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Honestly for me, there are no right or wrong "words", there are right and wrong PEOPLE. With some people you know that whatever dirty word comes out of their mouth, they mean it in the most respectful, caring and lusty way possible. It's a compliment. That's when I love terms like slut or w***e or whatever. Then there are those that can make even the nicest word seem dirty and I'm not talking in a sexy way. They can make words like beautiful or sweet sound like derogatory comments. Words do have many different meanings but it's the thought, emotions and intent behind the words that give them true power!

Meh. Letters put together to phrase words really mean very little to me. Meanings, intentions and context can sometimes be more important, but I, personally try not to dwell on things like that. There is bigger things to worry about in the world that word choice. Especially in the heat of the moment, I would prefer to focus on other things than getting my panties in a knot over words. I like all dirty words. :) Even the C word (it is censored here) is good to go with me. It's fun to say and get a reaction from people too. Hehe :) Whore. Bitch. Slut. If someone is a good person with good intentions, and it's all in good fun, I wouldn't worry too much and use what is natural and comfortable for you. The overly politically correct people who overreact about these things and get huffy are their own worst enemy. This is just my own personal view on the subject, many others likely feel differently.

My home is filled with spirits. I see and hear them all the time. Many times I will come home and find my kitchen taps on, hey cats can't do this so I can only assume its my friendly spirits messing with my mind. Spirits like to make themselves known and they go to all lengths to be noticed. I have seen and heard this all my life and to me its like ever day people that come and go, some I know and others I don't. My father is my constant guide, he warns me of impending danger and when I see him I definitely pay attention.

Awesome thread Michaella! And thank you for the mention Peachy! I love everyone else's replies so far as well. :) I had a feeling that would be the response, and it makes me happy. This is indeed a topic close to my heart. I have posted on my blog several times about loving our vulvas the way they are. Genital healing is very important to having a positive sexuality, which in turn, as women, is vital to our overall self-worth. I can definitely relate to a lot of things you said. When I was a teenager I was also self conscious about my labia, and at one point thought my lips were longer because I masturbated too much! LOL. I also had a boyfriend who told me they were too long (And this was at 22!) I'm sure all those little boys who made girls feel shitty about their vulvas always felt awesome about their cock and balls too, right? My issue was never something that held me back or I took too seriously, but it was something that I was conscious of for a long time. The Wall of Vulva: Real women's vulva casts! Our faces all look different, so why should our pussies all look the same? Wouldn't that be boring? By "text book" pussy, that little boy really meant "porno pussy". The last few decades of mainstream porn were pretty much exclusively shaved pussies with minimal lips and tiny, barely visible clits. The only thing I can come up with of why porn producers thought this was what the average porn user wanted to see is because of our society's obsession with youth, and trying to show pussies that look like young girls, rather than grown women. Shitty mainstream porn also damaged many men's self esteem with the types of cocks that are generally cast - huge and always circumcised. Anyways, a generation or two of men grew up thinking that was what all vulvas looked like before they actually had the chance to explore, because that is where they saw the most pussy. Sex education still doesn't properly cover these things. On the bright, with the popularity of amateur pornography and the internet, it seems that there is more variety of vulvas out there for people to see, and people have a better appreciation of the variety of vulvas that are really out there. I can happily and proudly say that today, I absolutely love my vulva just the way it is. And my feelings about it have only gotten better since I started escorting. I have never been complimented so much on my bits. There isn't a thing I would change about my labia, clit, hood, or hole! They all make me feel good, and that is what really matters. Keeping clean is one thing, but it is entirely possible to over-cleanse the vagina. It is supposed to have a natural scent! Women need to accept this... and consider that most men actually love and crave this delicious natural pussy scent! Douching and using all those products they sell at the drugstore actually causes infections by throwing off the natural balance of flora in the vagina. Those companies (like all companies that sell "beauty" products) prey on self conscious women to hawk their crap. It is very sad that so many women avoid and deny themselves the sexual pleasure that they deserve because they have been conditioned to be ashamed of their parts. This sexual anxiety causes dysfunction and it also a main reason why so many women can't let go and have trouble achieving orgasm during sex. I watched a documentary recently called The Perfect Vagina, which deals with this subject and delves into the labiaplasty phenomenon. It even shows an actual surgery being done on a lovely young woman with a beautiful pussy. They also talk about "Vulva show-and-tells", in which the idea is that a small group of women who are dealing with genital shame get together and show each other their pussies and talk about it. It can be incredibly healing for women to realize that they are not alone in how they feel, and to actually see other vulvas in real life. They realize that they really don't all look like the ones they saw in porn, and they come in all shapes, colours and sizes. If we think about it, I would say that the CERB men are a good sample of the average sexually active man, and we often see threads about guys looking for "large labia and clits". More to play with, lick and suck on! Love your genitals!! :) Range of vulva sketches. Check out "The Snackbar".

hat's your sex personality? Are you a sexual daredevil or a little more subdued? Do you let yourself go or hold back? What are your notions of sexual normalcy and eccentricity? Are you sexually creative? Find out who you really are between the sheets with this sex personality test. Examine the following statements and indicate how well they describe you. In order to obtain the most accurate results, please answer as truthfully as possible. After finishing the test, you will receive a Snapshot Report with an introduction, a graph and a personalized interpretation for one of your test scores. You will then have the option to purchase the full results. http://psychologytoday.tests.psychtests.com/take_test.php?idRegTest=1613 After the test, please share your results. Additional Comments: Snapshot Report Spiciness 44 Your results indicate that you are comfortable experimenting sexually, but haven't explored a wide variety of options from the great palette of sex. You do have a creative nature, which keeps your sexual liaisons satisfactorily spicy, but you aren't the most adventurous love bug on the planet. You seem to have discovered what pleases you, and plan to stick with it! As long as you are sexually fulfilled, keep it up!

I have spirits in my house but they are friendly ones. I notice the cats when their eyes will roam as if someone is walking across the room and often times will chase whoever it is. I often sense a presence around me of 2 or 3 people. My cat died in my house last year so he has been around for the last year or so. My orange cat who taunted him in old age is probably getting the tables turned on him now. A few people have witnessed that. Other people are those who have passed on in my family who I was very close to. My mother is a psychic and she has done many readings for people and were amazed what she picked up on so I believe she has passed some of her talent onto me. She is sometimes like that Long Island Medium woman and when she is conversing with someone, she will start reading them. She once did it to a mechanic at a dealership when she took her car in. The predictions she's made over the years still startle me. Myself, I am not as psychic as she is but I am able to pick up vibes from people and consider myself a spiritual person. I consider this a valuable tool in my business. What I find what happens the most to me is I can predict what regular clients are going to call me in the week. I feel I can connect telepathically with people. What's really scary is I can think of a client I haven't seen in years and a day or two later, they call me. There was one day I was test driving a new car at a dealership. The sales person and I took it out on the highway and earlier in the day I was thinking of a client I hadn't seen in a couple of years ( who lives in Southern Ontario) wondering what had ever became of him. We stopped at a gas station to turn around and who is there filling up gas in their car? It's the same client I had thought of earlier in the day! I've had that happen a couple of times. Another time I was on first class flight from Atlanta to LA. I was with someone who I spent a lot of time travelling with and we were reminiscing about a time we were in Tennessee and went to this horrible movie with Ben Affleck in it. We wanted to go to another movie but it was sold out at the time. So we're there waiting for the plane to take off and I have one of those tabloid magazines that I was reading and again there is Ben Affleck in it. Still waiting for the plan to take off and across the aisle some tall guy walks by and I happened to be admiriing the travel bag he had in his hand. I look away and when I look back again as he sits down, who is sitting over there? Ben Affleck and Jennifer Garner! Myself and the person I was travelling with were both star struck the whole way out there. lol. My sister who I no longer speak to thinks I'm a witch. Actually she follows me here on Cerb too! lol. We had gotten into a fight years ago when she had a brand new car and I said something mean to her about her car ( saying something like she would drive it into a ditch or whatever) and two days later, a carport fell on top of her car. I was forever blamed.lol. She thinks I have the ability to put a curse on someone. I don't think I have the capability to do this and I wouldn't want to because it can come back to haunt you. The same thing like when you use a ouija board. When someone wrongs me, I don't take revenge. I let karma handle it. And boy does karma ever handle it! I've seen this a couple of times.

I was one of the sp's you contacted and had told you as long as you called in advance to book the appointment it shouldn't be a problem. Not sure if your looking for an sp who books by pm, but many don't as their is no proof of your sex, character or whether you are sober. Perhaps contacting the ladies the way that is suggested in their ads might help.

Like when you are thinking or talking about someone and they show up/call/text. When you are about to call/text/email someone and one second before you do, they do first. Or when you open your work email and your manager has emailed you *again* but it was positive feedback :bigclap:, telling you to have a nice weekend or add a :icon_biggrin:- this is freaky and an unexplainable WTF then promptly shared with your co-workers. When a brilliant idea or invention crosses your mind and in the very near future you see an add for a new product that you swear was your idea. When you turn on the news, listen, then comment out loud then they say the exact same thing or you were just having a conversation that day on the same topic. I went to home Depot with a friend from my grade 6 class, met up with a class mate that worked there then ran into another on the way out that just so happened to be visiting Ottawa that weekend?? 4 grade 6 classmates in the same Home Depot, Since when? When someone get's pregnant, all of a sudden babies and pregnant woman are everywhere. How did I tune them out some much before, did I just not notice or is everyone having a baby?

Emil and olderguy have it right! Think about it for a minute, guys and girls too, there is NOTHING sexier than the smell of a vagina, so much it is the scent of a woman, I'm not talking about overwashed or perfumed or god forbid musky smell, I mean just natural scent of a vagina!!! Ladies, you have nothing to be ashamed of in this regard, we worship your 'private parts dowm south'. Thank you for being you!! :)

I believe your mother in entirely correct. Sometimes if we are not ready to see our spirits and guides they will be creative and show themselves in a way we are able to see and connect. Dreams are exactly our loved ones visiting us. My father was ill for some time before his transition. Now when he presents himself to me , he is young and healthy. I know he was very frustrated with illness and now in spirit he has overcome that and I always smile when I see his creative ways.

I am extremely intuitive and have always been able to sense when something good or bad is going to happen and like Katherine, I have had many spiritual encounters.An example: when I was a kid, down the street from my home was a corner store, which we frequented often, mostly for our daily supply of candy. This particular day, on my way there I was being told not to go, to stay away, which I did, not minutes after that feeling was a very bad car accident. No one died but had anyone been walking in that vicinity they would have ! However throughout my life I've seldom mentioned it, and have often been caused to question myself, as many will want to make you feel crazy and disbelieve if you do. Things happen for a reason and we are all given signs for many reasons. Being able to decipher them is a gift and can be a very good way to protect yourself from possible harm. Although I don't usually see people as being good, I believe that humans are initially bad with some good traits, I am a positive person, keeping good energy around me. Energy attracts and this too can be a protectant from harm and evil doers.

I'm not religious but I am spiritual. There is so much around us that is waiting to be noticed. My mantra is "believe to see" because if you can't believe in something being possible, you will never see it. We have guides and spirits around us all the time mostly to help. You can always ask them for guidance. Dreams are the one place where everyone is open so visits are much easier there. I have Scottish blood in me as well and there is still so much to learn!

I LOVE VAGINAS! That's it! VAGINA! VAGINA! VAGINA! Easily my favourite thing ever! Way to go ladies!

Very true! :) Ha ha... reminds me of this...

Lamb. Only slightly charred, with rosemary and garlic. I like my meat raw! ;)

Considering my avatar of a cartoon fisherman and Tracie's post, I'm leery of saying this LOL but I like Emiafish for his contributions to this community. Emiafish is one of the reasons why CERB is such a good board RG

Sarah has been visiting Halifax on and off for the past three months. After some mix ups we were finally able to meet. She is bubbly, funny and has great skills. Lets just say she was very attentive to her work. Facially she was attractive and her services were what I desire in an SP. Would recommend and I plan on seeing her again.

The best cars I've ever owned were a Honda Civic CRX, Civic and Accord. Those cars go forever. I still have one that's 13 years old sitting in my garage with over 300 K on it and with minimal work, it sounds smooth. Just need a new windshield.lol. The worst cars I've ever owned were a 2000 Ford Focus and 2005 Jeep Grand Cherokee Limited 5.7 Litre. 60 K for a brand new total piece of shit and in the first year and a half, the transmission went as I was trying to drive out of an underground parking garage one day. Thankfully it was still under warranty. looks nice but underneath..crap. The built in navigation system went and no longer lights up and the wiring where radio, temperature controls are intermittent. One day they're on, next day they're not. ALWAYS something going wrong with it! I've owned a 2002 Grand Cherokee Limited brand new and was a better model and way nicer inside. 2000 Ford Focus...junk!!! I scraped that car to the junkyard. I'm looking at buying a new Honda Civic. I've owned a lot of cars but this car repeatedly proves itself over and over again.

In this youth obsessed society, sadly, appearances seem to mean everything. But how we look in large part can be a reflection of our health, physical and mental. Genetically, some of us are given the short end of the stick by being predisposed to certain diseases which can manifest into health risks these can be altered by ones lifestyle, environment and certain chemicals. What if anything do you do to ward off father time and disease. Or do you just accept and say what will be will be and do nothing:) Drink lots of water? eat properly? eating organic foods? exercise? lots of sleep? yoga? keeping a positive outlook? having a purpose? having a home that is toxin free? I walk daily, I have to, having 2 dogs:) and try hard to eat reasonably, being a chip and sugar gal its a daily struggle as I don't have a full point, lol. Also each day I set a goal to accomplish and try to remain positive in the bleakest moments:)

Gabriella, congrats on reaching the 3500 milestone mark! To a fine woman whose beauty on the inside and out that is always represented through her eloquent, candid and witty posts. You are an invaluable member here and respected by many. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and opinions with us! Here's to many more!

I'm NOT picking and you can't make me so Naaaa! As Brad said, it can vary hour to hour and minute to minute with a lover. I say embrace them all and explore to completion over and over. If I had to pick one, passionate because everything should be done with passion!!!! *rawr*

Ohhhhhh canada.....ahhhhhh.....aaahhhh....

I have to disagree with this statement. Most strip clubs have two very different atmospheres aimed at two very different types of clientele. There's the daytime atmosphere and the nighttime atmosphere. What you just described here is very much the nighttime atmosphere. The daytime atmosphere is much more aimed at the "local" crowd and doesn't really appeal at all to the younger crowd looking for a "party". The music volume is usually toned down (I can actually hear myself conversing with whatever dancer has my attention that day) and there's usually a lot less people, no coat check or their "silly rules". Also less dancers...which equals less drama. Ok granted the drinks are usually still expensive but that's the only similarity between daytime and nighttime atmospheres. In general, the daytime atmosphere is much more laid back and relaxed, both in and out of the CR. Even the attitudes of the dancers themselves are typically very different during the day as opposed to at night. I'm both a local and a fantasy seeker. And while I do indulge in SP's, I still do occasionally enjoy frequenting a stripclub. There's just something about the experience you can get in a stripclub that is very different from seeing a SP. Both have their merits. Both have their drawbacks. There's that excitement (almost taboo) factor of having a beautiful naked woman crawl all over you in a public place that you can't get with a SP. With a SP, once you've paid you pretty much know exactly what you're going to get...usually because it has been discussed in advance. Often times when the appointment was booked days in advance. And while those aspects of seeing a SP definitely have their merits, there's no denying that...it also loses a big part of that sense of spontaneity that you can get in a stripclub. I can stop in a stripclub at the last minute on a whim on my way home from work. I can't do that with a SP. There's also a definite excitement in NOT knowing what might or might not happen in that CR with a particular dancer as opposed to another. Sure you may end up dropping more $$ at a club than you would with an SP, and usually coming away with less "mileage"....but for many of us, those thrill and excitement factors I mentioned are what make it worth it. The thrill of the unknown if you will. I for one hope the stripclubs will be around to stay for a long time. What can I say? They're a turn on for me. As much as SP's are. While I don't go too often, and often will decide to see a SP instead of going to a club....I think I'd really miss having that option if stripclubs disappeared all of a sudden. And honestly....Pigales is probably the most "uppity" club in the area. I rarely go there because more often than not I won't have good time there. The atmosphere there is very much the "nighttime party" atmosphere regardless of the time of day. Some people may like that but it's not my scene. If you're looking for more laid back clubs which are aimed at locals and have a more relaxed atmosphere, I don't think it's fair to judge the other clubs in the area based on your experience at Pigales. IMO, as far as atmosphere goes, Pigales is not a fair representation of the other clubs in this area.

What I like about Canada? There would be a long list but here is few: Its a beautiful country and everyone is friendly Our national mascot is a beaver (pun intended) We have Mike Myers, Jim Carey, Old Dog, Lee Richards, Pistol Pete etc. We also have Cleo Catra, Katrine Cannon, Gabriella Laurence, Claire Heavens etc. We have all four seasons Winter, Spring, Summer and Fall Freedom of speech Health care And so many more...

You should absolutely go for it seadoo!!! I was very hesitant for a long time about joining and finally did in March. I certainly have no regrets at all and should have joined long ago! I have not been to the East end location yet, but have been to the West location for both the parties and appointments and have also used Touch of Euphoria, their outcall service. They never disappoint!!! ;) You won't regret becoming a member seadoo!!!

The Heat - staring Sandra Bullock and Melissa McCarthy. A Buddy Movie without Balls. Funny. McCarthy kills. Bullock is Bullock. Strictly formula comedy: a straight laced up tight FBI agent (Bullock) forced to team up with a street smart, foul-mouthed, Boston cop (McCarthy). Its the Odd Couple meets Cagney & Lacey. But despite the predictable format, the film works. Mostly due to McCarthy's insanity. If your looking for a few laughs without having to think too much, then this is the movie for you.

I love ladies' Holes a Hole lot, in fact, I consider them to be Holey!

Tracie is thoughtful, sexy, and amongst many other attributes, I love the eyes in her avatar.

Never really told anyone before cause I don't understand it but I sometimes have these really bizarre dreams that would be impossible in real life. Now sometime some of these dreams I get an image of these dreams and I come across them in real life. Like a surreal déjà vu. Sometimes it goes a step further I sense my reaction in the dream and realize its was the same in real life. What this means I have no idea, but its pretty freaky for me sometimes. Know why can't I dream about lottery numbers.

And if an sp cancels?

I worked with a woman at the power plant that might just fit the bill. Does albino count as a very light blonde? For the daughter part, she actually has two but they are conjoined so splits is on the menu. Long legs in relation to short torso. Not Filipino but their dad's name is Phil. They were conceived in a Pinto wagon. Pm for more details.

If there is such a place..its buried pretty far underground. But I'm pretty sure you are out of luck.

Proof that men usually get better looking with age

Saturday Summer 10-4 aka "SUMMERLOVE" Jenna 10-4 aka "Jenna69" Charlie 10-9 aka "Traveling Charlie" Hannah 3:30-9 aka "Hannahxo" Jamie 3:30-9 aka "Jamie-xo" Sunday Robyn 10-9 aka "robynxoxo" Pandora 10-4 aka "Pandora" Lexi 11-9 aka "Sexy Lexi" Hannah 3:30-9 aka "Hannahxo" Monday Tiffany 10-9 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Nicky 10-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Maya 1:30-9 aka "Midnight Maya" Charlie 10-9 aka "Traveling Charlie" Tuesday Lexi 10-5:30 aka "Sexy Lexi" Charlie 10-11 aka "Traveling Charlie" Nicky 10-5:30 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Jennie 5-11 Jenna 5-11 aka "Jenna69" Wednesday Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Nicky 10-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Summer 10-4 aka "SUMMERLOVE" Jenna 8:15-1 aka "Jenna69" Charlie 1-11 aka "Traveling Charlie" Lexi 3:30-11 aka "Sexy Lexi" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Thursday Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Summer 10-4 aka "SUMMERLOVE" Tiffany 10-7 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Robyn 3:30-11 aka "robynxoxo" Kelly 6:30-11 aka "Kelly2010" Maya 3:30-11 aka "Midnight Maya" Friday Kennidi 10-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Robyn 10-11 aka "robynxoxo" Tiffany 10-4 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Lexi 3:30-11 aka "Sexy Lexi" Maya 3:30-11 aka "Midnight Maya" Saturday Maya 10-9 aka "Midnight Maya" Kelly 10-9 aka "Kelly2010" Pandora 10-9 aka "Pandora" Sunday Maya 10-9- aka "Midnight Maya" Robyn 10-9 aka "robynxoxo" Tiffany 10-4 aka "TiffanyXXXOOO" Lexi 3:30-9 aka "Sexy Lexi"

Saturday Nina 9-9 aka "Nina Dream" Chantal 9-4 NEW aka "ChantalSummers" Lilly 9-9 NEW aka "Lillickens" Sasha 9-9 aka "Sasha-Paradise" Zoey 5:30-9 aka "Zoey" Samantha 3:30-9 aka "Naughty Samantha" Sunday Sasha 10-9 aka "Sasha-Paradise" Lilly 10-9 NEW aka "Lillickens" Nina 10-7 aka "Nina Dream" Chantal 10-4 NEW aka "ChantalSummers" Charlie 3:30-9 aka "Traveling Charlie" Monday CLOSED: HAPPY CANADA DAY! Tuesday Sasha 9-4 aka "Sasha-Paradise" Lilly 9-9 NEW aka "Lillickens" Kennidi 9-4 aka "Kennidikummings" Tianna 9-4 NEW aka "Luscious.Tianna" Mandy 3:30-9 aka "Candy Mandy" Talia 3:30-9 aka "Talia" Zoey 3:30-9 aka "Zoey" Samantha 3:30-9 aka "Naughty Samantha" Wednesday Tianna 9-4 NEW aka "Luscious.Tianna" Taylor 9-4 aka "Taylor_xo" Cherry 9-4 aka "Cherry Blossom" Sasha 9-4 aka "Sasha-Paradise" Hannah 9-5:30 aka "Hannahxo" Talia 3:30-11 aka "Talia" Mandy 3:30-11 aka "Candy Mandy" Salina 5-11 aka "Salinaflower" Lilly 3:30-11 NEW aka "Lillickens" Samantha 3:30-11 aka "Naughty Samantha" Thursday Cherry 9-4 aka "Cherry Blossom" Tianna 9-4 NEW aka "Luscious.Tianna" Pandora 9-4 aka "Pandora" Taylor 9-7:30 aka "Taylor_xo" Samantha 3:30-11 aka "Naughty Samantha" Mandy 3:30-11 aka "Candy Mandy" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Hannah 3:30-11 aka "Hannahxo" Melody 7-11 aka "Melody" Friday Summer 9-4 aka "SUMMERLOVE" Taylor 9-4 aka "Taylor_xo" Pandora 9-4 aka "Pandora" Nicky 9-4 aka "Nicky in Paradise" Tianna 9-4 NEW aka "Luscious.Tianna" Mandy 3:30-11 aka "Candy Mandy" Cherry 3:30-11 aka "Cherry Blossom" Hannah 3:30-11 aka "Hannahxo" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Salina 3:30-11 aka "Salinaflower" Saturday Tianna 9-4 NEW aka "Luscious.Tianna" Charlie 9-4 aka "Traveling Charlie" Nina 9-9 aka "Nina Dream" Chantal 9-4 NEW aka "ChantalSummers" Mandy 3:30-9 aka "Candy Mandy" Sasha 3:30-9 aka "Sasha-Paradise" Samantha 3:30-9 aka "Naughty Samantha" Sunday Tianna 10-4 NEW aka "Luscious.Tianna" Nina 10-7 aka "Nina Dream" Hannah 10-4 aka "Hannahxo" Salina 10-9 aka "Salinaflower" Chantal 10-4 NEW aka "ChantalSummers" Charlie 3:30-9 aka "Traveling Charlie" Sasha 3:30-9 aka "Sasha-Paradise" Jamie 3:30-9 aka "Jamie-xo"

I would think other sps might be like me: I don't mind a phone call early in the day asking about a later visit, providing they can give me some kind of ETA and it is before midnight. If they wait until late to call, for a first time client, I would probably either not be answering or not want to go thru the getting to know you, here's my rates/services conversation and then wonder if the booking is legit or not but having to wait a full 30-45 minutes to find out. If you get the particulars earlier, and give an ETA, then the next call is just confirming that you can make it and what time.

I can see this being the same for both the gents and the ladies. Insecurity happens. Is it because of the sheer pressure of being accepted in the society? I blame it on the media. amongst many things that I blame on the media. Instead of looking for the imperfection shouldn't we look for the good in someone? -- yes that sounds awfully naïve but yep I said it. In terms of vagina itself... my thought is for someone to not appreciate something its because they feel their own insecurity and not knowing what they could do with it. I personally love them all! As long as they are clean I can lick, suck, nibble and you name it. to every area of the vagina, be it the lips, clitoris; everything! YUM! This part is meant to be funny; and not to be taken any different or other way. For someone to say their partner is loose, maybe they are just not big enough? LOL. What happen when the ladies start using that? Haha. As many time it has been said, its not the tool, its how one use it proficiently. And yes, I am one of those that get more turned on when I see the lady is having fun -- and I do understand squirting just does not always happen. This should not be an expectation or a sole reason you see/be with someone. It should be a reward and excellent surprise, don't demand it ... -- My rambles... (I don't know if they worth anything now... I mean used to be my 2 cent. but the government round that down ... so I guess its worth nothing now.)

I just wanted to say thank you to all who have taken the time to give us all the info that is in the thread. I myself have found it very helpful. Its so nice to see so many getting together for a cause we all believe in. Kandice

It's extremely unlikely that the federal government will attempt to make prostitution illegal if the SCC rules in favour of decriminalization. Prostitution is not a big issue in Canada and never has been. In poll after poll, most Canadians surveyed do not express any interest in making it illegal for someone to be a prostitute. As a fair-minded country, Canadians aren't interested in criminalizing men who see prostitutes but don't cause any problems for them or for others in their neighbourhood. It would be MUCH easier to enact prohibitive legislation if there had been a recent case that the government could cite as a reasonable demonstration of how dangerous and harmful prostitution is and show that it needs to be severely curtailed. But there simply isn't a case like that. The Picton murders and subsequent inquiry demonstrated the vulnerability of street-based sex workers and highlighted the insecurity of sex workers in general. Public opinion consistently lies in favour of protecting vulnerable groups rather than outlawing them. And yes, I know that public opinion can be fickle, but let's also remember that the present federal government is more responsive to poll results than any other in recent history. The other thing to keep in mind at all times is that criminalization will require increasing police attention and court time to address prostitution-related crimes. In most jurisdictions, there simply isn't enough money, let alone political will, when it comes to expanding the police force unnecessarily. Conflicts related to prostitution are frequently viewed as inter-personal, with one person claiming to have been badly treated by another. This kind of problem never gets a great deal of attention from the police or the public unless there's significant violence or someone dies. Our courts are already overloaded. In some jurisdictions, people who have been charged with violent crimes have been allowed to walk free because it wasn't possible to bring them to trial in a timely manner. Is there much political will to expand the number of judges and generally increase court times and services in order to prosecute prostitutes and their clients? It's doubtful, particularly since the great majority of us work without anyone's notice. Even though we're easy to find if someone wants our companionship, we're not usually easy to notice in other ways. Canadians are more concerned about things like human trafficking and the sexual exploitation of children and minors--rightly so! Ultimately, the big question is whether criminalizing prostitution will make it go away. The answer is no, of course not. We're not called "the oldest profession" for nothing. Ours is a capitalist economy. If prostitution were to be criminalized, expect to pay higher fees and to have to provide significantly more verifiable personal information if you want to see a professional companion. We'll still be working.

Hey Empty, Just a suggestion here, but have a look at Social Groups and spend some time on the Oral section (& others) and check out the facial shots and mini videos. It great research time well spent.

Most sex workers who have been involved in conversations with municipalities say that the focus has been on multi-staff brothels, not on independent women who work quietly. To be sure, the brothels will face stiff licensing fees and restrictions about locations, at least. There may be other things, such as inspections, health checks and safer-sex practice requirements. I, for one, think that many of these things will benefit all of us. For example, to return to the general requirement that all sexual contact must be done with condoms establishes that as the norm for companionship engagement and eliminates a lot of the pressure for uncovered contact that most of us experience now. While it may seem that licensing individual, independent escorts would be a good idea, the notion is largely unenforceable. The great majority of women who enter the sex trade leave it within six months and another huge proportion work for less than a year. Trying to track down every provider who's decided to make this her summer job before going back to school would be a by-laws enforcement nightmare. It's much more likely that licenses of some kind may be required but only enforced if there are complaints made about noise, late-night traffic and so on. It is essential to recognize that Canada is NOT Sweden. The Ontario Court of Appeal heard a great deal about the so-called "Nordic model" and its outcomes. The OCA was not impressed. Canadian courts in general have been very reluctant to adopt uneven criminal laws such as allowing for something to be sold, legally, but making it illegal to buy it. Even more important, however, Sweden is not known to have experienced anything like Picton's activities. In Canada, the recognition that sex workers were preyed upon by a serial killer because they worked in the most unsafe conditions in Vancouver's Downtown Eastside is not going to be forgotten anytime soon. We all need to recognize that for the last two and a half years the police in most regions have not been arresting or charging independent sex workers who have been working quietly from their own homes or rented apartments. Some ladies have been harassed by former clients who have attempted unsuccessfully to have them charged. There have been sweeps of some massage parlors and there has been some interest in investigating situations in which temporary foreign workers may have been pressured into providing sexual services. But because the prostitution laws were coming up to be examined by the Supreme Court of Canada, and because some things are certainly bound to change once the SCC makes its decisions, it's not a good use of police or judicial time or resources to prosecute anyone under laws that may be overturned. This respite is significant because it's gone on so long. For two and a half years, women have been able to relax a little bit, feel less fearful of being arrested because they entertain at home. And yet there are no significant increases in the deterioration of Canada's moral fabric. Brothels have not been spring up across the street from elementary schools, nor has there been an obvious increase in the numbers of lust-crazed men prowling around otherwise respectable communities or neighbourhoods. Things have been pretty much okay. Meanwhile, plenty of us have been making money and taking care of ourselves and our clients, as before. This is the status quo. It's going to make an enormous difference to Canadian voters as well as to the SCC that what might be considered to have been a temporary suspension of the prostitution laws has not obviously caused any harm, anywhere. The SCC usually returns decisions within a year of hearing a case. Sometimes more quickly. Most of us expect the court to make rulings sometime in 2014.

It's not about "keeping secrets". There's no problem discussing Broadway's, Nevada Relaxations, Moonlight, Osborne Health Centre or EB/TO - these places are well known to provide happy endings, and more in the case of the first four. However, a lot of the providers on this list operate out of their private residences or "legit" massage studios. They could potentially have LE or employer problems if the word gets spread too much. We have to be careful who we share info with. That's where post count and quality come in. Public posts are the only means we have to evaluate potential members of this group. It's certainly not 100 percent reliable, but it's all we have. Since you've only posted twice in almost a year as a member, and one was the complaint you just made, we have no idea if you can be trusted. That's all there is to it. Establish credibility by providing reliable info and I'm sure you'll be accepted.

Wow, I never really thought about it being inconsiderate that I might be getting pleasure.....The body is designed to have pleasure. We can't help how our body responds. Yes, with some guys, the pleasure can be mind blowing and with others fantastic. I have found so many woman that can't achieve pleasure. I ask them if they ever masturbate. They cringe and say they can't stand touching themselves. I always suggest water pressure, or a vibrator to get them started. If they can't self pleasure, then it would be difficult to receive pleasure from someone else. I couldn't get through life without self pleasuring. Even with a skilled partner, sometimes your own touch is what is needed to get to the next level of satisfaction. I do get greedy sometimes if daty is very good and will keep him down there longer if I am really enjoying myself. Other times, I have to say ok, she's good, lets concentrate on you now. Yes, getting to know each other really helps to achieve the full satisfaction. Enjoy, don't feel guilty and of course enjoy some more. That's one of the main reasons I do this. I love sex and how it makes me feel.

I'd love to do a tour of the east coast of Canada , its my favorite part of Canada I'm hoping to by a house there one day , hoping for a visit the middle of June