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I think I would be considered open minded by many people's standards, though I rarely think of my approach to life in that particular term. I really value things like critical thinking, respecting diversity of experiences and identities, sex positivity, consent, harm reduction, kindness and compassion. When looking at other people's choices, identities and positions in life, it's very important to me to do so with empathy. We're fed a lot of stereotypes about all kinds of people who are different from us, and we're taught to make assumptions, and it is so important to critically examine those things and always remember our shared humanity. I don't think it's possible or desirable to be free of judgement all the time. Some things are worth being judgemental about. But I try to limit my judgement to things that are non-consensual, harmful or oppressive, and recognize that everything else is an okay part of the amazing diversity of humanity. I've found my experiences with the community on CERB to be pretty good. One thing that I do find disappointing, though unsurprising, is the way that many people here talk about trans sex workers. I see both transphobic language get used, and really troubling attitudes expressed, like this idea that it's okay to casually out a trans sex worker who isn't advertising as trans or that trans women are not real women. Transphobia is pretty deeply embedded in mainstream culture, and I've just recently started seeing more media attention and awareness aimed at trans issues. It would be really great if everyone in our communities would take some time to educate themselves and if we could see some resistance and shifting away from the really terrible language that seems to be a big part of the sex industry. And particularly for clients, exercising a bit more empathy, mindfulness and compassion when talking about trans sex workers. Casually outing someone can have really horrible consequences for them. Using language that's degrading or talking about trans women in ways that positions them as less-than perpetuates the dehumanization and devaluing of them. That devaluing contributes directly to the incredibly high rates of violence and murder that trans women sex workers experience. I think most people here are really good about recognizing that sex workers are human beings and that stereotypes and stigma are both harmful and inaccurate. It would be really great to see more of that openness and empathy extended to trans sex workers, too.

I can squirt several times in a short period of time. When I squirt I squirt hard and fast its like a super soaker.

To me, being open minded means that whatever you think, believe, know etc. you keep your mind open to being wrong, to learning, you changing your perspective and while you're at it, you work to not judge others. Everyone is an individual and unique and has had their own challenges, lessons and experiences. They also have their own wants, needs, beliefs, thoughts etc. I would never want someone to judge me based on the choices I make or the things I want, need, desire or am interested in. I make a conscious effort to not do that to others. Just because something doesn't interest me or turn me on doesn't mean I look down on those it does. Open minded to me is keeping your mind open to all potentials and possibilities, to all people, to life.

I am brand-new to CERB but can see already that it's a POSITIVE community of like-minded spirits. I already feel welcome :)

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I would like to have a conversation about being open minded. Not necessarily about specific things, but over all - are you open minded? I am not looking for the politically correct answer. Anyone can say xxx, but can you back up your words with your actions? We all have our likes and dislikes. Some things we tolerate and others we will never tolerate. However, if someone has a belief that is different then ours, are we correct or are they? I am not talking about abusive or dangerous things here - just consensual stuff between 2 (or more) consenting adults. I grew up in a multi cultural environment. My school friends were from all areas of the world - as a child I didn't realize how blessed I was to experience this. I also grew up with others that had disabilities (myself included), so learning how to accommodate their needs became normal for me. So, I've had some conversations with others recently, seen some questions online, and I've been thinking - what is your tolerance for someone who is different then you? Comments like: My son is queer, and my other kid is a faggot who dresses up in girls shit You know the chick has a dick? She is a heffer - must be at least 400 lbs She is so skinny, has no tits or ass Wow, she is so kinky, she would fuck a horse Shit she won't even fuck anything - I think she is stuck up on herself Yes I want to fuck a women with another women there, but don't want another guy there cause I don't want no sword fighting. That's sick. So, at what point do you agree with the comments others make? When do you challenge them? Or do you challenge them? I'm always amazed and sometimes have to stop myself before freaking out. No one is going to change or grow if I'm yelling at them. So, I take a breath, and try to have a conversation to find out where its coming from. There are times it works - other times I just walk away and realize that others didn't have the same experience I have had so will not understand. On this site, I would like to see more acceptance to others that have an experience they would like to explore. Just because you are not interested in that experience, please don't make that person feel like they are weird for wanting to explore this. This is a site, that if you have nothing nice to say, JUST don't SAY it. If you don't like it, just stay out of it. It's like someone who once said "I don't like the wham bam thank you mam" - but what if someone wants that? Is it wrong? Not really. As long as both parties understand, then it should be ok. Yes, you might like to take your time and that is really great too. Just don't judge someone else because they want an experience that is different then yours. Or, someone who is asking about a TG gurl in the area and wants to know what she is like. He already understand she is TG, so you don't have to point out that she has a dick. And, FYI, she is referred to as a girl - not a guy with boobs. How about a threeway? This time, not two women and a man, but two men and a women - maybe the two guys get it on with each other? Is that ok with you, or do you go, "fuck that shit, they are faggots". Don't forget Funky Cold Medina: But when she got undressed, it was a big old mess, Sheena was a man So, I threw him out, I don't fool around with no Oscar Meyer wiener You must be sure that the girl is pure for the Funky Cold Medina For all those that want to experience something that is different from the vanilla mainstream says is ok - please, let them be who they want to be. Don't judge them and remember, sometimes when we have a strong reaction, it usually means that we are somehow connected and need that, just not ready to explore it yet. I am interested in other peoples opinions and experiences.

Coffee! Started the wood furnace, making my list, checking the news headlines, texting with family, and wishing we were not looking ahead to another 24 hours of freezing rain and then snow.

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first of all I would like to be able to take my shirt off outside without frying . secondly , I have mild ocd . I want to be balanced , ie ; if I scratch my one of my legs I will use the opposite hand to scratch the other leg in the same spot .

Nothing to be ashamed about - our youth is where we learn and grow. It is when we get stuck in our adult life and continue to do/think what we have not learned. It is when you say to yourself, is this what I believe? Or what others tell me? Thank you for your input. xoxo

I am a squirter too and as Geneviève I provide guidance and have a favorite position too to do it and have gentlemen sometimes asking that I squirt on-in their mouth or face well darlings let me tell U he has to quite wipe his face after!!! And I can also can squirt several times in a row in a session and that's fucking hot babes!!!

Mightypen, you brought up something that's definitely important. There has been a slant against "just sex" sessions in favor of a more GFE, intimate sort of session. As you said, both have a place because sex is such a varied, colorful and amazing thing and we are all individuals with changing and varying moods and needs. Just because we might want a slow sensual encounter one day doesn't mean that another we are not ravenous for raw powerful lust. One is not better than the other, they are just different and people should not be disparaged because they want one or the other of something completely different.

Found that I had couple of hours of free time and decided last minute to go get a massage, as I had just come from the gym, and had worked out hard as I had not had time to go during the cold spell. I have been admiring picture of Kristie for some time as Vibe had started to give us a preview about their latest MA. There is not much on her, but what I could find was that she gave a great massage and were several members favourite. She was being compared to Gina, who is one of my favourites. So I took a chance and called and found that she just had a cancellation and I had the time slot. So fate must have been on my side. This is the first time I have seen someone without any previous Emails, PM's or chats. So I was hoping that made the right choice. When I arrived at Vibe, she was at the reception waiting for me. A beautiful girl that had her hair in tight braids, up in a bun. She wore a bra and panties and high heels that made her seem tall. She gave me a hug and brought me in to the room and started the shower. We took off our clothes, and when she removed her High heels, she was then shorter to me :). She is a spinner, slim, perfect bum and perfect breast, and tanned. She was very beautiful and sexy. Has great sexy eyes also. We begin with a shower, and those that know me, know I enjoy showers. And Kristie was a lot of fun in the shower, she has such a perfect body, and she rubbed it up against me and made sure my whole body was clean, and then again made sure it was clean. The shower was fun :). Then on to the table, where she gave me a really good massage, that was hard and light at times. She is good at teasing and can actually do a massage, which I do enjoy and need :). Body slides felt great, then comes the flip, where she was very erotic. She did things on the table, that I had not seen before in a MA session. She massaged me with her amazing oiled breasts. She was so sexy and erotic, that I did not last as long as I usually do. She cleaned me up and massaged me a bit more. Then invited me to the shower for another hot fun soapy time. Congratulations to Vibe Urban Spa. I think that Kristie will be great addition to the team. Guy's I think you will like her, I certainly did. :) She is Beautiful, Sexy and brings a few different techniques to her massage, that I am sure you will enjoy.

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

Feel a bit award posting this but I think it's the best way to go. Never tried "speaking greek" but I am curious (no more no less). This service is not offered by every provider (or listed when it is). Looking for recommendations please. Thank you

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Yup, 'tis a long one. Power just went out...

I would LOVE to have straight, easy to manage hair :)

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That's the only bright spot, I guess. :) I've just "had it" with this particular winter....

It appears to be a commercial space, the only other tenant is a dentist.

Bravo, NJ! Looking forward to your next 1,000 posts. Best, toine

Hey Notch love your stuff and the posted pix. Thanks and keep them coming. I enjoy following your contributions.

congrats sir!

The initial membership fee at CMJ is $200, which includes a complimentary 30 minute appointment, which can be upgraded to a 60 minute appointment with an additional contribution of $50. So the net cost for membership is a one-time fee of $70. For this, you sign up, and are a known member of CMJ, which I am sure is a comfort for the people of CMJ, and therefore for you. There is a also a negligible annual fee of $10 for CMJ to keep their records current. CMJ and ALO Spas are well-respected for providing wonderful times and safe experiences :)

Congratulations. That's a lot of "notches" on your belt, lol.

I'm a gusher. The sheets, floor and walls! Once in someone's eye. LOL! My problem is the laundry!!! Everytime I'm in bed, I make a HUGE mess! I went online to find a solution to my predicament. While looking, I came across this article about wet sheet solutions. Its hilarious and infornative! For all you fellow squirters...here may be your solution. I'm positive we will all relate to this article. http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/nvdnu/my_perfect_solution_for_squirters_and_the_mess_we/

Does she even do the math? The CBC "expose" here in Ottawa claims the average cost for a session with one of these girls is $200. So at that rate the trafficked victim has to see 1300 clients (or sessions in a year) which amounts to 3.5 clients every day 365 days a year. FFS really? And of course the claim that there are at least 150-180 of these girls in the Ottawa area. So do that math and on the low end that means there are 195,000 sessions a year with trafficked women in Ottawa. Really? At least make the lies believable. I mean by that math, if no guy sees more than one girl in a 24 hour period, there are 520 men having sex with trafficked women every day in Ottawa. Who the hell are these guys and where are they hiding?

I find that most people are lazy when it comes to email - when it comes to NFLD from what I have heard from a few gentleman I know is the ladies want the "NOW" booking on the phone and not the eventual one over email. Its their loss as they are missing out on some of the nicest clients by being lazy. If you don't want to use email, don't put it in your ad or on your website. If you do use it but don't check it regularly it takes 2mins to set up an auto reply saying as much and to call if it is regarding a same day booking,etc. I only use email until the time comes to confirm via phone, and find that in the last few months most potential clients prefer this as there are WAY too MANY scams and untrustworthy ladies out there (sorry to say it, but its a reality). Building trust is important in this business and establishing a rapport in email prior to sharing a phone number is essential. I don't give out my number till I expect the potential client to provide me with theirs. Privacy is too hard to come by these days and unfortunately too many people have wrecked a basic trust in our business by random foolishness. i don't blame men for not wanting to disclose their numbers one bit.

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I'm sorry I have to weigh in on this. I think you need to consider the other side of the coin on this issue. Many guys have expectations about certain things during an encounter. I'll use kissing as an example because it's easy. I understand that kissing may be important to you. I do not post a menu for reasons discussed ad nausea but I encourage gentlemen to ask for things that are important to them. So I get a PM asking my restrictions which I gladly answer. Then I get a follow up asking "ok so kissing is ok?" What should I say. I can say yes (and I have) but the guy comes in and hasn't done what he needs to do to get kissed (hygiene is huge obviously). When I don't kiss he gets upset as he specifically asked for kissing. He isn't wrong but I now have to explain ymmv. Is it not easier to just respond "kissing is sexy but it is ymmv"? Especially if the gentleman isn't a seasoned hobbyist? Just my opinion

Lover Under Armour! The boxer briefs are sexy!

Black Boxers for me.

Not wearing any...but that's because I'm not dressed yet ;-) RG

I am sporting dark blue boxer briefs

Blue boxers with white polka dots. They're the favorites of someone I know...

Nude colour! No panties on today! Yay, the freedom! lol

Same as Peachy, I'm wearing none, but... I'm in my bed (always sleep naked ;) ) on my lap top, now as the exhibitionist that I am :) I will go get my morning coffee naked as it is ready. When I get dressed I not sure on colour,there is red,black,blue boxers some are silk some are warm cotton, I haven't made up my mind yet, maybe even go commando too :) LOL

So this is my first reco that i have started and it was well worth the wait. We were planning a buddy's bachelor party for a while, and when it all came down to it... everything fell through and left us scrambling, and thank god it happened! I contacted Jasmine kind of last minute to see what we could make happen, after recently finding out that they would host a bachelor party. We agreed to an afternoon kick off to our day and agreed on 2-4 just as a guide. We closed the place!!!!! We enter CMJ to be greeted by Britney, a wonderful woman, short, gorgeous, total knock out! We get led into the room where we then meet the lovely Amanda Paige, half British and half Asian vixen, Holly, a stunningly good looking woman with legs that never seemed to end, Justine, a gorgeous and quite girl that looked like she was right out of a magazine, and we were reacquainted with Britney! The whole party was kicked off by Britney showing us some moves on the pole, and really getting us into the mood. Everything started to mesh and we all decided to go off on massage sessions with each of the lovely ladies, believe me... no complaints from anyone! we all rejoined in the party room and that's when things started to get interesting. I wont go into to much detail on what happens inside of CMJ because... in all honesty, youll have to go see for yourself to believe me! We were about 2-3 hours in and who walks in... but none other then the lovely Sophie, the life of the party from there on out. She was over the top exited, a lot of energy and kept us all going for hours and hours. Come 10 o'clock and CMJ was closing, we were still there with Sophie and Amanda. Needless to say, we all left having an amazing time! Again, thank you Jasmine, Justine, Britney, Amanda Paige, Sophie, and Holly for the most amazing time any of us have had ever packed into what seemed like a very short 8 hours! Will i repeat... in a few crud words... HELL YES i will! Im now looking forward for another friend to get married! Ill most likely edit this and add more, I'm doing this on my cell because i just couldn't wait any longer. Zoro

Chanel Reign can also squirt and it's awesome! I know a prof in Toronto who does female ejaculation workshops (at least she used to, I don't know if she does anymore). She claims that any woman can learn to squirt.

Squirting is an amazing and intense experience. As has already been mentioned every lady is different so achieving this also varies from lady to lady. I have had the experience through being pleasured with fingers and a couple times through actual penetration. Once you have the patience to discover what works it can be used like a secret weapon lol. Nothing like your body taking over and making you feel wonderful!

Do not ask if I am alone. That sends off huge warning bells to me. Some of us are and some of us have a girlfriend who remains discreetly in another room. And I mean really, do you think someone with nefarious intentions would admit that some big muscle bound body guard would be hiding in the closet LOL.