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Yes most ladies advertise in advance, however the majority don't book anything in advance (hotel, airfare,etc). Then when they go to do so, it is VERY expensive and there are NO hotels left. Then we all read a random I NEED help(Ive arrived and there are no hotels,etc)post on the board. There may be interest, but if there is not enough pre bookings made or pre screenings done, the trip may be cancelled (this however only applies to ladies that screen) Plus unless a lady is well established, cancelling a trip can bite her in the ass on a future attempt at visiting as when she re-annouces her trip there will be less people likely willing to pre-book with the chance that she no shows or cancels her tour.

I am definitely not ashamed of my choice to be an escort/companion.. If anything, I find it empowering. I took ownership for what I truly enjoy, exploring sexuality and pleasing people, and am spending my time and efforts into making my business out of it. I see this as one of my kinks, I just thank the universe that other people enjoy it too ;) Yes, I know its taboo, it blows my mind how porn, webcams and the like, as public and indiscreet as they are, are generally considered more acceptable than being a paid companion who noone would recognize, and conducts business behind closed doors. I wouldnt be comfortable exposed completely for all to watch, but remove the cameras and thats taboo? lol Although I'm not about to announce my current career at a family dinner (I know most would never understand my choice, nor do I feel the need to justify it), I'm proud to be able to do what we do, I know its not for everyone, but it works for me, I enjoy it, and am not hurting anyone. If someone close to me wanted to start in the business, I wouldnt discourage them, but I would be completely honest of the pros and cons, risks etc, as it isnt a choice to make in haste. But done safely, and with the proper amount of care and consideration, I wouldnt have an issue with a friend/loved one trying it, they may truly enjoy it as much as I do ;)

I agree. This event, where Cat is concerned could have happened in another time and in another place as well, and is out of context with it being a disclosure of personal info. I think the post was more of a shot at a recent,polite, query by Nicolette on a post by Il Re

Hi Ladies, I see you all like to post pictures of yourselves. As a fan of America's Next Top Model, I've learned that looking good in real life and looking good on camera are VERY different things. Some of you seem to have more success than others in bringing out your best qualities so perhaps these articles I've recently come across will be interesting for some of you. Some tips from a professional model: http://jenbrookmodel.tumblr.com/post/50341534413/dear-model-kindest-regards-other-model-xxx Some tips from a kid who does cosplay: Hope you enjoy.

I don't see a problem with her post. It's done in complete anonymity so nobody will know who it was. Even if it's a recommendation board, there's still "negative" threads. (turn-off, what not to do, bad experience, etc) As long as nobody is pointed (and no "subtle" hints), it helps this community and everyone present to have better experiences.

Very simple answer, I will simply add "NO GLASSES TO BE WORN" like my other non negotiable rule... NO SOCKS ONCE NAKED! cat

Ashamed? No, I know what I do and don't feel that. I am recently open to some that live around me, not my family though However, a neighbor I think has figured out who I am online. Asking stupid questions like "you are 5'4" right"? Not a question someone would normally ask a friend. So, I'm thinking, great now I have an idiot who thinks he knows something about me. I've managed to deflect his questions as someone who is rambling while drunk. He pisses me off. When I am home, I am not Meaghan. I am me. I dress differently, act differently - I am me. I don't want people thinking they can spend time with my working self for free. I never see friends or aquantainces in this business. If they call me, I will tell them so. I would rather keep the friendship. However, if the friendship starts to intrude into my working self, I will sever the relationship. I still won't see them because they disrespected my boundaries. I am very blunt to those that overstep the boundaries. To the point of telling them I will deck them if they continue. This neighbor has not taken it a step further. However, if he has not figured it out yet, he will soon. He has shown me disrespect by asking the type of questions he has asked. His opinion of me does not matter to me. However, my guard is up on him. Ashamed? No, I am proud to be able to provide this service. Proud of the quality of the encounters I provide. Not everyone can do this. There are those that think they can, and quickly figure out they cannot. xoxo

Well, I smile very frequently but today was because my Son left me a bag of bits and bites with an awesome note!

Supertramp. On vinyl. On my turntable. At an unacceptable volume level. Bwahahahahaha. LOVE it.

For the curious, the review is here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=439388 Great to renew acquaintence with you last night, Megan. So happy I did :-)

I'm going to stick my neck out on this one, if I may comment of how I see the difference? The thread that was removed may have succeeded in something: The esteem of other members that find such an acquisition impressive. Now as far as this thread is concerned, The OP brought to our attention something that is not always embraced by it's audience as it digs into the "smelly" reality of what makes us human. Cat had only responded to the OP's query. Double standard? I simply just don't see it that way. This is just my opinion, but I don't think these things should be taken so seriously. Especially since it all started with one tiny little innocent fart? :)

In the west end today come stop by and have some fun with us, their from 11-12 don't miss out ;) Lots of sexy play time.

I like her to be engaged and interested.....the rest will take care of itself.. Peace MG

I sincerely want to thank all who responded as I've been surprised and thankfully educated and now informed. This above response was the main reason I thought men wanted to give up "the lead" I had no idea and feel rather silly for it, for not realizing that men need to be desired and need to see and feel that on a session. I guess I still have old thoughts and ideas such as- if a guy gets sucked and fucked, excuse my bluntness- that he'll be happy. Obviously, and hence the gfe, men want passion just as much and maybe even more than women. Thanks for enlightening me. For me the wonderful and most exciting aspect of these relationships is the learning process, As in life every moment/session is a new one and something can be learned from it. To the men that like to be dominant or take the lead-yum!!:biggrin:No matter the role one takes on understanding one another is the first and most important step, then chemistry, then fireworks, then big smiles-enjoy everyone and thanks.

May be easier to say what does not make me smile.... Coffee in the morning!! that may be #1... without my first cup of coffee I may not smile all day.... OK I will smile but not as big and bright.. hehe Then a hug... then kind of one that warms your entire being.... feels like home and you could just live there forever! My Favorite song on the radio... a bit easier now that I have Sirius radio and my songs are programed to alert me when they are playing on a station I am not listening too!!! love Love LOVE this option! Sunshine!! pure plain and simple! there is a million and 2 more, but I will stop there for now! :) Keep smiling all!! Kisses, xox

Your welcome Cato; I probably am responsible for 100,000 of them :) Seriously though thanks for starting this thread and contributing valuable insight.

I think texting has become more acceptable now as the speed of technology increases along with the instant gratification it brings. Also, some SPs have realized that it has worked for them as we can't always answer the phone or perhaps we're among family or friends where we can't answer the necessary questions that clients ask. As long as texting isn't abused in the sense that a person isn't going to ask a million questions text by text, it's fine as long as there is a light at the end of the tunnel in terms of getting straight to the point. The texts I like to receive that know my time isn't being wasted goes as follows..."Hello Nicolette, my name is xxxxx and I was wondering if you're free today at xxx hours for half hour? Thanks very much....xxxxx" There was a recent thread regarding sending a text and simply saying "Hi" to an SP. This is fine as long as the next text is going to get straight to the point. And if you're wondering about what services an SP provides, ask it all in one text. Sometimes we are driving or doing whatever and one text after another that drags on for 10 or 15 minutes can sometimes go against the efficiency in how we run our business and book appts. Hope this helps. :)

I'm a bad liar. A very bad liar. Best I can seem to do is omit details. Because of this, whatever I do I have to be ready to admit it. This means if my mom, kids, or an eventual girlfriend were to ask me, I'd have to answer the question. It took me a while to take the first step (must have restarted that intro PM a dozen times). I had to convince myself that while this is frowned upon by the bible-thumping population, that I was doing no harm or even disrespect. There was a lot of social conditioning to work through, which many of lurking members which haven't taken the jump yet are probably working through too. The "no shame" posts seem to predominately come from the more active members, those who have been around and have accepted who they are. I'm guessing that for each "no shame" post, there are at least a handful of those which do feel some shame. I invite them to take advantage of the cerb anonymity to share their views. It might end up being liberating.

Admittedly, I could lose 20-25 lbs for health reasons even though I'm considered healthy but the way I am built, I will never be stick skinny and I've come to accept that. I hit 110 lbs one time and my face looked sickly and gaunt and was told I looked like a 12 year old elf. I'm the only one in my family with boobs, ass, an hourglass figure and am proud of it. I don't listen to haters or those assholes on other sites who tell me I'm too fat. I really couldn't give a flying fuck. I'm an attractive woman and my track record in this business speaks for itself with my long list of regulars and new clients. Self acceptance is one of the greatest freedoms I have ever experienced!

I'm new to CERB and would love to get my name out there a little more. I'll be at barb's tonight and tomorrow from 9pm-2am. Hopefully I'll be able to put faces with names! XxooxX Megan

Agree 100% :) The body is an amazing wonder, with so many things constantly going on inside us... sometimes you can't control all these functions as perfect as you wish. I think a quick "sorry!" and a laugh would be appropriate for sure. Quiffs, sneezes, farts, coughs and giggles... sex is not somehow magically exempt from these things. Our bodies are magnificent and we should not be ashamed of them in any way. :) I actually posted a video and wrote a short piece related to this subject last night on my blog. Titled, Sex is not a Fairytale, which says it all. Sex is human, raw and so very imperfect. It's not always, (or ever) like in the movies with chocolate dipped strawberries, fireworks and simultaneous orgasms. Sex is what it is. Sex is sweaty, with different smells, uncontrollable motions, funny noises, funny faces, and that's okay, and that is how I like it. :)

Eh, farts happen. Apologize, laugh, keep going.

Perhaps I am old fashioned and this is just my personal opinion. This falls under the same category for me as not eating garlic, onions or strong food prior to a date. I don't like to smell these things so why would anyone else. I realize the body has a mind of its own and may even ad some humor to any situation but for me that is quite a no no. It would just never happen.

Kris makes an excellent point. I am amazed (maybe embarrassed is a better description) that there are so many guys that want to hit on the RMT's thinking that deep down inside, these girls MUST be itching to jerk a guy off for a change.. And as for guys that think they are going to find an RMT that will jerk them off and then process the billing thru their Blue Cross coverage?? OMG... Please, do us all a favor. Stop imagining that every RMT that advertises is going to miraculously provide you with a happy ending. These people are in this business as registered practitioners. This pisses off the RMT's, their Association, and the cops. Give it a rest, fellas...

Hi all...have had a few requests lately for pregnant or lactating SPs....is there really a market for this?? JW because I know of a couple of former SPs that would be willing to do this that are currently expecting....PM me or respond to the thread....just wanna know what you are into.... ;)

Took advantage of this cool grey day to read a book... and throw some vinyl on the turntable. Dammit, there is NOTHING like listening to old tunes with a few hisses and pops - it sounds silly, but it's the imperfection that makes it perfect.

Orleans-Dance With Me RG

Hope I picked the right thread LOL RG

Congrats for reaching your first 100 posts, looking forward to your next 100:)

happy 100!!! woohoo

Congratulations MsManda on the 100 post milestone Looking forward to your next 100 posts RG

Sorry cerbies... Ive been taking a sanity break for the last 2 weeks and have not been actively promoting our awesome party tomorrow as I should have been, but as many of you already know... Friday May 24 is our first ever BEER FEST.... BEER, hot chicks, original style & a flare for senuality like no other. Imitated but never duplicated... there's only one CMJ. RSVP to our BEER FEST

Simply put, maybe I will have to have a little basket where glasses, cell phones, watches and keys can be put into it with a lid on it of some sort. It can be put in view in bedroom so customers don't have to worry about their belongings. This will also serve as a useful purpose since many people have forgotten things at my place and had to come back for them when I called them. Who the hell would want to wear these? They look dorky looking. If someone comes to visit me with these on, the door will be closed in their face.

Why did I not know this? Probably because I haven't tried either one of these. Please tell me I'm not missing out on anything! lol

I like Miquelon because he notices the little things. He also makes me blush with his compliments. What can I say? I'm a fan. :)

Meaghan's idiot neighbor really make me wonder about the male side of our species. What kind of selfish, top-down power based, world is this guy living in? My opinion on its is very prejudiced, but in various ways I have seen men doing incredibly judgmental 18th-century things when it comes to the stereotypes held by society and in this case that refers to sex workers. Indeed this is not limited to the mainstream. I have dealt with disabled men who have acted with equal disrespect to sex workers. Being disabled you'd think they would know better, but no, the same old attitudes emerge. In this case the disabled client had arranged a date with a worker which was very involved. A fantasy date requiring a costume and a fair bit of preparation. Because I'm fairly vocal in the disabled community the client had approached me earlier to arrange something and that's how I was involved. Anyway after the sex worker had spent a fair bit of money and is the appointed date approached the client got cold feet. But rather than articulating that, he just would not answer his phone when she tried to confirm things. This man had been disabled from birth with the same condition I have, Cerebral Palsy and he was sufficiently articulate and involved with disabled rights movements to the point where he understood about double standards and prejudice. When I finally spoke to him briefly on the phone he stated that he was no longer interested in pursuing the date. I asked him politely to call the worker back and tell her this if only to be courteous. This is not what he did, rather he enlisted a health-care attendant to call the worker back and threatened legal action. WTF!!! I was aghast and enraged. Still am to some point even though it's been many years since this happened. There was absolutely nothing her or I could do, even though the health-care attendant had broken every rule in the book regarding professional behavior etc. There are times when I really wonder about how to uproot these bizarre behaviors. Although I have seen this occur on both sides of the sexes, this really does seem to be to be more openly prevalent with the male side of our species. Yet in closing I have also seen people come together to achieve great goals. But where in our culture are these bizarre standards rooted and how do we fix them? There is simply no excuse for the idiot neighbor or client anymore. PatrickGC

Thank you everyone for the helpful and honest contributions on this thread. :) I must say that I have been very lucky with nearly all of my guests being clean and fresh. This thread actually made me realize something though that I have neglected. When gentlemen arrive at my incall location and opt to have a shower, if they are washing properly, they will have washed away any previously applied deodorant. Things can heat up pretty quick sometimes and it doesn't take long to get sweaty again. Thus, I have added unscented aerosol spray deodorant to the list of toiletries available for my guests in my incall latrine. Other things include three different choices of body wash including an unscented variety, regular bar soap, men's shampoo, individual bottles of Scope mouth wash, gum, and unscented lotion. Please feel free to use any and all of them when you visit! :) Thanks! :)

I like Emiafish. His positive contributions are one of the reasons CERB is the board it is RG

I love me some "B.I.G" women!!! Screw all the people who are haters and embrace the fact that you are beautiful. :)

I'm not ashamed of what I do: I'm very self-protective. Some of the people who are most important to me would not understand my choices nor would they believe what I might say about my experiences in this profession. I can live with them not knowing the truth about how I make my living. I would have a very hard time dealing with their judgment and probable rejection. There is no need for them to know about my work. I'm sure there are things I don't know about them, too. If my daughter, my sister or a friend said that she wanted to become a paid companion, we would be having a lot of long talks after that! Because, no matter what some of us may say, after a decade in this business I know that the number of women who decide to become prostitutes because they've made a careful career plan is extremely tiny, like hen's teeth and clam feathers. I often hear from women who are considering joining our profession and who want some advice. I always ask them what has happened in their lives, what has brought them to the point where they're able to consider doing this. As Cat says, "little girls don't say they want to be prostitutes when they grow up." Usually, something happens and the woman finds that she has a sudden, inescapable need to make a considerable amount of money very quickly in order to avoid dire consequences like losing her children; being unable to care for an aging, ill parent; being unable to provide for herself while she deals with a serious illness like multiple sclerosis, lupus, fibromyalgia, rheumatoid arthritis, chronic fatigue syndrome and a host of others that may make ordinary work impossible; or maybe she needs to move away from an abusive spouse or partner but has essentially no job skills or time to develop them. There are many, many reasons why women become prostitutes and nearly all the time they're sad, hard ones. So, if someone I know told me she was considering becoming a paid companion, I would want to know a lot about what's really happening in her life. Maybe there's another way to get the help she needs and, if there is, I would want to ensure that it happens. You say, That's true, if the companion is actually able to do the work. The thing is, this is a terrible profession for the great majority of women who consider it and who try it for a while. In our society, even women who enjoy sex a lot and have good self-images are not usually prepared to have sex with a large number of men over a short period of time. Women are socialized to be emotional, to value intimacy in particular ways and generally to have few intimate partners. It's not easy to go from these conventional beliefs to being on intimate terms with many men you will never really know and may never see again. Add to that, if the woman is young, much of her clientele may be men old enough to be her father or grandfather, which can raise conflicting feelings and concerns for her. Most of the women who contact me are hoping that they will quickly be able to work the way I do, seeing very few clients. They're usually surprised by the amount of time, energy and hard work that it takes to build up a cadre of regulars: it can take years. In the meantime, she may need to see many, many more clients per week or month than she imagines. The urgent need to make money because of a life-crisis does not improve anyone's judgment. New companions always make mistakes. Those of us who have been working for a long time make mistakes, too, though generally different ones. But at the beginning, she has to learn how to screen clients and how to maintain her privacy and safety. Most of the time, she'll start out charging too little for her time which, unfortunately, means that she's far more likely to be preyed upon by unscrupulous clients who may be very hard on her, not treat her well, manipulate her and try to cheat her while demanding an extraordinary amount from her. This is emotionally, psychologically and physically exhausting, at best. For women who are real survivors, determined to take charge of their lives, to pull themselves out of whatever has happened to them, if they can keep their heads on straight, working in this industry can be a life-saver. Most companions don't last six months in our profession: it's not the right thing for them. The ones who do stay on usually have found a way to carve out their own niche, establish their own brand or style, and develop their business model with great care. We do well because we work damned hard. I know I put in many, many more hours on the computer and the telephone than I do in bed, even when every man I see that month is a returning guest, not a new client. Being a paid companion has been good for me. It has enhanced my self-esteem and made me much more confident in all areas of my life. I have learned things that I would not have learned any other way and developed skills and strengths I didn't know I had. I have never, ever been exploited by anyone. I was able to take a bad situation and turn it around. I wouldn't have been able to do that with an ordinary job. I've done fairly well because of a combination of luck, hard work and patience. Others will have different experiences and outcomes. Some will have more success than I have had so far. Many others will fare less well because they're simply not suited to what this work demands of them. This is all my way of saying that if a friend or family member told me that she wanted to join my profession, I would try to find other ways to deal with the crisis that has brought her to the brink of making this decision. Once someone has become one of us, I will do my utmost to help her learn what she needs to know about everything required to keep her safe and healthy.

You might want to try Layah, never met her but plan on seeing her when I can. She might fit the bill. Sounds like a lot fun as per PM contact. OOPS, looks like BW beat me to it

I'd agree with you, Cristy. Especially for a first meeting, I'm more comfortable if the Lady takes the initiative. The way I see it I can't accidentally go past her boundaries, or initiate an activity or pace she might not prefer. Which isn't to say I want to stand quietly being directed step by step, just that initially any requests I make will tend to be diffidently spoken--suggestions, not orders; and I'm likely to test the waters so to speak with different activities. You can usually then tell from the Lady's reaction if it's something she enjoys or if you need to slow down or try something else. Does a light spank get a happy wiggle and a moan or...quiet. If I lightly grab your hair do you speed up or pull back. I'm more willing to take the lead with a Lady who is open and willing to share feedback about her preferences and what isn't working, what is working, and what is *really* working! I imagine I'd also be more willing to take the lead if it was an SP I'd already seen, and so have a sense of her likes and preferences. Once I feel I know the pacing, moves, and touch she prefers, taking the lead would come more naturally. There's no fear any longer of making a misstep. There is another reason though why I imagine many like it when the SP takes the initiative. It's about feeling desired. When the other person makes the first moves, takes things to another level, asks for more--it makes you feel like they want you and you excite them. It makes you feel sexy. And who, after all, doesn't like the sensation that you turn someone on?

This is something I have always been interested in! CoB/CoF is something I always offer with my services, and it just so happens that "multiple male partners" is a favorite pass time of mine. That being said, I've never participated in a bukkake only party, though I have attended gang bang parties in the past. If I am invited to such an event, I would most likely show up 15 mins early and be more than eager. Like Angela, however, I would not be interested in participating voluntarily, nor be interested in having women who are not "PRO" (as she called them) present. To elaborate more on that...Yes, this is something I absolutely love, but the carpenter down the street loves his work too, doesn't mean he's gonna build you a nice custom poker table out of the kindness of his heart.... just saying.

Although it would be nice if you could be sure from the ads if extras were available. There are a couple legit massage places that advertize with pictures showing lots of cleavage and girls in party dresses. (i.e magic spa and the one on Valour Rd) This leads anyone (or at least me) seeing the ad that extras are at least a possibility. As far as I am concerned, any legit place that uses sexy pictures in their ads should not get pissed about being asked for extras. If they want it strictly legit then use strictly legit pictures. If they want it sexy then have sexy pictures in their ads. They can show a picture of their RMT if they want, if she is a stunner ( or not) then she should be dressed in a professional smock without her boobies on display. Just my 2 cents worth ( now rounded down to zero value)

It has been far too long since I have seen Holland. I can say that she is one of the top ladies in Winnipeg with whom I’ve had the pleasure of meeting. I can attest to the many positive reviews of her; she is a classy, very beautiful woman who is also an engaging conversationalist. The times I’ve seen Holland, she never rushed me. She always treated me warmly and always offered me something to drink from her fridge (both pre and post session—I recall one time after a “very good” and let’s just say “vigorously” enjoyable session where I was sweating fairly profusely, she politely insisted I grab a bottled water before I left). So, she will definitely take care of you, like she did for me. I’ve not seen her at her new apartment but when I saw her at her previous workplace, it was clean, neat and comfortable. I’m a stickler for well-kept accommodations. I’d bet her current apartment is just the same. Although I keep reading that she’s hard to contact, my previous experiences with her in the past did not encounter many problems as we were able to hook up fairly easily and as planned. Hope all works out for you. HC