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I have been a HUGE fan of nuru for many years now and I would have to side with Gina (Urban Vibe) (Number 1) and Jessica (Indy) (Number 2) as my "all-time" favourites. Although, Alexandria is new at this I have enjoyed sessions with her. Vitto has always provided great session so I may have to check out her with nuru, I suspect that will be great also.

I just think there is a disconnect from what you think is going on versus what the sps are telling you is going on. You do have a lot of experience, which to me means you are not as familiar as we are with what the typical newbie is going to be doing or asking about. What a newbie guy would ask is 'do I come to you or do you come to me?", nothing about who is paying for what hotel, he doesn't have enough experience to think that one of his options would be to rent a hotel room for the sp to come to him (outcall). i think the sps are naturally puzzled by the insistence that this is a typical (i.e. valid) question, and I think the majority of sps getting such a question would be eye rolling and hanging up/not replying, because if this is an example of how he is thinking, there is no hope he's also going to understand even the basics of setting up an appointment, let alone meeting and paying, and by that I mean, respecting the sp's restrictions, boundaries and limits. And that's assuming she believes he is a newbie potential, and not just an experienced guy playing games. Her first thought is probably the latter. The other issue seems to be that you don't want anyone, mostly sps, telling you any of that. And that is your issue. You can either become reactionary whenever anyone disagrees with you, or even just tries to explain their own POV and experiences, and LEARN from that, or you can continue to repeat your own points, to the exclusion of all others. Some take offense to the sps who do not have patience for very new first timers who sometimes have ridiculous questions. But it is their preference to not deal with first timers, or at least first timers that need a lot of hand holding. Some sps do deal with those guys. I'm one of those kinds. I'll tell someone things that are in the ad, I'll explain the difference between in and out, and give tips for looking at other ads, and making a good choice. But I promote that, and make a good session for someone doing this for the first time. I am not necessarily suitable for the hardcore hobbiest, who actively seeks one time encounters, to review them. I discourage that kind of guy actually, if I feel the caller is too 'checklist' oriented, I'll pass. The types of questions I am getting from the professional client are questions I don't have patience for, and I'm going to treat them like some sps treat the guys who don't read their ads or approach them in the right way. Some pro clients approach me in the way that I want to be approached. The ones who want to do things their own way, will be turned down.

Dude. You dug yourself this hole. Reread your posts. What FilmGeek said to you was SPOT ON. It's as basic as this, if you (the general you, not you specifically) can't read the extensive info that's been provided on our websites and in our ads, if you're in such a rush to get your dick wet that you can't even bother doing a bit of internet research (hi, there are guides to client etiquette out there: a quick google search of "escort + client+ etiquette" pulls up this link http://bellastr26.wordpress.com/2010/05/19/client-etiquette/), you should just wank off. If you have read it and can't be bothered to follow our rules/requests/etiquette, that says a lot about you and it's a GIANT RED FLAG. Dudes who can't respect virtual/online requests sure as hell aren't going to respect my wishes in person. I am running a business; my website is written to answer as many common questions as possible. I still get a billion "what are you rates" or "where is your incall" questions when all of that wonderful info is provided on my website AND in my ads. Usually I redirect to the site. If you come back with yet more questions that have already been answered, well you can just forget seeing me. I don't have time to repeat everything that I've already spent enormous amounts of time SPELLING OUT for you. Not to mention, if you made it as far as making an account on CERB, then you can access the "new to this?" section and don't need to be making excuses about not knowing how things work.

My short answer is, let me think... definitely no way in hell ;) Dealing with someone who drinks too much is not a priority of mine and I want to stay far, far away from it. Also, you have to consider that his drinking might take away from his ability to "fuck like a porn star" or "cook like a pro" so what am I left with? A drunk man who likes to fight? The cussing like a sailor part? lol No-thank-you :) I can get a great meal at restaurant without having to deal with drunkenness and/or a drunk chef that will mess up my food, and that, without the constant swearing involved, leave a generous tip on my way out, call a FWB (or two) who fucks like a porn star for dessert and all that with no strings attached, drama or headaches involved! I like to keep it simple!! :)

After reading all of the posts, I think that there is more agreement here than disagreement. I think that the only issue people have is the original post implying that this experience is evidence that Cerb is wrong to only allow recommendations. Many have pointed out that experiences like this are absolutely not what that rule had in mind. In my mind, this experience right away qualified as a bait and switch before the "bodyguard" even got involved. There was clearly at least an implied threat after that happened. I'm very relieved to hear that that was as far as it went. The idea of this man barging in like that quite frankly scares the hell out of me. There should definitely be a post in the dangerous encounters section, naming names. That is what that section is for. I myself, check it regularly, especially before I book with someone who is unknown to me. I strongly encourage other members to do the same to hopefully avoid this type of situation. In my mind (and I don't speak for cerb by any means) the "no negative review" rule is simply to avoid the cattiness and hostility that it can bring. There is a huge difference between being threatened, and saying something like "A's oral skills aren't as good as B's" or "she needs to lose a few pounds". (The majority of such comments on sites that allow them likely come from jealous competitors, their associates, or stalker ex-boyfriends anyway.) All they do is create an environment that causes many sp's to avoid the boards. So please, if anyone has had such an encounter as this, post it. (in the proper section). It is for the good of everyone to bring these people to light. And thank you to the op for wanting to share this experience. Again, I'm glad it was a safe conclusion. I can only assume that there are many men out there who were not as fortunate. Safe hobbying everyone, Mikey

Yup! Much older men have always fascinated me because sometimes... just sometimes, you can get them talking afterwards. And they tell you about things you won't find in any history book. They were there and lived it. When I first started, back in the 70s, I was privileged to listen to men who'd lived through the Great Depression, WWII, and survived the Holocaust. My soon-to-be 90 friend was an adolescent on the verge of manhood in Holland during WWII and told of how his parents had to hide him and his brothers from the Nazis, who rounded up young men and sent them to labour camp. Another friend told me of eating mashed parsnips mixed with isoamyl acetate (blech!) to make a sort of fake bananas, they were so desperate for any food variety in Ireland during WWII. One of my earliest regulars was a sweet little old man (who's eyeballs were just about at nipple level on me). He'd done well for himself in commercial real estate but was almost pathologically cheap. He also _always_ had food stashed away in his pockets. A half eaten sandwich. A bit of pastry. It was kinda gross. One day I asked him about it, and he explained that he'd lived through the Depression. He was just a kid, but his family had it rough. A fear of being hungry never left him. One thing that impresses me in many of these personal accounts is the resiliency of humans, and I realize just how lucky I was to be born in the exact time and place I was. Twenty or more years, one way or another, or a few thousand miles made a whopping difference in the opportunities I could expect.

That my friend is the basic definition of a incall

I find that this picture below (from FB) does not belong to the " Funny Pictures", or " ..Lol Cat..." or " Puppies" thread, or any existing threads for that matter. It is cute, interesting, endearing and heart-warming. This thread should capture some incredible and interesting pictures you may find in the cyber space.

Inspired by the Top 5 Guitarists, thread, I was thinking about my favourite top 5 male and female vocalists. Male Vocalists: 1. Steve Perry (Journey) Lovin, Touchin, Squeezin: 2. Rob Halford (Judas Priest) Hellion/Electric Eye: 3. Bruce Dickenson (Iron Maiden) The Number of the Beast: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7mHe6FMs46o 4. Robert Plant (Led Zeppelin, Solo Career) When the Levee Breaks: 5. Ronnie James Dio (Rainbow, Dio and Black Sabbath) Rainbow in the Dark: Female Vocalists: 1. Stevie Nicks (Fleetwood Mac, Solo Career) Edge of Seventeen: 2. Ann Wilson (Heart) Magic Man: 3. Bette Midler Wind Beneath My Wings: 4. Cher Gypsies, Tramps and Thieves: If I could Turn Back Time: 5. Celine Dion The Power of Love:

As acqua mentioned is not about how does more or about who charge less...its about amazing experiences and all ladies on industry that offer nuru... competition is not about undercutting just a personal opinion. Is about keeping clients happy and keeping industry in a classy way.

@muncher459 I hope you make your birthday into everything you could wish with someone who will treat you right (you've come to the right place for THAT). 60 is still a young age with lots of pleasure and enjoyment left and anyone who tells you any differently should be given a swift boot to the posterior. Age is just a number and by FAR attitude makes the person as young as they perceive themselves to be. Don't wish to have started earlier, live in the moment and embrace every pleasure you can and think about what you can experience today! *muah*

Both. I don't think I could have one without the other. If I get a sense a man is truly into me it relaxes me, gives me extra confidence and that in turn allows me the ability and desire to want to get off. If you are with someone and you get the feeling they aren't into you I would think then you'd just go through the motions as well, which would be no fun. Pleasure should be shared, given and taken:)

I'm on a Samsung Galaxy S3 and yup, the voice thing is awesome. I was a BB user for years but discovered a whole new feeling of liberation when I moved to the Samsung. If you really want to play with your phone in traffic, get a bluetooth device. Most bluetooth devices are those things you see in people's ears as they walk down the sidewalk looking like they are talking to Jesus or whoever. But there are bluetooth things you can get that standalone in your car - visor, dash, whatever. The advantage of these things is you can hear who the call is before you answer it and you answer it via voice commands (depending on the device you get). I have a BlueAnt Q3 in combination with my Samsung and I can place calls, answer them, send texts, open apps all without touching my phone - wave at the nice policeman sitting next to you. :)

Something just flew right over my head but I have no idea what it is! On a side note:

I have been to the Lord Elgin lots of times without any issues. I am always discreetly attired. I am not aware of anyone else having issues with nice looking visitors.

We should let gentlemans decide... is not about who does more is about who does it better. There is lots of indy talent to be discover cheers!

I don't mind turkey but if I had my choice, just make me a big pan of stuffing with a side of gravy.

My friend went there a few times under the old ownership, it was called YES massage or something like that. He liked the place because of it was very clean and well maintained. The possibility of taking a free steam bath after the session was also a plus. He returned a couple of times after, and he agrees, the guy running the place just doesn't have it when it comes to dealing with the public. He seems to be there to dispatch the girls and stare at the clock. The new girls were not as open when it was time to deal with details of the massage session. No more BS, the best my friend could get was a HJ with limited ROC. He gave up on the place, he did not return in the last 15 months.

As a gentleman, I believe it's important for the lady to finish first and finish often. If she isn't having a good time, neither am I.

It's easy for myself to get off on my own. I mean , put some porn on, get arosed and stroke myself to cum and bam! done! But that is no fun every time. So being in this is all about exploring how I can please a lady while pleasing myself. No better way that seeking a professional where its easier to express interesting ways in having fun that is beneficial for both of us.

I'll start off with, what happened to the OP was horrible and he was lucky that nothing escalated past what he could handle. The details of the encounter should be entered, if they haven't been, in the appropriate section for everyone's benefit. Secondly, there have been many threads in other sections discussing the idea of reviews and why Cerb is a recommendation only board (I'm not going to dig them all up, but you can find them if you want to). The general gist of all of them have been keeping things complimentary makes this board a safe place for the SP's. Reviews can be used against an SP and there is no real way to prove or disprove a damaging review. Once that damaging review is there, warranted or not, it will hurt that SP's business no matter how many good reviews are there. If a SP's business, and image can be tarnished with no recourse, they will ignore the board and it ceases to be the place that Cerb is. As many people have said, there is a section that lists bait and switch, fake pictures and dangerous situations. People should post in these sections for the safety of all. If the OP posted there I don't think there would have been any issue with the post, and hopefully others can escape such situations. The key is in the details, people need to know that others were involved and misleading photo's were used. I believe severally out of date photo's count as bait and switch. This board can be very helpful if you take time to read through the sections, and do some searches on past threads.

It's really crucial for me to believe that my partner is enjoying herself (a lot!), though I understand that orgasms themselves can just sometimes be elusive so that's not my exclusive yardstick for the encounter. I like my own excitement and orgasms (no kidding!), but the truth is I can experience those just about anytime all by myself. One of the unique appeals about an encounter with an SP is spending time with a wonderful, sexy woman and sensing HER excitement. That makes the encounter "us" and not just "me", which is kinda the point.

I, like the majority want to please my partner as much as I can, and I think the real key is open communication, when two people (or more lol) can express in words what they like/dislike/want/need etc... It can't help but be a pleasureble experience for both no? :-)

Love a waste of time is someone that does it receptively....to one or several ladies..that lies about the reason of canceling and it doesn't add up..Ya know like my dog ate my homework type of thingy To anyone out there they feel they may I have take that turn..Make good to the sp you have done it the most before shopping elsewhere I for myself a big believer of sisterhood and if they got screwed it hurt me I will stick my neck for them

I hates to bring it this way but..Do you bring this topic because yo feel you may have burned few chances with so ladies or just curious Personally? I am a person of a short words when booking app..As Genevieve. I am French and sometime a lot of communication can lead to Wierd discussion plus when you tour you somehow expect serious guys to not be lazy read your ads and website and mostly know the answer to their questions Anyone can be polite and do not respect how to follow instructions or ask questions that all been answered I. Ads and website...It doesn't mean saying please and thank you.That it may not be annoying. And consider a waste of time If a lady travel in 6 or 7 cities you have to X the amount of ext,emails,Pms she will get to actuall get a serious person that will book an app I strongly believe that men should know if they are available or not and serious about getting an app before their inquiries Why sending and email inquiring if you won't be available ? At the end ...it should be simple. If someone desire to engage in a mind game..I am not the sp for them VJ

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In my Opinion ... every scenario is different... by email I think the 3 message rule is a good one.. First email to gather as much info as you can from the lady, concerning services, rates, restrictions, and any other important information to be given.., Second one is to clarify any doubts or things that were not cleared in a second communication... third yes you should be ready to book.. Off course depending on how the conversation has develop there can be exceptions and variations... When it comes to texting being a quick method.. it can take a little more than 3 messages... but please if you start a conversation PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU CAN CONTINUE... One thing that is most anoying is someone that starts a conversation and take long time in between messages... We are not just sitting down answering messages..., sometimes we are in between appointments and if you take long to reply we may not be able to reply with all the answers that you need... Phone conversation... now in this one I usually know by the tone of voice, and the type of questions asked... Be presice and direct you will get the right answers.. DO NOT start saying... Oh You look Hot in your Pics.. Your Breast are beautiful... Can I do this with them.. or qould you do this to me... really???? BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT RULE IS BE RESPECTFUL AT ALL TIMES.. no matter if it is email text or Voice call... RESPECT IS THE MAJOR RULE WHEN STARTING A CONVERSATION! Now when it comes to a repeat client, things are easier.. I dont mind the odd Hi just to keep in touch even if it is not to book and appointment... Is nice to know someone is thinking about you... but DO NOT PLEASE atart doing it EVERY DAY, ALL DAY... That is not correct! We have lives aside from our job... I do not need a GOOD MORNING A HOW IS YOUR DAY GOING? I AM THINKING ABOUT YOU.!! COME AND HAVE A BEER WITH ME!!! LETS GO HAVE LUNCH! i WISH I WAS UNDER YOU RIGHT NOW... GOOD NIGTH.... EVERY DAY OF THE WEEK!!!!

The question is understandable though, because despite being older gentlemen, these ladies make us all feel a lot younger, not to mention the brightness and happiness they bring in our lives Thank You ladies A rambling from an older guy RG

Question 23 IF and when you start developing feelings for a lady companion, do you: A) Text her every single day because you miss her and because your day never feels complete without talking to her B) Start showing up at her incall unannounced so you can see her C) Drive by her incall and sit in your car and wait to see if she is seeing other clients D) Write her a love letter expressing your feelings in hopes she feels the same way E) Give yourself a headshake and take a step back to realize that, even though what you share with her is very personal and intimate, the lady has not become an SP to find friends, friends with benefits, personal lovers and/or a boyfriend and is not looking for any of the latter even if she genuinely likes you and appreciates your company.

Looking for suggestions and offers for a good massage. Daytime appointment. Incall. Thanks.

Very important! Saddly, here it's hard to know. Not every SP are willing to be honnest if you're doing it right or wrong. And you never know if she's just saying what she thinks you want to hear. =(

Congratulations, Touch! Great posts, keep'em coming !

The last movie that I watched in theatres was We're The Millers and it was a movie that I thoroughly enjoyed! I recommend it to anyone!

Just came back from watching Captain Phillips. It's about a captain of a freight ship that get's taken hostage by Somalians. It's based on a true story. It is a very long suspenseful movie. I enjoyed it very much. It's a must see film :)

i really dont care for almost everything associated with a traditional thanks giving dinner , turkey , stuffing , cranberry , and pumpkin anything . fortunately my mother will make a pork roast with garlic roasted potatoes . unfortunately there no leftovers to take home because everyone else scams on my meal ! ahh family

Saw Jennie again tonight and she is more than astonishing....Wow! She's a really Hot, Sweet, Sexy lady that really gives a great massage. Very Hot, Sensual and Sweet! She seems to really enjoy what she does and the finish was pure bliss! Her curves are amazing and she knows how to use them. What a great start to the weekend! Thanks Jennie :-)

A good way to start would be here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=207

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Thanks for sharing! :) I follower her on Twitter, among several other high-profile escorts, and it is quite entertaning and enlightening! She is @bmagnanti

How do you start a long weekend off right? On a massage table with my hands working...in the oil :P Come in to paradise and experience a relaxing full body massage that you'll never forget. Not only am I cute as a button but I'm easy to talk to and extremely playful. for bookings call 613-820-8887 or just drop by at 1902 Robertson Rd. .. Here until 11pm tonight!

Great sex imo involves two people being into one another:) I have met some men though that just want to get off and aren't interested in pleasing anyone other than themselves and that's fine but for those who love it to be mutual, yum!!

I agree with most, My greatest pleasure and satisfaction is to bring my partner to orgasm. I have met ladies who will tell you about " whip it in, whip it out and wipe it kind of guy. Regardless if the lady is "in the business" as someone said, if you made emotional contact, I found that most ladies will feel comfortable, relax and open up.

To be honest, I do not like emails and do not have it lasted as a method of contact. I'm alo not a fan of the back and forth banter or the long winded messages. I don't have time for this and am someone who likes to get straight to the point with as much info as possible. I am someone who has a presence on this site and figure they should know me well enough and have read my ads to gain some sort of insight as to who I am as a provider. I expect that when a person PMs me, they are ready to book or close to it. I look for their questions to be geared towards my services as an SP and not those that are considered playful or not a serious inquiry. I am also open to addressing and anwering questions especially from gents who are new to this and need to know a few more things yet I can read between the lines when I know it's not going anywhere in a PM. While I am aware and appreciate those who follow me on this site, I am not here to seek out personal friendships. I am here to establish a friendly business relationship between myself and my clients and it is a respected one. I am very good at what I do but I also don`t think that just because I am an SP and a member of this site, that it`s a free for all for having others take advantage of my kindness. That`s where I draw the line. Im not interested in members who want to create some sort of "Romeo" type online personna who sends PMs to every SP wanting to meet`only to follow through with failed promises and gets caught up in his own ego stroking to the ladies that he actually tends to forget what is he doing and how it makes him look. Those SPs who do take time to cultivate relaitonships with male members here do not appreciate having their time wasted with empty promises. Being on the this site and communicating with others here can take up a good portion of an SP`s time and it`s the cost of doing business. However, being here has its advantages so one can only hope that the time spent here does work out for her in the end to some degree. If you're going to contact an SP, do so with good intentions. And not contact a dozen other SPs at the same time with promises to meet and not follow through or get them in the chat room to try and have them become your own personal 1-900 sex operator at any given moment. No one appreciates taking the time to speak with someone who could be a potential client and then having their time wasted or be taken advantage of. We all know why we are here so lets call a spade a spade. I`m not someone who is considered all business and I definitely enjoy what I do but I also don`t work for free either. Having said all that, I appreciate all my customers and feel appreciated when they end me a "Hello" type message once in a while or a "Thank-you" message but I just can't get involved in the endless back and forth conversation. It's just not who I am and I'd rather be honest than grin and bear this sort of thing. People know me for saying it like it is and I think I did just that.lol. I hope people can understand that.

I am one of those SP's who truly believes in building a rapport between client and SP. It adds to the experience for me, as well as for the client. However, I have my limitations. When a new client I've never seen before wants to email or text back and forth for weeks on end with no intention to book, I tell him to stop contacting me. I don't have TIME to be chatting my time away for free. With a client I've seen before, I rather enjoy keeping in touch. I like hearing how they are, and getting the occasional hello. However, again there are limits. When communication starts to invade my personal time, when communication and actions therein start to invade my personal life, when communications suggest that I engage in things that are inappropriate or when communication, after 5 months, becomes obvious that there is NO intent to book again, with lots of mixed messages and dishonesty confirmed by my colleagues, then yes. You are a time waster. Period. I have always said... When clients are respectful of MY time, I will be glad to look after them. Respect is earned, not a given. Trust, once lost, is difficult to recover and for most SP's, not worth the headache.

Keerist..relaxation is the key. I am absolutely the world's worst at being able to hit an appointment on time. If I'm early or on time, I am amazed. Don't get me wrong- I try, but I don't leave room for error and that is my downfall. Best response I ever got from a lady when I was running late was.. "Relax, I'm not a bitch". That short response was what I needed to hear at that time. She wasn't a bitch and, if she gets held up and running late, I'm not an ahole. This lifestyle takes understanding on both sides and if you find a person you click with, cherish it. It's not uncommon, but it takes two to tango.

It really does depend on the provider. I am an email person, I send an introduction which is a small book if you're on a handheld but it contains just about everything you need to know plus links for other information. I prefer a gentleman spend a minute and send a reply with a bit of detail about himself, what he's looking for and any other questions. I will exchange emails after an appointment is booked as my time permits if the flow of communication is engaging. I have cancelled appointments because the emails presented red flags that weren't displayed during the initial booking emails so it can help with my screening. Inquiries that continue to ask questions already answered in prior communications are deemed Askholes and written off. Guests who insist on over communicating between appointments are at times annoying simply because of time constraints on my end. If I see someone 4 times a year but receive emails weekly, then it's disproportional to the relationship we have but I have several who have more than earned the privilege of daily communication and it's something I enjoy and look forward to. The better the client, the more time I'm willing to invest answering the comm's. In my books, a WOT is an actual time waster. Booking an appointment then rescheduling, moving the time, cancelling and rebooking etc. These are Wafflemeisters in my books. Move an appointment more than once and I raise an eyebrow. The next time I put a yellow flag on it, one more then I'm out. Wafflemeisters are second cousins to Twatwaffles from the far reaches of the Ozarks and not people I need to entertain. Ever. Be aware of the relationship you have with your provider and that will guide you in the communication style she prefers. If you haven't met her yet, then keep it simple and concise... cat

The Jax' and Tig's of the world do make the pulse race but it is impossible to have them around long term unless you're an adrenaline fiend. Bad boys are big fun when I'm feeling naughty but to keep one as a pet is a little to much responsibility for me. That said, keeping any man full time is too much work for me even tho I simply can't live without them in small doses! Like the favourite, eccentric auntie who simply borrows OPC's (other peoples children) and returns the little bundle of joy at the end of the day; I like to borrow OPP's (other peoples partners) and send them home when I've had enough of the sticky kisses and fingerprints everywhere, bad boys included... cat

Not going to lie.... At 58 years of age this is by far, some of the most exceptional news I'm ever likely to hear :)

I can't really recommend any one specific lady for you because as has been pointed out most (if not all) of the ladies prefer mature gentleman. I note that you are new and as such it can be overwhelming to gaze upon the wealth of beautiful ladies here on CERB and try to determine which lady will be the best fit for you. However, your least worry is that you're trying to find a lady that prefers mature gentleman. This might be open for debate but there is a reason that most of the ladies prefer mature gents, specifically many actually state in their ad's or on their websites that they prefer the company of men over the age of 35. Older gentleman as clients, have had life experience and often don't have sexually "something to prove". Although they might enjoy sex itself they often look for intimacy and as sense of "companionship" in their encounters. For the lady, having a gentleman like this usually means he's more respectful and will not just treat the lady like an object. He care's as much about "her" experience as he does his own. Based on your limited list of requirements you focus on kissing as a key component of your encounter which tells me that intimacy and tenderness are likely important to you. Many ladies, will take a mature gentleman who desires a intimate, tender sensual encounter over a young guy who thinks porn is how sex is supposed to be and will just pound away at a lady with little regard for her desires. The key to it all is forget your age, it's just a number. Just be a clean, respectful "gentleman" (chivalry should not be dead) who follows all the ladies boundaries and requests (to the letter) and I guarantee that any lady will be open to seeing you as a client.

On a second date now that you have broken the ice .....do you ?? A. On an early morning visit walk up to her window like a rooster and go "Cock a diddle you" ? B. On an evening visit walk up to her window and hoot like a horny owl ? "Hoo Hoo Hooters " ? C. Open with something like ...."Knock knock.... My name is Lee. Remember me ( That rhymes ...right ?) I have a package for you" ? D. "Hi I missed ya ! Can I have a hug . I need a hug" E. Almost in trouble there....forgot how to spell "E" for a second ;) anyhooooooooo F. "Did you see my penis photo ? You like ? No wait you HAVE seen it.... We really should get married before we shag a second time" !! ;) Ya I got nuttin..... Probably played this game wrong