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That was what I thought as well... the thing is, I've been in a few pretty messed up relationships. Then, when something happens that reminds you of the past, you may begin to think that you're still living in it. In any case, I decided to back peddle a bit and incorporate the good advice given here into my approach (thank-you all for contributing!) I sent her a text saying that I was hurt by the fact that I hadn't heard from her, but also that in the heat of the moment, I'd said some things on voice mail which I shouldn't have. Anyway, I still hadn't heard from her by late last night, so I decided to send one final text. To my surprise, she called me crying, saying that she had been completely stressed out about college starting up again, lack of sleep, the mess in her apartment, weight issues etc.. Personally I think she's gorgeous - perfectly proportioned IMHO, but I have a hard time convincing her of that for some reason. In any case, we've resolved everything and are still together. :) I just wish she would have talked to me about what was bothering her instead of disappearing. I feel positive communication is key in any relationship as it will help to avoid any misunderstandings, such as what happened in this situation.

The role of Senate hearings may appear to be a further investigation into "facts" of the matter however their primary role is in looking at wording and grammar and legal/parliamentary language of the bill. In THEORY the Senate has the power to defeat a bill but in reality it cannot happen as it would cause a constitutional crisis as these are unelected officials. I expect that the hearings will be a farce, as were the hearings at the Justice Committee. It is clear that logic and sound argument will be ignored and the people that deliver the sex workers message will continue to be ignored and ridiculed. This is now in the hands of the political system. The ONLY way that this bill can be tossed out is for witnesses to throw away their logic and sound studies and use their time to call out the evangelicals and the Tory puppets to a degree that it will force news and media to look at this legislation. The public has no idea of the implications of this legislation. Anti Bill C-36 witnesses should use shock value or boycott the hearings entirely, because to appear with their message only empowers government to say that they have in fact listened and gives Conservatives validity. My two cents worth.

As many of you know, cancer continues to march along, treatments both here and Toronto have had a very small delaying effect and I should see the new year. However, I am grateful for: -being able to appreciate a really nice camel toe like the one on my young nurse from the last two weeks (I really wanted to drop something on the floor so I could get closer!!!! Just like in elementary school) -being able to appreciate her thong and tight uniform highlighting her C breasts and BIG nipples (how do I know they were a C, I asked, when you have cancer you can ask any stupid question! and she smiled when she answered!!!!) -the many of you who have offered support either publicly or thru pm, always appreciated and quite frankly sometimes very needed -the ability to laugh at myself when I do something stupid, like banging my head with the toilet seat last week when puking! I mean really, who does that and how stupid am I to grab onto the seat rather than the porcelain??!! -the ability to see humour, sometimes dark, like when on the way home from Toronto last Friday, pulled over to puke, standing in front of the car, bent over, OPP stops and comes up behind me, scares the shit out of me and I spray his boots as I turn around. OOPS! no harm no foul, just dirty boots. after giving me a lecture to not stand in front of the car, he started to laugh, and so did I -the ability to see the beauty, sexuality and sensuality of the many Ladies of CERB I have visited over the last couple of years, MP's and SP's alike. Many of whom I consider friends. And the many I have yet to visit, but speak to in the chat room, on private messages. Luv ya all! So not to be a downer, it is true that my tongue still works, my hands and fingers love massaging and my brain is ...... well I was never the sharpest knife in the drawer!!!! Have a good one folks. Enjoy ! And remember: get lots of SEX, it does the body good! The Liquor Tom

the photo in the ad is of busty Polish model Ewa Sonnet, so i'm afraid this one is a bust. PUN INTENDED lol http://www.4shared.com/photo/OOayEpvH/Ewa_Barbara_Sonnet_4.html

That is not necessarily true... I advertise in a regular basis.. all the time and I keep my self pretty busy... I take my job very serious and advertising is simply part of it...

A long time ago I worked for a company where I had gotten a promotion. I turned loss into profit, tripled sales and brought quality standard back. I was motivated, to prove some doubters wrong. There were a few coworkers and even some upper management that just gave me a really hard time. It was obvious they did not like me. I had never done anything to them and always tried to please them. I eventual burned out and quit. I used to dwell and ask myself why, until someone explained this to me. If I were to take 10 random people and put them in a room with me 4 of the ten would like me, 4 would hate me and 2 just wouldn't care. So 6 of those people you don't need in your life. He went on to explain this was the results of some university social experiments conducted. Now I don't know if its true or how reliable these statistic are, but I chose to believe it. Now when I meet someone who seem like they don't like me I just chalk it up as one of those 6 people, It just is. So guys if your rejected just think of them as one of the 6 people who you don't need. How much fun can you have if that person doesn't like you? Its sad and it may suck but it's just a fact of life not everybody going to like you. Easier just to move on.

In reading the thread it occurred to me that another reason a lady may make the decision to decline is that at some point during contact or verification is that she may know the gentleman in a context outside the lifestyle. Such as a co-worker, friend or friend of the family, professor or an actual family member. Which is why I suspect many ladies specify clients over a certain age or other screening factors, in order to reduce the risk of booking with someone they know and would be uncomfortable seeing in an intimate setting. In this case when the lady declines the date it would be saving both parties a great deal of embarrassment. Although the lady may not say this specifically in the decline, but any gent should accept a decline gracefully and take it as fate or a sign that the date was not destined to happen. Just my thoughts.

At first when I booked someone I was looking at posts where the lady was 30 or above, I felt this was the age there would be more than just the sex in the bedroom. This past summer three ladies that were about 25 visited Charlottetown I was tempted to visit which I did, the biggest reason why I decide to visit was all three had a website, all three ladies had a good presence here on Cerb on their posts and reviews were very good. In short my decision was definitely a smart one, all three ladies were amazing they were able to make me feel like a king in how sensual the whole experience was with them. In the future if I am lucky enough to continue seeing who I have since February my range would be from 25 to very early forties, I would have no problem visiting someone older I just haven't had the opportunity.

Many moons ago, while having a bit of a party, and too much of everything else, we decided to try waxing . Let me tell you testicles and wax do NOT MIX well. However it is a great remedy to sober up any man, instantaneously!

Have an awesome day, lovey.

One thing, I mentioned a Dakota parka at Mark's Work Wearhouse. Don't look in the Men's section (or ladies section if you're a woman) for it. Look in their workwear section. It carries clothes designed for people who have to work outdoors, even in winter, and that's the section I picked my parka up Good Luck RG

That's funny, I have the same issues. I try to book appointment before that for fear of not being able to enjoy myself or falling asleep right after.

* Memories that make you smile * Flirting * hot sensual kisses * Coffee with Bailey's Caramel * Pumpkin Spice Muffins * Anticipation!

I guess people are impressed. Either that or we are developing communal dementia. All good - great accomplishment.

Sean Connery almost tried it once. He didn't go through with it.

Rather than faking it and some really aren't good at it, I'd prefer the subtle head tap. Men are pretty straight forward either you do or you don't. And it doesn't always mean ejaculation. With women this is a much more intricate area. Usually a grip on my ones ears or your finding your head is in a leg lock death grip are decent indicators but not always. There can be involuntary signals that tell you you're in the neighborhood. But in the end it's unlikely every time out. Still I'd prefer a thanks......good effort versus arms and legs flaying around and fake oh my gods any day. Peace MG

I think it depends what you want it for? If you live in Toronto probably don't need one as TO doesn't get cold like other parts of the country. But if you want it for style, then go for it. I know for myself I see lots of people wearing them here in Ottawa and for my tastes I like to be different, and get something different. Plus I don't need an 800 dollar jacket so I'll get something half the price and just as good. A store to check out would be Sail, carry lots of quality brands... Can't go wrong there.

I like Angela for her being so welcoming to me back when she was organizing and I attended my first Cerb socials. The odd little PM that she sends is always a little pick me up!

- Sitting around a bonfire. - Friends - Good memories - Looking ahead. - Chocolate cake with chocolate icing!

Like RoamingGuy said, go to Mark's, better and cheaper. If you want something fancy I have two Descente parkas and a Descente Coach Coat. They are the best bar none. They have a website you can order from directly.

Passed by this place so many times over so many years. Will check it out soon thanks toCerb. Hope that Bree will treat this newbie well. She looks naturally beautiful to me. Those breasts look wonderful.

http://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/prostitution-bill-male-escort-among-witnesses-as-senate-begins-review-1.2755508

Too Me It Just Seems Like Laziness With The Lack Of Research Because There Are Alot Of MP's, Spas & SP's That Post A Pretty Detailed Ad Stating A Bit About Themselves The Times She/They Is Or Are Available,Rates & Services Offered. No One Can Do The Search For You, Nor Pm Or Comment Rates Unless They Are The Provider. I'd Say Do Some More Research & Find A Girl With The Info You Need & Just Go For! It There Are A Lot Of Great MP's, Spas & Sp's On This Board.

Happy Birthday to you!

She goes by Mackenzie aswekl

On a scale of 1-10, 10 being very important....6-7. I like to stick within my age group, but I have seen someone 10 years older, and a 21 year old (who is a little young for my tastes, but she had a maturity about her that led to an exception) Around my age, so 25-30 would be ideal. Although recently I've been entertaining the idea about someone who is perhaps in her 40s/50s, just because. Time will tell if I go through with it.

I think her name is Sasha, a real hottie!

Happy Birthday :)

Happy Birthday Nicolette, hope you enjoy your day you sexy babe!

It's a beautiful day out, enjoy your birthday, cheers!

happy birthday Nicolette have a good one

Who says I'm wearing any? ;)

Have yourself a fantastic birthday Nicolette! :D

Happy birthday Nicolette. I hope it's the very best Sexy.

One more for SexxxyRebecca! There is a reason she has so many great recommendations.

I was typically doing the scissor trim and shave afterwards, pretty painless. :-) I tried the IPL method and each time I got zapped my ass must of come of the massage table about a foot with a loud squack. It was like snapping a rather forceful strong rubber band in that area, 1 session was enough for this fella. lol. I think I prefer waxing the twins as it only seems to have a burning sensation for a little bit. But we know us men are wimps at pain control. ;-)

I'm not gonna grow up and you can't make me !:tongue:

From an early age, I never wanted to grow up. I just wanted to be able to drive, and then hit the pause button. Bloody button is broken.

The two things are not mutually exclusive. i think what cat was getting at was that some services are provided due to market demand, and her points (seemingly missed?) that it is FAR more successful with trust and some history with the client, makes her point bang on (to use the drum analogy). An sp can enjoy daty and yet still provide it as a required service due to being a GFE provider due to market demands, and primarily for the consideration of the client not herself. If he is successful at it, that is her personal bonus lol. But an expectation of multiple orgasms possibly a few times a day due to seeing more than a couple of clients, and all multiple daty orgasms, just really isn't going to be realistic. Having said that, the majority of sps want to provide services that they themselves do enjoy, and not provide the ones they do not. So does someone who provides bbbjs or greek truly sincerely enjoy them, all the time with every single client because she just loves it that much? Or after the 5th greek client of the day, still doing it for the pure pleasure and not also because it is a service provided on her menu and ads? It is important, very important, to remember that this is not a FWB or GF/BF relationship, it is a service provider/client relationship, and the sessions are meant to be all about you. Some guys like to spend 45 minutes in daty, and figure that means they should get a discount because it is 'all for her'./ But 'all for her' doesn't pay the bills. re: rep comment, Peachy 'we' aren't assuming sps see up to 5 clients, but being realistic, especially for those who are on a limited schedule or traveling, it is entirely possible that on at least one day or once in a while, someone somewhere is going to see 5 clients. It is simply an example. Would it be better to say 3, 2 ? it is still more than most people experience in a single day. or even several days in a row with 2 a day.

Speak for yourself ..I don't remotely enjoy neither than provide script session :)

Victoria Secret black thong :)

I've experienced this as well. I just tell them I don't do it. They don't get the fact that I offer an experience and I don't provide just "only services". We as SP are entitled to run business our own way but some guys will try to take the extra mile even if an SP is already providing lets say a certain amount of time or an only service. I just tell them there are plenty of other people out there who may provide what they want and say goodbye. It will be interesting to see how people who negotiate will be able to do this once new laws are passed. Stick to your guns. There are low ballers everywhere. We are not a restaurant, we are not tires, we are offering an encounter of an intimate nature and to me (and this is JMO and my opinion only in case anyone decides to twist my words again or infer that I'm insulting them) the experience of seeing an SP has gone by the way side. I'm old school. This new wave of clients I do not understand and do not care to understand because of how I run my business and what I'm accustomed to. I don't feel I'm missing out by not offering these only services. If another SP wants to do that, that's her perogative. There are plenty of gentlemen who enjoy spending time with a woman all inclusive and not trying to "take the potato out of the meal" for a less expensive price. Life doesn't work that way. At least not where intimacy is concerned in my world. To each their own but I know how I like to run my business and won't have someone tell me otherwise or that my rates are too high because they want to save a few bucks. You get what you pay for. If $20 for example is a big deal then they need it more than I do. Sorry but true. This is a luxury service, not a need or necessity in life.

Guys who book to just cancel, seems to be a game some like to play. What they feel they accomplish doing this is beyond me, however, I do keep a bad date list and know that guys that do this have the character flaw, not I:)

If I can precis all of this, it's quite simple. Treat every encounter as if it was a first date with a woman with whom you wish to share intimacy. Be: Clean, punctual, deodorized, groomed, generous, modest, polite and accurate with your funds. Don't Be: A dick. Accurate?

Some municipalities are defining the word "Escort" improperly here in Canada! In municipal by-law's some cities here in Canada have defined the word "Escort" as a person who goes on paid dates but does not participate in sexual acts with clients in exchange for money. They do this as they want to license escorts but they do not want to accept that the escorts are having sex for the money (that would make them pimps and pimping or "living off the avails" is illegal in Canada). We all know that the term "Escort" is a person who is a "Sexual service provider" also known as such things as a "Call girl", "Courtesan", "Prostitute", "hooker", "Whore", "Harlot", and many other names. Many of the names are demeaning and not respectful as we all know so the ladies choose to use better words such as "Escort" so that they are not grouped in with the women who solicit sex illegally on the street (Also illegal in Canada). In Canada being paid for sex is legal and paying for sex is also legal. What is not legal is pimping, underage of 18, public solicitation / communicating / procuring for the purpose of sex and keeping a bawdy-house. Your common "out-call" service provider who does not solicit in public, does not have a pimp, is of legal age and charges for sex is not breaking the law! So why can they not call themselves a "Escort" in some municipalities? Because the municipality writes these by-laws defining the word "Escort" to mean something that it is not! Most municipalities do this to try to get rid of the ladies. Many of you think they do this because they want to make money off the girls... but that is not true! They don't want the girls in the cities at all. They want to force them to move to another city or quit being a prostitute all together. They use any revenue made from the licenses to further police (and I say police but remember they are not real police they are paid city officials that are actually by-law enforcement and can not charge anyone with a criminal code charge - as much as some will try to make you believe they have this power) Some cities are going to even greater lengths by asking the local police to accompany the by-law officers and try to entrap a few ladies into public solicitation (so that they can stir some fear in the ladies). Yes, they are actually doing this! You can read a thread here on cerb where one lady was tricked into going for a drink at the bar in the lobby of the hotel where she met her date... the date tried to talk to her about sex acts and next thing you know she was being arrested. Yes this is entrapment and she did know better... but I guess she felt the conversation was private enough and he was a good actor (she paid the price) but this is low! She did not want to go to the bar to have a drink with this person and he pretty much demanded it just so he could trick her and charge her. Nice eh! Makes me sick too! A note to the municipalities, We know many by-law guys and probably city officials read sites like this. You should as this should be a big fear for you. Bulling people is fun until all the people you bully get together and form a community and rise up against you! The definition of a ESCORT is "a person who provides a SEXUAL SERVICE to a customer and exchanges SEX for MONEY" - For your information... this is LEGAL in Canada! Just because you make a by-law that redefines the word "ESCORT" to suit your needs it will not hold up in court! You can not pass a by-law based on your MORAL REASONS and you can not charge a ESCORT a LICENSE FEE knowing that they have sex for money as this makes your city a PIMP and you are in turn LIVING OFF THE AVAILS OF PROSTITUTION and you are breaking the law!! With the INTERNET and communities like this one here on CERB the ladies are starting to UNITE and work together! Activist groups are now challenging the laws in court that take rights away from sex trade workers - don't think that this will not trickle down to the municipalities who are also taking away legal rights of people! It will not be long till you bully the ladies enough in your city that they unite and challenge your moral based by-law in court. It will end up costing your city a fair amount of money and one nasty slap on the hand to tell you that you can not take rights away from people who are not breaking the law (just because you don't like what they do for a living!) You should take the advise of your town lawyers who have probably told you that passing a by-law like this can backfire, it's only a matter of time before the ladies unite against you (any many men support them - every day more are supporting the ladies publicly as well as it's not so taboo any more to employee the services of a sex trade worker. It is the oldest profession as you know! Keep in mind that with todays technology (the internet) it's much easier to communicate and form communities (Like this one) you and other cities could bully the ladies in the past (knowing they would not group together) but you are very wrong if you think that will continue in this day and age... it simply will not hold true! Bottom line... No matter what you do you will not get rid of prostitution in your city - Too much need and demand for it - let's face it... if no demand existed you would not have such a large number of ladies working in the profession now would you!?!

I've experience many great GFE experiences, the best being, when there is a connection or chemistry between the two of you. It's the feeling where they truly enjoy your company and do their best to make your time enjoyable and intimate. It's not about the extra's, my best experiences have been with women that don't provide any extras, just a lot of physical contact, kissing, continuous body slides, and mutual touching. Some chatting, cuddling and hugs. It's about the teasing and making the session last as long as they can. When the time is over, you don't want to leave. When you leave, you already know that you are coming back again and you know that she wants to have you back. To me that is a true GFE session. It's like dating someone for the first time, getting to know each other in intimate ways, but not going all the way yet :)

Opinion of a guy - what Erin and cmj are posting is the way things always have been and will be unfortunately. But it really is a parallel to life outside the massage service world. Guys that are rude , creepy and gross that don't know how to treat women in the 9-5 world never get laid or have a happy partner either. A key word is respect too. If guys would figure out that the girls workings as MAs don't look at a dude and say..oh I want him sticking his fingers in me right now. Ha. You pay for fantasy but these girls are real people too. Treat them like the beautiful hard working ladies they are. They have to protect their hygiene and bodies too as it is their livelihood and they need a comfort factor. Erin and cmj keep up the high standards as I have personal experience with both. When I'm done a session I know I feel fantastic and the girl feels she met a decent , clean guy that made her day better not worse. That's my two cents... jerks like that and others I think MAs should just give me a swift kick in the balls. What will they do...go home and tell their wives.

Funny that I posted this today and we had a gentleman come in after he booked a reservation - his first time seeing this particular hostess and the first thing that came out of his mouth (before the shower before anything) he asked, can I eat your pussy? The hostess said no - the client left... Apparently DATY should be common service and of not its a waste of his time. In the meantime this hostess missed out on 2 other potential appointments. Since when is DATY a guaranteed service one provides a stranger in a massage parlour?

In theory, MOD's definition is warm and fuzzy and what it should be... BUT - (sorry MOD, I doubt you have been an MA) reality is totally different. I have been asked many times as of lately what GFE really means - sadly, some have totally ruined and misrepresented this term - implied and guaranteed DFK, DATY, being fingered, FS and basically everything BUT a relaxing sensual massage. Call me prudish but there has been a change in what is expected in the massage rooms of Ottawa over the last few years. CMJ defines GFE as a "genuinely fabulous experience, girl friend experience" Just like, in REAL life, you don't connect with everyone and wouldn't want just any pretty girl or handsome guy to be your girlfriend/boyfriend. Also in real life, would you want your GF, GFE-ing it up with 5-10 different guys a day? DFK, DATY - lets not forget that now that SP's like to work in some MP's, and the fact that some MP's actively promote and encourage SP services (Blow Jobs and Full Service) in their "massage parlours", your risk for catching all kinds of STD's and STI's (both of the mouth/throat & genitalia area) have dramatically increased. Being selective and genuine is crucial not only for your health but for the longevity of the MASSAGE industry. The lines are being blurred and its very sad. I dont think that GFE guarantees DFK either.... I highly doubt you would play tonsil hockey with someone who has seriously bad gingivitis. Don't I feel sorry for the lady who feels that she can't give a great experience without having to DFK gingivitis boy. I am sorry but man this annoys me... and its a very dangerous road. Call me old fashioned but I am used to the days when GFE was a term that belonged to high end selective courtesans. As MOD said, it implies sensuality - well for me, sensual massage implies that imperatively. Things evolve and change, and I am not against that - however when you take an SP original term and try and apply it to a MA world - you get alot of confusion and blurred lines. Theory and reality are two different things. I hear my staff tell me everyday... and in my opinion, GFE "girlfriend experience" should have stayed an SP term .... hence why CMJ has had to re-define it to appropriately fit into the massage realm. Genuinely Fabulous Experience

All the term GFE means "Girl Friend Experience" as opposed to "standard service" (standard meaning they do not play into the sensual or intimate part they just get the job done for you and out the door you go) instead GFE implies that the lady plays into the fantasy of intimacy and sensuality.... I would assume "ultimate" would imply that they are really good at this. GFE does not imply that ANY services are included. If you assume certain services are included you will find yourself disappointed. (Your hygiene and attitude would also make a big difference in how "ultimate" your experience would be too I suspect) I am sure others will charm in here, I just wanted to mention that GFE & PSE are "STYLES OF SERVICE" and NEVER implies that certain SERVICES are to be expected.