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It's only reasonable that a SP could fall for a client. SPs are, after all, human. If the SP puts a stop to seeing you as a client, the reason may well be because the relationship between the two of you has grown to a point where it is putting at risk that element of self-control and self-discipline your SP must have in order to make a livelihood. And that, as everyone should understand, needs to come first. Be grateful that you had the privilege of having shared some great moments with this person, and be graceful. Accept that she is not ready to take it to the next level and that for now at least, your relationship with her, such as it was, has ended. Consent is EVERYTHING. If this person wants you back in her life, she'll let you know.

Their privacy maybe............. We are not on a dating site here...An SP refering to herself at the third person in a Ad is simply using a different writing style to promote herself. Using offensive language will certainly not get you a date with a high CLASS escort. Oh well since we got your word, it must be true then! No seriously, there are many SP offering bbbj, but if you come with the "I'm a virgin" excuse to those who don't, you will not be considered as a potential client.

I must say that I am a bit irked that the perception exists that if a provider does not show her face then she has something to hide. I choose not to show my face as I do not wish to intermingle my private and professional lives. Not deceitful at all nor does it make me any less of a provider than those who do show their faces. Anyhow, do your research, read reviews and begin communicating with those providers who interest you. Ultimately, you and your intuition should be able to determine which beautiful lady will rock you world! Best of luck.

To address your first point, its not only sps bashing one another some of those bashers are men as well. I had my share and spent a lot on a lawyer to find out who, what, when, where . With some success:). Yes I do know who was posting stupidity, because that's what it boils down to, but now what? Because I can go into court and charge these freaks for bullying, slander, and other actions if I chose, but then the probability of the nonsense being played out in the news and not to mention the huge cost justified my decision to let the freaks be. I knew before hand who one was:) Anyway, most level headed people realize that type of posting is done out of jealousy, stupidity and other nonsensical actions:) and is to be ignored, as the many supportive emails I received attested. Sadly though its not only that site that houses people like that as a couple of them are here:) But to more positive points, as far as asking questions concerning testing, I wouldn't mind being asked, and would answer that I do get regular checkups. However that doesn't prove you are sti free and by that I mean I , you, he, she, could contract something the day, or two or three before your test and that wouldn't show on that report. When anyone has more than one partner they have a greater risk of contracting something, it only takes one time with one person. So when hobbying and providing you have to use common sense, safety and know that its a possibility, just as when driving a car, you have the possibility of being hit, or being in an accident, you just have to drive witth care:) Most of us know when someone is asking a question out of concern, politeness and with seriousness:)so when that happens and I have that feeling I don't mind answering.

Here is the discussion that was already ongoing on this topic...good info here! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=135892

Hi jumpinm, Cerb definitely offers a better level of discourse, doesn't it? As for your question, I think this is one of those topics where actions speak louder than words. I wouldn't presume to speak for everyone, but it strikes me that asking an SP about their testing habits is more likely to insult than impress. Instead, read someone's recommendations, message back and forth a bit, do some research. Your impression from that is likely to tell you much more than a question about testing habits. It seems to me unlikely that anyone is going to straightforward answer that no, they aren't safe, or know and admit they're positive for something. And as Summer points out, a test is only valid until the next encounter. Given this, what does asking the question actually gain you? In the end protecting yourself is more about you choosing to engage in safe sex practices. And of course hobbyists shouldn't assume that testing is only something SP's should get done. There's a thread you might be interested in where people discussed questions not to ask an SP, and I think this one popped up a few times in it: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=97946

Just had another great experience, this time with the japanese Horiso at moonbay. She was really nice, lots of dfk, bbbj, rimming, and body licks. Oh yeah and lots of Dfk. That part was so awesome. She had very full lips and very sexy eyes. Very nice body and a great set of natural boobs with amazing nipples Her skin was super soft and her ass was amazing. Wow. I also wish I had booked more time because she is amazing at giving massage. Wow. She really knew what she was doing. If you have the time and money I promise it is most def worth it. She is really sweet and I hope to see her again before she leaves.

So, I have decided that I need to get stuff in my life sorted out and in line for what I want to do in the future. That doesn't mean that I am totally giving up on this wonderful game we all play but I am taking a break. I am making this post because I want to go out with a bang. I will for the next while take recommendations and comprise a list of top two or three ladies I need to see before getting out. So tell me who I really need to see guys! Thanks for your input in advance

I know there are a lot of people here with amazing taste in music from all genres. I have recently found a tune that I love and am looking to build a playlist around. Finding like minded songs is the difficult part so I'm asking your help to make some suggestions. It takes me hours and days to build a new list and I would much rather focus on what this song makes me want to do. Thanks to anyone who gives a listen!

Curing life threatening illnesses. Pharmaceutical companies making billions off those who have cancer. It wouldn't surprise me if there was a cure at this moment but instead, greed takes priority over another person's life.

Absolutely I am giving up DATY ! I am also gonna watch Gone With the Wind instead of porn, quit my job, buy a car with no motor, order hamburgers with no buns, pizza with no crust, eat brussel sprouts instead of greasy bacon, drink mint tea instead of large amounts of beer and wear a speedo and flip flops to my cousins wedding next week instead of my suit ;) or..... I could continue living life and loving oral sex !!!!

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Welcome. That's a nice way (not unlike mine) of looking at it. But here are a couple of things you need to check yourself before you see anyone. A great deal. I won't make any assumptions about your background or how accepting the people around you are, but even in our so called liberal society, we're a very sex negative society. And paying for it?!? Well shit, you must be so butt ugly and undesirable, and the girl must be so desperate for drugs that something like this goes on. <- Unfortunately, that's a common assumption people make about this industry. We are far from treating this industry like any other. And even though most, if not all the men and women here are happy with their circumstance, and enjoy it thoroughly, very few people here have the lucky privilege of having family and/or friends that are completely accepting of what they do. Hence the privacy. I recommend taking a softer approach to finding out the ins and outs of the industry before making assumtions. There are women who offer blowjob without condom (bare back blowjob or bbbj), and some that allow you to complete in their mouth, and some that will even swallow. That is for the lady to decide her comfort level, and while there are some that will advertise all these services, if they see/smell anything off with your dick, say goodbye to all those blowjob fantasies. And another thing you need to remember, there are many people who lie here. You know you're a virgin, you know that you're clean, but for all that matters to an escort is that you're another client, and the exact same precautions need to be taken. Imagine how dangerous it would be to you if the escort you do eventually see just accepts at face value that you're a virgin, would that not make you suspicious that she might have given some allowances to another client that made the same assertion, whether or not it's true. You seem to have so valid reasons for wanting to see an escort, but before you do, please check out the many threads on how to approach your first appointment, how to get in touch with one, etc. And check out the reviews, I know you want your first time to be special, and would like to find someone you are attracted to, hence the face request, but reviews can give you an extremely good assessment of a lady's physical beauty. I can tell you, I have always stuck with well reviewed ladies, and have found all of them to be nothing short of stunning.

I have had 6 or 7 sp's in love with me. Once two of them were literally fighting each other for my attention. The worst part is when the alarm clock wakes me up!

Beat me to the punch! Yes, Redseductress is really in a class all her own. And yes, she really does love to perform and it shows! :D Other equally awesome choices (in my humble opinion) are SaraMQ, MalikaFantasy (occasionally travels to Ottawa) and CleoCatra. In my experience you really can't go wrong with any of these 4 ladies and their love of the act is unparalleled! I haven't yet met Emily J, Layah, Alexxxis (aka: xXxAxXx), Rosalie, or Berlin but I have only read good things about their skills. One thing to keep in mind though, when it comes to "best of" type threads....everything is subjective. What is considered "The perfect bj" for one person, might be "the worst bj" for another. But I have yet to read anything negative about these ladies' skills in this department.

Just because Michael Douglas is a celebrity, doesn't mean he's right! lol

Those who know me well, know this is my favorite activity. Rest assured, this hobbyist will not be giving it up anytime soon. E.

I want to thank all you for sharing some of your stories and experiences. This message board has been a god send for me over the last several months. This thread in particular has opened my eyes and helped me realize that I'm not the fucked up nut job I thought I was. Yes, we are all human, and we can be complex creatures at times. Thanks again.

The only person's sexual health to worry about is your own JMHO but it is rude to ask a lady about her testing and whether she is D&D free just as it would be rude for a lady to ask a prospective client if he gets tested and is D&D free Funny do these issues get raised as much in the civilian dating world,or in marriage/CL relationships...likely no yet STIs/STDs exist in the civilian world and likely an equal risk there too RG

Yes, it does happen, absolutely. Especially when that connection can be so tempting to pursue. This business may be a pleasure industry but you are dealing with humans who have or can develop feelings for other like-mindedly amazing people. It just sucks when it can't go anywhere. I know it hurts, but believe me, she was trying to do you both a favour. Be extra nice to yourself for a while. Spoil yourself for being so damn charming! ;-)

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During my visits to Ottawa, I've had the pleasure to visit Sexxy Rebecca. She is definitely one of the top in this category. I haven't met Alexxis yet but hope to soon.

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

I know I'm early on this by a couple posts but I couldn't wait! Nicolette, you are a cornerstone in this community. You are amazingly beautiful and up front and so very enjoyable in so many ways. Your candor and honesty have made me smile on more than one occasion and I know for a fact that many others feel the same way. Thank you for sharing of yourself to those of us who have not (nor might ever) have the pleasure of your actual company. You make us feel closer!! Thank you and looking forward to many more ABC's and never ending support!

The world is not perfect, society isn't perfect, rules and regulation aren't perfect. We as human beings are far from perfect. If you could change anything in the world may it be big, small, personal or in general what would it be? For starters I would change a regular work week mon-thur I hate working Fridays.

I like the sun coming through the window and candlelight.

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I have to say, I have been taught all my life to be early, as it is impolite to be late, so not being early goes against my life teachings but I understand the need for punctuality in this business and will govern myself accordingly.

Marvin Gaye - What's Going On http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ph0aELhsQoc By the way, this is a rare live version of Marvin singing at the Motown Anniversary. It shows what a fantastic singer he is... his range, expressiveness, tone, smooth to raspy, improvising on the melody. When I close my eyes and dream that I can sing (I can't :( ) this is what I'd want to sound like. Robbie Robertson - Show Down at Big Sky Bruce Cockburn - If I Had A Rocket Launcher Bruce Cockburn - It's Going Down Slow Bob Marley - War/No More Trouble

I have been wanting to go with sexxxyrebecca just never had the chance yet... but I'm actually surprised no one has talked about redseductress, she really enjoys giving oral and it really shows. Try her royal all oral treatment... trust me you will not be disappointed. Cheers,

Wow, that is an amazing track! :) Thanks for sharing! Brings me back to sitting on the grass at Bluesfest in the hot evening sun in years past listening to the beautiful sound of live music... and it actually just inspired me to get full fest passes again this year :) I literally just bought them online after hearing that song, hehe :) Thanks for the inspiration! :D I'm super stoked now!

I had to stop seeing my favorite Lady based on her falling just a little in love with this old cowboy.I was deeply saddened that it had to go that way,I thought very highly (and still do)of her and would pick up our friendship in a second if I could.She's a lovely person and I miss her very much,but we had no where to go with a relationship.

Pretty much all of Pink Floyd's The Wall & The Final Cut albums are a protest of WWII and war in general. A lot of it had to do with how Roger Waters father went off to war and never returned.

The Clash - The Call Up NOFX - Wolves in Wolves' Clothing

It is VERY common on either side that when emotions become involved, the person with the emotions steps back to provide some breathing room to give clarity to what they're feeling. Unfortunately the only advice I can give you is to deal with your own feelings of losing someone you considered a friend. You have to respect the wishes of the SP to step back. At this point there is no way to maintain a professional relationship. That doesn't mean that might night change. Feelings change and if she realizes that what she was feeling is different than what she thought, she may open that door again. I wouldn't count on it but it's always a possibility. I assume feelings are not mutual because of your comment so maybe take a look at other SP's and find one that interests you. Good luck, it's not an easy situation to have to deal with.

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I would love to have this section option in NB...should I PM MOD and ask? We have a terriable problem around here with this, and seems to sneak into our dicusions much too often.

In terms of creativity I've thought that Emily's use of her toys to be quite cute and creative. Although I'm a little concerned about the big black one down in the left corner. Yikes! Additional Comments: Here's another one from Nathalie Lefebvre and her vintage black and white album. The cropping of the photo to just show the delicious curve of her bottom and arch of her back combine for a fantastic erotic image. Additional Comments: Another picture that I've always felt was a beautiful image was this photo of LolaCherie. The lighting is soft and natural and evokes the sense that this was a picture that was taken without her knowing. However, the smouldering sideways glance and her face framed by her arm combine for a very sensual image.

Many of the CERB ladies do such an amazing job at showing their real person in their pictures. I love it when a woman's beauty and confidence comes out in a photo. Some of my favourites! Cub One of the best all time artsy shots - Annessa! A classic look and extremely sexy with Evelyn and Amelia. The fun, seductive and fire of Emily. Smart combined with sexiness that can drive you wild. Lovely Kerri. Confident and classy Georgiana. Soft, seductive and sexy the one and only Tiff!

Miss Cleo Catra .... Meow baby Meow :)

Go Fishing! Be that "anonymous" donor Have a property that produces it's own power, crops and such. And Zombie proof of course

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While I was hot in my youth, I was never one to "pick up". Maybe I was lazy, but hobbying was just so much easier, and in the end, cheaper. :) I hate bars, I hate picking up. I hate the dating game; and since I plan to never marry again, why bother? I need a woman, but I do not need a woman. :P (btw, Amelia Middleton's a class act!) Man, if your wife expects you to live without sex for the rest of your life from the young age of 30, I'm afraid you'll really have to sit down with her and honestly assess your relationship. You don't have to be married to be a great father. Just my bit of advice. If she doesn't want sex, have you broached the subject of you seeking sexual satisfaction elsewhere while remaining married?

The white shirt...

wearing a blue jean is part of something that could be sexy, don't you think so ?