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If you are looking for mileage and options, Ariel and Barbs are not for you. Ariel is an amazing young lady who will light up your day when you talk with her and then have a great time in the champagne room. However, nothing extra is ever going to happen. Her dances are super hot, but completely within limits. She is a legend because she is beautiful, and fun, and cares about her regulars and friends. Barbs is the last place to seek extras. The walls in the CR are very low, there are cameras everywhere, they have installed mirrors, and the bouncers check the room often. This pretty much rules out any extras activity. It might also be why so many attractive dancers work at Barbs. Dancers and strip clubs are still relevant simply for the experience. If I want to see 3 or 4 lovely ladies in an evening, I can. I can also see many more on stage. Lots of variety, lots of energy. The massage or escort experience is different obviously. There is no reason why a hobbiest can't dabble in all of them.

So this is all a bit new to me but I will try to be open and honest here. This is a question I've wrestled with for most of my adult life - the pursuit of happiness. I like others have wrestled with depression and discovered this 8 or 9 years ago. I don't know how to describe it to those not going through it, but it's like being alone every minute of every day even if you're in a crowded room. In the darkest moments I have looked at the easiest "solution" but suicide luckily or me has not been the only solution. I think we all want to be happy and until recently I didn't know if I was capable of being happy. I experienced a high like no other thanks to a dream and a chance encounter where I believe I experienced love for the first time in my life. Unfortunately, as fate would have it , this was not to be. It's complicated and still very fresh in terms of the wounds. I learned I need to understand how to be "happy" with myself and by myself before I think I can be with anyone else. Otherwise, a dependent relationship where all I my "happiness" is dependent on what that other person says or does is doomed to fail. I wish everyone here could understand the depths and challenges of depression. It's not about just wanting to be happy. It's not about material things and sadly not even about sex or physical pleasure. Im sorry for rambling but this topic is timely and very relevant today as I step back, lick my wounds and look to recover and move on. I hope everyone finds happiness - whatever that may mean to each of you. Additional Comments: I think the time to appreciate the challenges of others might put things in perspective but on its own to feel joy o happiness it comes from within. The person whom I recently had a "relationship" with is the most amazing individual I've ever known. She has overcome adversity that would have destroyed me and probably most people. I think as someone who hasn't felt happiness and suffers from low self esteem I saw this as inspirational. I would even say it was attractive and "sexy" to me. That was all a bonus but also part of my mistake. I need to find my own strength and not try and enjoy the strength of others. I can't gain inner strength vicariously. I know that now but it's too late this time as I've lost her forever. I share this as I think spending time volunteering etc is always positive but it all starts and stops with knowing and liking yourself. External forces may help or hinder but I think happiness comes from within. Just my opinion.

Sometimes it is awkward meeting someone new, sometimes you end up feeling self conscious or overly 'aware' of yourself and what you are doing and wondering if the client is OK, or wonders what you are doing, lol. This is not unusual in first visits. I had a client once who seemed very unresponsibe, kind of slow to talk, so much of the session was quiet, and for me awkward. Even the getting dressed and end of the session time felt off. However at the door on his way out he gives me a smile and asks can he come back and see me again (the start of a long relationship lol). Turns out part of the reason for the quiet is he is hard of hearing :)

My answer would be both also. I initially started off seeing only a couple of SP's and MA's that I enjoyed being with. Saw a couple of new ones but not as good as my regulars, But this year I started meeting some new MA's and SP's and have had some great experience. Each experience seems to get better. I've repeated with many of these new girls and intend to see most of them again. However my known list is getting too large, and there are a few girls that I haven't met year that I would like too :). Known is good and each repeat get's better as you get to know each other. But meeting someone new generates new interest and excitement. However my problem is that all these Cerb women are so awesome, that if I could I would meet them all. How ever due to budget and time, I have to try to limit myself to only a few new ones at a time, as I really like to see my regulars also. So many women and yet so little time :(

To me a real sexy woman just extrudes her sexiness. It's the way she looks at you with bedroom eyes and licks her lips. And has that come hither look. A woman who is really horny and want's you to ravish her, all she has to give you a look and you know what she wants:) Physical beauty and sexy clothes enhance the sexiness of a woman, but true sexiness comes from the inner person, it's not just physical but the confidence and look that generates sex appeal that makes you naturally drawn to her. A beautiful woman who is dressed sexy can act sexy, but a truly sensual woman can attract men, by the way she looks at them, smiles and smells. I'm not sure if I explained myself, but those that have experienced a truly sexy woman that enjoys what she does and has chemistry with you, will know what I mean :)

Do you think this is true? I'm not sure as I certainly am not. I make an average living at best but combined we are doing OK. I will admit this is part of the reason I haven't jumped in with both feet, but it's a very small portion as to why. I KNOW the ladies here are worth every penny they charge and then some, as you can't put a price on happiness. If an encounter lasts for an hour, how long does the feeling of happiness stay with you? Just that hour? If so, I would think you have much bigger problems. Hammy. I kind of know where you are coming from. Years and years ago I fell madly in love with someone I thought was my soul mate. She was perfect in my mind. I however, was someone that she loved, but was never sexually attracted to. This relation ship has haunted me to this day. I see her every few years and she usually appears just I happen to forget about her and all the feelings come flowing back. She knows how I feel about her to this day, but nothing has changed. She is divorced and looking for a man but I am still not the one. After 30 years have passed and 3 kids, she still has the body of a 20 YO and is sexy to the core. This woman can get you hard by looking at you. I must say (if I haven't already) CERB is such an awesome site. I love coming on here and learning about other people and about myself. This thread in particular has helped me over a bit of a hump and I appreciate all of the feedback that has been given. I do feel like a bit of an outsider at this point but in time, that may change. Thank you, especially to the ladies.

I have to agree with HalifaxMan58 and Midnite-Massage - my answer will be Both. I have my regulars whom I have been seeing for over a year. I am also lucky enough to have the opportunity to see a few new ones. For me, this is the best of both worlds and I won't change a thing. :icon_biggrin:

Was she pissed off or was it just a case of no chemistry? If no chemistry, well that sometimes happens. Not every two people will click. If pissed off, look back at your encounter, did you say or ask anything that could be construed by the lady as offensive. If you don't know then maybe send the lady a nice respectful email, and ask her if she is angry with you, and if so, why. The only person who can answer why the lady is angry (assuming she is in fact angry) is her. Then you can apologize to her if in fact she is angry, and you did something to cause her to be angry None of us on CERB know what happened during your encounter. Only you and the lady know what happened. You should, and just my opinion, direct your question to her, if you are concerned about if she is angry and why she is angry A rambling RG

This thread has been nagging me a bit for the last few days and I realized in my initial response I only answered half the equation and left out the most important part to me personally. My real and complete answer is both. There is nothing wrong with seeing someone who compels something in you even if they are new. However, it's the internal voice that you should listen to. Even in this industry there are connections and relationships and only you can determine which aspects are important. As for me personally, I love my regulars. I get excited to see them and I miss them when its been awhile. I like that connection and getting to know them and their desires. So for me to leave out the known part of the equation was wrong and against my character. If they were suddenly off on the next best thing, it would impact me. So, the answer here can only be what you make it and how you feel led. Only you know what you need at any given moment and how best to get it. You wouldn't go to someone new if you needed something you had established with someone else and if you wanted some NRE, you would look to someone new. Nothing is wrong with either as long as you feel good about the choice.

God what a face!

"All that we are is the result of what we have thought. If a man speaks or acts with an evil thought, pain follows him. If a man speaks or acts with a pure thought, happiness follows him, like a shadow that never leaves him." "Thousands of candles can be lit from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared." - Buddha

Most CERBians are relatively affluent--this is an expensive activity after all. I'd suggest a few of them go volunteer at places that help the less fortunate, either homeless shelters or care facilities for disabled people. I spend four or five hours a week at a place that cares for long-term disabled people, people with spinal injuries, stroke victims, multiple sclerosis etc. Some of the stories of how they got there are heartbreaking and infuriating. Every day I leave there thinking how incredible it is just being able to walk by myself, to feed myself, to be independent. Yes I'm happy!

This is part of the reason I really enjoy working where I do. It's a flat fee for the room and my company! The tiered offerings always seemed to create a lot of confusion. If you communicate with the person you are going to see you can get the financials out of the way up front. This ensures that any tips that are beyond that are a token of appreciation for the encounter. I believe that just like any service industry the tip u leave should be in line with your own comfort level, and the service you were provided. I believe tips are not required, but I definitely remember the gentleman that offers one. In short in my opinion the answer to your question is that if you communicate up front you will never be left feeling like you shorted the lady, and anything above that is a kind token that will definitely be appreciated. Kelly

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Ladies and gents, its now official !! The Ottawa September Social will be held Thursday, September 19th, so mark your calendar!! There will be 60 spots available (30 gents and 30 ladies) for members in good standing. Gents, tickets will be made available soon, at a cost of $35, which will cover snacks, drinks for the ladies and door prizes. I will keep everyone up to date via this thread as things progress. As it's an event organized by CERB members for members, you can contact myself, Loneskater or Spud271 directly should you have questions. Cheers!! MisterT

Havent been to Bank St Studio for a while, and wasnt familiar with the ladies there now, other than Janie, who was not working the day i was browsing. Called and booked appt with Alma, and glad i did. Shes a pretty gal with lovely large natural breasts and a thick mane of wavy hair. I figured it was going to be fun when she walked into the massage room and gave me a playful smack on my ass as part of the hello ! Anyway, a great massage and a good time was had by all... Especially me. I would recommend a visit to see Alma !

Depression? Seriously, depression is an illness, and it should be thought of like any illness. See your doctor and get a referral to someone who can treat it properly. You wouldn't tell someone to HTFU if they had a broken arm or cancer, but too many people have that exact attitude towards people suffering from depression.

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I have to say known, with a bit of the unknown. I have been hobbying for the past 12 years or so, not real frequent for various reasons. Over the years I have had a few ladies that I saw on a semi regular basis. I find over time the experiences get better. Eventually the ladies move on. This is when I need to move to the unknown. Sometimes its a home run and others its a flop. I have had a few encounters with highly reviewed ladies that were just no chemistry. When I fins someone I click with usually revert back to the known. Because I don't always have the opportunity to hobby as much as I would like I do prefer the known. Asterisk: Sometimes I am travelling or there is someone visiting that I am interested in seeing - into the unknown.

Was at Barbs on Saturday afternoon and the club was full of beautiful ladies. The only one missing was Bridgett. I had some amazing dances from the very sexy Bella and after had a chat and dances with the stunning Jenny. I will be returning to see these Ladies again soon. I wish I could have meet Ariel as well for next time

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Great is not a good enough word to describe this Venus. If I took the words spectacular, sexy, pretty, sexy, orgasmic, sexy and magnificent and combined them into a word, it still wouldn't do her justice. (Was that a little over the top? Perhaps some hyperbole? Maybe but damn is she smoking.) Did you go for a swim tonight? Additional Comments: If you're implying that I'm the Mario Lemieux of sex, then that would make me the Magnificent One of sex. We'll have to ask the girls if it's true. I don't share my cerb handle with anyone (except for today's beauty), so I'll have to ask in person. Let's make a list.

Just for the record, pubescent refers to children who are not yet teenagers, so maybe a very poor word choice here :) In fact it is very much against the law for any older man to even have consensual sex with a teenager who is at the age of consent of 16, if he is more than 5 years older. And a 16 year old would not be pubescent anyway.

Hmmmm... she seems very keen to draw a line between this and prostitution. The lady doth protest too much, methinks :) I'd be interested to hear what someone who's done this and also been a more "normal" SP felt about the difference between a sugar daddy and a regular client...

Has anyone seen this sp. advertises on Bp age 24 brown hair 125 pounds says nothing too kinky. She seems interesting, wondering if anyone has seen her? Can not find her name.

Technically, I think they can do it without doing anything illegal, though there may be an ethics clause in their license. If they provide the proper RMT session and then give the happy ending but don't charge for it on the insurance portion, then it would be okay. So you go, get a proper RMT session and pay $70 and get a receipt for that. Because she "likes" you, she give you a happy ending. Because you like her, you give her a tip. Nothing fraudulent there.

In the recent past, there was a general rule of thumb for tipping of $20 per service. This may not apply everywhere though, and can tend to be location-specific. First, of course, there's the "door fee", which usually ranges from $30 to $70 depending on duration of the session and the location you go to, daily special deals, etc. This is the part of the fee that is given to the spa for their administrative costs, such as rent, maintenance, and advertising. If you go to see an independent, they still need to pay for these sorts of costs for their own place, so you would include it in their fee as well, but they would call it their basic fee. The door fee or the basic fee is usually all that's ever given over the phone, the rest is discussed in private. The tips are usually discussed directly with the girl, but some indies may give you the overall fees on the phone. Now as for the tips, as mentioned it operates on a $20/service rule of thumb. First charged service is usually the HJ. The next service is whether you want the girl topless or nude; topless is $20, nude is another $20. So a topless HJ would be maybe $40, while a nude HJ would be $60. Then some girls offer extra services beyond that, such as bodyslides, etc., which could be another $20. Now in most spas, they'll never itemize it that way, they would consider it crass, but they usually just suggest a tip between $60 and $100 is suggested. But that falls somewhat into the $20 rule of thumb range too, maybe a little more.

Just found out about an hour ago that an old colleague and a very dear man was murdered yesterday in Toronto. One of the gentlest gentlemen, soft spoken, polite, calm and a very sweet disposition - I haven't seen him in a few years but this was like a gut punch - life is so precious and it can be taken away so easily....

As Peachka said perhaps the chemistry was not there. It would be unrealistic for anyone to think every session they engage in will be a "hit". Nor should you be overly disappointed if it isn't, we are having sex, playing, engaging not saving lives, curing illnesses or starting or stopping wars:) But if it continues to bother you ask her, if she doesn't reply, then move on and forget about it not everyone is always nice or willing to explain their moods or reasons for them. It doesn't mean you did anything wrong:) I've had great sessions, mediocre sessions and a couple that I just prefer not to remember;) Sometimes clients aren't nice in spite of trying to be all one can be, They sometimes think what Jane does you will as well, some might expect to much or again there is just no attraction to one another. It takes two willing open minded participants to make a great session, honesty, understanding, chemistry, a willingness to be thoughtful, giving and the ability to let loose and have fun:)

I met w/her the other night; Due to the rules of the board, I cannot comment.

This is the OP's original question, we are talking about seeing teenagers in this business which may be legal but is it ethical. Additional Comments: Now this is what you are arguing, basically it's ok to have sex with an underage child, be it man with underage girl, or woman with underage boy. Mind you, you never said anything about a man with underage boy or woman with underage girl. Since this thread is about seeing teenage companions, even if legal is it ethical, are you arguing about seeing underage escorts. Honestly beyond your obvious disdain for a minimum legal age, I don't know. And for fact, the minimum legal age in Canada isn't an abstraction, it's real, set out in the Criminal Code of Canada. you don't like it, go to France or Sweden. But French law or Swedish law applies to France or Sweden, not to Canada Just how low in age do you want to go? http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=511551#post511551 Why this thread, apparently in Yemini it is legal for a "man" to marry a 8 year old...do you think the age should be lowered to 8 now if your argument for lower legal ages is other countries do it. Law of the land in Canada is 18 years old. Don't like it, go find another country to live in catering to your predilections. And one more thing, maybe you should read the CERB Rules & FAQ. Couple copied and pasted here for you Streetwalkers - Car Dates - FS MASSAGE SPA'S - ETC .... (ALL ILLEGAL IN CANADA)We DO NOT discuss ILLEGAL activities here. This includes. - Streetwalkers (Public prostitution is illegal) - Car Dates (Something streetwalkers do - public prostitution is illegal in Canada) - FS Commercial unit (Massage Spa - Brothel - etc... are all considered common bawdy houses and illegal) - Underage Prostitution - Drugs - Etc... Please use common sense people! You must be 18 years of age older to participate, advertise or be advertised or discussed on cerb You must be of legal age (That is 18+ years of age in Canada) to use (AND JOIN) this website. We may ask you to prove your legal age if at anytime your legal age is in question. If you are under the legal age of 18 you are not welcome to post on this site and you should not be involved in this business.. If you are asked for proof of age and you refuse a bulletin will be posted on the site and your name will be added to the DNR LIST (Do not recommend or discus list) and you will not be allowed to post here, all posts about you will be removed and we will tell the members why you have been placed on this list. Just finding this advocating of seeing someone underage, especially on a thread talking about seeing teenage legal aged companions disturbing to say the least. Eighteen years old is the real and true age in Canada, not some abstraction. Find out how well your arguments go in Court if caught and charged by the police having sex with someone underage. RG

All of the Mp/Mas' listed are wonderful, but if I was visiting, and had only one experience available, then the Jessica experience is not to be missed.... Her hours are curtailed for school, but good luck

There is something very very wrong when a grown man has no issues about having sex with an underage girl...even if she does want it. So wrong...

I am hoping you are misunderstanding the word Pubescent and consent: Definition Pubescent - arriving at or having reached puberty. Puberty - the age at which puberty occurs often construed legally as 14 in boys and 12 in girls The age of consent for sexual activity is 16 years. It was raised from 14 years on May 1, 2008 by the Tackling Violent Crime Act. However, the age of consent is 18 years where the sexual activity "exploits" the young person -- when it involves prostitution, pornography or occurs in a relationship of authority, trust or dependency (e.g., with a teacher, coach or babysitter). Sexual activity can also be considered exploitative based on the nature and circumstances of the relationship, e.g., the young person's age, the age difference between the young person and their partner, how the relationship developed (quickly, secretly, or over the Internet) and how the partner may have controlled or influenced the young person. A pubescent child cannot give consent - no matter what she or he says, she/he is unable to give consent before the age of 16 years. I am hoping this was just a misunderstanding in your statement.

Well, I tend to get on best with people around my own age, give or take a decade. There are exceptions though. Quite apart from personal taste, there's another significant issue here: staying away from the people advertizing as being only just legal gives you more of a buffer against meeting up with someone who's underage. This isn't an issue if you're fairly conservative about who you see and stick to ladies who are recommended by others or advertize in forums that verify the age of their advertisers, but I'd imaging it's far more of a risk if you're inclined to constantly seek out the new arrivals in the industry. And getting it wrong just doesn't bear thinking about.

@cometman....it's all you can do! You can't give in to the negative feelings, it will overwhelm you <HUGS> stay strong!

Different people, different tastes, different experience, and YMMV. I thought she was nice, attractive, and put in a solid effort. Other people may prefer something/ somebody else.

Been suffering from depression for 9 years now it's not easy I just live my life day by day

Going to the OP's actual question, what would I do for a last hurrah if I knew, for whatever reason, I was leaving the game? I would figure out how to explain being gone for 24 hours. I would arrange to spend those 24 hours with a specific terribly wonderful lady. We would spend 22 of those hours just being... chatting, walking, drinking wine, holding each other in bed. Interspersed in there we would spend one hour on a duo with her and another specific lady. We would spend another hour just the two of us being as intensely sexual as possible. And if everything went according to plan, at the end of the 24 hours, the EMTs would show up to take me to recovery.

The sp only access ladies currently can not see hidden profiles but this is causing issues with verification, because of this council has voted and we would like to grant any verified sp (sp only access) the ability to view hidden profiles (to help with the screening process) so this announcement is to let veryone know that in a few weeks (if we can get this working) the sp only ladies will be able to view private profiles (for screening and security). This way no "bad" clients can hide from sp only ladies. If anyone has questions or objects you can pm me or comment.

I really think you are entitled to a sex life. In fact, it should be enshrined in the United Nations declaration of human rights. Sex is almost as basic a need as food and shelter. You get to decide how you want to meet those needs. It can be that easy.

If understanding your needs or desire and taking the courage to do something about it is shameful then I don't know what isn't? The only person that can make you feel ashamed is yourself, because what other people may think, shouldn't matter. This is your life and you decide what you want to do.

What makes you think they don't look at this site? I know for a fact they do as I have spoken with police in the past in regards to the site. In fact a very nice lady police investigator contacted us not too long ago asking for assistance in a case. Now, your new so I suspect you think prostitution is illegal right? We watch a lot of american TV and prostitution in Canada (unlike MOST of the USA) is very much legal here. In canada streetwalking (public solicitation), brothels (common bawdy houses) and pimping/procuring is illegal. The actual exchange for money for sex in private is very much legal and since a website is not considered a PUBLIC PLACE discussing and advertising such activities in classified ads and online is NOT illegal. We do not allow discussions of illegal nature here. Included on this list is - streetwalkers - FS massage spa's - public brothels - sex in public (including "Car dates") - underage (18 is the legal age) - drugs - pimping and so on... Hope that helps

Well, I was checking out this thread a couple weeks ago and I think it's about time to give it a little bump and update it! A nice website definitely turns my crank. :) Here is a few that I haven't seen mentioned on this thread yet that I have come across over the last few months which I thought were very well done :) Nathalie Lefebvre - http://lovely-nathalie.com Emily Osgoode - http://www.emilyosgoode.com Lara Belle - http://www.larabellesydneyescort.com Alanna Johnson - http://www.youreurogoddess.com/ Julie Wilde - http://pixietryst.com Kerri Sussex - http://www.kerrisussex.com/ Gabriella Laurence - http://www.gabriellalaurence.com There is many other great websites already mentioned in previous posts, and several more not listed yet too. Please add more of your favourite, well put together, informative and sexy escort websites!! :)