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Well, first off, some of your choices are actually incorrect. Here are your options (and the only potential outcomes from the SCC case): 1. The three criminal code provisions relating to sex work (s. 210, 212 and 213) are upheld a.k.a status quo 2. The three criminal code provisions are struck down (decriminalization). 3. A mix --one law may be upheld, while others struck down (eg. Bawdy house laws and the living off the avails may be struck down while communicating for the purposes of prostitution is upheld). Legalization just confuses things. That's NOT what is happening. Prostitution is already legal. Also, the so-called "pimping" law, in actual effect is far too broad, in that it is applied to ANYONE who takes money from a sex worker, including family members who live with said sex worker. It's also redundant--sex workers don't need special laws just for them--there are already laws on the books that deal with exploitation, fraud, theft, extortion, etc. These links will take you to some excellent PDF infosheets that covers all aspects of the case. The Basics: Decriminalization of Sex Work:http://www.chezstella.org/docs/StellaInfoSheetTheBasic.pdf?PHPSESSID=77cdc8f26c478d98611705756a952397 Sex Work and the Charter: http://www.chezstella.org/docs/StellaInfoSheetCharter.pdf?PHPSESSID=77cdc8f26c478d98611705756a952397 Challenging Prostitution Laws: Bedford v. Canada: http://www.chezstella.org/docs/StellaInfoSheetBedford.pdf?PHPSESSID=77cdc8f26c478d98611705756a952397 I encourage everyone here to read these infosheets thoroughly if you're interested in understanding what is actually happening.

Hey you, this is a great question! There are lots of things you could talk about that aren't just about menial every day things... - What are your dreams, goals - What have you always wanted to do/try/see but haven't had the chance to yet and why - Do you have any pets? Does she? Talk about them! - Have you travelled? Where? For how long? Where has she been? Did she like it? Etc - You like to eat, right? I bet she likes to eat, too. Where are your favorite food places? Meals? Desserts? Foods to use during sex? After sex? Before sex? - Look around the room... notice unusual/interesting personal items or art and ask about them - Comment on what she is wearing; where did she get it? Why did she pick it? Tell her she looks amazing in it and why! Be detailed. All women loved to be noticed for something other than the obvious. - Is she wearing jewelry? Ask her details about it! - Do you have any tattoos? Does she? Talk about them - people loooove talking about their tattoos. My best advice would be to read or lookup some e/books about conversation and small talk. It just takes practice and creativity to think up questions or comments about your immediate environment or company. You could always just flat out tell her that you aren't great at making conversation and let her steer your dialogue. There's nothing wrong with a bit of sexy silence, too! Also, you may want to kind of create cliff-hanger conversations via PM here on CERB first, so that way you can pick up the conversation or reference it while you are talking. Bring up or talk about a wide variety of topics and you can grab at them later on while you are in person. Hope this helps sweety :)

The laws about sex work, and what the laws should be... will ALWAYS be about sex workers.

CH, I hate to say this, but you really don't know what you're talking about and whenever you post about this subject you put out misleading information. And what YOU think on the matter is largely irrelevant to what sex workers (the people the laws affect the most) have to say on the matter. That's all I will say on this subject. If you really want your poll to be correct regarding prostitution laws and clear, your options should be : 1. Full criminalization 2. Partial criminalization (eg the Swedish Model) 3. Legalization (regulation by the state) 4. Decriminalization. The end. And again, the reason the living off the avails law is a problem is that we don't need it. Exploitative relationships (what you characterize as pimping) is covered by the already extensive laws in the criminal code regarding theft, fraud, kidnapping, extortion and so on. Second, the courts have not defined what is considered "exploitation." Third, it is paternalistic to have laws specifically for sex workers--we're not a special class of people who need special laws, the ones we've got will do just fine thanks.

Hey my darlings !!, I have decided to start this thread because I find that it is important to all of us to know what are the "turn on" and "turn offs" for you guys and also for us SPs. I would like to open this conversation to more than just physical preferences for example , location, outfits , types of services, ackward experiences, communication experience when booking, what kind of adds, pictures etc... I also invite my dear colleagues to share in this thread as I think it is equally important for both parties to share opinion on this matter. I am going to start sharing about myself first... Turn on's (or likes) : - Gentlemen: What woman doesn't like a distinguished man who is polite, respectful...and has class? - Touching, sharing, kissing, massaging: Some women like to be pleased too. A nice massage, a few caress, a sweet kiss on the neck are things that if well done, would turn on most women. :) Personnally, I like kisses on the neck. - Good communication: Getting to know you a little bit before we start make things easier. Don't be shy, tell us about what you like/dislike before the session. The experience will be more enjoyable for everyone. - Cleanliness: That's why we'll offer you to take a shower. If you know what I mean..;). - Punctuality: Usually, we have a schedule and many appointments during the day. It's expected to give a notice if your running late. ;) Besides that, personally, I love pleasing and being pleased. There's a lot of things that turn me on during sex. If you want to know how to pleased me personally, PM me. It'd be a pleasure. ;) Turn off's (or dislikes) : - Negotiation on rates: I understand why people try to negotiate on rates but this is a luxury and if you can't afford it, then don't do it. The rates that we put are based on the cost of doing business (room fees, ads, amenities, traveling fees, companionship, etc.) and also on the quality of woman you get as your companion. When you start negotiating when you come to your appointment, it isn't motivating to give you the best service. Does it turns you off when things are getting hot and exciting with a girl and she decides to bring up the options list or ask for money upfront for the options?It kills the mood eh?! I hope you understand my point of view. - Not having a good hygiene: It's not cool. Bad hygiene is NEVER a turn on. I had to mention it because it had happened to me often. Get some deo guys !!! If your a client/sp, or bf/gf, husband/wife, or whatever, have some common sense and take a shower and smell good. Also, try to maintain a good hygiene down there. The experience with any girl will be much better. :) - Overstaying an appointment : Don't get me wrong, I like to take my time and I don't like to rush. It happens to me that someone booked me for 1hour and he gets off really fast. Since he booked me for an 1hr and paid the full price, I will give him companionship during the rest of the time so he gets what he paid for. In the same view, I had several experiences where people didn't respect their appointments.I can understand 5-10 mins extras. But when it starts becoming 20-30 mins most of us providers, would appreciated a man with the decency to leave on time or to at least tip. The thing is, we might have other appointments coming or phone calls to answer, emails to answer or other things to do. As much fun as it can be, don't forget that we are working too. :) - Not showing up: Things happens and if someone cannot make it to an appointment, I think it would be respectful to inform the other person. It's like in any business. And this business is no different. Cancelling without notice and not showing up to an appointment is very frustrating... It's a waist of time and money. It's ok if somethings comes up, just let us know. Maybe, there is someone who wish to take your place...? ;) - Rudeness and vulgarity: As you guys like a well traveled, well educated woman, we too like gentlemen. Please be a gentlemen. If not, it kills the mood. Most ladies have no tolerance for rude or rough behavior, disrespect, etc. If you're rude, expect to be turned down. Among other obvious things that could turn off most people: blocked numbers, overcalling/overtexting, threats, not being discrete, etc. What about you guys ? (or girls) What turn you on/off ? PS: I believe in the notion of constructive criticism so guys I don't want this to turn into a bitching session!! ..;)

Am I wrong for wanting to play safe? To each their own everyone likes different things and I do respect that but am I wrong for wanting to offer a clean safe bj? Look forward to hearing everyone's opinion xo

I honestly believe there is way too much slandering, pressure and bashing on both sides of this equation. ladies towards other ladies who differ, those who say clients pressure them, those who feel pressured. Every time this topic gets brought up no matter the phrasing, forum or thread, it generally stirs up emotion all around. I believe everyone must do what is right for them and what is within their own "risk" limit. I also believe that we also need to let everyone live their life and run their business or make their hobbyists choices without judgement or condemnation. If you don't want to do it, don't. If you do, do. If you want a provider who does, find one. If you find one who does or doesn't based on whatever you want, suck it up and move on. I think there has been enough negativity put out there by these threads that we all just need to decide to stop the madness. Danielle, this is in no way aimed at you, I understand why you're asking, the problem being, you shouldn't HAVE to ask. It doesn't matter what others think or feel, what matters is how YOU think and feel. Respect runs every which way so lets all respect one another and let this topic die a very quick and painless death and respect one another to make the choices that are right for us.

Well given that 95% of all prostitution charges are for communicating and disproportionately affect street-based workers and that no clients are dying because of these laws, how the law affects hobbyists is secondary to how the law affects sex workers. And sure, the options are the thread openers choice--except your choices are misleading in terms of the language used and since most people don't really know what is going on, you're just confusing everyone.

I always wanted to do a poll. I really just want to know Cerbies opinions on this question. It would be best for nobody to comment as I absolutely don't want this to turn into an argument or a hen fight or a chicken fight or a cock fight !! Just curious :)

Disagreement does not equal attacks. As Eric points out, there has been better information provided by others that wasn't present in your post. Just because we disagree, does not mean anyone is being negative, or attacking. Unfortunately saying 'no debate' on something you post on the internet is a moot point. It's here for us to read, and respond to - if you don't want to hear other's opinions, then I would suggest to keep yours to yourself as well. That is NOT an attack - I'm simply saying, if you don't want to hear us, then I don't want to hear you. That is NOT an ideal situation - what the ideal is, you are here and are free to present your ideas and opinions, and we are too. NO ONE should have the right to say "I can speak, but you cannot'. That is not a world I want to live in. Please continue to contribute, and please don't try to tell others they can't. We're all a part of this, and everyone should be able to speak. Also: no one person knows everything. We're here to learn from each other, and presenting facts that show something you posted is wrong does not mean someone is attacking you, rather that they're trying to educate you. I am always open to learning more - if I thought I knew everything there was to know now, I'd be pretty damned sad.

Oh you're back. From your earlier post I had understood that you were taking your ball and going home. Disagreeing with you is neither aggressive, arrogant nor offensive and your saying so doesn't make it true. Any more than you calling me a goody boy proves that I'm supporting the ladies simply because they're ladies. I have my own opinions, my own mind and I evaluate information on it's own merit regardless of its origin. Besides, it wasn't only ladies that presented differing opinions. They made better points than you. They presented a better argument and more quality information than you. You only started the thread. You don't own it and you don't get to make the rules. Nobody other than you is trying to make this into a flame war.

I agree with Cleo (and with everything that Berlin has so helpfully posted, above). The laws have always been about sex workers and will always be about us. Laws around the world aim to "protect" the public from us: we're considered to be drug addicts and criminals likely to commit theft and extortion while also being one of main sources of infectious diseases. We're also considered to be appropriate targets for aggression and violence because too many people believe that this is part of doing business and, in any case, they think it's not really possible to rape a prostitute. This week, I've heard and read commentary from people who say they're in favour of decriminalizing prostitution because it's one way to lower the incidence of violence against women who are not prostitutes I'm becoming very irritable when I see anything that attempts to pit the interests of sex workers against the interests of our clientele, as though we are opponents or even enemies. It's not true. Sure, men sometimes complain about prices, particularly when they want to see someone whose time and company they can't afford at the moment. Sometimes children throw tantrums in late November because Santa Claus doesn't appear until Christmas, too. Occasionally someone has such unrealistic fantasies about what a rendez-vous could be like that it's impossible for it to be a success in any way. In the great majority of instances, however, there is no fundamental conflict between companions and clients. We want the same things: to have a mutually enjoyable time together that's safe for both parties at the agreed rate of exchange. No aspersions cast against either party about their reasons for doing what they're doing. No drama. No nonsense of any kind. Just good fun for everyone, with no strings attached. That's why there are no sex workers or workers' groups advocating the criminalization of our clients. Decriminalization is all about the safety and well-being of sex workers. Period. The safer we are, the better things will be for our clients, because no matter what, we are always the ones who are most at risk of harm. Always.

Just a note to you gentleman who have a preference, please don't be shy when booking to mention this! I tend to answer the door in a robe covering lingerie, for longer appointments in a dress and heels. I however am happy to answer in jammies, yoga pants, etc (no costumes though, lol). Most ladies are happy to accomodate (as long as they own the requested clothes), but we cannot know your preference if it isn't pointed out :) I personally only ever wear pajamas or yoga clothes when I'm at my incall, so it would be wonderful for me to be able to open the door in that, lol!

I enjoy conversation with the lady but often don't know what to talk about. I've got a pretty boring life and don't really do much except work and the occasional gym 2-3 time a week. So I don't want to bore them to death. So Asking question to the lady to spark something in common is something I would like to do but hesitate since some might get offended. I for one don't mind answering almost any question and if the odd chance it's something I don't wish to I would politely say so, although I cannot think of anything at the moment. So how do you feel about question, and where do you draw a line? Keep in mind I'm not talking about question like what your real name and sin. Or obviously inappropriate question like how many clients do you see. But stuff like hobbies, likes/dislike maybe even a personal story that happened to you without divulging anything to personal. I understand for discretion reason some things should not be discussed.

Plato: For the greater good. Karl Marx: It was a historical inevitability. Machiavelli: So that its subjects will view it with admiration, as a chicken which has the daring and courage to boldly cross the road, but also with fear, for whom among them has the strength to contend with such a paragon of avian virtue? In such a manner is the princely chicken's dominion maintained. Hippocrates: Because of an excess of light pink gooey stuff in its pancreas. Jacques Derrida: Any number of contending discourses may be discovered within the act of the chicken crossing the road, and each interpretation is equally valid as the authorial intent can never be discerned, because structuralism is DEAD, DAMMIT, DEAD! Thomas de Torquemada: Give me ten minutes with the chicken and I'll find out. Timothy Leary: Because that's the only kind of trip the Establishment would let it take. Douglas Adams: Forty-two. Nietzsche: Because if you gaze too long across the Road, the Road gazes also across you. Oliver North: National Security was at stake. B.F. Skinner: Because the external influences which had pervaded its sensorium from birth had caused it to develop in such a fashion that it would tend to cross roads, even while believing these actions to be of its own free will. Carl Jung: The confluence of events in the cultural gestalt necessitated that individual chickens cross roads at this historical juncture, and therefore synchronicitously brought such occurrences into being. Jean-Paul Sartre: In order to act in good faith and be true to itself, the chicken found it necessary to cross the road. Ludwig Wittgenstein: The possibility of "crossing" was encoded into the objects "chicken" and "road", and circumstances came into being which caused the actualization of this potential occurrence. Albert Einstein: Whether the chicken crossed the road or the road crossed the chicken depends upon your frame of reference. Aristotle: To actualize its potential. Buddha: If you ask this question, you deny your own chicken- nature. Howard Cosell: It may very well have been one of the most astonishing events to grace the annals of history. An historic, unprecedented avian biped with the temerity to attempt such an herculean achievement formerly relegated to homo sapien pedestrians is truly a remarkable occurence. Salvador Dali: The Fish. Darwin: It was the logical next step after coming down from the trees. Emily Dickinson: Because it could not stop for death. Epicurus: For fun. Ralph Waldo Emerson: It didn't cross the road; it transcended it. Johann von Goethe: The eternal hen-principle made it do it. Ernest Hemingway: To die. In the rain. Werner Heisenberg: We are not sure which side of the road the chicken was on, but it was moving very fast. David Hume: Out of custom and habit. Jack Nicholson: 'Cause it (censored) wanted to. That's the (censored) reason. Pyrrho the Skeptic: What road? Ronald Reagan: I forget. John Sununu: The Air Force was only too happy to provide the transportation, so quite understandably the chicken availed himself of the opportunity. The Sphinx: You tell me. Mr. T: If you saw me coming you'd cross the road too! Henry David Thoreau: To live deliberately ... and suck all the marrow out of life. Mark Twain: The news of its crossing has been greatly exaggerated. Molly Yard: It was a hen! Zeno of Elea: To prove it could never reach the other side. Chaucer: So priketh hem nature in hir corages. Wordsworth: To wander lonely as a cloud. The Godfather: I didn't want its mother to see it like that. Keats: Philosophy will clip a chicken's wings. Blake: To see heaven in a wild fowl. Othello: Jealousy. Dr Johnson: Sir, had you known the Chicken for as long as I have, you would not so readily enquire, but feel rather the Need to resist such a public Display of your own lamentable and incorrigible Ignorance. Mrs Thatcher: This chicken's not for turning. Supreme Soviet: There has never been a chicken in this photograph. Oscar Wilde: Why, indeed? One's social engagements whilst in town ought never expose one to such barbarous inconvenience - although, perhaps, if one must cross a road, one may do far worse than to cross it as the chicken in question. Kafka: Hardly the most urgent enquiry to make of a low-grade insurance clerk who woke up that morning as a hen. Swift: It is, of course, inevitable that such a loathsome, filth-ridden and degraded creature as Man should assume to question the actions of one in all respects his superior. Macbeth: To have turned back were as tedious as to go o'er. Whitehead: Clearly, having fallen victim to the fallacy of misplaced concreteness. Freud: An die andere Seite zu kommen. (Much laughter) Hamlet: That is not the question. Donne: It crosseth for thee. Pope: It was mimicking my Lord Hervey. Constable: To get a better view.

If your boundaries are no bbbj then no bbbj. Gentlemen pay for a lady's time, but that doesn't mean a man is free to do what he wants during that time. All activities must respect each other's boundaries No man (definitely not a gentleman) should make you feel bad in the least because of your restrictions. He should just see someone else if bbbj is important to him. No reason for him to compare you to other providers or make you feel bad. Offer the companionship you feel comfortable in providing, don't let anyone pressure you into doing anything you don't want to. And each and every lady is a unique special person, and should never be compared to another lady. Any guy that would do that to you is likely a guy you wouldn't want for a client anyway A rambling RG

I love you as well Lexy And you are all right to each their own and no one should feel bad a bout offering either...just lately I have been receiving requests.for bbbj and when I say I don't provide thathey basically.try to make me feel bad because they can get a bbbj from other providers...I just feel its unnecessary to tell me about what other ladies offer that is not my business...I just rather a clean safe sloppy bj lol

I have learned that some of the men I have met have asked something very personal without realizing it was inapropriate so with me is not about what questions they can ask but them respecting my choice not to answer and by respecting I not only mean do not insist but also do not be tricky. I have had people not even in the first encounter but just communicating in order to book that ask me personal things and normally when I decline to respond they either respect it or choose not to book which is fine but contacting gentlemen I have met to see if they know is what I consider crossing the line big time so my advice/request would be ... To new clients, if the lady refuses to share something and is something you need to know in order to decide whether to meet her or not then respect her privacy and move on. To repeat clients to get asked about things that do not involve how the experience was, please never assume that the fact the lady shared with you means she would share it with anyone and either ask her if is ok to answer the guy's question or advice him to ask her directly.

What reaction are you talking about? An intelligent and reasonable discussion with information presented from people who understand the subject and are actually directly affected by it? You nailed down a set of choices and suggested that they were the ONLY choices. You stated up front that you didn't want to hear any other opinions as if you were the ultimate authority in the subject. Then you act all butt-hurt that people had the audacity to disagree with your viewpoint? Sorry dude. It's your right to post anything you want but you don't know everything and it's incredibly arrogant to assume that you have the final word without hearing any other opinions.

Pretty much every day, I'll receive a few texts from numbers I've never seen before, just saying 'hi' or, 'hey'. I will never understand why these texts are sent. Most girls ignore them, to be honest. I occasionally will respond, saying 'Hello! If you'd like to see me, please introduce yourself and let me know what you're looking for, thanks!' other times I've said 'Hello! Who is this?', to get a response back with just a name. Like, Frank. Just Frank, nothing else. Not, Hello, this is Frank, wondering if you're available today?' I know sometimes a new client can be nervous with the first communciation. But please keep in mind, we are very happy to answer your questions, and if we accept texts (some girls state in their ads that they do not), then you are welcome to text us! But please, ask a question! Tell me what you're texting for. Because to just say 'Hi, then 'Frank', it's like pulling teeth. I'm not here to draw what you want out of you. You need to ask me, and then we can make an arrangement. I will admit, I sometimes can be a bit snarky in my responses to these texts. And i'm not a snarky person. But after the tenth 'Hey' or worse, 'hey babe', text I've received in a day, my patience may have hit it's limit. And I would hate for us not to get a chance to meet only because our texting didn't work out. Communication is key to a good encounter. Tell me who you are, and what it is you're looking for by contacting me. If you can't say more than a hello in a text, now how will we be able to talk in purrson silly!

Never offer or agree to provide something that you're not comfortable doing. Never, ever. You will feel used and degraded, or worse. This is a reasonable way to make a living IF you can enjoy yourself and the men who visit you. If not, you can start feeling as though your soul is being shredded. Don't let anyone tell you what everyone else is doing. They're probably wrong. And don't let anyone tell you that you won't get clients if you don't do X, Y or the almighty Z. That's not true, either. There are plenty of clients out there for every companion. Even in tough economic times! Give you very best, all the time, no matter what. Who you are, your diligence, creativity and sensitivity are the things that matter more than anything else in this business, every day.

Delete! Delete! Delete! It is NOT worth deviating from who you are, or outside your comfort zone, just to get the client. Let them go, and be true to you. Don't worry about what they have to say, just delete and continue reading through emails/texts/etc until you find a client that's willing to respect you for you, and that INCLUDES respecting your boundaries.

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I am a huge fan of daty and love to explode during daty..but of course only with those I.feel are clean and safe!! I would rather daty than full service I'm a true fan xo

Absolutely not. Why: Everyone comfort limit is different... Your decision is yours to make and never let anyone tells you otherwise. As a hobbyist _if_ this is a deal breaker for me; I just carry on and find a different provider. I would never try to force anyone to do anything they would not do.

No you are not wrong...whatever you decide to offer is what is right for you and you should be respected for your choices!

One of the reasons I did not partake in this poll, is because I need to know A LOT more of what is exactly going on right now, and if any changes to current laws. I would like to see that biggest issue is that the "sex workers" are safe and are able to work in a safe environment going forward, too many(sex workers) have lost lives in this profession.

Just want to warn you that she is using some of my pictures... this is NOT me..

I know you don't want a "debate", but I think discussion should at least be welcome, no? I didn't vote because I don't know a whole lot about this in as much depth as I would like, aside from the basics. I do know whats legal/illegal, my rights, and I have also been following some of the other discussions about it on CERB. I also came across an interesting editorial article about the New Zealand approach to prostitution, which sounded pretty reasonable to me, and I thought this might be a good place to share it: http://www.thestar.com/opinion/commentary/2013/06/11/new_zealands_model_of_sex_work_respects_rights.html

There is so much "noise" out there concerning what we can catch , give, cure, not cure. I now only listen to my doctor. I am very open with him/her and will only heed his/her advice. After all , believing all the other written, spoken advice can and might drive any concerned individual nuts trying to decipher what's true and not true:)

I understand the aggravation... but for a first timer, even that "hi" is a big step. This is not an apology for the guys that have been on the boards for quite some time or for someone that has had more than one experience. This is for that first timer. "Hi" is hell. "Hi" is scary. "Hi" means that he has stepped out of his comfort level, regardless of what it is, and decided to delve into a world that is completely foreign to him. We all know the media portrayals; rarely are they positive. But the guy that says just "hi" is going against everything he has been shown and everything that society has told him, and is entering a great big world unknown to him. He may have been debating that "hi" text for weeks. He probably wrote and erased that "hi" a dozen times on his phone and when he finally was satisfied with that message, debated again just pressing the "send" button. "Hi" means that he has decided on extra marital adventure for the first time. "Hi" means that he is lonely and doesn't have the social skills for intimate relationships in the real world. "Hi" means that he and his SO have broken up and is reaching for something to ease the pain for just a short amount of time. "Hi" means so many things, and it could be that you, the recipient are the one he has chosen out of a hundred other possibilities to help him. He doesn't know the next step. He's never done this before. He is scared. Believe me, he is petrified. You are beautiful and sexy and are offering him things that he hasn't had in a long time, if ever. He may stop at just "hi." That may have been the limit of his fortitude. He may just say to himself, "I can't do this." So when you get upset at "hi," please understand that at one time he may have been ALL of us, everyone who gets into the hobby for one of the multitude of reasons that we do the things we do. I apologize if I have offended, all I want to do is give some sense of what that "hi" was all about. I rest my case.

I tend to talk a lot. I probably reveal more about my personal life than I usually intend but there are 2 reasons that this really isn't a concern. First, while I try to be discrete in my personal life, the fact that I see providers is known to my wife. Secondly, I take quite a bit of time in deciding who to see and I prefer repeat encounters with someone I know and like. This means I am already pretty confident that the provider is professional and also discrete. If I see them again it means I am that much more confident. As for the other way around, I worry that I occasionally cross the line since I tend to ask plenty of questions in conversation. I have no problem with someone pointing out that I am going too far. I just would hate to create an awkward situation or embarrass the provider. I'll try to reign myself in a bit.

Positively,one thousand percent.......NO...you play the WAY YOU WANT, it is your body and your health. As you said gorgeous..."To each their own"

Perhaps putting it out there that small talk isn't your strong suit would be the icebreaker? Like Katherine and Christy, I'm a chatter and I love to get to know my guests. I take the lead and guide the conversation so my guests never have to feel tongue tied. My dad use to say I vaccinated with a gramophone needle or that my tongue was attached in the middle and wiggled at both ends. (now wouldn't that be fun!) The key is not to worry or force it. In a worst case scenario, off the top of my head I can think of a dozen things that are more fun to do with my tongue than talk, maybe that's the direction you should head in first. Then get to know each other after the skin has met... cat

Little bit of Chris Evan for the ladies!!

Did you know other varieties of stinky dick cheese are head cheese and Fromunda cheese(from unda the foreskin)? lol

Did you know... The technical name for stinky dick cheese is smegma? And yes, it does really exist. Unfortunately. :cry: Yucky.

I offer Massage but i m 100%proud Latin WOMAN! Born n raised! With all the passion and spyciness of my race ;-)

Pictures from Georgiana Sweet sexy albums :)

If DATY stops being a frequent activity I'm quitting.

Just because Michael Douglas is a celebrity, doesn't mean he's right! lol

You have the right to offer what ever you want and will find clients that only want a safe encounter.

I just wanted to take a minute to say thanks to all the fine gents who came to visit during my time in NB ;) I had a lot of fun, tried some new things, and met the sweetest personalities.. You guys were great, and I'm looking forward to my next tour through your gorgeous province!

Did you know that in Rome, Italy you can drink tap water unlike in France even though it is an ancient city?

For the record, my post was meant to be ironic, because I figured most people know that Cleo is the only SP I have ever seen for a paid encounter, therefor making it fair to say she is my fave. :) But she probably really is a lot of other people's favourite too, secretly! ;) She is HAWT. Hubba Hubba.

From the sexy album of Peachy's :

A dam is essentially a square piece of rubber (2" X 2")that you place over the ladies opening. You hold it in place with your hands, and go to town on her. That's why so many just cut a condom in half and use that if they don't have an actual dam. I've also seen some that use saran wrap (multiple layers) in a pinch. Saran Wrap tastes better, just make sure you use more then one piece, doesn't taste like condoms. However, I am not sure of the effectiveness of Saran Wrap for actual protection. Of course, there is also the female condom - it covers the whole pussy, so would also work for daty.

.. Or even worse when some guys cant even say hello but just send a one liner like "Available? Rate? Location?" Please, guys, make a full sentence! lol ;)

Those concerned about safe sex, avoid such practices. Giving a BBJ without first covering the penis with enough lube to create a barrier. Avoiding kissing if involved in any mouth to anal activity and also making sure there is enough lube to create an anal skin barrier. Changing condom between anal and vaginal intercourse. Advising the client not to alternate anal and vaginal penetration while using the same condom. Avoiding any oral activity is there is any odor from them vagina or the penis. Or any white vaginal secretion; or colored liquid appearing from either. Being very cautious if the client or the SP is not showered before the encounter. Offering a shower together when necessary. Checking for vaginal and penile warts. Avoiding oral activity if there are any skin breaks on lips, white tongue, or foul mouth odors that are not food related. Avoiding clients and SP's who are into injection drugs. Can't think of much more :-p Enjoy safer sex :-)