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I've had to cancel less than 12 times in years. Sometimes, it cannot be helped. However, if I have to cancel a session and when they rebook, I discount the next session. It isn't some lame $20 off either. We put in work for our sessions, re-arrange schedules, drop plans, I even dropped my basket shopping and fled the store once. On top of me being presentable, so does my location. I am OCD and often that is part of the hour notice. (drive home, 10 second tidy, get room prepared, towels etc, and then get MYSELF ready) Winnipeg has been HORRIBLE for no shows, double, triple booking girls. That no show section grew an amazing amount in 4 months. It has gotten to the point, I have to check the number in the bad date section before I agree to an appointment. I am also seriously considering a pre-booking fee and a cancellation fee. If all of these touring girls with extensive booking requirements and deposit requirements can do it, I feel I can do the same. How touring girls choose to book is totally understandable, I just don't understand why I am met with so much reluctance. I also feel if you lost your nerve and try to walk in and out you should pay some sort of fee. We just exposed ourselves (literally) and our location. Is that fair? Do we know where you live? As a Greek provider, whether you partake or not, you owe that fee. It is a specialty service that requires more preparation. Do you order a meal and not pay for it even if you only had a bite and there's nothing wrong with it? SD

A this point in my life I really don't care what others think. I dress how I want, I act how I wish and defy anyone to make me feel differently! Life is too short to conform to the trappings of society's perceived notions of maturity! In short, do and be what makes you happy!

Ladies will ask for a deposit or request a cancellation fee, there is far too many guys that try and play the "book ya game"...yes and the "book ya game" as artist of the game,they like to book up space, than cancel within less than 12 hours. Meanwhile a gent like myself with good reputation,and have been verified/screened wanted that time, gets that last hour text and she tells me she now available..... to be quite honest,that pisses me off to no end. The fee's are there for a purpose, for the lady to protect her business, and for guys not to fuck them over with pulling a quick cancellation. It's a known fact that even agencies that are competitors will call the other and book time with a visiting SP too (Some ladies may use a agency in a city to represent them), and that is to simply "fuck over the competition" It goes without saying those that might be known as a tire kicker/time wasters may have to pay those security deposits, but I don't blame the ladies at all. Those that have a great rapport with ladies, actually sometimes don't have to pay a security deposit as we have been "Okayed" and verified AS good clients,but we would pay the cancellation fee is something drastically happen. I had a session not to long ago we were into our 3 hour session and by 1.5 hours, I received and family emergency text ( we were both taking a break after half way through and checking messages ) I had to leave, I left her of course the full donation when we first started so when I was getting dressed she gave me back some cash. I told her "no" I booked up her time, she said "No you're a great client and I know you will be back." :) Plus I've seen her numerous times. Shit does happen from time to time,but I like to think if you build your reputation as a good client, good things happen to those. Yes, I have had many...many...cancellations done to myself from ladies over my time, and some legit reasoning and I have been well compensated the next visit :) Like less fee,or more time, but those ladies that never responded back OR gave myself a reasonable explanation, well, I simply ignore them and they never see a cent of my coin ever. I work hard for my money as well, and I don't like being fucked over when taking time from my business,driving to and from her place and not even getting an apology, having said that, that was years back and I learned my lesson who to see, and I stick with reputable ladies, just like they stick with reputable gents. "Time is money" So lets's not waste it, it isn't fair in this business.

The lady is within her rights to request and expect a deposit or cancellation fee. For the gentlemen, this lifestyle is an escape, an indulgence if you will. For the ladies this lifestyle is their livelihood! (emphasized because it seems to be something forgotten by some) If a lady cancels or no shows the worst for the guy is he doesn't have an encounter with her....but he does get to keep his money and can possibly set up another encounter with another lady If a guy cancels, that was time the lady set aside for him on the belief she would get income (remember, this is their job, their livelihood) It was time she could have used to see a paying client instead of setting aside for what turns out a no show/no income period of time. Instead she has, for that period of time, made no money...money to pay the rent, groceries, bills, possibly support her kids (yes, some ladies are also mothers) That's not to mention other expenses. The lady may have booked a hotel room for incalls , may also tour (which has added expenses involved). She could be paying for a hotel room, plane ticket, meals, incidentals etc, based on seeing a paying client. If a guy is a no show or cancellation then she from a business perspective just has expenses yet no income. Her profit loss statement is a loss If you schedule an encounter with a lady, carry through with the encounter. If you can't make it and are a no show or cancellation, pay a cancellation fee to the lady. You already have the money (or should have) so no excuse for not compensating the lady for her financial loss because you couldn't keep your commitment. And let's not forget something else. I've read posts, mostly in other boards (which thrive on negativity btw imho) about the lady being five minutes late or along those lines, and bashing her to holy hell...I read posts by those "men" I want to bash them (but I digress) But those same type of "men" seem to think it's ok to no show or cancel on a lady without compensating her someway. If you cancel and get a reputation for being a habitual canceller, well it isn't just between you and the lady, ladies talk to one another, and you will get known, and not in a good way A rambling from a guy who paid a lady her donation in full plus tip when he couldn't make an encounter due to illness. At least financially it wasn't a loss for the lady RG

Deposits And Cancellation Fees..for real?! Yes, for real LOL Every lady runs their business the way they want/need. If you don't appreciate certain specific business models, I am positive you will find many others who will accommodate your needs ;) I am one of the ladies who require a deposit under certain circumstances and also has a cancellation policy. Why you might ask? So people who are not serious about meeting with me or are not reliable do not waste my time. Cheers :)

I find it unfortunate you feel this way as a man with some grey hair, salt and pepper or a totally white head is damn sexy!!! I know a lot of ladies who love this, including myself :)

If a client jerks an SP around enough ( cancelling multiple times) or no shows her then it's justified. Don't waste their time by doing this and there won't be a problem. Most won't call back and are considered time wasters and would be blacklisted by the SP. And if an SP did this, there would be holy hell to pay for if it were a last minute cancellation or she no showed. A professional SP will make it up to the client at a reduced rate or more time offered. If a client is intent on seeing a certain SP then keep the appt or cancel in sufficient amount of time. Other businesses will ask for the same so why should it be any different for an SP? I recently missed a hair appt because I was sick and cancelled on short notice and had to pay a cancellation fee of $100. Why? because it's policy and I respect the guy who's been doing my hair for the last 13 years and he is losing money. Short term cancellations aren't that easy to replace right away. And I also respect him and what he does.

well this is the time in my life when I say farewell and see you later.. I would love to thank everybody for welcoming me into cerb with open arms and open hearts!! cerb has showed me how genuine and true this business can be!! and I definitely love having the pleasure of having everybody's company even the people I have not yet met.. the last two years here in Ottawa have been wonderful and I'm very thankful, I have made some wonderful true friends and I have worked for the best woman I could ever have worked for ever Angie!!! so this is definitely not goodbye but its just see you later xoxoxo I wish nothing but the best for everyone much love. my very last day here will be August 25th kennidi kummings

I never had a duo experience before, so I didn't know what I was expecting. The experience was amazing. They're both lovely ladies who were very enthusiastic. I definitely want to repeat as soon as possible

This is something I am keenly aware of. As a woman in her 40's, I don't want to wander around out in the world giving off the impression I forgot my age when I dressed that morning. At the same time, I refuse to wear the shapeless uniform of the maturing woman. I love timeless looks, attire that would "wow" on a 20 year old as well as a 60 year old. Remaining current doesn't mean not being age appropriate, it just means utilizing the age acquired wisdom of making good choices. Do I wear over the knee boots? Absolutely! But not with a mini skirt or hot pants! Do I wear form fitting clothes? Yes! But not in styles or lengths that display skin or are unflattering and I always pair it with a piece that adds a touch of modesty. If I have to wear something that is ultra conservative, I punch it up with killer shoes and knock out accessories to express my inner age. The greatest challenge is my work "look". I love the sexy outfits that accentuate my shape but the spandex club dresses are simply not me anymore so I find myself drawn to great classic outfits and spice them up with a shortened hemline and perhaps lower the neckline or the back for visual impact. Taking a classic business suit and making it a little more sexy is a fun way to add umph to my work wardrobe. Being age appropriate doesn't mean loosing your individuality, it just means recognizing what works and what doesn't... cat

The place you are looking for is Oasis (look for their profile here) Only 3 min drive from Train yards, is in an office building and nobody can see you comming in our out... The building even has parking at the back of the building and entrance by the back... Is a Licenced studio by the city.. Discrete, clean and best yet you can meet amazing attendents like myself ;)

I haven't worn jeans in a few years. I have found wonderful fakes that look like skinny jeans but are really just leggings. They look real (pockets and zipper). I can't find them anymore but bought a shit load about a yr and a half ago so I am good for a bit longer!

I'm getting really excited for this :) Now the fun part -- shopping for something suitable to wear :)

For those of that travel, incur expenses and then have someone not show or give bogus information on their location, I tell them if they want to re-book, they owe me for the time I wasted the last time. Seems fair to me. Why would I incur expenses for someone who disrespects me by not showing without a valid reason? I had a client that I went to see, drove an hour to see him. He gave me a bogus address (even though I had properly screened him, the address he gave me was valid, just not his). Said he was at another address that did not exist. So, I ended up wasting 3 hours of my time (and gas). He now owes me at least travelling money. If he chooses to re-book me, he must give me a deposit equivalent to the money he already wasted, and now for the portion of this call, so that if by chance he is again a non-productive call, at least I am not out more money. Of course, he is also blacklisted so that other ladies go in to meeting him with their eyes open to what he did to me. They will decide if he needs a deposit to see him. For those that are well respected among other sp's, I am not as concerned about getting a deposit from them. I always say, just don't do it. If you can't make your appointment, give lots of notice, don't waste ladies time because they will remember this and if you can't give notice, give a cancellation fee for her missed opportunity. Simple really.

Many SP's get tremendous amounts of cancellations and it's just bad for their business. Some of them just get sick of it and have to charge a fee. I guess it should happen to people that have cancelled more than once because that's a little sketchy. I'm really not surprised SP's are doing this though.

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Ladies and gents, its now official !! The Ottawa September Social will be held Thursday, September 19th, so mark your calendar!! There will be 60 spots available (30 gents and 30 ladies) for members in good standing. Gents, tickets will be made available soon, at a cost of $35, which will cover snacks, drinks for the ladies and door prizes. I will keep everyone up to date via this thread as things progress. As it's an event organized by CERB members for members, you can contact myself, Loneskater or Spud271 directly should you have questions. Cheers!! MisterT

I had noticed Stacey`s ads for a few weeks and decided to take the plunge. She is French from MTL so language was not an issue for us. She is not a spinner but she has very nice features and hard body. Small firm breasts and nice erected nipples when excited. I had booked an hour session and told her that I was looking for a slow session with lots of carresses and kisses. She did comply and it was very enjoyable. Lots of moaning on daty and multiple positions. The DT ending was to die for. I am in my mid-fifties and usually prefer ladies in a higher age bracket but she gave me faith in the new generation of providers...loll

Im ALL about jeans. Guess jeans, garage jean, the jeans that got forgotten at my house by a friend jeans. Love Jeans and your shirt. ;)

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I don't really know fashion enough to have a particular favourite kind personally. But I do have a topless in jeans fetish. (And looky here, a website just for that!) But back on topic for this thread, if it makes any difference, I'm wearing a pair of jeans now that if someone were to unzip my fly, they'll have something to read - says "You're getting lucky!". These jeans are now my favourite for this sole reason.

I am in my mid 20's...and my style of clothing hasn't really change in the past 5-7 years. I do love my short short and small tank top My wardrobe is such a mix of everything...I (literally) have a short maxi dress that barely cover my butt, next to a long sleeve /knee length conservative dress , next to a a goth dress, next to a mediaeval dress with a train , next to a Middle Earth map dress.

Actually, it never occurred to me to "worry" about this. Were I to see one of CERB's Finest as I went about my business, I would do exactly that... go about my business. Perhaps I'm playing the innocent but it has always been my presumption that she has as much interest in not being acknowledged as I do. In my line of work I encounter many of the famous and infamous so I'm used to seeing people I've dealt with and I've learned to, as the song says, "just walk on by...".

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All good responses so far, I hope your question has been answered, but I thought I'd add my two cents... A gentleman would not have to be charged a cancellation fee, read RG's post for the definition of gentleman! As for deposits, they would be required for several reasons...a travelling lady is time limited and would usually expect her expenses as a deposit, a local lady booking a new member with no references or no post history (like you) may look for a deposit of half just for security and to get a feel for whether or not you are a gentleman, or perhaps you habitually cancel and have a bad rep amongst the ladies (they do talk to each other!). You didn't specify whom you 'heard' this from, but I would go back and ask this person which category above they fit themselves into! Life is good today, don't waste a minute of it!

Mmmm not sure about these?? Chocolate Dress : Or a candy Dress?? Its a sure way to stand out, and none of these would last long???? :-P Seriously though, i'm sure you'll find something nice and casual to wear! Additional Comments: I see what you mean :-) , but in the meantime, proper exercise will keep our figure as it should be and, of course, I'm sure that the company we are expecting at the social will keep us from going under the table too soon :-P

For there to be a connection made between two people does not necessarily lead to a commitment. The nature of the relationship is only dependent on the consent given. A paid companion should know the boundaries she is implementing intimately, considering she thinks it's her responsibility to cater to and be somewhat intuitive of her patrons' needs. Emotion does not always have to be unharnessed to be enjoyed.

I would love to come, could you wait-list me please?

Was removing long sheer curtains before someone else moves into my house and carrying them down the stairs and suddenly slipping on them and falling on my ass. My first intial reaction was to start crying because of shock...and worse...crying in front of a total stranger who was moving a deep freezer for me.

In my experience, direct-to-massage results in a mediocre encounter. Direct-to-kiss, on the other hand.... :D

It's because for a very long time women WERE considered the father's property, and if she was "sullied" she'd be almost worthless in those terms. So protecting the daughter's virginal state was important -- not so much for HER sake, but for the benefit of the family that "owned" her and was counting on marrying her off profitably someday. The idea of the woman as property has been mostly (mostly!) glossed over these days, but the wedding transaction still has some of those anachronistic elements in plain sight -- the father still "gives away" the bride to her new owner after all. (Were I in that circumstance, I hope I'd tell my father to mind his own business and give myself away, thanks very much.) The conservative elements in our culture still cling to these hopeless and backward attitudes in the form of "cherished traditions". It's nice to see the dad in the article with a level head. I like his approach. Arm your children with good judgement. When it's time, have some frank and non-creepy, unashamed talks with them about sexuality, its psychological context, and its pitfalls as well as rewards. And build a relationship such that you don't constantly impose your "help" and "advice", but your kids still know they can come to you those times they decide they need it. Then they can enter relationships and sexual situations with their eyes open... and you need to trust them to use that judgement on their own behalf. Inspecting every prospective partner and presuming to bestow a "guess I'll leave the shotgun over there this time" approval will just cause a daughter to hide her boyfriends as long as she can.

Spumoni, a luscious mix of chocolate, pistachio, and cherry, with lot of nuts and candied fruit incorporated. Decadent, refreshing, and every mouthful is a surprise.

Smoke detector is chirping and I am unable to stand on a chair to remove it from the ceiling to change the battery. I'll just have to wait for my helpful neighbour to get home. In the meantime, it's annoying as hell.

mmmmmm can I ride your ripple???? Plus Pumpkin Pie ice cream sounds divine!

In April I found out that I have cancer and the prognosis was not good. I had known for a while that something was wrong, but being the person I am, I just shrugged it off as being over 40 and not a big deal. Clearly it was. Instead of dealing with the issue at hand and informing those I care about and love, I decided to keep things to myself. When I finally started to tell those people depression and anger had set in to my heart. It had become obvious to those around me that I was no longer myself, the positive attitude and sense of humour were gone. I was trying to push those I love and care about away so I could be left alone. I was a fool! After telling my father of the situation, he realized that darkness and despair had filled my heart. He flew over here on Friday to spend a solid couple of days with me. Knowing this I thought it was time to tell him everything about my life since I left home at 18 and joined the Royal Navy. He has always been a pillar of strength in my life, there to listen and never judge. I am sure there are things that I told him over the last couple of days that he never wanted to hear, but he never wavered and just listened. This morning as I told the last of what I wished to tell him, he put that gigantic paw of his on my shoulder, looked me in the eyes and said..."get your goddamn head out of your bleeping ass"!!!! He's right!!! After more words of wisdom from my father, I realize now that it is time to enter the fight. I want to say I am sorry to those I care about and love, I should have been stronger from the start and told you the situation. That was my mistake. Thanks to my father I have my positive attitude back and sense of humour. I do not want anyone's sympathy, for it is an emotion that commandos have little value in. What I want is for people to smile and laugh, that is what gives me strength and always has. Though there will be times where I will obviously not be around while I deal with certain things, those of you who I am in contact with and consider to be my friends will know the situation and where I am. I will not keep you in the dark any longer. Now to leave this on a funny note. ;) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8DdeLUA0Fms http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLpO-OvJU74 Spud271

@stevemcqueen, honestly, it doesn't matter what the lady wants, it matters what YOU want. If you want to only see a lady once and move on, keep it entirely sexually based and leave no room for a connection of any sort to develop, than that is the way you should behave. You are not making promises or being phony, you are utilizing the aspects of this business that fit your needs. This means you may have to pick and chose between ladies and pass over those who are seeking to make connections but that is the beauty of this industry, you can have your needs met in whatever way you choose. You just have to find a match for those needs. There are a variety of ladies here, some who prefer GFE, some PSE, for me it's a VPE in that I adapt to whatever you're seeking while still being myself. There is someone for everyone and as such, no right or wrong, it just IS what it is.

WOW! Reading these posts I feel like I've been in the forest starving for the last 20 years and I've just stumbled upon a HUGE smorgasbord! I WORSHIP MATURE WOMAN!

Yes I'm also on the list "51" for me + Carrie 49, we make a centenial duo! :D

As was mentioned in the pre-planning thread, the Sep social will be held at a new venue. Main reason behind, is that our previous location was becoming to public. This is the second time we have to change location for discretion purposes. There aren't too many places in the downtown core that can hold such a large group on Thursday so we would like to keep the same place for a while. Therefore I would like to remind everyone that the location is on a need to know basis. It will not be revealed until much later and only to those that are attending. So please keep it to yourself. All we will revealed for now is that it is in the downtown core so easy to get there by various transportation means. Keep in mind that discretion is extremely important in this business for ladies and gents. This is suppose to be an office party (meet and greet) so we have to be careful of what is being said in front of the staff. Also use of certain handles should be avoided. I don't think many offices has someone named Loneskater!!! Hope everyone has a great time and gets to meet new people. MisterT and I have already done a quality assurance check on the beer. it did meet our standards on all our visits. lol

Shhh...don't tell anyone bu this Christmas I'm getting Alexxxis a bottle of one of her favourite scents ; Anus Anus ! (Anais anais)

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