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I don't think total honesty is really required in this hobby/biz. After seeing some SP's several times sometimes personal stuff will come out after trust has been established....I think that's normal, and perfectly acceptable.....depending on the client and the level of mutual trust that has been built It's happened to me a couple occasions that SP's have voluntarily divulged very personal information to me after a trust has been established, and that's perfectly ok.....actually it's kind of flattering to be trusted that much by an SP. And it ads to the intimacy. But it's not a requirement to a good session. Long story short, total honesty isn't bad per se......but for me personally, it's not necessary. If a lady wants to open up to me I'll be more than happy to hear her out...but it's not something I expect. And depending on the client, being too honest may in fact be a bad thing and could even be potentially dangerous. As for the amount of honesty you want to divulge on cerb, I don't think anything I read could possibly turn me off, unless like Brad says, it reveals the person to be a total schmuck lol. But Emily J raises a very good point that pretty much anybody with an internet connection can read what's on here. Something to consider. Like Cleo said, everything we initially need to know is included in the ads and recommendations, the rest we can find out when we meet her....and by the rest I mean the lady's personality, intelligence, and sexual preferences. At the end of the day that is really all we need to know about her.

Don't be fooled by men who threaten to "crucify" an SP by writing negative reviews. You don't need reviews to survive in this world. Provide honest service and they'll come back, reviews or not.

I think you need to be yourself in order to succeed in this business - but that doesn't need people need to know everything about me. The 'Cleo Catra' I project is an honest portrayal of me - she's a part of me. BUT, that's not my name...and I don't tell everyone everything about me. That would be too much like dating, and I'm NOT dating my clients. My clients know as much about me as they need to know to decide if they want to see me. Once they see me, they learn more, and decide if they'd like to come back. In every encounter, we learn more about each other...what sexual buttons to push, how to draw that orgasm out, how to tease, excite, play. And in the process, we talk and learn details about each other on a personal level, which heightens the intimacy of our time together. And I love that. However, if I had a fight with my best friend right before a client shows up, I'm not going to tell him the details of that fight. I might say 'You know girls, ugh! Always silly fights', then move on to our session. If I have giant bills looming and I'm stressed about money, I'm not going to go into details of how I didn't manage my finances well this month, but might say 'Budgets dont' always work!', then move on to our session. Etc. The man is coming to me for his own escape from reality, his own fantasy, his own sexual desire. For all I know, his wife may have broken down that morning because SHE had a fight with her best friend, so he's coming to me to escape - so the last thing I want to do is lay on the details of my own personal drama. I like being part of a fantasy, of having this world where I lay my personal dramas aside for an hour or two, and escape to this sexual, sensual world between the sheets.

Admittedly, I could lose 20-25 lbs for health reasons even though I'm considered healthy but the way I am built, I will never be stick skinny and I've come to accept that. I hit 110 lbs one time and my face looked sickly and gaunt and was told I looked like a 12 year old elf. I'm the only one in my family with boobs, ass, an hourglass figure and am proud of it. I don't listen to haters or those assholes on other sites who tell me I'm too fat. I really couldn't give a flying fuck. I'm an attractive woman and my track record in this business speaks for itself with my long list of regulars and new clients. Self acceptance is one of the greatest freedoms I have ever experienced!

How have I stayed out of this thread so long....I LOVE boobies!!!

I always say....''different strocks for different folks'' thats why there is a place for each and everyone of us! older, younger, thin, curvy, muscular....gents can have their pick ;) Feeling good in your own skin makes you beautiful :)

I wanted to take a few moments to thank not only the gentlemen but the entire Cerb community for one of the best changes I've seen since my return to the hobby ( had been gone since 2008 )... During the pre-chatroom era ( circa 2005-2008 ) I was often chastised for being an SP who wasn't a size 0. I'm a size 12. You know who else was a size 12? Marilyn. I don't need to write out her last name, you know damn well who I am talking about. Over the last few months, I can see that the diversity of cerbites has increased greatly, which shows in cases like preferable women's sizes no longer being a biased, one-sided affair. Even if women my size are not your cup of tea, the respect shown concerning "to each their own" is staggeringly exceeding my expectations. Thank you cerbites for believing in "all women are beautiful in their own way" !!! An especially BIG thanks to the mods also, as this chastisement was allowed to take place on "the other board" which is the main reason for my switch to this one only :) I love your no tolerance for BS! ________________________________________________ FOOD FOR THOUGHT: 1. Marilyn Monroe's body measurements: Height: 5'5 Weight: 118-140 lbs Bust: 35-37 inches Waist: 22-23 inches Hips: 35-36 inches Bra size: 36D 2. Dove's "REAL BEAUTY" campaign: http://www.dove.ca/en/Social-Mission/About-the-Movement.aspx 3. Definition beau·ti·ful adj. a) Having qualities that delight the senses, especially the sense of sight. b) Excellent; wonderful. beauti·ful·ly adv. beauti·ful·ness n. Synonyms: beautiful, lovely, pretty, handsome, comely, fair All these adjectives apply to what excites aesthetic admiration. Beautiful is most comprehensive: a beautiful child; a beautiful painting; a beautiful mathematical proof. Lovely applies to what inspires emotion rather than intellectual appreciation: "They were lovely, your eyes" (George Seferis). What is pretty is beautiful in a delicate or graceful way: a pretty face; a pretty song; a pretty room. Handsome stresses poise and dignity of form and proportion: a very large, handsome paneled library. "She is very pretty, but not so extraordinarily handsome" (William Makepeace Thackeray). Comely suggests wholesome physical attractiveness: "Mrs. Hurd is a large woman with a big, comely, simple face" (Ernest Hemingway). Fair emphasizes freshness or purity: "In the highlands, in the country places,/Where the old plain men have rosy faces,/And the young fair maidens/Quiet eyes" (Robert Louis Stevenson). 4. Most importantly: BEAUTY LIES WITHIN THEY EYE OF THE BEHOLDER

Just trying something out here, to see how it goes. The winner will face off against a new contender the next day. Open of course to anyone to post a new contest on the thread. I'll start us off. Girl One: Girl Two:

To clarify my earlier comment, when I refer to honesty I suppose the more accurate way of framing it is that I appreciate someone being genuine and real.... To a degree. I don't need or want to know your real name initially. If a level of trust is reached then I would be flattered but its not important. Your name, birth date or any other personally identifiable information is rightly yours and none of my business. The honesty pertains to who you are as a person. I'm attracted to a person as a whole, not just a set of attributes or menu items. Chemistry is important and true chemistry requires a level of authenticity and human connection, at least that is my opinion. Genuine, authentic and honest. Let me know who you are as a person. What you like. How you think. What you believe. Just don't tell me everything and certainly not right away

If you are new to this hobby NEVER see ladies in your home unless they have stellar reputations backed up by recommenadations from guys that you trust. Seeing a lady you know nothing about in your home has disaster potential especially if something goes sideways. As for the extra charge, that is normal if it is an SP that also maintains an incall. If the SP has an incall to maintain, then coming to you costs her extra money in transportation cost, especially if she has a driver. As well if she comes to see you that takes extra time away from her "office" so even though you are only paying her for 1 hour if it takes her 30 minutes to get to you and then home, you are actually tying her up for 2 hours. SP's that don't maintain an incall likely shouldn't charge more on top of their normal rate as they don't have the monthly overhead associated with an incall and the transportation, driver, etc. is jsut part of her costs of doing business. Cheers

From what I have read from the many recommendations and of course from the advertisements, Emily J is certainly one to check out although I haven't yet had the pleasure of doing so myself. Some of my favourites include (in terms of the quality of the bj) although not all may offer CIM (have to check with the SP) Cleo Catra (amazing!) Nicolette Vaughn Sexxy Rebecca

Honesty is generally appreciated. Getting to know someone on a personal level is pretty important to deepen my attraction. Intelligence, humour, kindness are just some of the very attractive qualities that can be revealed to heighten a connection. Drama and negativity should not be shared and are certainly turnoffs.

I think Phaedrus used the phrase 'edited highlights' when describing what he revealed about himself on CERB. That is, of course, what we all do. I believe it is what we do every day in all of our dealings with other people too. I suppose that I might slightly emphasize or play down certain aspects of my personality with one group and then do the same for other aspects with other groups. I am not ever false, but society needs some sort of lubrication to work and I see courtesy and friendliness as that lubricant. It's only when you deal with real a**holes that the whole machine seizes up and breaks down. I consciously try to remain my unaffected self as much as possible when I deal with everyone, including SPs. It is too much trouble to do otherwise and can lead to too many problems if you don't. Speaking of lubricant . . . Oh, wrong thread.

I feel that there is a core of information that we share about ourselves. Both online and with our clients. Yes, I give truthful information about where I grew up, where I have lived, where my home base is. Also some information about my personal life. However, there is some information I will not divulge except to those that I have seen for a long time and I feel I can trust them. I had a longtime client that asked me for my real name. Something was off, and I told him my "other" working name. Sure enough, he contacted me once and called me by my "other name", which really creeped me out. What would have happened if I gave him my real name? Of course, that ended our relationship as I felt he had overstepped my boundaries. Maybe I overreacted, but I felt that he had taken something I told him in confidence and abused it. So, yes, honesty is very important, but you still have to protect yourself and be aware of what information you divulge and to who.

Just for the record, everything on CERB is now open to everyone, which includes all non-members. You do not need an account to see anything here. :) Account is only necessary to post. Profiles and albums can be hidden by users themselves, but all threads and posts are visible to everyone with an internet connection.

My preference is the VIP location and the west end on Carling.

I don't believe in brutal honesty. That involves numerous things I try to stay away from and I agree people can be rude and hurtful under the guise of "helping" or "being honest". I also believe that non full disclosure is not dishonesty as no one has the right to your information if it does not impact them in any way, shape or form. I think we have perhaps taken a rather sad turn here....

Thanks for the thread. I'm a size 16 and 5'11", 190 lbs.. so I'm not a small girl either.. but I love my curves and so do my friends and fans :) You go girl!

Actually douche bag and sex offender Remember, any unwanted sexual contact is a sexual assault. Seeing a professional companion doesn't give a guy carte blanche approval to do any sexual activity he wants, the lady's boundaries must be respected RG

ok wbats the deal with this cl crap, seems to me its far too dangerous to book from there when there's cerb available for good info, so thise of you who post there stjck to cerb and bp your recos are better than the perceptions of that garbage site with all the scammers.

Monique was simply fantastic....she was very friendly, hot bod and augmented breasts that look indeed very natural. It is an hour of pleasure that I hope to repeat soon.

Come and Go and ladies turn over is no excuse for any agency or spa to post anfake pics to attract clientele.. Is part of the business people come and and it happens, and if you are not ready as business to dedicate sometime to put adds with pics to the ladies then you should not be in business. Yes some ladies don't want to have their pics online, fine and it is a desicion that pertains to every individual, us as Spa encourage our staff to provide us with pictures to help them market them.n but we do not force anyone to do it. Many that in the past did not want pictures up have come to realize that those who have pics get more interest than those who don't even have one pic available. Now days in this business yes the pics is one of the most important tools available, but used the wrong way they can also be a disadvantage, posting fakes is one of them!

I see your point and the point that was made by numerous people about the "fantasy" aspect. I guess this is just one more way my perceptions differ from many. The fantasy IS my reality and vice versa. I don't need to lie to create because I feel it and believe it. That does ot mean I'm delusional or dishonest or that I live in some drug induced space, it's just who I am and the way I see things. For me, it's a gift, one that others sometimes have trouble wrapping their head around. I guess everyone needs what they need. Some need to be lied to, to create the fantasy. Some need to have connection, some just need some sexy lingerie and a smokin' body and they're all good. This is what makes us all unique and the world we live in interesting. Thankfully we have this place and this industry where it becomes much easier to find what we're looking for. Not only that but to have amazing discussions involving so many different views that end up supportive of all.

LMFAO!! Intrigued.......?...I am ! Or maybe It's just my sick sense of humour :P My Schedule This Week:Exclusivly @ Angels Touch Today :- 10am-9pm Monday :- 10am-1pm Friday:-10am-3pm RECO'S http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...?ltr=R&t=82591 PIC'S http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=6979 erotic dance show and strip tease available

Thank you Tiff for taking care of her.....Sounds like you made it a great experience for her!

LOL about the post count...... Let's try and keep on topic guys and lets not quibble about where or how we shoot our load LOL I'm interested in this girl so if anyone else has seen her please share your experience.

Thank you so much for letting me massage your wife!! I had such a great time and very happy she did too!! Looking forward to the couples massage next! XoXoXo to you both!! ;)

"I hope you find some better people than those you have apparently run into, you're definitely in a good place for that! *muah*" I've met a lot of great people but perhaps I just take a more realistic view of the intrinsic nature of the relationship between a john/client and a prostitute/escort/companion is all. Other than real/current photos and accurate description of services offered and yes I acknowledge ymmv is all any one can and perhaps should expect. Peace MG

Honesty is always good. But everyone, SP's and clients alike, are entitled to have part of their life to keep to themselves. Not being 100% open isn't dishonest, but as long as what you share and who you chose to share it with is truthful and honest, and you are comfortable sharing it, that is good. For example, on this board I'm comfortable being known by my board handle. But ladies that I see I'm more comfortable revealing personal information such as real name (for screening/verification) And as the lady and I get to know one another through encounters, well in our conversations we both open up even more as our comfort levels allow. And in all cases I'm honest. And if a lady finds a gentleman who opens up with her, and a gentleman finds a lady who opens up with him, that means you have developed a special and trusting relationship (OMG the "R" word LOL). Respect the trust given to you, trust for most people isn't easily given, so be discrete, share with no one, and know that you have something more than a simple SP/Client relationship A late morning rambling RG

Welcome!

Hemsky is correct there are two Stephanie's from different planets offering completely different services from different ends of the city. Stephanie (#1) the one in this thread, is skinny. Offers only legit massage (no extras) out of (almost to the perimeter) west Portage ave. Stephanie (#2) is heaver and formally of Nevada's and Body bliss now independent SP working out of Winnipeg north east.

I follow the posts of the ladies I would like to see, just so I get a feel of their personality and intelleigence. I try to find out as much about them as possible. It is my time and I don't want to waste mine or the awesome ladies that put up with us guys and provide an awesome service! So, yeah..please be honest and be you. When I talk to you wether it be PM or a response to a thread, this is me, not a fake personality.

Well, I'm late. Again :) Hope you had a fantastic time, Carrie... sounds like you did!

I respectfully beg to differ Mr Green, at least on some of your point. yes there are many made up names and persona's and players using fake pictures. This does not mean most of the people fall into this category. Everyone has their own reasons for either putting themselves out there or keeping some things quiet but that doesn't mean what they say or what they put out there isn't honest or sharing some of themselves. This is why CERB is so great because it gives everyone the opportunity to discuss, positive and negative. The reco's are the positive, info on scam', fake pics, bait and switches and people willing to share info helps people avoid those not so honest types. I for one use my own name when i talk to people and what I share is truthful. It takes way too much time and energy to be fake and dishonest and it creates bad energy so I don't do it, it's not me. I hope you find some better people than those you have apparently run into, you're definitely in a good place for that! *muah*

Remember your first day at work? You weren't sure what to wear, how to act, what the people you were going to meet would be like, whether you knew anything? Was it going to be a fun place to work? Would you want to come back for another day? Would your customers like you? Well yesterday was Megan's first day and she hit it out the park! There was not even a chance for her to use the famous "It's my first day" excuse, one of the best parts about having a first day on the job....she knew the subject matter like she's been reading the manual and taking the training for years. We got to know each other in chat and decided to meet up once she punched the clock and started her newfound life as a working girl. We met up at her swanky office space downtown (complete with bed!), where she was both the receptionist and the chair of our meeting. And wow, if there was ever a receptionist you wanted to fuck, she was it. She was dressed business casual for a friday, tight form-fitting dress, nice heels and mondo cleavage, just the way most guys adore (or imagine) their business woman. We exchanged more than the traditonal handshakes once the door closed and needless to say, the do not disturb sign hung on the door and no phone calls were to be taken. Some small talk to begin as most meetings do, but we quickly buckled (i mean unbuckled) down and got to the dirty work. She is tremendously sexy with smoldering eyes, beautiful long raven hair and a lovely dark complexion. The beauty doesnt stop upstairs in the executive suite though. As you make your way down to the lobby, with the 2 beautiful (and large) orbs to mesmerize you, then on your way to the basement and the male room where packages are oh so happy to be delivered. She is an architectural dream from head to toe. Smooth exterior and blazing hot interior. Wow, even Frank Lloyd Wright would have put down his T-square to visit with Megan. Lots of heavy petting until it was time for the business attire to be sent out for cleaning, leaving us with only our birthday suits and plenty of supplies on hand to keep our meeting going. The equipment was put to good use byu both of us and we had no issues whatsoever handling each other's equipment. In fact, Megan did a great job using her lips to get mine warmed up. All metaphors aside, this girl is a total knockout and with her dancer background, has moves that are unrivalled. She knows how to get a guy revved up and definitely fulfilled a personal goal of mine to see how great a dancer can be if she crossed the line into escorting. She was great at both giving and receiving, two hallmarks of what her new profession entails. The main event was truly the highlight of our visit. Megan has a tremendous petite yet curvy body with full, spectacular breasts. i could have held onto her beautiful bum and watched those assets bounce all day long but there's no way i could have lasted. she definitely brought out the best in me and we collapsed together in giant heap on the expansive bed. we curled up and chatted together for awhile, about why she got into this line of work. clearly her #1 motivation is that she loves sex, which is the perfect reason to start a career that gives her (and her clients) so much pleasure. without question, a stellar first day for megan and yes, she might be cute as a button, but also hot as a firecracker and above all else a talented artist in the bedroom (or the champagne room!). i will definitely be giving her a visit not only at Barb's but also in her "home office", where she provides the greatest in hospitality and leaves every meeting attendee with an exhausted grin from ear to ear. all the best in the hobby, megan, keep winning those employee of the week awards! see you soon. xoxoxoxo

This reminds me of my Dad. He had a huge garden in the yard and carrots were always among the things he grew. Him and I loved sitting out there, pulling up the carrots, wiping the majority of the dirt off and eating them. Delicious. Thank you for this wonderful memory!!

My name is composed of a reference to my place of birth, my gender, and the original answer in The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy.

Gerry Rafferty-Baker Street RG

My first thought... Hummm, why is common sense called common sense when it is not so common? lol Now, let me go set up an appointment with my gynecologist and when I see him, I'll try to play doctor with him and see how far I can take it...

I love me some "B.I.G" women!!! Screw all the people who are haters and embrace the fact that you are beautiful. :)

Dear Dog, It's taken me quite awhile to make this, having a small kitchen and only one frying pan, but after buying up all the bacon I could find in the grocery store today, I kept at it because you're so special. I tried not to include too many veggies, which won't make your cardiologist happy, but he's not a client of mine, yet. Here, for you, for Queen Vicky's weekend:

38. Living Social Deals, Groupons, Senior Discounts and Student Bus Passes. Ummmmmm.... no. No. No..... and no. You think this is a joke? Seriously. It's not a joke. Don't get me wrong, it's funny as hell, but some guys have ACTUALLY asked whether any of the aforementioned were either available or applied to the fee structure. Soooooo.... ummmm... gentlemen.... when you call one of the wonderful providers asking for one of these discounts, you will now be scorned. Scorned and humiliated. Scorned, humiliated and chastised. Not a candidate for penis cooties, but definitely out of the running for a bacon sandwich. And you deserve it. 39. Surprise!!!! Sometimes, surprises are great. Like, ummmm... necklaces, and rings, and pendants and earrings ... pretty much the entire jewellery food group. Gift certificates are good too. Live animals... sure... maybe, no. Not really. Unless they want a pony. Girls love ponies. Okay not ALL girls love ponies. And it's hard to sneak a pony into an elevator. Other surprises... hmmm. That's between you and your provider. And sometimes... yes, sometimes you need to let your provider know when you are fixing up a surprise. Like showing up in size 18 lingerie. Lingerie is cool. Don't get me wrong. Lingerie can make you feel pretty (so I'm told.) But showing up in lingerie may be a bit disconcerting. She might even giggle. A LOT. She might be wearing the same lingerie as you and feel uncomfortable. She may admire your lingerie. But... and this is a big but (not that your butt looks big in lingerie) if you had told her that you were going to wear a frilly teddy and a peekaboo bra, her reaction may not have been so... ummmm... giggly, or frightened... or a combination, friggly (that's right, I made up a word.) Some providers may be COOL with surprises.... just not all of them. It's better to get to know someone a bit before showing up in a unicorn mask replete with a special horn. Just making a suggestion!!! 40. More alternatives to Bacon sandwiches Nope. Ummmmm... maybe.... mmmmmm, nope. Motorbaconboating!!!!!! Kinda greasy... but OMG... motorbaconboating. Okay the bacon can't be fresh out of the pan, needs to be dried on a paper towel.... but my GOD. Motobaconboating boobies would be awesome. Oh I am a genius!!!!

One word.... sixboobsonecockthreefaginasfourbumseightbumcheekschoochootrainwooowooowoooorgasmseverywhereyeahbaby

Awesome post, I feel that for the most part we make informed choices, and that I believe that choices I have made were not wrong, and really I think we should always look forward and not backwards. But I get it. Think about you future choices, but don't every regret the ones you have made, that will only make you bitter.

Find an established SP in the area that will act as a surrogate house mom. Every new provider should listen to the sage advice of someone that has been in the business for a while!

Bare feet are incredibly sexy!!!

I guess you could say that I'm partial to women in flip flops. Don't get me wrong a woman in a nice pair of heels can really get the engine revving, but there is just something about a woman in flip flops that is so playful that it just brings a smile to my face. As for myself I tend to have one or two pairs of everyday shoes that I wear till they're practically falling apart. I do have dress shoes though, for those special occasions, and a pair of sandals for the summer/beach. I have to say though my Airwalk sandals are some of the most comfortable shoes/sandals I've ever owned. I guess I have to add my winter boots too, lol.