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It's only reasonable that a SP could fall for a client. SPs are, after all, human. If the SP puts a stop to seeing you as a client, the reason may well be because the relationship between the two of you has grown to a point where it is putting at risk that element of self-control and self-discipline your SP must have in order to make a livelihood. And that, as everyone should understand, needs to come first. Be grateful that you had the privilege of having shared some great moments with this person, and be graceful. Accept that she is not ready to take it to the next level and that for now at least, your relationship with her, such as it was, has ended. Consent is EVERYTHING. If this person wants you back in her life, she'll let you know.

Their privacy maybe............. We are not on a dating site here...An SP refering to herself at the third person in a Ad is simply using a different writing style to promote herself. Using offensive language will certainly not get you a date with a high CLASS escort. Oh well since we got your word, it must be true then! No seriously, there are many SP offering bbbj, but if you come with the "I'm a virgin" excuse to those who don't, you will not be considered as a potential client.

I must say that I am a bit irked that the perception exists that if a provider does not show her face then she has something to hide. I choose not to show my face as I do not wish to intermingle my private and professional lives. Not deceitful at all nor does it make me any less of a provider than those who do show their faces. Anyhow, do your research, read reviews and begin communicating with those providers who interest you. Ultimately, you and your intuition should be able to determine which beautiful lady will rock you world! Best of luck.

To address your first point, its not only sps bashing one another some of those bashers are men as well. I had my share and spent a lot on a lawyer to find out who, what, when, where . With some success:). Yes I do know who was posting stupidity, because that's what it boils down to, but now what? Because I can go into court and charge these freaks for bullying, slander, and other actions if I chose, but then the probability of the nonsense being played out in the news and not to mention the huge cost justified my decision to let the freaks be. I knew before hand who one was:) Anyway, most level headed people realize that type of posting is done out of jealousy, stupidity and other nonsensical actions:) and is to be ignored, as the many supportive emails I received attested. Sadly though its not only that site that houses people like that as a couple of them are here:) But to more positive points, as far as asking questions concerning testing, I wouldn't mind being asked, and would answer that I do get regular checkups. However that doesn't prove you are sti free and by that I mean I , you, he, she, could contract something the day, or two or three before your test and that wouldn't show on that report. When anyone has more than one partner they have a greater risk of contracting something, it only takes one time with one person. So when hobbying and providing you have to use common sense, safety and know that its a possibility, just as when driving a car, you have the possibility of being hit, or being in an accident, you just have to drive witth care:) Most of us know when someone is asking a question out of concern, politeness and with seriousness:)so when that happens and I have that feeling I don't mind answering.

Here is the discussion that was already ongoing on this topic...good info here! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=135892

Hi jumpinm, Cerb definitely offers a better level of discourse, doesn't it? As for your question, I think this is one of those topics where actions speak louder than words. I wouldn't presume to speak for everyone, but it strikes me that asking an SP about their testing habits is more likely to insult than impress. Instead, read someone's recommendations, message back and forth a bit, do some research. Your impression from that is likely to tell you much more than a question about testing habits. It seems to me unlikely that anyone is going to straightforward answer that no, they aren't safe, or know and admit they're positive for something. And as Summer points out, a test is only valid until the next encounter. Given this, what does asking the question actually gain you? In the end protecting yourself is more about you choosing to engage in safe sex practices. And of course hobbyists shouldn't assume that testing is only something SP's should get done. There's a thread you might be interested in where people discussed questions not to ask an SP, and I think this one popped up a few times in it: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=97946

Just had another great experience, this time with the japanese Horiso at moonbay. She was really nice, lots of dfk, bbbj, rimming, and body licks. Oh yeah and lots of Dfk. That part was so awesome. She had very full lips and very sexy eyes. Very nice body and a great set of natural boobs with amazing nipples Her skin was super soft and her ass was amazing. Wow. I also wish I had booked more time because she is amazing at giving massage. Wow. She really knew what she was doing. If you have the time and money I promise it is most def worth it. She is really sweet and I hope to see her again before she leaves.

So, I have decided that I need to get stuff in my life sorted out and in line for what I want to do in the future. That doesn't mean that I am totally giving up on this wonderful game we all play but I am taking a break. I am making this post because I want to go out with a bang. I will for the next while take recommendations and comprise a list of top two or three ladies I need to see before getting out. So tell me who I really need to see guys! Thanks for your input in advance

I know there are a lot of people here with amazing taste in music from all genres. I have recently found a tune that I love and am looking to build a playlist around. Finding like minded songs is the difficult part so I'm asking your help to make some suggestions. It takes me hours and days to build a new list and I would much rather focus on what this song makes me want to do. Thanks to anyone who gives a listen!

Curing life threatening illnesses. Pharmaceutical companies making billions off those who have cancer. It wouldn't surprise me if there was a cure at this moment but instead, greed takes priority over another person's life.

Absolutely I am giving up DATY ! I am also gonna watch Gone With the Wind instead of porn, quit my job, buy a car with no motor, order hamburgers with no buns, pizza with no crust, eat brussel sprouts instead of greasy bacon, drink mint tea instead of large amounts of beer and wear a speedo and flip flops to my cousins wedding next week instead of my suit ;) or..... I could continue living life and loving oral sex !!!!

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Welcome. That's a nice way (not unlike mine) of looking at it. But here are a couple of things you need to check yourself before you see anyone. A great deal. I won't make any assumptions about your background or how accepting the people around you are, but even in our so called liberal society, we're a very sex negative society. And paying for it?!? Well shit, you must be so butt ugly and undesirable, and the girl must be so desperate for drugs that something like this goes on. <- Unfortunately, that's a common assumption people make about this industry. We are far from treating this industry like any other. And even though most, if not all the men and women here are happy with their circumstance, and enjoy it thoroughly, very few people here have the lucky privilege of having family and/or friends that are completely accepting of what they do. Hence the privacy. I recommend taking a softer approach to finding out the ins and outs of the industry before making assumtions. There are women who offer blowjob without condom (bare back blowjob or bbbj), and some that allow you to complete in their mouth, and some that will even swallow. That is for the lady to decide her comfort level, and while there are some that will advertise all these services, if they see/smell anything off with your dick, say goodbye to all those blowjob fantasies. And another thing you need to remember, there are many people who lie here. You know you're a virgin, you know that you're clean, but for all that matters to an escort is that you're another client, and the exact same precautions need to be taken. Imagine how dangerous it would be to you if the escort you do eventually see just accepts at face value that you're a virgin, would that not make you suspicious that she might have given some allowances to another client that made the same assertion, whether or not it's true. You seem to have so valid reasons for wanting to see an escort, but before you do, please check out the many threads on how to approach your first appointment, how to get in touch with one, etc. And check out the reviews, I know you want your first time to be special, and would like to find someone you are attracted to, hence the face request, but reviews can give you an extremely good assessment of a lady's physical beauty. I can tell you, I have always stuck with well reviewed ladies, and have found all of them to be nothing short of stunning.

I have had 6 or 7 sp's in love with me. Once two of them were literally fighting each other for my attention. The worst part is when the alarm clock wakes me up!

Beat me to the punch! Yes, Redseductress is really in a class all her own. And yes, she really does love to perform and it shows! :D Other equally awesome choices (in my humble opinion) are SaraMQ, MalikaFantasy (occasionally travels to Ottawa) and CleoCatra. In my experience you really can't go wrong with any of these 4 ladies and their love of the act is unparalleled! I haven't yet met Emily J, Layah, Alexxxis (aka: xXxAxXx), Rosalie, or Berlin but I have only read good things about their skills. One thing to keep in mind though, when it comes to "best of" type threads....everything is subjective. What is considered "The perfect bj" for one person, might be "the worst bj" for another. But I have yet to read anything negative about these ladies' skills in this department.

Just because Michael Douglas is a celebrity, doesn't mean he's right! lol

Those who know me well, know this is my favorite activity. Rest assured, this hobbyist will not be giving it up anytime soon. E.

I want to thank all you for sharing some of your stories and experiences. This message board has been a god send for me over the last several months. This thread in particular has opened my eyes and helped me realize that I'm not the fucked up nut job I thought I was. Yes, we are all human, and we can be complex creatures at times. Thanks again.

The only person's sexual health to worry about is your own JMHO but it is rude to ask a lady about her testing and whether she is D&D free just as it would be rude for a lady to ask a prospective client if he gets tested and is D&D free Funny do these issues get raised as much in the civilian dating world,or in marriage/CL relationships...likely no yet STIs/STDs exist in the civilian world and likely an equal risk there too RG

Yes, it does happen, absolutely. Especially when that connection can be so tempting to pursue. This business may be a pleasure industry but you are dealing with humans who have or can develop feelings for other like-mindedly amazing people. It just sucks when it can't go anywhere. I know it hurts, but believe me, she was trying to do you both a favour. Be extra nice to yourself for a while. Spoil yourself for being so damn charming! ;-)

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During my visits to Ottawa, I've had the pleasure to visit Sexxy Rebecca. She is definitely one of the top in this category. I haven't met Alexxis yet but hope to soon.

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

You know what might fit nicely into this playlist, "Slowdown" by Morcheeba. From the album: Morcheeba - Charango (2002) It's not an instrumental, but see if it does the trick for you. Take care, PatrickGC PS: And now without further adieu, I'm heading outside for some fresh air it simply too nice to stay inside. The scooter and camera are both fully charged - Yahoo! :)

I also prefer a well light room for sex. I enjoy being able to see the lovely lady who was kind enough to play with me. A few things that I find sexy: a beautiful smile, a mischievous smile, a lustful gaze, expressions of passion, seeing some jiggle, beads of sweat,...

Actually no escort directory is to be listed on cerb at all (as clearly mentioned in the rules) This site is sponsored by http://www.escorts-canada.com and the deal is no other escort directory is to be advertised or posted here (Including CL/BP/etc). That keeps the site free for everyone to use... and that is a HUGE expense for a site like this! CL/BP are the worst for scams and obviously not everyone finds it as easy as you may think. (people asking what BP and cl are all the time) As for censorship.... We censor a lot of things here, we do not allow many things to be discussed (bbfs, streeetwalkers, drug use, slanderous or negative comments, etc...) this is how we run the site and it's not for everyone. I like the way things are done here and that most certainly is not about to change.

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As others have said already, SPs are real people with real feelings. That this happens sometimes is one of the realities of our work. It's not a lot of fun for anyone, though. Give yourself a pat on the back. She told you how she felt and what she had decided to do. She trusts you and was willing to make herself vulnerable with you. She didn't send an e-mail goodbye, ignore your messages or stop returning your calls: many others would have done something like that. She's taken you and herself seriously. That says a lot about your character and how important the time you spent together has been for her. Don't sit around, waiting for her to contact you again, though, and don't initiate contact with her, either. She needs this separation.

The purpose of this game is to find pictures within the cerb site of women and reflections of themselves in the mirror. Just a reason to go thru albums for fun. It's like looking for Waldo :) Here are some of EmilyJ's pictures:

Murder on the Anal Express (Orient) Bonfire Of the Anal (Vanities) The Anal Bunch (Brady) Anal Private Ryan (Saving) Midnight in the Garden of Good and Anal (Evil) Anal Cogburn (Rooster) Our Man Anal (Flint) The Man from ANAL (UNCL BAHAHAHA I like this game!

I have been wanting to go with sexxxyrebecca just never had the chance yet... but I'm actually surprised no one has talked about redseductress, she really enjoys giving oral and it really shows. Try her royal all oral treatment... trust me you will not be disappointed. Cheers,

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Yes I Definitely Agree With The Above comments. It Does Happen On Both Sides For Sure...The Person Who May Have Developed The Emotional/Physical Feelings May Step Back & Need To Take A Break Or The Other Way Around, Maybe The Other Person Doesn't Have The Same Feelings & Needs To Step Back. Unfortunately We Are All Human & We Can't Control How Our Feelings Make Us Feel...But We Can Only Learn How To Deal With Them. If One Were To Take Step Back & Not See The Other Anymore, The Other Would Have No Choice But To Respect How The Other Has Chosen To Deal With The Situation. I Know It Is Not The Greatest Feeling To Lose A Friend Aka An Sp/Client...But Give It Time & In The Mean Time Find A New Sweet Kitty You Can Have Fun With Who Can Treat You Right/Well & Make Her Purr & Maybe In The Future There May Be A Point Where You Can Keep It To a Friend Basis. If Not Not Much You Can Do. Best Of Luck With Your Situation.

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I worked there a while and made friends with lots of the staff. That place is as good as gone. The owner is basically just waiting to be bought out by the housing developers. They do not care about it at all...it's sad for me. I loved it there. Lots of the girls have migrated to he Den if you are looking for your favorite dancers

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It' was a tie for me back in the 70's between Yvonne Craig as Bat Girl or Debbie Harry from Blondie both where always present in my mind and pasted to my my walls!

Katrine Cannon, she sure looks great in the mirror :)

Many of the CERB ladies do such an amazing job at showing their real person in their pictures. I love it when a woman's beauty and confidence comes out in a photo. Some of my favourites! Cub One of the best all time artsy shots - Annessa! A classic look and extremely sexy with Evelyn and Amelia. The fun, seductive and fire of Emily. Smart combined with sexiness that can drive you wild. Lovely Kerri. Confident and classy Georgiana. Soft, seductive and sexy the one and only Tiff!

I don't think thanking this post is enough to convey how truly thankful I am that you now own a red fishnet body stocking! Maybe pictures to follow?!?

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Well Done My Friend!!

I came across this set by Maison Close and thought of Genevieve: Unfortunately it's an older collection, but the Belle de Nuit collection is nice, too.: http://www.maison-close.com/collection-belle-de-nuit/

I spent an hour with Lola last week. She is formerly with yourmgf and probably booked your appointments if you booked with them. She is an independent now, and I would say she offers a GFE+. Arrangements were done via email, without issue. Rendezvous was at a DT hotel, quite nice. Lola looks better in person than her pics, and she has a nice body with great tits. I was greeted by great kissing and was offered a shower to start. After that, things moved quickly, from DFK, to BBBJ and multiple positions. I finished with a CIM. After some time talking, Lola gave me a nice back and leg massage, and then round 2 began. More BBBJ, which then turned to Greek. I finished #2 with another CIM. The hour went quickly but was very enjoyable. Welcome Lola to Ottawa the next time she visits.

So we have a few people complaining about a new feature I added to encourage more user participation (and it's working!) New members (under 5 posts for less then 5 days) now get a notice (See below) that they should post and change the status (basically from a lurker who is using the site for research and not contributing to a contributing member). The notice will disappear once they post 5 posts and have been a member for 5+ days. The site is FREE to use and they are complaining!? Seriously!! I have actually had TWO members (Long time members) complain in PM's and the one had been a member for 200+ days and the other (get this) has been a member for over 2000 days and is pissed that he now gets this notice? WTF??? If you have been here 200+ or 2000+ days and used the site for info on SP's and not given back at least 5 comments for the rest of the community?? Why do these guys feel this is ok? should we really be concerned? Here is the notice: Yes, it's long (It's long for a reason!) it's made to be informative to NEW MEMBERS and it's long to be a NAG so that you give back to the community!! No excuse is valid for not contributing. Put your browser into PRIVACY MODE (as you should be doing already) and make sure your username is not something your co-workers or anyone else might pick up on and post some comments!! Don't be a troll/leach and expect everyone else to share for your benefit when you don't contribute.

wearing a blue jean is part of something that could be sexy, don't you think so ?

The location is extremely discrete too, nothing is visible from the street level, just park across the street at the Galleries and pretend you're shopping.

i pay my accountant by the hour - i pay my lawyer by the hour -i pay my house cleaner by the hour- all professionals -why would your services be any different- except more enjoyable

Any help here?