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The keys to making encounters extraordinary is actually quite simple. First, do your homework to ensure you understand your guest's expectations then do follow thru to make it happen before he arrives to the best of your ability. The next thing is THE key... STAY IN THE MOMENT from the minute you open the door until you close it after he leaves. By staying in the moment I mean... 1. Do not allow random thoughts floating thru your head to take hold. They are clouds, just let them float thru while you focus your attention on your guest. Don't allow the "am I doing this right?", "does this angle make my stomach look fat?" or "I need to go grocery shopping as soon as he's done." to interfere with your time with your guest. This time is about the two of you together and nothing else matters at this point. There is time to process a worthy unrelated thought after he's gone. 2. See the humanity in your guest before all else. This is the part of him you want to touch deeply. He isn't a business guru, construction worker, accountant, father, brother, son when he is with you. He is simply a man, with all of the qualities that makes him strong and vulnerable at the same time. Recognize this, let him be himself with no expectations that he is anything else. The human connection is the one that he will feel and not forget. 3. Follow the bouncing ball. Watch, listen and respond to the story that his body and tone of voice tell. Words can be deceptive but the body always tells the truth. He gives you all the clues you need to make a visit spectacular, you just need to be open to seeing them; to do that you need to follow the moment and trust your intuition to decipher what he is actually needing rather than just what he thinks he wants. It's easy once you practice it a bit, like karaoke. Just watch the little red bouncing ball of "right now". 4. Remember the humanity in him first and foremost. Make a mental file on him. After he leaves, think about what you learned about the real him and file that gold away. If you connected with him, he'll be back and you then have the keys to getting him to shed to masks he wears in the outside world, allowing him to once again just be himself but more efficiently than the last time leaving more time for genuine connection. Follow these steps with every visit and before long you are the Sanctuary he seeks when the outside world is closing in on him. You are who he turns to, to forget, to reconcile, to release all of the stresses that hunt him. These may or may not be conversations of words but more often with my guests they are a ballet of touch, movement and physical expression... Remember that this interaction isn't about you, it's about the both of you. It certainly isn't all about the sex. The physical is simply a vehicle to express ourselves together; it's about releasing what is needed and renewing one's life energy so we can meet the world another day from a positive frame of mind. A man comes to us because of a physical urge but that is merely symptomatic of the underlying need for connection without negativity whether your guest realizes it or not. He never needs to understand your process but he will never forget the time he shared with you if the connection to the real him is made... This is what I think makes an experience memorable... cat

I think you just need to be you, find your own style, niche and be genuine or scripted, whatever works and remember you can't please everyone. There will be those who like you regardless, some will adore you and others will move on. We all have our fans but even though, that still won't guarantee a return visit. Because believe me you can give the best service, look great, talk sweet, be genuine, have a great locale that still won't be enough for some. There are types of men that want a regular girl, those who like variety and those who will try you because someone said you are great and some you just can't please. Just do for you that way you won't drive yourself crazy wondering:) Realistically everyone that sees you will form an opinion, good or bad. The most important one is the one you hold of yourself:)

How beautiful, and there can't be any better advice. You surpass yourself with every post. Men should be lined around the block for you and women should follow your lead, once again I bow to your eloquence and thank you for contributing. This post has helped me and made me realize something new-thank you

Anything done with love and kindness is memorable. We may not remember the specific person or events, but we remember that it happened with sincerity.

Maraena said it .... a real experience. "Make it real.....don't fake it real" A sense of mutual enjoyment in spending time together. It can be sensed by both parties !! and results in us guys coming back. And as time goes on and repeat visits happen ... chemistry, comfort zones and trust builds and it becomes so very easy and fun. Dates to look forward to. :) It just takes time. You have heard "be yourself" Jade eh ? ;) Well truth is it will play a big part in keeping us coming back !! Genuine smiles, sense of humor and personality is huge in repeat business for Me as an example. It is hard to fake a smile time and time again. It is hard to be funny when you are not, and it is hard to be someone you are not. and Hey. Maybe even make friends. Can never have too many of them.

I noticed while reading this thread, that everyone is saying "Be Yourself". Great advice, but if you're new to the industry and you're not familiar with things that men like, it's a good thing to start this thread to give you some things. Look at some of the recommendations that people have written about some of your peers, some might not have much information, some of go into great detail. I like everyone who is politically correct on this website will say be yourself, that's what we like, though there are also little things as well. Myself, I remember if a lady asks me if I want to set an appointment up in a certain way ( outfits, etc,) and sometimes the lady hasn't worn what was agreed upon, I don't write a bad review, I don't bring it up with the lady because it's not super important, I can get over it without making a big deal. If you are doing incalls, my opinion is that you have a nice location ( decorated, has a lived in feel), I feel that a room with a bed isn't all that exciting no matter how charming I feel you are. I think the environment reflects on the situation just as much as the person regardless of what you're meeting for. A stark room with a bed is just too business like in my opinion. Again, good points from everyone, the overwhelming theme seems to be yourself.

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What makes an encounter truly Memorable for me is when ,for a short while ,I forget I am a "client" and I become her intimate companion her suitor her friend and lover during our time together, the embraces warm the kisses real and that feeling stays with me until well after I,ve left and reality once again sets in !

Please note the ad Bp have a hot and wild time is by the same user that was demanding cam shows b4 we meet. I noticed similarities immediately and sure enough the cam fee was requested . I doubt the user is in our province

Hello, I was wondering what's your advices on how to be memorable? What makes you come back? I know the service is very important but what else? I welcome friendly advice from you guys. :) Thank you Jade

PLEASE, I urge all of you thinking of trying these type of drugs to visit your doctor and not be embarrassed! Honestly, they really don't give a shit about anything other than your health! If you are that self conscious, go to a clinic. The most important factor should be surviving the act and not how hard your dick gets! Life is more important than an orgasm! I have many friends over 50 who's doctors have even brought up the subject. It's not the fifties, it's a normal request now a days. Be safe, protect your health, become informed and THEN enjoy!

Mosquitoes that are as big as vultures!

I gave a very patient man $50 back last night. I arrived late for an outcall, we had plenty of time and weren't rushed, and he offered the full amount but I offered him a reduction for his patience. I'm sure he appreciated it although he certainly didn't expect it. What a sweetheart he was :p

I generally write recommendations for providers who have made a positive impression on me. This is my way of saying thank you and of letting others know when a great Service Provider is operating locally. I try to be selective on which enounters are recommendation worthy. If I haven't penned a recommendation it is either because the encounter was not that memorable or because life and other considerations have taken priority. I have written recommendations as late as 12 months after the encounter. In one case, I was seeing a special lady regularly for close to a year, frequently as often as weekly; when I realized that I had not offered up an endorcement of any kind! They say memory is one of the first things to go! My hope is that a well written recommendation will bring new business or renewed business to the lady in question.

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I enjoyed talking with you as well Zorro1990 and am thankful for all the times we shared together! I am going to be back and here to talk anytime! Thinking of you P.S..... you guys are all awesome and always there for me. I appreciate you guys so much! xoxoxoxox

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I like introducing myself through PM; text messages are too short to compose much of a greeting and introduction. Being a member may not automatically mean you're a gentleman, but it is yet another bit of information a lady can use to look up for references. Ads which state "phone or text only" wouldn't get a PM from me (I'm interpreting it as the lady not wanting to watch her inbox), but I do find myself wishing I could do initial contact through it, even if it's just for the first message. I don't know just how much a CERB reputation can be worth to a lady; probably doesn't matter that much, I'm just being who I am here too. Okay, maybe I'm a little bit less shy on here...

A lot of has already been said, and covered but for myself it has been being good friends,admiring,trusting,laughing,chatting, cuddling, saying hello to each other when you're not together and mutual admiration for each other but knowing when not to cross the line. Setting up plans for each repeat visit with longer durations, you get very comfortable, relaxed in each other's company.

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I am fairly new, therefore haven't met many friends, but I did post a reco before and I always ask first if it's ok. I agree, it's always nice to read a beautiful review. On the other hand ppl should refrain from negative comments. If you have nothing nice to say, then dont say anything. Thanks

I ended up dealing with Trish again over the recent robbery. She was very helpful in explaining how to proceed and what information I need to provide and what information I did NOT need to provide.

After an amazing 1st meeting with a wonderful CERB Lady I popped her a quick thank you message and said that I hoped to see her again... she was very polite and professional as she replied that she thought she had wine on her breath when we met and that for our next meeting we both might want to freshen up with some mouthwash... lol... yes she politely told me my breath was not great.... i learned from that lady and now alway have mouthwash and toothbrush and toothpaste in my vehicle... when I get to hotel I head to one if the public washrooms brush my teeth...use monthwash ...wash my hands and then text the lady to say I have arrived. I am quite thankful to this lady for being so honest yet tactful with me.

This is probably something that has been posted before. I don't know and am too lazy to check old threads. But it occurs to me after the last couple days that we sometimes take for granted that an escorts life is all peaches and cream. They set up a nice incall location, post an ad, the calls come in and the clients show up. They pay, play and everybody is happy. The lady tidies up and ready for the next lucky fella. Kind of a lather, rinse, repeat scenario. Or the lady goes on tour, sets herself up in a nice discreet hotel location and pretty much the same thing. Well, yesterday, I came across a few things that made me realize that this isn't always the case. I read (on a different board) a story of a touring lady running into one mishap after another and because of it all, actually barely breaking even while on her first week on tour. Another story of a lady who received a man at her door who rudely told her she wasn't as hot as her pictures and too old (although her website is clearly defined with her age, body type and well laid out photos). The loser walked and business lost. I posted something on here that cheered someone up (no names needed) who had a rough go this weekend and was feeling a little down. I didn't even realize I was doing something nice at the time but glad I did. I guess my point here is that we all need to step back sometimes and put ourselves in other peoples shoes. We say things on message boards and do things in life possibly without any ill intent but our words and actions often effect even the strongest of people. We all get our feelings hurt and lose our self confidence and it might behoove all of us to say a kind word now and then for no other reason but to just help our fellow human beings out. Most on here are pretty aware of all of this and are pretty good at keeping things positive so this isn't directed at anyone. Just a general thought is all. Okay, my rambling is over, lol. Go back to having fun y'all.

I was awakened last night by a severe calf cramp. White hot pain lancing up ones leg is a great way to break the sleep cycle. When the alarm roused me from sleep's embrace this morning, I still had the echo of last night's agony pulsing up my leg. Short of waking up with a migraine, this is my least favourite way to start the day. Additional Comments: Aww RG, we will always be here for you. I realize this may be a weak substitute, but I like to think there are men & women in this community who truly care about each other. Not a bad definition of a family, even if it is a virtual family.

Yes retired. Her account is not active anymore. She will be missed...

Anyone have any info on where she's gone? She was super active and really well reviewed and then one day was just gone. I'm guessing she's retired?

This may be a bit egotistical but an awesome hair day can really lift one's spirits! It created a bounce in my step and an urge to get out and accomplish a bunch of things I was putting off! Silly I know but small things are often the source of happiness and confidence!

Definitely just go get a prescription from your doctor - they see tons of guys requesting these and there's no reason at all to be embarrassed. If you order one off of the internet, Health Canada Reports that there's only about a 46% chance you'll get a product with any measurable amount of active ingredient. China produces all sorts of fake crap - these drugs included.

Maybe the question should be reversed and say why u do not write a recco? Having been in this business for so many years I am now more incline to repeat often with a lady I like. If u write a recco every time, when you have seen a lady more than 10 times , exclusively, on a very regular basis it will appear as you are shilling since not many are that regular. At least not many talk about being that regular as they are usually not the type to brag. In addition a lady's reccos have significance if they are written by many, not just the same guy. Finally what is more important, having someone write a recco, move on to the next one on his to do list, and wirte a similar recco or having someone show his appreciation by being a regular? Its all about what u make of it!

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Though everyone else says the same thing...just be yourself. I usually find if the woman I am seeing tries to play a "character", I can't get in to it. If they are themselves, within reason of course, then I find we both tend to enjoy ourselves a lot more. Good conversation, good music and good wine...just all makes for a great date. :)

Very good point. Every man wants to feel wanted, desired and not like a paying customer or just another 'john".

I would be less concerned with the legal implications and more concerned with the incident escalating or getting violent.... the fact that you have a written policy on your website that covers refunds could be helpful. That said I would always encourage safety over a few dollars. Just my opinion.

I think it's one thing: do you genuinely enjoy giving and receiving pleasure. If you do, and you're active/engaged in the session, most men will love being with you.

I'm just being devil's advocate here, i'm sure you keep yourself in top shape and everything but I'm sure not everyone does to be honest (I would hope this not the case).... Not that I've ever encountered this and pretty much just see well reviewed ladies, so never an issue with me.

Conquistador raises a good point.... what about if it is the SP who is not appropriate for the session.... ie. been drinking, bate and Switch, body odor etc.... While this has never happened I would not feel any requirement to pay but would politely excuse myself.... I might pay a cancellation fee but to be honest it would be more out of concern for the lady than any requirement. While these meetings are enjoyable and personal there are still business arrangements and both parties need to be professional and respectful...if either party us not they should not expect to gain financially from the meeting. In reality I think these types of problems can be avoided by clients simply by ensuring they are clean and healthy when booking and by doing there research about SP'S. Just my opinion

Waking up to a beautiful show of colours; red, yellow and white tulips all meet my eyes with a smile! Best. Spring. Ever.:icon_smile:

Why Repeat? If your first meeting was fun and you enjoyed yourself. If there is a connection or chemistry. You need a second date to see if there is something there. If there is, you see her another time. By now you should be comfortable with each other, know each other likes and dislikes. By now you may have form a bond or friendship. She can now let her guard down. Feel more comfortable in your presence,know that you like her and will not hurt you. I find that each repeat visit get's better and better. Each one leading to another one and hoping for further new experiences. By now, she may offer you services that she limits the chosen few. While it is fun to meet new women, there is no guarantee that you will find a connection or have a good time. Where as with being a repeat client, you know what to expect and who know's what may develop in the long run. A bond may develop where, you can confide in each other's secrets that you cannot share with others. Recently I've started repeating with girls that I have seen many times before and each time it get's better and better. What are your thoughts or experiences on the benefits of repeating with the same women?

Things that will make me cranky if you contact me and do them: 1. one word texts. e.g. hi 2. using terms of endearment when we've never met. e.g. hun, sweetie, baby 3. trying to negotiate the rate after I've said it's not negotiable 4. asking if I do bareback full service 5. Via email, asking if I'm available now Things that will make me cranky in person: 1. bad breath 2. dirty hands 3. body odour 4. cheese dick (this one will get you kicked right out of my incall because it is honestly the grossest thing ever and an affront to my senses, not to mention disrespectful) 5. asking for bareback sex 6. asking for my real name 7. asking for future discounts because "you'll be my regular" 8. washing your dick in the sink and getting water everywhere. If you're that dirty, just get in the shower. 9. sucking on my clit like you're some sort of sexual vacuum cleaner. 10. talking shit and/or gossiping about other providers

Toss up Cristy or Sierra both wickid.

In some cities, more and more hotels are going with key cards, meaning whoever gets the room has to go down to meet the visitor and bring them up to the room. In some cases, that key card only enables at night, so during the day it is freer access. In private residence, you would want it to be a larger building, not on the ground floor, with a buzz in entry system, ideally with a camera (this ensures you are not letting 2 guys in together.) You also want a spy hole in the apartment door. You will find that this opens up your availability and reduces your lost expenses (renting hotel room and getting all no shows, plus the monthly cost for an apartment you will have access to 24/7 30 days a month is priceless), Also ideal will to find one that has cable, internet, heat and hydro included, (doubtful lol) You will be much more private. re: hotels This isn't like a client renting a hotel room to receive one sp visitor. this is an sp seeing multiple clients, and using the linens for multiple clients. she is paying for a day, but getting less than 24 hours unless she books in for more than one day. She is spending hundreds of dollars for a few days, which could have been used for half a months rent of any small apartment. Even the smallest apartment would have more space and more possibilities than any hotel room.

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Really???? I have met a fair number if the ladies from CERB who work in NL and to be honest some prefer email contact as the initial contact as part of their security screening. I have to say I think it is a bit unrealistic to expect that the only thing these ladies have going on in their life is us guys.... yep they are running a business but it is a business with unusual hours that they must fit in around the rest of their lives. These ladies are smart enough to know that they must have effective communication with clients to succeed and they certainly don't need lectures on best business practices from us guys. If you really think this business is so negative perhaps it is not the best fit for your needs. For my my experience is that I have met amazing smart well educated ladies who are making well thought out "Business" decision for themselves. In my experience they communicate way better than most service industries and their response time would be the ideal sought by most companies. The problem for the most part comes when us guys think we are the ladies sole client and therefore we don't understand why they don't respond to us immediately. Just my opinion