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The keys to making encounters extraordinary is actually quite simple. First, do your homework to ensure you understand your guest's expectations then do follow thru to make it happen before he arrives to the best of your ability. The next thing is THE key... STAY IN THE MOMENT from the minute you open the door until you close it after he leaves. By staying in the moment I mean... 1. Do not allow random thoughts floating thru your head to take hold. They are clouds, just let them float thru while you focus your attention on your guest. Don't allow the "am I doing this right?", "does this angle make my stomach look fat?" or "I need to go grocery shopping as soon as he's done." to interfere with your time with your guest. This time is about the two of you together and nothing else matters at this point. There is time to process a worthy unrelated thought after he's gone. 2. See the humanity in your guest before all else. This is the part of him you want to touch deeply. He isn't a business guru, construction worker, accountant, father, brother, son when he is with you. He is simply a man, with all of the qualities that makes him strong and vulnerable at the same time. Recognize this, let him be himself with no expectations that he is anything else. The human connection is the one that he will feel and not forget. 3. Follow the bouncing ball. Watch, listen and respond to the story that his body and tone of voice tell. Words can be deceptive but the body always tells the truth. He gives you all the clues you need to make a visit spectacular, you just need to be open to seeing them; to do that you need to follow the moment and trust your intuition to decipher what he is actually needing rather than just what he thinks he wants. It's easy once you practice it a bit, like karaoke. Just watch the little red bouncing ball of "right now". 4. Remember the humanity in him first and foremost. Make a mental file on him. After he leaves, think about what you learned about the real him and file that gold away. If you connected with him, he'll be back and you then have the keys to getting him to shed to masks he wears in the outside world, allowing him to once again just be himself but more efficiently than the last time leaving more time for genuine connection. Follow these steps with every visit and before long you are the Sanctuary he seeks when the outside world is closing in on him. You are who he turns to, to forget, to reconcile, to release all of the stresses that hunt him. These may or may not be conversations of words but more often with my guests they are a ballet of touch, movement and physical expression... Remember that this interaction isn't about you, it's about the both of you. It certainly isn't all about the sex. The physical is simply a vehicle to express ourselves together; it's about releasing what is needed and renewing one's life energy so we can meet the world another day from a positive frame of mind. A man comes to us because of a physical urge but that is merely symptomatic of the underlying need for connection without negativity whether your guest realizes it or not. He never needs to understand your process but he will never forget the time he shared with you if the connection to the real him is made... This is what I think makes an experience memorable... cat

I think you just need to be you, find your own style, niche and be genuine or scripted, whatever works and remember you can't please everyone. There will be those who like you regardless, some will adore you and others will move on. We all have our fans but even though, that still won't guarantee a return visit. Because believe me you can give the best service, look great, talk sweet, be genuine, have a great locale that still won't be enough for some. There are types of men that want a regular girl, those who like variety and those who will try you because someone said you are great and some you just can't please. Just do for you that way you won't drive yourself crazy wondering:) Realistically everyone that sees you will form an opinion, good or bad. The most important one is the one you hold of yourself:)

How beautiful, and there can't be any better advice. You surpass yourself with every post. Men should be lined around the block for you and women should follow your lead, once again I bow to your eloquence and thank you for contributing. This post has helped me and made me realize something new-thank you

Anything done with love and kindness is memorable. We may not remember the specific person or events, but we remember that it happened with sincerity.

Maraena said it .... a real experience. "Make it real.....don't fake it real" A sense of mutual enjoyment in spending time together. It can be sensed by both parties !! and results in us guys coming back. And as time goes on and repeat visits happen ... chemistry, comfort zones and trust builds and it becomes so very easy and fun. Dates to look forward to. :) It just takes time. You have heard "be yourself" Jade eh ? ;) Well truth is it will play a big part in keeping us coming back !! Genuine smiles, sense of humor and personality is huge in repeat business for Me as an example. It is hard to fake a smile time and time again. It is hard to be funny when you are not, and it is hard to be someone you are not. and Hey. Maybe even make friends. Can never have too many of them.

I noticed while reading this thread, that everyone is saying "Be Yourself". Great advice, but if you're new to the industry and you're not familiar with things that men like, it's a good thing to start this thread to give you some things. Look at some of the recommendations that people have written about some of your peers, some might not have much information, some of go into great detail. I like everyone who is politically correct on this website will say be yourself, that's what we like, though there are also little things as well. Myself, I remember if a lady asks me if I want to set an appointment up in a certain way ( outfits, etc,) and sometimes the lady hasn't worn what was agreed upon, I don't write a bad review, I don't bring it up with the lady because it's not super important, I can get over it without making a big deal. If you are doing incalls, my opinion is that you have a nice location ( decorated, has a lived in feel), I feel that a room with a bed isn't all that exciting no matter how charming I feel you are. I think the environment reflects on the situation just as much as the person regardless of what you're meeting for. A stark room with a bed is just too business like in my opinion. Again, good points from everyone, the overwhelming theme seems to be yourself.

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What makes an encounter truly Memorable for me is when ,for a short while ,I forget I am a "client" and I become her intimate companion her suitor her friend and lover during our time together, the embraces warm the kisses real and that feeling stays with me until well after I,ve left and reality once again sets in !

Please note the ad Bp have a hot and wild time is by the same user that was demanding cam shows b4 we meet. I noticed similarities immediately and sure enough the cam fee was requested . I doubt the user is in our province

Hello, I was wondering what's your advices on how to be memorable? What makes you come back? I know the service is very important but what else? I welcome friendly advice from you guys. :) Thank you Jade

PLEASE, I urge all of you thinking of trying these type of drugs to visit your doctor and not be embarrassed! Honestly, they really don't give a shit about anything other than your health! If you are that self conscious, go to a clinic. The most important factor should be surviving the act and not how hard your dick gets! Life is more important than an orgasm! I have many friends over 50 who's doctors have even brought up the subject. It's not the fifties, it's a normal request now a days. Be safe, protect your health, become informed and THEN enjoy!

Mosquitoes that are as big as vultures!

I gave a very patient man $50 back last night. I arrived late for an outcall, we had plenty of time and weren't rushed, and he offered the full amount but I offered him a reduction for his patience. I'm sure he appreciated it although he certainly didn't expect it. What a sweetheart he was :p

I generally write recommendations for providers who have made a positive impression on me. This is my way of saying thank you and of letting others know when a great Service Provider is operating locally. I try to be selective on which enounters are recommendation worthy. If I haven't penned a recommendation it is either because the encounter was not that memorable or because life and other considerations have taken priority. I have written recommendations as late as 12 months after the encounter. In one case, I was seeing a special lady regularly for close to a year, frequently as often as weekly; when I realized that I had not offered up an endorcement of any kind! They say memory is one of the first things to go! My hope is that a well written recommendation will bring new business or renewed business to the lady in question.

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I enjoyed talking with you as well Zorro1990 and am thankful for all the times we shared together! I am going to be back and here to talk anytime! Thinking of you P.S..... you guys are all awesome and always there for me. I appreciate you guys so much! xoxoxoxox

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I like introducing myself through PM; text messages are too short to compose much of a greeting and introduction. Being a member may not automatically mean you're a gentleman, but it is yet another bit of information a lady can use to look up for references. Ads which state "phone or text only" wouldn't get a PM from me (I'm interpreting it as the lady not wanting to watch her inbox), but I do find myself wishing I could do initial contact through it, even if it's just for the first message. I don't know just how much a CERB reputation can be worth to a lady; probably doesn't matter that much, I'm just being who I am here too. Okay, maybe I'm a little bit less shy on here...

A lot of has already been said, and covered but for myself it has been being good friends,admiring,trusting,laughing,chatting, cuddling, saying hello to each other when you're not together and mutual admiration for each other but knowing when not to cross the line. Setting up plans for each repeat visit with longer durations, you get very comfortable, relaxed in each other's company.

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I am fairly new, therefore haven't met many friends, but I did post a reco before and I always ask first if it's ok. I agree, it's always nice to read a beautiful review. On the other hand ppl should refrain from negative comments. If you have nothing nice to say, then dont say anything. Thanks

I ended up dealing with Trish again over the recent robbery. She was very helpful in explaining how to proceed and what information I need to provide and what information I did NOT need to provide.

After an amazing 1st meeting with a wonderful CERB Lady I popped her a quick thank you message and said that I hoped to see her again... she was very polite and professional as she replied that she thought she had wine on her breath when we met and that for our next meeting we both might want to freshen up with some mouthwash... lol... yes she politely told me my breath was not great.... i learned from that lady and now alway have mouthwash and toothbrush and toothpaste in my vehicle... when I get to hotel I head to one if the public washrooms brush my teeth...use monthwash ...wash my hands and then text the lady to say I have arrived. I am quite thankful to this lady for being so honest yet tactful with me.

This is probably something that has been posted before. I don't know and am too lazy to check old threads. But it occurs to me after the last couple days that we sometimes take for granted that an escorts life is all peaches and cream. They set up a nice incall location, post an ad, the calls come in and the clients show up. They pay, play and everybody is happy. The lady tidies up and ready for the next lucky fella. Kind of a lather, rinse, repeat scenario. Or the lady goes on tour, sets herself up in a nice discreet hotel location and pretty much the same thing. Well, yesterday, I came across a few things that made me realize that this isn't always the case. I read (on a different board) a story of a touring lady running into one mishap after another and because of it all, actually barely breaking even while on her first week on tour. Another story of a lady who received a man at her door who rudely told her she wasn't as hot as her pictures and too old (although her website is clearly defined with her age, body type and well laid out photos). The loser walked and business lost. I posted something on here that cheered someone up (no names needed) who had a rough go this weekend and was feeling a little down. I didn't even realize I was doing something nice at the time but glad I did. I guess my point here is that we all need to step back sometimes and put ourselves in other peoples shoes. We say things on message boards and do things in life possibly without any ill intent but our words and actions often effect even the strongest of people. We all get our feelings hurt and lose our self confidence and it might behoove all of us to say a kind word now and then for no other reason but to just help our fellow human beings out. Most on here are pretty aware of all of this and are pretty good at keeping things positive so this isn't directed at anyone. Just a general thought is all. Okay, my rambling is over, lol. Go back to having fun y'all.

I was awakened last night by a severe calf cramp. White hot pain lancing up ones leg is a great way to break the sleep cycle. When the alarm roused me from sleep's embrace this morning, I still had the echo of last night's agony pulsing up my leg. Short of waking up with a migraine, this is my least favourite way to start the day. Additional Comments: Aww RG, we will always be here for you. I realize this may be a weak substitute, but I like to think there are men & women in this community who truly care about each other. Not a bad definition of a family, even if it is a virtual family.

Yes retired. Her account is not active anymore. She will be missed...

Why not simply offer some options for him to stay, leave, or revise his session. One expeciting FS with certain services can revise their session to a hj session, and a reduced rate. Or the option to wash up, with tips as to how to improve things. I'm with anyone who says that making sessions conditional on certain things must be in the ad or website, so that the onus is on the client to either arrive or get up to minimum standards after arrival. I've had guys coming from work do anything from a sink wash up, to a lower body washup in the shower to a full 10 minute hair, nooks and crannies exfoliation probably showers before starting their sessions. On the main question, i refund money when the clients expectations don't match their reality. Such as paying for the hour with the idea of 2sogs, and within the half hour deciding that there is only one sog in them, and they are ready to go. Returning the amount over the half hour donation gives good karma and encourages a return visit. Refunds encourage good karma, avoid confrontation with angry clients, and reduce the chance of a angry review posting. Additional Comments: And if this hasn't already been mentioned, a yeast infection is not considered something transmittable when using a condom, it is not always accompanied by discharge, and is unlikely to smell like anything other than yeast. You would not want to do a bbbj on someone with yeast, but then, there are a ton of stds that you can get and transmit via bbbjs anyway, why limit it to the one you can see? I would suggest that someone prone to yeast infections would cut back on yeast intake, like bread and beer. Increase consumption of yogurt. There is a comment on this link that suggests Monistat cream will work, and someone adds that adding vinegar helped more. https://www.msu.edu/.eisthen/yeast/men.html

WOW Roaminguy I have been appreciating your two cents and rambling in lots of forums I visit but I surely LOVE this one! I am pretty sure lots of beautiful ladies who either have enjoyed your company and would love to will thank your post! Well I personally thank U for taking the time to do so!! And sorry if I haven't done the right thing here but I still don't know how to make it appear that I am responding and quoting U at the same time!!! Barbara xxxxooo

You may find the information and discussions in this thread entitled " The Truth about Recommendations" useful - http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=143695 As to your question of - what makes U decide to write a recommendation on a lady U spent a great time with? For me, the reasons are essentially - - to publicly thank and reward the lady for a great time - to help support the lady so she could do well and stay in the business ( as long as she likes, of course) When I feel like writing a reco. for a lady, I'll normally let her know my intention and ask her if she's fine with that. If she thinks she has enough recos. and do not need any more from me, I am fine with that too.

Please note the ad Bp have a hot and wild time is by the same user that was demanding cam shows b4 we meet. I noticed similarities immediately and sure enough the cam fee was requested . I doubt the user is in our province

Clients who cancel because of stupid reasons such as "ohh it slipped my mind" lol, lol,lol !! Dummy, have you not heard of karma!

What I have difficulty understanding is how anyone with noticeably funky junk would be willing to undress in front of someone else, let alone pay money. I could at least understand with B.O. that they might be under the impression that all B.O. is 100% pheromones and that it's sexy (they'd be wrong, unless someone has a fetish for that). Anything worse and I can only think they don't know it's not normal. I still have a hard time accepting that, but I can't think of any other reasons. I personally think, in the cases where a shower wouldn't be enough, it would be completely fair to keep the entire donation and send them on their way for not meeting your hygiene requirements. That said, there is the danger of someone turning hostile and they honestly may not have known there was a problem (failed by education system? parents? doctors? common sense?). < I do not think that any of the following is an SP's obligation, I'm just putting the idea out for anyone who would want to do it. > I agree with many of the already-mentioned compromises and have another to suggest. Keep the money, some for time wasted/some as a deposit for the future, and direct them to the resources to fix the problem, such as internet health resources, STD clinic, etc. Something like, "this stuff happens to lots of people, here's what you can do to fix it." Tell them to call you when everything's fixed up and apply the "deposit" money to a second visit, requiring negative test results in hand for any STI's. You'd have to be feeling pretty altruistic to take on that burden but you might be making a huge difference in someone's life and protecting other SPs/general-public who might not notice the symptoms. Note: even if you don't give them a discount for the second visit or even want to have a second visit, giving them concrete avenues for assistance could still be a big help.

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What a great idea!

Time starts as soon as the client is in the door in most cases. There are definitely varying situations in regards to time. I'm definitely not a clock watcher unless there is something scheduled shortly after said appointment, whether personal or business, and in that situation I would advise my client of this. Also, it is greatly appreciated if clients text or call as soon as they know they are going to be late or even can't make it. That way depending on both our schedules, I can wait or reschedule. However, if said client is frequently late or "rescheduling", I would definitely consider not booking them again. Nobody likes to have their time wasted. In regards to shower time, I do prefer clients to shower as soon as they come, however it is not mandatory unless it is very obvious they need one. I give a bit of leeway with shower time unless I am joining them in the shower or they end up taking a longer than needed shower. Again, there are so many different scenarios with this and you just have to figure out what you are comfortable with in regards to your time and each individual client.

When someone show up and pee the door open...

And even if they aren't brilliant geeks...who cares ;-) From a geek who is neither brilliant, nor handsome, but appreciates and respects gorgeous women RG :-)

Thanks for mentioning this Sophia! I LOVE car shows and may be in that neighborhood!!

Planning my garden! Mmmmm, nothing like fresh vegies from my own garden! :biggrin:

No, those are the ones who *don't* grow up...

The MA undercover SP should go be an indy escort rather then confusing clients that go to massage establishments. Also, if the owner is turning a blind eye and allowing this illegal activity to occur due to greed, that individual is putting all of their other staff at risk of being charged, not to mention all of their clients and bringing unwanted attention of the entire industry. The laws are in limbo but are still in affect. If the owner isnt aware, then I would suggest sending an anonymous email and giving them the heads up would be highly appreciated I am sure.

Argggg!!! I am so extremely pissed! One major turn-off for me is when.I.have been seeing a gentlemen for some time and he feels he is entitled to talk to me any way he chooses and expects me to do as he wishes because he is paying for my time! I have forever been.posting my hours of availability and for as long as I can remember I stop about 10pm every evening(which by the way he knew this) but because his work.schedule was conflicting with the time I stop working he started to bash me and become pretty rude and inconsiderate of me and my time telling me I am an escort that 10 pm is not an acceptable time to stop....I am also a mother and I work a job in the early am We as sp providers do live a separate life and also have other priorities I unfortunately cannot work 24/7 I would like to thank the gentlemen that are respectful of my hours and my life xo

Sensual Erin She encompasses so many of my senses that I am left .... senseless. :icon_biggrin:

A lot around here, as has been stated, share their phone number and want phone calls or texts to arrange "NOW" appointments. As much as local providers lose out on wonderful clients who prefer email, clients miss out on amazing SP's because they don't want to email or fill out a booking form (which they don't realize is just a fancy email template lol). It is equally frustrating on both ends!

haha , u just never know what I might have in store for you !