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The other night I had a date - well, sort of a date, well, I think it was a date. It was not a paid date or paid social time. And I was a little bit nervous. My personal adviser told me to iron my shirt. I ironed my shirt. I was told to wear presentable pants and shoes. I wore presentable pants and shoes. My adviser told me to get her flowers. I got her a lovely bouquet. I had tickets for a special event at the theater and because she and I live on opposite sides of Charlottetown she suggested that we just meet a half hour ahead of the show near the box office, so that was fine and I was there of course fifteen minutes before the appointed time. I received a text from her saying that she was delayed and would be late but that she would get there when she could find a parking place. I quickly texted back saying that when you park, let me know and I will meet you. A few minutes later there was no response so I looked at my text. Fuck. Auto-correct at work. What I actually wrote her was, "When you oral, let me know and I will meet you." Lovely!!!! Oh, shit, So I really quickly wrote back and said, "Oops. That was supposed to say, I REALLY mean park." Push send. Oh shit, what went was, "I REALLY mean oral." Oh fuck. Very slowly, I typed one letter at a time. I told her to stop laughing. We had a good time, and she liked the flowers. :) There was no oral.

I'm always amazed that wearing a condom for oral is even an issue anymore. Seldom does a client even realize I've put the condom on him until things get serious. I can't count the number of men who have stopped me and asked me to put one on when I straddle for little cowgirl. It's fun to watch them reach down for a feel to ensure it's there because they didn't feel it during the oral. A little planning ahead and voila! If a CoB finish has been requested then it disappears without them seeing or feeling it come off as well. I couldn't imagine a playdate without oral. It's the jump off point where I do my initial inspection and decide what's on the menu for the visit then roll into other activities. It's the perfect opportunity to get him suited up so no matter what our next activity is, we are ready to rumble with no time wasted fumbling with the wrapper or figuring out which side is up! My routine is so pat that I can feel the right side of the condom with my tongue but can't see it without my glasses on and fumbling for readers just doesn't keep my juices flowing... cat

I got to eat and enjoy awesome lobsters and share a great visit with my friend . Also on this first summer day I heard hum. Hum in my ear . The next thing of beauty I saw was the first hummingbird of the year . Yes life is very kind and good .

Yes you are right because a nice guy allows the woman to cum first;)

As is often the case, this highlight is cumulative. Not too long ago I had almost a week when all of my kids were home at the same time. The weather appears to have finally turned and today it was sunny and 22 and I was outside from dawn to dusk! I have had a couple of great visits with a close friend. My Canadiens won game 7. My hummingbirds although one day late this year are back and the three of them that I see so far are already scrapping over the three feeders. Silly birds. I have my first Cerb date in well over a year approaching. I am quite confident that a corner has been turned and that life is pretty darn good. Have a wonderful long weekend everyone.

I'm not sure you should be concerned:) since everyone perceives even the obvious differently. Sometimes expectations can be set to high even when the picture is clear, accurate and descriptions are exact, some will read more or less into them. As it's said a picture can paint a thousand words but those words are different to everyone:)

There is a big difference between emphasizing your positives and misleading.... of course a lady is going to sell to her strength.

I used to call myself a Nice guy. However, a little while ago, a lady friend told me: "You are not a Nice guy, you are a Good guy!". I asked what the difference was? She told me Nice guys are being nice, at least partly, because they expect something from a woman (consciously, or unconsciously), and when this expectation is not fulfilled, frustration may build up. A Good guy is nice because he enjoys to, he has his life together and is relaxed about it all. She picks up on this underlying vibe and is attracted to one and not the other. She told me that many ladies use all available signals (body language, energy, manners, how one dresses, etc.) to size up a man as quickly as she can. If you are, like me, a naturally quiet, reserved man, even though nice, it makes it more difficult for the ladies to differentiate between the Nice and the Good. Some are not attracted to the quiet guys, some are intrigued by the mystery. In my experience, the later are sometimes themselves a bit reserved and brainy, so maybe they have atomes crochus? Then she told me a secret: "You already have a golden heart and your life together. Simply work on being a playful (but not silly) bad boy at the right time and your social life will change forever". She had a mysterious but very attractive grin on her face while telling me this... like she told me the deepest secret of the Secret Women's Guild. :) Since then I applied myself to let this playfulness inhabiting my heart out, in the right way, at the right time. It is actually not easy, I am not quite there yet, but it is worth it lol. A companion told me that my new tag line described me well: "I am like good quality French vanilla ice cream, sometimes with exotic toppings such as spicy black pepper, silly jelly beans or sweet balsamic vinegar reduction". You know you should not have too much of it, but you can't resist (or that is what I hope anyway hi hi hi). Food for thought :)

For an in-call the time starts at the agreed upon start time. Which in this case was 4 PM. He should have had his clothes back on and walking out your door to leave your place at 4:30 PM sharp. If he shows up 15 minutes late. That means he has lost 15 minutes of playtime. Again -- He should have had his clothes back on and walking out your door to leave your place at 4:30 PM sharp. If he gave you a call to say he is running a little late. Then it is your discretion at when the adjusted start time and end time will be. In this case he was only booking 30 minutes. Again -- He should have his clothes back on and walking out your door 30 minute after he arrived. But that is just my opinion.

I know some women like to be spanked. But do most woman really like to be spanked. and if so, is it a light playful spank, a medium spank. Or spanking that will leave hand prints on the but. Just curious, I wouldn't like to hurt a woman, unless it really turns them on? But I could never really do more then a playful spank. Just like to get your opinion?

I was reading another thread in which the comment was made that the gentleman booked an appointment, arrived and while the SP was the lady in the pictures, they were taken in a way that "left out" certain aspects. Now my first comment is that every SP, no matter who they are, takes pictures in a way that plays up their best features and downplays others. Honestly, we as people have a good side and a bad side and features that look better certain ways. When a picture is presented, it is to entice people to delve deeper into the "who" and stir the senses to the point of wanting to meet. I'll use myself as an example, I advertise as a voluptuous woman, a BBW, rubenesque etc. I use those terms consistently and throughout. When it comes to my pictures, I focus more on my face than other areas because I believe the face is very expressive of both inner and outer nature (where in many cases it's the body that is the focus and not the face). Would this be viewed as misleading because you don't see the whole package even though the body type is very much presented? Or is it that perhaps with all the labels bandied about that BBW, Curvy, voluptuous etc. have a certain mental image and reality can sometimes be outside this? This is just an aspect I hadn't thought of and would like insight from those who are showing up at doors unknown about what constitutes "misleading"

Yes. Exactly. And, as said already, there are few who will resemble their photos exactly when met. That's the nature of photos. So, I would never hold a woman up to whatever preconceived notion of her appearance I may get from a photo. Unless the photo was taken by one of the few masters in the game, there's a lot about the lady that just won't be captured.

Very sexy but also very high rates.

Reminds me of a quote I like quite a bit: "A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does." (Don't know who said that)

I believe a lot of the "nice guys finish last" stigma comes from women who have things to repair within themselves. People generally go after the person who they believe is the best for them at any given point in time. If you have esteem issues or something unresolved you may gravitate towards the person who can provide what you believe you deserve. As you realize and come to terms with what's inside, those who you are attracted to generally become better people with more right than wrong. Unfortunately confident people with much goodness inside tend to see the good in others whether they can see it themselves. This is sometimes where the "saving" trend comes in. Unfortunately you cannot help or save someone who doesn't want to be helped or doesn't recognize it within. As for the other, I think people should cum when it feels good and natural for them not at any given point in time. Why put pressure on when or who or how...just do it!

You sound perfect;) perhaps that's the problem. A lot of women like a chase and the guys that need fixing or need to be chased. "Nice guys" are often left because they are nice quite simply, they don't need to be repaired aren't a challenge per say and are complete. Not much of a challenge. Sad perhaps, and makes no sense but some see those arrogant pricks as a challenge and a challenge can be exciting. Although usually it never ends well. Additional Comments: I've learned when dealing with anyone, do because you want to, give because you can and expect nothing and you'll never have to question why or feel used or disappointed:)

I am really glad to see this post and to have come across this thread. I have turned clients away for being over 15 minutes late, especially without a text or call to let me know they would be late. I give myself time between appointments to allow myself time to freshen up and a bit of buffer time for unexpected traffic and other problems causing someone to be late, however more than 15 minutes and I wouldn't be getting the time I need to freshen up and then I would possibly be late for my next appointment, which is unfair for that gentleman who was on time. It can set back your day, and it should be expressed that while occasional tardiness of a few minutes is understandable, your time is valuable and needs to be respected.

If I'm especially excited, I find I can last longer with a cbj, and I'd certainly call that a pro. And while I understand oral is a fairly safe activity relatively speaking, personally I enjoy the peace of mind I get from having the extra precaution taken, which lets me relax and enjoy the sensations all the more. But I suppose the biggest pro of a covered blow job is that you're getting a blow job!!!

I wanted to keep to keep this lady my dirty little secret, but thought that would be rather selfish. A few months ago I stumbled across and add that caught my attention. We exchanged several email, and with each exchange I was feeling more and more at ease. We all get nervous meeting a new girl, and this lady set me at ease after on a few simple exchanges of words. At this time she had an in call location that was easy to sneak in and out of. Seems she had thought of everything. Once I arrived I was absolutely blown away by her stunning and sexy physic. Such a beautiful face, and her curves are enough to thrown any driver off the road. If I were to describe her look it would be a combination of girl next door with a touch of wild movie star (the type of movie star we watch all by ourselves with the lights off when no one is home). I have met this absolute gem on several occasions. And each time she makes me feel like a king. I will not go into gory details, because this classy lady deserves better than that. If I could meet this girl every day I would. And I spend many a moment thinking of the next adventure that she will be taking me on. She is smart and sophisticated. Educated and real! The only bad thing I can say is there aren't enough hours in the week to spend with this absolutely amazing girl. But I guess that isn't her fault ;)

Council has voted to include a new section for "BEST OF" threads and other "NON ESCORT" related "FUN" threads. This new section is so that the other discussion area's do not get clogged up with these types of threads and so people who are not interested in these can just simply avoid this area. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=357

Well, while we wait for the ladies to chime in, there's this. To me, the clock starts when I walk in. The hugs, the kisses, the chit-chat are all part of the experience and the shower time is also counted. More importantly, were I enjoying the pleasure of your company, time is up when you say it is. Period. If it's at the 29 minute mark or 39, it is your time, your business, your decision. IMHO, sounds like you met a Class A twit.

I know you didn't write this yourself, but perhaps you should stick to the humour and edit this part out...

I think I end up ingesting calories...... Slurp! :) There's more to life then calorie counting and burning. Eat and be eaten ;) Bon appetite :)

Once in a while you come to realize that so many of our members really don't "get" the whole hobby experience, or rather, they understand that there are rules but believe they are somehow exempt. So let's help them. Let's give some handy tips to make this a more wonderful experience for all. This is a pleasant place so let's keep it constructive... and be aware that the rules shouldn't just be for clients, you can also add some helpful tips that may help a new provider too! Here goes: 1. Appointment time is at 2:00 pm, what time do I arrive? Ummmmm. Hmmmmm. What part of 2:00 pm is ambiguous? A 2 o'clock appointment means you are at her door at 2. Not 1:55, not 2:10. It's seems petty but when you screw up her schedule, you may be screwing up MY schedule. I may be the appointment at 3. I have things to do... and my schedule may not be as loosey goosey as yours. I may be using a very small window of time or I may have "commitments" that see me arriving like clockwork elsewhere. Regardless, when the little hand is at 2 and the big hand is at 12, be where you are supposed to be. 2. "I am awesomely wicked good in bed, and I often masturbate to pictures of myself nude, because I am that good looking. Can we negotiate a better rate?" In a word, No. Would you go to a restaurant and say, "I am a really good eater, can I get a better price on that steak?" Would you go to a lawyer and say, "I am an awesome criminal, can you represent me for free?" Would you go to the dentist and say, "My teeth are so bad that you should fix them all for $50!" A service provider gets paid at a set rate because she is a professional. She is good... no, not just good... wickedly awesome good, at what she does. Your part is the compensation, her part is the wicked awesome part. Pay the pretty lady and be happy. 3. Cleanliness is next to godliness. Ever step into an elevator and stand next to someone who smells like they have never met a bar of soap they liked? Ever met someone that looked like they were an extra in the Walking Dead? Have you ever gone into a bathroom after someone and wondered if they ate something dead? Step one. Go to the potty. Do your business. Wipe. Wipe again. Wipe again. and then, wipe again. Do the optical test. Last wipe. Is there any residue? If yes, start over. If no, then proceed to step two. Step Two. Shower. Clean EVERYWHERE. Rinse. Repeat. Did you pay attention to anywhere in particular??? Hmmm??? Go back to those places. Make em sparkle. (at this point I do suggest that artificial glitter is NOT necessary.) Get out of the shower. Towel dry (for pete's sake use a clean towel!)... apply a generous amount of deodorant/anti-perspirant. Brush your teeth. (if additional grooming is required, please do that too.) Step three. Clothing. Go to the place where you keep your clean clothes. No. Not the place where you put the stuff that you THINK you can wear again. The CLEAN clothes. You know that stuff that you just took from the dryer and folded nicely?? That's the stuff. Wear that shit. Uh oh... what if I have to do step one again?? Then repeat ALL the steps. Cuz skidmarks are not sexy. Febreeze showers are not acceptable. 4. I have to cancel, what do I do? Give your head a smack. With a hammer. Stop. Now take a pointy thing and stick it with great force into your upper thigh, avoiding the artery. Now, go to your car. Start it. Open the door, put your foot beneath a tire and have someone put that car in reverse. Cancellations? NOT COOL. We all know that shit happens. A death in the family. A sick kid. Decapitation with farm machinery. Thermonuclear war. Explosion of your planet from a death star ray. That shit is acceptable.... but you still owe the pretty lady an explanation AND a cancellation fee. When you cancel, providers don't eat. When providers don't eat they get distended bellies and look like kids from the CARE commercials. When you cancel, providers give not only you, but also your city, a bad reputation. This makes you masturbate more. Because you will never get laid again. Ever. You will over develop muscles in only one arm. Your clothes will fit poorly. People will figure it out and suspect you are the notorious masturbating king of cancellations. They will hunt you down and kill your family. Let's keep little Bobby and Joanie safe. If you make an appointment, keep that appointment. Your family will love you for it. 5. "I'm a little short on cash. Do you think she will notice if the envelope is a bit short?" In a word, yes. She will also point out that your penis is a bit short.... and that your skill level is a bit short... and that you cry like a bitch when you have your pathetic little man-gasm. Do you want that??? Do YOU WANT THAT, bitch??? Wow. That was a bit over-emphatic. Gonna step away from the computer and take a valium. BACK!!!! Where were we... yes. Shorting your provider. Not COOL. Remember, providers have special powers. They communicate telepathically. As soon as you walk out that door, she will know and so will all of her allies in the super friends. They will combine their superpowers and make sure that you never get wood again.... and if you do, it will be at inappropriate times... like at funerals or family gatherings or when talking to your grandfather or something like that. Seriously?? Give your head a shake. If you are short then GET the money and make sure you have it set aside BEFORE you book. You will have a wickedly awesome good time... just pay the pretty lady what you agreed to and enjoy! 6. Can I pay her in drugs? Hmmmm. Does your banker take drugs in lieu of money? Have you offered Rogers drugs in return for their cable/home phone/cell phone/internet bundle? When you get groceries at Loblaws, do they have a special drawer that says "financial equivalent in drugs?" You know the answer. "No, you addled-pated simpleton." Remember the distended belly part from above? Providers take cash because cash buys groceries, pays bills and looks pretty. Carrying cash will not get you arrested. Using cash is the engine that runs our capitalist society. "All you need is cash, cash is all you need." The Beatles sang that, I think. Your turn....

I'm from Connecticut, all my life, and I've never been with a companion until years after I was married (happily married, I had thought). I'm very romantic, generous, devoted, etc., but my Wife changed after she gained weight. Not a lot of weight in my eyes, but enough for her not to feel sexy enough to make love. blah blah blah So, I dabbled with companions, very slowly for several years, then more so after a few years break, then Twitter opened my big bedroom eyes to State-wide Ladies. But CT is a boring state where many Companions tend to ignore. But I'm now hooked on Canadian Companions. Some will opening invite me to a cooked dinner. That's a true ultimate GFE/Wife-experience that American Companions have never even thought about (at least the ones I know). Canadian Companions seem to be much more open-minded and will expand the GFE & PSE roles to a whole knew level. They seem more down to earth and sweeter. Of course, there is a lot more reasons for both sides of the border, but I wanted to hear what other members think. So, is it just my limited experience with USA and/or Canadian Companions, or have other people notice that the North of the Border Ladies are head over heels "better to be with" than US Companions? I know that I'm going to get body slammed for posting this topic, but it is just IMHO and I still need to meet some of my US Twitter babes, whenever they travel to CT, but I wanted to post my question to read your reaction. Plus, I realize my words are vague, so you will have to interpret them yourself.

I hope nobody took my post the wrong way about Eva going more upscale and international. She is an extraordinary companion, both physically and intellectually. She delivers an experience you will never forget, from the moment this beauty opens the door, dressed to kill, to the moment you stumble out with a smile on your face. I'm just amazed we've had the pleasure of her company in Ottawa so many times, because she can easily make twice as much in the major cities of the world.

I am sure everyone has a different version of the girl next door. Cinelli i agree with you its kinda like your neighbor who is really cute... you go there to see her and chat with her in the hopes she will invite you inside!

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Yea, Some of these smart devices have a nasty habit of learning from your earlier use. With an inadvertent error like that you either get a slap in the face or lucky. Good luck with the dating.

I like that answer.

Is it a turn off to ask for RV dates???...:icon_rolleyes: Or 420 Friendly dates???...:icon_rolleyes: Or how about 420 Friendly dates in an RV???...:icon_rolleyes: Half tongue in cheek and half serious RG :-)

I suppose you could reply ... "Wassup ? ....My foot up your ass fucknut"

This will be old news for the seasoned hobbyists but since there has been alot of newbies visiting my profile, especially lately, I thought this worth a mention:) I've noticed in a couple of posts men mentioning a lady's incall and whether or not it was a hotel or home so.. This may not seem pertinent or indiscrete to some but please remember ANY details concerning our incalls is for us to publicize not our clients or potential clients. Even the mention of a lady having incall shouldn't be divulged unless she/he is openly advertising or discussing it. Thank you:)

When I was looking for a CERB Name i thought back to my university days..... i was lucky enough to hook up with a beautiful girl who asked me to put an ice cube in my mouth when I performed oral on her.... i have to say it pretty nice I mainly because of the sheer joy she got from it. She used to joke around and call me her ice man. We were in some if the same classes and both were dating other people so our fun times were kept pretty low key... from time to time she would simply hand me a note with "Ice 4 Fun" and a time on it and we would hook up.. (Sidenote....yes I am that old... hand written notes... it was before cell phones, texting and emails... back in the say when cheating took real work lol)... so when I needed an online handle Ice4fun seemed like a good one.

Today, I shed some tears with brothers as we celebrated Mother's Day, of our Mom. We held a toast to her memory, and in celebration of her life through stories and laughter about what darn kids we were, "just because" men should show their true emotion. Hope everyone had a fabulous Mothers Day! Cheers!

I'm new to CERB, joined because I've become interested in what this industry has to offer me, but have yet to partake... I'm still learning. But even a neophyte like me can comment that this seems like very strange behavior. Showing up on time for a 30 minute appointment, then wanting a shower? For me, a shower IS 30 minutes, and if my first ever appointment was only a half hour, maybe spending that time in the shower with a playful SP would be a good way to spend it. More likely, I'm thinking that my first ever appointment with a professional SP will be at least 2 hours, with perhaps the first 30 minutes spent in the shower and the rest open to interpretation. This, to me, would be the way to do it. I'm just foaming at the mouth here, but one of the things I've learned about the industry is THE TIME! SP's have schedules, with clients that will be depending on those schedules. Believe me, if I booked my first ever appointment, showed up on time nervous as all hell (which will surely be the case), and had it pushed back because of an inconsiderate jerk, it might just cause me to lose my nerve!!

This one I hope not, since I can't count the number of times that I had to wait until the lady was ready, and often well past the appointment time.

The clock starts once he enters the door, but I have been told by some SP's the clock ends when u cum. If I book for 2 hours it should be 2 hours. But my recent experience was funny she actually fell a sleep on my bed for a few minutes and snored. And she didn't want to get out of my bed because it was so comfortable lol. She cuddled after our time was over at her choice . I wasn't going to kick her out I thought she was going to fall asleep again.

Traffic problems etc do happen which is why the majority of ladies won't book back to back appointments. So....IMHO the time starts once you pass the threshold (of course any late arrivals should be communicated to the lady...especially anything later than 10 to 15 minutes). Please don't view this as us being clock watchers. It's just a matter of respect for each other's time and possible other commitments either personal or professional. PS being early is sometimes worse than being late lol

Some sps are very strict about that start and end time, as in if the appt is 4pm, for half hour, they must leave at 4:30 even if they arrive at 4:15. It depends on how accurate you are with your own timing, tho to pull that off. And that is for sps who have prebooked appts, and times, and they must stay on schedule without deviation. There really aren't too many sps who work on that firm schedule, but i think the majority of us will say arrival at the door time to end time has to be within that 30 minute range. Half hour guys are only taking showers if they already know they aren't using or needing 30 minute activity time. maybe a quick rinse, or cleanup the area, hands, mouthwash, bathroom break (not in that order) a couple of minutes, no sp minds that, but dilly dallying around first, then saying they are taking a shower, if we;ve spent 5 minutes on chit chat or canoodling and then he tells me now he wants a shower, I am not feeling quite so generous with my half hour of time. now everything is going to be cut shorter than i would like because instead of 2-3 minutes prior to starting, we are looking at a full 10 minutes into the half hour for 'everything'. Is that always possible? Not without rushing thru something, no. And if you don't this is a guy who will not be in and out within the time he paid for. Sure 5 minutes here or there, no one minds that, especially if that time is in the shower lol. But 4pm to 4:40, and he still isn't gone let alone done, or wants to argue about the amount of time left? No. And that is because i offer a 45 minutes option. This is a 45 minute guy. He wants to chat, take a shower, then get started and needs 30 minute activity time, tell him next time the best option for him is to take 45 minutes, which you do at XX $. His option for the half hour is to understand the half hour doesn't come with an unrushed session of going overtime. No half hour sessions are for guys who need or want more time than that. It is often for the guys who want to be in and out within 30 minutes because they need to be somewhere else, it isn't supposed to be for the guy who wants or needs 45 minutes but too cheap to pay the hour rate to get it.

I like this idea of advertising somehow that we are trained in prolonging orgasm? Would that be a good way to define it? Also just wanted to mention that for some gents, they worry so much about not cumming quickly, they psych themselves out and can't climax at all. Definitely a lot of good advice here to discuss with your SP beforehand even if it is first contact. I find many appointments have round 1 ending within 5 minutes but then round 2 can go on another hour and it can be spectacular. Don't be worried or shy if it's been a while or you're really hot -- I say better twice than not at all sometimes :)

Had an occasion a few years back where I arrived at the lady's location, went in and there was a child sitting on the couch watching television. I asked "what gives" and she said, "it's okay, he won't disturb us, he'll sit and watch cartoons". The whole situation creeped me out and I handed the lady a twenty for her troubles said "sorry" and walked out. Perhaps I was wrong but it felt right at the time, and I'd probably do exactly the same thing if the situation ever repeated itself.

Also have to add: threads on dog, cats, turkeys and pigs :) and other strange topics :) And lot's of members with great sense of humour.

I have, it's not for everyone.

I have been known to enjoy being spanked. I also have been whipped on occasion, and liked it. Hair pulling? Yes please. HOWEVER, it depends on the mood, the moment and the individual. If I was meeting a client for the first time and he started off with this - I'd be pissed lol. S&M, even mild forms, is hugely based on mutual respect and trust. That doesn't come without effort from both sides, as well as history.

A little light playful spanking on the behind can be fun ;) However, there are a select few out there who may and try and use this playful method as a defence as they turned the playful fun it into something vile, such as slapping a lady very hard , because they are sick and are looking to hurt her and see the reaction that goes along with it-those kind deserve to be slapped right back ;) Keep it light and keep it fun ;)