else, you have to realize what you are asking of the SP and how vulnerable that makes her. Take your time, read all the newbie and other threads, note who the prominent posters are and their reputations. Look at the wonderful variety of ladies in your area of interest (posting itself is a little skewed toward Ottawa ladies so search for your area). When you find a lady that appeals to you mentally through her posts and physically through her photo's, review her preferred method of contact and send her a polite complete message (no texting short hand for first contact) introducing yourself. Keep in mind that the more serious, sincere and forthright you are the better it will bode for you in the eyes of the lady. Keep to the three message rule, be ready to book by the third message, if you tend to drag it out she'll think you are just playing around. For me my first time, I actually took the time to write a carefully crafted letter in Microsoft Word, and having viewed the ladies requirements on her website provided her with much of the required information in the very first communication. I outlined that I was a first timer and what type of an encounter I hoped to experience. In my case my letter was about a page and even provided a sense of what the lady could expect from me and my personality (however I can be long winded as you can see from my post). The letter almost had a formal professional tone but softened just a little. In that situation it set the tone perfectly for the lady and she was very receptive to further communication and booking of a date. Think of the first contact as the 5W's (who, what, when, where and why) Who you are (cerb name and real name) What you want (type of experience your looking for) When you want it (time, date) Where you want it (incall/outcall) Why you chose the lady (what appealed to you) Once the first time is over, it'll feel much different after that! I know it can be scary the first time around, but I assure you the ladies are definately not scary one on one :) Now stop reading my post and go and book a lady! Chuck

I'm anewbie here (When will I stop saying that) and I have not had much experience with CBJs. Even though it didn't seem to make a differnce to me, I still find myself leaning toward those who offer BBBJ. That doesn't mean I excluded those who only provide CBJ as I have seen several on here that I really want to meet. I certainly would not be one to pressure anyone into anything they don't want to do. There are many factors to the clinet moving on from an SP. (Although having so many beautiful SPs on here makes it difficult). Price and other restrictions can affect it. The one thing I do look for is DFK (and kissing in general). I haven't seen many on CERb but if they say they will not then I look elsewhere. What can I say, I love kssing This business is like any other business. Supply and Demand. It's the driving force behind how any product is offered. That being said, there is one factor that most business don't have to deal with and that is that something is unsafe. As for you lovely SPs, it is always difficult to figure out a line you are willing to draw and not cross. There will always be clients that will move on if you don't provide certain things (ie the DFK). There are always SPs willing to provide things you might not want to. You have already drawn certain lines. Some won't provide Greek, others at an extra cost ect. Sometimes you have to stay away from the mainstream and find a niche market. Don't worry about what others are offering or what clients you may lose. Most of you ladies on here have so much more to offer so I would only hope that only a select few customers would be lost due to this limit. And hopefully new clients will start lining up

It's scary when you find out your information, particularly your location has been shared without your consent. I've recently had an issue with a few friends exchanging my info, details, location, with each other, and once I realized what was going on, I stopped contact with all of them but explained why their indiscretions can lead to serious problems for a lady, particularly an incall provider.. It makes me feel very unsafe that this info circulates, and while I do enjoy my incall location, and am very comfortable there, it's unnerving to feel it has been compromised in any way, even if the outcome isn't of the worst..

Love is a key to life. It only becomes a problem when you love more than one person (relationship wise)

"The market" produces sweatshops, child labour, and kiddie porn. "The market" will blithely chart the point where those who want it can even get bbfs. "The market" says nothing about whether its outcome is good or laudable, it just plots all those points where anything that's desired finally gets close enough to shake hands with someone else's willingness to provide it. That willingness might be coaxed by more cash, or simply extracted by the provider's desperation at some particular moment. Pay enough, or find someone desperate enough, and sure... "the market" will eventually provide just about anything you can think of, no matter how bad an idea it is for one or both parties. Despite the thread we're in, I make this point not to condemn bbbj; I just have no patience for the idea that "the market" is an unquestionable arbiter of desirable outcomes, and that its workings are good for all participants. When your alternative is starvation or eviction for you and your family, you can just barely be described as a free and willing participant in the market for a service you then provide. It's not always civilized to let "the market" take its course. Human values often require intervention, and at least some regulation. This glosses too breezily over what factors might play into what a provider decides is "appropriate". Several admirable and insightful SPs in the last couple of days have stated clearly that they push the line to a place they're not entirely happy with, because that's what it takes to secure clients in "the market". And only an untalented SP, having already made her decision, will let you know during an appointment that yes, the market has forced her into a place she doesn't want to be. I'm troubled by this sentence, but maybe you mistyped. Did you really have BBFS in mind here too?

I will start.. Why is it that American Nextflix is waaaay better than Canadian Netflix? Add your "Why is it?"

Sooooo.... For strictly educational purposes, I have been studying the nude female form on the internet. I know what you are saying, "God Bless you Old Dog for making such a sacrifice for the benefit of CERB." Really my friends, it has been an honour to serve my community in such a manner. I know this has been a topic discussed before BUT... it's so damn much fun to talk about . When I was a kid back in the dark ages, the female form and the actors in the Planet of the Apes had one thing in common. Robust foliage. A vast amount of shrubbery. A tree lined avenue to paradise. A big bush out front to keep the neighbours from seeing the valuables. Then came marriage. <shudder> When I re-emerged into the land of the enlightened, I had noticed a change to the landscape. Women had decided (without my input, I may add) to trim the hedges.... way back. A clean front yard to match the back as it were. No extraneous vegetation. Curtains no longer needed to match the carpet. The wall to wall broadloom was removed for hard wood floors. I tell you it came as quite a shock. My ex rarely let me near the garden. So to see a wealth of women sporting the clean as a whistle look I was at first dismayed, but I have become used to it. BUT NOW..... here's the thing. I finally got used to seeing women sporting that newborn look when all of a sudden.... it seems to be changing. I see little welcome mats. Table runners. Throw rugs in all shapes and sizes. Some are even going back to a sleeker version of the acquired growth. Every site has a good percentage of women that are sporting some degree of folicular activity in the nether regions. So I ask (for purely educational purposes only) is this a trend that is re-emerging? And how do we feel about it? I know for me, bare is great but I have always had a fondness for just a smidgen of what emerged at puberty. It doesn't have to be like the amazon rain forest, but a nice little landing strip just sets me more at ease. What are your thoughts?

Morning all! While I was "off" recovering, had lots of time to think (I know, I know it does not happen often!). Thought about all the lovely Ladies who are so talented, I just wanted to point it out and say "thank you". We have Ladies who are full time MP's or SP's. We have Ladies who balance "traditional" work lives, in the government, at hospitals, in offices, in banks, etc. and then spend time with us hobbyists. And we have Ladies who are still in university and college, some even in Masters level courses handling that workload, then spending time with us. Then we have the Ladies who balance their work lives with children, then work, then with us. To all of you, thank you. You are special folks who work hard to make us hobbyists happy. The Liquor

I digress. I think everything is fair game. To say that some topics are irrelevant discussion just seems bizarre to me. I don't know what you picked up from this thread, but I did learn something new from it. Here's what I do with a thread with a topic I have no care in the world for - ignore it. I can't think of any industry out there that isn't influenced by what their competitors are doing. To say that what another SP does is none of another SP's business is in my opinion massively presumptuous. Nevertheless, I haven't read many SPs on this thread actively denigrating others for offering the service. Finally, statistics aside, lets look at one fact. 16 respondents replied with the feeling of being pressured. I can't for the life of me begin to understand that sort of pressure in this case, but I can do my part in alleviating that concern. Call the stats completely bogus, but you can't deny that for whatever reasons, even for those that you think are dumb or non-existent, they are some you do have the feeling of being pressured. At this point it just becomes your decision with what you decide to do with whatever you've read here. I've already said what I'd do from now on, and if you read my previous comment again, you'll see I don't try to impose this on anyone else. Why this thread is important to me- I saw something that raised an alarm in my head, and decided to do something different. I am glad for this sort of discussion.

Don't take my statements to mean the market makes the right or ethical decision. If it did, would I be using my iPhone today? (another topic, another day). The market only has the values that those in it want to stand up for. It's up to people within the market to make the right decision for them and for groups to condemn and oppose factors within said market that are wrong/illegal/immoral/etc. I meant BBanything. The risks have been mentioned and argued about by others in this thread. We are lucky that it is acceptable to use birth control here. We are lucky in Canada to have extremely low, but not 0, rates of HIV and we have fairly low rates of STIs. If you're worried about STIs it's easy to walk in to your local ER, get antibiotics and move on. Is that the case elsewhere? My point is because of these 'benefits' of where we live we're having this discussion. Would those who want BBFS or BBBJ here do the same on vacation in Thailand or Africa?

I'm bumping this thread back up (as a reminder), as i've recently stumbled on a location being shared, with part of the information going "public". As clients, this is not our information to share with anyone, for any reason.

I would much rather get a BBBJ than a CBJ. It would not stop me from seeing a provide however. If the provider meets what I'm looking for she could cover it up twice for all I care!!! :)

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Is not a matter of seeing a girl that works for an agency or works indpendent, at the end is the lady you want to meet! And this may sou d like the repetition of the repetition but here on Cerb you will only find reputable providers, your research and reading will ensure you that your first experience, agency booked sp, independent sp, spa MA, or independent MA, will be pleasurable and memorable! Good luck and enjoy CERB!

Hello Gents! Come on in for an ultra tantalizing and tempting erotic massage session with a few twists and turns, you will love. Beautiful brunette who loves to explore and be explored! Hazel eyes, silky smooth kissable skin. curves in all the right places, you will love to get your hands on me. gorgeous features. Italian & French mix. 36C-28-38, 5'3, 125lbs. fit figure. I am a bubbly, outgoing, playful, sensual, reliable and friendly MA. I love to play & it shows. I provide many different options we both will enjoy ;). come join me for the ultimate in satisfaction. Location: Merivale & Hunt Club. (INCALLS ONLY) clean, dis--creet, upscale. soapy showers for 2 ;). lots of free parking. Available: Tues: 3:30-11 Wed: 3:30-11 Thurs: 3:30-11 Sun: 3:30-11 Call. Text. Email. PM me to book an appointment or enquire about my services and pricing. 613-600-3943 (no blocked calls pls) or you can text me [email protected] Angels Touch: 613-274-7073

Love has to be one of the most amazing and fulfilling emotions there can possibly be. How else to describe such a deep emotional response that is centered not on yourself, but on the profound impact that another person has on you. You subsume yourself within your love for the other person. You become defined by them. To be in love is quite simply the most wonderful thing imagineable. It completes your soul and allows your spirit to sing. I hope everyone finds their love. Porthos

Hello gentlemen, it's a beautiful day outside and it's time to get out here and have some fun!! The sun is shining and it's perfect patio weather for a drink...after a nice little massage here with your favourite travelling girl ;) I'm a model tall 5'10, a curvy woman's body that's got the perfect shape you've been looking for! I've got bright green eyes that will put you in a daze and a smile that'll melt you inside. A bubbly, sweet and perky personality that'll get you smiling and feeling amazing! I offer a great massage and slippery, sensual body slides that you won't soon forget! Come be teased and pleased by me, & add that perfect part to your day!! Check out pictures at : http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=6723 Call to book an appointment while you can at 613-820-8887 ! She's planning more travelling... so come get her while you can... they don't call her Travelling Charlie for nothing!

Hey there... If your looking for some sweet attention or affection ill be sure to satisfy you 100% with pleasure... I give a very good massage and I offer slippery/sexy body slides...I am super easy to talk to and have an extremely bubbly personality. Come enjoy my tight body and beautiful assets, while I make you feel relaxed, turned on and glad you came.... I work at Paradise Spa, located in the west end of Ottawa... It is an upscale, classy and discrete spa with showers in every room... The rooms also include large mirrors, music and black lights to intensify your sensual experience... In calls only please Available until 4pm today Off Wed 9am-4pm Thurs Call 613-820-8887 to book an appointment XOXOX

If there is any reaction, both are Transformed! Welcome Gents, my name is Tiffany. I am 5'11" tall, Athletic Build with blond hair, hazel bedroom eyes, and a smile that will drive you crazy!! I believe in the simple pleasures of life, and love sensual experiences!! From the moment I walk into a room with you, you will feel the connection between us. From the first soft flirty move I make to a finish that will leave you weak in the knees, you will be thanking yourself for spending time with me! You will always leave my room felling relaxed and with a smile on your face!! Contact me by PM, text me at 613-277-4328, or call the Spa at 613-820-8887 to Ensure My Avaliaility! Check out what others are saying about my service!! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=111731 Schedule TODAY Tuesday March 26th: 10:00am - 7:00pm 65 Bentley Ave. 613-274-7073 Wednesday March 27th: 3:30pm - 11:00pm 65 Bentley Ave. 613-274-7073 Thursday March 28th: 10:00am - 4:00pm 65 Bentley Ave. 613-274-7073 Friday March 29th: 4:30pm - 11:00pm 65 Bentley Ave. 613-274-7073 Life is to be enjoyed. not just endured -Gordon B. Hincley

Although I like BBBJ but it has never been a preference for me. The quality time spent with the companion matters most to me.

As an Angel/Paradise Spa Attendant (MA) I would say I am more than happy to shower with my clients... But if you would like a shower together to start things you are best to let your attendant (MA) know. My standard is that the start of the appointment shower is for hygiene sakes.... ensure your day is washed away so to speak. But I do have clients that enjoy a few extra hands to ensure they are all clean and that showers are more than fun when done together. For these clients... or one that requests I would love to jump in the shower with you at the begining of the appointment! At the end of my appointments I enjoy spending that extra time to clean off with my clients..... As it is a "total experience" that we at AT/PS are offering, if you would like to spend more time in the shower ( or really have any reasonale request) please ask your attendant(MA), and I am sure they would be more than happy to oblige you! Happy Hobbying..... xoxoxo Tiffany

I like bigger girls with good hygiene. When I say big girls I mean not just big boobs but big all around.

Why is it that some people are sooooo insecure?

This is really a Saturday highlight. I spent 5 hours on Sat. at the annual J S Bach Marathon in the chapel at St. Lawrence University. Drudgery to most, but a yearly event for me! The S L U string orchestra, S L U Laurentian Singers, and other groups are superb. An afternoon of cantatas, Brandenburg concertos, and other works as the sunlight brightens the stained glass windows-------sublime! In fact it inspired a small work from the pen of my close friend, Count Pierre Francois de la Crankenstein: Sometimes a music lover just needs to have a bit of Bach Even though at heart he'd really rather rock The highest form of music which he will never knock The sound of soft young lips as they hum upon his cock

I don't think it means that the SP is naive. Rather, it means that we've made different choices based on personal risk-tolerance. There are many good reasons for choosing to offer BBBJs and many good reasons for choosing not to do it. I, for one, do not denigrate ladies who provide this option. I trust them to know what's best for them. I know some women, for example, who get tested every month and feel this provides them with more information and support for their choices than being tested every three months, for example. Others base their decisions on the number of guests they entertain. Some have health issues that make them more susceptible to infections in general and decide to limit their exposure for that reason. Everyone is different. It certainly IS possible to be successful in our industry while offering only covered contact. I've done this for a very long time. It's also true that there are potential clients who will not tolerate this restriction and may be considered a loss in business. Sadly, there are some clients who feel entitled to pressure paid companions into performing BBBJs even when they've been informed prior to the meeting that the option isn't available. They seem to think that it's okay to object to the condom after things are well underway, to refuse to continue the meeting, to demand a full or partial refund of the fee they've paid, to make threats about reviews and recommendations or even to go through with the engagement but write highly disparaging reviews later on.

I don't know if it's just me, but using a real name or not, I'm not inclined to discuss the details of the encounters I have with my guests.

I'm pretty sure my cat thinks the bathroom is a petting station. I sit down and seconds later, there she is, assuming the position (ass towards me, facing out). She actually looks back at me and meows if I don't pet her right away. When I'm home alone, I don't even bother with the door because she's just going to try to push it open anyway.

Why is it that some people can't be happy for your succes, but instead jelousy takes over them... And is never about how hard you work but how lucky you are!

Why is it when people shovel their driveway, they throw the snow out on the street?

I say go for it - as long as you're not being forceful, your partner can let you know if that type of advance isn't welcomed. But I think it's fairly easy to see the signs...when giving her a passionate kiss, put your hand on the back of her head, and pull her hair a little...I know I've had moments like these, and when my partner has pulled my head back like this, he can see that naughty sparkle in my eyes which means... GO ON. Take me, hard. It's not always the right moment...but when it is, who DOESN'T like a good, hard, fuck? You can also just walk in and say it - "You're gorgeous, and I want to jump on you like an animal and fuck". See what she says :D (Hahaha I'm turning myself on here, can you tell I've been off all weekend?!)

I think this is a bit like loose lips sink ships or what happens in Vegas stays in Vegas, one can poll all they want but the reality is it's become more prevalent, offered more often and requested more often in the last 2-3 years. This might be because of new players, providers and johns alike who have a different attitude about the bbbj issue. I also think it is a bit of a YMMV kind of thing and those who don't include it or advertise it specifically as a menu option want to have the ultimate choice of providing it or not. But I've seen reviews and recommendations that specifically state bbbj being provided then read the ad for the provider and see it is specifically not offered. In the end who really knows for sure. Peace MG

Another hilarious, creative post by the Dog. If I may give a females perspective of the subject-since we all wear clothes now we no longer need the protection of the hair. But what is esthetically pleasing seems to somewhat follow fashion and the ever disappering isty bisty teeny weeny bikini. The smaller the swimsuit or g string and other unmentionables the more we groom so the hair isn't visible and lets face it's just more hygienic. Who wants to go down on someone with a big mound of hair there, well some I'm sure some don't mind but I would suspect with the majority of women going bare or nearly there the popular consensus would be less is better. I feel bad for the bush lovers , however I'm sure there are some women that prefer au natural as well.

Right now my favourites are Ariel and Bridgette @ Barbs.

You can expect to pay about the same whether you see an indy MA or someone at a MP. The difference is that for an indy MA you'll know what the deal is up front and hand over an envelope with the whole lot in it; if you visit a MP then you'll pay two separate fees. There's a door fee that goes to the establishment and covers the use of the facilities, and then a fee/tip/call-it-what-you-will, which goes to the MA. But, as I said, it works out about the same. I generally just ask the MA what I owe her when I'm there, but many of the MAs a spas are on the board now so you can always drop one or two of them a PM and ask in advance if you like. If in doubt about $$$$, put a bit extra in your wallet, just in case! As far as tips beyond that go (anything extra for an indy MA at all, or anything beyond her bit of the total for an MA at a spa)... I believe it's always appreciated, but never expected.

I blacklist clients who ask for this, as to me, it signals not only a disrespect for my health, but their own and potential partners as well.

I have built my business on the "slow down and savour" model. I realized when I returned to Canada that in my career, my favorite times and most memorable moments were those that I spent "time" with a guest. I remember those special men that took the time to get to know me and allow me to know them as people, not just a romp. Today I dedicate my energy to those men that know they want more than just a play partner, they want a NSA relationship that is beneficial to both of us on more than just a physical/financial level. They need to want the connection that comes from knowing and genuinely liking someone. I want to look forward to my guests, to count down the sleeps till I see them and savour the experience from the moment they walk thru the door until they depart with kisses and and our next visit is scheduled. I refuse to waste a minute with someone I can't connect with even tho this is my work. I don't want to be rushed or feel like I'm counting the minutes till he leaves. Life is too short to be taken for granted and our time is too precious to waste. So ciego5757, yes you can take your time. You just need to choose partners that see the world the same way... cat

From the Client's Perceptive, Ladies, your running a business and clearly, there is a demand for your services. Please consider me as one of many examples. I do enjoy the services you provide however your services are not limited to pant's off to pant's on. Granted, that's the fun part. I appreciate the following skills, 1.The ability to schedule, don't throw an ad on the last page and wait for my call. You'll be too busy with the drunken sailor. 2. The ability to pick a quality location / hotel. I can blend in an upscale lobby in business attire but I can't stand outside knocking on your door looking over my shoulder. 3. The ability to keep me informed of your travel schedule. When our schedules meet up, It's great to know in advance and allows me to book in advance and gives me something to look forward to. 4. The ability to know your strengths. One example may be that most SP's are not great photographers. An i phone and a mirror is not considered a professional photo shoot. Post a professional photo and the quality of calls will come. 5. Work your regular clients. Trust is not something initially purchased however is something I will gladly pay for again and again. I pay for it in dollars, time and miles to see one of my regular SP's. Well, that's it from my perceptive. Anyone providing these skills gets my attention and my dollars. Speaking of which, thanks to a quality provider sending me an email two weeks ago, including a professional photo, advising me that she will be in town at a quality hotel.....I had the most wonderful lunch date today. Just my thoughts.

This may not be the same but when I was on a certain type of antidepressant my sex drive and erection were all the same but had extreme difficulty achieving orgasm. I was like the energizer bunny kept going and going. I tried different lubes some that xy his and hers helped a bit. Different toys we vibe was nice I found that the cheaper condoms worked best. But ultimately sex is as much emotional as it is physical and because I like to please a woman the more she enjoyed it the easier it was for me. Although this was for me may not be the same for other and like I said it was caused by the medication and not Ed.

Several ladies can give a decent massage..but thats not what I see them for...Zoe apparently gives a great massage..all her other services are top notch....so I imagine massage would be too, although whenever I see her we skip the massage part ;)

It is after 12 now so I'd like to make the lovely Nathalie my Goddess of this day. I was fortunate enough to spend some time with her at a party late last year and her outer beauty was only overshadowed by the perfection within.

just cause a girl doesnt want to speak on the phone doesnt necessarily mean shes bad or up to something. could just be using a pay as you go phone and talking uses up a lot more money then texting.

i tried asking that tonight and she said "i am independent, i only have my cell phone" to which i responded, ok well then do you mind that i call you before i enter your in call? or before you come to the outcall location? she said TEXTS only. So i said no thank you, i will pass. and it just kept bothering me and i just wanted to post this in the thread and see if there were people out there that have met for arrangements only through texting. my biggest fear was that i would show up to the in call, and on the other side of that door, was not a woman, but a man or two with weapons waiting to knock me out and get the donation that was discussed. i don't like to pre judge, but i just don't know!? who is texting ...

Don't know about Jessica but I was there this weekend because I saw Lucy's car in the parking lot. I needed a pedicure badly and Lucy is the one I trust the most with my feet. It was great to see her and reminisce, we know each other a long time. I then went for an hour massage from her heavenly hands. Guys, let me stress ...... NO FINISH HERE. But the massage is excellent as well as pedicures. And yes, insurance receipts are provided. For all the Lucy fans, she said she is working Fri, Sat & Sun for the time being as she is going to school other days. She also offers acupuncture services now, that's what she was at school for the last few years.