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I'm a mature provider as well...I don't consider myself a top booker. I consider myself a selective booker. ;) most mature ladies do. We consider quality time over quanity appointments.

An interesting question, I look forward to this discussion! I'm mature and have no issue knowing what my time and service is worth. Every guest has an ideal provider in mind, some prefer younger providers because they are more visual; others prefer a woman who has experience and can take an encounter into deeper connection territory. Age has nothing to do with what a provider considers fair when it comes to considerations; clients determine what they want and decide if the fee is worth the service they are looking for. Obviously there are enough men out there that realize maturity brings a certain element to the equation that is worthy of their patronage... cat

Welcome to Cerb, Damien :) To get this conversation started, maybe you could tell us why, in your experience, "younger ladies are better service providers". What does "younger versus "older" mean to you, personally? As far as your first question, I am not certain I understand what it means. Care to expand on the meaning of "top booker"? Thanks :) Additional Comments: Just another question... What makes an SP a good one/a better one in your books?

Can't speak for anyone else, but I can definitely say that I am MUCH better in bed at 31 than I was at 19, and if I'd tried to get into this business at a young age I would have failed, miserably. So, for me, I know that I would NOT have been a 'better service provider' when I was younger, not by a long shot. With a bit of age comes maturity, sexual knowledge, and experience. I truly believe I get better with age, and feel confident that's the same with most - if not ALL - women.

I don't think assumptions about his motivations are necessary. His inquiry isn't that off base as I have had young female providers ask me the very same question because they couldn't understand how I could command double what they asked and book more calls than they did. It's comes from the naive view that great sex is only for the young by the young and is a belief held until one day you look in the mirror and you're not young anymore but still sexual! Let's allow him the opportunity to grow a little bit in the awareness that great sex is ageless and starts in the brain, not the body... cat

Meh...none of the ladies here are even close to being old, IMO!! ;)

Damian709, As I'm from you're neck of the woods so I'll welcome you to cerb. The quality or success (what I assume you mean by top bookers) of a companion has nothing to do with age. It has all to do with how that lady interacts with her clients and the experience that she provides. If your "experience" has been that YOU have enjoyed your time with younger ladies more than mature ladies then that's great. Stick with what works for you. I personally have had some of MY best experiences with ladies that would be considered (lol) older. Their intellect and innate ability to understand what I as a client need has been no doubt brought on by their experience and the understanding that the experience is not just about sex. For your first post you decided to poke a bit of a potential hornets nest so please be careful. I recommend that you take your time and read the whole newbie area and become familiar with cerbs rules and tone. It might save you from getting stung. Hmmmm.......ending a post with "what do you think?" seems a little familiar to me, not sure why. Best of luck

Hi, I'm a mature provider,happily so.Although I do what I have to to market myself. This isn't a business that is kind to aging, nor are some involved in it. But in saying that I don't believe mature means "top bookers, better quality, etc, neither do I think because a provider is young that she'll be more in demand, better looking, etc. Cerb has some gorgeous, incredibly built mature women, some that can certainly hold their own!! I don't like to think one versus the other either, we all have our fans, no one is better than or less than, just different. It's best to have that frame of mind when it comes to most things:) But if your experiences, tastes are swayed towards younger then enjoy and embrace that but don't compare, there's just no need to:)

Welcome aboard Damian709. I have to agree with nlwoodchuck on this one. I've made a couple of posts myself that drew a lot of heat so you have to be careful how you word things here and the tone of your post. For myself, I found a very awesome young lady that I spend most of my time with... so yes, I have to say my current choice is younger ladies. However, don't get me wrong and think that has always been my choice. I have met some very, very attractive, intelligent, and experienced older ladies that blew my doors off. I think that every age has something different to offer and in most cases, the older ladies have the experience to detect what you need and provide that without asking. I'm sure if I had the time, I would love to meet some of the older ladies on CERB. The best way to decide is to just look around. If you see some pictures that draw your attention, you've jumped the first hurdle... you see something you like. Forget about the age thing and take a look at her profile, check out some of her posts, and browse her albums and recommendations. I'm sure you'll find ladies of ALL ages here, very stimulating. Make some comments on pics and maybe post something on her profile. Who knows, maybe she'll make some contact back and you're off to the races. Bottom line is, do not let the age of any ladies here make the decision for you. Go with visual, intellectual, and what your heart feels. I have to warn you though. ALL the ladies here on CERB are incredibly beautiful and very stimulating. You're going to have a hard time picking your first one. hehe Good luck :-)

I believe most of us agree that each lady regardless of age brings her own unique style to the table. I have been fortunate to work with ladies from their 20's to 40's. Each lady I have had the opportunity to work with I had tons of fun with. So my stand ( of course) is all ladies are grand but if you have a preference go for it. This life is short so everyone deserves their preference. Please don't compare us, hey I am mature but you are going to have fun with me!! :biggrin::biggrin::biggrin:

I posted this link elsewhere too, but it's a great article and will fit perfectly here. It's an accurate overview of what will likely be next after decriminalization, and what sex workers want & need, and what we don't want in a post de-crim Canada. :) The Sex Workers Are Coming By Joyce Arthur http://rabble.ca/columnists/2013/04/sex-workers-are-coming

I think an important piece is being forgotten here, better may be about performance for some but not for everyone so to have a general answer on this is impossible, some prefer younger ladies so for those they are better, others prefer older ladies so for them they are better, some do not care about age and base their preferences in other factors and I know there are gentlemen here who like both. Also, we all have a definition of old/ young so as I said, IMO there's no real answer to this question and I don't get why was it asked as what matters here should be someone's own preference/opinions.

You are stirring up a hornet's nest like nlwoodchuck said. You don't need to put one group of ladies down because you have a preference for another group of ladies. All the ladies are human beings, with feelings and deserving of respect You may have a particular preference for younger woman, and there is nothing wrong with that. But your preferences aren't every man's preferences. I like ladies where I feel a connection can be made, to me encounters are much more than just sex. And I have had wonderful encounters with ladies in their mid-twenties to their fifties. Something else you'll find, while you talk about your preferences, ladies have preferences in the men they see too. They much prefer to have encounters with respectful gentlemen. Your thread certainly doesn't show too much respect or gentlemanly behavior in my opinion to the ladies, and if I notice it, I'm sure the ladies notice it too. Even the ladies you prefer to see, younger ladies, know they, as we all do, will get older. So does that make them disposable to you, good for only so many years. It is really a demeaning and dehumanizing thing to do to a person and lady Ladies who are providers are very special, for it takes a very special person who can provide an escape and companionship for someone. All providers deserve respect, this thread isn't respectful to all the providers out there Frankly I don't know why you felt the need for such a thread. CERB is in part about providing positive recommendations of ladies. Not about putting down ladies because of age. You asked what we thought, now you know what is thought A rambling RG

Btw... When are we considered "old" ?!?:icon_confused:

Not a suggestion, but I saw a great quote today... "Worry is a misuse of the imagination" I love it. :biggrin:

Girl is a scam. Been getting txt's from a person who claims to be a boyfriend. I assume this is some sort of blackmail scam.

From what I can gather from your post and in this thread, a "top booker" is a lady that books the most appointments when she is available? If so, like you and many other ladies, I have always enjoyed quality rendez-vous over quantity therefore I can easily say that I am a selective "top booker" of distinctive quality! :) And I am not using the term "top booker" to represent volume... Additional Comments: Awwwwe, this post is not coming out the way I want to... but it makes sense to me in French...

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I believe Georgiana Sweet also offers this. And if you were feeling particularly daring and adventurous, I suspect you could double the pleasure with a FS Nuru duo with both Gia & Nat. :cooter: Oh my! http://sweet-company.com

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Nothing like actually calling up and verifying! They are not closed! They were just undergoing renovations!

Howdy ladies and gents. I guess I didn't do a good enough job promoting the return of the diary. I simply jumped on the thread that had 3,600 views stating that the diary was down, and changed the link in my signature along with a few discrete ads on CL. In the last few days I've received numerous PMs and emails from folks that didn't know about the new diary's return and new address. Guess I should give myself a failing grade on marketing the return of the cowboy's diary. It was down for a number of weeks due to some apparent issues with the terms of service, but after all the kind support and encouragement from the many readers here from cerb and other venues I decided to setup shop at a new home on the internet... if you haven't been there yet, check it out and bookmark http://www.cowboysdiary.info, be sure to tell your friends and family too. (ok maybe not your family) pardon me for this shameless plug :)

I'm curious to know what you would name as the one thing (activity, cause, subject) that you are most passionate about? I'm actually having some trouble answering this for myself. I have a lot of interests, some charities I support, hobbies I enjoy, and so on, but I'm having trouble picking one thing I'm passionate about to the point that it helps define who I am. But maybe some of you know have a clearer idea for yourselves? (Oh, and just to clarify, I mean other than having sex! Sorry, that's too easy an answer this time. :tongue:)

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thank you...it was hard doing searches as the word duo is to short!...

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Agreed..!! My angle was perhaps taking a good look in the mirror..!!? I can attest my bathroom mirror is quite functional and tells me the hard truth.. ;-) Just like RG said.. It take a special person to be an SP/MA and I am very grateful to have such wonderful ladies open their doors to me.. ( no matter what age they may be...) Cheers

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I can't give you a top 5 OP but I can concur with what the boys below said. I have met Emily many times and always have an amazing time !!!! :) She is bright, vibrant, beautiful, sexy as the dickens and looks lllllllllllovely in lingerie !!! mmm hmmmm Yes yes she does. She's coming your way so go see her !!

The new Carrie. Saw it last night. Chloe Grace Moretz was great as Carrie. She did a great job. But the movie itself just fell flat. It felt really quick, and lacked any sort of substance. I've been impressed with many of the new 're-imaginings' of old horror flicks, the Friday the 13th a few years back was AWESOME. Carrie, on the other hand, was just a remake, and nowhere near as good as the original.

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Went to see her for my first time about a month ago. I've seen many escorts in sudbury and she is by far my favorite! Great personality aswell, nor does she rush. I've been going to see her minimum once a week since our first encounter. I do recommend her 100%, before you go wasting money on the other "girls" here.

In view we bring most of perceived stress and worry onto ourselves. Years ago after a string of deaths of my mother, grandmother and aunt within 60 days of each other I would suffer major anxiety attacks. I'd wake up in the middle of the night in a panic state and felt compelled to either fight or flight, the more I fought them them the worst they got. After a particularly bad one I realized that fighting them wasn't working for me so instead I decided embraced them and when they happened ride them out. I had learnt that no matter how hard they were, they would inevitably end. Once I embraced them, I became less and less panicked when they occurred to a point that when it happens now which is extremely rare and I can easily self talk my way out of them. In the end it is mind over matter...I decided not to mind so it no longer matters. Peace MG

One thing which people don't realize is that stress and worry are states of mind which can become habits. Human beings have great brains geared toward learning and occasionally this backfires. Because we learn every moment of every day. Education does not have to occur in structured format's nor does it have to use language. Advertisers know this and as a result modern people tend to be a little over efficient in picking up "knowledge" which quickly becomes a habit. I have found meditation is an excellent habit to develop in order to counteract worry and stress. There is a cornucopia of resources and styles to choose from, however at their core is the discipline of stepping back from the situation or anxiety so it may be looked at dispassionately. This is not mindless disconnection or blind ignorance. Rather a deliberate shift in one's mental state so that you can become aware of the issues maintaining the anxiety from moment to moment. One of the key insights is that this does not have to be complicated or a long process. Indeed, if you have stopped to read this thread, you are already momentarily looking at the issues from another angle. Sometimes that's all it takes. Break the pattern.-Stop, Look and Listen to yourself. PatrickGC

Luxe said it perfectly Peachy.... Unfortunately, not providing BBBJs does cause many clients nowadays to not want to even meet an SP from the jump...however, there are many more clients who will support this and prefer to see ladies who practice safer sex. The more educated people get the easier it will be to get back to a place where the luxury companionship offered and the safe pleasures provided as a whole are no longer reduced to whether a single act is performed or not. Its your comfort, health and safety that are the issue...financially, I hope the support for safer sex practices, will soon be on the rise...make no mistake...the clients are there and they are the ones you want in the end.

Peachy, I you want to be a safe gfe go ahead. I've been in the industry for a few years, have NEVER done a bbbj, and do more than fine. Yes i've had some backlash against it, even been pressured during appointments. I've received verbal abuse and the like, for not providing it. So i'm not going to lie to you and tell you its all peaches an cream being a safe gfe, some people feel entitled to certain services from sp's, we should just do what they want because they are the customer and they want it, so you should give it to them. However,all hope is not lost. On restructuring my business, i found something interesting.As I prefer to meet with clients who want to spend time with ME, not so much as the services i provide, i found that clients who want to connect on a a deeper level aren't too concerned with menu so much as experience and what kind of connection you can provide. In my case i like to provide a whole enriching meal instead of just one main appetizer, and i enjoy the company of gents who appreciate this about me. There are many gents out there who subscribe to the same school of thought. Your health is the most important thing, and I'm tired of hearing the same song by sp's saying they want to provide all safe services but can't for loss of business. Yes you will lose business, but you will gain a different client base who appreciate a lady who cares enough about both parties health enough to protect herself. Your clients that genuinely care for you and your well being will stick by you. They others, well.......

I am so happy beautiful Berlin is discussing this issue! I wish some of you knew this: The female body it is made for multiple orgasmic experiences thus if you care to make us come and have an eletric session with you. All you have to do is ask us: How do you prefer? Where and how can i pleasure your body, breasts, thights? How can i perform date on you, to arouse you? We are in the age of the Godess, thus most sexually confident female knows what she likes and dislikes in bed. Some of you even get mad at me when i try to give you tips on my sexual likes and dislikes. And some of you are all about been generous and sensual according to my personal sexual preferences in order to make the best of our encounter and the result it is hot sex mmmmmmmmmmmmmm! Some guy even told me it is "natural to penetrate a lady hard". I would say the word natural it is a dangerous word to use in sexuality and aesthetics. It is natural to allow gas to flow freely, should i fart on your face during sex because it is natural? No right? I prefer gentle and slow sex, but once i am more warm up i will ask for more action. I think desire and lust should lead in bed, not the strength of your male hips. I would prefer that you touch my arms, my legs and my back and my waist and my back before you touch any sexual part of my body, and please be gentle and please warm up your hands before touching us. The beauty is: Some of you already aim to please, but you are rare and you know who you are;). When you penetrate us hard without any care to increase our pleasure we just want to make you come asap, because it hurts.

Samantha, I couldn't agree more with your post/thread! I would like to add... Don't masturbate before a session with an SP, we're not ignorant... it shows and smells! We won't throw you out if you cum in 5 mins (msog, gentlemen) Cheers; Athana xxx